TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Machopsdontcry Archive

View 0 posts and 153 comments by Machopsdontcry on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

It's the woke generation where facts do not matter anymore. Some "sports" men and women can play vs one another. For example darts or snooker. Even F1 you could make an argument for it though it does take a lot of energy out of the drivers bodies so probably a disadvantage for women.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:16 AM
5

All physical sports should be divided in 3: Male Female Transgender And no, a biological male identifying as female does not get to perform with biological females.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:02 AM
4

Would a male get 30months too，or much worse than that?
/r/MensRights22/05/20 10:43 AM
30

Female teacher sleeps with male student: "aha what a lucky lad" Male teacher sleeps with female student: "Lock him up creep"
/r/MensRights30/03/20 09:43 AM
14

The problem isn't necessarily the age，it's mainly that a male teacher would never get away with something like this. Double standards pure and simple
/r/MensRights19/06/19 02:25 PM
3

The prettier they are the more boring they are in ny experience. If you are looking for a fling then you have to speak to her. Give it a go but don't take things too seriously.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:29 AM
8

Tldr People want what they don't have. So a super shy chubby would love to have a chanve with a popular lad. On the other hand a seemingly perfectlt looking person could find somebody elses non-perfectness highly attractive
/r/seduction01/11/18 08:48 AM
5

Too many messages imo，she asks you to meet her just ask for a time.and that's it no messages after that. Also being a backup happens way more often than you think，just ignore ot and the best way to not be affected by it is by meeting different people as well
/r/seduction01/11/18 08:46 AM
3

I didn't tell her to post on ther but rather to look at what people have said in the past
/r/seduction30/10/18 11:30 AM
-5

Not a female but I'd just type seduce/flirt/etc on the Askwomen subreddit
/r/seduction30/10/18 08:46 AM
2

There's nothing tk change here，just find the time to meet her in person or else find a girl that lives near you
/r/seduction30/10/18 08:45 AM
1

It's not like you're cheating on them so I wouldn't feel guilty. In fact you will be much more at ease if you are on a date with a girl knowing that you have another one the next day regardless of what happens.
/r/seduction30/10/18 08:45 AM
1

All you can do is give it your best shot and hopefully things will work out
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:00 PM
3

TLDR Try and gradually cut down on the porn(impossible to go from always to never) so try and reduce it by x hours per week depending on how much. If you care so much about being a virgin then just get it over with imo. With you being overweight it's gonna be harder for you to get a gf in the near future. Get a piece of paper and write down 3 targets you have to complete for the end of this year. Example: A maximum of 2 hours of porn per week/Lose x amount of weight by New Year's Eve/eat x amoun…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:47 PM
1

Yeah I like it just make sure you keep your phone on you this time
/r/askTRP27/08/17 11:46 AM
1

Tbh when she asked for your number you didn't really respond in a super "I'm interested" kind of way. Also you're right that it's more of a turn off for the girl if she has to do all the work. If she doesn't text/call in the meantime, just invite her out next time you meet her. Also did you really not have your phone or did you just freak out or something? I mean most people have their phones on them 24/7 so it's hard to believe
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:59 AM
1

Plan for tomorrow night say you are going there on business and could meet her after work(make up some shit whatver you're trying to experiment remember). Experiment as in practice your text game and see what works/doesn't work
/r/askTRP23/08/17 09:04 AM
1

Try and arrange a meet up if you both live in the same area. If not it could be more tricky but you can always use this opportunity to experiment a little bit
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:50 AM
1

You don't know until you put yourself in that situation. If I were you I'd go and if the worst case scenario happens so be it I'm sure you can find a way around some of these potential issues
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:34 AM
1

Go there try and "perform" if it fails put it down to nerves etc. I don't know how much experience you have but if not much then all that jerking off could have given you some issues. If you realise this at least bring some backup plans(viagra) as a backup(mentally could help calm you down too so consider it)
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:26 AM
12

Wrong time, wrong move, wrong people. Fair play for trying your luck but next time try and gauge the situation first. Also it could come across as slightly creepy if you just pop in there and immediately chat about their topic/conversation.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:24 AM
2

She'd make an awesome LTR in your head only. Having been with several Asians myself I can assure you they are not what they make themselves out to be. Anyway whether you work in the same department or not matters not，you definitely don't need to be wasting your time fantasising about what ifs. Focus on your work and pursue other girls during your free time
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:23 PM
5

It's legal but you'll quickly be known as a freak in your neighborhood. You must know some single 20+ year olds？Chase one of them instead
/r/askTRP20/08/17 03:25 PM
8

They want to bring you down and see how you react to criticism. Ignore and move the topic on to something different. As for the work girl then be careful as work is not the place to show off, just do your job and never act like you're Mr I know it all(not saying you do just be careful)
/r/askTRP19/08/17 05:14 AM
1

