MRSAfulFate Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	COVID Times Rant		MRSAfulFate	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/20 09:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	COVID Times Rant It’s on text, not that I have any faith the courts would care either way. Short of her getting caught burying a body while smoking meth in front of the kids I can’t imagine getting a significant decree change. Aside - the fact they consider the same communication by email significant but by text meaningless is reason 1001 the family court system is idiotic.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/20 01:56 PM
6	NEED HELP - Wife cheated Find a way to be happy, let her see it. Make yourself impervious to her bullshit, don’t let her see that anything gets to you. This is the only way to “win”.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/20 07:13 PM
6	Red Flags 1 - She was always right, no matter how wrong she was. Impossible to reason or solve problems with people like this. 2 - All her ex’s were “evil” and her previous serious relationships had each ended with spectacular drama. I was too dumb to see I was next up on the “evil” list. 3 - Manipulative behavior and lying. Then acting like I was crazy or being insulting if I protested. 4 - She slowly maneuvered to isolate me from family and friends. 5 - Volatile, unpredictable behavior.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/20 04:34 PM
2	Suicidal thoughts You are in the thick of it so it doesn’t seem true, but life goes on and there is happiness for you on the other side of this. Please think about giving the suicide hotline a call.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/20 09:28 PM
3	46 and divorced. I am online dating and to he honest the options are bleak. Do you think you might not be over your ex yet? That could be a factor. I did a lot of online dating after separating. Took 9 months or so just to focus on myself and find what made me happy in life again. Got back in the gym. Got some new clothes I felt good in. I live in a vibrant decent sized city so the dating pool here is pretty deep. Eventually found a great woman and we are going strong a few years in. Try all the different apps/sites and see if one has more of what you are looking for. S…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/20 05:18 PM
1	About to get divorced and I want custody of my daughter. Unless she is willing to give you full custody outside of a court battle you are unlikely to even get primary if she wants it. Just being hot headed and drinking a lot/smoking some weed isn’t going to cut it. The deck is stacked against you already because you are the father. In court it will be a he said she said situation and in this scenario she will tell the court you are a monster regardless of the truth. I know guys who’s ex’s have multiple DUI’s and lost custody temporarily when they were…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/20 03:13 AM
3	Ex buys my son a car and wants me to pay You did pay for the car, with the money you’re sending her. Tell your son that’s how she was able to buy it and you can’t afford to pay twice if she’s trying to rope him in against you. She sounds like a real piece of work, I hope your kids will see it (seems like most cases they do).	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/19 11:20 PM