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MINDSET SHIFTMadame-Bonfamille/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:35 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEMadame-Bonfamille/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:46 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESMadame-Bonfamille/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:03 PM
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You have it right 100%! I used to tell myself these things... then I realized I was gay, living in a heteronormative society. So basically I just wanted the wife, no husband but because of societal pressures I fed myself this drivel. Feeling sorry for my past pickmeisha self but so happy the brainwashing is wearing off. Thanks FDS! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:22 PM
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I used to tell myself these things... then I realized I was gay, living in a heteronormative society. So basically I just wanted the wife, no husband but because of societal pressures I fed myself this drivel. Feeling sorry for my past pickmeisha self but so happy the brainwashing is wearing off. Thanks FDS! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:20 PM
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I don't know if you read further but they gave the finches opposite hormones (giving females male hormones) to see what effects it would have. It all sounds really disturbing to me. Why are they doing this to the poor birds? It seems like just to satisfy some morbid curiosity. If they want to know about humans they should be researching humans... I volunteer my NVM neighbors 😂🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:52 PM
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They didn't read it. Just did a quick Google and linked an article that has nothing to do with leadership roles and all the testing has been done on rats or finches. Not humans. Sidenote: The things they do to animals in the name of research is fucking horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:35 PM
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I had a Pickmeisha stalk me FOR YEARS. It was back in my own Pick-Me days and I was hooking up with a guy who was in an open relationship. Pickmeisha even confirmed it was open. Then, the narcissistic asshole hyper focused on me and she got jealous. She warned me to back off but I didn't listen because "no one tells me what to do" 🙄. She stalked and harrassed and threatened me for YEARS. Long after I completely cut this loser out. She even changed her appearance to look as much like me as possib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:58 PM
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There is a subreddit called WGTOW (Women Going Their Own Way). I'm not sure how to link but it should be easy to search. If it's not enriching your life, you shouldn't do it! Life's too short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:35 PM
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My partner has a prescription. She just had our generic government brand so I don't know much about what's sold in other countries. I hope you like the books!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:42 PM
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Not sure if CBD products are available/legal where you live but that might be very helpful. I've always found doing research regarding my various mental health issues helpful. For some reason being extremely knowledgeable makes the symptoms seem more manageable. I second broth and smoothies, try to get some protein powder into the smoothies if you can. Two books I found extremely helpful in my mental health journey are 'The Feeling Good Handbook' by David D. Burns and 'Adult Children of Emotiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:37 PM
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And I hate how they often show the girls in TV Series nude or partially nude for no reason. Like any show about teenage girls is going to have a scene where she changes or gets out of the shower or whatever. Like how does that further the storyline at all? I don't want to see any naked teenaged girls when I'm just trying to watch a show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:19 PM
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Have we met? 😂🤣🙃 Being in this group makes me feel heard and understood. It's like a little island of sanity in an otherwise vast ocean of gaslighting and patriarchal nonsense. I beyond grateful to have found this space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:09 PM
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Facts. They see a smile as an invitation. I have what I like to call an auto-smile that I'm really trying to suppress but you know... years of being told to "smile, you're so much prettier when you smile," is hard to overcome. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:00 PM
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❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:13 PM
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Thank you for being supportive. I've been laughed at before for being upset about it but there's no way he didn't know what he was doing. I still don't understand why, and probably never will, but I am so glad for this group and for learning to set boundaries for myself. It's so hard with family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:04 PM
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He came over the other day and felt comfortable saying he hated my house because it was messy (we've been doing construction for the past year). Like don't fucking come over then. I didn't say anything because I have yet to overcome my training but I'm working on it with my therapist. Thanks for being understanding! I'm so glad for this group. I've told other people this story and been laughed at but I knew you Queens would understand. ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:02 PM
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Way to go Queen! Where they get the audacity I'll never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:28 PM
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And they say they want women in the trades. BULLSHIT. The trades are a cesspool of toxic masculinity and these scrotes make me fucking sick. I'm so filled with hate and anger but also despair. Working in the trades broke me. I haven't been able to work since, I'm terrified to allow anyone to be in a position of authority over me because I know they will abuse me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:18 PM
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I had a guy who wanted to call me Mommy during sex. 🤢🤮😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:54 PM