You need to accept that everybody has opinions on you and that everybody has a different idea of what being a man means. If he thinks he's stronger than you but you deep down know that isn't the case then so what just let him enjoy those thoughts while you keep attempting to reach the goals you have set yourself. Imo you can try and subtly hint that he could improve his fitness/looks or whatever, but in my experience it's not worth risking a long-term friendship by trying to turn them into somet…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 05:01 AM
2

Don't overthink it, if you wanna plan a date now then do it now, just make sure it's mainly on your terms and save the chit chat for when you actually meet up. The longer you wait the more mind games the girl is likely to throw your way. If you want things to be direct and simple, then sure her by acting right away. Of course this doesn't mean you won't have any shit tests/mind games as that's bound to happen, but at least show through your actions what kind of person you are and how you want th…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:45 AM
10

I think you'll find many of your friends are only friends with you as they consider themselves "stronger/more alpha" than you. That's why real friends are so hard to find as most of them will drop you when they realise they are falling behind etc. Most people are competitive and don't want to feel inferior whether they're your friends or not
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:42 AM
3

In that case it comes down to your friendship with that guy. If you aren't very close then ignore it and don't get involved with them unless you absolutely have to. If he's a close friend then consider whether you'd want him to tell you that he suspected your gf of cheating on you if the situation was reversed. It's difficult without undeniable proof but again it comes down to what you want to do.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:55 AM
5

Could be a note you'd type on word and print just fold it and put it somewhere where he will find it. Of course depending on the friendship/situation it could be more difficult than it sounds. But if they are good friends he will have a chance of leaving a note(letterbox or whatever) without the friend immediately assuming it is him that sent it
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:39 AM
1

If you think this girl will cause you drama in the future I'd advise you to forget about her and move on. If it really is a case of her being in pain and that you think it could work then do what you want. Me personally I have never slept with somebody in a relationship but whatever floats your boat I guess
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:26 AM
5

"you hurt me"= Please say I'm the victim here, I'm innocent, no way would I ever cheat on my bf, you are to blame for what happened. Ignore and if she starts accusing you of something serious then at least you have some proof that she willingly wanted you.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:12 AM
4

Stop trying to look tougher than them. Simply be cordial and show that you're not into playing the "who's the macho around here" kind of game. Anyway the only way you're going to get more comfortable is by actively putting yourself in situations where you'll be confronted with this kind of feeling. Experience is key here once people notice that you are totally in control of your emotions, they'll leave you alone as you look like you belong there
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:05 AM
19

If you are really concerned about this then just leave an anonymous message for your friend to find and say: Keep an eye out on your girlfriend, I think she's hooking up with Dave. After that move on it's none of your business and all you'll end up doing is causing problems for yourself. Simply hint to your friend that he should keep an eye out on his gf+ Dave and then keep out of it all. If he decides to act on it then great if not then let him deal with it don't try to be the hero or try to do…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 09:52 AM
2

1) Usually you get an idea via body language and whatnot but if you struggle with that then always assume that you are welcome. 2) Be interesting, be yourself. Obviously the first time you meet people you can't be 100% crazy like you'd be with old friends etc. 3) By doing activities, via your hobbies, join a sports club etc
/r/askTRP16/08/17 06:06 AM
3

You said you have Japanese scotch at home right? Should be super easy for you to invite her over and escalate from there. Meet me at "whatever time"= you are giving her all the decision-making when in reality you should be deciding this shit. Message her: Place, time, outfit(say you liked what she was wearing last time) and wait for her response
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:36 AM
1

Tit for tat my friend. Next time invite another one of the girls you are seeing and see how she reacts. The alternative of course is just to act like you don't care and move on. You have many options available to you so I don't think you should worry too much if you end up losing this girl. If you feel like she's doing too much annoying shit just drop her so you no longer waste time feeding into her blablabla gossip.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 08:03 AM
2

You're leaving in one month. In the future don't get attached to coworkers and in the meantime focus on your work/moving/studies whatever. Before you know it you'll be wondering why you were so emotional about this particular girl
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:51 AM
1

No probs
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:53 AM
1

Perhaps you haven't yet discovered the things that will make you even happier than that? At your age it's probably best to experiment as much as possible and get a good idea as to what floats your boat so to speak
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:48 AM
2

For her it's a way of saying "I've liked your stuff, the ball is in your court now please contact me". They are all the same, if a girl rejects you for example I highly doubt she'd be commenting/liking your shit. If she likes it there's still a chance in my experience
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:45 AM
3

Advice: You can't force yourself to be somebody who you aren't. Especially personality wise if you don't feel the need to constantly be around people then so be it, it's something you need to be comfortable with. What you can change is your addictions(good start on that front), your social status(work experience etc) and obviously your physique(work out= better appearance= more attention). It all sounds easy when I put it this way but obviously if it was then nearly everybody would be in top sha…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:24 AM
3

What I mean is if your social media is empty they will be forced to message you instead
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:19 AM
3

