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Unfortunately, a disturbingly large percentage of people seem to strongly prefer a partner who is mean to others, because it makes them feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:51 AM
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She's very attractive. You can tell by the way nobody is attracted to her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/24 09:34 AM
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It's all right there in the classic OK Cupid attractiveness rating chart that's been circling around for more than a decade - men are attracted to a much larger fraction of the female population than vice-versa. Most people will have casual sex if it's available to them, and it's available to a much larger number of women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:04 PM
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Why are you assuming that the people creating/posting/selling the AI content will label it as such? Given the desperation of OF customers to believe that their "online GF" is real, isn't there a huge opportunity for people to produce fake AI "OF girls" that appear to be actual, real-world women producing footage? I already struggle to differentiate fancy Midjourney-produced images from DSLR photos, and the technology is still in its infancy. There are also already some "virtual" newscasters that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:04 AM
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"Nobody goes there anymore, it's too crowded"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:57 AM
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Offer does not apply in nation of France!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:04 AM
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Shoutout to the chart-maker for using colorblind-friendly colors!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:16 PM
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Humble, Ambitious, and Loyal Tattooed Lady That's really a remarkable amount of self-delusion in a six-word self-description, and all of it immediately contradicted by the text of her profile. Amazing! Nothing says "ambitious" like having lots of free time on her hands. She's only has the two kids, after all. And she's very loyal! Please ignore the abandoned husband hiding behind the curtain. Actually, wait, don't ignore him; this (no doubt wonderfully charming, that's why she left him) man will…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/24 05:24 PM
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So then, as OP is already asking, why do so many people keep suggesting it as a way to improve strangers' dating lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:29 PM
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The Venn diagram for "marriage material" and "people with multiple concurrent sexual relationships" is two circles on separate sheets of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:44 PM
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Keeping Portland WeirdTM
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/24 04:57 PM
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Stop attacking me!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:30 PM
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If you start from the (preposterous!) assumption that men and women are identical to and interchangeable with each other, the "double standards" applied to their behavior is undoubtedly confusing. If you simply remind yourself that men and women are very obviously different from each other, the mystery disappears.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:45 PM
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and bi men also often end up with men Seems tautological - women reject bi men so bi men end up with men, leading future women to reject bi men because they end up with men. (yes you are attracted to a woman and might even sleep with one; no, that does not grant you membership to being a sexuality minority) What? If a woman is attracted to women and sleeps with one accordingly, she still isn't bi? What's the threshold, she has to get a shitty haircut and wear some flannel for it to count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:01 AM
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Even if you take her words at face value, the bit about "I look just as good at 42 as I did at 36" gives the entire game away. A younger woman will (or can, at least) continue to look good for many years more into the future; an older woman can't. Why would a man choose a good-looking 42 year old when having access to her surely means he also has access to good-looking 36 year olds, who have 6 extra years of good looks in their futures (and 6 less years in their pasts of therapists encouraging t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/23 02:50 AM
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The ability to flirt is absolutely a skill issue; those of us who can't flirt are less desirable. Things being (or at least appearing) effortless is a crucial aspect of attractiveness. Effortless charisma is better than following a learned set of rules in the same way that naturally clear and smooth skin is more attractive than skin that has to be "fixed" with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:01 AM
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Maybe we can normalize homeless 5-foot tall bald men with yellow teeth being "just as beautiful" as wealthy 6'3" hunks while we're at it, eh OP? Beauty is only a social construct around the edges; virtually all of the physical features that people find beautiful right now are the same today as they were a decade ago, or a century, or a millenium - sexual desire is innate and driven almost entirely by hundreds of generations of selection pressure. No society anywhere, ever has revered old women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:29 AM
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Well, I'm sure banning everyone who points that out from the relationship subreddits will fix the problem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/23 09:49 PM
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I backpack foreign countries as a hobby and have a very active social life "I've spread my legs for strangers on 5 continents, why don't CEOs consider me marriage material?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/23 08:28 PM
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Just follow the rules, man. Be attractive! Don't be unattractive!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:08 AM
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There's no such thing as a hoe "phase", OP's friend is just a hoe. If she'd slept around at 20 she wouldn't have magically turned into a loyal wife, she'd just be a single mom instead of a divorcee.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:57 AM
