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| 1 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenI don’t think older men think that they’re highly desirable to younger women. Who’s even making that argument? An attractive man will receive attention from all women including young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Making a good income is less impressive the older you get - especially if your goal is to attract young womenLooks don’t matter much when no one wants the left over women to begin with. A 35 year old woman simply doesn’t have as many dating options as her male peer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyCourting is foregone practice that isn’t applicable to modern dating. There is no royal court. You’re not attached to any royal court. Get over yourself! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Toronto is hell if you're a normal black dude tryna dateWhat is your stereotype? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want themA lot of men are waking up to playing the fool to women. I know I was a fool for years and have wasted thousands of dollars dating/entertaining women. Currently saving for my house, and I wouldnt cook a woman a bag of popcorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...Women don’t care about IQ. If you’re ugly, you need to start there and address that as best you can. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:23 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…Your balding comment makes me doubt your ability to rate male attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.I agree. I'm experiencing a lot of women approaching me casually wherever. On this board, I've heard that you can only meet women in college, when in my experience, women are approaching, smiling, striking conversation any and everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:44 AM |
| 0 | CMV: What I’ve Learned as an Average Guy Among Attractive FriendsFrom reading your post I gather that you lack confidence. Never in my life would I ever say one of my friends looked better than me even if plenty of evidence suggests otherwise. I would argue for myself and cut them down. You seem attracted to them so it's just weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men." Relationships with large age gaps seem to be statistically uncommon, a figure that often gets cited here describes an average age disparity of only 2 years. So the relatively small number of women <30 dating men >30 certainly isn't enough to explain this disparity. " You're kidding yourself, relationships with age gaps are the norm. 30+ men are dating <30 women and outcompeting younger men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 8 | How much money/status do you think it takes for men to compensate for looks?If a woman looked at you and was disgusted, there’s no amount of money that’s going to make her not disgusted by you she’ll maybe tolerate you, but she’ll be cheating on you every time you turn your back and she will be out the door at any drop in financial status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships end in divorceBingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships end in divorceOlder women are obsessed with this topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it true for most guys that there are more dating options in their 30s as pointed out on here?Yes, my options and quality have increased remarkably as I navigate my 30s. There are some caveats of course but mostly I’m in a better position than I was in my 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?I don't think you should just say statistics without facts or evidence. Just leave it as my opinion is people date and marry within their class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 12:45 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierCompletely disagree as a single man in his 30s 1) most men my age are already coupled off so there’s literally less competition. I’m competing against younger men who I’m likely bigger, stronger, richer, better credit, assets, job tenure, travel experiences, life experience in general. In my 20s, I’ve literally lost women to older men who could take them on vacation and get serious with them quickly. 2) There’s more supply and the options are better too. I can still attract younger women. I can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 11:42 PM |
| 5 | How important is preselection when it comes to a woman choosing a partner?Preselection is actually pretty important. I think women lean on their peers or society to determine what is attractive. The more pre selectors you have the better: Attractive and popular hair style i.e. man bun or wavy fade like drake. Popular and flattering clothes i.e. whatever fashion trend is trending. Attractive body that mirrors popular athletes i.e. baseball, football, basketball for the united States. Hack: look up a professional athletes height that's close to yours and see if you can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Money is SEVERELY overratedMy friend slayed in high school in inner-city Chicago. He was light-skinned, six foot something, and handsome. He did not graduate high school and has been uncompetitive in the job market. I met up with him recently and his girlfriend is so overweight. Mind you, he was slaying Stacy's left and right in high school. What's changed? In your 20s and teens, it's cool to be just attractive or whatever. When you get grown, being broke is disgusting. Moral of the story, money isn't everything but you'd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?Women typically police their own when it comes to being "fast". They'll face pressure from family members and friends and will likely have little interactions with women who aren't on the same thing they're on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour attempts to put me down are more with your frustrations than with me. I don’t take offense or anything personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m allowed to do what I want without your bs attempts at shame. I decided to share my story. Get a life, you’re passing judgement without knowing the half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWere you abused as a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not some dude it’s her baby father who is very much in her life. Look, she has already told me lies before and has questionable judgement. I’m not going to live my life mate guarding some hoe who will fuck the next guy within 15 minutes. It’s not worth the stress or energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe’re you abused as a child ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat was the mild slutdom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah my girlfriend recounting a graphic sex scene in the woods somewhere grossed me out. Obviously there’s more to the story but yeah it was the straw that broke the camels back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe’s not strong or