MUTUALDESTRUCTION69 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Women should not be allowed in Politics Matriarchy might be good. Who knows? I’ve always wondered how much of toxic masculinity is actually derived from epigenetic trauma. I mean, you think about it, the vast majority of men, somewhere along the line, were exposed to horrific war and violence that would be passed down to their descendants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 07:23 AM
12	Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase" I think “entitled” was a poor word choice by OP. I think what he means is that when these men try and have fruitful dating lives, some women (who wouldn’t have thought about these men 10 years prior) shouldn’t come out of the woodwork arguing that “he’s 35, he should settle down/have that out of his system at this age!” The thing is these guys are already a little boned. We love talking about age but we don’t talk about romantic maturity (let’s be reasonable here- this doesn’t mean these guys sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 06:11 AM
–	Women Reward Results, Not Effort There’s more hot women than attractive men though. Hell, there’s more hot women than rich men. Don’t underestimate how many of the women on this sub are probably average women posturing as hot women. Believe me-hot women don’t have time to be on PPD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 04:37 AM
6	I think a lot of guys are jealous of women with high body counts… Because it means they have a lot of stories to tell. Yeah that’s kind of true. I think it goes deeper in some ways. Women who have had a lot of sex and a lot of partners likely have more knowledge of themselves sexually and romantically. They’re more likely to be fulfilled and know what they want. If you’re a man who has only had 2-3 partners and have had mostly vanilla sex, odds are you don’t know what you want, don’t really know what you like….hell, you may have been having bad sex and not even knowing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 05:58 PM
24	Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI? Ehh, probably just an uptick in “My gf found out about my AI gf, then I told her the same stuff and she ‘didn’t see me the same” posts	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 01:55 AM
9	How would an IQ score on your ID card affect dating or society in general? Honestly my issue with the comment above yours is that it doesn’t really account at all for people who have different psychological profiles but still have a high IQ. For example, John Lennon had an IQ of around 160 and his dating and sex life was likely way better than your typical stuffy Ivy League grad. In general it seems like it depends on what you use your IQ for. An accountant with a high IQ and difficulty relating is just a boring person in the eyes of many, but if he were a jazz musicia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 06:42 PM
1	How would an IQ score on your ID card affect dating or society in general? Where this gets more interesting is when you consider people with high IQs who work in fields like art and entertainment which are considered more attractive to women. I always thought it was fascinating reading the accounts of the girlfriends of John Lennon and Kurt Cobain because it seemed like their high intelligence gave them an unreachability that made them more more desirable in that case. Picasso was also an example of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 06:30 PM
–	Why do people get so defensive about casual sex/hookups? Not to generalize but women and men can often view casual sex differently in regard to people they actually like. For a woman, hooking up with a random guy in a bar bathroom is meaningless because she just wants sex whereas sex with a guy she has been on multiple dates with is “meaningful” because she knows him etc. For a man, hooking up with a girl after several dates is meaningless (or the meaning is sort of insulting) if someone else is hooking up with her in a bar bathroom. Key note: IMO, wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 05:32 AM
1	Women punching too high in dating I don’t even know if it’s the commitment itself such as the control over the commitment. Women want control over the commitment like men want control over the sex. But neither side wants to part with the element they already control. The guy wants to ability to get casual sex without having to commit. The girl wants the ability to instate commitment without giving up control over sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 04:59 PM
–	"Men who date younger women can't get women their own age". Even if a guy is short relative to the norm he’s still probably taller than some women and being short won’t be weighted against him by the shorter women nearly as heavily as being old might be weighted against a woman by men of the same age or older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 01:38 AM
–	"Men who date younger women can't get women their own age". As a shorter guy though (a veritable midget at 5’8), at least short guys can make money and gain status that can compensate a little bit, especially if they’re just short and not also ugly. I’m sure a short but decent looking doctor can do alright. Men have more outlets to be attractive than woman do. For women the questions are: -Is she hot? -Is she young? For men the questions are: -Is he good looking? -Is he tall? -Funny, charming etc? -Is he rich? -If rich is he also famous?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 01:25 AM
–	"Men who date younger women can't get women their own age". They’re both in a sense afraid of aging out and being left out. The woman is afraid that with men liking younger women she has been/will be left out and unprovided for, be that emotionally, physically or financially. The man is afraid that he will have shoulder certain financial and perhaps emotional burdens while being mostly left out sexually and emotionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 01:11 AM
–	"Men who date younger women can't get women their own age". I would argue it’s almost the exact equivalent of the male fear of being married for money and not love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 12:56 AM
–	"Men who date younger women can't get women their own age". Women within a 3-5 year age range are kind of unionized on this because for a lot of women, being replaced by a younger woman is a deep seated fear. Every woman probably knows another woman whose ex dated a younger, possibly hotter woman afterwards. And for the women who say things like that, it appears that NOT saying anything is like crossing a picket line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 12:45 AM
3	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. The Black Pill always struck me as another stereotypical movement that claims to be rooted in realism when it’s really centered on idealism, namely this idea that since the real world does not much their ideal world it’s unfair and should just magically be different. It’s basically a fetish for self pity mixed in with laziness and self absorption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 12:20 AM
5	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. That’s why I say it’s a false flag. It’s actually trying to get men back into pre Sexual Revolution mindsets while using terms like “Alphas and Betas” and “Chads.” It’s pushing family values and denouncing hedonism. I wouldn’t say it’s right wing but there’s certainly a lot of those people there and when you venture into politics you can see it’s definitely right wing adjacent. In the short term it can sell gym memberships, host MLM ploys and push messages that villanize feminism and liberalism.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 11:53 PM
