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12

You notice the women putting effort into their looks. You might pass someone without makeup and what not, not take note. Then pass the same girl the next day all dolled up and remember her.
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:03 AM
1

That do better than what? Keep telling yourself only looks matter.
/r/seduction16/07/26 05:25 AM
1

Aight my dude.
/r/seduction15/07/26 10:55 PM
1

Talk to them like you would a man. Consider them men when talking.
/r/seduction02/07/26 07:25 AM
0

Literally pick any city. It does not matter. Only requirement is women. Or men if you prefer.
/r/seduction23/06/26 08:51 PM
13

You care too much about getting them to like you. Care about yourself more, value yourself. They waste your time/Arent respecting it, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea, why chase the nasty ones?
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:52 PM
9

News flash. Charisma is more important than aesthetics.
/r/seduction21/06/26 06:38 PM
8

The ego hit isnt gonna get smaller at 33. So get on it. Also OP, dating apps/services are fine, but dont spend a ton of time texting. Get a match and setup a date asap. If they dont want that, move on.
/r/seduction21/06/26 05:37 PM
12

'hey, you seemed cool but we didnt get to talk much, wanna grab a coffee?'
/r/seduction14/06/26 09:44 AM
5

40+ people in rural areas probably dont spend a lot of time taking care of themselves. They dont give a shit anymore/it never mattered. Age and ethnicity dont matter. A 40 year old isnt supposed to compete with a 25 year old. Also doesnt matter if you are Caucasian, black, asian, middle eastern, latino... What ever. We all have grounds to look just fine. It does matter whether you take care of yourself or not.
/r/seduction30/05/26 01:28 PM
11

Brother, you need to stop stressing all this stuff. All your points come from insecurity and a lack of esteem. 99% of men look okay or could look okay with little self care. A 5 will easily become 8-9 in a womans eyes if he has confidence in himself. And its not about thinking 'im a pretty looks maxxer boi', its 'i do this because its fun, and i dont care what others think about me having fun'. Women Arent as visual as men, they take rest in emotions far more than men do. There is a reason why p…
/r/seduction30/05/26 07:13 AM
1

Its also objective. A 10 for you might be a 6 for me. So 🤷
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:40 PM
26

Some people like that
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:32 PM
0

Lmao what
/r/seduction14/05/24 07:25 PM
36

So, all aspects in life are on an uneven playing field if you compare to the extreme outliers. What a shitty statement. Remove the extreme top and bottom. Also, this dude probably cares a lot for himself. Exercise, eat well, sleep well.. and all that shit. This alone will put anyone ahead.
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:34 AM
4

You got the perfect mindset. You literally have 0 expectations. Just go out and meet women, have a coffee, chit chat. If you meet someone and vibe hard, everything else will come along.
/r/seduction25/04/24 09:51 AM
1

This comment is 6 years old man
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:34 AM
48

It's not a clear sign of anything. She could be friendly, interested, not interested, smile because of what ever God damn reason. That said, one can only know by approaching.
/r/seduction12/09/20 05:45 PM
7

Check it out. This guy has sex.
/r/seduction16/01/20 06:55 PM
1

Bro, hit the gym for 5 years, then consider roids. You will fuck up joints left and right if you are a newbie. Also most women dont want roid beasts anyways, they want lean athletic men. You think you know what women want, but you dont. Self esteem is whats holding you back.
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:46 PM
1

imma stop here. This will go on forever and we obviously don't agree.
/r/seduction28/02/18 10:22 PM
1

Somewhat kept hair triumphs something that hasn't been touched in a while. If you don't study, get a job. I'm not saying a woman will get you for money. If you don't study, get your own place. This requires money. Unless you date exclusively Teens or early twenties, they don't want some dude who lives on someone's mercy. Difference between temporarily supporting and taking care of. Do you honestly think women find it attractive when a man can't even fend for himself?
/r/seduction28/02/18 09:10 PM
3

Seems like you took my post as an insult. Perhaps a lot applied to you. It was stating the obvious. If you got your shit together, you don't need to apply that much focus on yourself. Nowhere did I imply you should get short hair. Girls get haircuts as well, most still have longer hair. Girls like self-sustaining men. That implies earning money. They don't want to babysit you. Im sorry if this hit a nerve, but you took it awfully personal.
/r/seduction28/02/18 08:32 PM
0

Sounds like he thought money and muscle is some magic fix to get laid. He still has to put in effort. Difference is more high value women will consider him. I don't know the guy like you do, but did he actively try to get dates? This is conditioning also, getting used to the interaction and the very possibility of being rejected.
/r/seduction28/02/18 07:02 PM
10

This advice is for people who stay at home, in old worn clothes, with cheeto dust stuck in their neck beard, without a vision for their own future besides playing LoL and browsing reddit. This is not attractive, on any level. If you want to make women interested in you, at least provide a nice packing. Start fitness, healthy bodies are attractive and displays discipline. Get a haircut, wear fitting clothes, show you take somewhat care of yourself and is hygienic. Get a job, or study to be someth…
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:53 PM
5

A 7 minute video with 5 points. Yeah no.
/r/seduction26/01/18 02:43 PM
2

Focus on what you can have an impact on. Height can't be changed unless you want to sacrifice years in a wheelchair with broken legs. You can spend your energy on so many things, things you can change. Physique, social skills, career, style, what ever.
/r/seduction07/08/17 11:09 PM
12

Do it. Maybe she'll decline, maybe she won't. But respect the outcome.
/r/seduction08/07/17 05:03 PM
2

My first thought is drop by some public courts and shoot some hoops there. Bring a ball, and if people are playing ask if you can join them. Let's you stay on your game while meeting people outside your circle.
/r/seduction02/05/17 07:36 PM
2

It's the only route to take. It will sort out her bullshit and he can hit it or move on
/r/seduction23/04/17 08:30 PM
22