By constantly posting on social media you are giving them an easy way out to get you thinking about them. You should drop somebody when they no longer provide you with what you are after. That goes for anything in life tbh be it friends, sexual partners or whatever. If you feel the time is right then it probably is
/r/askTRP12/08/17 04:02 AM
2

It all depends what you are looking for tbh. If you don't care if things work out then you can be a bit more aggressive so if that's the case don't ghost her just hit her up one more time when she gets back to you and if she comes up with another excuse delete and move on
/r/askTRP12/08/17 03:59 AM
4

You have several options available: ingore，wait for her to message again and again，"k"，"cool"，etc.. Me personally I'd give her one more chance for that night and if flakes again then it's time to move on
/r/askTRP12/08/17 02:39 AM
3

The key is to distance yourself from this kind of chat as much as possible(especially at your workplace). If you know for a fact that the views you and your friends share would not go down well with your coworkers then simply don't bring them up. Act aloof, if they ask you for facts say you still need to properly look it up/research but always imply that you can see their point(even if you don't). In conclusion the less info you give the better. "I can definitely see why you say/think that, I wi…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:37 AM
8

Why did you put so much effort in preparing food for people who couldn't give a damn about you？ In that kind of situation as soon as you felt unwelcome you should have just left the house imo. It's always good to try and get a conversation going but the reality is it doesn't always work like that. Next time leave them to it and go and do something productive for you
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:04 AM
2

Your situation is pretty common tbh as with a degree it is expected of you toget a well-earning job right off the bat. Obviously it's not as easy as that an yes the current job market sucks. Imo any.change in career will se you start at the bottom again but for somebody like you I'd recommend sales or recruitment. Why？Because at least that way you have the chance to reach the salary you are after. Anyway find out what your passion is，what you are good at，apply for some jobs，attend some assessmen…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:02 AM
1

You feel like your life is nesr the game over stage？Find a hostel，tomorrow morning get washed，dress smartly an go and apply for some jobs. If your situation is.what I imagine it to be then take things one day at a time but don't worry in the end it will work out
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:59 AM
3

Perfect answer and based on her dating history I wouldn't get too caught up with this nonsense. So much drama laying ahead that you'd be better off without
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:40 AM
2

First of all try and get as much proof as you can of her threatening you(recordings, texts, etc). Next grow a pair kick her out and see what happens. You know her better than all of us has she always been like this or is it a recent thing only?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:10 AM
2

Are you able to move out of the house and support yourself financially? If yes then go ahead and don't board the flight, if they get seriously angry with you, pack your bags the day before they come back and avoid the majority of the drama
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:06 AM
3

Most of the time you should trust your gut instinct and if you're unsure then be as direct as possible with a girl so you're not wasting too much time and energy on somebody who will never give youwhat you want
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:09 AM
4

Laugh and say thanks for the compliment but I wish I looked as young as you do. Then move the topic on to something you wanna talk about
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:08 AM
5

What have you got to lose? If bored one night invite her round/out with time/location and possibly dress only in your message
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:59 AM
1

The risk is low but be as prepared as you can if somebody accuses you of something. Don't delete any messages etc which could help defend your ass if you are faulsly accused
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:27 AM
1

It's not so bitter imo as if you're around the same person for a long time eventually you will also disappoint them. You just need to exect the worst and that way you will never truly get hurt.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 09:02 AM
11

You did nothing wrong in telling her about the unfortunate situation that happened to your friend. What you really need to accept is that eventually the girl would have done something which would make you not paint her in such an amazing light anymore. Don't go on with your life believing that she was the one and that no other girl will ever match up to her. Perfect doesn't exist and just be glad with the learning/life experience you had and that things ended on a happy note.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:20 AM
10

Nope if you bring your friend along it sends a signal to the girl that you either aren't brave enough to go alone or that you are looking to be friends. Take her wherever you want but keep money in mind if that's something that worries you.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:17 AM
0

You're already going in with a negative mindset which girls will immediately pick up on. I don't personally have that problem but I think every guy can safely attest that there is at least one part of their body that they aren't comfortable with. My advice would be to keep calm, if she mentions something about it make a joke and move on. Show that it's nothing serious to you and if for some reason she decides she doesn't wanna sleep with you just for that reason then have some self-respect kick …
/r/askTRP06/08/17 12:56 PM
0

Drop them both and move on
/r/askTRP06/08/17 10:48 AM
1

Approach foreigners，problem solved
/r/askTRP06/08/17 10:46 AM
1

If a girl asks you this: Kiss, snog, flirt, etc followed by ;) ;)
/r/askTRP05/08/17 03:56 PM
4

You have a chance but you need to stop worrying about what she thinks of other guys. As you know a regular guy's girlfriend is obviously gonna be super interested in any old celeb who shows interest in her. You've got to ignore it and take a chance while you still have one. As for whether she's into you now well it's tough to say. Her asking if you live alone shows she has something on her mind but again that could be her way of making small talk. Just take a chance, ask her out 1 on 1 and gauge…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 03:41 PM
2

