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Well put, take my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:18 AM
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When I was 16, my mom made me watch this movie. Here is a funny little clip from it. Found it to be very relevant to your comment. I internalized it to this day. It works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:51 AM
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Probably just don’t share the negative aspects of their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:01 AM
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I don’t really expect older men or women that are married to complain about their relationship in this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:59 AM
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LOL worko is a handful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:48 AM
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How many years have you been together? You can’t vet for everything so it’s good to check in from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:21 AM
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You’re right, I’ll just send an email🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:15 AM
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u/Bandit174 is tryna get me dumped for real☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:01 AM
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Ew no are you trolling😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:56 AM
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He has money but it’s his money and I am not comfortable asking. It would be really weird, don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:52 AM
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I’ve been grinding at my new job before school starts and my paycheck is 4 business days late🥴 ugh and I need to buy a computer. I kinda wanna ask HR what’s happening but I am not confrontational and wanna give them more time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:23 AM
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Damn it I wanna show my brother there is post about his little lecture over the phone but he’ll think I am crazy😪
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:08 PM
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Probably why he spews so many RP talking points. He sees the other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:41 PM
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Yep he probably has the dynamic most of the RP men here seem to want. Wife that was a virgin when they met, SAHM, way too agreeable imo, and four kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:25 PM
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I expected him to call the men cowards tbh because he’s said before he doesn’t have any expectations for women but holds men to a high standard for their conduct
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:17 PM
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What branch are you in👀 I always assume if you have a workforce as predominantly male as the military, natural Redpilling experiences are commonly touted
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:15 PM
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I decided to take a few FDS talking points to my older marine brother about how all the men in Afghanistan are leaving and I ended up getting a lecture on how women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30. Welp😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:59 PM
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What’s your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:15 AM
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You really think girls that look like her are only slightly above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:05 AM
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Stop the cap kat🙄your whr alone keeps you way above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:59 AM
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u/Eastuss come tell your story
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:24 AM
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I am white so my social circle is mainly white. I don’t think this is a race thing though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:10 AM
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There’s some chatter right now but during the day it’s pretty active. There is a voice chat that’s also very active too during the day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:32 AM
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I am on the discord and everyone has basically seen everyone although most of the people on the discord aren’t very active on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:09 AM
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That’s common but I am assuming OP is talking about saying it directly to a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:48 AM
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Are you really gonna tell me a low n stacy millionaire isn’t better than a poor low n stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:46 AM
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I am in college and sure we call guys ugly among ourselves but I rarely see girls do it seriously in front of a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:45 AM
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“Why does the prostitute have to have shitty teeth?” Because most street walker type prostitutes are hooked on drugs and they fuck up your teeth if you’re a habitual user.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:40 AM
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Men beat women for petty comments all the time so I’ll stick to playing it safe. I also don’t understand in what circumstance I’d need to call a man ugly to his face
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:32 AM
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What woman in her right mind is calling men ugly IRL? I don’t wanna get killed, I’ll lie and tell them all they look fine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:17 AM
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Can’t even appreciate men without my flair dragging me down🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:12 AM
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Men are wonderful🥰. I hope all of you get the low n stacy millionaire you deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:05 AM
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First, no one is obligated to empathize with anyone else and honestly, a lot of women including myself can’t wrap their heads around the issues men face in the SMP. But in general, I frequently empathize with men facing other challenges whether it be unemployment, chronic health issues, or mounting debt. So I feel for men easily in a lot of other issues they may face because they tend to be issues everyone may face regardless of gender. But when a male peer tells me he’s a virgin at 20 and think…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:57 PM
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It takes longer for a woman to realize her “league” the more she has casual sex. So that time is lengthened in most women’s peak SMV years because plenty have casual encounters with men out of their league. They shouldn’t base it off casual sex but the type of men they can consistently get for LTRs. I say consistently because if one boyfriend was significantly better than any other men you’ve dated, being hung up on him and comparing the men in your league to him is how alpha widows are made.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:22 PM
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Don’t call out my FDS sisters like that☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:04 PM
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I am baffled by what men consider unreasonable standards. To me, your standards are only unreasonable if you can’t get men that fit that in your LTR dating pool. So in this post, the 5’4 girl may be reasonable if her dating pool of LTRs happens to be 6ft+ men. I know short girls in LTRs with tall guys so it’s not inherently unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:48 PM