Chances are she would disregard him and go to next in line. Like others have said, she has lots of lines giving her validation without her working for it.
/r/seduction23/04/17 07:32 PM
1

K
/r/seduction20/03/17 09:27 PM
-1

'hey, let's get coffee on Saturday'
/r/seduction19/03/17 08:53 PM
0

Replace 'defensive' with 'shittests'. Pass and get poon.
/r/seduction13/03/17 10:48 PM
1

Mate, im 26 and had a few bad years with personal issues, and sometimes i too feel like ive missed out on things, but really no. I still fuck 19 year old chicks. Chill and enjoy.
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:15 PM
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It's great, all beginning starts slow, but don't drag it out. Your goal is to do direct approaches, don't forget that, so keep challenging yourself.
/r/seduction06/08/16 12:17 PM
3

You replied to the wrong person I think. You make men out to be fragile little creatures that hover women once they get attention. That is what we teach guys not to be here. Your friend is an idiot for jumping in with both feet. And so would a woman be who went heels over head because some dude gave her attention.
/r/seduction08/07/16 11:06 AM
13

Woah there, men do this too just to get laid. That is a lot of what we read here, calling her a bitch because she takes the opportunities presented to her is ridiculous. Like all others, talk to multiple women till you find someone you feel like spending lots of time with, and only break off other connections once it's established.
/r/seduction08/07/16 08:24 AM
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Have you tried googling it?
/r/seduction06/05/16 11:38 AM
2

I like this. I don't know you at all, but you seem happy with the direction you have taken, and you seem well aware of your self and you have a goal and motivation. These are GREAT traits, and you simply being happy will come off as confidence and you will seem like an enjoyable person to be around. Keep it up dude.
/r/seduction16/04/16 03:26 AM
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This gotta be the strangest comparison I've yet to see. Sun Tzu's The Art Of War is a great read tho. If anyone is curious, modern marketing is done much in the same way as Sun Tzu did warfare.
/r/seduction09/03/16 06:45 PM
5

But at the same time, if one is a confident carefree guy, it can be a great platform. It all comes down to the different person. Saying it downright sucks is bull.
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:16 PM
20

You just shared your text history of you sexting this girl. That's pretty weird.
/r/seduction24/01/16 09:49 PM
20

This guy gets it. On the flirting thing OP mentioned. Most people get fidgety and nervous around the person they have a crush on, it's normal and often results in a somewhat stiff and less than relaxed appearance. Flirting comes naturally when you are comfortable and relaxed. Say, around people you don't care if they 'like' you all the time. The idea of 'not giving a fuck' comes from this very reaction.
/r/seduction20/01/16 07:01 PM
5

It's not beta. Alphas take action on what they feel like, not what others deem good or bad. If you want to chat her up, gogo? But keep the text game short, aim to set up a date with as few texts as possible. 'Hey BigTits, I thought you were really cute. When do you want to go out for coffee/yoghurt/drink'. Something like that.
/r/seduction17/01/16 06:43 PM
1

Woah there champ. He just want some, not suffocate under a mountain of pussy.
/r/seduction13/01/16 04:32 PM
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I don't know how to pick something that suits your natural smell, as you can't smell yourself. Do however, jump into a store and tell one of the nice ladies (Usually girls these places) that you want to get a cologne, and ask her whats popular. She will likely ask if it should be fresh, sweet, "strong" and what not. Just ask to smell a couple samples and take your pick from there. Most colognes today smell nice, but key is not to overdo it. 1 spray on the wrist, rub your wrists together and then…
/r/seduction19/12/15 08:22 AM
2

You should go into something expecting to get smarter on the subject. In this case, improve social skills would be the goal.
/r/seduction04/11/15 11:31 PM
6

She said I should probably have sex with someone else before her so I don't think she loves me, What? Being horny =/= love. which is totally reasonable It's not. Don't sell yourself short because of this mate. If she thinks any less of you because you haven't dipped your dick in some girl for 10 months, she isn't quite as open as you describe her to be. Keep your lines open, don't stop fishing till you're sure you've got something steady and real.
/r/seduction14/10/15 09:18 PM
1

http://i.imgur.com/IMmmP8A.gif
/r/seduction05/10/15 03:49 PM
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I didn't get any numbers or take anyone home. But I'm okay with that. I stepped outside my comfort zone and tried something new. I met some cool people and I enjoyed the freedom of not being tied to anyone there. This is the essence, and what's important. Fun comes first. If you don't enjoy yourself and go out with an open mind, others wont find your company enjoyable and getting girls will be a nightmare.
/r/seduction05/10/15 11:06 AM
12

To add to this exercise. Many of us has at some point been using a headset when playing video games, we talk to who ever we play with and we enjoy it. When we do this, there is often humor and passion. We play what ever game it may be, have a blast and joke around while still being immersed into a topic we enjoy (this video game). This should give a good indication as to what it should sound like when you're passionate about something. Everyone does it a little differently, but there is no mista…
/r/seduction03/10/15 12:58 PM
1

It's only gay if you receive, heyooo
/r/seduction03/10/15 12:50 PM
2

Talk to more girls. Broaden your selection. Nothing wrong with this unless you enter something serious. All girls i've ever flirted with has done this, why shouldn't you?
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:27 PM
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Why? Because you aren't successful on this platform?
/r/seduction11/09/15 12:16 AM
1

Just as this applies to seduction, people must not think that 'seduction' only applies to getting a dick wet. If done right, it can be handy in just about every aspect of your LIFE. Most importantly, the skills you earn, can be applied to make what you do for a living, more challenging, exciting and rewarding. Rather than staying at an entrylevel position, you can rush your own ass towards the top.
/r/seduction10/09/15 11:07 PM
1

Still cute. Good job.
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:51 PM
2

It's insane how the first girl reminds me of a Swedish girl I once met. Way of talking, accent, everything. On topic, these are good.
/r/seduction06/09/15 03:28 PM
1

