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Did I say something wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:11 PM
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So, an average woman's intuition is not that advanced?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:02 PM
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Women's "intuition" confuses me. I heard that women have good intuition from women themselves. That they can sense if a man is desperate, not really interested in their personality, etc. So, I'm confused: do they have it or do they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:48 PM
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I would say people in general like some types of intelligence more than others. They like social and emotional intelligence much more than abstract. It's hard to impress someone by an ability to solve mathematical equations, though I assume there should be some people who would be impressed by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:31 PM
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Those people do often have someone. But does it make them happy? And would you really like to get attention from a woman who likes that kind of guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:25 PM
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Do you think the lack of sex is a valid reason to divorce? Of course, men are not entitled to sex, but what would you say if a man leaves a woman because of that? Would you judge him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:00 AM
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What is the best? For me the best one is someone who likes the same thing in bed as I do and has the same level of sex drive. Any woman who meets this criterias will be in "the best category", so to speak. Of course, it's hard to find a perfect match, but something close is possible, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:05 PM
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> It’s suppose to take years and trial and error and be painful at times. A few sessions with a therapist were more useful to me than years of my own experience. It helped me understand myself better and dating didn't. A person who rejects you doesn't usually give you feedback. And often there simply isn't anything to learn: you date just doesn't like you that much and that's it, there's no lesson in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:24 PM
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> Men should be embarassed for taking the advice of their grandmothers. Even if they were young and didn't know any better? It's not like people are born with years of dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:35 PM
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> Have you ever experienced being somebody's first? Somebody who was valuable to you and vice versa. I'm sure it feels great, but for me personally it's just not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:22 AM
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I wouldn't care about my future wife's virginity. If I had sex with someone before, why couldn't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:02 AM
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So... you disagree with that sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:29 PM
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I wouldn't say I want exactly that, but I definitely wish it was easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:44 AM
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I like that idea. I can make a dinner for myself, but I can't have sex with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:58 AM
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> The only solution is for men to accept it. I might change my mind some day, but honestly, I'd rather not marry than accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:24 AM
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I understand your opinion on that. That's why I asked: what is not a bare minimum for you? What would you listed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:18 PM
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What is not bare minimum for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:13 PM
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Intelligence. Kindness. Loyalty. Reliability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:08 PM
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Maybe. I might be interested in a friendship, but finding a partner is my priority. And if a woman is not interested in me in that way from the beginning, who knows when she'll be, if she'll be at all. I don't have time for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:36 AM
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I don't think to date a friend is wrong, but I don't have a female friend I could date, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:47 AM
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Are you suggesting to befriend a woman before dating her? It doesn't seem honest: to form a friendship while keeping in mind something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:13 AM
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I'm not better at this, so I won't criticise. Also, you actually tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:25 AM
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That doesn't sound so terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:09 AM
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> and when my friend saw my texts, he told me that i didn't talk like myself, and that i looked exactly like weird guys that messaged him What exactly did you write?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:51 AM
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Maybe. But the best way to tell someone you have feelings for them is to actually tell, or at least to write. Although it might take courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:12 AM
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There's a problem with the distribution system, but we're doing our best to fix it. Thank you for your continued patronage!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:32 PM
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Yeah, you're right. Sorry about sexual assault. Failing in relationship and sex hurts me the most for some reason. Maybe because society makes it important and I care about it much more than the fact that I might never see London or New York City.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:33 AM
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Well, if you wanted to do something and couldn't it is a failure. You might be bitter about it or not, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:14 AM
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Also, that dating itself often could be difficult. In my younger years I had no idea about that and I was very disappointed to learn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:57 PM
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Also, age over 50 is usually an age of sexual decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:10 PM
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Do we? I heard that about age 35-40, but not over 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:27 PM
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Nice to hear that, thank you. :) I would definitely ask back those questions at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:28 AM
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My general self esteem used to be low in the past. But now I think I worth something. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:30 PM
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Nothing wrong with those questions for my taste. Maybe it will sound weird, but I never admired anyone. Neither a man nor a woman. Respected - yes, loved - yes, admired - no. What do I ask my dates? The usual: what she likes, what she does for a living, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:21 PM
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All right, point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:29 AM
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But aren't men with higher emotional intelligence tend to be more "soft", i.e. feminine? At least to some degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:57 PM
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I think some people also have "an engineering type of mind", so to speak. They tend to think in steps and plans, it's hard for them to think differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:59 AM
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The whole society is based on the principle: you do something right - you get results. You answered a question correctly - you got an "A". You did a job - you got paid for it. Etc. It's deeply rooted in human thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:04 PM
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You mean in the beggining? That we'll have a few dates, like each other as persons and have sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:31 PM
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I should probably use some different word or words. With that I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:51 PM
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I get it. I use the word "like" in a different meaning. I don't count people who want to have sex rarely (like once in a month or something like that) as people who "like" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:37 PM
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She might have a much lower libido than I am. Or otherwise. It's about compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:27 PM
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I wouldn't say I want instant sexual gratification, but I would like for a woman to mention as early as possible that she likes sex. If she likes it, of course. Since I like it, I don't want to date someone who doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:09 AM