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I agree with her and it’s reasonable probably if she’s not blue collar. Plenty of fat office workers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:42 PM
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Your standards are only ridiculous when you can’t get them in a committed LTR. So IRL, all the women I’d say grace ridiculous standards are pumped and dumped and can’t get an LTR with the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:41 PM
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Geez I’ve stopped visiting the front page, is there a link to a post asking for a husband that pays 100% of the bills and does 50% of the housework? I am not even doubting you, the sub has gone off the rails. I don’t believe in 50/50 marriage financially but I wouldn’t expect a man that’s a provider to also split my designated gender role. When I say 50/50, I moreso imagine a marriage in which costs are split evenly and I don’t think that’s fair to the lower income partner so I’d prefer we just …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:37 PM
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She was doing wife duties on girlfriend salary. She’s young, hopefully she gets over this and secures her own bag for herself. Edit: This is also why I think women should avoid being with men that don’t have their lives together. If I were her, I would have avoided dating, gotten myself together, and then looked for someone with that instead of building up a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:38 AM
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Are you white? Culturally everyone prefers their own people but if you’re a good guy it shouldn’t be an obstacle especially since she lives in the States.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:13 AM
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My grandmother used to always say “men aren’t suppose to be attractive” so if she’s traditionally EE, she’ll easily trade looks for masculinity+provision . As for how masculine you should be, I’d say be yourself but don’t be passive. Be decisive on date ideas, and the small chivalrous gestures go a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:05 AM
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Any discussion of marriage down the line yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:58 PM
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Yep definitely more likely to be traditionally minded especially since most of the EE girls I know have a SAHM & their father was the provider. More likely to be virgins all depends on how in touch they are with the culture of slut shaming and how progressive her family was. Most EE girls I know are less promiscuous than the American ones I know. The main issue with dating us is that there is a level of masculinity that most I know require that most American and Western men can’t. Oh yeah and hy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:43 PM
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What do you do dear husband👀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:31 PM
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lucky is a 9 facially and young Alain Delon is a 10 to me facially . Cavil and the others commonly touted here are too old nowadays. Definitely think Lucky is hotter and so was Alain Delon in his 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:25 PM
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Damn I would have asked everyday until he answered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:17 PM
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How come you didn’t know before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:12 PM
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Yes but I was raised in the US in a “progressive” Eastern European household where my father never hit my mother😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:07 PM
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Some of us are raised to be entitled tbh I know I was
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:02 PM
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Did they have more time and/or did they give you more attention than the employed men you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:00 PM
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No that’s abusive🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:50 PM
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Alright so when you were unemployed, did you give your girlfriend more attention than when you were employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:48 PM
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I adore worko but he’s cray cray
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:46 PM
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Ladies, have you ever dated an unemployed man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:45 PM
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I am Eastern European, how good are you at handling a little bit of plate throwing😇 followed up by great make up sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:43 PM
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Are you decent in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:42 PM
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It’s okay you can wear heels🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:35 PM
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So is this how short guys feel? I am 5’9 and your maximum height standard is 5’8😢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:24 PM
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OP admitted they’re talking about their 3rd world conservative country…why are we discussing non Western cultures in PPD now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:20 PM
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My brother bought me car
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:24 PM
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If you have a Ferrari and you live in the ghetto, would you park it outside or inside your garage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:22 AM
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I call my biological father “daddy” but not my boyfriend cause that’s weird and I’d be turned off if he called me mommy sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:35 AM
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Why do PPD men have this wild idea that older women are evil and trying to mislead younger women? All the women over 30 I know aren’t in the same dating market as I am & are often chill just telling you red flags from their experiences. I am 20 and all the advice I’ve gotten wasn’t something wild to sabotage me. A lot of it was wisdom that came with the years they had on me. As recently as a couple of months ago, u/xQueen-Bx spent hours helping me figure myself out. It’s some weird male fantasy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:32 AM
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Fellow senior? If so, let’s go class of 2022🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 05:02 AM
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I am kind of keeping my boyfriend hush hush on social media for the opposite reasons. It’s super common regardless. In our sorority, introducing your sisters to an ugly boyfriend is the fastest way to lose FSM status unless he’s rich
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:59 AM
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Must be someone that lives in a small town. These men are rare statistically but fairly abundant in certain pockets of big cities, albeit I never know their dick sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:42 AM
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No worries, not a rant. Everything I had read had essentially said the US has been training Afghan since the Obama administration in 2013 declared their new goal was to have their military be self sufficient. So the military collapse in just over a week seemed to be a byproduct of Afghan corruption, tribalism, and cowardice. It seems it’s deeper than that and the MSM as per usual is ill informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:50 PM
