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| 1 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?Both 20 1 year and 2 months Normally every day and would be like 2 times a day or more (PIV) for me giving him head it’s between 2-3 times a day. The days that we hadn’t sex exist but ar rare. When we started dating we didn’t had any place for us so it would be like 1-2 times a week we would go to the motel and had sex as much as we could, when we started living together the same routine of now started 0 kids He initiates a little bit more than me it could be like 60/40 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How would you rate your looks?9/10 Normally I’m rated 8-10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?This is about looks but also about personality traits or something that you could call charisma. It’s about being confident (and look natural), being funny, have conversations that woman find interesting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:44 PM |
| – | If you could choose between the most handsome men, how many of them would you choose for sex?If they ar all mens that I’m attracted to so probably I would have sex with all of them or even with a lot at the same time if that could be possible. And then if I fall in love with one I would enter in a relationship with him. But if I end up starting have a real interest for one before I have sex with all then i would choose have a exclusive relation with him and focusing on him forgetting the others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | I Hit It First: Why A Girl’s Sexual Past MattersYou try to find a thousand reasons why some women choose to fuck with various men, but do you know what the real main reason is? Women just like to fuck just like you men and they take advantage of the advantages they have in the sex market to be able to fuck with several 10/10s and be demanding with everything that satisfies them. It doesn't make sense that a woman who is single and likes to fuck doesn't do it just because she will lose "value" to some men, it pays more to find a man who doesn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/23 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshitIf your environment it’s a university campus and the parties that the persons of university campus go so guess what? You will really only find men and woman in the age of 17-24. But that’s because you probably are also in this age. Now try to go away from that academic environment and go to a mixed one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Men are not looking for a virgin as some women here claim, but rather they are looking for characteristics we often associate with virginsWoman will probably remember the men that she had the best sex with and best orgasms in their life, if that wasn’t the one that she lost her virginity (not very probably) so she wouldn’t even think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Why shouldn't EVERY guy prefer a virgin for a serious commitment?And I can 100% reject any man that wanted a virgin and then changed his ideas bcs saw he couldn’t find one/ think I’m worth it even not being virgin. This kind of guys are very frequent and only cause problems in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief systemIm a sub but also a dom. We don’t need to be just sub ou dom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:41 PM |
| 8 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationThere are mens that don’t even want sex often. Just go to the sub dead bedrooms. There ar stories of lot of mens in relationships that only want the emotional part/ spend time with the person and then don’t want sex/ want it very rarely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is it misogynistic to not want a girl that’s been with a shit ton of guys?One thing is the physical attributes, other thing is values. Having a low/ high body count has everything to do with values, and it’s hypocrite to want someone to have values that you don’t have/ don’t want to have. It’s like wanting someone that it’s not a liar but you lie, someone that don’t cheat but you pretend to cheat, someone that it’s humble but you are not. It’s hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Marry A Virgin But it Turns Out You’re Not CompatibleYou virgin? Because you can be sure that having sex with a person that don’t make any move, not making any easy expressions or noise, something close to falling asleep, it’s not good at all. sex is only good when we see the other having reactions, and we see them feeling pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Marry A Virgin But it Turns Out You’re Not CompatibleYou virgin? Because you can be sure that having sex with a person that don’t make any move, not making any easy expressions or noise, something close to falling asleep, it’s not good at all. sex is only good when we see the other having reactions, and we see them feeling pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:40 PM |
| 9 | Marry A Virgin But it Turns Out You’re Not CompatibleThere are people with really different sex drives and that can be incompatible in bed in a extreme way. There are people that only want sex 1 or 2 times a month or even less, people that don’t want at all. In the sub dead bedrooms there are several history’s about people that married virgins and then they was totally incompatible in sex / really different sex drives, in this sub there are a lot of stories about the partner just loose the sex drives (a lot of times there was signs before marriage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:32 PM |
| 14 | After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern.It’s very common men pretend that they love a woman just to have sex and then when they have it just ghost them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 02:24 PM |
| 15 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herThat’s one of the things that i think it’s a reason. If the girls didn’t had previous experiences they can’t say so certainly that the guy is bad at sex, don’t make oral well, can’t find clit and so much other things. So guys think this is a way of 1- not having them complaining sex is bad/ they don’t make efforts to pleasure them and 2- not having insecurities since the girl don’t know better man at sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 03:51 AM |
