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The "women don't hold themselves accountable" stuff can be true to an extent but I don't think it's very much of a gendered thing, plenty of men are out there blaming everything but themselves for their problems, men being "manipulated" is probably the case sometimes but a lot of times it's simply a man not having enough of a back bone to say he doesn't want to do something. I have been manipulated and controlled in a past relationship, but it was just the one, every other romantic interaction I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:04 AM
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The death of Hulk Hogan has brought some real strange individuals out, you'll never see me condoning who who was as a person, I found him to be terrible, but you will never see me celebrating anybody's death, regardless of who they are, you have to be a better person than that, it's disgusting behaviour. But I chalk it up to a lot of Redditors not having a lot of life experience and not being all that mature when they celebrate someone's death, it shows they don't have a whole lot of class.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:39 AM
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R.I.P Hulk Hogan He was a terrible human being, but by god, he was my childhood, he defined professional wrestling to me, Terry Bollea was a garbage human being, but Hulk Hogan is arguably the biggest star in all of professional wrestling. Rest in Peace brother. I'm hurt by this more than I thought I would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:15 PM
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Just came out of Fantastic Four I gotta say, that movie was fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:23 AM
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Do people genuinely use the word "woke" unironically?????? People aren't that stupid are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:17 PM
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The hate towards Pedro Pascal lately and trying to label him as a predator and a creep just screams jealousy from dudes online. They're projecting because they don't have any women that feel comfortable to have them touch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:54 AM
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It's more that the movie teaches people and shows them that being kind and a good person is cool purely because it's the right thing to do. You shouldn't be nice to try and get something out of it, you'll get a good feeling just by doing the right thing. In a world where we reward people who are bad, and where empathy and being kind is seen as weak, it's nice to see a movie that tells people "No, being kind is the coolest thing ever."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:27 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:10 AM
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One thing I love about the new Superman movie is that it's actually changing quite a few young men's mentalities and moving them away from being hateful and bitter. James Gunn nailed it, kindness really is the real punk rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:09 AM
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I always find it really funny when people on Reddit are incapable of being able to "agree to disagree" on topics, I'm not talking about things that actually matter like in politics, I'm talking about the silliest and most novel things like art, movies, television and all that. Art is inherently subjective, there's no such thing as objectively good or bad, but the chronically online weirdos on this website have a hard time accepting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:04 AM
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I think a lot of guys here underestimate the fact that a lot of woman will actually want you more if you show you're capable of building and maintaining friendships with women, it shows you can see women as more than just sexual objects and can form platonic bonds with them, it shows that women are comfortable around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:13 AM
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At the end of the day, I think a lot of men jump into therapy when they're not ready for it, they deal with one therapist and they think that there's nothing out there for them. Even up to the start of this year, despite moving past the Red Pill and that sort of mentality in my life, I still hated the idea of therapy, and thought it was a waste of time, until one day I decided I was ready to give it another go, I started through my TAFE (community college for Americans) I got sessions free of ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:12 AM
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Already got a missus mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:38 PM
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Do the men on here have anything that makes them happy? Feels like a lot of you are addicted to finding ways to make yourselves victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:31 AM
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When you're an attractive woman, you have no incentive to approach with how many men will fall over their own feet to give you a chance. I can't say I blame them for not doing it when people practically throw themselves at you, you can pick the best of the bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:29 AM
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They get a lot of attention, with a lot of it being unwarranted or uncomfortable. I don't blame women who are sick of dating apps or the attention they receive, it sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:28 AM
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A lot of conservatives were already fine with defending Trump despite him being a convicted rapist now some of them are defending him being a pedophile with the Epstein files (which he most certainly is in) I will never get the justification for defending an absolutely despicable human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:40 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:37 PM
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Makes sense, still disappointing a lot of people can't act with common decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:37 PM
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It's really not a politically based trend I've noticed, a lot of the dumb fucks I've met on here lean very conservatively. It's very much just a chronically online thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:37 PM
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I've always wondered, why are so many people on Reddit so rude and arrogant, some of them seem unashamedly miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:45 AM
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2/10 bait response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:35 PM
