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mental healthMacdui90/r/MensRights27/08/24 11:42 AM
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masculinityMacdui90/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/24 01:52 PM
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there are plenty of studies too about how ambivalent friendships cause shorter lives and negative cardiovascular results. You seem reasonable, kind, and patient. Trust your instincts and find more environments with people that match your values, like joining classes or groups or events where you could meet those people. I'm sorry to hear about your experience but there are a lot of amazing men and women in the world for you to be close with - don't shy away from exploring environments that might…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 12:45 PM
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I don’t think it glosses over that at all. I think it deal with it directly when he discusses that he didn’t “land in therapy” that he chose to go. That he felt shamed for feeling how he felt and that even if you need therapy just because LIFE then that’s a good enough reason. It’s a comedy special, not a 1000 page book or masters thesis. Let’s not be feminists who find it impossible to take a win because every good thing is not everything all at once. I think the answer to your very real concer…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/25 05:15 AM
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Female teaches non stop scolding boys in their youth for anything they think is misogyny and treating them like villains - I’m sure in 10-20yrs that won’t backfire on society at all!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/25 03:58 AM
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You also make this common error that the left has one narrative similar to the political right. The left is a gigantic umbrella of people and perspectives. Different religions, economic beliefs, and foreign policy POV. The right is more homogenous. If you move yourself to the right, it’s a choice to alienate yourself, it’s not “the left’s” fault.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 09:02 AM
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lol quoting Chavez. The right in America is for people who alienate themselves. It’s a choice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 08:54 AM
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The right is for a specific man. A man they can control, who acts like “a man should act”, a man who doesn’t speak up for himself, a man who puts his country before his self-respect or common sense, a man who believes he is above women, a man who is mainly for other men who look like him. I’m a hard left of that guy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/25 01:15 PM
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That twitter account is bonkers. She has some really strong points in some of her posts but generally she’s a man hating perpetual victim who frames all men as one specific man. And of course no accountability for any poor behavior from women. I’ve never seen someone so blind to reality before.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/25 01:07 PM
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i guess it would depend how you are defining "weak". Because a society doesn't need 100% warriors. There are different types of men, and all are needed. But I agree that we have to stop seeing masculinity as bad, generally. And that there are differences to embrace.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 02:06 PM
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You seem like someone who is exceptionally (A++) good at grammar, but terrible (F) at communication. The contextual understanding of the term "toxic masculinity" was never presented, anywhere, in the nuanced way in which you've described. Thankfully most people are moving away from using the term at all, but prior to that it was implied that masculinity was toxic to society and everyone. Context in language is more important than grammar/syntax. And to be clear, I think feminism has been an amaz…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 02:04 PM
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calling you an incel is absurd and it sounds like your colleagues also realize she's a nightmare. Clearly this woman was looking for fight to pick with a man. That said, if you're genuinely looking for allies in your network, then engaging in the gender war of "who suffers more?" is unlikely to find you any. While everything you said is fair game, I hate when women dismiss the real and present struggles of boys and men, so I try never to do that when I am trying to find allies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 12:48 PM
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she didn't say "all men" - she said "the men of reddit" and then explained exactly why. Yes, the word hate is a poor choice and is a sign of the communication of the times; but are you really that angry at women that you can't read her detailed experience and understand how shitty that must be? In this gender war, neither side is listening to the other. I'm sure both of us could name 100 example where this is done to men; where our suffering is ignored, and this is a perfect example from the oth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/24 10:13 AM
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hi! I didn't feel you were nitpicking at all. I really appreciate the time you took in considering and responding to my questions. Suggestions that I am really taking to heart. :) And yes, I only plan to ask men firstly to practice more empathy for themselves, and the secondly to practice it towards other men. I don't plan to go further than that. So when I said "others" I only meant other men. It appears you and I agree on that. Yes? The only thing I'd like to push back on is this: "I actually …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/24 10:07 AM
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I 100% agree that we have a massive bias against our own kind and it is the core of these topics. I'm currently trying to write a piece about calling men to have more empathy for other men. And I am having a tough time cracking the tone. Since you seem passionate about the topic, if you were to read a piece (or a chapter in a book) about asking men to have empathy both for others AND themselves; what would you like to see in that chapter?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 08:59 AM
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hi, yes sure! Your experiences growing up as male would be valuable. I would imagine you have a lot of the experiences I am asking about. :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 08:51 AM