| 63 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herUnless a guy is a conservative religious men that believes sex before marriage is a sin and it’s also a virgin I don’t get why a men would want a virgin woman at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 03:24 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussyNo not that, I already had a boyfriend that was virgin and was really toxic. It’s just I have a low body count and would prefer to stay with someone that it’s like me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 11:48 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussyI would prefer a man that have a low body count but if I really love him and see it’s worth it to invest so wouldn’t be a deal breaker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussyHow can you be sure about that? If you are in a really toxic relationship you will get more damage if you stay there for 5 years ( body count of 1 since you didn’t cheat) than leave in the first year and in the others had only hookups. The most you stay in a toxic relationship the most you get damage. And also less will be your body count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 11:30 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Wanting a virgin/low body count woman isn't about pussyOk let’s imagine a girl that had only one relationship and got a big trauma for it since it was toxic (it can happen a lot in the first one bcs the girl will not have past experiences and will not see the previous toxic signs to get out fast before the biggest damage). If the girls choose you as her second boyfriend obviously she will be psychologically damaged. Now imagine a girl that had 20 hookups and 0 relationships, this girl will not have any post trauma due to relationships. So maybe the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Do younger women actually like older men?Yes my current boyfriend is 19. Would be ok for me to date someone who is 18 also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Men & women think “I got what I wanted”If the woman is richer than the guy than she is the one that will loose more things on the divorce. If the guy is the one that want to stay with the baby/ child and the woman is not interested in it so she is the one that needs to pay child support. Is this hard to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 09:23 PM |
| 9 | Do younger women actually like older men?I’m 19 and probably I wouldn’t hookup/ have a relationship with nobody with more than 24 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How to unequivocally signal I do NOT want to be talked to?The best thing ever for don’t get approaches is wear a hijab, like this everyone will think you are Muslim and for that reason don’t want hookups/ having a boyfriend. When I wear hijab it works 100%, 0 approaches, when I don’t wear it I receive a lot. The classic thing is wearing a marriage ring, unfortunately some people will not see it/ don’t realize, an hijab it’s more visual. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Has "one girl a day" approach worked for anyone here?Men please don’t do this in the mall, when I go to some normally I get 5 approaches in some hours, it’s totally horrible. Any girl wants to be approached at the mall, they just want to shopping in peace. Do it in the bar/ club where woman are more open to this. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Should I pay for it or be patient?It really depends. I stayed with some mens that I felt like they was probably a virgin, I didn’t asked so I will never be sure. My ex was virgin and told me, the fact of being nervous, not knowing exactly what to do, having hard time to put in etc was visible, but again if you don’t tell nobody will have 100% sure. Maybe some tips would be like learn where the clit is before and go down on her before penetration, like this maybe she wouldn’t think you ar a virgin. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Men & Women OptionsSo you saying that an average man have dozens of woman’s wanting to have a relationship with them and marriage them? I guess that’s totally unrealistic. Actually on my daily I saw things different, woman normally have some male friends that actually would like to have a relationship with them and not just sex, and that’s more uncommon to happen with a man. And ofc for you want marriage a person at least you need to be in any kind of relationship/ courtship with her before (unless you are crazy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 6 | Do women in relationships go out for attention from other guys?I’m a women in a relationship and I go out only for enjoy it with my friends and enjoy the music. I’m already harassed almost every day also for guys that would be considered good looking and I hate it. It’s not because I’m in an environment where the approaches are social accepted that I start liking it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men: What’re your opinions on sex work and how does it differ depending on you relationship?That 4 and 5 are a little bit hypocritical, so in your vision let the woman’s objectifying themselves and being objectified by a lot of mens just because some mens don’t have social skills/ beauty or whatever for find a woman that actually wants to have sex with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public?A But I notice the most revealing I dress more are the approaches, However dressing simple and modestly doesn’t stop the approaches at all, only makes them decrease | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Men should just pay for sex until they decide to get marriedUnless the prostitutes you ar talking about are goats, because yes that’s usual lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Men should just pay for sex until they decide to get marriedIm aware, if we take countries with Muslim majority and sharia law for ex the majority of them marriage virgins. Ofc prostitution exists but much less than in the west, first bcs it’s cultural and religiously unacceptable, 2nd bcs it’s a serious crime in a lot of these countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Men should just