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Pretty much, they don't see women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:57 AM
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The guys here who refuse to become friends with women are really missing out, I got a lot of female friends and they're some of the most fun people I know. Believing in an outdated theory that men and women are incapable of being friends is only holding you back from some great people in your lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:56 AM
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Friendly reminder that the majority of men and women are good people, they aren't bitter or whining relentlessly online about their dating woes, they're just getting on with their lives. Some of you could learn a thing or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:47 PM
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Friendly reminder that the majority of men and women are good people, they aren't bitter or whining relentlessly online about their dating woes, they're just getting on with their lives. Some of you could learn a thing or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:47 PM
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A little ragebait method I saw being talked about on Tik Tok that I've used before in years past is when someone says something you don't agree with you just tell them "That's such a Reddit opinion" or "Typical Reddit opinion" It always works, nobody wants the Reddit label.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:41 AM
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I don't know why more people on here don't just do what they want, stop worrying about whatever the latest dating trends are and just do whatever works for them. Life will be much easier when they're not trying to live up to this silly narrative they've built themselves. If they wanna chase then great, if they don't wanna chase, then also great, all that matters is if it is effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:49 PM
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I mean I fully support sexually liberated women, women should be able to sleep with whoever and however many men they like, but at the end of the day I'm more on the sexually conservative side nowadays, so I got with someone who aligns with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:18 AM
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Imagine still associating yourself with a pill in the big 25 💔🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:48 AM
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You can assume whatever you like friend, that's your prerogative. But I'll never understand someone showing their face on an anonymous site like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:21 AM
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Yeah I'm not dumb enough to show myself on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:09 AM
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You can tell that anyone who uses terms like Chad unironically doesn't get much success, because people who do succeed aren't worried about an imaginary boogeyman they made up in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:07 AM
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People who see art is something that can be objectively measured always makes me laugh, art and anything like it comes down to personal preference. People are going to like and enjoy different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:29 AM
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I ventured over to r/SnyderCut out of curiosity and I've learned that you apparently can't appreciate Snyder's version of the character if you are excited for Gunn's movie. As if you can't like two different depictions of the character.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:06 AM
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There's no such thing as a wrong/invalid preference for not wanting to date somebody. All preferences are objectively valid as long as you aren't a dick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:01 PM
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I don't know, I've not been here enough to see it. My perspective has always been that every single preference is valid, just don't be a dick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:00 PM
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A few people on Reddit having issues doesn't mean that it doesn't work, it works plenty in real life. Remember that online and Reddit aren't real life. Reddit makes up probably less than a single percent of people across the world, if they're lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:56 PM
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Maybe it's just a culture thing over in the United States (shocking) but over here in Australia, very rarely do you find women who care about what you do, hell, I just work at a Bottle-O part time (liquor store for the Americans) and my partner doesn't care. Most women will be happy as long as you can look after yourself and you're not a useless bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:48 PM
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Even as a dude joining here recently it's given me a bit of a culture shock how many of these guys live online 24/7. The amount of them that cite studies and data as an excuse for their dating woes saddens me a little bit. Lack of introspection with a lot of them is quite disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:46 PM
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All depends on the person, there are some men that aren't intimidated and prefer a different type of personality. But there are absolutely plenty of men who are intimidated by strong and successful women, it makes them feel small and like the "woman" in the relationship, as they feel it's their job to provide. It's definitely not the case for all men, but it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:44 PM
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A lot of the shit people get here for their opinions purely comes down to how they deliver their opinions, if some people showed a bit more tact in their delivery they probably wouldn't get people shitting on them constantly. Sure with the internet and anonymity you don't have to be tactful, but common decency and respect goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:36 PM
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All depends on the delivery at the end of the day, just saying it's a preference is fine but when you've got people slinging around words like "slut" or "the wall" or shit like "insecure prude" is when it gets messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:34 PM