Behave as you used to, talk to people, dont sulk, do work. And never date in workspace again to avoid these awkward situations.
/r/seduction27/08/15 11:56 AM
7

You see the one linked in the comment as a success? She straight up invites you to come out of your den and you reply with "meh". Dude. Then you beat around the bush like some indecisive booger suddenly talking about a library. This girl is into you, otherwise she would have shrugged you off big time. The linked one someone pointed out the third last. But also, this girl talks about an imaginary funtrip to antarctica, and you suggest bringing your xbox? Really? What kind of signal do you think t…
/r/seduction13/08/15 05:13 PM
1

Don't this sub teach guys to juggle more than one girl and keep going out there till you find miss right? That's my impression, so why should it be different from a women's perspective.
/r/seduction12/08/15 09:33 AM
3

I'm very much curious as to what your issue with this is. I personally don't give two fucks how many partners a girl has had prior to me. Is it so bad to fuck a person you're sexually attracted to if you're single?
/r/seduction11/08/15 01:46 PM
9

You shouldn't feel like shit. This girl isn't every other girl. Few people has had that many partners in their lifetime. Don't compare yourself to others, because there will always be someone who has more than you, rather work yourself to become better at the things you want to be better at. Picking up girls? Wider vocabulary? Running that 10k in sub 50 minutes? Once you stop looking at others and comparing yourself to that, you will start gaining confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction11/08/15 01:43 PM
9

I just want to point out, it's no good to compare one self with those who gets lots of sex, threesomes and what not. They are the minority and just as stupid as comparing your 'fun social life' on facebook, you only see the highlights of the play. Aim to improve yourself and your life, but do not dwell in what others have and have-not, this will lead to an endless spiral of insecurity. I'm no Don Juan, ways to go, but I've had a handful of partners. I met a girl and of course this came up on her…
/r/seduction11/08/15 12:27 PM
12

What
/r/seduction10/08/15 10:09 AM
1

The girl you have little interest in relationship wise, tell her that. Be clear with your intentions, only dickbags lead girls on with empty promises.
/r/seduction09/08/15 09:20 AM
2

I am a little lazy This you need to fix. What makes you think it's any easier to get girls during the day contrary to when they are out partying looking for good times?
/r/seduction08/08/15 05:49 PM
6

It's really not as bad as you make it out to be man, but I see what you mean and I understand this insecurity. But really, this is hardly something to beat yourself up over. You could drop a few pounds, but I personally wouldn't aim for a direct weightloss. Keep working out, and eat at maintenance, or cut by ~200 calories. Cut out all the junk, soda, crisps, what ever and aim for a high protein diet. Don't drink too hard on weekends, not only will this work against your fitness but it also ruins…
/r/seduction27/07/15 02:41 PM
4

Why are you afraid of something that hasn't happened to you? Don't worry. And if she is being a bitch about it (i have no idea how much or little torso fat you have, no pictures), so what? Move on, next. She obviously wasn't worth your time.
/r/seduction27/07/15 02:28 PM
3

I'd bail the co-worker hunt if I were you. Depending on the size of the company, I can imagine you seeing each other a lot during the work week, and if this goes bad between you, it could be a real shit situation workwise.
/r/seduction26/07/15 11:57 AM
11

Find another one. You need someone that can get under your skin in the good way, not all therapists can do so because people are different.
/r/seduction25/07/15 10:41 PM
11

OP. I did the dirty deed of going over your history here. More than advice on how to be approachable, you need to stop by a professional to help you work out your mental situation.
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:19 PM
3

Definitely make sure these guys become aware that you are mute and not being a bitch by not responding. Perhaps make a short-cut on the text app so you only need to type 2 letters to get up "I'm a mute, but I think you're cute." no pun intended. And then pop up the "new contact". While it sucks, I can totally imagine some guys blanking out not knowing how to treat the situation when they learn that you are mute. But if you are as good looking as you claim, some dudes surely will stick as long as…
/r/seduction25/07/15 06:13 PM
9

It's a pretty fucking weird thing to go inside a womens lingerie store to practice unclasping bras. Don't do this. While it's a neat trick to be able to do this with one hand, women don't really give a fuck.
/r/seduction21/07/15 01:48 PM
20

Remember, this subreddit didn't do shit besides giving a bit of advice and perhaps pointing in the right direction. This is all on you mate. Good on you for being happy with the changes you've made!
/r/seduction19/07/15 10:47 PM
2

Your very example. If said by a slim, fit girl. You could joke. If said by a fat chick, and you say "I bet you eat it for breakfast, lunch, and dinner" she'd probably take offense because she is fat.
/r/seduction19/07/15 09:40 PM
5

So, what did you apply here? "but damn sexy". Would this have worked out without your physical apperance? Start talking, because so far this is a shitpost.
/r/seduction19/07/15 02:25 PM
38

"Yo bitch, don't take muh woman!!!!!!!" Let's see how well that works out.
/r/seduction19/07/15 02:20 PM
1

Workout, check your clothes and read up on fashion advices, get a hairstyle that suites you well, display 'fun' pictures showing you being active and not just staring into the camera of a phone. Tinder, much like facebook is about showing the parts of your life that are exciting to hoard attention from your peers.
/r/seduction19/07/15 01:29 PM
3

Remember, the majority are normal people, and you yourself can do SO MUCH to your image with a couple hours effort every week.
/r/seduction19/07/15 09:08 AM
15

I'd also think physical apperance would play part in this. With an app like tinder, it's the first impression that is the most important. It's a shallow dating app that enforces judging on first sight, so being physically fit is a huge bonus here.
/r/seduction18/07/15 11:27 PM
5

This. Like anything else, have fun, smile, actively talk with people. A pretty face and big guns doesn't help if you aren't an outgoing person. In our society, males approach mostly, and while a physical fit body may be attractive, it's hardly a dealbreaker. Would you turn down a fun outgoing girl with normal looks just because she wasnt fit as a model?
/r/seduction16/07/15 04:38 PM
6