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Lol you’re the one trying to call me out. Fill me in or hush up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:46 PM
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Which is what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:42 PM
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Eh I am flipping past every channel that’s showing it but it seems all of them are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:37 PM
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I was referring to the Afghani military. At least the Taliban fighters have the balls to fight for whatever shitty version of Islam they want implemented
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:28 PM
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We’re a dying breed and rightfully so. I wanna know about what’s happening in the US not some foreign country but that’s all they’ve been covering
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:25 PM
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Yeah it’s their country, of course they can’t ignore it. It’s not mine..I don’t wanna watch 100hrs of people I can’t help with men that don’t want to fight for their country
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:22 PM
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I am tired of Afghanistan being on every news channel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:15 PM
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God played favorites when he made men and no one can convince me otherwise. We were talking about easily men can masturbate without toys on the PPD discord the other night and it was indeed confirmed: God has favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:07 PM
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Lifting definitely but for some reason I have zero interest in cooking so I am planning on getting a professional to teach me. Hopefully sinking some money into it will make me take it more seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:03 PM
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Lips I am not too sure, I just wish they were puffier but I know that’s super popular with girls from Eastern European so small lips make me kinda stand out now. Boob job is ideal since I am only a C cup but I am never gonna do it. If I wasn’t able to get the guys I want maybe but I don’t know if DDs would make me that much hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:36 PM
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For SMV: Getting a boob job, and getting lips done For RMV: Becoming a half decent cook I’ll change the latter in a year or two but I am fine for now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:25 PM
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You’re too hot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:29 AM
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Makes sense, I don’t want my guy to feel like I am not investing at all so I’ll have to start being a little pickme. I suppose some of the advice is to make sure to not get burned again so when women that aren’t dealing with LVMs use it, it’s not a perfect fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:27 AM
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I don’t see older women as my competition and I doubt they see me as such so when they give me advice, I do tend to listen and follow it depending if they have the kind of relationship I want. Main problem with FDS right now is there isn’t enough content on what to do once you have the HVM…mutual “simping” is the norm at that point for most normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:13 AM
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That isn’t spoken of enough and that’s why I haven’t changed my flair. Mutually assured simping is the way to go and they do think men should do the initial legwork I wish there was more discussion of when to pickme and not so much discussion about when not to. You can only have so many posts about “how to not be a pickme for an LVM”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:11 AM
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Damn I’ve been underachieving in the HVM department
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:02 AM
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I am realizing FDS categorizes a lot of normal things people do for someone they love as “pickme” and I may be falling into that category now..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:57 AM
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She said it was announced somewhat a couple of months ago so she’s been preparing to transition into being an influencer and is looking at Twitch/YouTube too mid September.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:56 AM
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I would agree with you if OP said she was raising the kid. She specifically said she only sees the kid 2x a year…the connotation of the word “parent” doesn’t even apply to her. She doesn’t parent bar 2x a year, that’s more babysitting than parenting due to its infrequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:58 PM
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Nope, being a parent usually comes with a role and that’s why it would be relevant. She said she sees her kid 2x a year…who cares that’s like a distant relative. No man she gets into a relationship will ever have to be a parent because she’s not a single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:55 PM
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It’s not relevant if you’re barely in the kid’s life. No need to put it on profile
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:32 PM
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Hush and tell on date. How long has it been since you last dated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:24 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:54 PM
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Crap less than 24hrs ago I made a comment about my friend doing well on it. What the hell is gonna happen to the platform if its main use is curbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:49 PM
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Open your OF I’ll sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:14 PM
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I don’t think a lot of women only care about money or 99% of men wouldn’t be able to have sex or get married. I wish more women cared about only money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:09 AM
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Send some well manicured feet pics to u/VictorianFlyRink to contribute to the collapse of Western civilization and I might consider it😤
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:40 AM
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I’d be proud of any 19yr old making 20k/month
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:36 AM
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Eh my friend invested 15k into her social media to bolster her OF, most men and women don’t have that kind of capital to sink into something like OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:30 AM
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I think the median earnings of an OF account is 200-300/month so it’s not all roses. My friend invested nearly 15k into the growth of her social media accounts so that she could get a bigger audience for her OF
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:11 AM
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I am proud of them but goddamn we really should have hopped in😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:58 AM
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My best friend is making 20k/month on OF officially and I am questioning my life choices. She’s hired a social media marketing firm and basically blew up in 3 months. I wish I could have gotten over the mental block and got on OF when I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:53 AM