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Friendship with women could be valuable. I have a close female friend. But If a woman I had a couple of dates with would ask me to be a friend, I would probably decline. If I'm looking for a partner, I'm looking for a partner. I might make an exception, but generally I'm just not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:13 PM
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It's not an answer to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:15 PM
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So, if were on a date with a man and you have said some compliments to him you wouldn't like for him to be grateful for that? Even a little? You wouldn't care at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:08 PM
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So, in your book compliments are not "an effort"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:57 AM
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I don't expect a 100 bucks or a blowjob in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:54 AM
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I would like to hear "thank you" as a response. Not because of sex, but because I like when my efforts are adequately appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:37 AM
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The fact that women in general is not that horny will always be one of my biggest disappointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:44 PM
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Sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:14 PM
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> The relationship is what makes me even want sex. But sex is usually one of the reasons why men want to have a relationship. Do you choose those men who want to have a relationship regardless of sex? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:52 PM
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Sorry if that's a disadvantage for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:23 PM
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The average height of men in my country is 5'10, so I'm little below by local standarts, but I still don't care about that. )
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:18 PM
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> Only 5'9?! Exactly my thought. I'm 5'9 myself and never in my life I've been bothered by my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:52 PM
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I would be more careful, but I would give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:33 AM
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> Again I agree in substance with the immediately above, but I'm not sure at what point you're "blaming women" for "lack of effort". I'm talking about the very beginning, the first date or right before the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:34 PM
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> But I don't see significant numbers of women exhibiting "lack of effort" at making conversation with new people at social events People's behavior at social events might be different from their behavior in dating life. Or maybe it's just my dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:20 PM
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Because someone might change their opinion in the process and actually become interested in that person. When people talk or meet for the first time, they rarely feel anything for each other. So, even if you are not excited about someone, trying to get to know them for a bit could be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:55 AM
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I felt like I was losing a lot more than winning. That's why I stopped dating and can't get back to it. Yes, it's not gendered, but we're not talking about men right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:51 AM
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Then why speak with me at all or go on a date with me? And how can she like me, if she barely knows me and not trying to get to know me better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:35 AM
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Women not actively trying try to get to know you and expecting you to make them interested in you. In my experience, there's quite a lot of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:11 AM
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lack of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:13 AM
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This lack of effort and enthusiasm from so many women was my biggest disappointing in dating. At some point I thought something's wrong with me, but then I found out that how it's supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:12 AM
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Oh, well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:11 PM
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No. But you did believe in it for some time, didn't you? Because you were very young and didn't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:35 PM
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Well, when I was a teenager I wasn't told exactly that, but grown up people (mostly women) told me that I'm a good person and potential partner and I will find someone sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:36 PM
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Well, not no socialising at all, but, yes, I imagine relationship as two of us together at our home most of the time. Is that not possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:50 PM
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What do you mean by that? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:34 PM
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I don't like being in companies often, but I still want intimacy and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:03 PM
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I'm not a sociable person and not interested in having hobbies only to meet women, so maybe I would try that from time to time. I don't, because hardly anything will come out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:57 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I'm perpetually single too. I'm an introvert and a melancholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:32 AM
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Ohhh. A neck is a sensitive part of the body, you can bring a lot of pleasure with it. You seems to have a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:25 AM
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For me it means she wants sex with me, more or less regularly. Not necessarily hooking up right away, but not waiting for months either. And, yes, I would like not to be with a woman with "a responsive desire", if possible. > “I don’t want to do anything and have a woman be all over me, and I can treat her like shit (like Chad does) and she’ll still let me blow her back out. No, I'm not one of those guys. But I'm sure some of them or even most of them really mean exactly what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:07 AM
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I would add a strong sexual desire to it too. However, not every woman likes sex much and some of them don't like it at all. I still might be "the prize" for them, if they would do what you described, just not exactly "the prize" I would like to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:38 AM
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Well... yes, it is. But the "success rate" is usually very low. I wasn't prepared for it when I was young. I didn't feel entitled, but I was disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:49 PM
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> We are taught since young “do this and women will like you” Because one of the basic principles in life: you do something "the right way" - you get results. You answered a question correctly - you get an "A"; you did a job - you get paid for it; etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:22 PM
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Not saying that sex is not important, but... did you ever love someone? Or did someone love you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:48 PM
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No matter how much you have to do for it? You really think it's worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:40 PM
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I don't think perceiving relationship as an achievement/trophy necessarily means you can't see your partner as a person, but it definetely happens often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:18 AM
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Not sure I get your point. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:02 AM
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Is it wrong to want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:49 AM
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Most people go after attractive extraverts. As an introvert, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:56 AM
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> Do they realize they’re implying that most men don’t care if they have smart children? I'm wondering that too. I don't think I could marry a woman who is much less intelligent than I am. I'm sure some men will be all right with that, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:43 PM
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Why exactly is it nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:15 AM
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But do men give good dating advices? Or at least better ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:35 AM
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I've seen this "passive approach" many times. It made me wonder: are most of women like that or am I just not very attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 05:41 AM
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