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I think it depends on how it's said, because a man that goes "I personally prefer to not date women with high body counts" is fine, because he's just stating his preference. The difference is a lot of men on Reddit will say shit like "Women who have high body counts are fucking sluts who are used up and hit the wall, they'll die alone" It's all in the delivery. A lot of men on Reddit with that preference don't tend to use a lot of tact in regards to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:33 PM
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Not really, dumpster diving would be sleeping with women I'm not attracted to. I just got bored of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:03 PM
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I only ever slept with people I was attracted too, and it was validating at first, but after a while it was the same song and dance, got boring. I wanted more fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:30 AM
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I'll be honest, I had a phase of casual sex a couple of years back and I regret most of it, didn't like the person I was, was mainly just myself and the women I was with using each other's bodies. Didn't feel nice afterwards, usually felt quite empty and vapid after a while. If I could go back I probably wouldn't have slept with most of them, I much prefer waiting to know someone before sleeping with them now (a lot of men on here probably wouldn't be able to fathom that) It's not all that it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:35 AM
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Let me let you in on a little secret, it's not as deep or as serious as you're making it out to be, little bit of projection on your behalf me thinks (if you have to keep saying how successful you are/were then don't be surprised when people think you're lying). I had my phase of sleeping around myself, looking back, I regret most of it, don't like who I was during that time. At the end of the day dude, people are nuanced and complex, painting women/men with a broad brush is some serious black a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:28 AM
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They aren't the traits that are necessarily the answer, but becoming a more relaxed and open minded person is extremely important in becoming that person. But I think reality doesn't line up with what you say, the real world doesn't operate that way. No two women/men are the same. But each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:17 AM
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If that's your point of view that's fine, but I think your view doesn't actually hold up in the real world, people are nuanced and want different stuff. But the each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:15 AM
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They are. Look at some of the responses. "Women don't care they only stay with abusive chads" "Attractive guys are vapid and shallow" It's always something else, because if they actually left their rooms and turned off their computers they'd see that none of the Red Pill cope actually holds up in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:57 AM
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Which Red Pill influencer told you to have that opinion? Because none of that actually holds up in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:56 AM
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If they actually spent a day leaving their computer screen and meeting people out in the real world it would all fall apart and crush their world view. They only have the opinions they have because some other dude with no world experience told them that's how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:53 AM
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Working at a Bottle-O is great, I'm the go-to guy for booze for all of my friends, plus I get a pretty sweet discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:47 AM
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Easier said than done when most of the men and women here see the world incredibly black and white. Not a lot of nuance in many of the opinions you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:10 AM
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The ones that are fine aren't the ones that are bragging and talking about it consistently like a lot of the dorks on Reddit thankfully. The ones on Reddit seem like the ones who deep down aren't okay with it but it's their only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:08 AM
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All depends on the individual. It may matter to some, it may not matter to others. Nothing wrong with either opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:07 AM
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Whether or not body counts matters purely comes down to the individual. If someone thinks it matters, then guess what? Body count does matter. If someone doesn't think it matters? Then guess what? It doesn't matter. There's no objective answer on whether it holds relevance, it's purely down to preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:06 AM
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I do agree but you'll get some dorks on here saying "Then why do so many get ran through" Some women do like the casual sex option they have, plenty don't though. But a lot of people on here can't think in anything other than generalisations, but that's what happens when you take the red pill or the black pill. Critical thinking gets erased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:03 AM
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Because the whole attitude around it just screams "You can't fire me I quit" They can't find success so they pretend it's their decision when they weren't getting any success in the first place. Whether or not they actually have leverage over there is up for debate, they're still losers regardless of what country they're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:17 AM
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Passport bros have gotta be one of the dorkiest groups of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:38 AM
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I have never heard of this, smells like it's not actually that prominent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:36 AM
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Of course it matters, most would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:34 AM
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That's still socially awkward my guy, you can be popular and likeable while being socially awkward. The losers are the ones who complain about being socially awkward and how it means they can't get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:32 AM
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Now that I'm with my partner? None to be honest with you. Every other woman has kind of just been eh since I got with her. She's all the woman I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:03 AM