You've got to start from somewhere. Tbh this isn't all about approaching girls. If you aren't comfortable around strangers/other people then I'd highly advise you to join some societies or something to get used to having to "act" so to speak. There is no way= defeatist! There is always a way to get what you're after, you just need to work towards it
/r/askTRP05/08/17 03:37 PM
2

You have to pick the right moment like you said IOIs or not a lot depends on age/location and time. The best way for you to learn is through trial and error. Don't come off as insecure/a creep, act confident and be prepared to move things forward if your conversation goes well and at the same time to bail out if you feel things are getting awkward.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 03:31 PM
4

PS: Change your username! You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and try and keep a positive mindset whenever you can. Logging on to Reddit and typing that nonsense isn't going to help you one bit in that regard
/r/askTRP05/08/17 03:29 PM
5

Anything is salvageable but you have to be realistic with what you can achieve in the short term. Try not to be too harsh on yourself, everybody has regrets in life and you can't base everything on how successful you have or haven't been with women. You will never get the past 26 years of your life back, but whatever even if you haven't acheived much you still have experiences to draw from. If I were you I would set immediate goals for the rest of this year, and moving on look to give yourself a…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 03:28 PM
5

It'd a shit test! Of course she will come down and sleep with you in the basement if you play your cards right. Who knows i her family will be there or not，don't assume too much an whatever happens learn to adapt to get what you want. Good luck
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:35 AM
1

After 30 years or marriage where do you want her to go？Tbh I think there comes a point where you have nothing to really worry about. But for the first 5/10 years then sure.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:42 PM
5

Good start imo but don't be too accessible right now. Wait for her to come back first and plan a more exciting date. By reading your post it is clear you are realy into this particular woman. However right now you are have only been on a single date. Don't get too attached until you've actually slept with her. Even then it's best not to expect too much as you will ultimately end up being disappointed. Keep up the good work and plan for your next meeting
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:40 PM
1

The reality is everybody is different and that's the beauty of the game so to speak. I believe that you simply need to be yourself and eventually you will find somebody who will either be like you or who will learn to be like the person you are looking for
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:16 AM
1

You can't let a sudden change in your change your confidence/how you interact with people，etc.. Learn to accept who you are and eventually you will get the results you are looking for
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:15 AM
3

Learn fron your mistakes. You said it's only been 6 months that you've tried turning things around but don't use that as an excuse.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:54 AM
3

As soon as you got back you should have started making out with her. I think you played it too safe and she either lost interest or didn't know what to think anymore. Like you said it seemed like you got the hardest part oit of the way but then failed to pull the trigger so to speak？Also don't just ask her if she wants to go to the bedroom you basically hold her hand and take her in. Try and be more sexual next time imo
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:46 AM
1

You could leave an anonymous message I guess. The best thing to do would be to assess the risks/rewards ratio. Sometimes it's best to let things slide and eventually somebody will address the issue
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:59 AM
1

1) Be cordial but only chat if she talks to you first. Focus on your job and keep busy. 2) IDGAF attitude. You don't need to befriend anybody but at the same time you don't need to treat them like enemies. Once again just act indifferent and move your attention to somebody/something else. 3) You already lost your frame with this particular girl. The key is to set boundaries in a kind of sneaky way and never losing control of your temper so that's something you need to work on. 4) She wants to kn…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 12:44 PM
1

Just find some good hobbies, evening classes, weekend sports whatever and you're bound to make some friends which will help everything fall into place.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 12:38 PM
1

Just ignore it she will answer you when she's ready and whatever you do don't bring up the fact she took a long time in replying to your initial message. In hindsight you probably should have waited until after your mini trip before deciding to officially be in a relationship with her. In any case don't let this distract you from your holiday and if she doesn't contact you whatsoever just wait till you're back home to call her or something
/r/askTRP02/08/17 12:37 PM
2

You're obviously not her priority at this stage，by the sounds of it not even second or third choice. By implying your available everyday it sends a message to her that you are desperate to meet her. This could still lead to something but only if you wait for her to contact you. When/if she does say you are going somewhere and invite her to tag along. In the meantime learn from your mistakes and attempt to find more girls to meet up with. The more you have the less needy you will look and the bet…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:16 PM
2

So what's the change you are talking about?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:58 AM
2

How old are you and what's stopping you from chatting some up? Stage fright, bad appearance, no conversation skills?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:53 AM
2

Change compared to sleeping with a girlfriend/plate? Her job is to sleep with people so it's only natural she was very effective in making you orgasm as hard as possible. In any case you gotta do what you gotta do whatever floats your boat,if you enjoyed it so much then don't hesitate in going back. Again I don't know your history etc if you have the choice then I'd always recommend sleeping with regular girls but it's your life you do what you want!
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:46 AM
1

I agree but at least they were given the chance to do such a thing.Now even if you jointhe war on terror you don't nearly as much admiration from the general public
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:30 AM
5