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Why do men initiate courtship and then turn it into a job interview for a position I didn’t apply for? I never thought of it this way and now I'm never not going to think of it this way. Preach Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:44 PM
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This is unfortunately true. Younger me made the mistake of thinking pretending to be asleep would stop a man from raping me... it didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:38 PM
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My LVDad is big on "honesty". I remember being around 13 and him saying how beautiful he thought women with long necks are and how my Mom and my sister had long and beautiful necks and I asked, 'What about me Dad?" and him saying no. It was devastating. And when I started to cry, I got in trouble because he was jUsT bEiNg HoNeSt. When I think of how much abuse I took from other men in my life I can trace a lot of it back to this moment. I still feel SUPER insecure about my neck. Like why would y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:33 PM
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I cry 😂🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:12 PM
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I used to find the thought of aging terrifying to the point of contemplating suicide. Mostly due to my Mom constantly shoving her pick-me tendencies down my throat. I'm over 30 now and have NEVER been happier. I don't know about you ladies but I was fed the line that 'this is the best time of your life, you'll never be as beautiful as you are right now' from my teens to my mid twenties and what a load of crap. It made me extremely afraid... if this is the best time, I don't want to go on. But it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:34 PM
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We had abusive parents so I guess this seems normal to her. I've tried to talk to her, she's otherwise brilliant and very esteemed in her field. It's really difficult to watch. Also she has a disability and she feels dependent on him even though she's really not. It's so frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:08 PM
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Thanks! I'll have to give it a try! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:51 PM
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Teach me your ways?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:45 PM
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I just had to severely limit contact with my cousin. We were born just two weeks apart and were together a lot in childhood but separated as teenagers. We started hanging out again in our early 20s and did a lot of drugs together and were "close" in the way two drug addicts can be "close". When I quit drugs several years ago she pretty much ditched me. At first it was just me having to make all the effort and then she just stopped answering my texts. I tried to cOmMuNiCaTe that it hurts my feeli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:39 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you! I was harrassed the other night IN MY OWN YARD! There I was, watering my flowers, minding my own business when a scrote who was over at my neighbor's for a sports party stands on their deck and uses it to leer over the fence into my yard over a SIX FOOT FENCE. He was disgustingly drunk and slurring his words. I tried ignoring him but he kept trying to force a conversation. I finally turned around and asked him as scathingly as possible what he was talking about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:16 PM
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My NVBIL is into tech and has keyboard trackers and knows all of my sisters passwords but she knows none of his and he won't allow her have any of his passwords. He won't even let her have the one for amazon prime, he makes her ask him 🤬. He leeches off her, sitting at home in his office all day doing God knows what (although I know for sure he is into equine hentai porn 🤢, found it by accident on his computer). He is manipulative, petty and cruel. I would definitely stay away from tech guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:56 PM
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I honestly thought surgeon would be way higher on this list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:43 PM
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This lady is my favorite! 😂🤣😍❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:16 PM
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I got called out for this. It made me feel really guilty before I found this sub. Not that I need a reason but I am penis repulsed due to trauma and these jerks made me feel ashamed of being traumatized. Just let people do what they want. People are a lot more understanding of straight men not wanting to sleep with people who were AMAB than they are of lesbians. As always women are being held to a higher standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:51 AM
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Ugh! I had a guy who would repeat text me the same message over and over and over until I responded. Didn't matter if I was at work, or said I was busy. Just kept sending the same message on repeat. And we weren't even "dating" we had gone on ONE date. I just told him his phone better be broken because I have better things to do than be harrassed all day because I don't answer fast enough. Boy bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:02 PM
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Ok thank you so much for responding! I was just confused and thought maybe I had done something wrong. You guys do an amazing job and I really appreciate there being a womens only community! ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:12 PM
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What if I have a flair and it lets me post but then no one else can see the post and I can't find it when I try to look it up through the search bar? Like all my comments show up and other posts have shown up so I'm really confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:08 PM
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Right! She is, and has always been my life goal! I was never a fan of Cruella. I always thought she was one of the scariest Disney villains. I love the aesthetic in the new movie though! Can't wait to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:36 PM
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Squeeeeeee! Someone finally recognized my name! You have made my day! 😎🤗😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:25 PM