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Awww sounds like a healthy relationship although I’d be worried about his level of emotional neediness but perhaps it’ll subside with time. Who said he can’t be a gentleman and eat your ass though🤔 Edit: why is his asshole even hairy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:37 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:06 PM
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Yeah I am 5’9 and guys seem to like the height especially the ones I want (6ft+)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:06 PM
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I am 5’9 and have never been rejected because of my height but I do tend to date much taller men and never approach/ engage guys I can see are visibly much shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:47 PM
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A little thought experiment we’re doing on the PPD discord: PPD men, would you get violent if you found out you had sex with a trans woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:11 AM
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I wasn’t even following this whole thing until one of my YouTube drama channels covered it…another RP fraud I guess. Heard he had a Seeking Arrangements profile🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:52 AM
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I just say I want an ambitious guy which is my code word for affluent lol most people don’t question it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:44 AM
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Damn Atlas, you’ve never had an oops in all that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:45 AM
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Every time I go to a bar without make up but I am technically under the legal drinking age of 21
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:01 AM
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Q4A: Do you use condoms in your committed relationships? Asking this courtesy of u/RepresentativeSwan1, he likes to claim women make men they’re monogamous with wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:59 AM
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What the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:10 AM
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It really depends. OLD allows you to filter out so many different types of men that you have to put in more work to do so in real life. For instance, I frequently used Hinge and Luxy. On the former, there is a race/height filter that you obviously can’t have offline. On Luxy, it was very easy for me to verify that the men I was about to meet were successful instead of having to vet them offline. Most women I know open their dating apps when bored and aren’t solely reliant on it. It’s a way to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:40 PM
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Lol try having an FDS flair and watch your downvotes multiply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:18 PM
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I wouldn’t post it online and call it face care but that’s interesting. Men honestly don’t know how good life can be for above average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:16 PM
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I would suggest Conservative men to my fellow FDSers but they care too much about a man having the same views and wouldn’t go for it. Seems like they might be the niche of men that fit the standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:11 PM
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Gosh I am smitten..I got Baklava, wine, and a poem. I am about to become a pickme🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:12 AM
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Female beauty standards are fine but the male beauty standards are too low. The men I see rated highly on Reddit…🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:08 PM
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Should have posted a video online for it to go viral and get clout like the couple you posted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:07 PM
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Mine flew 1400 miles☺️ good men exist and I definitely should have monetized it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:04 PM
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Ayy always shoot your shot🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:58 PM
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Cold approach at a party, another while out shopping with friends, and final while I was waiting for my date at a restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:56 PM
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Yep, 3 to be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:35 PM
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Based, I shall make my IG private & take my last name out and then follow the official account 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:05 PM
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Not many that you’re directly involved in. Crying over a death is fine but crying because “oh poor me I am frustrated work they work me too hard wahhh” is ridiculous for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:48 PM
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I am claiming most women feel this way and if you ask most men, there is a reason why they believe they can’t be emotionally open even though women say they want that, they don’t like how it manifests.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:47 PM
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Unless he’s a resident physician and lost his first patient, I can’t imagine any good reason for a man to cry over work related issues. Of course there are circumstances where a man’s tears are even attractive but they’re extremely limited because it is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:44 PM
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He cried over being frustrated at work and you could see him as a masculine man that can protect you and be emotionally stable afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:37 PM
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This isn’t the norm imo. Are you doubting that women lose attraction to men who constantly lose frame & express sadness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:32 PM
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Imagine your boyfriend cries over how frustrated he is at work. That’s surely going to turn you off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:28 PM
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You’re bluepilled on women if you think they would pick the sperm of a 5’8-5’9 guy with a bad hairline and yellow teeth over a 6’2 attractive guy if given the option. Most likely the women in question were too poor for traditional sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:05 PM
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May I ask what got you sick/what illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:56 PM
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Nazi??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:50 PM
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Q4A: When did you realize your last relationship was over? If you’ve been married, when did you know your marriage was essentially going to end & how long did you wait to end it officially after coming to that realization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:40 PM
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Male version of me would probably be able to get women easily. He’d be 6’3, with a high paying career, outgoing/ and athletic and good body(10.5% body fat approximately) Damn, now I am wondering if I was born the wrong gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:17 AM
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Are they going to try to contact all their siblings?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:10 AM