All this greatest generation nonsense. Not saying that we shouldn't be grateful for what they did but tbh many people struggling in today's world would probably like to have been able to prove themselves in this kind of situation. I know wars are ugly etc but like other posters said I'm confident most people would learn to adapt like our ancestors did
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:24 AM
8

You gave her too much info，saying yes is fine but you had no reason to mention the unstable part. You'd have been better off answering in a stupid way like "yeah it's her 80th birthday today" or some shit.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:22 AM
1

Yeah time to move on if in the same city then ask to work there on weekends or something
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:04 AM
1

Sounds like the situation ain't gonna improve. If she really has so much power that she can get you fired then I recommend either asking if you can relocate in some kind of way or simply start having some gigs lined up in case things go tits up
/r/askTRP12/07/17 01:37 PM
1

Tbh depending on your relationship a demote may or may not work. I guess before actively demoting her you could try and set some boundaries and see if she respects them. The more I think about it the more I think you should be prepared to completely lose her. If she agrees to hook up with you every now and then then good for you, but usually girls know what's going on so demoting a LTR can be a very tricky process. 1st try setting some boundaries and if you don't feel like it then do what you wa…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 06:50 AM
3

Only go back if you don't have other options at the moment. IF you do, then there's not much point as you'll just go round in circles and this time the whole relationship-like talk will occur twice as fast. So either ask her to hang out or make it clear you two can't be in a relationship and see if her stance has changed since last time you were together
/r/askTRP30/06/17 04:50 AM
1

If she puts them on as you are approaching her then correct there's no need to bother. If she already has them on then it's still game on imo. Then again I do agree that sometimes I will put my headphones on as I don't want to be disturbed(particularly when living abroad), ie don't want to hear people talking about you etc. Either way if you approach her it's extremely unlikely she won't take her headphones out, just don't be a creep!
/r/askTRP30/06/17 04:47 AM
1

You wanna know the easiest way to move on? Imagine her sucking some other guy off or something. Done now forget about her and find somebody who will see you as their first choice
/r/askTRP30/06/17 04:37 AM
8

She won't be sleeping with you. I say let her invite her friends(girls hopefully) and either try and get with one of them or maybe she can be your wingwoman or sorts. Whatever you do forget about sleeping with this girl as it's very unlikely it will happen, just use the situation you find yourself in to your advantage
/r/askTRP30/06/17 04:35 AM
1

Proceed with caution especially if all you have is a verbal agreement. All it takes is for you and the girl to fall out and you could find yourself in trouble. I guess it all comes down to whether you'll upload it online or not. If you just keep it for yourself then there will be no problems but the second the vid is on the internet is when you risk things turning sour.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 04:33 AM
1

Good on you as long as you are prepared for all outcomes then who cares what happens right?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 10:18 AM
2

I think you could start to consider demoting her from LTR to something just before that. Btw this could be her way of making things up to you(ie scared she is losing your interest) I dunno. All I can say is that the only person you can trust 100% is yourself. It was an industry meeting you say? Sure that probably was the case but you will never know for sure and based on the flirting from him to her she must have given him some signs that he had some kind of chance imo. But once again I wasn't t…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 10:17 AM
2

Well that depends on what your goal is. If you're only looking to bang and that's it then I'd say just do what you want. If on the other hand you are after a relationshio then best to ignore everything until she actively messages you. Lookin for a plate then take a chance and eee where it goes，looking for ltr experience then keep doing wgat you are currently doing
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:24 AM
1

Agreed plus your novelty is fast decreasing anyway. As soon as another new member jumps onboard chances are you'll largely be left alone. Keep things cordial and try to use those around you to get a good reputation/promoted/more money etc
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:12 AM
1

Bring condoms，have a place to bang already in your mind. Visualise the night ahead and most importantly have fun. Learn and experiment，there's bound to be a girl or two who you are already interested in？Don't only chase after them talk with most people keep it flirty and when the moment's right go for the kill
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:09 AM
1

Not lying per say it just shows that you are treating their BS questions with your own BS. By doing this it shows them you don't care to go into detail about this stuff and the more they push you for answers the more BS you will come out with. Eventually they will ask you things you are happy to talk about and at that stage you will be able to chat as normal again
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:07 AM
1

Trust me if there's one thing she isn't it's naive. Everything she does either conciously or not has a meaning. By flirting with other guys(in front of you even) she's trying to get you to lose frame， see how far she can take it before you say enough is enough，showing you she can get who she wants，making the other guy see that you are a beta and tempt him into chasing her/enter her orbit. All of those are true，but really she's comoletely disrespecting you，is leaving you with no chance to ever tr…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:04 AM
1

Dude whatever your age is(especially now) there will always be HB7/8/9 for you to find. Based on your post it still seems like you are unsure as to which race you would ideally like to LTR/marry. As you already know if you have the yellow fever then finding a sexy Asian girl is gonna be super easy. Obviously hitting the wall is different in Asia as most women really take care of their bodies and if you are into them you can easily find HB7s wherever you want. Ultimately this all comes down to wh…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:58 AM
1

