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| 4 | 20 truths about seducing women that transform ordinary men into magnetic menFor 9, befriending a woman has a low success rate if your intentions are to hook up or date romantically. So if a woman that you want to date wants to be friends, you probably shouldn’t accept that offer. Doesn’t mean be her enemy just don’t be friends with her | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:18 AM |
| 2 | 20 truths about seducing women that transform ordinary men into magnetic menBefriending a woman has a low success rate if your intentions are to hook up or date romantically. So if a woman that you want to date wants to be friends, you probably shouldn’t accept that offer. Doesn’t mean be her enemy just don’t be friends with her | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:15 AM |
| 3 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itIronically he kind of had a romantic walk on the beach one of the nights 😂 | /r/seduction | 29/08/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?I commend you for the effort you’ve put in. With all that experience, you have room to experiment right? Try some different things and see if you can build some momentum. And along the way, I imagine that you’re increasing your dating knowledge, your fitness and your financial status. Maybe take a break from trying and focus on yourself and come back to it later. Remember that being with a woman is not the end goal. You fulfilling your purpose/path is the goal; having a woman to share it with is… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?Less than 100? Holy shit. I understand your logic in terms of reducing your possibilities, but if you really believe you have less than 100 possibilities to find a partner then you have a scarcity mindset, plain and simple. You just answered your own question on how to have an abundance mindset. You never had one to begin with | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?Totally. It’s clear this dude isn’t actually looking for advice and just wants a pity party thrown for him | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?I’m not sure what in my response was supposed to be funny. I’m also not sure why you’re talking to me about studying or grades. I’m talking about applying to jobs or to college. It’s an analogy for dating a woman. It’s an audition. And what you just said to me about human interaction…isn’t that a good thing? That many people like many different things? Meaning that theoretically anyone has a chance if there are so many different kinds of women? You don’t have to fit one specific personality to c… | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?Let me frame it a little differently. You’ve been rejected by how many women? 100 in your lifetime? Probably less. And how many women are in your city? Your state? Your country? The world? You have to have the belief in yourself that you’re a good partner even if the results don’t show it. You just have to. If you don’t believe it no one else will. So you have that belief. You’re talking to a woman and things don’t work out. Your abundance mentality then kicks in. There will be another. The worl… | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:39 PM |
| 45 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.This is why the beginning stages are so important and establishing yourself as a sexual prospect from the get go | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:38 AM |
| 36 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?Do not have that chat, you move on. If you were getting back to her every 4-5 days, now she’s doing the same to you, what’s the problem? | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 40 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesI’m around the same height and I didn’t even know I was “short” until these past 2-3 years when it’s become so heavily emphasized on social media. It’s almost like I just had blissful ignorance so I was never self conscious about it, I never made it a self imposed limit, and I never let it stop me from having moderate success throughout my dating life. Be blissfully ignorant my dudes. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | 'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye''“You looked a lot prettier when I was over there with my friends” | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Began dating good looking girl, struggling with jealousy.I thought you guys were exclusive? | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Began dating good looking girl, struggling with jealousy.This one kind of bothered me a bit. I don’t get too bothered by guys talking to my girl, but I think I would have an issue with my girl accepting a ride home from a guy that’s interested in her. And I think the scared of confrontation thing is a pretty weak excuse. “I have a boyfriend” is an easy, non confrontational way out of those situations. I think you’re handling the situation well though. Just wanted to share my thoughts. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 05:16 AM |
| 3 | How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend?This is the thing everyone else missed. Even if you get your life together, a woman will still end things with you if you “want something more serious than she does.” You need to take things much more slowly. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 01:57 AM |
| 4 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?So if you accept that men and women are different, you as a man cannot try to figure out why a woman did something using your own logic/rationale. You have to learn how women think and then the things they do start making sense | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:13 AM |
