MVV4865 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	"Don't make dating/relationship your goal" is the worst advice possible > Things just happepened. Well, for some people things just... don't happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 01:12 PM
1	Men should stop trying to get women to like them. You shouldn't trying to get a woman to like you, but I think you should show her the best of you before you show the worst of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/26 09:06 AM
1	REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Можно почитать русскоязычные сабы здесь, на Реддите. Или найти того, с кем можно говорить/переписываться на русском.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/26 10:45 AM
1	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? Did you ask her about her libido in the beginning of your relationship? Or did she say anything about it herself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/26 08:15 AM
0	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? I think OP means that some women never experienced a strong sexual desire at all or experienced it only in a committed relationship, so they don't get when someone wants to have sex just because they want to have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/26 06:32 AM
1	Is it possible that some women just don't understand what makes sex so meaningful to others? Well, "meaningful" is not the word I'd choose in this case and I think those examples are a bit extreme, but, yes, some women don't get it, I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/26 05:52 AM
-2	Many men just desire slightly more balanced interaction, not to have sex with every attractive woman. I'm not surprised. What you said is almost always said by people who either never had a strong sexual desire in the first place, or have it only in a committed relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 02:21 PM
-1	Many men just desire slightly more balanced interaction, not to have sex with every attractive woman. So, your sexual desire doesn't exist without love?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 02:13 PM
2	Many men just desire slightly more balanced interaction, not to have sex with every attractive woman. Have you ever substituted your sexual desire with a hobby?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/26 02:04 PM
2	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship You don't understand because you're not the one who gets rejected and your desire is based heavily on your mood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 10:26 PM
0	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship Is it? I thought accepting your partner's feelings is maturity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 09:52 PM
1	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship No offence, but I really hope I will never be in such a relationship. I understand when a person ask me to express my feelings in a polite and civilized manner, but forbiddance to express them makes me very angry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 09:39 PM
1	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship So, what you're saying is that a man is not allowed to express any negative emotion about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 09:19 PM
2	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship What exactly is the pressure, besides obvious coercion? If a man shows his displeasure/disappointment/irritation about the lack of sex, do women count that as a form of pressure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 01:40 PM
1	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship Yeah, you're right. I didn't think about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 06:52 AM
2	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship That's why I try to find out how a woman feel about sex when I'm starting to get to know her. If she says something like "sex in not that important" or that she enjoys sex, but feel completely fine not having sex for years, that a no for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 06:36 AM
1	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship Yes, that happens. But if it's not your priority, shouldn't you learn if that's a priority for your partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/26 06:31 AM
0	No one is entitled to intimacy in marrige, but they are entitled to a healthy relationship I wonder why people who aren't sexually compatible get married. It's not like the difference in desire is hidden, it's obvious from the start. Or is it not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/26 10:03 PM
–	A lot of people on here, especially men, speak about dating and "the chase" like it's a slog, a burden we have to face to get to the "fruit" There isn't anything wrong with it. I'm just not interested in making more friends or waiting if someone might be interested in me romantically sometime in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/26 01:31 PM
–	A lot of people on here, especially men, speak about dating and "the chase" like it's a slog, a burden we have to face to get to the "fruit" I do. Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/26 01:19 PM
1	A lot of people on here, especially men, speak about dating and "the chase" like it's a slog, a burden we have to face to get to the "fruit" To find a relationship, emotional and sexual intimacy. Potentially, not immediately, of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 09:17 PM
7	A lot of people on here, especially men, speak about dating and "the chase" like it's a slog, a burden we have to face to get to the "fruit" It's not a chore for me, but it's not that enjoyable either. I'm going on a date because I want something more than just to spend some time with a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 08:26 AM
3	Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity. Did I say something wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 08:11 PM
5	Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity. So, an average woman's intuition is not that advanced?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 08:02 PM
7	Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity. Women's "intuition" confuses me. I heard that women have good intuition from women themselves. That they can sense if a man is desperate, not really interested in their personality, etc. So, I'm confused: do they have it or do they not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 07:48 PM