pay for sex until they decide to get marriedIn traditional non western cultures men normally don’t go after prostitutes before the arranged marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Men should just pay for sex until they decide to get marriedWhat woman would make the sacrifice to remain virgin to a man that had fucked a lot of prostitutes? This guy it’s probably high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Men should just pay for sex until they decide to get marriedSo for you men should go for prostitutes and then get an arranged marriage. And woman? Should go for hookup and then an arranged marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | It’s women’s nature to exploit men’s sex drives, they evolved to be this wayI do feel pleasure for PIV and no it’s not the clit stimulation that happen in some positions, I know how to distinguish when this happens and when I’m actually felling pleasure only for PIV. Its a completely different pleasure it feels completely different and I can say sometimes the one from PIV it’s even more strong than from clit. I’m sorry you can’t feel it but please don’t make a generalization saying all woman can’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:02 PM |
| 10 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenWell thank u very much I will check it out. For men it’s just look at the first page of pornhub and they would find several straight videos with hot woman, for woman we need to do a research. Btw you know hot man’s that make straight bdsm porn videos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?Ohh yeah Izmir it’s the beach tourists destination, there it can be more hard. You don’t wanting Muslims also make it really more hard. Anyway it stills being more easy to find there a Christian/ atheist virgin than in the rest of Europe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:05 PM |
| 9 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenYou found hetero porn with attractive men? Like in the Chris Hemsworth and Michele Morrone level? Please send me the link bcs I have been looking for it my whole life and only found on gay porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:56 PM |
| 24 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenBut in other hand it’s so hard to find an hot man in porn ( with musculated body and beautiful face) I mean for you to find someone looking like Chris hemsworth you probably need to go to gay porn. And in straight porn there ar several with hot and beautiful woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?Where are u from? Ankara? Normally that’s the less conservative city but even knowing it a big % of people marriage virgins. in turkey there are very conservative neighborhoods, others medium conservative, others not so conservative and then there are the non-conservative ones which are quite few, you are probably inserted in one of these environments. Try socializing with practicing Muslims and families where at least the woman's parents wear hijab and for all sure they are virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?That’s a pretty low % of the population in general, most woman’s and mens marriage virgins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?That statistic it’s for sure wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:47 PM |
| 3 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?Well it seems he is from turkey so probably will find a virgin to marry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundThis don’t make any sense at all. Kendall Jenner for ex doesn’t have big ass and boobs and its considered really hot, she have 254 million followers on ig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:10 PM |
| 12 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundThe young Pamela Anderson would be considered very hot right now too. As it is Margot Robbie. The beauty standards aren’t so strict like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 05:46 PM |
| 6 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I think the statistic it’s inaccurate, it’s not like woman are 2x more likely to don’t get enough sex from their partner, they only research 2x more about why their boyfriends wouldn’t have sex with them, what is really different. In the normal society perspective mens are always horny and always want sex ( a normal woman would get sexually harassed several times a day, Instagram dm full about sex messages etc) so when a woman is in a relationship she would find really weird that a man don’t wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:36 PM |
| 12 | should I take back gifts with value from an exNormally when we give presents it’s not good to ask to people to give it back, I think this is only valid if you are in some way scammed/ really damaged for the person. It looks like she also give you presents but the ones you gave have more value is that correct? In my vision ask the presents back would be valid if the damage that she did and the lack of respect towards you was big, like if the damage to you was so great as to not compensate in any way the moments you spent happy around her, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 5 | The notion that “women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of relationships”, is frankly untrueSo your theory is that men would prefer hookup forever and woman’s only want serious relationships? I never had problems in have a relationship with someone I wanted to, if I just find out someone that I choose to have a relationship I simply have it without efforts. Nobody ever rejected to have a relationship with me and I already rejected some that I had hookup. While with men I see a lot of them saying woman rejected to have sex with them and also relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | The notion that “women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of relationships”, is frankly untrueThe mothers stayed with the kid because he literally born from her. A woman can decide not to stay with a father and fight in justice for stay with the child the majority of time. As the father can decide to not stay with the woman and fight in justice for stay with the child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 02:10 PM |