| 12 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?Once I learned to stop viewing women’s actions through my own lens, a lot of things started clicking | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching girls even worth it?Don’t regret not asking that girl to come in too much. It happens to so many guys. Forgive yourself but don’t forget so you can learn from it | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Hotter Girls at Clubs and Bars Will NOT give you signals even when they are interestedGeneralizing like crazy. Congrats on your perfect forehead though 😆 | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?So is height apparently. I’m under 6 feet and I do fine. If you want to improve your jaw, that’s fine, but caring so much about it is fucking with your confidence, which is #1 | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?So if you’re not having an issue attracting people, it’s probably a personality issue, yet you’re hyper focusing on your aesthetic | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?You didn’t address the points that actually matter. I bet just the act of no longer giving a shit about your jawline would help you succeed more. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 21 | If you flirt with enough sexy girls eventually one is going to like youI like you way better based on our 10 second conversation 😆 | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Attempted to flirt with girl at amusement park, friends started teasing me, so I got shy and stopped.Good to have these kind of responses at your disposal, could have easily been her friends hating on OP too | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:43 PM |
| 4 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?I’m still but a novice in the topic but perhaps the lady can answer if she so desires | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 09:05 PM |
| 9 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?Probably not too different from period poops | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Does continual rejection increase confidence or kill it?Learned the mind set through many heart breaks and a lot of reading. You’ll get there too | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Does continual rejection increase confidence or kill it?“I got a decent face, a nice body nearing six-packs abs, a nice career, in-depth knowledge about most topics, and a money-making hobby.” Believe this to your core, no matter what the world is telling you. I have like…1 out of 5 of these. 😂 But I absolutely will not let a handful of women who’ve rejected me dictate my self worth, not when there’s hundreds more that might disagree with them | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Does continual rejection increase confidence or kill it?You stay dedicated to your process and your path. Letting this one girls rejection put a dent in your self worth is being way too reliant on external validation. This girl could be a racist or have a giant bush under those panties. When did this chick become the end all be all determination of who is worthy? The person who decides that is you. The outcome doesn’t matter, keep approaching. Keep doing what you’re doing. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I was told by two girls that I give off "vanilla vibes", what should I do about this?I think you’re being fetishized based on your race and your look by women who sound like they aren’t really in your league anyways. They call you vanilla because you aren’t matching up to the expectations they were placing on you when they approached you. I don’t think you need to change anything in terms of who you are. You can definitely find a woman just as structured and successful as you; keep being you. I think the only thing I would consider changing if you aren’t doing it already is usin… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”?The last girl I was with long term was crazy hot and successful but still had self esteem issues. You don’t need to be deciding whose league you’re in | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotYeah the rich versus kids thing isn’t the best analogy. All your points are valid. But I still think having a time is ticking mindset when trying to get with women is really shooting yourself in the foot | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotYou’re right, I haven’t. Maybe it’s not as good as being a young dad, fine. But that doesn’t mean it’s too late. It’s like, yeah being rich when you’re young would be great right. But if someone told you you’d be rich at 50 years old, would you turn it down? Even if that example doesn’t resonate with you, people are raised by grandparents all the time | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotCouldn’t disagree more about a window closing or it being too late. Even if he wants a family, fertility clinics exist | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 01:57 PM |
| 13 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotCan I just add that you have to try to lose the idea that you’re on a clock or running out of time. If anything, you have the fortune of women being into older guys and if you casually hook up with someone, she doesn’t have to know you’re a virgin. But on top of all that, the desperation you’ll have from thinking each and every opportunity is incredibly significant is going to drive away women so fast. It’s a scarce mentality | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]this statement demonstrates that you aren’t as confident as you think you are | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 12:47 AM |
| 0 | It only takes 1.4 seconds to dry a pussyThis was helpful for me as someone just starting out, thanks for the write up. CF = ? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/19 10:08 PM |
| 5 | "I'm not going to just have sex with you. You have to give me a reason."It took me a little bit to come up with my response to this. Reading posts on here and trying to come up with responses to what the girls are saying in the stories is a good way to practice. There are a fuckton of resources on shit tests. In the side bar to this subreddit probably. I personally like how Todd V explains shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 07:21 PM |
| 34 | "I'm not going to just have sex with you. You have to give me a reason."Pretty new to all this, but I'm calling shit test on this one. You responded to it with logic "we both want to." Logic never works. An agree and exaggerate response to this might be: "Yeah, I'm with you. I always need a reason to go to an amusement park, to travel somewhere cool, to eat really delicious food, etc" In other words, shes saying some silly shit because why do you need a reason to do something fun. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 07:01 PM |
| 5 | One is next to Zero, or how to create AbundanceThis below average spirit/energy thing is a self imposed limit. Stop believing that some mystical force is the cause of your issues. You can turn this shit around | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 11:56 PM |
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