In skype it's a thumbs up. (smiley/emoticon)
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:24 PM
2

A "See you at the gym at 7pm" is perfectly good. Definitely text the girl.
/r/seduction13/07/15 08:38 PM
4

She declines dinner. You ask for drinks, she wiggle out of answering. You ask for address, you have to follow up with another text to get a response. Later you tell her to meet you at a field, which she claims to know nothing about except it's a well known spot for students. Feigening ignorance? You say you'll pick her up, she shuts that idea down with "it's about to rain". And then you end the conversation with the tongue and venus crap. I'd bet she was just bored for the evening and felt like …
/r/seduction13/07/15 06:31 PM
5

"Ok." and then you move on and keep enjoying your night. Don't try too hard to convince her to stay or follow her, this comes off as being needy and clingy. You don't need her to have fun. You are out clubbing to have fun. Ask her for a dance early on as you mentioned, you can be flirty and handsy without being a groping beast. Don't buy her drinks off the get go. Or maybe you just bored her. This happens for everyone, maybe her interests and yours didn't overlap at all and it wasn't ment to be …
/r/seduction13/07/15 01:53 PM
4

So the advice given here is "Act on the flirting". If OP escalated this flirting a bit, a girl who isn't really interested will pull out pretty soon. Am I understanding this right?
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:28 AM
5

This was pretty cringy to read. Trying way too hard when she politely rejects you several times.
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:22 AM
1

PLEASE if you want to do deadlift with weight, head straight over to youtube or bodybuilding.com and watch instructional videos. It's an AWESOME exercise, but done wrong it can wreck your back instead of making it strong. With bodyweight, it's not that high of a concern, but once the kilos add up you want to do it right from the start. And while you are at it, take a look at proper squat form too.
/r/seduction12/07/15 05:34 PM
9

This is where "Don't give a fuck what others think" apply. I'd dare say it's not shame, rather you are embarrassed to be seen dancing like a silly, afraid of rejection and so on. Like anything else, get out there and practice. Don't get hammered the next couple of times you go out, have a drink or two but not too much, and get used to dancing with girls and what not while not super intoxicated. People will not care less or more if you dance and enjoy yourself while sober or only slightly tipsy.
/r/seduction12/07/15 05:17 PM
1

and was probably in a flirty mood, Except, you can't tell this from a text like that, especially not when you've never met the person before. And honestly, her first 2 texts were anything but flirty. You gotta read real hard into it to look for this flirt. It came on strong later on however.
/r/seduction11/07/15 11:01 PM
2

The very first message we see from the girl. Had his answer been anything but provoking, conversation probably would have went downhill fast. Her second message, she continues to make fun of the carpet/drape joke, and he shuts her right the fuck down with that answer. From there he can more or less toy as he pleases. They're level. And he keeps this cocky attitude going with the whole nigerian joke, and continues with "Tell me more about myself", and she happily obliges. How ever, I believe this…
/r/seduction11/07/15 10:25 PM
4

Bravo. Running a conversation so hard the girl actually wants a dick picture. Also, please tell me you texted her a picture of actual hardwood.
/r/seduction11/07/15 08:40 PM
1

Apparently I write good stuff when I'm drunk. This is a first for me.
/r/seduction08/07/15 10:14 AM
2

Look good for you. Not others. Obviously going around checking every mirror is overkill. Styling your hair in the morning, and just letting it do its thing during the day should be fine. Emotional attractiveness. Aside from having a passion, being able to listen and reflect, and being firm to your beliefs, I don't have much.
/r/seduction07/07/15 03:05 PM
13

You can be attractive in many ways. Like you and above guy said, the first thing that comes to mind is an aesthetically pleasing face. Yes, we can't all look the same and we're born with this face, BUT! Very few people are truly ugly. VERY VERY few. You can do so much for your image. First is getting in shape. No one is telling you to get that Calvin Klein body, but drop the overweight. Not only does that show your actual face and it's features, you instantly drop the whole "unhealthy, lazy" fir…
/r/seduction07/07/15 02:22 PM
4

Your improvement list. 1 and 2 go together perfectly in this scenario. Good on you for reflecting and noticing. It sounds like she definitely wanted you in there for more than a swim. I realized that my main goal should be to enjoy myself as well. Yes! This comes before anything. Happy people enjoying themselves attract other people.
/r/seduction05/07/15 08:33 PM
2

The women must have been anxious to go through with marrying a guy like that without truly finding out who he is. I don't think so. My moms ex-husband was a manipulative pig, and for his own good he shouldn't ever approach her, but that is besides the point. People who are skilled with manipulating others, can persuade many into a false sense of love/comfort, what ever. Get a girl to open up a little, and once that happens these types can turn and twist everything to make him look like the dream…
/r/seduction04/07/15 08:59 AM
2

It's a touching story, but it has nothing to do with women being anxious. Your uncle is good with manipulating people.
/r/seduction04/07/15 07:39 AM
2

No.
/r/seduction04/07/15 07:36 AM
16

You base your ENTIRE post on the assumption (which you claim to scientifically proven) that women experience twice as much anxiety as men. I looked, and the first credible link I found was the adaa.org link. Which says, because you didn't read it, "From the time a girl reaches puberty until about the age of 50, she is twice as likely to have an anxiety disorder as a man.". This applies to a minority, not all women. So a little freak out means women are struggling with anxiety. Are confident wome…
/r/seduction03/07/15 05:14 PM
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No matter who it is. It has been scientifically proven that women feel about double the anxiety that mean do. Yeah, I'm going to have you provide a source on that. Only thing I found was women was twice as likely as men to have an anxiety DISORDER. Which is far, far from just being anxious. Women are repelled by insecure, anxious guys because women are trying to overcome that in themselves. Lol. Because men are attracted to insecure anxious girls? This is why women are turned off by even the sli…
/r/seduction03/07/15 04:30 PM
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I've met alpha males who were nothing like OP described. He is far, far too superficial. It's about who you are as a person, outgoing, nice, respectful, challenging but not provoking, firm to ones own beliefs and not afraid to show so, and so on. People in the Seduction/PUA community put far too much emphasis on this whole "ALPHA AS FUAK" shit. You can put on this fake facade all you want, but once someone comes by who is the genuine thing, you will be "dethroned" in the blink of an eye.
/r/seduction02/07/15 05:53 PM
2