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after reading the " i hate the men of Reddit the most" post, and I'd have a hard time not hating reddit men too if each time someone sent me a DM it was a dick pic or something sexual/sexist. I am all for defending men and the real problems we all face, but I'm not about to make a habit of defending men no matter what. Just as I appreciate when women can all out other women for unacceptable behaviour.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 01:39 PM
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"hell, everybody can have at least a handful of such experiences...." - and that is exactly the point. What does a lifetime of those gender enforcements do to a boy? What traits do those experiences incentivize and disincentive? Especially when its usually done by those closest to us - parents, siblings, friends, romantic partners. there are many many people who have already devoted their lives to questions like those and I think you'd find those books fascinating. So far, the only conclusions I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 09:17 PM
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Lots of assumptions happening in this comment but I appreciate you taking the time to engage, nonetheless. I'm not ignoring any of the biology. Do you believe that gender is strictly a biological construct? I would agree that biology is part of the equation but I don't think it's doing the heavy lifting. There are more than enough studies (and books!) on this topic, and honestly, we can all just look around and see the answer everywhere. Today's masculinity of 2024 isn't the same as 1980 or 1940…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 09:06 PM
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I'm sorry if you feel like you were abandoned. I think I can relate on some level but I'm not sure how you can claim that "no one is taught to be a man". Boys are taught how to be men by the boys they grow up with, how their caregivers behave, how people treat them for certain behaviours, and also what they see out in the world. Good and bad. I want to live in a world where boys and men don't feel abandoned. What do you think would help to create a world where less boys feel abandoned?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 12:11 PM
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You are really set on being the perpetual victim in every scenario here. I hope you can see that. That suicide lab is doing amazing work. But instead of seeing that some women are actively devoting their lives to helping men somehow that stat made you feel worse. I don't get it. i also don't agree with Reeves' red shirt policy. I think that's a terrible idea, but that's not the point. And yes, maybe he's not right about everything. BUT he is the one in the spotlight living his life helping men a…
/r/MensRights28/08/24 04:05 PM
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I imagine that believing nobody is interested in stopping your mistreatment would be a tough way to see the world. I think on one level, you're right. There are too many men and women blaming men for their problems, claiming that just being male is a toxic trait. That is wrong and it makes me angry when I see those people in action. I think men are also likely to perpetuate that idea that men don't need help they need to "get rich, get strong, and grow up". THAT is harmful bullshit. And on the o…
/r/MensRights28/08/24 02:47 PM
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i'm not sure where you got that as it's not at all what I was saying. I think we should be good to those who are good to us. It's dismissing real damage that's being done to men by society (women and men and institutions) when someone says "grow up!" to boys and men simply to dismiss them when they try to explain their pain to someone.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 05:56 PM
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I'd love to hear why what I wrote made you angry, mate. The post above mine, made it seem like men are all victims and that change is impossible. My response was to say that I believe if we all help each other and stand up for men's issues, we can make a lasting difference. What about that POV made you want to tell me to F-off?
/r/MensRights27/08/24 05:51 PM
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you're right! I just fixed it. Thanks for your feedback! :)
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:41 PM
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how do you think society changes? do you think all of a sudden tens of milions of people wake up and act differently? It is a gradual shift over time with people coming together to no longer accept mistreatment. Both from society and from each other. We have to dream, together, about a common future. Unlike with the feminist movement where it was objective, (no voting or property rights. No ability to work or own a credit card etc) so these were easily identifiable targets. For men, it is a litt…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:39 PM
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Though I can't agree with generalizing all women as harmful, just as I wouldn't agree with women doing so to men, I partially agree with you. Those who believe in traditional masculine values will treat boys like they need to grow up "hard" to exist in the world. But through my research for the book so far, this approach makes boys/men much less emotionally adaptable (more violent, isolated, sad), and makes forming deep and lasting connections more challenging. IMO - It is up to us to first acce…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:12 PM
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There's a study where people observe an a-sexual looking infant and are told it is a boy or a girl. Those who thought it was a girl treated its cries as hurt, scared, vulnerable, etc., whereas when they were told it was a boy said it was "angry, aggressive., etc" For further proof, just ask anyone with kids how differently they treat their kids by gender. Even very open minded and progressive parents will do this from instinct as "boys need to be tough!" so we treat them with distance and harshn…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/24 11:02 AM
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no they don't. listen to the podcast
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 07:00 PM
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https://open.spotify.com/episode/3D96sSDXyBvV0UxEyIu41e?si=513dde9aefd84b0d
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 06:58 PM
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