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Right? Like who the fuck adult name calls at people, especially for breast feeding? But equally, who the fuck cares beyond an eyeroll when someone yells at them? I aay as a society we start shunning people who think name calling is cool, whether it's at breast feeders or socially awkward men (creep shaming).
/r/MensRights26/06/14 02:48 PM
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Actually you hear a lot about what a real woman both looks like and acts like... or I do all the time. It is an equally high level of bullshit but gets called out more often.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 03:43 PM
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That's a good way of thinking about it really. Anyone who says you MUST be like this or MUSTNT do that isn't taking into account the fact that different people like different things.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:51 PM
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Exactly this! Chivalry, as in doing nice things for people without expecting anything in return, is a great concept. I try to be as chivalrous as possible. I at least offer, but often get turned down. This woman expects it, but doesn't expect to have to be it. I find it very hard to believe she's a true feminist, what with her whole "this is what I like, therefore this is what ALL women should/do like". Ugh.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:49 PM
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I want to believe it's because it's more acceptable for boys to come out with the allegations and they're taken more seriously...
/r/MensRights06/06/14 10:40 AM
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Thank you. This is exactly my problem with it all, only articulated beyond grunting and hand waving.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 10:36 AM
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I agree. Compare this to the story coming out of Adelaide, Australia of the 40 year old woman raping a 15 year old boy. Completely different scenario because of the agency of the teenager. Still don't think either of the women are in the right but it's very different.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 10:34 AM
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Honestly, normally I'd agree. But generally I participate pretty equally on both subs and haven't noticed either side be glaringly more ridiculous than the other. This is pretty unbelievable though. I mean, I suggested a pedophile deserves jail because being a 'weak willed woman' is not an excuse. That IS feminism. I guess I just didn't realise how bad they were and I'm disappointed.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 09:57 AM
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Yes, I'm surprised. I don't really have another outlet for how angry I am about this right now. I'm sorry if it came across like that.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 09:39 AM
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She even openly lied to the police. The fuck, Adelaide? That's my city. I'm so so ashamed.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 09:35 AM
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I just submitted this to r/feminism saying that women are not victims of hard lives and therefore blameless in cases like these because she was lonely or the boy wore her down. I was banned. I'm so outraged both by the judge's decision and their reaction. How can you say you want equality and agree with this? Did they even fucking read it? Or did they just see my title attacking this woman and ban me? Either way, they have completely lost my respect. He was 15. That's a child. Saying she couldn'…
/r/MensRights06/06/14 09:32 AM
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What about if everyone just complimented each other when they deserve it, regardless of genitalia? That'd be nice. I try to compliment men when they look smart because I don't think they get told enough. I'm probably creepy.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 01:01 AM
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Oh, I agree. But I think the woman was right in checking to make sure OP's girlfriend was ok right up until she kept pushing it after getting the confirmation. It also shouldn't be an aggressive or offensive tone used when asking if they're ok because I agree, assuming on default that someone is malicious is not a good way to be. I just think there's a bit more to it than accepting "This is my girlfriend and she's fine" without knowing the context and social clues that are going on in the exampl…
/r/MensRights23/05/14 04:12 AM
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I would think the 'are you ok' should be directed at whichever party looks the most out of it, and then should be over after 'yes, I'm fine, thanks for asking'. I've asked both women and men before to make sure they know what (or who) they're doing but I'll take their word over the potentially dodgy person they're with.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 03:55 PM
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Only female humanists? That irony is so beautiful it drew a tear.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 08:05 AM
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Out of curiosity, do you think someone who attempts to assault someone else but doesn't succeed due to them being too small or weak needs to be charged the same as someone who is stronger? Or were they just arguing that all women, on account of vagina, should be exempt from charges? Just want to clarify your point?
/r/MensRights18/05/14 01:56 PM
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I totally agree that the same thing should happen to both, but I would hope that thing isn't having their head beat in. I also think that taking a job in a nightclub means you have to put up with some sexually ick treatment, boys and girls. If you don't think you're up to it, don't take the job. We're definitely on the same page :)
/r/MensRights27/03/14 05:18 AM
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To an extent, yes. I think working in a nightclub means you need to accept that people will be gross, but to a certain point you need to be firm and tell them that it's not on. Especially men, because how else are these women (and even other men) going to believe that the status quo is bullshit. I'm a woman and that's what I've always done with general success. If it carries on though or is threatening then security should absolutely be involved.
/r/MensRights26/03/14 11:06 PM
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I disagree, a random grab ass assumes that the person is going to be ok with you crossing physical boundaries. I don't want most people thinking they have the right to touch me, no matter what the gender. That said, if a friend goes for the grab I'll be ok with it, because that's flattering. I don't think women have the right to do it to men either though so I think I'm still on the same side here.
/r/MensRights26/03/14 11:02 PM
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This is so rad-fem and ridiculous that the vast majority of feminists will cringe. This isn't a study, there are no references. Women like this are the fundies of feminism, and trust me, they are not welcome.
/r/MensRights15/03/14 11:46 PM
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I knew I loved SA for a reason.