In my opinion, you should still call him on his bullshit, even if he was AMOG and did this. Huge difference between alpha males and dicks.
/r/seduction02/07/15 11:41 AM
0

Ding. Ding. Ding. Only correct answer. That cringe bullshit /u/BigGeek43 wrote needs to go far, far away.
/r/seduction02/07/15 11:16 AM
1

And this is something you should discuss with her properly. Make sure she understands that it hurt you when she BROUGHT you to a social gathering where you know no one but her, and she ditched you to hang with the co-workers. If she still doesn't care, you could perhaps put some questionmarks in that relationship of yours. This may be over the top advice as I don't know you, her or the entire situation. Perhaps her story of the night is completely different.
/r/seduction30/06/15 05:05 PM
1

You feeling shitty is mostly on you, not her. Some people are flirty by nature, while still being entirely faithful in a relationship. Asking her to change for a small insecurity of yours wouldn't be fair in my opinion. How ever, her ditching you to hang with her work friends at said concert was a shit move, and you should tell her that if you haven't all ready. Either bring you along the whole way or go without you.
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:21 PM
2

You're being a bit controlling aren't you? What I gather from your post, is you don't trust her. It seems you sort of expects her to open her legs just because another guy says "Hey, I really like you.". Which says more about your insecurities than anything else. Let her socialize with whom she wants to. You can voice your opinion of it, but that is your opinion and not her law. If she is just being friendly, thats good. If she fucks him, she isn't worth your time. You sorta seem like that kind …
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:08 PM
1

That's not the point of my post. Or are you telling me it takes a special set of skills to understand it takes 2 active people to carry on a conversation?
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:41 PM
1

Honestly, anything as long as they are included in the conversation. The first line concludes the entire article. Also, why do people write bullshit like this? Do people really need to read an article to understand that it takes two people to run a conversation?
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:08 PM
1

Don't take that shit personally. Shit people say shitty things. Embrace it and see it as a sure way to fend off the rotten apples easier.
/r/seduction12/06/15 07:47 PM
1

You need to take This as real advice. Stop caring about women, focus on improving you. Workout, get your place together, make goals and work for them. While cheesy, I think it's solid advice in many cases. If you don't love yourself, how could others?
/r/seduction11/06/15 07:45 PM
10

Now he can rename to BeautifulNigga
/r/seduction10/06/15 01:25 PM
1

Yeah, alcohol changes EVERYTHING
/r/seduction09/06/15 06:05 PM
35

I think people from the nothern parts of europe are just not as outgoing. doesnt mean we dont like people, but we arent as fast to open up to strangers. just my opinion
/r/seduction09/06/15 04:45 PM
28

Implants don't shrink just because you get naked.
/r/seduction31/05/15 11:53 PM
38

"Hey. I have chlamydia, you need to get tested."
/r/seduction27/05/15 12:25 PM
1

When you get a number, once she is done telling you, recite it. But on purpose, say one or two digits wrong somewhere. If she agrees, she's a bitch and has given you a fake, if she corrects you, then it should be legit.
/r/seduction27/05/15 11:37 AM
108

Do you know where the Mediterranean is?
/r/seduction26/05/15 08:59 AM
-1

So far it's good, thanks. At least I argue my case, you just throw stuff out there, including insults, and call yourself a 'trainer' by trade.
/r/seduction25/05/15 10:03 PM
1

As an opener, yeah I agree. But nothing wrong with offering to buy a drink somewhere during the encounter if you so feel inclined.
/r/seduction25/05/15 04:41 PM
0

But my point is relevant. Because you now contradict yourself. Let me refer you to this post, earlier made by /u/BasicGymBro http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/374ez5/if_you_were_lined_up_next_to_10_random_single_men/crk8h7u As you can see, it was stated that "Height has an extremely direct influence on the number of calories needed to maintain weight.". I disproved that with my idiocy. And I am currently taking your advice, shoving said idiocy on someone who doesn't need to google 'TDEE…
/r/seduction25/05/15 04:00 PM
0

Yeah, but tall people aren't by default a shitton heavier. But let me put it in terms you can understand with your oh so brilliant mind. Two different TDEE calculators. Male, 25 years of age 200lbs Moderate level of exercise, 4~times a week. 6'4 vs 5'8 6'4 TDEE: 2831 (1) - 3265 (2) 5'8 TDEE: 2651 (1) - 3108 (2) http://iifym.com/tdee-calculator/ (1) http://www.fitnessfrog.com/calculators/tdee-calculator.html (2) So, 100-200 calories difference at the same weight. Height burns so many more calorie…
/r/seduction25/05/15 03:38 PM
0

6'4 at 220, and 6'4 at 160. There is a shitton difference.
/r/seduction25/05/15 01:28 PM
3

Buying a girl a drink is by no means desperate. The hell.
/r/seduction25/05/15 12:52 PM
0

You'd need to be big and work it hard every single day. Height doesn't mean much here, you can be skinny and tall, and all 4500 calories would do, is to make you fat because you don't have enough muscle tissue to burn the calories.
/r/seduction25/05/15 12:49 PM
2

I had a girl outright saying she wanted to punch me (in rage) because I told her it was bullshit some people could eat all the time and not gain weight and others gained weight by eating normally. In this discussion was also a guy claiming to intake 5000 calories a day without gaining weight. Sure, he played soccer, but naw, boy surely don't know how to count calories. It was a good night, made some enemies.
/r/seduction25/05/15 09:26 AM
8

taking advantage of my metabolism Wut, you think your metabolism will drop in half just because you age? Nono. This "high metabolism" bullshit needs to stop. There is indeed a difference between people, but not enough to separate skinny people from fat people. What separates us is lifestyle. Eat too much, get fat. Eat too little, get skinny. What keeps you at bay is exercise, and that is good.
/r/seduction25/05/15 08:46 AM
1

