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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | How to not lose all to a gold diggerFucking genius | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Bad vibes in old house, but regret leaving itYea I’m in an apartment now. It sucks not having a yard for the kids but it is what it is. Switched jobs and now gotta get some time in the job to get a mortgage. Hard to sit idle when the prices are going through the roof but you’ll get another opportunity. Just be patient and work on bettering yourself in the meantime. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Thought you might get a kick out of this.They really are. It’s fucked | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/21 01:46 PM |
| 7 | The things you find.. hmmm6 months she’ll complain you abandoned her and ruined her life | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Getting divorced after almost 2 years of marriage. I let her stay in our house that we have added 200k of value now worth 850,000 (sweat equity, new kitchen, driveway etc) she wanted to buy me out for $8,000. I’m in a 50/50 state. I don’t want to ruin her but I’m entitled to more right?She don’t want lawyers so she can screw you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Feel usedSorry to hear man. Time to bust your ass for YOU now. Stay strong brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | My 16yo son ran away from my ex and I picked him up: right thing to do?Stay strong brother I’m going through the shit right now too. You did the right thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Pettiness ContinuesWork to build yourself up. Exercise, sleep, meditate. Look up stoicism. Don’t drink too much. No drugs. You gotta be squeaky clean. It’s going to be an uphill battle. Stay strong brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/21 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Separated and just agreed to move towards finalizingI agree with the above. Focus on building yourself up. Because she will try to tear you down. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Functional, but unhappyYes I been through it but with kids. Get out before you have kids. Or else it will continue forever, especially if you separate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Letting goI’d you don’t have kids then it’s over. I don’t understand why you would fear the court now. If you got a settlement then it’s over | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Do I want 0 custody?Only you know what you want. I suspect you don’t really want that | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What do i do now?Good. Get your $ and belongings and don’t talk to her ever again. Good she took you off the apartment lease. Go rent a room or stay with family for a bit. It’ll work out. It has to | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What do i do now?Do you have kids ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How I’ve spent my time away from my kids.That’s Awesome man | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | To move or not to move?I’m in a similar situation. Maybe wait a few more years until the kids a bit older | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | DCFS giving me primary custody from abusive Ex. Should I file for modification in CS?Yea good luck they’ll prolly make u give her more | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/21 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Not a Legal Marriage10k is not bad if that’s all it takes to be done with it | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | After doing what my lawyer said to doHang in there bud.. Do you have kids with this woman? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | I'm a woman but feel I'll get better advice from men. Yall won't side with me because I'm the same gender, might relate to my position, and maybe hand me my ass on a platter but here's to hoping I get some insightSo basically he is a Monster and you’re and you’re super awesome. You did ALL the housework, made ALL the money, and did ALL the child raising. Many of us men have been depicted Falsely of this exact same thing. So the courts have heard it all, repeatedly, like every case. So they’re a bit skeptical now depending on your locality. You’re in a bad position as the breadwinner you have a lot more to lose financially. Yes he could get alimony 50/50 and child support + half the assets. And you could … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 6 | For men who left their wives, what was the final straw? Event or action that made you say "its over"Oh yeah standard procedure. This happened to me ex started claiming I was emotionally abusive. Shortly after I pulled the plug because I felt like she was trying to lay the foundation for something sketchy. Once she got served she lost it. How could you do this to me blah blah blah +fake tears. I think shes just upset I beat her to the punch. Abusers don't usually leave the relationship, they want it to continue so they can. Keep up the abuse. They do some heavy projecting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 2 | This is about how I feel!I'm getting called a drug addict bcuz I smoke Marijuana occasionally. in a legal state btw ! Actually the reason I filed for the div is she was starting down the false dv accusations road. Soon as she started calling me "abusive" called the lawyer and filed to protect myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 5 | divorce and 2 y.o. childThat's a Great story. Thanks for sharing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/20 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Here’s a new one!Give em enough rope... | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/20 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Just a funny story...Ugh I'm divorcing a Karen too | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/20 03:18 AM |
| 7 | I can’t help not hating her. Everything she does seems like she is trying to hurt me.I feel for you man. I am experiencing this exact same thing. Married to a Blamer. Always breathing down my neck telling me everything I do or say is wrong. I'm preparing to file. It's tough because even though you know you need to get out you want the best for the kids. In the long run if things are that broken it will likely be better apart. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 05, 2019Oys #1 Here's to own my shit and put it in writing. Background- me34m wife 40f. Together 3 married 1. 2 kids- 3 years old and 1 year old. Currently 6' 228lbs out of shape and tired being a lazy bitch. Haven't check Bf% in a while but it can't be good. I'm not a completely fat fuck due to years of prior strength training but definitely gotten soft. What brought me here- been fighting w the spouse over stupid bullshit and it really had me mind fucked. Losing sleep, angry, resentful and generally f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/11/19 10:13 PM |
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