The ball is in her court if she really wants to hang out she will PM you. In the meantime keep going about your own business and keep looking to game other girls
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:51 AM
1

Call her and talk. First find out if she's still going to nag you over that failed shit test if not make plans for meeting up (do what you normally do). Also good on you for finding other things to do with tour time if things go badly，only meet up with her if she's turned a page regarding what's just happened.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:39 AM
2

Thanks dude and happy somebody came to the same conclusion that I did. Some people need to go through it all for it to completely be over. Obviously if his post was short and to the point I'd tell him he knows what he should do just move on etc，but based on the length it's clear deep down he still needs to go back for a little while longer.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:35 AM
2

Everybody has problems dude you've got to look out for yourself first and foremost. Sure be a good partner if you can but from now make sure the only thing you reward is good behaviour. This girl has treated you in a way that makes you believe you aren't that important for her，so let whoever she values over you deal with her so-called difficulties. No problem and good luck
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:33 AM
1

That was a big mistake imo because now she knows that you don't consider her to be your best option. Once you've lost the frame it's extremely hard to get it back. Imo move on without her an next time just keep it to yourself if you really feel that's the case. Also why would you even want to stay with sb who makes you feel like that in the first place？
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:21 AM
3

It definitely feels like things are coming to an end. Ultimately the decision lies solely in your hands. Whatever you choose to do make sure you do it wholeheartedly. Weigh up all the pros and cons and choose whichever feels best to you
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:01 AM
1

Imo you gotta focus on the rewards that doing such a thing would give you. As to books an or methods I don't have a scooby but you're bound to find something by searching on the red pill subreddit
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:01 AM
1

Exactly save all this holiday chat for when you.next meet up
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:00 AM
1

Exactly just go with the flow and things will work out. Ok I got your age wrong but it'd whatever we all have to start from somewhere but obviously the longer yoh leave it the more difficult things will become
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:59 AM
1

What I'm saying is there could be all sorts of reasons it didn't work out. Most likely is that another guy managed to get her(probably in a direct fashion in person，think bar or sthg similar). Not necessarily ask to smash but make it clear you want to smash(sexual jokes etc). Either way don't worry too much every girl will react differently ro your method so just find different targets
/r/askTRP26/06/17 05:25 AM
1

Do what you love to do，find other people with similar tastes in music/sport/etc and take it fron there
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:42 AM
1

I think the main thing to keep in mind is that there are always going to be doubts as to whether or not your partner is the one you should have kids with. Depending on your age I'd say go for it or hold out a little longer. Obviously the more you put it on the backburner the more pressure you will put on yourself and the more you'll be comparing your partners/decisions.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:41 AM
1

She got bored of the game(assuming she's attractibe so she's seen it all before) or most likely she went with a guy who was more direct. Live and learn(sonic adventure 2 battle) and move on to the next girl
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:38 AM
2

Personally no but I accept that everybody is different. If being a virgin is really playing on your mind then just get drunk and get it over with imo. If it's not big deal then wait for a girl you actually want to sleep with
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:37 AM
2

Based on your post I'm guessing you are in your early 20s，experience is key at your stage so go for it. As you said view it as a new start and save a much as possible. Don't focus too much on the salary factor，especially if cost of living is low. Get some experience and around 6 months down the line you can use it to get yourself a higher salary elsewhere. Making friends is the last thing you should be worrying about imo，you're bound to find people to hang out with. Just make sure the job suits …
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:35 AM
6

The red pill sidebar
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:37 PM
1

Cooking classes，bar work，you have many choices it simply depends on what kind of girls you are looking for
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:25 PM
5

You just quietly show less and less interest. If she asks you what's up, say you want an open relationship, she either accepts or refuses it. Stop worrying about the timing, you know as well as I do that she'd drop you any time she finds a better option. Play girls at their own game
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:18 AM
2

You keep her as a plate and find other girls to fuck. If you have a little case of oneitis with this girl, you move the fuck on and temporarily erase her from your memory. Why waste your time trying to prove shit? All it will do is show your fwb that you've been thinking far too much about her. The point is if she's cheating on you, nothing you do/prove will stop her. End things with her, you don't need to justify any of your actions. If she begs for.you to stay you're free to keep her as a plat…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:15 AM
5

Just leave it there imo. The only downside is new girls possibly asking you about her, why you split up, etc.... As long as you're good at dealing with the tests thrown your way, there's nothing to worry about imo. As an alpha you could say you have no time to waste sorting out your facebook timeline, you only look towards the future, not the past.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:39 AM
5

