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https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00D2K367Y/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_5WZ13FM8Z4G71612Y4NE?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 I'm about to install this in my room in my apartment. I'll lose my security deposit but that's ok. It allows you to lock your bedroom from the insude, and will withstand more kicks to the door than a regular doorknob lock. I'm in the second floor so I also have a window fire escape ladder. Btw walmart has the best price on the ladder. I'm going to install more cameras at my apartment too. Probab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:11 PM
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Was she paid by viagra this comes off as very scripted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:17 AM
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Time and time again cops don't consider crimes against women and children to be actual crimes. It bends the mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 08:01 PM
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Wow I had never read about her bf using her as a human shield...ive always read that she was shot in her bed, I hate that people bend the truth...rip Breonna ❤ you deserved to live your life free from shitty men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:36 PM
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I think that the disgust/vulnerability and reverence/strength dichotomy is something that men get off on, ie "makeup/angry sex" is the best sex to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:26 PM
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Its literally less effort to birth and raise an emotionally aware male child than to teach a fully grown man about emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:14 PM
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This is true, and in my experience changed behavior is not an indicator that you should stay either. I never begged with my ex but always let him know that this was a deal breaker for me. This attempt at communication and change was a total trap. You don't want to be with a man who fucks up and apologizes. You want a man who isn't constantly making mistakes. Making mistakes and apologizing is juvenile, he needs to be an adult and do it right the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:12 PM
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Men expect women to be their equals, but its some uproar when a woman expects a man to be at her level. With that being said, use your gut to tackle this on a case by case basis. I assume that stress can affect a man's weight even if he eats well. But if your man's actions of an unhealthy lifestyle bother you and his gut is an indicator of his awful lifestyle, then do not gaslight yourself further and think that if you introduce him to the concept of vegetables he will change. Womens "surface" e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:05 PM
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Whenever an ex did something to push my boundaries during sex, I always froze before I got the strength to say no, stop. Sometimes I wasn't able to unfreeze. The idea that we are all completely, flawlessly in control of traumatic situations is insane because it erases the one who is abusive. A freeze response is a natural, rational reaction to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:54 AM
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I've also had this experience, my mom was my main abuser, and its why I couldn't understand actual feminism for a long time, and got caught up in liberal feminism. Use your gut to see if you get the ick or automatically doubt his persoective. An actual Abuse victim will feel shameful and their tone will go very serious, and they won't be mining for sympathy. Just keep your conversation short and professional, say that she should seek mental health treatment. If he keeps trying to mine for sympat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 05:51 PM
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I've also been using brazen confidence when people try and neg. For example I walked into the kitchen, a coworker said "oh no not her again" and i was all "yes, it is me, I'm wonderful" and got my stuff and walked out. Sometimes emotional self defense is good, but can be complicated. The technique of asserting the awesomeness of the thing they're critical of can be helpful too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 02:53 PM
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Checked out her account, she has a video of her in lingerie waitressing to geriatric, obese, greasy, alcoholic men for a few hundred dollars🙃 wow what a dream job🙄 At this point if I come across a SW post, I feel so much better about my life and where I'm going...im just so thankful that SW isn't a necessity for me, because the delusion that I'd have to develop to be able to rationalise dancing in the nude for physically repulsive men would make me more mentally ill than I am now lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:51 AM
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All the frustration she has from living in the patriarchy, she projects onto other women, because quite frankly it's depressing and scary to have your worldview of "men are ok, they're trying" to "men create a culture of violence that's at the root of all the world's problems, and oh, this culture of violence is inescabable." But yeah you can't get an STD or get murdered from a meal🤷‍♀️ that's all men using women's bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:06 PM
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While all this is objectively true, if you ever point this out to a man it's in one ear out the other. They refuse to listen and will craft some delusion to cope. Its crazy how men have the privilege of just making up ideas and then men and women alike ACTUALLY BELIEVE THEM. Like holy shit. I get accused of being delusional when I'm stating the facts, men get told they're stating facts when they can just make up lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:42 PM
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I relate so much. I'm a bit of a black sheep in my family, where i think much more different than them (i.e., im not racist). But I realized, that even if I was exactly like them, they still wouldn't respect me because they're all insecure and need someone to feel superior to. I'm incredible in many regards, but they need to craft this idea that I'm less than and need to be silently shunned, in order to preserve their egos. Toxic families like this hurt because they are just so irrationally craz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:22 PM
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These are all sex doll attributes. I associate the rise in plastic surgery for young women to be because of these creeping sex doll beauty standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 07:25 PM