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"Choose guys like me" The guy who women have never chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:01 AM
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Each to their own my friend, looks like we just have different perspectives on the matter. Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:37 AM
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My friend just because you've never personally seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Trust me even I see couples sometimes and go "Really??" But if it makes them happy, that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:34 AM
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I'm not too worried about a hypothetical scenario that has zero chance of happening. So we really don't have anything established. Like I said, you're right, some women are attracted to that, but no two women are the same, everyone will have something different they like. Edit: for those who didn't see the comment, bro said my future wife would leave me for LeBron James if he asked. Guys like this stuck on made up scenarios that never will happen always makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:32 AM
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As much as I think True Rate Me is loser shit, I've seen stranger things happen. I've seen men like that with stunning women before, and no they weren't rich. Purely depends on what the woman's type is. Some may like him, some may not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:30 AM
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Some women definitely gravitate to that clout, wealth and power, but not enough to make it a generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:29 AM
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I've never heard of the term before but I know what you mean. A lot of guys really overcomplicate it. When proximity alone can probably do a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:22 AM
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Of course, nice is definitely the bare minimum. And while being relaxed and open minded aren't necessarily the answer, they can seriously help you find what you're looking for along the way. But I get where you're coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:19 AM
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I'm sure there are some women attracted to dominance, but painting them all with the same brush is incorrect in my opinion. Plenty of men out there who aren't dominant and still in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:17 AM
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Agreed, I have a mate who on his best day can still be pretty socially awkward and not the best around women, lo and behold, he found himself a woman who's a bit awkward like himself, but around each other? No awkwardness. It works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:15 AM
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Start of a brand new week, intermittent fasting has been going strong, my body is used to it now and I feel so much better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:08 AM
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That social stigma is there for a reason. Because the only people discussing these weird topics are chronically online dorks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:59 AM
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Because the only people actually peddling those cherry picked studies are the minority of men who aren't succeeding. Normal people don't discuss studies and data when it comes to dating, it's seen as weird and incel behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:56 AM
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As I've said previously, if you need something like data and statistics to back up something as complex and nuanced as dating you're lost. Try bringing up statistics in real life to explain why you're not getting success, you'll rightfully get mocked as a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:54 AM
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Dating isn't bad at all, I've not struggled and neither have my average friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:52 AM
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If you can't comfortably discuss something in the real world that's probably for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:46 AM
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What the fuck are y'all talking about with this shit? Shit just screams chronically online. You'd never hear conversations/discourse like this in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:22 PM
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The male loneliness epidemic isn't a legitimate issue. The majority of men are successful in dating, no amount of circlejerking from chronically online will make it less true because they don't have any real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:14 PM
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Bottom of the barrel men online are struggling yes, but most of the men you'll meet throughout your life are happily in relationships. The men who are struggling really aren't enough to make a big deal out of, they're very much a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:04 PM
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Friendly reminder that it's incredibly easy to date as a man in 2025. The only reason you have to struggle is if you're bottom of the barrel. Otherwise you got no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:01 PM
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Yes women have dating fairly comfortable, but let's not pretend like it isn't easy to date as a man too. It's one of the easiest times in recent history to date. If you're not a sub-human/garbage individual nobody is really struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:54 PM
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I find that r/memesopdidnotlike are less responsive if the post shows a right winger getting offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:41 PM
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Think I might have been shadow banned from r/memesopdidnotlike because I decided to go against the grain of left wingers getting upset over jokes and posted a few of right wingers getting offended. They don't eat those types of posts up as much, especially if you're making fun of Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:39 PM
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I think old mate has got the wrong idea, I've got a partner. I'm not interested in favours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 12:49 AM
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It's insecurity because a lot of that self-assured energy and confidence is fake, a lot of them are putting on a front of someone that isn't them, because they're ashamed of who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:29 PM
