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9	Is it a core tenet in the RedPill sphere that the woman in a heterosexual relationship doesn't work, only works part time, or only works from home (or some combination of the two)? I think the core tenent of being a red pill wife is for the woman to make the home as cozy and loving as possible and submitting to her husband. In return her husband provides her with security, love, commitment, respect as well as lead the household. I'm a working mum and I work full time as a senior forensic chemist. It's regular working hours 8.30-5.30pm weekday so about 44 hours a week. My husband does make 50% more than me but I also make close to 6 figures. Our financial situation allows u…	/r/RedPillWives	22/08/21 09:13 AM
1	The hypocrisy of single fathers critiquing single mothers Edit: And once again whatever I have replied is about red pill. I don't wish to reply on issues that move the goal posts. Either you have misinterpreted what I have written or once again have not understood the context and as such I do not wish to continue. I did not say I deny human nature, I am saying the nature of women according to red pillers with one very extreme: Women want to be raped. It's less this, more that unconditional love doesn't exist at all. Which is undeniably true. You have n…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/21 06:53 PM
1	The hypocrisy of single fathers critiquing single mothers Most divorces are initiated because of money issues. Not abuse So I'm not going to argue anymore but my context has always been about abuse from a red Piller not your average guy. And it's more likely that the redpiller is the abuser rather than the victim. Financial abuse is also a form of abuse. Besides redpillers are suppose to be high earners or they claimed to be so money issues shouldn't be a problem. So if anything it's more likely they exert control over money to control the woman. The o…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/21 02:40 PM
3	Need advise - feeling neglected by high powered career husband I think part of being in a marriage is the ability to pick up cues of your spouse. He might not be talking not because of you but the stress of his job has him thinking about it. It might seem he is neglecting you but I don't think so. He's most likely thinking about work. I will make it a point to make him comfortable. Maybe make him coffee or tea and bring him some snacks. And you don't have to wait for him initiate affection. You can give him a quick kiss and hug here and there. And when he's…	/r/RedPillWives	14/08/21 09:13 AM
2	Becoming a fat wife 6ft	/r/RedPillWives	14/08/21 03:32 AM
5	The hypocrisy of single fathers critiquing single mothers You are moving the goal posts. We are talking about red pill men. Will they allow women to abuse them? The core values of redpill are women want to be dominated, controlled, and manipulated It's more likely they are the abuser.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/21 03:16 AM
22	The hypocrisy of single fathers critiquing single mothers I have also seen some lashing out on purplepill that they are single mothers because they chose to divorce. Women are always the initiator for divorce they claimed so it's her fault for destroying the nuclear family. Being a single mother is detrimental to her future dating life and a hard journey for her ahead. How about it's more likely she figured that being a single parent is a better option than putting up with the abuse? Moreso, divorce meant that they have failed to rein the woman in whic…	/r/ExRedPill	13/08/21 06:11 PM
6	Should I be worried about my weight? You are perfectly healthy for your weight! 120 pounds is underweight for you and there are health risks associated with being underweight what you need to do is start lifting weights and building muscle to add curves to your figure. Well if that is what your husband wants. So ask him what he likes. You can also visit r/xxfitness for advice. Make sure you are eating enough calories and protein(1g for every lb you weigh) if you decide to go on the muscle building route. And no women will not becom…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/08/21 02:39 AM
4	What is a redpill woman? Is it a traditional woman, or something totally different? Thanks. Religion is a reoccurring theme so I might just have to bite the bullet and put my love of science in the background Science doesn't necessarily negate religion in fact it gives us glimpses of God's wonderful complex creations. My husband and I are in STEM fields. He is a data scientist whereas I am a senior forensic scientist. I used to be a pharmacologist at a lab in a general hospital but I switched fields because the hours were too hectic. I wanted more time to fulfil my role as a wi…	/r/RedPillWives	12/08/21 12:23 PM
7	What is a redpill woman? Is it a traditional woman, or something totally different? I met my husband then on OKC but that was in 2009. Not sure how that platform works now. I'm not totally a traditional woman though I have traits of one. I'm Chinese so I was brought up to be pretty conservative and that a woman's reputation is very important and I should keep my chastity. I kept mine until marriage. So I'm not traditional in a sense in that I'm a working mum and I have my own career. Because of this we put our kid in daycare, have a cleaner twice a week and sometimes we get nan…	/r/RedPillWives	12/08/21 03:57 AM
4	Fascinating Womanhood: Love Booklet Looks after our toddler every weekend morning so I can sleep in. Kisses me every chance he gets Holds my hand when we are out. He's quite busy with work now but still makes it a point to bring me out for dinner date at least once a week. Yesterday my bicycle lock broke. He just reached when I told him and he went right out to get me a new one. It feels like we are newlyweds even though we have been together since 2009	/r/RedPillWives	11/08/21 06:57 AM