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1000%. Gets them points with their bros. Men are a sinking ship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:29 PM
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I couldn't find a feminism that worked for me for the longest time, and this libfem wishy washy bullshit is the reason why. Thank you mods!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:27 PM
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Him scoffing at her contract of expectations yet proud of her intelligence and career driven nature...he was really hoping her socialization would kick in and she'd just "gO witH tHE fLoW" during an incredibly life changing and risky event.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:24 PM
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Before i gained some weight from stuff outside of my control, my body was the western ideal. Snatched waist, big butt big boobs...I got plenty of male attention and it felt awful! Just truly gut wrenching. And I was a pickme and desired it! But receiving attention from men for my body and nothing else is utterly soul crushing, and I lived in fear of gaining 5 lbs, because the false sense of power I felt wasn't actually real. While I wouldn't say that I'm happy being in a bigger body now, I'm so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:17 PM
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What if women started choking men during sex, without their consent, and kept going even when they said no, filmed it, and then called it a "kink"? Women would be in prison for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:13 AM
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Once I saw that men despised relationships bc the power dynamic changes, my life improved a ton. The natural order of healthy long term relationships are for women to be equal or usually leaders in the relationship, and scrotes cannot handle this natural order, so they string hookups along until they die. Millennial men are told that they can do this until they're 80 and im looking forward to reality smacking them in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:18 AM
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When I realized that my body dysmorphia was fueled in large part by the pornified male gaze (let's call it the porn gaze or the scrote gaze, because it's something so sinister that it transcends masculinity), I tried to think of female centered beauty or sexuality or even media showing a female character that isn't subjugated to the porn gaze and...I couldn't think of anything. Maybe there was a minor character in a movie that wasn't completely sexualized but she wasn't the main character. I tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:26 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if infertility issues can be resolved by dumping the scrote and all the stress he creates🤔 scrotacity can really affect your physical health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:01 PM
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I've noticed that my attraction is subjective. In the sense that it's always being influenced by my beliefs, desires and subconscious. Men operate the same way. They love boobs and blondes one decade and then brunettes and butts the next. Our attraction is also influenced by media. It's a lot easier to resist crushes with that knowledge. We want power in an oppressive society, and sometimes our brains idealize and are attracted to what kind of powerful archetypes are in style at the moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:48 PM
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Get some experience = wants to try out a thing he saw in porn that's disgusting and wants to see if he can pull it off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:22 AM
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He timed the breakup around my college graduation, so I cried for a bit and my GPA went up after the breakup because I'm incredible and I'm not about to let some moldy man influence my trajectory. On the final phone call he mentioned some fight we had years ago as some "gotcha" moment where he was obviously seeking revenge but the reality is that I graduated magna cum laude, im in an incredible apartment with cheap af rent, on a great career path and my mental and physical health improves daily …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:42 AM
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When you're a manchild deep down, you gotta cosplay as an adult🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:09 AM
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My ex sought me out because of my mental health struggles. I was convinced that his love bombing was a healthy relationship. Even despite being a pickme and mentally struggling and numb from meds, I stood up to him quite a bit and grey rocked a ton, to the point where he "lost interest" thank God. I'm so thankful that I gained a bunch of weight and wasn't desirable to him anymore, bc then I was able to get to FDS, wake tf up, and throw away my people pleasing that I've always wanted to change, f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:07 AM
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I think Anna is a genius and I admire her. These people were impressed by her and wanted to work with her, she had an incredible vision. I think she could have turned a profit if she didn't committ credit card fraud and get caught. Unfortunately credit card fraud has more cut and dry legal ramifications than exploiting innocent women :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:58 PM
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I'm only willing to go back on OLD if I'm sick in bed and want to troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:43 PM
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Oh my God yes!!! I could not believe how many men mold their personality around about 10 different archetypes...the blandness of OLD is what got me off permanently. And I will pay good money for an animal crossing type video game that mocks LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:41 PM
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A lot of leftist anti capitalist/ anti work bros somewhat exaggerate the state of the economy...yes income inequality is super crazy right now, but you can definitely make a university degree work in your favor if you're confident and market yourself. I feel bad for young people who struggle with college, because there's so much cool, fun interesting stuff at your fingertips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:41 PM
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Constantly. I used to even fear revenge or assault if I blocked a guy. Its always a possibility, but after a few Block and deletes i was able to push past the fear. I've always only confronted my exes over text in my own home, because my anxiety wouldn't let me do it in person. Looking back, it's good safety precautions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:36 AM