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Yep I am white, Slovenian to be more specific. As for why I like FDS, I think the handbook is really common sense advice that girls hear from their mothers/grandmothers, I know I did. So I always dated with that advice in mind but honestly I don’t visit the sub anymore because they’re becoming ridiculous. I don’t hate men and actually enjoy the company of the ones around me & I don’t have any trauma since all my relationships ended amicably so I can’t relate to 100 memes about LVMs and all the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:05 AM
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I don’t use Twitter but I am on Instagram pretty frequently. I wouldn’t come across her because my feed is fairly white and I don’t follow any black non musicians (Meg the stallion, and Nicki Minaj only). Just took a peek at her IG though and there is no way the algorithm would ever suggest her content to me. 1.4M followers for the most popular pornstar seems low, the only other one I know is Mia Khalifa and she has 25M followers. And yeah I live in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:58 AM
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I am 20 lol is this some pornstar? Edit: Googled Teanna and someone named Teanna Trump came up so if that’s the chick yeah I don’t watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:47 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:44 AM
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Watching this video about a guy that’s donating sperm and has 40+ kids. My biggest question is why go for a guy that looks 5’8-5’9, bad hairline, and yellow teeth if you want a donor? I am assuming the women are too poor for sperm banks because that’s the only plausible explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:43 AM
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How is this a thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:18 PM
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Not enough people will go their own way unfortunately. Too many women have grown up idolizing motherhood and marriage so I am excited to see how Gen Alpha women perceive those things. But if women don’t want to give birth to 2 kids each because it would make them fundamentally unhappy, so be it. Children are a lifetime commitment and shouldn’t be had with a partner you’re not compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:27 PM
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People want to get what they want or stay single. Personally, as a woman that doesn’t fully fit the trad role and can get traditionally minded men, your standards are not problematic in the SMP as long as your dating pool fits them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with people going their own way because they can’t realistically get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:53 PM
2

Do women actually choose to drink the man’s pee????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:17 AM
0

The kind of girls he wants aren’t gonna be dating median income men and his job is remote so he’s deciding to move for a livelier dating scene. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:13 AM
2

The only show on NPR worth listening to was that weird car talk one with the two guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:06 AM
1

Ew no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:00 AM
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Sorry, I guess I didn’t provide context: he’s moving to LA. His self rating is based on that one girl when I asked him how he came up with it. I just found it silly someone so unattractive thought they were 2 pts above average. She’s more of a one off lucky catch that dumped him than a pattern in his dating history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:59 PM
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I would reject, I can go with a guy that’s less perfect for me and still a catch that I don’t have to eat his fecal matter yuck. Who the hell would agree to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:51 PM
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Aren’t you shirtless on camera in Instagram pics too though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:44 PM
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I was talking to a single guy in his 30s and he’s definitely been alpha widowed. He’s balding, chubby, and got a girl that was way out of his league briefly for a relationship (mainly because of his area). He now rates himself as a 7 & kept telling me how he can’t settle on attraction ever since he’s been with her. I didn’t have it in me to tell him he’s below average in most major cities but in his weird small town having a job that pays 90k/yr and a college degree is somehow impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:35 PM
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My partner does because he knows I don’t like body hair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:29 PM
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I think it’s hard for women to know they are low SMV because of the positive feedback they get from men who want to fuck them & female spaces don’t directly call unattractive women unattractive. Bluepilled unattractive women also think the attractive men they can get for sex will stay if they treat them well/have a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:20 PM
2

Snooping is how I found out my ex was gay. Do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:10 PM
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I don’t know many average looking women that know they’re average so they see some of the men as their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:07 PM
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I am not sure that they want a long enduring relationship as a beta but rather that they almost always ask questions to see how to get alpha/chad treatment. Furthermore, I’ve noticed married people even if their partner wasn’t initially their type, they begin describing their partner when discussing desireable traits. One thread was very telling in that the OP was asking about balding men either shaving off their hair or getting a hair transplant. I am 20 & in a sorority with a bunch of girls wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:04 PM
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I think 99% of Q4W posts on what’s attractive are practically useless. It’s usually some variation of a young guy asking and a bunch of older married women answering
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:53 PM
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Why do you guys think there are practically 4x as many Q4W posts vs Q4M🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:41 PM
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Another way too specific question that probably describes the OP. The Q4W threads are turning more and more into advice columns
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:40 PM
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Just go for men with strong morals and good character and also enforce your boundaries. I am not too worried about infidelity even though my boyfriend is much taller than 5’10 (he’s 6’4). Most men in relationships have other options and the ones that don’t want to cheat don’t regardless of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:41 AM
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I definitely agree with the high maintenance bit being informed by their social group and female relatives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:26 AM
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Their main plight is that conservative man -> voted Trump in their eyes. I don’t even think it’s disagreement based on a few issues that makes dislike the idea of being with a conservative guy. If they are somehow a “Never Trumper” then they have to agree with them on a few social issues that are important to them be it a woman’s right to choose or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:58 PM
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Yeah my boyfriend is 23 wants to be married by 25 so they definitely leave the market earlier than most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:53 PM
2

what cultures in particular? I am Eastern European and men provide but then women have to cook/clean and take care of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:47 PM
