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| 2 | Husband working 16 hours shifts for 7 days was told by his wife to sleep on the couch, then finds him dead the next morning.I think that's fair, and maybe I went too far in devaluing other men's experiences with abusive partners. I think you do a good job at seeing other people's experiences as complexly as your own, and I appreciate that. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Husband working 16 hours shifts for 7 days was told by his wife to sleep on the couch, then finds him dead the next morning.Sorry, I misspoke. The point I was trying to make in context was that I understand that people regardless of gender can be manipulative, including women. Even still, we shouldn't assume the worst of women any more than we do of men, even in this context. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/17 02:24 AM |
| – | Husband working 16 hours shifts for 7 days was told by his wife to sleep on the couch, then finds him dead the next morning.I don't think I've heard the term empathy gap before. Is that the idea that people are more ready to show women more empathy than men? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/17 01:32 AM |
| – | Husband working 16 hours shifts for 7 days was told by his wife to sleep on the couch, then finds him dead the next morning.Personally, my bias isn't that women don't lie about their abusiveness. My bias is to assume the best in people. That means to assume innocence when there isn't enough evidence to convict a man of rape. That means assuming a widow isn't lying about her last moments with her husband. I would afford the same good faith with you. Just to be absolutely clear, I am all too aware that women can be as manipulative as any man, but that isn't the point. My contention Is that women are not the enemy. Soci… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/17 12:25 AM |
| – | Husband working 16 hours shifts for 7 days was told by his wife to sleep on the couch, then finds him dead the next morning.A direct quote from his widow, "When he came home that night he was a mess, I have never seen him so exhausted. I couldn’t stand seeing him like that and I got angry." I do understand the plight of many men on the sub, including myself, who have been mistreated by a female SO. I don't understand how we can assume malicious intent from the woman here, against her own testimony, just because there are some legitimately abusive women in existence. What we can definitely say that there was a victim,… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/17 11:54 PM |
| – | Husband working 16 hours shifts for 7 days was told by his wife to sleep on the couch, then finds him dead the next morning.Okay, what the literal fuck is happening in this thread? What the hell did I miss in the article is causing people to react as if the wife is the literal devil herself. This woman lost her husband, her life partner and he father of their, and we are accusing her of being sad about losing her slave? As if it's totally impossible that the woman in this situation saw her dead husband as a human being? As if the reason that they were arguing wasn't because she didn't want him working long hours? And… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/17 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Circumcision | Counter ArgumentsWow, I hadn't even thought of that. It's so weird seeing my own bias, even as a sub of the subreddit, not recognize a gendered bias towards female children and against male children, just on the level of how tolerable that is. Thanks for making that point; I'll recant on my earlier statement. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/17 01:33 AM |
| – | Circumcision | Counter ArgumentsTo play devils advocate, I think that there is more to the tradition argument. In a culture where not being circumcised would ostracize a male, the most pragmatic thing to do for your child's future would be to circumcise them. I know that gets tricky and enters into a moral grey area, but I would be interested in having conversation around that happening. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 08:25 PM |
| – | The Best Explanation of Alleged Sexism in the WorkplaceI definitely don't mean to invalidate your experience. I just mean that I personally need more; I haven't seen this dichotomy in real life quite yet. I'd definitely be interested in a study on this. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 08:16 PM |
| – | The Best Explanation of Alleged Sexism in the WorkplaceI'm not too convinced. I think that it's an interesting premise, but I would like to see more than allegorical evidence before I subscribe to this idea. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/17 08:06 PM |
| – | Woman acquitted after raping a 14 year old boy because the victim looked matureAfter reading the article, I think that this is totally reasonable. I think that the real issue is getting to the point to where if the genders are flipped, if a female lies about her age for example, then the male would receive the same treatment. I don't know though, I've been wrong before. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/17 08:04 PM |
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