2	A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory. I would say people in general like some types of intelligence more than others. They like social and emotional intelligence much more than abstract. It's hard to impress someone by an ability to solve mathematical equations, though I assume there should be some people who would be impressed by that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 05:31 PM
1	The Graham Platner scandal shows decency doesn’t matter in dating Those people do often have someone. But does it make them happy? And would you really like to get attention from a woman who likes that kind of guy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 11:25 PM
2	Men don’t want relationships, they want service Do you think the lack of sex is a valid reason to divorce? Of course, men are not entitled to sex, but what would you say if a man leaves a woman because of that? Would you judge him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 07:00 AM
3	Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealistic What is the best? For me the best one is someone who likes the same thing in bed as I do and has the same level of sex drive. Any woman who meets this criterias will be in "the best category", so to speak. Of course, it's hard to find a perfect match, but something close is possible, I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 01:05 PM
0	Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did. I did. But my parents could do a better job in that matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 10:16 PM
7	Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did. > It’s suppose to take years and trial and error and be painful at times. A few sessions with a therapist were more useful to me than years of my own experience. It helped me understand myself better and dating didn't. A person who rejects you doesn't usually give you feedback. And often there simply isn't anything to learn: you date just doesn't like you that much and that's it, there's no lesson in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 07:24 PM
7	Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did. > Men should be embarassed for taking the advice of their grandmothers. Even if they were young and didn't know any better? It's not like people are born with years of dating experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 01:35 PM
1	I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman. > Have you ever experienced being somebody's first? Somebody who was valuable to you and vice versa. I'm sure it feels great, but for me personally it's just not that important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 11:22 AM
9	I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman. I wouldn't care about my future wife's virginity. If I had sex with someone before, why couldn't she?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 08:02 AM
0	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) So... you disagree with that sentence?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:29 PM
12	The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers. I wouldn't say I want exactly that, but I definitely wish it was easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 09:44 AM
1	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him Well, not every one of them are ready to put some work in it, that's for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 04:26 PM
1	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him You decribed it like it's the hardest thing in the world. :) You actually think it's that hard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 04:04 PM
2	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him I'll get to know a woman like that and she might like me. That's how it usually works. It might take considerable time, of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 02:53 PM
2	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him If there're a bit more than 2% of them (let's say 5% at least), I'm ready to take my chances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 02:36 PM
0	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him You think there's only 2% of those?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 12:33 PM
–	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him I like that idea. I can make a dinner for myself, but I can't have sex with myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 08:58 AM
–	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him > The only solution is for men to accept it. I might change my mind some day, but honestly, I'd rather not marry than accept this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 08:24 AM
3	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? Oh, so that's what is more than minimum for you? I thought you didn't understand my question and described your "bare minimum". Being a fully functioning adult and not an addict doesn't seem that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:52 PM
3	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? That's not what I asked. All right, I'll ask differently: what personality traits you consider exceptional?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:32 PM
6	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? I understand your opinion on that. That's why I asked: what is not a bare minimum for you? What would you listed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:18 PM
3	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? What is not bare minimum for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:13 PM
6	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? Intelligence. Kindness. Loyalty. Reliability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 03:08 PM
–	Gen Z men should avoid "quick and easy" and impersonal methods for finding themselves a relationship Maybe. I might be interested in a friendship, but finding a partner is my priority. And if a woman is not interested in me in that way from the beginning, who knows when she'll be, if she'll be at all. I don't have time for this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 06:36 AM
2	Gen Z men should avoid "quick and easy" and impersonal methods for finding themselves a relationship I don't think to date a friend is wrong, but I don't have a female friend I could date, so...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 09:47 AM
3	Gen Z men should avoid "quick and easy" and impersonal methods for finding themselves a relationship Are you suggesting to befriend a woman before dating her? It doesn't seem honest: to form a friendship while keeping in mind something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 09:13 AM