Google. "pua philadelphia", people here don't like the "Pua-pick up artist" thing, but it's basicly the same thing people do here. Lots of hits. Knock yourself out. (Also, I'm not American, but I assume "Philly" was Philadelphia.)
/r/seduction24/05/15 12:29 AM
2

Out of curiosity, have you tried to look up local PUA clubs/what ever they called. Maybe they're worthless, maybe you find some good guys there to go out with. It is at least worth a try before you start cashing out for a coach.
/r/seduction24/05/15 12:17 AM
53

"Shut up baby, I know it"
/r/seduction05/05/15 05:39 PM
12

Would "Okay," and walking away be too dramatic here? This is the only acceptable action. Don't be all goofball. You're there to buy, not sell.
/r/seduction03/05/15 08:59 PM
2

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fuck+boi
/r/seduction01/05/15 10:39 AM
3

What to take from this, is we all have superficial insecurities. Receeding hairline, size of penis, weight, not enough muscle, the wrong hair, patchy beard, body hair, what the fuck ever. Everyone has something they are a bit insecure about, and this is important to remember. Even the underwear models have insecurities.
/r/seduction19/04/15 01:01 PM
3

Yet you feel the need to come in here and belittle someone else. You must clearly have an issue with him getting laid. Good job shitlord.
/r/seduction18/04/15 09:17 PM
8

He was bragging? If you called that bragging, you must be the most pussy starved neckbeard on the Internet.
/r/seduction18/04/15 01:57 PM
47

Totally. OP owes roomie a couple of beers i'd say.
/r/seduction06/04/15 12:38 AM
2

I'm pretty sure I would.
/r/seduction31/03/15 10:43 PM
8

No it doesnt.
/r/seduction31/03/15 06:58 PM
8

Yep. She want the knight on the white stallion to come and swoop her away. This is nothing new, yet this woman writes as if she just dicovered sliced bread. Men like attractive women, women like attractive men. It has been like that since, forever.
/r/seduction31/03/15 06:39 PM
20

in particular, what women have always longed for, at least in fantasy, is the alpha male (actually he doesn’t even have to be that alpha, just attractive) Fucking newsflash. What a piece of shit article.
/r/seduction31/03/15 06:14 PM
2

Depending on her height, pick her up by the butt instead (fold arms below butt). This puts her a little higher than you and she is free to kiss away.
/r/seduction28/03/15 04:38 PM
3

Definitely give a nice smile. If she doesn't give at least a little smile back, fuck dat hoe and move on. Also, eye contact may just be eye contact and nothing more. It can be an indicator, but it's like anything else that involves humans, not a cheat code or bullet proof. The only way to find out is to strike up a conversation, if she is interested, good on you, if she isn't, no big deal. Also OP, don't view yourself as ugly man. It probably shows on your confidence that you aren't all that hap…
/r/seduction27/03/15 06:27 PM
4

So, which one?
/r/seduction24/03/15 03:29 PM
6

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/r/seduction17/03/15 06:43 PM
26

If that is so, she is getting uncomftable with the intense display of dominance. Perhaps tone it down just a bit, make sure she really is comfy in your presence. This may be a far shot, but is this the first girl you've done the dominant eye-contact with? You may be taking it too far, turning it into a creepstare. You mention you got this big ass smile going meanwhile. You want to be the alpha, but not mow her down with a steamroller.
/r/seduction17/03/15 10:53 AM
18

Why don't you ask her?
/r/seduction17/03/15 10:13 AM
9

Young people, men and women, are somewhat superficial. It's all the rage about fashion, new gadgets, being a showoff. That's what it is in the early 20's, wether you like it or not. And these girls get approached a lot, by older guys who has their shit together, they worked on improving themselves, like you should do, to give them an edge with a somewhat interesting life.
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:44 PM
5

Having fun without escalating is also progress. You enjoyed the time and so did the sisters. If nothing happens sexually in the future, you probably earned yourself two very cool chicks to hang out with, which in itself is a major win.
/r/seduction26/01/15 11:49 AM
5

This is not just two girls, these are sisters. Do this, report back, you will go down in the book of legends.
/r/seduction24/01/15 05:27 PM
40

But for the love of god, don't feel the need to approach every single time you see her. Respect the fact that she is there to workout, not to be bothered or chatted up. A big smile if you catch her eye is good now, also you not going for conversation shows you mean business, that you take the workout seriously. Kudos for approaching, and good on you for catching her inbetween sets!
/r/seduction12/01/15 11:12 PM
8

I once had a little sister. Never again.
/r/seduction12/01/15 08:23 PM
5

So summarized, people, men and women, want what they can't have.
/r/seduction04/01/15 08:08 PM
1

As long as you have passion for what you do, a girl will wet her panties for that. If she has the slightest interest that is.
/r/seduction02/01/15 12:13 AM
0

Taking is a two way street, just make sure to display interest and listen when they talk.
/r/seduction30/10/14 08:45 PM
2

Because you just do something for the sake of doing it. Like you said, you suck at most of it. Pick a few you really like and enjoy them. Bicycling does not include in my hobbies just because I do it everyday for the sake of transportation. Kicking a ball every once in a while does not make you a football player.
/r/seduction23/10/14 12:52 PM
0

That is where you keep it somewhat simple. It's great to listen to someone talking about their passion, but keep it balanced. Don't go on about it for 20 minutes. Stop somewhere after you have given some stories/experiences, and then ask her what she does/about something she has mentioned, a hobby ect. She will ask if she wants to talk more/know more about your hobby.
/r/seduction23/10/14 12:50 PM
25