The only time you will find the calmness you so badly seek is when you learn to accept the facts for what they are. AWALT doesn't mean they all want to be that way, it's just their natural state. At the end of the day it all comes down to biology. Keep your emotions in check, only treat people the way you want to be treated and most importantly, remain true to yourself. As for how to calm down, go do something productive. Emotions, whether good or bad, are all fine and dandy, just make sure you …
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:33 AM
7

Just remain professional and try and remain indifferent with such coworkers. Stop worrying what they say/think about you. There's nothing you can do to stop them, they're gonna gossip no matter what. This applies to everybody you meet in your life. Just live your life, everybody has an opinion, it's up to you whether you let it affect you or not. Btw I'm not saying you should just be a little bitch if they start talking bs about you. Once they go too far, politely show them that you're not to be…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:01 AM
1

Most of us have been/currently are in your situation. Good on you for looking to change things. Remember, you don't need to be busy everyday, you are allowed to slack off at times. If I were you I'd join some kind of society/group, meet new people(say twice a week), just keep things new and exciting. As humans, we are always looking for something different, so go find whatever that is/ends up being.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 02:18 AM
6

Say you're fresh out of high school and you have had several different jobs(trying to figure out what suits you). Never reveal more than you need to. In my experience, the more she knows about you, the less attraction she will have for you. Keep things mysterious and deflect all shit tests/zzz questions. Show her(actions not words) what you're on the date for. As for your boredom get busy, find a part-time job, go the gym, whatever you do don't waste half your day doing fuck all. That's a massiv…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:53 AM
1

Being in China, there are plenty of Chinese chicks to hook up with. The whole "mysterious(completely ott btw)" aspect works both ways. The pros include: A general lack of experience, a desire for foreign dick, often submissive girls, .... While on the other hand, Chinese girls tend to be a little childish(imo), needy and can quickly get a little boring. As with any race/body, you're either attracted or you're not. Definitely worth the experience though if you like Asian chicks.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:28 AM
1

Always remember that you are in control, and this is the case for all aspects of your life(location, job, gf, ...). A true alpha is numb to what other people think/do and instead just does whatever the fuck he wants. Now go out and game this blonde bird. Avoid oneitis at all costs
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:21 AM
5

So first of all a lot depends on how she delivers the line/her body language. Generally speaking I'd just come out with some random shit and move on to the next girl I fancy. Imo there's no point in wasting your time whether it's true or not. For all you know you could be making out with the next girl within a few mins instead of dealing with I have a bf girl's stupid tests.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 12:55 AM
2

You're correct, with the way you describe yourself is it any wonder you're struggling to get people to notice you? What you need is a complete makeover with the way you currently act/think/assume... Forget about the whole "only the top 10% matter", it''s not true(as the great Tommy Wiseau says). You need to start accepting yourself for who you are, and being positive with everything you do. As for making friends, I'm sure you could easily find yourself a gym buddy. You're not gonna build a socia…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:41 AM
3

My experience with shy girls is that once you get them in bed, they're usually way kinkier than the average bird on the streets. The whole ASD aspect shouldn't be ignored. Everybody has their own poker face, the more they trust you, the more they reveal about themselves/their true personality. Btw being described as.intimidating isn't becessarily a bad thing, at least you have an effect on people(imagine if you were boring). The girl's most probably testing you. Don't try to prove yourself as th…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:37 AM
1

When would you choose to not respond to a girl? Most probably when you're not interested in her/don't need her. You know what's happened here, she found somebody else, probably sucking him off right now, you missed your turn, big deal, plenty more numbers for you to find. As u/I_Crepe_Bitches says, improve your text game, adopt a IDGAF mentality, ig she responds positively, great, if she flakes/ignores you, whatever, you can easily find another girl, no point in wasting any more time/energy on t…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:40 AM
6

The longer you refuse to address the problem, the fatter she will get, the unhappier you will become and the harder it will be for her to lose weight. Do as you suggested, say things are getting out of control and that she needs to sort it out. Support her, try to be as polite as possible, but warn her that at the end of the day you won't stay with somebody you can't nake yourself attracted to. As an alpha you come first, sometimes you have to make a tough decision to ensure you're happy.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 02:19 PM
1

As adults we should be free to do whatever the fuck we want. I don't give a damn if my mates watch some "kinky" porn, everybody has their own individual fetish and so be it. Many women feel like they have to lie about how often they watch porn/masturbate which I find a real shame. The good/bad(real disgusting shit like children) thing about porn is that you can find whatever you want. Anytime anywhere, which is a real bonus when you are single, your bf/wife/.. is out of town. Like with most thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 04:41 AM
1

Keep your text game short and simple. Arrange a date, give her the time and location and that's that. Instead of saying "12:15 would be perfect" say "meet me at bar/coffee shop at 12:15". You are the leader, you call the shots. Never ask if she's ok with so or so, take her where you wanna go not the other way around. In the event she reschedules, you agree but push the date back 30mins or so, show that you are in control. Girls love that shit. Once a date is planned you keep quiet. If you don't …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 04:31 AM
5