1	Do you think straight men would be better or worse at dating than women if they became women? I'm not better at this, so I won't criticise. Also, you actually tried.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 11:25 AM
1	Do you think straight men would be better or worse at dating than women if they became women? That doesn't sound so terrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 11:09 AM
1	Do you think straight men would be better or worse at dating than women if they became women? > and when my friend saw my texts, he told me that i didn't talk like myself, and that i looked exactly like weird guys that messaged him What exactly did you write?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 10:51 AM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Maybe. But the best way to tell someone you have feelings for them is to actually tell, or at least to write. Although it might take courage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 07:12 AM
4	There are no free good men There's a problem with the distribution system, but we're doing our best to fix it. Thank you for your continued patronage!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 12:32 PM
2	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Yeah, you're right. Sorry about sexual assault. Failing in relationship and sex hurts me the most for some reason. Maybe because society makes it important and I care about it much more than the fact that I might never see London or New York City.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:33 AM
3	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Well, if you wanted to do something and couldn't it is a failure. You might be bitter about it or not, but still.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:14 AM
1	Women’s problem is overestimating the amount of common sense men have. Also, that dating itself often could be difficult. In my younger years I had no idea about that and I was very disappointed to learn it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 04:57 PM
3	Why do men believe they peak in their 50s? Also, age over 50 is usually an age of sexual decline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 06:10 PM
17	Why do men believe they peak in their 50s? Do we? I heard that about age 35-40, but not over 50.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 04:27 PM
3	A date asks "what woman do you admire" Nice to hear that, thank you. :) I would definitely ask back those questions at some point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 09:28 AM
6	A date asks "what woman do you admire" My general self esteem used to be low in the past. But now I think I worth something. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 10:30 PM
13	A date asks "what woman do you admire" Nothing wrong with those questions for my taste. Maybe it will sound weird, but I never admired anyone. Neither a man nor a woman. Respected - yes, loved - yes, admired - no. What do I ask my dates? The usual: what she likes, what she does for a living, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 10:21 PM
1	Red Pill Men Don't Want Traditional Wives. They Want Adult Children Who Can Also Be Their Mommy. All right, point taken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 06:29 AM
-1	Red Pill Men Don't Want Traditional Wives. They Want Adult Children Who Can Also Be Their Mommy. But aren't men with higher emotional intelligence tend to be more "soft", i.e. feminine? At least to some degree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 12:57 PM
2	Work on yourself is useless advice I think some people also have "an engineering type of mind", so to speak. They tend to think in steps and plans, it's hard for them to think differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/26 06:59 AM
1	Work on yourself is useless advice The whole society is based on the principle: you do something right - you get results. You answered a question correctly - you got an "A". You did a job - you got paid for it. Etc. It's deeply rooted in human thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 11:04 PM
1	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. Yes, those women are rare, unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 07:37 PM
1	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. No, I don't miss that. I know it. But I've met those who have some "basic level of sexual desire", so to speak, and those who felt completely OK not having sex for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 07:14 PM
1	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. Well, that's doesn't mean I don't care about anything else. And when you dated a person for some time it's not "instant". Well, maybe it is for you, I don't know. Everyone has their own measure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 07:14 PM
1	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. Sex for me is important along with emotional imtimacy. Should I be sorry for that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 07:06 PM
1	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. You mean in the beggining? That we'll have a few dates, like each other as persons and have sex with each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 05:31 PM
3	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. I should probably use some different word or words. With that I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 01:51 PM
2	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. I get it. I use the word "like" in a different meaning. I don't count people who want to have sex rarely (like once in a month or something like that) as people who "like" it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 01:37 PM
2	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. She might have a much lower libido than I am. Or otherwise. It's about compatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 01:27 PM
2	There's a difference between baseline attraction and overwhelming lust. I wouldn't say I want instant sexual gratification, but I would like for a woman to mention as early as possible that she likes sex. If she likes it, of course. Since I like it, I don't want to date someone who doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 07:09 AM