Get hobbies. Get busy. That way you will have a lot more to talk about.
/r/seduction22/10/14 07:43 PM
1

You need an article to tell you that?
/r/seduction16/10/14 12:03 AM
1

I wanna chime in here. As much as this may or may not be a good guide (Honestly, I didn't read it, but that is not the point). People wanting to go with this, take it only as the frame for the picture. You learn very little about the whole encounter thing if you just follow a script. Take tips and tricks, but think for yourself. Like the guide says, NUMBERS. Write to a fuckton of girls, the ones not really interested but just looking for verification will be weeded out fast and you will be left …
/r/seduction14/10/14 11:06 AM
8

Personally, that is not the kind of girl you'd want around you at all. If money impress them, they bring very little of interest to the table.
/r/seduction12/10/14 11:43 PM
1

This one time, I could smell a lady a few meters away. It can be too much.
/r/seduction09/10/14 07:50 PM
2

Not at all. If you start bitching and moaning like a kid yeah, but play it smooth and the evening will go on for you and everyone else, and she will feel ridiculed with good reason.
/r/seduction06/10/14 01:25 PM
23

Yeah, that is a ballsy move. Had she been annoyed by the obvious charming/flirting she could complain to OP's superior with good reason.
/r/seduction05/10/14 07:27 PM
1

Might as well debunk it rather than trying to text/call a fake number. Bonus if you call her out on it?
/r/seduction05/10/14 06:46 PM
10

when you get a number, read it out loud to the girl to confirm, but change a few of the digits. If she agrees, well. Tell her she is a lying cunt. EDIT for OP's EDIT #1: I'm thinking about texting the number today, if it turns out it is her, what should I say? This makes me angry for some reason. There is an ocean of guides and information in the sidebar. This is not some math equation with a fixed answer. Maybe just challenge her to a fencing match.
/r/seduction05/10/14 12:38 PM
9

Trial and error, really. Just find some girl who wants to kiss and go for it.
/r/seduction02/10/14 06:15 PM
-4

This sooooo much. I've met girls, slept with them and then they'd get mad as fuck when it didn't escalate further. And I'd like to say, I've made no misleading commitment besides giving attention.
/r/seduction29/09/14 11:38 AM
1

Women start out with a larger deck of cards because in todays society it is the mans role to approach and engage the girl. There for the first, and a few of the following meetups are very much dependent on how the guy play the limited amount of cards he has. If he flukes, there will be a new line of men waiting to take their turn at seducing said girl.
/r/seduction25/09/14 08:11 PM
1

Small, 6000.. Holy shit. You guys don't know shit about small.
/r/seduction21/09/14 09:29 PM
6

His point still stands. For this girl, the amount of dudes around her is abundant in the sense none of them stands out. She may still pick and trash as she wants. But if you can get in there and among the abundant guys stand out as the scarce resource, your value will increase.
/r/seduction21/09/14 12:59 PM
2

While it's not a correct assumption in all cases, it's fair to assume a fit attractive girl would want a man of equal looks, or at least in the close proximity. What is to draw from this, like Tombstone said, while he was exercising, he didn't give two fucks as to what he ate/drank, thus not giving the pleasant aesthetic result. Girls who watch what they eat perhaps want to meet someone they can share these healthy eating habits with. What good is it to date a sweet and nice guy who only has jun…
/r/seduction18/09/14 02:53 PM
3

Doesn't matter; moved on. Breakups happen for a reason, remember them.
/r/seduction12/09/14 01:36 PM
3

If he plans to end life Sunday, he might as well do without
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:38 AM
8

Don't drink till you are about to pass out man. You can always 1on1, initiate conversation with a cute girl, get her attention and even tho you stand in a crowd of thousand, it's a 1on1. But most importantly of all, enjoy yourself. This will be the grand holy shit party, you don't want to waste a great party because you focus on getting laid. Relax, have some drinks, see every girl as more than a pair of tits. If you can pull out this "funny you" with girls, they will be willing. Personality has…
/r/seduction09/09/14 02:47 PM
7

Lol, this is amazing. Love it. And even tho I know jackshit about coding, I still understand every bit of it.
/r/seduction06/09/14 09:06 PM
2

A lot of girls on tinder is there for the sole reason of getting validation. They may not actually like you just because they swipe right, hell, many guys do that too, they do it to validate that some dude out there think she looks hot.
/r/seduction02/09/14 08:32 AM
4

Thanks.
/r/seduction22/08/14 01:41 AM
7

Us guys are so dense and delusional. Really?
/r/seduction22/08/14 01:33 AM
6

I have a friend. He had a girlfriend and he would stick to this girl like glue. It was disgusting. Even when we (him, I and a few others) did guy stuff like LAN parties. The girls were of course welcome, and they knew we'd be gaming so naturally they would watch or do their thing. Yet this mothertrucker would be all lovely and sticky to his girlfriend, it was a buzz kill really. Focus on the game, your girl isn't leaving your ass just because you MAY be having fun not trying to suck her innards …
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:37 AM
2

You are 30. Women will be turned off by the fact you still live with your parents. It sends signals such as 'childish' and 'not able to stand on own feet'. You don't NEED a car, but you do need your own place. It doesn't have to be grand or anything, but it's yours. You mention you have a job. Start browsing and applying for apartments you can afford, this would be the first move. Once you do that, your options to socialize and casually invite someone for a dinner, a drink, whatever is a lot eas…
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:44 PM
1

See cute girl irl, imagine 'swipe right awww yea' and assume she thinks you are at right worthy. Then approach and be like 'hey, I wanted to say I think you look great, and maybe you'd wanna grab a coffee some day?'. Or something..
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:02 AM
2