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Love Ashnikko! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:47 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you! I'm glad you ditched the dead-beat and are working on healing yourself. You've got this Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:45 PM
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H2OMEN4 WaterMEN4 (H2O - Water) What are men for (Water - What are)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:43 PM
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I had to say it out loud a few times lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:29 PM
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What are men for H2O - water
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:25 PM
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The fact that women still date men is proof that sexuality is not a choice. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:35 PM
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Thank you so much!!! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:11 PM
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Accepting I was gay and writing off men made my life 10000000000x better. 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:21 PM
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Lmao what's up with that? I agree with you 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:14 PM
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Love this!!!!!! Would you go dumpster diving daily in the hopes of finding diamonds because someone you know once found diamonds in the dumpster? You get it. Keep on rocking on Queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:09 PM
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Facts!!!! As a gay women it's very hard to gauge who is friend and who is potential for more... I can say my experience trying to date on the Apps was awful. 90% of the time the woman you were talking to throws out that she has a bf but he's ok as long as he can watch. 🤢 Most of the rest were questioning their sexuality which is fine, but I think it's something you should definitely figure out before you start trying to date. I met my partner through mutual friends. We were casual friends for ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:05 PM
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They know they are gross and the only reason women are with them is: a) their ability to provide and b) societal pressure They are scared women are going to turn lesbian en masse. But maybe my lens is slightly coloured by my gayness... 🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:47 PM
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Couldn't even get through the whole thing. Makes me want to scream! A picture of his ex on his nightstand? He might just be forgetting??? Jesus Christ the amount of shit we're supposed to just put up with is infuriating. I've never read anything else by this advice columnist but this is garbage. If you go through his phone you'll just find something to upset you... ONLY IF HE'S A DIRTY, LYING SCROTE! Ugh I just want to cry for this poor woman! I want to shake her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:38 PM
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You are very welcome, Queen! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:53 PM
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To me, this study says it all... https://pure.mpg.de › contentPDF Web results Speaker sex and perceived apportionment of talk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:21 PM
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Thank you! ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:10 PM
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You can absolutely be a lesbian and sleep with men. When sex is your job it has nothing to do with desire. Gatekeeping lesbianism is very uncool. No one said being gay is a choice. She is a lesbian who worked as a SW. I slept with a lot of men to try and force myself to be hetero and guess what, I'm not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:43 PM
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Proof that WoMeN dOn'T bElOnG iN tHe TrAdEs /s 🙄🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:10 PM
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I told a guy I was married once and he said 'ring doesn't block the hole". 🤢🤬🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:36 PM
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Thank you so much! Love you too queen! No where to go but up! 😎😊🌷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:34 PM
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I tried working in a male dominated trade. It was horrific. I have never felt so bad about myself in my life. They feel like they can ask you sexual questions and touch you when they want. Make comments about your body. My boss literally asked me why I don't do my hair. Like because I'm working a physical job and I didn't get the job so I could dress up and pander to the Male gaze. Also they constantly make you "prove" yourself by doing stupid and dangerous practices because they do it. I was so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:25 PM
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It's so true though! I wish someone would do a study because this is a bigger problem than most people want to admit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:46 PM
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I just watched another true crime where the guy spent all day jerking it to porn and then went out and kidnapped a teenaged girl and locked her up in a cage he had in his barn which he had all set up as his disgusting rape dungeon. Sierah Joughin if anyone is interested but it is disturbing. Porn is doing something to these scrote brains. It's horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:35 PM
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Me too. And not that I know of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:02 AM
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They had really bad sex because of his micro-penis. She just got dumped by some NVM and is taking it rough. I tried to direct her to this Reddit but I'm not sure she's ready yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:29 PM
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My eyes rolled so far back into my head they may be stuck there. 🙄 My friend is doing OLD right now and my heart hurts for her. It's awful. It's just so awful. One guys first date idea was for her to give him a blow job in his truck. 🤢 And then she went out with him! I just want to shake her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:14 PM
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