sexually adventurous by being used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t think so. I didn’t care one bit about her eating out her friend. But her graphic depiction of her baby daddy ejaculating on another woman’s face bothered me deeply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Idk I was legit going to throw up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably not with my girlfriend. Maybe someone who I wasn’t serious with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI ignored a lot of red flags due to attraction and her love bombing me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just broke up with a promiscuous woman. She was telling me a story about her experience with threesomes and how her, her baby daddy, and his long term friend hooked up after going to a bar. He pulled over into a forest preserve and got her hand to being touching his penis. She said she gave him head all the time but was surprised that he wanted to do it while his friend was in the car. While giving him head she felt two hands and reached up and felt her hand too. She was on her period so she d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.I just broke up with a promiscuous woman. She was telling me a story about her experience with threesomes and how her, her baby daddy, and his long term friend hooked up after going to a bar. He pulled over into a forest preserve and got her hand to being touching his penis. She said she gave him head all the time but was surprised that he wanted to do it while his friend was in the car. While giving him head she felt two hands and reached up and felt her hand too. She was on her period so she d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Whats with all the buzz around confidenceConfidence is a masculine trait. Women check for masculine traits in men. Confidence, ambition, bravery, assertiveness, strength, etc will all be check by a discerning woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Women do not like baldness everI think white men use to be able to be missing a few of what you mentioned but their margin for error is becoming less and less as other races of men become more and more competitive. I think that is a part of their larger angst against wokeness and whatever else is because they're facing sexual competition in the United States. An attractive black man vs a white man with no hair or money is not really a competition anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 01:38 PM |
| 13 | Women do not like baldness everI'm black and I think baldness is not that big of a deal in the black community in the states and even less so in the African community abroad. It's a plus if you have it but not that big of a deal if you don't have hair. For white people, hair is a big part of their attractiveness so I could see more points being dinged off for being bald. Meanwhile, for black people a big part of masculine attractiveness is prowess and physical body so hair is not that big of a deal. If that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?Ass shape and if it has a P curve. If not, women are at a disadvantage in the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshitYou didn't make a point. You just stated your personal feelings about sleeping with older men like someone even asked you. Get your reading comp up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshitI never said you did. Did you take the SAT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshitYou don't have to be a celebrity to sleep with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshit1) you're pulling numbers out of your ass. 2) no amount of money, education, fitness will change your black pill logic is extreme. 3) mid thirties to early 40s can engage 20 to 24 woman easily. If you're competitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Escalation to sex when she is at my placeYes, it will. Its important not to think so much in those moments and do what your body desires. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Older women "warning" younger women about dating older epitomizes why older women are less romantically attractiveThey want the young women stop dating their dwindling dating options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | At what age have you personally felt most sexually desirable to the opposite sex?When I was in the best shape, I dint think age had much to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.It's just as pathetic as the incels crying that they're not 6ft tall with hunter eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Everyone has been disappointed to some degree. I also didn't say that "all men are hardwired to go off with young girls". I also don't think men are "evolved" if they don't "young tail". The point I agreed with is that younger women are more attractive than older women ceteris paribus. Also, women don't seem to be able to accept it. Your partner staying with you says alot more about his honor and faith than your personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?It makes biological sense as older men are taller, heavier, more experienced, more confident, more skilled, etc. I'm not saying in all cases, but throughout my life, I've seen women being attracted to older men and it seems instinctual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?I dont think baldness signifies anything of sort. Age/baldness is not a detriment to men dating as it is to women. In fact, young women can be found to go for older guys. Go outside more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.I dont understand the point you're trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?It's a big part of beauty for women not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:00 PM |
| 24 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Women refuse to accept this for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?No I don't. I don't think there is much evidence that proves beyond doubt that older males sperm causes birth defects or autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?Still, are you suggesting that baldness is such a negative that it would be sexually selected against? Kinda delusional if you ask me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?Are you suggesting that baldness would be selected against? It's just not the deal breaker incels make it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:08 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men hit the wall around 45?If balding was such a negative trait then male pattern baldness would've been eradicated ages ago. By being sexually selected out of existence. Women here like to harp on baldness, but the truth is baldness is kind of common. It's also kind of common for women to get thinning, balding heads which they cover up like their lives depend on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI did but I didn't say she sounded like anything. Get your reading comprehension up! Also, your attempt to shame me was weird. You're likely weird. Again, I won't engage. Have a nice night ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI didnt say she sounded like anything. You sound like a hater so I won't engage with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Do women ever make the first move?Yes they do. Flirtation happens to me everytime I leave my house. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo I need to personally experience something in order to imagine what that experience would be like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnybody ever get turned off by how sexual a woman is? I hooked with this girl last night. Sex was fire but a little too fire like she was deep throating me, moaning, dirty talk, wanted more. It was almost like she was a professional sex worker. It was a bit overwhelming for me and I'm no slouch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?There is no argument. You already walked back from male fertility rapidly decreasing after age 35. You also walked back from older sperm significantly effecting birth outcomes and complications. I commented because you were lying and I felt compelled to challenge it. The science is settled, again everything I said is readily available to be looked at on the internet. I'm not sure about your superiority comment. Men and women are different and women have the gift of bearing and birthing children.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Age effects the fertility, birth outcomes of each gender. The effects are in no way comparable. You sound heavily invested by lying in the first place, which us why I commented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Maybe but when you use words like rapidly and significant are outright falsehoods. Just because you want it to be true doesn't mean it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Advice for a 37 year old virginYou don't lift and you're really skinny. You need to put on some weight. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards.I proposed the gym as a prescription for men who are having trouble getting the women they want either online or in person. If you don't have trouble with women, as I never have, then disregard but you should still go to the gym for the socio economic benefits. Who gets hired Who gets fired Who gets listened to Who is more likely to coerce The strong man or the weakling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards.I mean what is game really lol. My point is that when your body is on point and you're not hideous, women will try to sleep with you. They will approach you and you will not need "game". You don't need to be zac efron but you do need to be in shape. Can you do 40 chest to floor push ups? Do you have a 6 pack? Do you do 60 mins at the gym 5 days a week? Until you can do all thay, I wouldn't complain, white about lack of dating options and settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards.If you're an average guy, your best bet is to gym max and lateral raise spam. I think men discount how attractive a fit, in shape body is. Ask yourself this question, if a girls face isn't that great but she has an amazing body are you still attracted. If you're in shape and fit, women will approach you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Having some effect and being statistically significant are two different things entirely. I won't waste my time explaining basic statistics. We do know that women's age has a drastic impact on birth defects, anomalies, and complications. That is not comparable to the "effect" an older man's sperm has on birth outcomes or complications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 04:59 AM |
| 7 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?This is simply not true. Male fertility does not rapidly decline after 35. Older fathers do not contribute significantly to birth defects. There are many studies on this which you can google. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMuscles and low body fat are attractive features. 6 pack abs go without saying. If I had to choose, I'd get to 180 to 185 with 6 pack abs and spam lateral shoulder raises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDepends how tall you are and how good looking you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour attractive qualities matter. You should have something going for yourself besides not being old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:58 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's a question for another day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Are there any Chads in the purplepill subreddit sphere?Daily habits: At least 50 lateral raises a day. Shoulders make the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:39 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy are shoulders so attractive to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessI read the whole thing. It was brilliant. I'm going to research Freudian slip. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | how to read her body language cues?Eye contact | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 01:00 PM |
| -1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.Women approach attractive guys aggressively. I get approached or given heavy ioi everytime I leave my house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?Wide shoulders. Strong chest. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Your posture could be improved. Keep your shoulders back and your chin up. Keep this frame and you'll see improvements. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!There's a billion plus black people and growing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to make girls chase you?Shoulder back, chest out, and chin up plus smile. Thank me later | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenSmooth skin without blemish is insanely attractive and will make an unattractive person attractive. Blemishes will pull an otherwise attractive person down a few pegs. Make up is a cheat code for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenPosture corrector/braces are more effective than elevator shoes. It pushes your chest out and shoulders back, which makes you taller in a more natural way. Here's a link to the best 5: https://trustedconsumerreview.com/top-posture-correctors/?kw=best%20posture%20support&cpn=12915456414&gclid=CjwKCAjwos-HBhB3EiwAe4xM99hQjz-VRsVgYBRVZh-YgyxGBZAONGpCrfYjNgQES7TND6yBoJAAExoCS3UQAvD_BwE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I finally approached her at the gym.I would suggest not being so forward unless in nightclub/bar situations. A simple Hi, how are you. What's your name. Works better. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.FDS subreddit is very interesting. It's hard to cast such a broad stroke defining thousands of people. I really just watch, smirk, and wonder who's putting up with this crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 04:36 PM |
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