MRPuser Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Should I stop initiating?	Basic Question	MRPuser	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 06:46 PM
1	Should I stop initiating?		MRPuser	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/10/15 05:50 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should I stop initiating? Thank you very much. That is definitely the consensus and I needed to be reminded of it.	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 08:47 PM
1	Should I stop initiating? Lol. Excellent suggestion, thank you very much. She has actually done that (unprompted) but only twice in our relationship and the last time was probably about a year ago. You nailed the proper tone of that conversation, I might need to do something along those lines.	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 08:27 PM
0	Should I stop initiating? Thank you very much. As I responded to another commenter, I don't think it's a covert contract because there is no quid pro quo. The approach would have been, if she doesn't initiate, just give it more time. I wouldn't be butt hurt. If she still didn't initiate after a week, I'd seriously start to question her attraction to me. Thankfully you all set me straight; "women don't initiate, even if they are attracted to you, don't expect them to initiate, period." Thanks again.	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 08:19 PM
1	Should I stop initiating? Thank you for the advice. I don't think it's a covert contract because there is no quid pro quo. My self image also does not depend on her, I'm the fucking man and I know it. The question boils down to, is it a red flag that she does not initiate (and if so how do I get her to)? The answer from the community seems to be no, it's not a red flag, women don't initiate, even when they are totally attracted to you. I really appreciate you guys staightening out my thinking on this topic.	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 08:13 PM
1	Should I stop initiating? There seems to be a consensus that women should not be expected to initiate, but thank you very much for the creative suggestion.	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 08:02 PM
2	Should I stop initiating? Excellent points, thank you very much. I'm getting sex, but I want to feel more desired by her. I feel more desired from the lingering looks I get from women on the street, than I do from my own LTR. I think you are absolutely right that I need to lead her to it slowly, but the question then becomes how? What series of actions can I take and to what extent, if any, should I discuss it with her?	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 07:24 PM
1	Should I stop initiating? Excellent point, thank you very much. That raises the question though, what series of actions would lead her to initiate? One of my favorite RP quotes is "Acta, non verba," so I doubt talking to her about it would be beneficial, but perhaps a certain amount of talking is necessary in this situation. What do you think?	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 07:17 PM
1	Should I stop initiating? Thanks for the suggestion, I posted there as well. It's undeniably validation seeking. As I added in the post to askMRP, she shows her desire for me in other ways (such as squeezing my butt and complimenting my appearance) but it would be nice if she actually initiated sex with me. So my question remains, is this a wise course of action? Is it reasonable to want her to initaite? If so, is stopping initiating myself a good way to get her to initiate?	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/10/15 07:06 PM