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| 1 | Direct or indirect approach?Yeah I know just it's more easy to create that emotion connection... If I start to see that a girl only want to hang out or use me to talk about her problems I just start to desappear... I start to say that I have other plans or things like that and in general they start to feel that they are losing me and start chasing me... It's kinda toxic now that I'm thinking about that | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Direct or indirect approach?And how to casual open without being direct telling that I'm stopping her because she caught my eye? And also how to demonstrate value from the beginning when your someone who talk less and ear more like me and don't like to talk about himself? Physical connection is natural actually while talking or teasing a girl I tend to use my hands and get closer with time... Emotional connection like I said I'm a very good listener so when a girl talk about her problems, dreams, family, traumas, fears, in… | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Direct or indirect approach?I think Im more of direct approach because I show my intentions from the beginning since I'm introvert and a listen more and talk less type of a guy... So that of start with an indirect approach and then transition to a get to know you and man to woman it's very hard for me | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Direct or indirect approach?I usually do direct approach by being impactful and with conviction and telling what caught my eye with a smile and respect... Specially here in France where women like a man with attitude and talk with clearness... But there's something in indirect approach that I want to learn that is more natural you know... so I wanted to know if I indirect approach first what could I say et then how could I keep the conversation and turn that into something more man to woman | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?How can I create that frame? | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?When it come to flirt I always start in a fun way you know, and tease I already have that on me naturally I'm a little cocky and insolent, but I do always with respect... And physical contact I start always in neutral areas when talking or making a joke like push her a little or when saying something and then if she's comfortable I go to other areas like hair, get close to her, take her hand, put my hand on her up back you know... | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?Ohh I see but make girls talk it's easy for my like have profound conversations talking about past, present, future, dreams, fears, problems I can make girls talk about all that very soon... My problem is making them interested in me and attracted to me you know... Make them want to kiss me and sleep with me | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?I see I'm good reading signals but how can I trigger emotions on a women? Like flirting and teasing and being sexual trigger that? And private topic is like talking about sexual topics? | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?How can I break that touch barrier without look creapy or needy? | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Tips for how to escalate things and to flirt sexually with a women?Well I focus on talking about her and listen her you know... Like I ask a question about her and from the information She gives me I make a flirt y or teasing comment to give some emotions to not Stay in a platonic conversation and I also if she doesn't ask anything I say something about my self from the topic we talk... But I don't really know how to dhv... How can I do that? | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?And how do I set that frame from the beginning? | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?I'm just not good in a relationship | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 09:41 AM |
| 2 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Good question... We are friend like we hug and talk a lot, playful banter all the time, some times we flirt with each oder but just to laugh... We never try to kiss or more with each other | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Yeah Craig do it perfectly I already watch him but I do the same and offer either the woman don't flirt in return or she does but want something serious with me | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 08:12 PM |
| -4 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?I see but I had some one night stands and the sex was great but I never wanted to repeat | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:40 PM |
| 0 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Well how can I say... I want a girl who I can have sex and make out but without make it serious or one night stand you see? But I don't know how to do it with a girl I'm friend already or with a girl I just met... Do you have some tips? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:39 PM |
| -1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?But how did when know her and make her want to have sex but still be friend in the beginning? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 06:24 PM |
| -2 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Yeah I see... I'm new on this of seduction so I don't know what makes a woman attracted and horny but What I do is approach a girl on street ou gym or whatever and I be direct by saying I find her attractive and then I ask her questions and I engage by personal input or some sense of humor or observations and statements you know, then I start teasing and flirting to make the conversations less platonic and some times I just show my intent by for exemples something she says I turn it sexual by mi… | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 04:43 PM |
| 6 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Yeah that's solid... I usually go up to girls on street with a direct approach by saying I find her attractive and then I start to know her and let her know me authenticly and I try to flirt and tease to make the conversation less platonic... Btw is that a good way to seduce a woman and create mutual attraction? Do you have some tips on how to escalate and seduce woman and make her attracted and horny? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 04:34 PM |
| -1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?So with a new one... I approach her and what should I do to create mutual attraction and make her want to have sex with me without wanted serious things? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 04:26 PM |
| -10 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?But how do I do to a girl want to have sex with me when she see me as a friend already? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 04:03 PM |
| -8 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?No, but I want | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?So imagine I walk up to a girl and we start chatting and knowing each other... What can I make to create a mutual attraction and sexual tension with her but just as friend? "I never had a fwb so I don't know what to do😅" | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:43 PM |
| 3 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Yeah but that's the point... When I'm with a girl I flirt and all that but they always want serious things and when I get just friend with a girl they don't want to got to bed with me | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:24 PM |