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wasn’t against having sex before a commitment This is what makes someone unworthy of commitment. Putting a ring on their finger won't magically stop them from doing it again - when they meet that kind of guy, they'll be that kind of girl for him. but i found that when i would say no, i wasn’t taken seriously and it was challenged most of the time Why would you expect to be taken seriously? If you pick guys who want casual sex they're going to expect casual sex, especially when you've already pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:55 PM
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college boyfriend (until age 21) N = 1 happily single for a couple years N ≥ 5 started dating again around 24 ... I didn't have another committed relationship until 32 N ≥ 10 I finally became so lonely that I did try some things that were really bad fits for me ... hookups ... friends with benefits N ≥ 20 It's probably not a safe assumption that the college BF was #1, but at least its implied to be monogamous. Longest relationship was the very first, absolutely nothing stable or marriage-track s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/23 01:24 AM
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People say I look like Margot Robbie Which button do we press to doubt? Is it X? XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/23 01:57 AM
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Dalrock was/is a Dad-of-daughters-only. If he didn't die of Covid he's probably helping his kids get gay-married.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 12:39 PM
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The entire point of the analogy is to show how different the male and female experience is. The fact that OP is somehow twisting it to mean the exact opposite of that is remarkable!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:46 PM
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Also, every man's lived experience contradicts OP's text. It would be like us lecturing her about how childbirth is no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:18 PM
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something as important as communication may have differences depending on gender Do the differences depend on gender, or sex? Is there enough data available yet to say whether transwomen's and transmen's communication styles more closely match stereotypically male or female patterns?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:42 AM
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I think OP is conflating the experiences of the top 0.1% of prostitutes with the other ones. An 11/10 looker with millions of dollars in the bank undoubtedly will be able to lock down a man as long as she still has those 11/10 looks, regardless of her whoring. But some generic overweight skank with a bullring and stretch marks who earned $20 a month selling her body to internet randos is going to be a hard pass from all but the most desperate of virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:37 AM
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what capitalizing one out of every two letters Sarcasm font.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:02 AM
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Didn't this just get discussed, like, yesterday in this same space? Paraphrasing, but: They filter by "looks like Tom Brady" first, and then "is a decent person", not the other way around. A physically- and/or financially-attractive man can legitimately improve his odds by improving his character. An ugly and poor man gains nothing by doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:01 AM
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I don't have sex or masturbate, ever, and have no desire to do so. Why on earth are people calling me asexual?! It's such an unsolvable mystery. OP, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:01 PM
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Thanks to obesity, there just aren't enough physically-attractive people to go around for the (merely) economically-attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:28 AM
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I personally have chosen to stay a virgin not for myself, but for my future partner. I want her to feel special. I want her to feel like I have been waiting for her my whole life. I want her to know she is the best sexual partner for me. I want her to 100% know that I am never missing another sexual past cause there was never in the first place. OP, this is just you projecting your desires and insecurities onto your future partner. Approximately 0% of women feel "special" dating a man who can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:05 AM
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No such thing as a "hoe phase", OP. She's still the same person. Get in, get your STD and get on out of there.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/23 02:16 AM
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From app to app, the ratio of men:women ranges from 5:1 to 50:1... ...must be the bad profiles that are keeping the men single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:49 PM
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Sorry, but this isn't "Pretty Woman" The original ending they filmed for Pretty Woman had Richard Gere throw some $20s at Julia Roberts before driving away forever. The theatrical happy ending was tacked on instead because the realism was too depressing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/23 07:13 PM
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He sure owes her that marriage, though. Funny how that works!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/23 11:24 PM
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most adult men are married This piqued my curiousity, and per a quick Googling ~68% of American men are indeed currently married (and also ~68% of women, though a larger portion of women are widowed or on their second marriage, whereas a larger minority of men were never married).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:44 PM
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Your headline is inverted, OP, most men are only willing to be in relationships with women they are attracted to. Those unattractive men who are hitting on you are hoping you want to have sex with them, not hoping you don't! How on earth could this be confusing? He needs to like me more than I like him The only men who are like this are going to be unattractive, almost by definition. Any man you ACTUALLY find attractive is going to have options, and you're only going to be one of many choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:37 PM
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Most women spend their day posting photos (and now videos) of themselves on social media while comparing themselves to photos posted by other women. Is it any surprise that "looking right" is now the most important factor in mate selection? How is she going to make ths other girls jealous with some ordinary-looking guy who doesn't loom over her in the photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:40 AM