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The main issue is a lot of them consider political compatibility to be important and are Liberals. I am Liberal as well but I’ve realized I am willing to set aside my politics if that means I can get a partner that’s compatibility with me in other words. From the few I talk to, most wouldn’t consider conservative men because they consider their political affiliation to be almost part of their identities but you’re right: they’re educated, happy to provide & protect as long as you also embrace yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:41 PM
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I am realizing my fellow FDSers should actually go for conservative men. Mine usually pays on all the dates because gender roles and thinks being high maintenance is part of being a woman + marriage minded. Cons: A little misogynistic, a little racist, and most likely won’t let you check his white privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:25 PM
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It is counterintuitive to the usual arguments because I don’t subscribe to that line of logic. If you’re a young woman foregoing the chance to date better looking men your age for older men, then you should make sure the older man you’re dating is significantly better off financially to compensate for that. You can’t be dating down in looks and money, that’s just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:07 PM
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If a friend of mine is dating an older man, he’s most likely less attractive than men her age would be. So she might as well have him compensating for that with a big wallet, if not, I can’t respect her choice and I’d rather not have to deal with her relationship socially. Tbf, you’re with probably the best looking 39yr old man around and he has money so I’d be cool with you🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:40 PM
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I judge big age gaps unless the man is significantly wealthier. But I don’t care enough to hassle these people, I just cut them off socially and carry on with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:31 PM
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No divorce, I like him a lot. Also wtf is going on with FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:26 PM
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For fun lol I am already in a relationship with the kind of man I want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:59 AM
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Already have😇
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:48 PM
3

Let’s go for someone with a net worth of 100mil as an easy reference and assume you’re trying to figure out whether the girl wants you primarily for your money or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:42 PM
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The most well known royal family has married out consistently in recent memory so not quite anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:40 PM
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This is extremely low effort. What exactly are we suppose to discuss from it? Some woman views men as a cash cow...and that matters why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:35 PM
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Q4M: If you were wealthy and vetting for a wife, how would you make sure she wasn't after your money?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:22 PM
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Q4Married people: how early in your relationship did you know your partner was “The One?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:45 AM
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FDS doesn’t encourage motherhood nor does it discourage it. There are a very vocal minority of FDS women that are actually childfree, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:41 PM
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I am never gonna criticize TRP for misogyny or being radical because FDS is exactly that. I do think it’s just TRP for women. FDS wants to serve the female imperative while TRP wants to serve the male imperative. Both communities are extremely radical if taken at 100% face value. I’d tell a man looking at TRP to treat it as a toolbox just as I would say to a woman looking at FDS. At the end of the day, you’re the one that’s gonna have to live with your choices. I see posts on FDS that visibly ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:08 PM
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Sounds like my dream pansexual alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:37 PM
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Oh hush and shed a few tears for me😡
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:37 AM
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There’s something unbelievably sexy about a normally stoic man shedding a few tears🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:30 AM
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Finding out he paid for sex explicitly. So hired a hooker/SB etc. That would break my heart
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:14 AM
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Who says feminism helps men, advocacy wise? I am not sure why you’re waiting for feminists to protest this, men should get together and do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:11 AM
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Watched Goodfellas last night for the first time; are we sure Joe Pesci isn’t in the mob? I’d be surprised to hear he didn’t get an Oscar for his acting in that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:59 AM
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I have no idea who has time for PPD related podcasts. The sub is enough weirdness for me. I’ll stick to listening to Dave Ramsey
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:05 PM
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No lol, he thinks modern women act like shaving/waxing are “above and beyond” things they’re doing when he believes it’s the bare minimum and comes with being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:16 AM
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At least this one is straight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:59 AM
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I don’t think this is a particularly FDS piece of advice but common sense: men don’t change unless they want to. She was an experiment to see if he could change and apparently he can’t. Does she have kids, a job, and family nearby? This relationship sounds like it’s doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:47 AM
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This is how shallow women are in female spaces. It’s only in mixed groups that I’ve heard women including myself downplay the importance of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:09 AM
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He’s misogynistic but he tends to feel like modern men are trash too. He thinks the epidemic of men that want to go Dutch on dates and the decrease of the amount of men that can provide are absolutely shamed. He thinks because men aren’t men anymore, women have started acting more like men. I am appreciating the toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:36 AM
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I am Slovenian and he thinks they’re loud, make a big deal out of personal grooming (waxing/shaving all body hair) and compete on who is the most masculine. All harsh conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:23 AM
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Yikes, I don’t like the idea of talking shit about other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:21 AM
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Why are a lot of men’s compliments to women essentially “you’re not like other x girls?” I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he went about complimenting me on being feminine by essentially saying Modern American women aren’t & I realized most women give compliments by calling you an NLOG.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:00 AM