–	Feelings towards splitting 50/50, going dutch? I think in the initial stages of a relationship it's fine to go 50/50 as you are still getting to know each other. However if be is adamant that this be the default even after the marriage than nope. There’s something about a man demanding you shove yourself into the other pant leg that tells me that as time goes on and the relationship develops, he won’t be interested in (or capable of) a true head of household position. Relationships can never be exactly 50/50 percent equal. It's not how peopl…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/21 12:06 AM
3	Thoughts on a man with a low to potentially no body count? The other thing is having a high body count also doesn't necessary mean that he is good at sex. We have seen women saying they feel unsatisfied even though the guy they were with has been with a lot of women before. So he might just be getting off himself all along while leaving the lady hanging. He may just have a lot of sex experience that doesn't make him good in bed or a good lover. That's where relationships should be more than just sex like you said.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/21 08:04 AM
2	Thoughts on a man with a low to potentially no body count? If you mean complete Alphas than maybe. Not every HVM is a complete Alpha. There are HVM with Alpha traits but when it comes to sex or relationships, they are beta. People do exist on a spectrum. My husband was like that. I mean at that time we were college students so he wasn't really HVM but he has traits of one being fit, good looking and straight A student. Going through grad school was also easy for him. He only had one relationship prior to me. There were 2 girls that were texting him when…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/21 04:24 AM
3	What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional route Sorry not interested in Russian roulette when it comes to health especially now with covid-19 when one can asymptomatic. I prefer to assume the worst. Covid-19 is a prime example that showed most people are in fact irresponsible. So unless he's dragging every woman to get tested prior to sex you never know. And approximately 50% of people with syphillis are asymptomatic as well so do HPV and herpes. So russian roulette? Just don't cry when it happens like so many who assumed everything is fine.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 05:26 PM
3	What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional route Condoms do not protect against Herpes, HPV and syphillis. Read this: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/what-stds-do-condoms-not-prevent And let's not forget we are still in the middle of a pandemic starring Covid-19 delta variant	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 02:20 PM
6	Answer to: What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional route Your first 3 points are exactly why I am so against the sex positive crowd. There are consequences to freely having sex physiologically and emotionally. In my culture(Chinese) a woman's reputation is very important although in recent years due to Western influence, it has changed. However the older generation still kept these values. Dad told me with chastity, you are highly valued especially in today's society. Men will wine and dine you in hopes of sleeping with you and through this process, y…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 08:49 AM
12	What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional route It is an absolute nightmare, the open relationship aside, she is exposing herself to a high risk of STDs especially when he's trying to impregnate her. This is a very unsafe situation for her. Just for health reasons alone, she shouldn't be with him.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 04:20 AM
13	Is becoming a “traditional woman” lowering your social status? That's because society is broken and people are seeing each other as individuals rather than as a family unit. That's why we have all these sex positive people and pre-nups. This in my opinion taints the meaning of marriage and treats it like a contract. A family operates as a unit. We come together and strive for a common future and we each take our roles in that unit to fulfil that future. A woman who chooses the traditional role of keeping the house and family isn't any less equal. She manage…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/21 03:27 AM
9	When did you start dating? When do you think is the best time to start dating? So this is Red Pill and I feel that I can say it as compared to other female subs where I get dissed. You must put in effort to look good. I mean some people are blessed with good genetics but we can still make changes even without plastic surgery. Like I mentioned no one took noticed of me when I was a plain Jane and overweight. Both men and women. Once I put in effort to make myself look better(maintaining my figure, getting good with makeup and styling my hair, going for facial treatments, dr…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/21 07:12 AM
17	When did you start dating? When do you think is the best time to start dating? My husband was my first boyfriend at 22. I never dated anyone else. So I guess I got a one hit wonder and never looked back. We been together since 2009 and got civil married in 2012 although we had our wedding later. I was an awkward teenager so no one took notice of me in high school and I kept mostly to myself. I joined OKC out of curiosity and met my husband there. I wondered then why he took noticed of me. He was good looking, straight A student and captain of dragon boating team in univers…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/21 06:02 AM
10	Would you share him? Absolutely not. I'm a HVW and when we got married, it was suppose to be monogamous. Break that and he is no longer high value. He can't even keep his promise. Cheating is all about this huge amount of disrespect, sadness and hurt you KNOWINGLY, WILLINGLY and PURPOSELY are inflicting on the other person. If agreed upon before marriage that it will an open relationship yeah than fine but no I practise monogamy and I expect that from my husband as well. This reminds me of the kdrama I am watching L…	/r/RedPillWives	04/08/21 02:37 AM
2	Becoming a fat wife Yes it most definitely does. I continued lifting weights throughout pregnancy up till 2 days before I went into labour. With caution of course as I dropped the amount of weights as I got bigger. I also did light boxing. It was so good. No backaches whatever and I was able to walk about easily. I think exercising also helped prevented me from gaining too much weight. I'm only 4ft11 and was able to have a vaginal birth despite people telling me I should have a C sec because I'm petite and my husba…	/r/RedPillWives	03/08/21 03:27 PM
8	Becoming a fat wife It is not. Realistically speaking one should only eat roughly 200-300 calories more daily. Lesser during the first trimester. This was actually told to me by my OB. Gaining too much weight during pregnancy puts the mother at risk of getting gestational diabetes. Personally I only put on 10kg for my pregnancy and gave birth to a healthy full term girl that weighed 3kg.	/r/RedPillWives	03/08/21 03:20 PM
1	Do you recommend living with your boyfriend or fiancée before getting married ? Hmm it was a long time ago like in 2009 but I felt like it was like Tinder for that time. There will be guys asking for nudes and looking for ONS so you need to sieve those out and ignore them. If I'm not wrong, the site does match you to people it feels is suitable for you based on your profile. It's up to you to decide whether you want to reach out and message them or not. My husband was the one who me seek me out though.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/21 12:06 PM
13	Becoming a fat wife Weight loss is mostly diet so check your diet and cut back on unwanted calories like those in soda and junk foods. I actually had to lose weight so that I can conceive because I needed to regulate my periods due to PCOS. You aren't overweight actually. I would look into lifting weights since that will help tone the body and keep core strong especially when you do compound lifts. Don't worry you won't you get bulky. I was very mobile throughout my pregnancy and labour was smooth sailing as I was …	/r/RedPillWives	03/08/21 11:58 AM
6	RP and Cheating During Marriage Marriage and cheating are at the complete extremes of each other. How one can put them together in the first place is beyond ridiculous. Marriage is an oath. It is an oath that you will put your spouse and the relationship above all else. It is a swearing of a lifelong commitment in front of witnesses that you will do that. You get married because you want to tell yourself, your partner and the world that this is the person your are committing to for the rest of your life. You want to grow old w…	/r/RedPillWives	02/08/21 06:21 PM
9	How did you know you were ready to become a husband/wife? When the conversations started becoming mostly "we" and "us." Casual conversations about what we like to do in the future. Things like what house to buy, when to start a family, how we should start saving and plans for retirement started becoming like casual talks rather than serious discussions. I know many couples see this as being serious topics that warrants the need to sit down and have a deep discussions. But for us decisions can be made just from casual chats here and there. Ultimately we…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/21 05:59 PM
7	Do you recommend living with your boyfriend or fiancée before getting married ? On OkCupid. We were undergrads then in different universities. Chatted a while online and finally meet up. Things took off from there. We did go to the same grad school. Grad school was a lot more stressful for me than him. He supported me during those times. He proposed to me on the day of his convocation and we got married 2 years later. Actually unofficially he proposed to me in total 3 times. Very gentle and loving man. He has never raised his voice at me or our daughter ever. From his POV, …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/21 11:56 AM
9	Do you recommend living with your boyfriend or fiancée before getting married ? I don't necessarily think it's a bad idea as you get to know each other habits prior to marriage. However it might be a deal breaker for marriage. I personally did not because I'm Chinese. It's frowned upon in our culture. However I have been with my husband 5 years prior to marriage so I know his personality. I know many people will say it's hard to change someone but my husband will for me. In the first few months when it came to housing habits, it was a bit difficult. Afterall he's a male and…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/21 11:09 AM
–	You ladies gave me advice to leave my boyfriend and I am trying but he keeps saying I was abusive. He's definitely still in love with ex and you are either a rebound or worse an emotional support for his baggage. There are people who use others for their emotional shortcomings to make themselves feel better even if it's unintentional. You are like his therapist and it's draining you. You are right to leave him. He hasn't moved on.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 05:22 PM
3	Should I bother continuing to date until I've lost all the weight I need to? This is the best answer. I also get the vibe from OP that she isn't very confident in herself and this is going to affect the way she interacts with people. She should work on herself first and if losing weight is going to help, than she should hold off dating until then. She might also get attention from men she's not interested and then settle for them? Not good. I was the same, when I was fat, my self esteem took a dive and I started caring less about my appearances and well being in general.…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/21 03:09 AM
1	Sad Example of BP BETAs - Asian Exchange Students Really? Doesn't seem that case: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/08/24/almost-80-south-korean-men-have-abused-girlfriend-study-claims/ http://www.straitstimes.com/asia/east-asia/8-in-10-korean-men-admit-abuse-of-girlfriend-study	/r/TheRedPill	06/01/18 07:09 AM