| 0 | The notion that “women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of relationships”, is frankly untrueI don’t see it in my daily life, normally is the men that make efforts so he could enter in a relationship with a woman. Men normally want to have a woman just for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menI agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 09:47 AM |
| -1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menDifferent people, different circles. If they are from a church circle for ex it’s probable that a lot of them would want to wait. Anyway it’s better don’t blame someone for body count if in the end the man didn’t wanted to wait and wanted have sex until the fourth date. You attract what you are looking for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 09:46 AM |
| -1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menWe have not sure abt what really happened in their mind, if she changed, if she regret. If her boyfriend talked abt it with her and share with us their answer would be more easy to understand. Anyway I would feel the same way as he felt if my boyfriend do the same with me, it’s just not really correct take this story and make a generalization abt woman that choose to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 09:31 AM |
| 0 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menSo let’s see, you want to use this example and make a generalization saying that every woman that choose to wait time for have sex with partners have different behaviors with other men? That’s definitely not true, woman that want a strong emotional connection before gave sex exist, conservative woman’s in sex exist, and you want ignore like they don’t. You are the same person that will blame a woman for have an high body count, but demand that they have sex until the fourth date. At least decide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 09:06 AM |
| 0 | Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot (or hotter than him)Normally if a man it’s beautiful it’s because he born beautiful. If there parents are millionaires than would be no effort for be as well. There is no effort in that but this as you said attract woman. So following the logic mens that born beautiful and rich are promiscuous because there was no efforts in getting the girls, what made him getting them he always had without efforts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?If you like her why wouldn’t you be in a relationship with her? It’s not like you are going to marriage and then it’s hard to go back, it’s a relationship, you can end it if something goes wrong. A lot of girls want to wait until have a relationship, there is a lot of reasons for it, for ex, they want to have sex with someone that are not having sex around with other persons, they protect their emotional, they associate sex with emotional attachment. This woman probably likes you but she doesn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot (or hotter than him)If that it’s important to a man, he would find out a respectful way to ask it at least in the first months of relationship. If it’s not he will just not to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:12 AM |
| 8 | Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot (or hotter than him)My boyfriend doesn’t even asked me what my body count is, what about that? There ar a lot of mens that just don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Money in dating and relationshipWe don’t live together we still studying. If we start living together and I choose doesn’t work ofc I would be 100% ok with that, but as we both pretend to work I expect us to split the expenses of the house. What I talked about was spontaneous special datings that he invite me to, he never asked me to pay as well. It’s not about expenses of a house as rent, electricity, general food etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:25 PM |
| -1 | Money in dating and relationshipIf he invite me for a first/ second date I’m expecting him to pay, but I always offer to split as well for education. In the case he is my boyfriend it’s not like I want him to pay always when we go out, when it’s something casual I will want to pay for my food. but when it’s such a thing as a special date that he invites me and brig me to a restaurant/ somewhere else than I’m expecting him to pay. Man are providers by nature, and I don’t really like to date a man that choose not to follow the n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Women who had a promiscuous past in their 20s and now are no longer that was in your 30s... are you more reserved about sex with your current partner?It looks like she became religious and regret of their past. It’s not like she stop being sexual, for what you have said she still desiring a lot to have sex, but she will want to wait until the marriage as she became religious. Didn’t saw anything weird in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?That’s no true. I already fucked at least 2 guys that I didn’t wanted at all, if they invite me for a date I would refuse but for go fuck I would accept. That’s because I wasn’t interested in talk with them. I know several woman that did the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beAll of that you said is the same thing as: A person with QI 130 that needed to study for an exam only 2h and got a 20/20 have less merit, or even no merit than a person with QI 95 that studied 150h and got a 20/20. It’s not because you naturally born with a advantage that you should be shamed for take advantage of it, that’s actually ridiculous. It’s the same as saying to a heir to stop buying expensive things as he did no effort for have them, this only demonstrate envy. Are this Incel men jeal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesMy theory is that woman in itself are naturally much more attractive then men, so it’s easy to be attracted by a woman but for a men just some are attractive, it’s much more hard. I’m not even bisexual (don’t want to have sexual/ romantic relation with a woman) and I find myself admiring the beauty of several woman and being attracted for it much more than a men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 11:25 AM |
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