However, if she seems Down/unhappy, you should absolutely ask into the matter. Being that shoulder is also part of a relationship. Buy let's not forget folks, different people have different needs. Maybe this amazing girl you met simply has more drive than you and needs a guy who does a lot of stuff, if you are not this person your novelty will wear off. But at the same time there are laid back girls who wants someone to take it easy with. It's sort of hard to really tell before you have spent q…
/r/seduction22/07/14 12:01 PM
2

Its like seeing a cool bookcover. You want to open it so bad and read it, but then you do. And it's super boring. This is very rough, but first interest fades if she has little besides the initial to offer. You need to find a chick who doesn't eat out of your hands once interest has been established, one who can play the pull push game both ways.
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:56 AM
4

Even if she was your girlfriend, dont go around holding her hand at a party, its a fucking buzzkill.
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:33 AM
1

If anything you proved my point. Working out is good, the end.
/r/seduction22/06/14 04:42 AM
0

'Lifting' is not for everyone. Any sort of regular exercise is good. Be it martial arts, dancing, running. Sure lifting gives you the body girls want in men, but you shouldn't work out to get girls. That is piss poor motivation.
/r/seduction20/06/14 04:25 PM
3

I agree with you so bad. By far the majority of men and women in this world are good/great looking, or would be if they tried. Only a few are truly unlucky and downright ugly. If you are fat/skinny, work out, it does more to you than just increase your strength. Care what clothes you wear, and if you are blind to fashion like I am, ask female friends to help you shop, don't have any? Ask /r/fashion and go to recommended stores, have the clerk help you pick something out and wear the things he/sh…
/r/seduction20/06/14 02:14 PM
-1

What this guy said. Op is a moron.
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:10 PM
3

But read the situation. It's kinda rude to walk up and disturb someone working out, and you will go from hero to zero in her world pretty fast if you blend with the obnoxious curlbros thinking they are the shit.
/r/seduction12/06/14 12:44 PM
1

'Older men' is different from 'older'. Most girls I've met want an older guy, even if it's just a year. God forbid them finding a nice guy who is younger. Mind you, I'm dealing with late teens/early to mid twenties here.
/r/seduction09/06/14 12:16 AM
1

I see. Good thing I'm old enough to be that guy among the early 20s, too bad I have no success, yet.
/r/seduction09/06/14 12:00 AM
1

So, golddiggers?
/r/seduction08/06/14 11:30 PM
1

In general girls want older guys. That is my impression at least. It's stupid beyond belief in my opinion.
/r/seduction08/06/14 10:59 PM
4

Make a habit of 'friendly touching'. Be it friends, family or strangers you've spoken a bit with of course. You don't have to touch to flirt, it can be as simple as a hug to a friend or a good pat on the shoulder. Say, you chat up a cute girl, and you happen to be standing where people walk in say a bar or club setting, put a firm hand on her shoulder or waist with the pure intention of guiding her to the side. It's a different from grabbing a waist when dancing, because on the dance floor it's …
/r/seduction08/06/14 12:06 PM
2

Coupled with a mixture of neediness and desperation. Well, OP fuck her if you think she is hot, you more or less have her in your palm.
/r/seduction07/06/14 10:31 AM
2

Photoshopped pictures are fucking stupid. Photoshop won't change your face when she sees you. First impression should be one whee your face is visible, or at least have one available for public viewing in case she gets curious. Personally I would opt for face and then the surgical as second option to show you are indeed an interesting fella. Reminds me of girls who only show their face as an angle, and then you see them in real life, bam hambeast.
/r/seduction06/06/14 12:15 AM
1

Unlike you I'm dealing with an actual depression everyday, and not a moment of boohoo I dropped my icecream.
/r/seduction13/05/14 12:47 PM
3

It is indeed very clear that the dude in the video has no fucking idea what he is talking about. He is not a pathologist or doctor.
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:28 AM
14

What a mindblowingly retarded comment
/r/seduction07/05/14 07:01 PM
-1

You added him on Facebook without having even talked to him? What.. Are you 15? You do not prefer to talk to him on Facebook first. Human interaction beats this noface-anonymous-bullshit any day. Next time you see him, you walk up, say hi and do tell him you think he looks great/cute/adorable, and go from there. Eventually ask if he would like to go out for food/coffee/drugs/sex whatever, he says yes? That's great, now get a number so the two of you can arrange a date.
/r/seduction21/04/14 01:49 PM
5

It entirely depends on what you want to do. You can live very cheap if you want to. Figure out how long you want to travel, what countries, and so forth. There are a ton of sources around the internet that will lay out budget ideas. Research man.
/r/seduction17/04/14 02:52 PM
10

I want to add to this: Expect nothing. This is the mindset op wants, use all the tricks in the book left and right, but expect nothing. This way you wont be let down.
/r/seduction04/12/13 11:46 AM
1

Im curious, how old are you op?
/r/seduction19/10/13 09:51 PM
3

We are all going to make it bro, well done!
/r/seduction17/09/13 10:24 PM
26

Do both? I bet you a muscular guy will trumph a non muscular guy even if their confidences match, also, its healthy to work your body.
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:56 AM
2

Doesn't have to be family, nor need they be rich. I have only experienced it with two men. One was my teacher, ge wasn't rich or the likes, but he was very clever and rested in himself. I respect that man with every fiber in my body. My second time was a guy who had invested in the restaurant where I worked, he hated me, I hate him, but regardless, he has this presence and I can't help but admire it.
/r/seduction09/09/13 10:44 AM
5

I get the exact same feeling. Better learn what possible from them
/r/seduction08/09/13 08:59 PM
1

One thing that ticked me, was when her nose was itchy, shoot me if im wrong but that can be a sign that she is aroused..
/r/seduction08/09/13 01:59 PM
30

I want to add on nr 2. It is also very dominating, if you have this girl 1on1, it can be overwhelming. Ever talked to an elderly guy who has his shit together? They hold strong eye contact and it pretty much screams power.
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:30 PM
0

"why don't we do something about that?" he said with a smirk on his lip... The goofy smile puts the balls in her yard, and depending on her answer you can act on it.
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