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He was overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:05 PM
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No need to lol just reread my comment and look at me calling myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:00 PM
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I am one and I see our privilege over other races of men but working in Finance has shown me the good ol boys club still exists and it's full of cis white men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:22 PM
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Substance abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:14 PM
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Oh I broke up with him. He became too high maintenance, I had a strict weekly schedule I was seeing the men on and he wanted me to cancel plans the day after seeing him. Cancellations would have started messing with my whole schedule for the other men so welp The other guys were fine but I wasn’t feeling it until I met one that was just what I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:56 AM
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Good job on being debt free! As for living with your parents, personally, I come from an immigrant family where the expectation was to live at home until you get married. I don’t see the American mindset of leaving your family home ASAP relatable so as long as you’re helping out with your family and not leeching off of them, it probably puts you in a better financial situation once you do decide to move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:44 PM
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Advice from PPD men in this regard is completely useless. Ask yourself what kind of man you want and then mold yourself into the type of woman that he likes. Almost always, that will mean investing in your feminity and your looks. Guys on this subreddit will brag about how little they care about a woman's career or education meanwhile most of my exes cared about those things, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:49 AM
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Another Monday and another reminder of the following: Over 40% of Americans have less than $10,000 saved for when they retire. A Gallup poll found only about 1/3 of Americans (32%) maintain a household budget About 77 million Americans, or 35% of adults with a credit file, have debt in collections reported in their credit files, according to the Urban Institute. 54% of student loan holders didn’t actually try to figure out their future monthly payments before taking out any of their loans. (GFLE…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:18 AM
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I am not even sure why we have this discussion thread. Kevin samuels isn’t RP and he speaks about black culture and since we can’t even have race posts in this subreddit it feels ill fitting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:08 PM
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Not anymore because u/xQueen-Bx taught me men love through protectiveness/possessiveness. So far that has checked out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:08 PM
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I wouldn't date him if he wasn't welp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:43 AM
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No idea, I don't downvote people. I think people just downvote on this sub for any reason, don't mind it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:43 AM
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My boyfriend wasn't comfortable with me going to a night club so I decided a gay party would be the ultimate compromise. I get to dance and have fun with a few friends and he knows no one there is hitting on me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:09 AM
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I think hot naturally is about bone structure/height but beyond that a lot of hotness is about self maintenance. Good skincare, working out, and good haircuts etc. All of the guys had abs barring 2-3 older guys, lots of men that either wax or shave their body hair, a few had gotten some work done on their butts and they looked fantastic. I wasn’t gonna ask him anything, I just meant I am glad he didn’t ask me what “you’re based” means since that’s blackpill lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:54 AM
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I broke the #1 rule of normie socializing last night at a gay party when I was gushing about every guy at the party being hot. One guy said “yeah I feel bad for you sisters straight men are not it!” Thanks to u/RepresentativeSwan1 and plenty of other incels, I told him he was based and thankfully he was too drunk to ask follow up questions. Pro-tip: Keep incel language strictly out of your day to day vocabulary
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:21 AM
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It’s 6am in the East Coast on a Sunday. Why are we up🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:06 AM
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To your first point — I don’t have difficulty getting the men I want in committed LTRs. Ultimately I don’t wanna share his resources with another woman so polygamy isn’t my forte. However, I’d be happy to be polyamorous but I seem to date men that prefer being possessive and wouldn’t allow me to fool around with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:59 AM
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I guess the difference is that many of the men she hooks up with are blue collar guys & she discusses her sexual exploits with her peers in the same social class as her (most men she met at family functions). So she has a rep. But much of it is also that her family is a conservative southern family politically and religiously so girls sleeping around happens but the culture of slut shaming is alive and well. Edit: oh yeah and she dated a black guy which apparently isn’t something white UC southe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:43 AM
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I am not used to family drama like this either lol but he comes from money and his sister is having the clichè rich kid rebellion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:32 AM
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Huh? I think he was just saying for her to be quiet. Him and I both don’t believe in lying by omission so perhaps that’s why I didn’t see an issue with his commentary
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:04 AM
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Just got home from hanging out with my boyfriend and I realized once again men seem to give women they care about FDS adjacent advice. He was telling me she kept getting into bed with fuckboys because she made herself look easy & that his family would introduce her to nice men but then she’d blab about that time she had sex in the parking lot with one of her exes. He literally said she needs to be quiet and act chaste😂. She’s now being sent to an all girls college after dropping out of her co-ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:57 AM
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Young and shallow, what can I say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:54 AM
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I go to a college that ethnic guys struggle in because it seems most of the girls are interested in white guys or white passing men so I know it's not beyond the realm of possibility. Most were succeeded when they were off campus and in a much more diverse dating pool. I am just a little sad someone with your stats has to entertain boring 3s on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:54 PM
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Jesus, you're down bad. Have you tried meeting women IRL? Girls are always pickier on OLD. You sound like you should be getting average girls at worst not chubby 3s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:48 PM