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A secure man is 100% himself without worrying how others perceive him. They don't put on a front (like Red Pill men often do), they're just them unashamedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:14 PM
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It's quite easy to sleep well when you're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:13 PM
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We disagree, the only men who fully take the Red Pill are incredibly insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:12 PM
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Of course but Red Pill does nothing to quell them, if anything it just makes the insecurities worse. Red Pill is not for secure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:10 PM
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Pretty much, I was lucky to catch it fairly quickly once I started just feeling better in general, but a lot of them aren't smart enough to find their way out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:07 PM
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A lot of them seem stuck in 2016 internet mode, they haven't moved with the times and desperately defend their rhetoric despite nothing to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:06 PM
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With the way you talk you can tell you have zero clue how the real world works. I wouldn't be speaking so confidently if I were you when it's clear you have zero experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:50 PM
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It's weird and slightly autistic to be so over-reliant on stuff like studies, data and statistics yes, the majority of people are not concerned with nor worried about that sort of thing. What's the point in convincing someone so far down the chronically online rabbit hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:37 PM
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Probably not being insufferable cunts (I imagine is the real answer)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:57 AM
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What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:56 AM
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It's the truth my guy, there's nothing to fabricate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:25 AM
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This may genuinely be the most Reddit/autistic comment I've ever read, and that's hard to achieve when there's so many on this subreddit alone. You're wrong because it's clear you don't have any real life experience, you live behind a screen and rely on cherry picked data and statistics that back your narrative, because it can't possibly be your fault right? It's women's fault, which just happens to be the brunt of men peddling this shit. You're not educated, you're a socially awkward weirdo who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:20 AM
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Because measuring dating with stuff like data and statistics just doesn't hold up to reality. If anyone brought up stuff like that in real life they'd rightfully be mocked and cast off as a weirdo. The majority of people do not need to rely on that sort of rubbish when it comes to dating. It's the bottom of the barrel incels and losers that rely on it. Because it makes them feel better about the fact they've got nothing to offer and allows them to make excuses for their own failures. Normal peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:46 AM
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Do you believe that every single woman has the same bar for what hell is? Obviously it's going to come down to the individual, the world isn't black and white. A large amount of women are saying the bar is in hell for men, so yes, that is men's fault if they can't even clear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:42 AM
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Using dating discussion sites and subreddits to back your claims is certainly a choice, I'll give you that much. This may be the most Reddit/chronically online comment I've ever seen. It does not reflect real life or reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:38 AM
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It's the way most people use that term. Like I said, the bar being in hell, does not mean that literally every man applies, it means they should be able to reach those standards, but again, a lot of men still don't. Hence, the bar can still be in hell and some men can still not reach it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:36 AM
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The men here really are lost causes aren't they? The post about the bar being in hell for women proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:33 AM
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It does make sense, the only people it doesn't make sense to are chronically online Redditors with zero lived experience. If you need data and statistics when discussing dating you're already behind the rest of the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:32 AM
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I'm using the definition how it is applied, you're trying to change it because you don't like the reality it reflects. Most people would disagree with the definition you've used, you're in the minority on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:30 AM
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If it worked that way then that would be great, but we can't just go changing definitions to suit what we want. The bar being in hell means that realistically any man should reach those standards, but it doesn't mean they do, and considering a lot of men can't even reach them, goes to show how bad shit is. It can absolutely be both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:24 AM
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It can absolutely still apply, the bar is in hell yet these chronically online men still can't reach it. But as I've said, the losers on here don't represent the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:54 AM
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Unironically using statistics and data when discussing dating has gotta be one of the most dorky and Reddit things I've ever seen. Thank you for the laugh my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:57 AM
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I and my friends are some of the most average men you'll meet, I'd rate myself a 4 on a good day, realistically I should be struggling with dating right? I never have though, and I'm currently in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:41 AM
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The bar is in hell for all men, most average men you meet will be in relationships. It's only the bottom tier, chronically online Redditors that actually struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:40 AM
6