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Yesss if he wants to debate the obvious, he's gone. Either he gets it or he's complicit in the system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:01 PM
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Be prepared to refute this shit your whole life. Successful women make scrotes super upset and they'll always be ready to try and control your tone. Laugh in their faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:36 PM
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Men who state that are hinting that they have no passions themselves and are projecting the things they desire for themselves onto their partner. The fact that a guy is phrasing his "request" so generally and centers himself in your discussion of your passions, means that he doesn't give a shit about your passions and is looking for an interesting gf to make up for what he lacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:11 AM
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Wanting your man to dress well isn't superficial. Wanting your partner to get plastic surgery because you're pornsick is superficial. Society calling you superficial for Wanting a partner on your level is brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:50 AM
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It makes me feel free and incredible. Thanks for the reminder to stay single and that im DEFINITELY on the right path
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:52 PM
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My white father was always on "business trips" but I found out recently that he had a mistress for the entirety of my childhood, which he was never present for....I feel sick having to interact with this man...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:22 PM
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No dude, cut your losses and date the tire. You've been thinking about this damn tire more than your gf, you need to follow your heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:11 AM
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"Girl, you're gonna get so wet from these UPS notifications for your Yoni egg that's temporarily stuck in Minneapolis! This valentines would have been perfect if COVID didn't affect the supply chain..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:06 AM
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What campus library has zero seats unavailable...I went to a huge university and there was always ample seats and space. He's just moody that women can sniff out his intentions until he lies, he's practicing how to manipulate his future gf. And the fact that he feels so entitled to women's attention that he will pull out all the stops in order to get it reads that he's just addicted to women and a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:52 PM
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Maybe that's the true meaning of V Day...women knowing their worth and ridding themselves of lazy scrotes❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:19 PM
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The day I realized that reddit isn't just a snapshot of the most nerdy, awkward subset of men, but that it's a cross section of ALL men, my perspective radically changed. I remember being on reddit over 10 years ago and you wouldn't want to talk about it bc it was so obviously nerdy and cringe...so much has changed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:23 PM
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His rationale is the end result of him spending endless hours rating women on a 1-10 scale...if he's that obsessed with looks, you KNOW he's called any woman who shows mild interest in him "a 2 at best." He doesn't want a relationship he wants to own a woman shaped status symbol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:28 PM
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I hope a woman forces him to write a contract on this, so that she ensures she gets her fair share...and then shows his employer lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:11 PM
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Fingers crossed they are genuine and aren't trying to learn manipulative psychobabble🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:30 PM
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The other day I was searching for a mug on etsy, literally my search term was mug...I got so many mugs about penises, a mug that spelled out "c&nt" with the handle, along with other depraved things...we never receive a break from scrotacity, no wonder we struggled to wake up when we were pickmes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:45 PM
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Damn now that men have less institutonal power to legally coerce women into being bang maids, they're just so messy and weak in trying to establish dominance. These mind games scrotes play are their feeble attempt at maintaining power and it just ends up so cringe and desperate and insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:10 PM
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I genuinely think that redpill creators know that their tactics repel women, because if their tactics worked, they would lose a paying customer or person giving them ad revenue. These redpill creators are very rich men, and you don't have to be intelligent, only mysoginistic to be a content creator. Just rehash what's already been said in your own words, and bam you now have an income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:24 PM
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I will literally pay men money to take classes on how to be funny or witty or even insulting because those were such weak attempts.. like if you're going to insult women, at least try a little???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:14 PM
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I thought my thrifting first date was so twee, until I realized that's all he could afford🥲 I buy statement pieces from the thrift store, he gets his t shirts there🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:46 AM
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Honestly I hope that more gay men start talking about how awful men are, and how much grooming and sexual abuse by older men happens in that community. I remember a gay friend in HS had his virginity taken by an older creep in the back of his car and that's just not ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:01 AM
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The only "need" they are trying to get met is their socialized entitlement and "need" to brag to their bros about abusing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:59 PM
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It was such a basic "aha" moment realizing that I can just ignore men. Because they are always aggressively inserting themselves everywhere, I thought I had to defend myself through discourse...but this world is big enough to just ignore men and live my life happily ever after❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:28 PM