| 5 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?But how do I make a girl who I'm already friend want to go to bed with me? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:22 PM |
| -1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Yeah but how to have sex with a girl who is already friend? | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to spark attraction and keep it with a girl by message?So is the same way to get her as a girlfriend but less serious... Like I talk to her normally by get to know her and talk a little about my self and give opinions and all that, compliment her and tease her and make her laugh and all that to trigger her emotion side, I get more sexual with her and increase physical contact, get close to her and be more intense... Basically act like she already attracted and hooked up but without onnection | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to spark attraction and keep it with a girl by message?So if we meet up how can I get that spontaneous idea and make her want it? | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to spark attraction and keep it with a girl by message?That's true I prefer to meet up but she went far away so I know we will fade but steel I wanted to get her like friend with benefits if you know what I mean so a day I go near her we could have some fun | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to spark attraction and keep it with a girl by message?Yeah I know but when I approach her we talk and laugh in the beginning and I saw her reciprocate so I ask her number and till now we are talking... Like je already said I was her best moment in Paris and she bring up a date laughing and all that but she is far away from me and after 4 days talking and flirting she is starting to stop asking me things and I wanna know how can I make her invest more in the conversation now you know what I mean? | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 04:18 AM |
| 0 | How to act when a girl say she likes other nationality man?That's my Ronaldo gene I guess😂 | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How to act when a girl say she likes other nationality man?Yeah I will do that I saw she was online in a few minutes but didn't open the message I will wait till tomorrow night and then I ask her some question and see how je respond and if she respond | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 0 | How to act when a girl say she likes other nationality man?Yeah but that's weird because she seemed very nice and kind to me and now like that she says that you know what I mean | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:31 PM |
| 3 | How to act when a girl say she likes other nationality man?20 why? | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:28 PM |
| -1 | How to act when a girl say she likes other nationality man?And did I respond well or not? | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a group to then talk to the girl i'm interest at the club/bar?The table with balls with colors and numbers | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a group to then talk to the girl i'm interest at the club/bar?Yeah but one guy try that and they say "we wanna play just us together then you paly" | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a group to then talk to the girl i'm interest at the club/bar?Yeah I know but what i'm gonna say and talk to them? Like they where playing snooker and the girl more attractive for me also play | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a girl that works at my gymI know what is that... just choice the first thing that come too your mind and go and say it... because when you have to many choice that's mean that you are afraid of what she gonna think and react so you start too think of too many things to say and then you feel a strong preasure... just thing at one thing and say... girl are emotional and if you say the first thing that's is what you feel and want and makes you natural | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach a girl that works at my gymDon't worry man... just act normal... imagine that she is your best friend and talk the same way... when you do that you will feel more confortable and when the girl gonna feel you conftable and gonna feel the same way and you gonna feel more confident and you don't have afraid of what she thinks and what other thinks and all... at least that's what I do and works | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach a girl that works at my gymMaybe because your shy and you have afraid of looking people in the eyes and you don't know what to say... if she works there in the reception when you come in say hi and ask how her day go and it's probably she gonna respond "good and yours?" And then if you say just good that's end the conversation but if you say something like "now... not really good... it my day leg... I hate day leg" and you smile and you can laugh a little bit and now she can engage or at least laugh a little bit and the y… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:23 AM |
| 3 | How do I approach a girl that works at my gymWhen you pass by her you look at her and if she look back you nod and smile and if she don't do the same just dont do it... if she does then next time you pass her do that and say something like "working hard?" And if she respond well keep the conversation or not and then next time you see her if she's sitting at a training machine you go and ask how much set rest to her work and keep talking or if she leaves the gym you can go to her and say something like "hey, we pass by each other a minutes … | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How to lead a friendly conversation to kiss and more with a girl?How can I do naturally? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | How to lead a friendly conversation to kiss and more with a girl?Well... sometimes I try to touch them in hand or shoulder and i see that she dont like or is not comfortable enough so I stop escalation and talk normal and then I saw a good signal i try again but sometimes just not work... they talk and laugh with me but sometimes they dont feel comfortable with my touch and I touch not in a creepy way like I dont look at my hand when i touch and i dont just touch and stay in silence... sometimes that doesn’t work idk why | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | How to lead a friendly conversation to kiss and more with a girl?Yeah but that I'm ok I make a comment on her like her hair and I touch her hair or while I talk to her I put her hair behind the ear or while I tease her or play with her I touch her arm or shoulder I do high five I put my arm around her neck while walking and laughing of something but in baby steps like I start in neutral zonas like hand and shoulder and then I start moving to hair, neck, back, lower back, legs,... | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | How to lead a friendly conversation to kiss and more with a girl?So to have a conversation more seductive and to make her want to kiss me and all I just need to flirt and tease more and if she said something and can just turn that more sexual? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | How to text a girl whose number you got at a clubSay something about she said or do in the club with you... then you keep the conversation... but if you just talk 2min and then the intire night you never talk with her again so I dont think they remeber you and I think they don't gonna answer... | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | How to show intent to a girl and flirt without being and feeling creapy and boring?Thanks man💪 | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How to show intent to a girl and flirt without being and feeling creapy and boring?And how can I be self-confident? Because sometimes I feel like shit | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How to show intent to a girl and flirt without being and feeling creapy and boring?And how can I make a girl interested in me? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | How to show intent to a girl and flirt without being and feeling creapy and boring?Yeah like I see her signals and if its green I keep on but I de-escalate before she give a red signal and if is red I stop | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How to show intent to a girl and flirt without being and feeling creapy and boring?Yeah but how do I let her know I wanna fuck her? Like I say her "hey come to my home to do a little goku" | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | I've had multiple women agree to go on dates lately, only then to say they just want to be friendsOr she just testing you... | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I've had multiple women agree to go on dates lately, only then to say they just want to be friendsSay you already have to friends or I'm not good with friends or the things I do with you I don't do with friends... you just got in friendzone because you stay longtime in a friendly vibe and you don't show enough intent and flirt and teasing... | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | How did you beat approach anxiety?Just approach, don't think... what's the worst it can happened? She says she have a boyfriend or she's not interested... and what? If shes nor interested you move on... if shes interested start talking and get to know her, flirting, teasing, desqualifying her, do something fun with her... and eaven shes not interested you can talk with her, be her friend, know her friends, go out with her ans her friend... if the other girls see you with women in your side they will be attractive for them... and… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How to show to a women that I have value?But is not all women how take an attitude too approach a guy... actually I think man have to take attitude... especially when girls look at you and when you look at them, they look away and look at you again... or then she smile at you... but if they don't look and too me shes attractive I open her and I do a small talk and then when shes confortable and interested in de conversation then I move to a know her... and if she don't I move on... | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | How to show to a women that I have value?Yeah but if I don't approach then no women gonna cum too me you know... I'm not a Jensen Ackles or Ian Somerhalder... but I don't show intent to a girl all the time... i show intent when I need and allways calibrate... I tease, desqualify her, call on her bullshits... and when I'm not with her I dont focus on her or give her attention... I do my things and if she wants to comes out and I have things to do I just say I can't, another day... actually I show women I don't need her for notthing... I… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How to show to a women that I have value?So how can I have a real value... or better... how can I discover my value? | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | How to show to a women that I have value?Actually what I do is I approach a girl and in the beggining I'm 90/10... I use 90% of my energy with her and she uses 10%... and once she's confortable with me and interested in the conversation then I pass to 50/50... where I do more silence to her fill that silence with questions, flirt,... and I don't look of things to say and ask to her... | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How to show to a women that I have value?Just dont give a fuck of nothing... do whatever I want and fuck the other? | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How to show to a women that I have value?Be scarce... have hobbys and tings to do... be my first priority | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How to show to a women that I have value?So show value is my attitudes? | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:08 AM |
| 21 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?The friendzone is something that men get into and they don't get into us... we only stay in the friendzone if we stay in a friendly vibe for a long time... the friendly vibe is only in the first few minutes of an interaction to make her comfortable in yours presence... then you start flirting, teasing, touching, disqualifying her,... you start showing that you want more than friendship and if she doesn't want it then move on and go to another... the friendzone is because it's too friendly all th… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 07:59 AM |
| 26 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?Basically you touch neutral areas on beggining like the hands, the arm, the shoulder and when you see that she is comfortable with that you go up the level, start giving hugs, touch the hair, the neck then her back, waist,... always calibrated one once she is comfortable with touching one zone you move on to another... | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 07:53 AM |
| 6 | How do I Stop Being Nice To Women?Keep respecting girls dont be a Dick... and be nice to her but not like the others who do everything she wants and is always there for her and stop doing what he likes to do what she wants and let her be derespectfull to you... basically stop trying to impress her... just start teasing her and desqualifying her... when she says sometinhing you can say "bullshit", starts to be scarce like go out, talk to other people and girls, flirt with other girls, have a hobby or 2 or many you want... and whe… | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Is she angry with me or did she start to be interested in me but she walked away from me to lose that interest? What do I do?I can't... it's been 3 years i love her... i try to stop yhinking about her bur when I see her and I look to her eyes and I see her smile et I ear her voice and I just fall in love with her again... for some people think they have the most beautiful et awsome woman when other look to her... but for me is when I don't want to look to another one... and that's what happen... she's the one... I never fell like that with other women | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Is she angry with me or did she start to be interested in me but she walked away from me to lose that interest? What do I do?Ah ok like calibrate... and yeah i have a idea of that news... but I will try to do what you say... start conversation and see her... but I will talk to her and all but I think i don't show interest... I'm gonna play cool you see | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Is she angry with me or did she start to be interested in me but she walked away from me to lose that interest? What do I do?Your right but for 3 years i show i love her... but i never force her... like what 4 ou 5 mouth later she tell me she like me but don't wanted to be in a relationship with me... and she used a specifically Word "never"... and i said it's ok but if she want one day... i want... And what is The Waters by the way? | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Is she angry with me or did she start to be interested in me but she walked away from me to lose that interest? What do I do?But I won't force her to talk to me if she doesn't want to | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 09:15 AM |
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