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If that were the case wouldn't they be bragging rather than complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:38 AM
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Everyone wants to blame feminism, but how about giving our obesity epidemic a little credit? A lot of young men don't really encounter attractive women in their day-to-day the way they did 30 years ago.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 01:12 AM
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Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:43 PM
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Probably varies from man to man. Andrew Tate has mostly slept with prostitutes and thinks he's god's gift to the world; a man with a different upbringing realizes they can only get sex by paying for it and wants to curl up and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:42 AM
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Given the choice between virgins and promiscuous women, though, the overwhelming majority of men would choose the former. And most of the men saying otherwise are themselves virginal (and thus their opinions are of no value to women, anyhow).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:03 AM
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Promiscuous women are treated "harshly" because most men don't want to be with one. Promiscuous men are treated better because so many women strongly prefer them. Most hatred of promiscuous men is rooted in envy from other, less sexually-successful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:44 PM
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early 20s... working in tech wasn't like this when I was attending high school Pretty much everyone goes to high school, while only a small subset of people goes into tech. You ensconced yourself into a red-pill-friendly social milieu and told yourself the whole world changed. The blue-pilled people you went to school with didn't disappear or convert, they just went into other fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:43 PM
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A man who is kind to everyone doesn't make her feel special. A man who is kind only to her makes her feel very special. A 6'4" teddy bear of a man is still going to run into the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:37 PM
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Biology, man. Hormones are a bitch, and also the single most important contributor to the survival and expansion of human civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:33 PM
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If it was actually weird for men to sexually desire attractive women, humanity would be extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:14 AM
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I think this is misinterpreting OP's point - he's saying women's preferences are both shallow and homogeneous, but that only the latter part is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:25 PM
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If you took a representative sample of, say, a hundred 25-year-old heterosexual men and a hundred heterosexual 25-year-old women, what percentage of the men have at least one woman interested in them, and what percentage of the women would have at least one man interested? If you go based on their #1 preferred choices, I don't think the numbers are very different - 99 of the women are all looking at one of the 13 guys who are 6' or taller, and 98 of the guys are looking at the 10 girls who are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:22 PM
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That's what got them the first baby daddy(s), why not go back to the well?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/23 11:00 AM
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rarely happens so obviously cut-and-dry. It's a trope in all the dating subreddits. I'm emotionally attracted to him, but not physically - he is the first BF who doesn't beat me up how do I make myself want him the way I wanted my abusers?! Every. Fucking. Day. Here's a classic from today. He's "not the type [she] usually goes for" - gee, I wonder what's different?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:39 AM
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Sadly, this is the most common form of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:35 AM
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Big IQ = kid has a big cranium = excruciating to give birth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:46 PM
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No, Ted Bundy slayed (and not just literally).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:45 PM
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Also, I think when a lot of people are being told they aren't entitled to someone who matches their preferences, they take it as an attack on the preferences rather than the sense of entitlement. I'd strongly prefer a fit and trim woman with no piercings or tattoos, but having chosen to live my entire adult life in Minneapolis and Seattle I certainly have no expectation of actually encountering one, letting alone winning her over. My and OP's preferences are and can be many, but the world owes u…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:48 PM
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unpierced ears The holy grail! If the world ever gets around to appointing me king the cult of piercing is definitely first up against the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:46 AM
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A lot of older men for example will gag at the sight of nose piercings and tattoos, or “baddie” tight cropped outfits Hey, I feel seen! But you left out the visible plastic surgery, even though that's actually worse than the piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:40 AM
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Not fat, not a cheater, doesn't hate being a woman/doesn't want to prove she's the man in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:00 PM
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Don't worry, guys, if you just work on yourself really hard you can eventually have a little serving of leftovers. What young man in the prime of life wouldn't be absolutely thrilled to hook up with a divorced single mom of three?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:35 AM
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That way they can’t lie about their height, their job, their attractiveness, or even their living situation. What's stopping them from lying about their jobs or their living situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:58 AM
