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I maintain facial/pubic hair but to consider body hair unfeminine seems ridiculous. Partly because once you start, you have to keep up with it or you’ll have cactus arms and darker hair. I don’t think hairless arms is feminine. It is weird, in my opinion. It seems like a thing only people with disorders or professional athletes would have. But if you want to do that, go for it! I won’t judge your decisions if it makes you and yours happy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/19 12:33 AM
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My best advise is to be upfront and unashamed of your decision. The best men will respect your maturity and commitment to your values. Shallow men will get angry, or at least get very uncomfortable when you start discussing in detail what you’re refraining from. I think it’s a great decision you’re making. Sex (etc) is awesome but you can taint it and your mind by not being cautious of who you’re enjoying it with.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 02:18 PM
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I’m a SAHM. My LO turned one this summer. I’m still struggling to find balance but a year has taught me a few things: -don’t refuse help. Making a job of being a mother can make you a little territorial with tending to baby’s needs. It’s good for you and LO to share that responsibility with willing (and vetted) family and friends. -schedule your day. And try to stick to it! I have 2 time slots for homemaking responsibilities each day (outside of nap time). They’re short bc LO still needs attenti…
/r/RedPillWives06/09/18 08:25 PM
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I would definitely consider where he will be in 10, 20 or 30 years. Are you going to be taking care of him in poor health when you’re in your 40s? Are you going to have to re-enter the single world in your 50s, or watch your grandchildren grow alone? If that is worth it, then by all means, go for it. But that is what you’re potentially choosing. Like any relationship, there are pros and cons. Be aware of what they are on the front end instead of having to deal with it later.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 03:22 PM
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This sounds like anxiety. I would suggest finding ways to get out of your head and stop second guessing yourself. Meditation is a great way. To be honest, your lifestyle sounds well-balanced - hobbies, social life, domestic awareness, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 03:25 PM
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He has always smoked since we've been together, about 2 years. It's increased in 2017. I don't have a problem with weed in general. He says he should cut back, but doesn't. I can tell he smokes more because he has to buy more often. Before pregnancy, I would partake at times, so he makes up for my consumption plus some. It bothers me a little, mainly because it seems like a poor coping mechanism. I don't bug him about it unless he asks me to help stay accountable on quitting for a day or two.
/r/RedPillWives22/04/17 09:06 PM
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Thanks for your reply. Not being cold is hard for me. With a level head it clearly seems like the best choice, but in action I have to will myself to move on. I think I've improved from where I was 4 months ago, but it is hard living with a depressed person, and I am learning. I needed this refresher. I know my added stress is a horrible response. Some projects I can continue on without him. He has asked me to stop (he's concerned about the pregnancy regarding painting or climbing ladders, or he…
/r/RedPillWives22/04/17 01:13 PM
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This issue is not a gendered problem. Unfortunately more women are self-concious about their weight. It would be nice if they would take responsibility and stop making excuses, but I know plenty of boys who "inexplicably" tubbed up in college too. It's all about self-control and personal accountability.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:23 AM
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This is not classic or common. It is an anomaly. Actually, a problem typically male in nature.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:12 PM
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You're 17. So you have a year before your life takes a huge turn. Dating to date is futile, and may push you into sutuations you may regret. Make friends. Learn how to build relationships. Learn how to care for yourself. Confidence is the biggest part of dating, and there is no "normal" when it comes to this. There isn't need to feel insecure if you know what you want, what you're comfortable with, and what makes you happy. Hope this helps. =] if you think you're socially awkward, maybe start wi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 02:43 AM
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I hear this happens. I can't wait, haha. I've been so the opposite of horny for weeks. It's odd because normally that is not the case. And I'm definitely not looking forward to no sex for 6 weeks. I try to not think about it because that seems kind of impossible, even at my unhorniest.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:24 PM
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I was drinking coffee secretly bit then felt pretty guilty. It's been a couple weeks and I can tell I'm detoxing from it; it sucks! I think I'll bring it back. Of everything I've quit, caffeine is the WORST. I need it more now than ever!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 10:51 PM
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He is being supportive as much as he can. I know I challenge him, which is a good thing. I've been so moody so I'm trying to figure out what is a real issue and what I need to just shut up about myself. My emotions are everywhere and it's just hard, sometimes I feel pretty lonely dealing with it all. I should strive to thank him more, as I probably come off ungrateful for all he's doing. And I'm sure he wouldn't mind more BJ's. Thanks for your advise.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 10:14 PM
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Thanks for the reply. That situation is what I want to avoid. He is supprtive, but very flaky. I know he struggles to show empathy, it's by far not his strength. I did actually spend one night away because he was being very hurtful. I think it was impactful but has also caused him to lose trust in me. My goal is to be in this relationship til the end, but leaving a night made that not apparent to him. I am a very sympathetic person and tend to forget self-care, which I am working on improving. S…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 10:12 PM
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I am a big coffee drinker, but my husband insists I cut it out. I've had a cup every now and then, but there is no way I could drink a Monster. He'd be livid, and i feel pretty uncomfortable with that too. We argue over the coffee thing. His thinking is not scientifically based which is what frustrates me but he's pretty vehement about it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 10:08 PM
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I know it is common that men don't connect with the baby until much later in the pregnancy or after birth. I really don't think he'd let me follow through with abortion and that he was just so nervous about the future. Timing really isn't ideal (is it ever?!). Thanks for your commiseration.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 08:51 PM
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Honestly I think the comments would be the same in that sub if genders were reversed. No one likes a lazy, unskilled sahw. hell, that sub doesn't even like SAHWs in general. They are always quick to tell you to drop someone.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:19 PM
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