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I've seen Men online endlessly make fun of horse girls...and it's probably because they're usually wealthy, well put together and are easily able to dominate a domain that was almost exclusively male in the past. I pray that every woman who owns a horse, sees the man babies tears over the power they hold and walk the fuck away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:16 PM
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Time for the wife to mess up his sandwiches 💅 maybe he'll be more careful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:21 PM
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Yeah "come so far" emphasizes the negative place that you were in, they're not celebrating your success with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:53 PM
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Honestly the satisfaction of dodging a bullet through block and delete is a high every woman should know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:48 PM
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Tbh, play video games. 100% of my long term exes slowly revealed their video game obsession over time, and that was a bandaid for whatever depression they had. Personally I think that video games are the new cigarette...theyre so addictive. I have never seen an adult moderately play video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:03 AM
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I feel like this dynamic has been my reality since I could walk; boy tries to hurt my feelings /annoy me, I react rationally and in self defense and then I get punished because I can throw a good insult when provoked. Either men are becoming more childish or im finally growing up and noticing their childish nature. Either way, good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:15 AM
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The average man is the downfall of society 🤷‍♀️ how can the human race continue much longer with half the population acting like this. Women create society, and this Is how we get treated for our benevolent sacrifice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:45 PM
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Hormonal bc helped women as a class but also hurt them immensely. Ive never been able to tolerate hormonal bc, and tried the copper iud and got bad reactions from that too. I had to take time out to go to the Dr, pick up the bc, deal with the side effects as life continued...I could have been doing much better things with my time I'm never having sex without a condom again. Tbh vetting awful men is the most effective birth control...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:46 PM
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This woman is 20 and a mother of one...no one in the crowd helped her...I cant...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:28 PM
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Watch for enthusiasm over time. This is a body language thing, it can't be measured in gifts or acts of service. Does hid face light up when you get home? Does he miss you if you've been away or preoccupied? Does he want to do things and go places and spend time with you over time? Most men drop off their interest within a few months to a year, because at that point they get moody that a woman is an actual person and can't be controlled. I know I've justified the slow fade by saying "oh he's str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:23 PM
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"The one that got away" should be translated to "the one who escaped." Scrotes have their own flowery sounding language to describe their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:18 PM
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He has attachment issues. When he was actually getting emotionally close to his ex, he got anxious and fucked up in a massive way, pushing her away. I can guarantee that he's never been fully present in his marriage, he just performed the act of husband bc he was out of options and didn't want to be lonely. If he can put this longing at the forefront to his brain, he never has to deal with his attachment issues. He can feel love for her while never needing to ACTUALLY be loving. He can assuage h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:17 PM
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Absolutely. Equality for women erases their unique strengths, needs and accomplishments. Men are radically different from us and to always check if we are equal stalls us from fully embodying our power and talents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:16 PM
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Hobosexuals are desperate and are constantly fishing for victims, and is never a reflection on you. They are doing the same to many other women, they're just seeing who can bite. Most likely any man with ambition is working redpill stuff, trying to be Casanova with multiple partners and only have game on OLD, since they do not have the skills to approach women irl. Men as a whole have become worse than when I was in school, it's hard to watch an entire sex decay over time. Men used to have to ap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:23 PM
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So thankful that she ignored everyone around her who was trying to normalise abuse. It's the constant cultural gaslighting of women that create deaths similar to Gabby Petitio's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:00 PM
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Do you really feel something for this entire man, or do you miss the love he gave you when he was fully masking? A lot of abusers and assholes give very convincing displays of love. It's totally ok to miss that, but definitely not ok to put yourself in harms way to try and seek the illusion he presented to you. He has revealed that he has two different people within him. You deserve UNCONDITIONAL, KIND, 1000% GOOD FEELING LOVE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:27 PM
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The body acceptance movement has definitely been taken over by scrotes. Something that was fiercely feminist has somehow turned into providing excuses for porn addicts, and body acceptance influencers basically produce soft porn on instagram. Body acceptance is so much more than posing in lingerie in compromising positions. And an injured dick is just not comparable to something natural like cellulite..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:12 PM
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Omggg my ex tried this...he accused me of cheating out of the blue, and I said that's a disgusting thing to say...God I'm so glad that his manipulations worked less and less as time went on. For all my past pickme bullshit, it's nice to remember when I protected myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:35 PM
