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| 3 | Just a lurker looking for advise | Madisonsavenue_ | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/15 11:09 PM |
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| 1 | My SO does exciting things with his friends but would rather stay in if it's just the two of us. I feel bad about that. Help?I'm new to red pill theory so I'm not sure my advise will be exactly what you're looking for. However, my relationship is very similar to this as far as watching Netflix and staying in a lot of the time. What I think is you're making too big of a deal out of this. It sounds like you're into the "second stage" of dating. You want it to be like it was when your first got together. I went through this too. I wanted him to want to hang out more the way he did at first, I felt he was getting tired of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Just a lurker looking for adviseIt's definitely a serious relationship. We have talked about the future together. I can see after reading other comments that I'm almost making us hanging out an obligation rather than something that's fun, which is probably why he's asking for space. It's not that he doesn't love having me over or talking to me, it's that I'm excessively doing it to the point of stressing him out rather than relieving some stress. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/15 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Just a lurker looking for adviseI don't think there's any other issue that we haven't talked about and fixed. We're in a pretty good place, I know that he's stressed from school starting back up and he really does care about getting his stuff done and turned on and what his grade looks like. It stresses him out and wrestling season just started on top of that. He just wants space and I'm aware of that I just find it difficult to do because I want to see him so much. Now that I've told him I'm trying to work on it and that I do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/15 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Just a lurker looking for adviseYeah he lives with his parents still (we're college age). His room is upstairs, they have a downstairs level with like 3 rooms, and a finished basement. Sometimes when I'm there and we're not doing anything I'll play with the cats or quietly sit somewhere on my phone, so it's not like I'm making him pay attention to me the whole time. I like being near him mostly, even if we aren't doing something together all the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/15 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Just a lurker looking for adviseWell the part where he tells me I've stayed too long is more of a built up thing. He won't say anything right away then one day it just comes from what seems likes nowhere. He doesn't really give me any hints about wanting me to leave or having anything else to do (he's mostly on his computer or working on his truck or motorcycle) and if he does have something he usually invites me along. He's got a very odd way of showing his frustration and affection and sometimes it still throws me off. I gue… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/15 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Just a lurker looking for adviseI really needed that last bit. He started wrestling season this week so it should start to get easier as far as "detoxing" goes. I'm glad that you suggested a break but not the breaking up kind that most people think of. As far as me wanting to hear from him more I guess what I meant was more of when I do tell him something I'm excited about I get more of an uninterested response such as "yea" or "lol" which sometimes, I'll admit, is all there is left to say but it's every text I receive no matt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/15 05:59 AM |
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