5	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. I always blame what happened to the Redpill on the 3rd wave that emerged after the Internet became more prevalent. Before smart phones, when the Internet was more of a “nerd” thing the Red Pill was fascinating and seemed to feature some intelligence people. Once it became more prevalent along with the rise of social media and you saw it in memes and stuff it began to attract nut jobs. I actually think the original literature: Roosh’s stuff and The Game, are very well thought concepts and thought…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 11:22 PM
22	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. Andrew Tate and Friends are basically the RP equivalent of a false flag. The Redpill was “get in good shape, read books, talk to women. Get good at those things, don’t get married and live a fulfilling life of casual sex and self confidence!” A lot of other manosphere people these days are saying things like “drop your current gf, get rich by joining my MLM scheme, meet your wife and be a good dad to your kids. That’s REAL alpha activity!” Andrew Tate is a little different because he’s a sex tra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 08:18 PM
–	Nice guys aren’t really that nice The “nice guy” stereotype as we know it only exists in the casual sex marketplace. There’s plenty of options for the “nice guy” in the marriage/relationship market once he gets older or provided he’s not looking for the most beautiful woman on the market. The thing is, a lot of men want a rich casual sex life and for the nice guy this isn’t happening. Nice guys really can be that nice but their methods and means leave their desires out of reach and this often turns them bitter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 01:10 AM
16	CMV : A big cause of confusion is that the male “average” is statistically above average, but women understandably perceive this above average guy as average We all exist on a spectrum between Hasbulla and Jimmy Garapolo and if we as men don’t accept that we’re simply not self aware. I am not a handsome tall Quarterback in a complex West Cost scheme who uses his playmakers to his advantage and makes well timed reads. My handoff is not as crisp and when I go to Vegas I do not have brothels giving me lifetime passes. I have never been in a Super Bowl and the women in my life know this about me even though we don’t discuss it. I am also not 3’4. I am no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 11:50 AM
5	Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way. Yeah people think it’s about being an asshole but it’s not. It’s just that being an asshole is interesting at a surface level, at least more interesting than being a doormat. I’m not actually endorsing being an asshole. I’m saying let the guy try and fail then take from that the things that worked for him while ditching the clearly assholish behavior. One thing assholes are really good at is sticking up for themselves and a lot of the guys who “only ever buy dinner” need to learn how to stick up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 10:50 AM
14	Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way. If I feel like Chad got something I wanted and didn’t get I’m gonna do what Chad does. Because the idea of a woman liking me in a “he pays for a dinner” type way instead of a “he’s soo hot” type way pisses me off and causes insecurity and psychological discomfort. And it may be “immature” but that’s reality, just like women liking tall guys. And if I can’t talk you out of your Chad obsession don’t try to talk me out of acting like Chad. Actually though. It’s obvious women see and group men in di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 07:55 AM
3	Do ugly women really have it harder than pretty women? The part about friends and treatment is very true. And you don’t have to be “One Night Stand” hot. I’m a shorter guy but I have a very conventionally attractive face (so I’ve been told, but also you kinda know) and I can tell I get treated better than people who aren’t as attractive, even if they are taller. I also have mostly very attractive female friends (not that that’s why we’re friends, but some dudes don’t have the opportunity to even be “real” friends.) Even if I hit on a girl and get fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 09:08 PM
3	Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationships Dating is weird. You can struggle for months but if you’re right one time and get a girlfriend-voila you’ve got a girlfriend! This is one of the few things the RP has/had the potential to get right if it wanted to-if you hit on enough women it’s basically the same as throwing pennies on a million dollar jackpot. Only problem is most men who struggle to date or get women are shy or awkward or worse, traumatized from their last relationships/encounters. Welcome to America-everyone hates themselves…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 04:47 AM
4	Female Sexual Bargaining Power Has Peaked And Is In Decline I mean maybe but this makes the common assumption we see in this sub in almost every thread: that it will positively benefit you. In reality if you’re right everyone will be unhappy. If it’s declining it’s not like they’re gonna start banging dudes they wouldn’t before, they’re just gonna not bang as many dudes and talk about how there’s no good men etc. The reason it might be declining is because a LOT of dudes can’t get laid and have just given up. It’s not like they’re gonna surrender and go …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 04:37 AM
2	Do women find large semen volume attractive? Some would say producing such a large amount of seed is a sign you’ve put everything into this encounter in a last ditch hope that your genes may survive. It may actually scare some women if it happens inside because it increases pregnancy risk. That being said I’m sure some women like it but they’d probably like it more if you left some gas in the tank for additional rounds. It’s definitely a porn thing and usually a trope when the girl is way hotter than the guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 02:38 AM
2	What is your way of spotting a girl with a promiscuous past? I typically request a sexual resume complete with penis size, race, sports team and what position they played on said team. Naw jk….but honestly just ask. But be warned, some things aren’t worth learning. These situations are kind of about you. You can’t expect a virgin who gives the perfect blow job but if she’s rarely has sex with you but is really good at it that’s kind of a red flag imo. Also if she’s conventionally hot and didn’t have a few bfs prior it probably wasn’t because she was “real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 02:26 AM
4	Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control? Whatever works is fine with me honestly. It’s my body and it’s her body and I would compromise exactly along those lines. I wouldn’t ask a woman to take something that she doesn’t want to just like how I wouldn’t castrate myself if she asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 07:42 AM
2	Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control? Sure. It’s less about the principle of “who should be on the birth control” for me and more about functionality and mechanisms of the birth control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 07:29 AM
2	Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control? In theory yes but in practice probably not. I would love something that allows worry free sex but realistically the biological mechanism of such a pill or shot would most likely make you not want to have much sex at all. It’s like cutting off your nose to spite your face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 06:27 AM