MadmanInABluebox Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected? That's totally disrespectful, but if something like that happens, again you should acknowledge it in the moment. It's literally the most powerful thing you can do, because if you don't you end up fuming about it later with someone that wasn't the cause of it. You could've done it as simply as: "Excuse me, but you're not making eye contact with me or even listening. You're being incredibly disrespectful right now and ruining my meal. Either change your attitude or bring us a different waiter so w…	/r/seduction	09/03/22 05:57 PM
1	[deleted by user] That's a legit concern, I can understand why you'd be cautious going back to men after so long. I wish you luck in your potential search and hope you find someone that can make that journey interesting.	/r/seduction	08/02/22 09:28 PM
16	[deleted by user] I’d recommend using this as a learning experience. She’s coming from having sex with women, definitely make foreplay a big focus and communicate. If you hit it off, then cool, you got a bi partner.	/r/seduction	08/02/22 01:25 PM
1	Seeing my ex in a week or two. It’s been 10 months since we broke up, 8 1/2 months since we last met. I think I’m ready. Weird logic on a lot of points lol. Unless you legitimately were friends before dating, then you're not friends. At the very least it puts you in a friends plus, but with even more additional baggage scenario. I'd say if you want to be successful, don't have an agenda of making yourself look good, although it seems to me like you want to brag. The point about alcohol is a big red flag too, did you struggle with addiction? Simple recommendation: Ask about her and see what journey she's on. If she…	/r/seduction	15/08/20 02:45 PM
8	Approached a girl - worst experience ever Don't promote chasing someone down if they run away. wtf	/r/seduction	24/06/20 06:13 AM
8	Approached a girl - worst experience ever Don't blame yourself for her running away, you can never know what experiences someone has gone through. Most women do have a fear of men, and with good reason. Like others said, introducing yourself and smiling is the best way to get someone to interested in a conversation. It also depends on the area you approached her, approaching someone at night in a semi-busy area is questionable, especially if it's during the week. However, if it's the weekend and more people are out, then it's generally …	/r/seduction	24/06/20 06:12 AM
1	Fat chick wants to fuck, I turned her down, feeling a bit bad about it Don't feel guilty about it, you displayed a high level of self control in the face of free sex and did it in a respectable manner. If anything you should give yourself a pat on the back. Keep it up and if you continue for sure that self control and dedication to whats right for you will serve you very well!	/r/seduction	08/11/15 01:21 PM
2	To all German people who are in this supreddit I've seen this work actually, it's like a mixture of sexual kino, and tongue in cheek dialogue. Although I've also seen it fail terribly, and very quickly..	/r/seduction	21/07/13 09:20 PM
1	3 [FR] in one: Graduation If he opted "white" out of the sentence, then it wouldn't be racist anymore, thus okay?	/r/seduction	24/05/13 03:47 PM
4	How close can you get to a woman without becoming seen as a friend? Disclaimer: Take my advice at your own risk If she's texting while having a meal with you, she's not invested in the moment. You need to take control of the moment, and engage her in the way that attracts/ interests her. Make it fun, interesting, and provocative. Escalating is definitely needed, but you need to shape the mood first. Take the conv from being about how bad past relationships were, and talk about some thrills you brought to your past GFs. Talk about exciting things you haven't shar…	/r/seduction	29/04/13 10:17 AM
1	Storytelling...please help I'd be interested in any books/material on this subject as well!	/r/seduction	14/04/13 04:52 PM
2	How much "back-end" do you need to get a girl? ^ Seconded. Also be honest to yourself, and others about what you're after. Just do it manly.	/r/seduction	12/12/12 11:51 AM
48	I find it odd and enlightening that my biggest checkpoint to date has nothing to do with women. The bro code is strong in 'That guy'.	/r/seduction	10/12/12 10:45 AM
1	How do I escalate? Great response! I could totally see a girl not being totally comfortable in the situation, even if she's not a virgin, it's quite possible at 18 she's just not very experienced yet. Use sensual touching, don't go directly in her pants (imagine how uncomfortable that is w/ a belt on!) or for her tits. Try intense kissing, move on your fingers on her jaw line, move down her neck to her collar bone. Remember to use her hands to judge her immediate reaction. You can slide your finger tips into her h…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 10:17 AM