MadMontux Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	The counter argument to "Living a good life" and why we really do need pickup.	MadMontux	/r/seduction	24/05/17 06:43 AM
12	Over the past 6 months, I've dated 9 different girls.	MadMontux	/r/seduction	09/07/17 12:42 AM
5	Been gaming for several months, dated several girls...now feeling lonely.	MadMontux	/r/seduction	12/09/17 02:49 AM
4	Has anyone ever been through a period of having good results in pickup, then all of the sudden have none for a period of time?	MadMontux	/r/seduction	01/06/17 01:40 AM
2	Health, Wealth...but struggle in intimate relationships??	MadMontux	/r/seduction	29/05/17 06:09 PM
0	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months	MadMontux	/r/seduction	29/05/17 05:58 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Approach Anxiety, a weird situation. You already know the answer to your question. Stop running from it.	/r/seduction	21/08/17 08:55 PM
2	I can't keep girls, any advice? I have the same problem I've dated 10+ girls this year and none of them have stayed. I've talked to other wings and they pin pointed that my biggest problem is escalation. I have to agree with them, gotta keep trying and putting yourself out there. I know what its like...sure you're seeing multiple girls, but I really just wanted that 1 girl to stay so I can stop banging my head against the wall (Frustration in game). Idk in time you'l get better, I agree witht these guys, we need to know more i…	/r/seduction	31/07/17 10:59 PM
4	Is it a good thing to not really have a type that your attracted to, more of it's random of who you like? Don't get caught up in the details, even if you had a type, it will change as you date more girls. Now go out there and game!	/r/seduction	09/07/17 01:39 AM
8	How do you conclude the date when you would like to see her again? Well, assuming you're escalating, going for a kiss at some point will always be better than anything you say, no matter what the outcome is. Also, mentioning a cool activity or a cool new place during the date will set the tone for another date. At times when I'm unsure though, I just flat out tell the girl that I'd like to see her again. Honesty goes a long way - I learned that the hard way. So if you're unsure, just tell her what's on your mind.	/r/seduction	09/07/17 01:21 AM
1	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months This is a competition is it!? -.-	/r/seduction	01/06/17 02:33 AM
1	Can't F****** approach. Feeling depressed. being direct and stating my real intentions scare me You just stated the route of your problem. You have an irrational fear of stating your intentions. This may be because of some occurrence in the past, probably childhood/teen experience of when you tried to state intention and then got blown out in one way (ridicule by others or rejection). Recognizing the fear and why you have fear are the 1st steps to overcoming it. In terms of approaching, have you tried looking for wings? They can be great…	/r/seduction	01/06/17 01:31 AM
1	Health, Wealth...but struggle in intimate relationships?? A girlfriend would be good as of right now. I don't see myself settling down anytime soon though, but fuck buddies are definitely something I'm open to. My situation I feel like is getting worse since I'm approaching with no tangible results for a while.	/r/seduction	29/05/17 11:18 PM
1	Health, Wealth...but struggle in intimate relationships?? Coffee, dinner, hiking, etc. I definitely stay far away from the movies as a first date. I don't think location is a problem, and conversation is light hearted with push pull in between. I know I need to make it more sexual at the final half of the date. I have a problem now though. I don't have any new leads in terms of dating new girls, the last time a girl was down to hang out was 2 weeks ago when I approached her, but she told me she had a boyfriend so I didn't take it further. She still tex…	/r/seduction	29/05/17 07:57 PM
1	Health, Wealth...but struggle in intimate relationships?? The dates go well for the most part. I've even k-closed and went into full make out mode with one of them. I don't know what it is or why they don't want to see me again, I haven't asked. It's been a long time since I've been on a date though, so Idk what to do at this point	/r/seduction	29/05/17 07:03 PM
1	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months I mean I've been focusing exclusively on that, the problem is I can't get a relationship without landing a date	/r/seduction	29/05/17 07:18 AM
2	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months It was the shakes but it also was the stuttering hahaha. You wouldn't even believe that I got her number, but was waaay too nervous and forgot to even save it on my phone (Her info was in my phone, but I just was too nervous to remember to hit "save".) I was so blown away at her reaction and how cool she was with me even if I was fidgety that I was distracted/surprised. Never did see that girl again haha	/r/seduction	29/05/17 07:14 AM
2	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months Just read a couple...cheers mate! Also with the nervous thing. In the past if I found that it's too excessive/obvious, instead of ejecting from the set, I call myself out and said "I'm actually really nervous" and show them the tremors I had in my hands (I had BAD anxiety haha) while I was in set. You start to get other girl's reactions and find that other people are cool and supportive of it. One of the first girls I approached and did this, actually thought it was "cute" and gave me her number…	/r/seduction	29/05/17 07:06 AM
1	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months Has therapy helped for you in terms of solving this issue? I know that the route cause of me being lonely and possibly depressed at this point is because I'm struggling with intimate relationships	/r/seduction	29/05/17 06:57 AM
2	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months Get out there man! Nothing is going to happen if you just hope and wait for it to. I've been in your shoes before the beginning of this year. I was 2 years in not having any tangible contact with girls until one day I just got frustrated and just went for it. The problem is, lately I just feel like I'm getting back to that state of loneliness because of lack of any results for what seems to be years, even though I'm actively trying to get success. This might be something you run into when you ge…	/r/seduction	29/05/17 06:53 AM
2	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months Are you doing casual relationships or just straight up not going out?	/r/seduction	29/05/17 06:42 AM
1	Haven't had a formal date in almost 2 months Honestly, I've wanted a relationship more than anything.	/r/seduction	29/05/17 06:40 AM
2	What's the single best piece of advice someone gave you to improve your game? "The most important relationship that will ever have...that has the most impact in all other relationships in life...is the relationship you have with yourself." This sums up my understanding of inner game, something I have struggled with since the beginning.	/r/seduction	26/05/17 03:33 AM
1	Had several successes over the past few months.....help? Possibly, I'll try and keep that in mind again when I approach. I thought about this as something I was doing as well. How do you create the true abundance mindset when you aren't experiencing abundance? I'ts tough to say...any thoughts?	/r/seduction	17/05/17 05:31 PM
1	Had several successes over the past few months.....help? A good majority of people in pickup have had intimacy issues...that's why we're here. If this whole forum didn't have some type of issue, no one would be asking for help, we wouldn't even need pickup. But I digress.	/r/seduction	17/05/17 05:29 PM