/r/MensRights22/12/13 11:17 AM
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Yeah, equating women to children who aren't fully mentally developed was an interesting choice. Yours is much better.
/r/MensRights07/12/13 10:45 PM
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"No feminist can be truly sane". Seriously?
/r/MensRights03/12/13 03:34 PM
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I consider myself a feminist or egalitarian, and that is an unbelievable lie. Militant feminists who have no real ties to reality maybe, but not your average woman.
/r/MensRights03/12/13 03:32 PM
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Maybe you're not as attractive as your photos. I've been super keen on people and thought they were gorgeous then met them and been really disappointed. Especially if they're being as touchy feely as you were.
/r/seduction17/11/13 05:30 PM
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I saved this post as the best explanation of being a feminist and men's rights activist at the same I've heard. Thanks.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 08:31 PM
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Exactly!! It's like little girls are somehow 'cooler' if they are a tomboy but if a little boy likes dolls or pink, he is a sissy and teased by adults and other kids. It's so cruel.
/r/MensRights25/04/13 04:02 PM
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It would mean that cultural pressures are forcing certain expectations on men without the support or acknowledgement that women have. I don't think it's a question of 'rights' at that level.
/r/MensRights25/04/13 03:55 PM
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I did misread it then. My apologies!
/r/MensRights18/04/13 04:39 PM
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To a point, I think that pressuring someone to have sex with you (or else you'll leave them, will get angry, will withdraw) is wrong. Girls do it as well, I'm not saying this is a gendered problem. Girls are also culturally more likely to do it the other way around, use sex as a way to pressure someone into doing something else that they didn't want to do. Or am I misreading what you're saying? Negotiating consent is something I've been reading a lot on recently, it's great to read different opi…
/r/MensRights18/04/13 04:20 PM
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I think it had good intentions, but it was badly done. I mostly think it's sad that we need to have posters to give the basic message "don't be a douchebag to each other".
/r/MensRights14/04/13 02:23 PM
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This is brilliant
/r/MensRights14/04/13 02:18 PM
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It's sad that we're shocked that you were treated seriously. I'm glad that you were though.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 06:01 PM
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What I don't understand is how radical feminists don't see this as offensive to women as well as incredibly unfair to men. Legally we're of so little substance that we can be puppeted to do anything by a man? That's pathetic. I'm really pleased I subscribed to this sub-reddit.
/r/MensRights21/02/13 09:26 PM
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getting people to view drunken college hookups as rape. I was replying specifically to that. The article is bullshit. I think most reasonable people would agree.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 12:47 AM
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Fair point. Fuck you, cultural conditioning.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 11:13 PM
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Feminists don't. Misandrists do.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:45 PM
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I'm a feminist and I like to have a lot of sex. It's consensual. If I've said yes, and continue to say yes, then it's consensual, because I am not a crazy person. I think this comment can speak for most feminists, and certainly the ones I've met in my life.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:39 PM
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Is this anecdotal evidence, or are there reports I should be looking up? I refuse to believe everything I read either here or in r/feminism
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:30 PM
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The fact that women were treated like property means that all men had to live up to societal standards that said they had to be a certain type of man. It's similar. Historically men had the power over women, but they are just as enslaved to cultural norms as women are.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:29 PM
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Surely that's rare?
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:26 PM
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And also covered by your last.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:21 PM
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This just seems so very sensible. How is this not normal?
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:20 PM
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I know! How dare they not just accept what I say without looking into it?? This is the INTERNET, for god's sake!
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:13 PM
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Well, I don't mean offence at all, but that is the way you guys are portrayed in the media at the moment. I'm enjoying learning a bit more about both sides though. I haven't been in r/feminism, I'm a little worried about it now.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:11 PM
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Why should an attractive woman have to tone her appearance down to prove that she is able to do a job. I get dressing professionally, but make herself appear less attractive? Other than that, I tend to agree with most of what you've said.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 10:03 PM
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It's not subtle, but as a woman I see a lot of gender bias towards women as well. It's in different shows though. Just another way our culture creates the us vs them binary.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:53 PM
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A woman that intent on castrating all males is unlikely to breed. Just a theory/hope.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:50 PM
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If by gendercides you're including murders based around sexuality or men identifying as feminine and vice versa, I would probably believe you.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:48 PM
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That's what I figured. I hate stating an opinion only to get shot down by someone wielding facts. Those jerks.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:44 PM
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Never trust a comment section.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:34 PM
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I think you're brave for posting that in here. I wanted to, but I don't know enough about either side of the coin just yet. Thanks for starting the conversation so I could do it as a lurker :)
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:25 PM
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Not all of them, only the ones where someone says no and the other person keeps going. Could happen to either gender.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 09:16 PM
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not putting women on some idealistic pedestal. This.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 07:59 PM
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New favourite gif used so well. Nice.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 07:55 PM
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Feminist here, I'm pretty sure that the majority of men's rights and feminism supporters are on the same side with skewed extremist views of the other side. We've obviously still got a long way to go, huh.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 07:54 PM
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