Using data and surveys to explain dating has gotta be one of the most Reddit/chronically online things I've ever heard. The real world proves it all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:37 AM
-1

Yes, the bar is in hell for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:35 AM
-2

The bar is in hell for everybody, more at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:32 AM
2

Good on you buddy, keep letting it out, I believe in you. I'm sure one day all the complaining about how hard men have it will pay off soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:27 AM
2

Ironic considering how upset and annoyed you're getting that people are calling you full of shit. You might wanna take some of your own advice buddy. You'll get there one day, I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:24 AM
2

Yeah I'd probably stop here if I were you, you really don't have a clue. Maybe one day you'll join us in the real world instead of living in a fantasy world where men are somehow oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:08 AM
2

Let me guess, you think the male loneliness epidemic is real too? Come on, don't be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:03 AM
2

I've never understood the women who will take free drinks from men in clubs regardless of intention. Maybe it's just me but I usually feel a little insulted when someone asks to buy me a drink or offers to buy me something. Like I don't need a handout dude, I can afford my own drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:18 AM
4

I see men online got extremely upset over a women's only nightclub/bar seeing success. Pretty fragile behaviour to get upset over somewhere women can freely club without being harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:12 AM
1

Who said they have to listen to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:27 AM
1

They don't listen regardless, everything is women's fault and it's so hard being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:24 AM
0

It's a reality for a minority of men, it doesn't reflect the average man's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:23 AM
2

Yes, and you go out in public and it clearly doesn't reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:17 AM
1

Yeah I did think about it more, it's still a weird comment, and a weird mindset to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:13 AM
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It makes sense to anyone who doesn't live their lives online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:09 AM
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Fair enough call, I didn't mean autistic in a bad way either, it just seems like a common trait to have an over-reliance on statistics and data rather than lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:48 AM
4

If you genuinely believe that women are privileged then you're lost, you have zero idea about what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:37 AM
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If you need data or evidence when it comes to dating then you're fairly lost to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:36 AM
2

Don't blame others for the fact that you're struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:36 AM
2

What a weird comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:35 AM
-1

If that makes you feel better about yourself mate, you're more than welcome to believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:35 AM
1

A lot of them don't even try in the first place and wonder why they're failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:34 AM
1

Strike a nerve did I?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:34 AM
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Lot of angry men on this subreddit that need sources and studies to back up their claims that real life experiences can quite easily disprove. I can understand needing studies for legitimate stuff, but relying on statistics for dating may be the most autistic thing I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:32 AM
1

Because I'm in a relationship and love my partner? What an odd thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:47 PM
-2

It definitely is easier than justifying and taking accountability for their own failures, I can't completely blame them either, they're getting a constant feedback loop online that it isn't their fault so when the reality sets in that it is their fault, they come up with everything to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:39 PM
0

I'm saying that the amount of men who are actually struggling are an extreme minority and don't represent the experiences of the average man, just because a few men are struggling it doesn't mean that dating is hard, the majority are still finding success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:33 PM
0

If that's what you consider bait then I'm sorry to hear that my friend, I hope you change your mindset soon, it sounds extremely miserable. If you need cherry picked statistics to make you feel better about some lack of success, then I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:32 PM
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The people disagreeing will spend time cherry picking studies that suit their narrative online when if they actually lived their lives in the real world they'd see the truth, too much time behind a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:27 PM
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I'm basing it off life, the majority of grown adults you meet are in relationships or actively dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:26 PM
-2

I'm far from it, I'd rate myself a 4 at best and most would agree with that. But I've never had issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:22 PM
-8

I said people who PPD users would claim are unattractive (when in reality they're just normal looking) But yes, most people are successful I'm dating. The people failing are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:21 PM
-9

Most men are doing well in dating, get off the internet and it'll prove itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:19 PM
2

If this post is bait goes to show the mindset of some people on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:17 PM
1

Exactly, I've never understood that. Men aren't out here getting arrested for saying hello to women. If you're getting arrested you're probably being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:17 PM
6

This is so far from the case, where do you come up with this nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:04 PM
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It's also Reddit, I'd hazard a guess that those complaining consistently about these things don't have much else going on in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:05 AM
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Yes I have noticed that, a combination of not going out much as well as lacking social skills is prevalent in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:01 AM
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They seem like they'd be awful to deal with on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:00 AM
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I know right? One of lifes greatest mysteries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:16 AM
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There's definitely a lot of luck that can go into dating, a lot of people on here disqualify themselves before they even begin though, mindset plays a big part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:14 AM
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Sorry bro it's my turn, you can do it next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:09 AM
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You're not a piece of shit because you struggle with dating, a lot of these people struggle with dating because they're pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:09 AM
7

Each to their own my friend, agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:17 PM
1