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There may be drama in same-sex partnerships, but on average do gay male couples really have exactly identical levels of drama as straight couples, who themselves experience identical levels as lesbian couples do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:59 AM
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Yes, women are forever getting knocked up by deadbeats because the deadbeats are embracing self-discovery and self-respect. Obviously all those players out there at the club are getting laid because of their self-actualization. That's why women are drawn to the fuckboys, it's because of the empathy they always have on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:16 PM
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English is probably OP's second language.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:01 PM
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beautiful women Who needs Hollywood actresses when you've got a harem of 250-lb Karens, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/23 11:52 AM
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But she removed her facial piercing for the photos! She's totally a good girl, now. She's not that kind of girl "anymore".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/23 11:49 AM
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If so, why do women reject virginal men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:32 PM
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I'm with you, but there's a substantial fraction of men - approaching 50% - who are ultra-attracted to that plastic surgery look. I don't get it, but there's dudes (like the headline writer) who respond positively to looking like the world's most generic streetwalker.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/23 10:06 AM
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It's not a perfect comparison, but maybe an hourglass figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:12 AM
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All the exercise in the world can't turn a rectangle into an hourglass, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:09 AM
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But she will not want sex with random people she doesn't know just because that guy is hot. So, women are in fact not as horny as men, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:06 AM
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What I really want is an emotionally available man! -A woman who has constantly rejected every emotionally-available man in her life in favor of fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:40 AM
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No, no, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:37 AM
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being a single parent penalizes women more I'd argue that dating always remains easier for women I think both of these can be true at the same time - the differential effect of parenthood on attractiveness is not enough to overcome the vast differences in the more general desirability of men and women to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:13 AM
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OP is a woman, unattractive people don't even register to her; the scale goes from 5 to 10 and she generously knocked the average down from 7.5 to 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:49 AM
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Tl;DR: women are hypergamous in STR's, men are hypergamous in LTR's. What is the difference between OP's formulation and the classic red pill phrase Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:29 PM
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I believe it’s natural and normal for say 30 percent of men to never find a partner. It is estimated that approximately one out of every seven human males who ever reached adulthood had at least one child. In aggregate, historically and prehistorically, the overwhelming majority of men have been unpartnered, and the majority of women have been in polygynous marriages. The "weird" situation is the 20th century one, where most men got married for the first and only time ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:53 PM
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My personal preference, would be a woman who has been with at least 5 people. I actually do care about body count in that regard. I dont think a virgin is attractive. It just to me comes off as snobby and probably conservative. OP is a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:45 PM
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Men and women are NOT the same. Why would we assume the distribution of attractiveness would be the same for both? the disproportionate number of attractive men who have voiced this same complaint I think maybe you don't know what "attractive" means? It means people are attracted to them! If these men are struggling, by definition they are NOT attractive! A much smaller percentage of men is attractive to women than vice versa. Most men are not attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:43 PM
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Thin shaming will never carry the same power as fat shaming because being thin is desirable. Most women who are being thin-shamed aren't underweight or even close to it. Most people being fat-shamed are fat, and know it. That's why they feel the shame, not because of the magical power of words. Women trying to shame K-pop girls for being "too skinny" is like short men trying to shame NBA players for being "too tall".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:44 PM
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Asian men aren't tall (on average, obviously - I'm sure Jeremy Lin can get a date).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:09 AM
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Marriage is a luxury and the middle class is dying. I think "culture" is a bullshit excuse; if a single earner could support a family again marriage rates would rebound overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:10 PM
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I may even have intimidated men in the past Bay Area / Seattle A woman who couldn't find a date in the cities with the largest surpluses of unmarried men in the entire country? While engaging in male-dominated hobbies? Yeah, must've been because she was too attractive, they were just scared to approach.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/23 01:06 PM
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OP, did you not go to college? The rich girls are much more libertine than the working class girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:03 PM
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Sure, but not every comparison is made relative to what's locally statistically normal. I think the point OP is trying to make is : if tomorrow everyone on Earth suddenly woke up 100 lbs fatter, the ideal person people fantasize about partnering with wouldn't get any bigger at all. In an area where everyone is obese, obesity doesn't magically become sexy by default, there are just fewer sexy people in those areas. Men's preferences for slender women with narrow waists and wide hips crosses all k…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:22 PM