–	Having female friends is absolutely a positive in dating Friendship with women could be valuable. I have a close female friend. But If a woman I had a couple of dates with would ask me to be a friend, I would probably decline. If I'm looking for a partner, I'm looking for a partner. I might make an exception, but generally I'm just not interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 10:13 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. I don't think how those two things are mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 01:01 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. Its NO EFFORT. Its a couples of words. "Thank you" is a couple of words too. Though in my language it's usually one word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:42 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. Most women don’t think a compliment is a big effort, so good luck with that. I never said it's a big effort. Most people don’t think someone desperate for attention is sincere. Well, I'm not exactly desperate, but I wouldn't mind to have some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:36 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. Well, to be precise, I'm not entirely disagree. Only at what you consider "an effort" and what is "a normal" reaction to compliments. Sincerity is important, that's true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:31 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. I disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:24 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. All right. You have your opinion, I have mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:18 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. It's not an answer to my question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:15 PM
2	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. So, if were on a date with a man and you have said some compliments to him you wouldn't like for him to be grateful for that? Even a little? You wouldn't care at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 12:08 PM
3	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. So, in your book compliments are not "an effort"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 11:57 AM
5	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. I don't expect a 100 bucks or a blowjob in return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 11:54 AM
1	Women appreciate compliments, just not from guys who obviously want sex as a thank you. I would like to hear "thank you" as a response. Not because of sex, but because I like when my efforts are adequately appreciated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 11:37 AM
3	Men can choose to put up with bad women for sex and that's their fault not women's. The fact that women in general is not that horny will always be one of my biggest disappointments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 12:44 PM
1	The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors Sounds reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 07:14 PM
3	The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors > The relationship is what makes me even want sex. But sex is usually one of the reasons why men want to have a relationship. Do you choose those men who want to have a relationship regardless of sex? Just curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 02:52 PM
1	TRP was Never Going to Work for Most Men. An Ideology based on Potential Most Men Never had Sorry if that's a disadvantage for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:23 PM
2	TRP was Never Going to Work for Most Men. An Ideology based on Potential Most Men Never had The average height of men in my country is 5'10, so I'm little below by local standarts, but I still don't care about that. )	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:18 PM
2	TRP was Never Going to Work for Most Men. An Ideology based on Potential Most Men Never had > Only 5'9?! Exactly my thought. I'm 5'9 myself and never in my life I've been bothered by my height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 12:52 PM
2	Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women? I would be more careful, but I would give him a chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 09:33 AM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? That does sound strange and like a complete waste of time. Indeed it is. 😄	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 01:31 PM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? When it came to conversations they didn't ask me any questions about me and just answered my questions about them, usually briefly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 01:13 PM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? They responded to me and/or liked my profile on a dating site. I took this as a sing of interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 01:02 PM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? It usually didn't come to dates. I talked to them and seeing their behavior I lost interest: sometimes quickly, sometimes a bit later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 12:52 PM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? > Again I agree in substance with the immediately above, but I'm not sure at what point you're "blaming women" for "lack of effort". I'm talking about the very beginning, the first date or right before the first date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 12:34 PM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? > But I don't see significant numbers of women exhibiting "lack of effort" at making conversation with new people at social events People's behavior at social events might be different from their behavior in dating life. Or maybe it's just my dating experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 12:20 PM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? Because someone might change their opinion in the process and actually become interested in that person. When people talk or meet for the first time, they rarely feel anything for each other. So, even if you are not excited about someone, trying to get to know them for a bit could be useful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 11:55 AM
3	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? I felt like I was losing a lot more than winning. That's why I stopped dating and can't get back to it. Yes, it's not gendered, but we're not talking about men right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 10:51 AM
1	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? Then why speak with me at all or go on a date with me? And how can she like me, if she barely knows me and not trying to get to know me better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 10:35 AM
2	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? Women not actively trying try to get to know you and expecting you to make them interested in you. In my experience, there's quite a lot of those.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 10:11 AM