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Same. I'm not over my last relationship because of the lying. It's been almost a year. My brain is continually trying to figure it out, so that I can be safe in the future. I think that resentment stems from the trauma of being deceived, and when we experience trauma, we can never get rid of it completely but make it smaller and more easy to live with. These scars have an upside like you mentioned, to keep us aware and ready to stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:46 PM
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Thank you! It all came together watching Bo Burnhams Inside. Ive noticed that my family can speak in only objective terms. Like how is the boat what is this person doing in business. Zero emotions or empathy or opinions. Bo also saw the world through this perspective: when making songs about deep social issues, he could only describe surface level happenings and muse about what others thought about him. His songs aren't deep or dealing with emotions, just serious themes. His frustration talking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:49 PM
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I've been noticing a lot of men's depression stems from a basic lack of empathy. They are socialized to get rid of their empathy from a young age, so if their validation supply changes even a bit they are forced to deal with the gaping emotional void within themselves that they incessantly try and fill up with stuff, power plays and digital dopamine hits like porn and video games. Its why they cheat or tire of a partner that they aggressively pursued. At baseline they feel empty, and if they don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:44 AM
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I remember years ago googling the founder of Vice, Gavin whatever, and he had a YouTube channel. His apartment was messy and he filmed himself rolling around in an adult diaper. While Vice media has "distanced" itself from gavin since founding the Proud Boys, we can realistically assume that's just PR and Gavin still has influence over the decision makers at Vice. Vice media is a joke, it was started as a joke and it will always be a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:05 PM
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I think that when things settle a bit with the pandemic, we will see another wave of feminism. This time our toxic socialization and men's depravity will be on the chopping block. Terms usually used in therapy are now popular, mainstream ideas. It's now much much easier for women to notice red flags, and I see a much more robust conversation on how to stay safe from what men have become, as well as how to have children safely, away from men. Its gonna be really rough, but we are on the cusp of a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:32 PM
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Yes haha. This guy made up an entire business and had his friend pose as the owner to try and get closer to me. After one "meeting" I googled the business and the whole lie disintegrated lol. Men regularly play businessman because they are crazy and insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:22 AM
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Why weren't his wife and children with him at the beach? 100% he was on a "business trip" setting up a mistress situation. So glad to see him get caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:41 PM
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I've been recovering from the shock in the loss of logic in my pick me days as well. Look up cognitive dissonance, your brain can try very hard to trick you in order to secure emotional and physical needs. I had the experience of picking up selective amnesia from trauma in my childhood, which resulted in me literally not remembering my exes shitty behavior. Your ex may have sought you out because he could tell that you were vulnerable as well. Use this shock as motivation to stay the path of sel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:38 PM
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Absolutely. Anytime a man tries to push that equality bullshit I'll assert that I only accept equity💅 it requires much more empathy and awareness of nuance for a man to understand equity. If he's not empathetic the sex won't be good, full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:32 PM
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They're trying to communicate to law makers that they will choose to not have children and replenish the labor force should lawmakers decide to pass laws that punish men's depravity. But we are at a place where a lot of women who want children don't need a man financially, so they're assuming they have bargaining power when they really don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:28 PM
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A lot of men want the option to rape without consequences...God forbid laws are in place to help women🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:25 PM
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In regards to the deep, unshakable shame: it's a natural byproduct to a toxic culture and you're doing your best. Technically, thus shame was forced upon you and you listened to a "solution" that was advertised to you because you thought it would help you survive in this toxic culture. It's totally understandable that you would do this, you must likely didn't have access to a way of thinking that contradicted the toxic culture. It's totally ok that you didn't have the awareness of a radical femi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:07 PM
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It doesn't work out for me when just try abstinence. I've been developing this idea to give sexual energy to myself. In hookups, at best we share our divine sexual energy, at worst the man takes it all. But I've taken masturbation as a type of meditation where I let my body and mind process things on their own. Obviously, no porn or any erotica is involved. Just me and my mind, exploring my sexual energy blocks in my mind and body, so as to heal and uplift myself. I'm also going to start buying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:32 PM
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Its ok to be anxious, and its a protector. If he isn't doing things to set you at ease physically, then your anxiety is doing its job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:47 PM
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Damn these Craigslist-esque creeps are getting younger and younger and more desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:45 PM
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"Asking me to be honest is an overreaction!! You KNOW I'm sensitive to the truth and reality how could you do this to me🥺"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:44 PM
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