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First word in the profile is "sassy". Who the hell is telling women that men like sassiness? It's bizarre, honestly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/23 05:34 PM
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What problem does it solve? The only men who will utilize these machines are already completely undateable. It's just a fancier blow-up doll!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:53 PM
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Same reason women have to say "ambitious" instead of "rich".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:31 PM
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The kind of man who is willing to have an AI girlfriend isn't really in the dating market in the first place, so his decisions won't affect the real-world women who only ever (intentionally) interact with a much different type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:54 PM
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Imagine being so extremely online that you don't even know about IRL human interaction. Amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:40 PM
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I believe it was Niles Crane who said "finding her is easy, just look under the nearest man."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:20 PM
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I know my worth! In practice, this seems to mean "I generously overestimate my worth".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:18 PM
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Since bad hygeine is a changeable characteristic it shouldn't be viewed as unattractive. Since unemployment is a changeable characteristic it shouldn't be viewed as unattractive. Since homelessness is a changeable characteristic it shouldn't be viewed as unattractive. Since illiteracy is a changeable trait...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:23 AM
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I think you have #1 and #2 out of order, given that variations on I'm the town bicycle, what is the mysterious unknown reason why nobody wants to marry me? ...is the most common question asked by women in the over-30 dating subs (only possible competition for the crown is the classic "I met a really sweet guy but I'm not sexually attracted to him like I was to the 38 not-sweet guys who came before him, what should I do?" questions)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:13 PM
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-Always dead serious -Can't talk about anything deeper than weather Isn't it weird how these two qualities can exist in the same person? Nightmare combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:40 PM
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If there's a direct link between feminism and hook-up culture, surely that link is birth control, right? The ability to (in theory, anyway) separate sex from pregnancy was critical in allowing women to casually switch between partners without the stigma of single motherhood or the dangers of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:07 PM
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Like, he's supposed to get surgery? What is the "something" he's supposed to do to fix his small dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:04 PM
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Those women are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:39 PM
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I don't understand why people want to discuss a person's income when their financial situation is what actually matters. If person A has a graduate degree and a $100k income (and $250k of debt) is anyone really going to find them more attractive than person B, who has a bachelor's and a $65k income (and no debt whatsoever)? People who are financial liabilities aren't as desirable for partnership as people who are financially sound. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:51 PM
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And not Meghan Markle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:40 PM
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I think the "real" purpose of the sub is to give people a place to vent that isn't the mainline dating subreddits. If people actually end up engaging each other occasionally, great, but the nominal goal isn't necessarily the most important goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:08 PM
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Surely the male equivalent of "make me laugh" would be, more or less, "laugh at my jokes"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:06 PM
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Why do you keep using averages instead of medians? Literally everyone is calling you out for this and you are unwilling to even acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:06 PM
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They'll keep asking until they get a different answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:08 PM
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This is like the guy who posted a few months back feeling insecure because he'd only been with 10 girls by his 20th birthday. Calm down, Genghis!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:28 PM
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Based on context, I think their device auto-corrected a mis-spelling of "discretion", probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:26 PM
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Those women DO have standards, unfortunately. They just have terrible taste!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:28 PM
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This is completely avoiding OP's question, though. Why can some people hit free throws on the very first try, but others struggle to improve even with lots of practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:54 PM
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Just be born with an above-average face - it's so easy why didn't everyone think of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:49 PM
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This is literally the first time in my life (40s M) that I have heard a bi man report positive feedback from women about their sexuality. Most women seem to recoil, with a kind of "one drop rule" for homosexuality. But even if times have changed, and girls no longer call bi dudes "gay" anymore, it's not like anyone can just ...become bi, to get girls. What exactly would be actionable, here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:21 PM
1

I'm not some random hippy woman for clarification with a free spirit and all that. "I'm unmarried at 28 and living in a van down by the river, just like all buttoned-down conservatives." If you want to be taken seriously as a marriage prospect, move back in with your parents. That's where a woman who is marriage material would live.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 04:27 PM
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Just vet men like normal If she knew how to vet men would she be a single mom?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 04:21 PM
6

basically no difference between an un-made up, bald, naked woman and a bald, naked man I mean sure the man is taller, and his shoulders are broader. And he has more muscle, and no breasts. And the woman's hips are wider, and their pelvises are angled differently. And the man's belly button is located above his hip bones, while the woman's is below hers. And she doesn't have an Adam's Apple, and his voice is lower than hers. And etc. etc. But other than that, no differences except the sex organs!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:05 PM
12

$50 says if she had to choose between her piercings and her kid, she'd choose the piercings. But the kid totally comes first, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/23 05:14 PM
2

PhD hard sciences +1, soft sciences +0, humanities -1 CEO -1 startup -5
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:57 PM
4

very rarely have seen an extremely attractive man with an ugly woman When men say this, 99% of the time what they mean is a not-fat man with a fat woman. Is that the definition you're using? got rated as hot frequently too and was frequently told "men would be lucky to have you" Every girl gets told these things. You would have to have to have beyond Elephant-Man-tier looks to not hear these things. No one gets turned down for sex in their mid-20s because they are "too beautiful and chaste". men…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:32 PM
2

It sounds to me like OP moved from an 'eastern' culture to a 'western' one, and is still expecting eastern behavior from western men.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 03:45 AM
20

She is also above average weight, think she wants that, too?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/23 07:04 AM
21

I think OP is thinking that the bargaining power belongs to all women collectively rather than to individual women. Skyrocketing obesity rates mean a sexually attractive woman's bargaining power is at an all time high - it's highly likely that beautiful women have never been rarer in recorded history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:46 AM
0

What is the difference between a "Steve" and the long-established concept of an "orbiter"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:01 PM
12

"Anything less than full hedonism is mental illness"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:40 PM
5

Minnesota should be moved one tier easier, IMO. Even I got laid in Minneapolis, for god's sake, and I'm not 6' fucking 5".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:31 PM
17

Also 41, and I've turned into the exact cranky old man I bagged on when I was that age. Just seeing a broccoli haircut makes me want to go lie down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:52 AM
26

More like 99.9%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:50 AM
1

That's the one! (Though I wouldn't recommend to OP the workout routines of the first two actors who played the role, either.)
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 06:48 PM
11

All black skirts and dresses, or all black pants and and shoulder pads and combat boots? Adventuring outdoors in a cute ponytail and snuggling by the campfire he built, or picking bits of dried mud out of your leg hair as you lead the way on the trek? Lifting like Jane Fonda, or like the guy who played The Mountain on Game of Thrones?
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 02:27 PM
2

Most people want the good aspects of a "traditional" relationship, without any of the attendant responsibilities. Wow, your female friends want a man who pays for everything? Are they going to be cooking and cleaning, or is it just the he-pays-for-everything part that counts as traditional? Wow, your male friends don't want to pay for everything? It's so non-traditional of them to not want to give unconditional financial support to that 200 lb girl with the nose ring and the blue hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:41 PM
8