You can't drastically change your nature without being awkward, this goes hand in hand. Plenty of "boring" guys get themselves a partner, do you know how they do it? They attract the girls by doing what they do best. Be yourself, find someone who accepts you for who you are, and never change just for the sake of getting yourself a particular girl, it's not worth it.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:13 AM
1

Why complicate things for yourself? It's not like she's at the age where you'd expect her to be married. If she doesn't bring her current relationship up, then the problem is with her not you. Sometimes it's better to be in the dark, unless you found yourself a super hot totty ;)
/r/askTRP19/10/16 04:04 AM
6

As the others have said just act as if you didn't notice anything. Keep things simple, treat her like you'd treat any other girl you'd like to fuck. By asking her if she's married you're showing her that you've been thinking about her, had time to come up with some "cool shit to say" etc Try and remain mysterious, don't let this girl figure you out, get her to hang out, escalate, shag, plate her then repeat the process. Remember if she is cheating on sb, you shouldn't feel guilty. If it wasn't w…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:44 AM
2

This is what your male friends are for. Sure don't go all super emotional on them, just enjoy yourself. Never do this with a girl you fancy as your worries will keep her pussy dry. Serious turn-off. Why not simply use sites like reddit when you've got shit on your mind that you need to get out? Warning: Never expect all your problems to go away, people will let you down without even realising it. The only person you can really trust is yourself(close family to an extent)
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:39 AM
3

As long as things are still going smoothly, just keep handling things the way you've been doing up till now. There's no need to fix something that's still working. Stop overanalysing things! When she asks you to show her you love her, start by teasing her a little, then when she's not expecting it, really surprise her and start making out and shit. Being alpha is doing what you want, it doesn't mean you can't show her any affection. I don't see much harm in randomly getting passionate with your …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:35 AM
-1

It could be you are overdoing things. In life there are only two things that matter imo: making money and fucking girls. So what if you only got 79% in your test, it's just a test. The only tests that really need passing are the shit tests girls will throw your way. You're only retarded if you choose to believe you are. You've listed your qualities, now go out there and show everybody what you're capable of achieving. If I were you I'd stop putting so much pressure on tings which in the long run…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:42 AM
2

we all fuck up from time to time, there's nothing wrong with that. The key is to learn from your mistakes, and before you know it, you'll have them back at your place/hotel wherever ;)
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:47 AM
3

are we still on? is not the thing to ask before a date. Advice 1: stop preparing so much, don't ever treat a girl like this. Just keep things simple, see if there's a.connection, if yes, escalate, if not, decide if you wanna plate or leave. If the girl doesn't turn up wait for her to message you(make her feel.guilty), keep your frame, you've got other girls to find anyway. If she rearranges good, you can ask her: "how can I forgive you for last time?" easy makeout/lay
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:45 AM
5

focus on making money, girls can be found anywhere. Get a good job, do it well, find some plates, keep your body in shape, improve your smv and never look back. You're an alpha you're not allowed to hesitate! Now go get this shit started
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:38 AM
3

The bar isn't the place where you're likely to meet a potential ltr. Pick up some plates, fuck them well and they're bound to stick around. come on lol if a girl's making out with you she's dtf. Give her what she wants, you both know what the deal is
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:36 AM
3

If you really feel like you need to change then I'd do it little by little. You don't really want to drastically change the way you treat her from one day to the next unless you're prepared to deal with the consequences. Seems to me like you wanna experiment with this whole game shit, so why not keep her as a plate and experiment with other girls on the side? Keep lifting, finding other birds, bang them well and rinse repeat
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:06 AM
1

Good advice this. Furthermore I'd just like to add you should view every relationship as a way to improve your SMV. Remember to always put yourself first and no the girl. Once you start putting the girl first you're bang in middle of oneitis. Look for the signs and proceed from there
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:30 AM
1

Then why not just ask one of the fitness trainers for advice? Good on you for having a goal, I'm sure all that effort will pay off eventually
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:03 AM
0

Speaking as a skinny guy, just learn to accept the body you have. I also used to think the way you do, yet I never found a way to drastically change things. Remember to always look on the brightside, at least you're not naturally fat
/r/askTRP17/10/16 07:41 AM
3

As with everything plate related, you're gonna find some that have been used a lot and those that are still relatively new so to speak. Location, age, appearance are some of the many factors you should take into account when choosing to plate sb. The more "normal" they look the less likely it is they have a std and the more likely it is that they aren't as exciting in bed. Either way the best thing you can do is trust your instinct and stop worrying. Simply make sure you've put something on the …
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:41 AM
1

keep positive dude: better than nothing at all. Next step: get her back to your place and seal the deal
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:53 PM
5

As long as you're the one friendzoning them I don't see a big deal. Just make sure you don't get used for emotional support and shit as you'd be better off using that time to find other girls to hook up with.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:35 PM
1

ask her to hang out somewhere private, if she refuses, it's time to move on
/r/askTRP16/10/16 03:11 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter