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It is interesting. Because, gendered is also viewed differently by different generations, especially in this day and age. If you think it fits with your current audience. It may be fine. But when I think of younger generations and their views on gender, it could be perceived in a much different way. We also harp about writing to your target audience. So, if you are trying to speak to men 30-60 this may be OK. But could have a cause different reaction to men 18-30. I very much pay attention to th…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 04:11 PM
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Apologies, if I am not clear I was not calling fear-mongering. But, when you use certain messaging it can tap into someone’s deep rooted fears and emotions. Using the word “gendered” when talking about dating could tap into a them verse me mentality which is found in the manosphere. We know academically, tapping into emotions such as hopes and fears is a great way to enforce our messages into someone. For example, when we write surveys we know the words that will not evoke emotion in someone. E.…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 03:44 PM
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I clicked the friend's access for this article. It’s not bad, but it also claims dating is still gendered and plugs his books. I do appreciate him sharing his critics and preparing men to expect to feel a bit of discomfort. He makes some good points, but at its core, I think it glazes over the most important part: “It opened my eyes to where all the abuse was coming from, and how politically motivated actors used deceptive means to trick countless men into supporting purposefully inaccurate mess…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 02:25 PM
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He is a dating coach and the titles of his other articles are questionable. I decided not to sign up to read any of them due to this.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 01:58 PM
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There is a book called Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die Book by Chip Heath and Dan Heath, and this encapsulates a lot of what they teach in there. It opens up with urban legends, such as the "Kidney Heist" and razors in candy. The Redpill is very good at make up stories. It isn’t actually about if women are like this or not, it is about how it is told, creating a believable story (the OP, is about a just one women and marriage). They do this by tapping into the following belo…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 07:33 PM
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Thank you for sharing!
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 03:03 PM
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Are you able to share some of these books you recommend with us? 🙏
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 12:25 PM
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See, this is my whole qualm. And even with what OP linked. None of these links are reliable forms of research. This article is in a small magazine and is not an academic source or written by someone in the field (the author of that article is a freelancer); it is also most certainly not peer-reviewed. And OP, shared a youtube video. Granted that channel is run by people which credentials to speak on these matters. But, any video on your tube is never viewed at research. That is the issues with t…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 01:06 PM
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There should always be a disclaimer about the survey. I don’t feel comfortable taking it. Someone in your masters program should have also told you, that you can’t get published if their is no disclaimer..
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 09:34 PM
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Apologies, there is no disclaimer, description or info about this study and research you are doing? Typically these are required if this research is done for an academic institution… Without one this seems sketchy…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 02:42 PM
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If anything it made me so much more attracted to them.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 11:55 PM
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Story telling is a great way to try and talk to people and share your story. But listen, I am not going to throw my gender related opinions or my perspective at you. I am going to just try my best to explain the impact media, marketing and communications has on us and why. Our beliefs are reenforced and rooted in media consumption. It’s not reality. However, we live in a day where media is so prevalent that we think it’s our reality. Before social media, they found it took a commercial six impre…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 04:34 PM
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The women and men events are usually always separate. And they find that due to this it’s easier to hide when they do something salacious because there’s never large of intermixing genders. The women keep each others secrets and vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 04:46 PM
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I mean, yeah. And as you said, it’s not common at all. But, your post reads as if, this is the norm in the west. Hence, my confusion. I have a friend from a traditional Muslim country and apparently the things done behind close door there are very wild and taboo. It is just not openly talked about.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:04 AM
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I’ve never met a women who has ever done a gang bang. Do you really know one who’s been in five??!!
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 12:29 AM
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Get a workbook around cognitive behavioral therapy. Here is a free online CBT workbook: https://cogbtherapy.com/free-online-cbt-workbook
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 10:53 PM
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I think it’s a good read. Really enjoyed reading it and believe you make some great arguments. I would love citations. Curious as to why you say post world wars were when women tasted freedom when the first wave of womens rights started in 1840? And then if so, why’d it take till 1960 for the second wave to come in?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 11:51 PM
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“Deprogramming” from extremism created on the internet is in earlier stages. And I’d suggest skimming this from the American Psychological Association as a jumping off point for further research.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 04:05 AM
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lol this! I am 4’11”……………………EVERYONE IS TALL TO ME.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 04:37 PM
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I play in co-ed sports league, give that a try. Not sure where you reside, but in my city alcohol free events have become all the rage..
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 02:18 AM
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So, you are going to organize a r/exredpill virtual movie night, so we can all to watch American Psycho together?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 02:17 AM
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Because that’s not how it works… Just because you are tall and have a good job doesn’t mean jack shit. Your lack of understanding that plus your lack of social life makes you look like Patrick Bateman in American Psycho. And women can smell that a mile away.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 12:01 AM
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1 billion of around 8 billion, the global population is 12.5 percent. Globally, about 25 percent of the world is under 15 years of age, and 10 percent is over 65 years of age. Statistically, I could go deeper, but based on above, I don’t think I need to.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 08:30 AM
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When we weren’t long distance, we saw each other 4-5 times a week. Even long distances, we sometimes meet 2-3 times weekly. We can’t stay away from each other 😂 when we are apart we do some virtual activity every evening if we are both free. It’s been 2.5 years, and we still fuck like jackrabbits.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 03:59 PM
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Research says this isn’t true, and many women date below their education and economic status. I do not want to cite anything without diving deeper. To truly understand this as factual, one must review many articles and do a literature review (10 sources minimum). Google Scholar is a free resource to do this research. I also suggest learning how to read studies properly. A lot of red pill information is cherry picked to fill their narrative.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 02:25 PM
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I am too tired to go into this. But a lot of this is done by cherry-picking stats and data. For example, I know a study from Chicago University where the red pill cherry-picked data from, claiming men are having less sex. When in reality, if you look at the entire data set, it is that men are sex longer because we are living longer (I kid you not, 85 year men are getting it, and this backed up by looking at std rates in the elderly). It’s so easy to manipulate data, especially when people are no…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/23 02:36 AM
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^ this as well as understanding the humanities. Also, specifically in sociology there is the study of sociology of the family. Could be a great jumping off point. Third thing, google scholar is free and I highly recommend understanding how to do proper research, looking at your sources, how many times the article itself has been cited in other articles, look at who the authors are in their credentials and if the work is peer reviewed. Any form of social media is NOT research, Wikipedia is NOT re…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 12:42 PM
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I am in NY too. It’s such a struggle…. I’ll tell you what I told him, not sure it will help. But I wanted him to be open, honest and vulnerable with me. When he was I felt we grew so much but he’d then try to regress and get on his RP bullshit. Tell her how you feel, tell her what you are going through, and be open and honest. But also be prepared, because you can’t force things, and you are also pretty young. So, forbid you don’t get the girl all hope isnt lost. I really had to remind myself of…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 07:52 PM
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Don’t do this either ^ Ngl it weirded me out the parallels between my ex and I. He was into music and when we first met hide it from me because he thought it was lame. When I found out I thought it was the coolest thing ever. He couldn’t believe how sweet and loving I was. And that I didn’t have a hidden agenda, that I didn’t care he wasn’t a CEO of company, that he wasn’t the highest value man in all the land, that I wasn’t manipulative and respected him. That I was this sweet nice girl who wan…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 11:13 AM
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There are many by the university of Chicago that show older men are getting it longer. But atlas this is why it is important to understand how to do research, and goes back to why you need to do a literature review. ~~ Also the pew articles all have the same theme, those who they surveyed want to be single. #2 on this list in that pew article you referenced the first paragraph starts with: “Among Americans who are single, the largest share – 57% – say they are not currently looking for a relatio…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 10:48 PM
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Yes, but you are also to have a longer sexually active life. Unless you know how to do a literature review, don’t take many studies seriously. One study doesn’t mean anything. You need around 10 min on the same subject able to compare them to get a “complete”picture. And read up on cherry picking data. Also, look at how the data was taken. Surveys and polls are qualitative and weak compared to quantitative. Also, always look at sample sizes. Make sure to fill read the studies themselves as well …
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 10:37 PM
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🫡
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 03:35 AM
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<3
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 07:45 PM
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Not sure if I explain this well but long story short. It doesn’t even matter majority of these are cherry picked and doesn’t not fully interpret the data properly. You need to see full statistically studies to interpret data, you need to look at the sample size, you need to look at the cross tabulations (an example the university of Chicago that has been shared in red pill spaces where they say younger men are having less sex ever before but if you look at the entire cross tabulation and demogra…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 04:30 AM
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I relate so much to your comment. It’s a bit jarring. I remember once being on a work trip and having phone sex. He cursed me off because I came first… And he freaked out when I was gaining weight (I hold most my weight in my thighs and behind, and previously was very sick and underweight, it was a final straw when he was negging me about my healthily body and wanted me to lose my ass because the attention it brought). I just turned thirty and get 23 all the time. So the wall is definitely not s…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 12:30 AM
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He did. It was not a fun time… he was very entrenched in the manosphere. Dread and negging were ultimately why I left. He was also so insecure and couldn’t believe I had genuine feelings for him. I have a solid amount of sad stories from this relationship. And haven’t dated since.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 11:18 PM
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I left the guy I was dating for 1.5 due to redpill beliefs. I really tried to stay and understand. But it just was never going to work out. It was such a hurtful time. Sadly, I still miss him but I could never be with anyone with those views who thinks they can treat me certain way.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 11:05 PM
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Why I left. Loved him dearly, but I left because of his redpill ways. Between dread, negging, to becoming verbally abusive I was done. To be fair he could believe I actually could love him and he had extreme insecurity issues within himself. He also thought all women were a monolith. Saddest part I do miss him…. But unsure if we developed a trauma bond and that’s why.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 09:45 PM
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I am definitely happy to connect and talk about your channel. But, as voice above. I think it’ll need some work to actually get redpillers engaged. At a base level, I suggest starting reading up on education entertainment theory. I would then also really consider the messaging you are using around your video titles, descriptions and so on. Because they way a lot of these a framed and written probably won’t get clicks due to the language. Your language and approach will not get people on the fenc…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 03:26 PM
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Yea! I find myself interesting as I am an early 90s baby who sees how different it even is from me to people born in the beginning of the 2000s. The trends of mass media are fascinating to study. And there is an interesting interview with the guy who does the social media for Washington post explains how they find their audience of Gen Z only comes to tiktok for their news. And they have to dress it up in funny skits. The world is fascinating and weird. Also, I really have enjoyed chatting with …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:03 PM
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Yeah! That’s because different platforms also require different content. Each platform draws their own kind of audience. For example the average user of YouTube averages 4.5 hours a day on the platform but typically are a specific type of person, and the platform knows that and caters to their learning style. Whereas instagram, is more pictures based and fun clips and the average user spends around 4.5 hours as well but doesn’t really ever use YouTube the same way, as the person i described abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:36 PM
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Oh yeah because it’s brand is about teaching you something and not about him himself being a brand. A lot of strategic planning around why are you building the presence and how to get to it, the end goal. Many of these people set the goal 1) I want to be an influencer and build my brand awareness to the entire American public, some are like I want to build a presences where I educated others in my niche area. Then they set benchmarks and objectives to get there whilst doing research on the envir…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:23 PM
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Yeah, it’s the nature of the algorithm. I am not as social media literate from a mass media stand point but my understanding is the back end of social media and the algorithm. And the companies and content creators relationships are very interesting. Having access to massive marketing data bases around social media usage and analytics has been a game changer especially in these internet spheres. It’s really lead to them seeing I can be contrary as fuck and it still sells because I can tap into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:05 PM
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Hmmmmm, I could possible pull some strings and use company software to pull the data analytics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:46 PM
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Yup! Truly hold water when you were one of the most googled people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:44 PM
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Well yeah, that’s a whole other thing. That’s being really good at branding, and being able to build a convincing persona. I bet they both have really really good marketing, public relations and media teams. But hey you need a jumping off point with $$ and a lot of people who do these things typically have family wealth to jump off from. It’s a huge thing in NYC with influencers, a lot of them are just rich kids who can show off their rich kid life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:27 PM
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Yeah, it’s a jumping off point to build your brand and yourself up. So makes a lot of sense. But also he is a bit of whatever the term is they call rich children whose parents gave them something that helped their rise, Nepo baby. Despite everything his Dad, at the end of the day, did *give** him a casino.*
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:20 PM
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I really think everyone should be required to take a course on mass media, mass communication and marketing. The basis of mass media, and the theory behind it is to disrupt peoples minds to make them think the way you want to think. A great example of this is when they disturb the feed with the orange box for that scam festival frye fest. Andrew Tate is a crafted facade that is perfectly curated to be exactly what he is because it sells. Anyone, and I mean anyone online giving advice and perpetu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:52 PM
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Right… Liked and his dad give him the casino?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:43 PM
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I mean I live in NYC and doing just fine without apps.. It’s really not that brutal. You have to learn how to “cut turf”. I think a lot of people think NYC is alll the same. It’s five boroughs and the suburbs around it are prettty accessible. I am not going to try to meet people in midtown Manhattan. It’s a bunch of tourists looking for sex or business types who prob snort coke every night. Unless you live an area. You won’t really understand the market, moral of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:51 PM
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Did you read the original post…? Never said it was. But apparently they think we fall apart at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:29 AM
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This tread is about women approaching 30 or above it the subject matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:01 AM
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Sounds beautiful! I have olive skin. My mom has great genes and also go me onto my skin care game as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:03 PM
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You are so welcome! I linked the books I talk about I. A comment above. And add onto it a bit if you are interested. I love studying this stuff and sharing with others.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 10:02 PM
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-Words that Work Frank Luntz -Made to Stick Heath and Heath Don’t Thing of an Elephant George Lakeoff Right! It’s a lot. I remember learning about the consultants from the interest groups who would go help those shows with those narratives and the writing. Even look at Sesame Street the entire show was an experiment… and has created their own models and even created a theory off it. And now those models are the standards on how we educated individuals on topics. It is the basis of why Tik Tok an…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 09:52 PM
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We are blessed ;) I have an odd question what ethnicity are you? And do you think it’s genetics, lifestyle or a mix of both? I think I’ll be like you at 50 because my Mom looks great at her age and instilled great habits into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:08 PM
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I also think some of its genetic. But taking care of yourself is so vital. People can not believe it when I tell them I am 30. That’s why the saying use to be look at the mother of the girl your dating. It will tell 1) the genes and 2) the habits her mother instilled in her around taking care of herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:41 PM
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Thanks! I love talking about this stuff. I’ve even thought of trying to teach it. But people don’t seem interested.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 05:13 PM
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Okay, I am going to get a bit wonky on you. I have a master's degree in a specific communication area (politics) the first thing I learned is the fundamental basis of communications theory in mass media is to disrupt people’s minds and get them to think the way you want. The second was the power of messaging around fear and hope are the two most powerful ways to get people engaged in your ideas. You can stop watching it. Or become extremely mindful and diversify your feed. Most of this content h…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 02:49 PM
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If it makes you feel any better. I grew up with trust fund babies. They end up being the most miserable, inept functioning people as they get older. You are setting a strong foundation and morals for yourself in college working your ass off. And this typically pays off in the long run and makes you a desirable prospect for women.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/22 06:52 PM
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Before doing that, you need to get help and work on yourself… We all need to do self-work. But it seems you are missing the part about yourself and trying to be fixed by finding someone to date. People do this is so many ways, from self help coaches, finding the right therapists, gurus, yoga etc. Find whatever path leads you to liking and understanding yourself first. Start working out or finding ways to feel good in your body etc. Stop trying to go from 0 to 60…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 03:02 PM
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Wow, thought this would be about babies but no it’s about growing full grown women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:02 PM
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Well, for your second to last paragraph. You can stop watching it. That’s what you can do about it. Most of this content harps explicitly on specific topics, and you get stuck in your echo chamber that makes common ideas seem MAY seem widely mainstream when they aren’t. E.i: confirmation bias. Let me try to re-explain this from a marketing perspective. Content used on social media has the same principles as traditional marketing but is more potent when a feed can give you more messages way more …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:11 PM
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I always thought it was the GI bill and post WWII. People leaving the said for the latter is why they became worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:17 PM
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It isn’t worth arguing since you don’t understand how to properly do research. You legit share an article that states: When a study’s aim is to investigate a correlational relationship, however, we recommend sampling between 500 and 1,000 people. More participants in a study will always be better, but these numbers are a useful rule of thumb for researchers seeking to find out how many participants they need to sample. And that in itself shows you aren’t worth going back and forth with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:57 PM
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I do. I do it for a living. No one considers data from over 100 years ago data one would use on today's population. “When a study’s aim is to investigate a correlational relationship, however, we recommend sampling between 500 and 1,000 people. More participants in a study will always be better, but these numbers are a useful rule of thumb for researchers seeking to find out how many participants they need to sample.” You share this yourself ^ and two of the studies are under n=200 and the third…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:40 PM
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I can only read the abstracts. Not the entire article, for some reason. But for at least two of them, the sample size (amount of people in the study) is beyond low. One study investigated university women (N = 165), and the other( N= 22). That’s low. The first one uses extremely outdated data “records obtained from the 1910 census schedules concerning age, duration of the marriage, and occupation of husband, for urban and rural women of native white parentage.” I highly recommend understanding h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:59 PM
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What makes you think they are more mature and stable? This is the 21st century. My friend has only dated older men for th past decade. They’ve all been trash and honestly some of the most immature people I’ve ever met in my life. She ended up surpassing most of them career and salary wise. She is now divorcing and fled after her older husband beat her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:20 PM
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She did. Look it up. She is the one who got all more conservative religious secs to come together…. (Mormons, Baptist’s, Orthodox Jews, etc.) And created sound bites and fake news. She honed it in. And created a communications strategy that ended the ERA…. I am not a fan of her or her politics. But it’s fact. She really defined conservative politics. And than after her came the Contract for America via Newt Gingrich with the help of Frank Luntz’s messaging.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 01:35 AM
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But also because of Phyllis Shaley and her single handedly creating the playbook for conservatives, traditional family values and gender roles.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 10:09 PM
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The reaction to the feminist movement started in the 70s by women with Stop the ERA. Redpill developed in the 90s from pick up artists.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 02:18 PM
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I’ve been told to settle for 60% of my list. It’s hard to get close to 100%
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:51 PM
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Forgiven
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 02:57 AM
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I dated a guy who got me into it because he was. So yes. Women can be.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 12:42 AM
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Do you find the latter often?
/r/seduction24/10/22 11:18 PM
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I am a WOC who doesn’t date white men typically. We exist.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 08:57 PM
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Oooof x2. I did too. No more walking on egg shells, feeling like I must always sexually preform, worried about the next blow up. We all got out❤️
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 01:56 AM
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What other events do you have in your area? What kind of meet ups?
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:38 PM
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It definitely was a learning experience! I can’t believe you did it three times. I have been curious about a prior relationship but we never discussed it. But the last relationship where he was 100% redpill, he verbally confined he was. And yeah…. The withdrawal of affection. Is a lot and the hardest aspect. It was a journey. And I’m still on it recovering from that. World breaking is 100% how to describe it.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 06:51 PM
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Interesting! I am not on it. Have you ever just tried going to disabled social group meet ups. I mean may be hard considering the area you are doesn’t seem great. And on top of that it’s also hard because some of the groups are iffy.
/r/seduction13/10/22 06:49 PM
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There is an dating app for autistics to date right? Not trying to say you should only date other autistic but it sounds like your in an area with not a lot single people. And so those who are also single probably have high standards or they are completely duds. I think it may be good practice trying to date with people who may get you a bit better. It’s sucks due to distance. And to add to your point in the comments. There is still a very negative connotation attached to disabilities of any kind…
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:02 PM
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I dated one for a year and a half… he got me semi-down the rabbit hole. I dragged myself out and still recovering emotionally to be honest. So yes, it does exist in real life. But I think if you have strong internet boundaries when raising your children and provide them with a parenting structure that teaches them how to be a good person, you’ll be fine.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 02:44 PM
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Yes, you said this perfectly. I am monogamous tho. And agree with all this. I also really love my partner. I love having sex with him, and I have an emotional and intimate connection with them which makes our sex life and time together really meaningful. I have zero interest in fucking a bunch of dudes. I sound lame here, but I am completely head over heels for him. And has lead to me to have zero interest elsewhere (happened pretty early on). For me it isn’t about someone being hot or rich (or …
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 02:18 PM
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Cool. We haven’t been in college for a min. And from I have heard from her is he has a new girlfriend but is still constantly in her dms. They are both 30 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:29 AM
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This. My friend was with serial attempted cheater. He was constantly attempting to cheat but never could seal the deal. He got ousted a lot as well. And one girl even showed up at her dorm room to show her texts. He had to of tried with 15+ girls including her roommate via a phone game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:56 PM
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I mean I work for myself at home. And have zero trouble. I feel like it’s a cope out to feel sorry for oneself. No offense.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 05:47 PM
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I legit joined a fuck ton of meet up groups, co-Ed sport leagues and other events (podcast meet ups) that force me into east casual conversation spaces to meet the opposite sex. Consider this over apps.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 02:06 PM
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I am not thrilled with my situation. I am in a large city where their are more men than women. I make more money than most the guys that want to date me so I can’t quit my job to become a stay at home Mom the way. Guys here even curate there dating apps, get professional pictures taken for them and so on. And, so most women are vying for this one profile (ex: West elm Caleb). And most men are just trying to fuck yet I am looking for a relationship and would like to quit my job eventually once ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:50 AM
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I’ve had the chance and majority of those men are immature as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:05 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:07 PM
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There is this concept right - you look good you feel good. It’s been drilled into my entire life. I’d say at least the sexy that’s how we’ve been marketed our entire lives. My mom legit passed on charm books to me on how to do my make up and hair to fit my face shape, and how to dress. It’s a part of consumerism and the media and personal messages we’ve been bombarded with our entire lives. We are seen as massive consumers. I mean heck they changed the name home economics to family and consumer …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:19 PM
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I mean when the average height is 5’9” for men and women 5’4” (rounded up from 5’ 3.5”) in the United States. And globally, the mean height of women is about four and a half inches, or 12 centimeters (cm), shorter than that of men There is no attitude preference it’s just norm that men are statistically taller than women worldwide biologically. And if we really want to talk about sperm banks, very little applicants actually qualify and majority drop out before even finishing the process when it …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:16 PM
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Okay so I actually went ahead and read the actual scientific articles before you linked them. Because I had a feeling whatever you’d link to me you didnt actual read or know how to understand the data or lack there of. The sample size of the study being used a lot in 2013. Is mainly students Netherlands and Germany just under 700 people. Not a very large sample size. Because those study took place in the Netherlands the average height of men are 6 feet and women 5’5”. And majority of this said w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 AM
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Do you have citations. Because just saying all women like taller men that is an assumption. You could say someone but we have no proof this is fact and majority or all women feel this way. I mean you are asking other people for actual facts. So I just want to see where you are pulling this from. You are also trying to use false equivalence rather than actually give links to things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:39 AM
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Do you have actual facts? Just curious. I didn’t see any in the thread? Can you link them. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:47 PM
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They also love misinterpreting stats and have zero Idea how even cross tab or looks t them.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 10:20 PM
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I completely agree. And I think it’s harder these days to find a true partnership with someone. I appreciate you explaining it not being femcel-y. I think just people perceive it that way when you drop out of the dating scene these days. I have been looking at comments myself now that you said that. And I think it’s interesting that the underlying theme is we are all tired. I know I am personally. I definitely am not perfect and have my own issues but I am tired of failed relationships and I nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:30 AM
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As a women, I have checked out of the dating scene and am kinda becoming femcel-y myself. I am tired of being with men who don’t can’t communicate, take my for granted and struggle to believe I want to be with them/find them attractive. I just got out of a year long thing where the guy didn’t believe I find him handsome, was very insecure, and jealous. I tried everything to affirm I wanted him and to build a relationship. But he could never commit, open up to me or love me. I felt very used in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:02 AM
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That’s his first audience. His second audience is men who want to improve upon themselves hence how he draws in a redpill crowd. Doesn’t make him TRP tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:47 AM
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When you have your own platform, create the brand, and theme of your own show, choose who you talk to, are producing, editing and scripting the show. You always have the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:44 AM
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Hi, I am not trying to attack you. I am just trying to address the issues on how this post was written to provide clarify to better improve the connection building and the importance to make it clear it isn’t research (because it’s clearly has been misconstrued). I do apologies if I came off patronizing, it was never my goal to attack. Just support, explain and educate. Hence why I also offered a few edits and how to possible improve it for everyone. I have continually and strongly agreed with y…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:39 PM
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You are welcome. And yes, she is probably someone else. Even though, we are different fields, we both have the same human research training and ethics certificates. To be fair you could in theory come here and “do your own research” with out ethics but it could never be used for any published research…. Connection wise it is a interesting place to meet other researchers and possibly directly reach out to individuals and begin the ethics disclaimer then. I appreciate you as well, for catching ont…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:36 PM
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I apologize again this got a bit out of sorts. I also clarified a few things to OP. I am not a therapist, I am a communications researcher and focus on mass audiences not individuals. I typically am the one who goes after people on here over research related things, the scientific method, research 101, such as not understanding research data, such as how ACTUAL read survey data, and to understand how polls are designed. So, long story short I have an education in qualitative and quantitative dat…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:23 PM
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Oh, I am agreeing with you. And clarified to them. Apologies.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:06 PM
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I want to apologize. I am siding with the other persons a bit more. Yes, this opens up researchers to context data and such. But the structure of all this is research wise is incorrect. And no one would use the info from a post like this for research, because how leading the question is. IT COULD help lead researchers directly to people with compelling stories or connect other researchers. And be more of a connections post The number one rule in communications research is you don’t create leadin…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:06 PM
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So, I specialize in communications r&d. My thesis focused on internet communities mainly on community building in a virtual space and it’s impacts on the disabled and found how young disabled men fall victim to TRP. I do not come here to conduct research. And if I did I would make a post. I have to take ethics trainings, keep up with certificates, and follow rules of human research. And it would not be ethical without asking for consent, giving a disclaimer and having you provide consent. It is …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 03:44 PM
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I did it. I kept it simple and didn’t blame anyone. And just asked to part ways and went no contact. And I feel so relieved. It’s been wonderful to reach out to friends and get support, no questions asked. What a concept! Big hugs. I also may need whatever resources you have to offer. I am so happy I get to stop researching TRP and trying to research to figure him out. I also apologize if this is weird and/or hard to hear. I have been struggling for so long to end it. I tried a few weeks ago in …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:18 AM
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The gaps were 15 years, second I believe 12 years (I was under 20). And the third was a 25 something (I was 26).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:19 AM
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I’ve joined various meet you groups both in real life and online around books, podcasts, common hobbies and so on, on top of sports leagues. You can find people. I guess I’m already rich… so hence why I think the end is stupid and I never have seek wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:14 PM
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Honestly.. Most of the age gap discourse that I am aware of in the groups of women I converse with. Those points aren’t it. Those are points of any abusive man. and the other points are just things in anyone, regardless of age, should be to a relationship Majority of women I’ve spoken to about it. It’s more about the big division in life experiences, compatibility and the intentions. Typically, both parties think they are benefiting from each other based on said age. But it’s never the case. One…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:53 PM
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Honestly, I should run. I feel like a frog in a boiling room and the thermostat just started cranking up. It’s been heartbreaking. I feel like I lost him and I don’t know who he is anymore. It’s been a lot of deal with. I don’t even want to go into to much detail but even this last few months alone… the escalation has been, astonishing. This sub has been extremely helpful. And I am so glad to hear you have support and love. And most importantly you are safe. I am looking forward to the day you a…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 10:28 PM
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I am so sorry. But honestly. Thank you for sharing this because I am watching this start in my own relationship. I hope you have the support you need.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 05:35 PM
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Going through this. And leaving the guy I am with because I just don’t want to hurt anymore.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 05:33 PM
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Again don’t take it personal. Sometimes I just don’t want to talk to you. That’s why you should try and social group first and work on small talk and causal conversation.
/r/seduction29/08/22 05:30 PM
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Okay, not sure I’ll write this well. But let’s take what you just said “it also feels like or you can tell no girl ever wants to talk to me. YOU, in your mind think that. Those thoughts are you, and your creativity creating false ideas in your mind. Join a meet up group on a topic or just to socialize. Get into a social settings where there is women but it isn’t a dating environment. Get used to regular old conversation talking about hobbies, whatever TV shows out or so on. Eventually you’ll mak…
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:21 PM
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I obviously had to get to his profile but I looked at the pictures and it wasn’t about “looks” like model looks, it was about if I saw character in them, they seemed authentic, my kind of attractive and showed his personality. Humans do make mental short cuts, hence the way dating apps are designed, we call them heuristics. Photo wise my visual mental short cut from the photos were his eyes. I love his blue eyes and smile. I don’t care about status of money on the apps as they are extremely easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:08 PM
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I have to fully go through them a few times and look at their lit reviews. But I want to explore more how the first study is also based around condoms and STD presentation. And wants to use this data to explain the std rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:46 PM
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I have a master degree in political communications with a focus on digital communicates. I have two BA’s one around sociology and have done research around things like terrorism and the environment. Part of my political communications degree focused on communication theories and psych. I’ve been getting more into redpill stuff after dating a guy. Great research coming out of Sweden.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 10:25 PM
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Has anyone seen that University of Chicago study where, yes, younger people (and young men) might be having less sex but older people in like in retirement homes and retirement age have been increasing like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:17 PM
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LOL, not conducting full scale research but am researching this myself after also being in a relationship with a RP guy. I have a few studies and a thesis some wrote on the topic with lots of interviews if you want to chat.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 11:17 PM
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I know a bunch IRL. And ended up dating one and it’s definitely fucked me up. So I feel for OP.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 04:15 PM
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No.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 10:18 PM
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^ as a female I’m seconding this.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 10:18 PM
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I am flawless, as in I am hot but I AM terminally ill which makes me mentally ill and femcel-ish;) my bestie is a bipolar heiress, and my baggage is my dysfunctional family with mommy issues since she adoption me and put me up for adoption, oH and again will be dying in ten years. But hey I am at least a 8.5/10. Flawless 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:11 AM
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So it’s funny, where I grew in an area were you both get high powered careers and you just hire a live in nanny from the Caribbean or the Philippines to take care of your kids. Even if you are a stylish SAHM you still have a live in mommies helper or one for half the week. My mom was one of the few SAHM. And my parents explained it to me based of taxes since my Mom worked at Fortunoff before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:35 AM
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I see it a bit differently at least from talking to the single friends who have starting approaching 30 where they believe society and their peers will see them as old and damaged. And that in order to be society accepted and they need a man to take care of them. I even see this with my friend who is a pipeline heiress and her great great great grandchild will never have to work or need support or security, but she feels if she doesn’t get married society will disown her. It’s been so interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:48 PM
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Got it. Just curious. I have made a return to NYC, after living elsewhere. And, have found it a common trend amongst the young women I have met and already know. So, was interested to see if is a common trend geographically. None of them are getting serious work done however. But I see the lips are very in and so is Botox for us, late 20s women. Cheers to your wife 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:58 PM
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😉👍 Off topic, but your user name has NYC in it? Is this something you find common on the island of Manhattan? Women who seek a breadwinner, someone to complete them via the confidence of landing a forever partner, and so on? Is this why they scream about how about how dating is so awful? And we have millennial tales of west elm Caleb?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:30 PM
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I am not really sure how to answer, I just want to share my life with someone. My achievements, their achievements, exploring our different interests together, teaching each-other things, someone to make dinner with, take walks with, take care of each other when we are sick, have sex with, watching them grow as a person, help and watch them work towards their goals, dreams and purpose, adapting to each others life changes and so on. But also allows us to have friends, take the time we may need h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:06 PM
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You have to respond to DMs at some levels to keep your own engagement up. Especially when it comes from stories 😹😿
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:24 AM
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They also call it pretty privilege apparently. There is definitely a joke somewhere in mental illness spaces where they say “damn, my ancestors who pasted this along had to be hot as hell..”.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 11:54 AM
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AGAIN I am not arguing there isn’t equivalents for men AGAIN I am not arguing that women don’t have protections. I am just stating NOW is obsolete as an organization and has been for a longtime, so maybe a find a more currently relevant womens right group.. I believe it’s the equal rights campaign (tho believe it’s more LGBT based) that does the ERA stuff now… so maybe update your list. Because people will laugh or not even know who NOW is if you brought them up in the statement you wrote above.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:55 PM
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I am not dismissing your point just saying you should edit out NOW and understand how easily VAWA could be undone if you wanted it to be via lobbying.. (aka y’all could have an impact on policy like this if you choose) I am not trying to argue with you just stating the face NOW is a joke? None of it is trying counterargument, and that the org is a joke and has no legitimacy, has failed to make any policy change and has had no political power for decades. I agreed with the rest of and think it sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:34 PM
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Bro, all I said is NOW is a joke, and majority women aren’t familiar with it and they aren’t very impactful. They failed at the ERA (thanks to Phyllis Schafley and STOP ERA) and lost all legitimacy decades ago and ate themselves alive when they factioned themselves around race and LBTQ stuff. And you can just lobby to stop VAWA from being reauthorized next round of authorizations…. And undo it.. No, where did I say women are not a protected class.. it seems you did not read what I wrote.. NOW is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:17 PM
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Lol I am cracking the fuck up and apologies for being so crass. “…women have…NOW”. Do you how lame NOW is and no normal women knows it unless you are some crazy genders studies women at an all girls college? It has zero powers and completely failed as an org. Especially with the failure of the ERA which they couldn’t get past, like what forty-fifty years ago? Also you can stop VAWA from getting reauthorized you know. The same way we ended the ban on semi auto weapons. You just make sure it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:19 AM
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This was a video I found interesting. it explains why we may not have self love for ourselves in a nice summary form.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 12:16 AM
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I could elaborate so much on all your responses but like wooah. Like I feel this so hard. I found myself doing the same stuff with weed (legit stopping right now myself), also believe my mom as weird resent issues on me as a child like yours with the twins, and all the criticism. I found the deep rooted pain is from this deep rooted loneliness from never getting the love, support, respect and so on I needed as a child and instead was control and just there to make her feel better in an odd way. …
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 12:11 AM
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Odd question but it’s only you and a brother? No sister? Maybe she was trying to project that into you. Since she never had a daughter. And it’s funny I am a women who identifies mostly with men because my mom never taught me how to truly be a women. Very much a lot of what you described. Funnier part I am adopted… I also had minor issues with my dad (e.i, him happy I wasn’t a darker Hispanic). But walking on eggshells and being controlled was always my mother. She started straightening my hair …
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 03:07 PM
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Wow, I have just ended a relationship with a redpilled man and have been working through a lot of this myself (he was never able to provide love back, very controlling and bullied me was a lot like my mother). Which I found I went into trying to fix things because I can’t fix them with my mother. I HAVE a mommy issues. And this completely Resonated with me and I appreciate the perspective of how mothers like this can impact men. I am proud of you for sharing. And focusing on healing. I took am w…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 02:46 PM
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Both my friends dads and my aunt. It’s a power dynamic draw.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 11:01 AM
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I was 28 and pushed by my friends to go on a date with a 50 year old man (yes I’m stupid.. for listening). My friends were like hey what’s the harm he is smart and rich and maybe it’ll be fun. It was the worst date ever. It was like Nazi boot camp. He made me rock climb hours and couldn’t use my hands for days. He told me about the money he gave his previous “young catches” and how he got into “hot women” in graduate school when his then girlfriend became a stripper. But then began to tell me ho…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 11:01 AM
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Just ended things with my TRP now ex. And definitely buried the lead. So skip to the end for more on how you should be proud of yourself. He refused to every let me see the real him and when I did see glimpses and told him I love him for him. He’d spiral, and think he wasn’t good enough. He could never believe me when I told him how I felt, that I found him attractive and so on. One day he finally said he truly believed I actually wanted something genuine. And I clung to that (I have my own issu…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 12:57 PM
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I don’t know the numbers. I know it’s a lot for me. But to be fair it’s hard to compare. After talking to guys who use the apps, a lot of them told me it’s because they just swipe right on everyone and then play the game once’s they’re matched. Whereas, we as women take time to look at profiles, the images, the bio, and so on. And more strategic on who we swipe on. Y’all cast a wide net. We as women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:58 PM
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Yeah, that could be very interesting. lol I mean I am sure you are happy to be done done. But if you every you continue your research or a PhD definitely worth exploring. Happy to talk more about it too. Sounds very interesting and something that definitely needs to be expanded on. Is it weird to get your mentors name so I can look up their research? Or if you can maybe dm me some links???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:00 PM
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You are welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:58 PM
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Well that doesn’t mean nonwhite. I am Puerto Rican Irish mix. And my ex…. Also the same mix but looked so much lighter than me had blue eyes and more feminine features than most men…. Black women loved him 🤷‍♀️ to be even more off topic. Blond hair blue eyes men typically don’t want anything to do with my light brown ass or they fetishized me (I don’t speak Spanish, zero accent, my Puerto Rican side has been here four generations). So your hatred for white women is pretty funny when I just serio…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/22 08:06 PM
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Nah it’s they don’t want. It’s mental short cuts we’ve create in the society makes people perceive value off of looks. It’s legit how most world leaders get elected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:38 PM
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And here I am adding more. I also can’t stop thinking about the underlying grassroots aspect of MGTOW. And wonder if the second awakening not hitting everyone also has to do based on their communication structure itself as well. Like I think someone else be talked about how feminism had a core message. But MGTOW isn’t quite the same and there are various off shoots and subgroups. There are different kind of communication structures and command models. Like the military top down structure. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:23 PM
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Ha! I am just glad it made sense and you understood my take on that section, I am still not sure if it makes 100% sense yet. And I am still going through it all and may have to go through it a few times. I am personally slow at reading research papers and need to go through it a few times and jump around the sections. For the second awakening. I am looking at this as diffusion of innovation theory and uses and gratification theory in communications. Innovations are not adopted by all individuals…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:54 PM
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Oh, I mean exactly. Thus them also being more likely to hold my nudes and so on over me. The blackmail is endless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:40 PM
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Run for office. Because for some strange reason I think I can fuck things up from the inside. But like that never actually happens right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:23 PM
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Yeah. Here, mostly no one gets married out of high school. And original idea of women going to college her was to fine a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:17 PM
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But that’s NOT a lot of people. Regardless. This isn’t a huge societal issues as it is made out to be. I’d love to read the study on Twitter content.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:13 PM
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Okay, I am still going through it. And probably will read the entire thing. (I am doing my thesis of online disability communities). So far finding it very interesting but will need a few reads. I see this as some interesting reverse two step theory. This is because the thoughts of these opinion leaders are not coming from the main stream media and instead from the less active sections of the population. Because of this it’s so easy for the mass media and people outside the community to easily f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:06 PM
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I was about to add this! The number one rule is to read the abstract and conclusion first. Everything in between is the data/info and so on that got them to the conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:34 PM
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We are talking 25-30 here. Not post 30. Me and the OP comment are talking late twenties game it seems. I am terrified of single women who are 35+
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:09 PM
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I have friends who married young and are trying to get married now late 20s - 30. I have a 28 year friend who is getting divorced because husband changed HIS mind on children. Majority of the women I know who want a more trad life can’t find it. And the can’t find a man who wants to settle, get married and have children. I don’t know many women who want to put their career over having a family. Especially when many of them know the more high power you become in your career the chances of mating …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:08 PM
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The estimated population of the U.S. was approximately 329.48 million in 2021, and the largest age group was adults aged 25 to 29. There were 11.88 million males in this age category and around 11.36 million females. Not the same ratio but still close meaning most men could in theory find a partner and only small amount out if luck. Ages 15-65 make up 65% of the population. That’s how a bell curve works or a population pyramid. It’s still super close. The tail ends of bell curves are still outli…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:04 PM
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I mean A LOT of my female friends are 30, single, and crying because they haven’t gotten married yet. Some of them are beyond desperate too they settle very quickly. We have a 97 males to every 100 females. They don’t want fuck boys. they just want a MAN. This ratio should men there is plenty of women to go around. And if you can’t get a women you are apart of some super small percentage. Fuck boys could in theory take on multiple women. But that wouldn’t even make a dent in that ratio? So then …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:33 PM
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I mean like honestly I don’t anymore especially when I know it’s legit everywhere. It’s all over the anime websites to watch for free we use, social algorithms for men push them towards half-naked ladies, and Reddit is full of half-naked stuff and so on. And on top of that, I can’t be my partner's in everything. I can’t fulfill ALL his fantasies, and some, I just wouldn’t even want to possibly. And so, I am fine with a little porn time and him jacking off. I like reading sex stories and love ero…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:45 PM
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Okay, sounds weird but can I see your profile? Like there is also an art to curating a good profile. Despite looks. And wonder what else you are doing to try and draw people in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:08 AM
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You as well. Always enjoy a good discourse. So much you can learn. Idk, I love learning and studying these kinds of things. So, happy to talk more about it. And yes, maybe you will. I typically lurk and read, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:08 PM
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Okay, keep thinking that, because it is YOUR OPINION. But I think you need to do better research to support your ideas in the future.And that was the entire crux of the argument I was making in my original comment. You could poke holes in my arguments being like well the United States will be more Hispanic in the next 30 years, and they make less. Or something along those lines. But you just need to understand you don’t have the knowledge to properly interpret data and understand how to realize …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:59 PM
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Do you understand averages? And the fact you are considering the age ranges from 18-100? Thus you need clean the data to remove people who are not in the workforce because they may be students, still sustained by their parents or already retired. And what the definition of a household is. Look at current educational data and what’s projected for the current incoming classes of 2022. You are now are going back and forth between median and average. Bottom line is you have no idea how to interpret …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:40 PM
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In my first comment, I am pretty sure I am mostly asking you about your sources and the data you used. And to be careful about your sources. And asking about your basic understanding of survey data. You need data trends because you are thinking of retirement based on a current generation of women who have the lower educational backgrounds, work experience, and so on. I am not saying two IS NOT better than one. But it can be seen WHY educated women would be able to GO IT ALONE. I mean for Christ'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:26 PM
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The data I attached from the census stats majority of people with a college degree (BA or BS) make avg 67k. So regardless. Women won’t be making 25k a year if they are educated. And this would be seen mostly for women without a degree. Data here is showing 50% of women have degrees. Also, please learn to read data, look at the methodology and the sources you get your data from. Because you’re entire argument started with women making 25k a year. And the study you attached was via a CNBC article …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:21 PM
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The data you shared was only compared to white men… so it’s skewed. I am just telling you to understand data better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:19 PM
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Hi, so you used a news article. Who linked a report by a market research company called PayScale. The report was meant to talk about the gender pay gap between and women. And used by the company as an equal pay day campaign. This is the methodology they used: https://www.payscale.com/research-and-insights/methodology/ They used a sample size of 1.8 million of people they sent their survey out too. Whereas, I linked the US census which is sent out to 330 million. Hence why knowing the sources of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:12 PM
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I need to double-check the labor stats from the labor bureau. But this is what I mean by trends. Data right now may say women make x but women or younger ages are now becoming much more educated than women of prior generations. Granted they still make less compared to men. And I believe last time I checked women dominate graduate programs as well. But then is the argument, why would white college-educated women stay single? https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2019/06/20/u-s-women-near-mileston…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:02 PM
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Just 25k looked very low.. still would like a source. And what is your basic understanding of looking at demographic data? Happy to explain how just a median income alone doesn’t pay the entire picture. That’s why knowing how to cross-tabulate is important. Like looking at white women v women of color, who is defined as a household, education and its role, the trends of who is getting an education, and so on. And give you some data on the census and how to look at data like this because not “ALL…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:45 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:01 PM
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I second this about people writ large being abusive. And in these areas of study it’s widely know the numbers of abused males both emotionally, physically and sexually are greatly under reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:42 AM
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Many of us I think have been there. Both male and female. Just men are less likely to report issues or speak up about them. It’s widely known men underreport sexual abuse, assault and physical abuse. Just throwing that out there. But back to the point above. We get told by people this is OKAY. Especially when he says ex’s or family were abusive is a common myth we connect with abusers and make excuses for him. The people in our lives do as well. I remember going to a friend and telling her about…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:41 AM
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idk if this is weird to share. but I think myths people tell themselves on why their partner is abusive starts around page 93
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:36 AM
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Been doing it since I was 3. My mom managed a studio for 18 years. Thanks for the tip tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:52 PM
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🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:12 PM
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I am 4’11”. I am adopted though. But adoptive parents dad 5’9” my mom is 6’. The boyf is 5’11”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:58 AM
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Well for starters UCF is the sugar baby capital of colleges. So go for it. It also has the highest pop of students which means lots of people to choose from. Also people in your age. Which I chuckle because when I was at UCF I dated a guy five years older then me. Hit up the local bars, go to tailgates, go downtown, and maybe see if you can get a membership at their dope ass gym? Or you can move into campus style housing. Since a-lot of those apartments aren’t part of campus but affiliate housin…
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:11 AM
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Honestly as someone also with medical conditions it’s easy to turn to an online community to feel connected to others. Especially when you are at peak sickness and have dealt with the isolation of hospitals and such. We want to feel better and be better but it’s so hard when we have a failing body or a body that constantly is giving us hell. Find something else to dive into. I had my fair share of communities and stuff I’ve tried to get involved with. Idk if that any of that helps. But you aren’…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 02:08 AM
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real talk I always get confused because Xenophobia is the fear and hatred of strangers or foreigners, whereas racism has a broader meaning set including "a belief that racial differences produce the inherent superiority of a particular race." Although they are similar, they are different enough that it is possible for one to be both xenophobic and racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:17 PM
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So you were actually Xenophobic?? By then Webster dictionary definition 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:00 PM
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I second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:11 PM
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Appreciate it. And that they are.… LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:37 PM
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I mean, I don’t think it’s bad luck. I think it’s more a numbers game. When you are a 7 and up you statistically get a higher chance of being hit on which leads to a higher chance of awful experiences. It’s a numbers game. And I’ve sadly been a physically fully developed individual since I was 11. Let’s also just say a lot of Andrew Cuomo aged politicians are very much doing the same behavior as him. I once went into an office to talk to a chief of staff about signing a letter and joining a coal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:47 PM
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Appreciate it. Wasn’t aware of the stats. My best friends dad made it a fact to train us all and make sure we were stupid. I didn’t realize how stupid people could be though, I know the gun stats are high I cant even imagine people being dumb with pepper spray and tasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:46 PM
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I LOVE this for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:11 PM
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Like I could MAYBE tolerate the verbal stuff, and maybe I’d be less jaded if it was just physical stuff is a lot. I am a petit girl. It does damage. The guy pulled my hair and dragged me to the floor. I’ve had massive bruises on ass before from shit, and I’d like to be able to sit down… and not be reminded I was pretty much assaulted. It’s rampant in NY for sure, and from all types of men. I’ve experienced it through the east coast. I did my undergrad in Florida and Masters in DC. Oooooof and bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:58 AM
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Zero fucks…. at all. Even family members make comments. So you don’t want to trade places? One thing I will tell you, I appreciate how skeptical, cautious and questioning it has made me look at the world. If I hit puberty later say 17, I’d probably be some on OnlyFans doing dumb shit (no offense to women on only fans just not for me, do you bby)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:54 AM
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It’s cool, so are you trying to approach me and get a glimpse? Because my kinda sorta purple pill normal-ish boyfriend would prob not be thrilled. Also, oddly appreciate the waiting five minutes to ease it in conversation. Appreciate the patience..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:52 AM
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Damn, now we could never be friends. We’d be too cute.. I am 4 feet 11 inches and pretty much same ages on those milestones as well. They are EVERYWHERE….. I was a graduate student in DC. I went on a date with this BEAUTIFUL man from the state department. He starts making jokes about how I could be jail bait and jokes about wanting to see my ID. He then feels compelled to tell me I remind him of the underage girls he slept with at brothels in Argentina. And proceeds to call me Mamacita. You can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:51 AM
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Taser is for the car. Knife is for my apartment. Pepper spray is for everything else and I was taught by my dads friend who is a police chief. Thank you for making sure I’m not a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:46 AM
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I could go on all day about creepy approaches. Which is a bit sad. It’s even worse because I look much younger then I am. And petite…. Men love jailbait. And I love how you had to throw in your an ass connoisseur. But yes, normal guys rejoice. Just have a conversation and treat us like a human. I am not a sex object (even if you are thinking it in your head).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:33 PM
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Well approaches that lead to uncomfortable situations and shaped me. Man who pulled my hair. Approached me. Asked me to join him in VIP. I declined and he pulled my hair as I walked away. Man who punched in face, asked me to dance and then my friend. We asked him to leave us alone. Got punched in the face at the bar. (Honestly respect for the 10 strangers who beat his ass). Elementary to middle school. I don’t think people knew how to truly approach as an adult would. Boys would approach me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:14 PM
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All the time. I hit puberty sooo young too. So walking home from school consisted on being whistle called and honked at. And creepy men pulling up to me. It made me resent my body tbh. I started dressing to hide it in middle school especially after the constant getting pants to see my ass or getting grabbed. I think I even asked my pediatrician once to remove my breasts. High school, was rough because I was fetishize for being Puerto Rican. So most of the guys only wanted me because of the Latin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:30 PM
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I mean tbh baddies love white guys esp white guys with blue eyes. You got blue eyes white boy?
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:14 PM
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Lol sometimes I want to take my PR skill set to good use and help y’all with your dating profiles. This may sound weird. But there is this book called made to stick by Heath and Heath. It may help you with dating in terms of story telling, how to write a simple concrete bio to weed out mismatches and so on.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 05:42 PM
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This is so wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:11 PM
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Ya tu sabes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:58 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:58 AM
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One womens intro was legit: “I’ve been on tinder for seven years.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:04 PM
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Because I just realized the guy I’ve been dating since April has taken the red pill. And I am trying to understand. I also, will be ending this relationship next time I see him. Thank you for this sub. And also I do think there is also a need for ex-FDS subs as well. So women have their own place to deal with that issue.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 06:56 PM
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Well for starters, what background do you have in research? And do you understand the limits of qualitative studies? And collecting data via surveys and focus groups? Second, we aren’t all the same, we are humans. We all want different things.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 01:16 PM
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