I bet there's no one factor that can be isolated, but I think in general men's (perceived) effort:reward ratio for approaching women has declined fairly consistently with each successive generation. Contributing issues probably include: -Obesity (more women AND men are just not human-shaped than ever before) -Poverty (a single income doesn't support a family, why even try?) -Independence (if I'm a bicycle, why does a fish need me?) -Isolation (social, and in the Covid era, physical) -Social medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:52 PM
1

There’s a whole culture that says if a woman has had sex before she should give it up before etc which is ignorant but I won’t go into it here. But this is the whole crux of the issue! The bad boys you gave it up for right away are the guys you actually like. The men you date will be acutely aware that you don't want sex from them in the same way, and the worthwhile ones will leave right away because they don't want to be constantly disrepected by you. I'm sure you don't enjoy the present conseq…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 05:42 PM
-8

Why did Mr. Responsible Dad knock her up in the first place? Was he not a drug user?
/r/MensRights19/02/23 01:39 PM
3

The illusion of connection is enough, though. If AI can fake it well enough all those camgirls under the bridge are going to have serious competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:19 PM
1

Men with the self-confidence needed to ask women for their number in public would never be at a match-making event in the first place, would they? No doubt the men at the event complained about the lack of thin, chaste, feminine girls but why were they expecting those women to need to use a special service to get a date?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/23 06:12 PM
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Referring to their peer group, or referring to only its most most visible members? I'd argue OP is observing the classic Apex Fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:27 PM
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OP, I'd recommend a brief trip over to the Dead Bedrooms subreddit if you're genuinely confused. Relationships where the woman wants sex as much or more than the man do exist, but they are rare. The default marriage involves a man who wants sex more often than his wife, and the default failed marriage fails because the wife isn't sexually attracted to the husband. It's just pattern recognition. To use the word "framing" here would be like questioning the "framing" that men are taller than women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:17 PM
2

It seems like there's a pretty sharp division between the men who strongly prefer a personal style that says "look how naturally beautiful I am" (regardless of whether their beauty is actually natural or not) and the men who instead prefer a style that says "look how hard I'm working to put myself on display for male approval". I think of Donald Trump as archetypal for the second group: in the "grab 'em by the pussy" footage he clearly stated a preference for obvious breast implants. I think the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:59 PM
2

Instagram = "I need LOTS of attention from boys" = unfaithful That's, like, 90% of it, right? Add to that the fact that most men are desperately trying to avoid having to go back to high school ever again, while social media's principal goal is turn all of society into high school, and it's not that hard to fathom the distaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:48 PM
3

It sucks to drown and it sucks to die of dehydration, and it's just as hard for the girl that's drowning to understand why the guy who has no water is so upset as it is baffling for the dehydrating guy to hear her complaining about there being too much water.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:54 PM
1

The only thing I ever want for Valentine's Day, or any other Hallmark holiday, is the acknowledgement that Hallmark holidays are bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:46 PM
4

Oh no, I really like this girl but she lives with her parents instead of having sex with a bunch of randoms at her bachelorette pad. Guess I'll just have to find another one. Is this what they think our thought process looks like?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 07:46 PM
2

Her terms are acceptable!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:54 PM
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Desirable men can afford to be picky. Do you have a height cutoff? A fashion and style requirement? Only like a certain race? Not everything in heterosexual dating is perfectly symmetrical, but if you're asking men to jettison 'looks' as a standard you are absolutely going to have to do the same. Find that intellectually-compatible short, balding guy with the crooked teeth and lock him down!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:40 AM
1

the vast majority of women that still look good in their 40’s/50’s So, 3 out of the 4 of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:33 PM
27

I own my own home... ...there's about $400,000 left on the mortgage. Well, somebody owns her home, anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/22 09:06 PM
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Changing your appearance to match your desired surroundings sounds pretty chameleon-esque, though, doesn't it?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 08:15 PM
2

Isn't this the woman's fault for choosing a terrible man to impregnate her? Why is it another man's responsibility to clean up the mess that she chose to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:29 PM
34

Bold of you to assume they all have the same father!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/22 01:50 PM
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