1	So do you all agree that women as a group are exempt from criticism in the dating context? lack of effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 09:13 AM
–	Why are women so sexually passive? This lack of effort and enthusiasm from so many women was my biggest disappointing in dating. At some point I thought something's wrong with me, but then I found out that how it's supposed to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/26 09:12 AM
1	You can’t be doing everything you’re supposed to do if you’re not actually listening to the instructions. Oh, well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 06:11 PM
4	You can’t be doing everything you’re supposed to do if you’re not actually listening to the instructions. No. But you did believe in it for some time, didn't you? Because you were very young and didn't know any better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 04:35 PM
6	You can’t be doing everything you’re supposed to do if you’re not actually listening to the instructions. Well, when I was a teenager I wasn't told exactly that, but grown up people (mostly women) told me that I'm a good person and potential partner and I will find someone sooner or later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 02:36 PM
0	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? Well, not no socialising at all, but, yes, I imagine relationship as two of us together at our home most of the time. Is that not possible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 12:50 PM
1	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? What do you mean by that? I don't get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 12:34 PM
2	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? I don't like being in companies often, but I still want intimacy and sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 12:03 PM
3	Would cold approaches feel less awkward or intimidating if men offered their number instead of asking for yours? I'm not a sociable person and not interested in having hobbies only to meet women, so maybe I would try that from time to time. I don't, because hardly anything will come out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 11:57 AM
–	Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have game or mastered the game Sorry to hear that. I'm perpetually single too. I'm an introvert and a melancholic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 08:32 AM
–	Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have game or mastered the game Ohhh. A neck is a sensitive part of the body, you can bring a lot of pleasure with it. You seems to have a good partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 08:25 AM
–	Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have game or mastered the game For me it means she wants sex with me, more or less regularly. Not necessarily hooking up right away, but not waiting for months either. And, yes, I would like not to be with a woman with "a responsive desire", if possible. > “I don’t want to do anything and have a woman be all over me, and I can treat her like shit (like Chad does) and she’ll still let me blow her back out. No, I'm not one of those guys. But I'm sure some of them or even most of them really mean exactly what you said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 08:07 AM
–	Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have game or mastered the game I would add a strong sexual desire to it too. However, not every woman likes sex much and some of them don't like it at all. I still might be "the prize" for them, if they would do what you described, just not exactly "the prize" I would like to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 07:38 AM
–	You don’t have to admit you have a sense of entitlement to have a sense of entitlement Well... yes, it is. But the "success rate" is usually very low. I wasn't prepared for it when I was young. I didn't feel entitled, but I was disappointed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 01:49 PM
–	You don’t have to admit you have a sense of entitlement to have a sense of entitlement > We are taught since young “do this and women will like you” Because one of the basic principles in life: you do something "the right way" - you get results. You answered a question correctly - you get an "A"; you did a job - you get paid for it; etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 12:22 PM
3	If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it. Not saying that sex is not important, but... did you ever love someone? Or did someone love you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 03:48 PM
3	If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it. No matter how much you have to do for it? You really think it's worth it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 03:40 PM
–	Red pill men: does a woman's virginity/sexual past matter to you and if so why? I don't think perceiving relationship as an achievement/trophy necessarily means you can't see your partner as a person, but it definetely happens often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 08:18 AM
–	Red pill men: does a woman's virginity/sexual past matter to you and if so why? Not sure I get your point. Can you elaborate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 08:02 AM
–	Red pill men: does a woman's virginity/sexual past matter to you and if so why? Is it wrong to want that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 07:49 AM
1	Terrible assholes can come in all shapes and size. They dont have to be hot jocky badboys. Most people go after attractive extraverts. As an introvert, I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 12:56 AM
4	We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards men > Do they realize they’re implying that most men don’t care if they have smart children? I'm wondering that too. I don't think I could marry a woman who is much less intelligent than I am. I'm sure some men will be all right with that, but still.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 01:43 PM
1	What defines woman's immediate decision, if she wants to get to know the guy better and invest time and effort into learning his personality? Why exactly is it nonsense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 01:15 AM
1	I have a better metaphor to replace the "fish/fisherman" rhetoric. But do men give good dating advices? Or at least better ones?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/26 12:35 AM
2	2 core problems with modern dating: no more clear rules, and expecting immediate “magic” attraction. I've seen this "passive approach" many times. It made me wonder: are most of women like that or am I just not very attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 05:41 AM