I imagine 90% of this stuff is exclusively an online problem, the majority of people in real life aren't like this thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:33 PM
3

Some people do yes, but the majority of people aren't focused on you, nor do they care about you. The majority of people will see you happy and go "Good for that guy."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:32 PM
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Just seen that study about how physical attractiveness and looks affect how people are treated in service work, that people will judge you based on how you look a lot of the time rather than your actual service. Says on average men are more likely to experience this judgement in customer service than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:47 AM
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If all the women you come across are hoes, it's probably your fault. If all the men you come across are fuckboys, it's probably your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:55 AM
7

There is no male loneliness epidemic, however, there is a loneliness epidemic in general. People overall are more lonely now than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:01 AM
0

Being a non-American who occasionally decides to peak over at American politics (yikes) every so often, I do find it funny how often liberals over there are called "leftists" and "loonie far lefties" or whatever you call it. Liberals in comparison to America are more left, but that's because of how far America has shifted to the right wing. To the rest of the world American liberals are right wing as fuck, the Democratic Party is right wing as fuck too. I'd hate to see how America reacted to a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:01 PM
0

I do find conservatives quite funny at times, they'll call themselves logical but will have a meltdown if they see a transgender person out in public. Doesn't sound very logical to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:08 AM
2

Remember last year when millennials tried to pretend that Gen Z was offended and scared by Eminem releasing an album even though I can tell you the majority of Gen Z kids grew up with Eminem. Millennials are a weird bunch man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:36 PM
2

I couldn't care less about an objective perspective on it, or how my sex life is going compared to other people, as long as my partner and I are happy, I couldn't care less about other people's sex lives. I just don't discuss sex with my friends because quite frankly, it's not their business what I get up to in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:13 AM
2

It's just a privacy thing for me, my sex life is something I would prefer shared between myself and my partner. I know I personally wouldn't go bragging about my sex life to others, so I guess it's something I would expect in return out of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:00 AM
1

Each to their own, I wouldn't go blabbing about my partner and Mine's sex life so I guess I sort of expect the same respect given back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:56 AM
3

She can be proud, but she doesn't need to go sharing it with her friends about our sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:55 AM
3

Another unpopular opinion, Discussing the sex life of yourself and your partner with other people or your friends is wrong. If I found out my partner was saying anything like that to her friends, I'd probably dump her on the spot, it's a total invasion of privacy in my opinion. And before anyone jumps to conclusions, I'd be angry even if she was saying positive/good things about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:46 AM
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I'm genuinely thankful that none of this gender wars garbage is prevalent in real life. One of the biggest terminally online things I've seen. Most people you meet in the real world are just normal people regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:13 PM
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My unpopular opinion is that there's no bad or wrong reason to not want to date someone. Don't want to say someone with a high body count? Valid. Low body count? Valid. Big forehead? Valid Doesn't make enough money? Valid Has a hobby you don't like? Valid Every reason to not want to date someone is a valid reason, it's your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:51 AM
3

If your partner is celibate then you break up with them, why skirt around the issue like a coward? Going behind their back and sleeping with other women is just sad. At that point you gotta have some self-respect and respect for your partner and break up with her. Don't be in a relationship with them if you aren't happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:19 AM
5

Happy Men's Mental Health and Pride Month to you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:18 AM
1

Musk and Trump fighting is delicious. A lot of people regretting their vote because of those idiots. Why anyone would put that clown back in office I'll never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:27 PM
1

I would steal the identity of the bank owner and sell the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:30 AM
1

Conservatives will call someone a radical communist for their beliefs when the beliefs are just that everyone deserves basic food and shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:29 AM
1

At the end of the day the women I was with, we both knew the drill, we were using each other and leaving it at that. Which was fine on both ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:16 AM
2

I moved away from the Red Pill years ago but I am thankful for having gone through it and eventually moving on from it. It helped me become a stronger person. As a teen I was always told I was fat, ugly, all the typical shit you hear as an unattractive guy growing up, whenever I did manage to get a woman it was always about what a lovely guy I was and how it was my personality that drew them in, and I always resented that deep down, why didn't you say you liked my looks? It ate up at me. After I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:55 AM
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