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For such a rich man, he really needed to invest in good legal counsel because his prenup debacle was embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:45 PM
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I said what you can as in skincare, dental treatment, and working out. If you have clear skin, straight teeth, and you're fit... surely you'll get matched with girls above 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:44 PM
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Have you tried improving where you can? I don't think any man should have to date 3s, they're often more entitled than the attractive chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:39 PM
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Why are you even talking to a 3/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:37 PM
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I think female rhetoric surrounding 50/50 financial burden in relationships will have to change so that men don't feel inadequate for not being able to cover 100% of the bills. I disagree with other commenters that don't think women play a role in men feel unneeded in society: when women outearn men, they embrace the narrative of not "needing a man" and eventually when they get into a relationship they don't know how to make him feel needed. In my relationships, I often ask for help where I coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:28 PM
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I am all for men paying for dates but are we really trying to convince men to pay for women's hygiene and make-up now? The recent thread about female upkeep and the use of Cardi B as an example of a "beautiful" woman was so strange even for my standards of being entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:07 PM
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Cardi B isn’t beautiful though. If you need to put a ton of make up on your face and get 5 plastic surgeries instead of working out, I am not sure if most men want that level of high maintenance. Also, I wouldn’t date a broke man either but if you’re running into the type of men that can’t afford to tip at a decent restaurant, perhaps that woman isn’t nearly as beautiful as she thinks she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:06 AM
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I recently made a Grindr account of a PPD guy and that was the first time I actually actively had to think about what to message someone and being left on read. OLD apps are easy and effective — I could set up a date with a guy I liked with little effort so I’d say my experience was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:18 AM
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I don’t like the wording of the title. Having an ONS is a choice, nothing “makes” you do it. But I understand what the OP is getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:14 AM
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I think this sub has a lot of women over 30 and for them that statement would be ludicrous. But I am young and somewhat vain so I like good looking things & good looking men on my socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:08 AM
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Damn, excited for you🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:03 AM
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I am 5’9 so no but the vast majority of men are shorter than 5’7 men so I don’t think they’ll struggle with those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:48 PM
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The particular Tiktok wasn’t some truth spilling one. All our boyfriends were 6ft+ and it was just people pairing off with their heights showing so a lot of the comments being about how some guy is Chad and 6’2 and it’s over for them because they’re 5’7 was worrying. At the end of the day, even the 5’7 guys end up finding someone usually so i saw it as unnecessarily doom & gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:44 PM
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I care that young boys are telling each other it’s over because they’re 5’7.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:39 PM
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Women don’t express their shallow interests in mixed groups. I pretend like I am perfectly fine with almost any physical trait as long as the guy is “nice” and sweet when I am around a mixed group. In female spaces, I tend to be more honest. I guess you should look at the data and figure it out more than listening to women because if a woman says something superficial is a deal breaker for her, she’s often called shallow. Source: I have said height & other factors outside a man’s control would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:37 PM
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Cool anecdote but this isn’t true by large or age gap marriages would be the norm. So you’re a statical anomaly and younger women date older men not usually because he’s hotter than her peers but because he has more resources/ maturity etc. OP is generally discussing physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:27 PM
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I made a tiktok a few months ago with some sorority friends that had a lot of random young boys commenting blackpill rhetoric (it was height related and with all our bfs) . I just remembered because I was looking through and actually clicked on the profiles — mostly 14-16yr old boys and some in college. I think it’s probably gonna be the most mainstream pill with Gen Z and it’s really worrying. The amount of times I saw comments about Chads😳
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:13 PM
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What would YOU personally prefer OP asked and I responded, do you have an issue with my response?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:08 PM
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I would prefer a hair transplant but I need it to be done right. I think this is a good one. You’ll get varying responses depending on age. Older women I am assuming would care less and just say shave it off, but I am 20 and I need a guy with hair on my IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:54 AM
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If he wins the ballon d’or, he’ll be GigaChad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:51 AM
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When you’ve never gone outside and interacted with women, you need studies to show you what normal people see everyday😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:43 AM
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Men don’t respect women the way they respect other men. But are there women that actually want that? I don’t really care to be respected by men how they respect their male peers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:40 AM
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Today’s edition of young women prefer men who look young
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:38 AM
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What’s your deal? He’s a man in his 30s that probably wants to date girls in their early 20s. He is an older man especially if you look at the median age gap of couples
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:13 AM
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I am 20, he’s definitely older…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:53 PM
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He's not showing he has money or doing anything exciting with it I would guess. How tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:40 AM
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115k isn't "older rich guy" level imo but I live in big cities. Maybe in a small metro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:39 AM
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Your money doesn't matter if you don't do exciting things with it. As someone who has dated tech guys making a lot of money, their problem is that they don't know how to show it. Most of them naturally lived well below their means and I wouldn't have known how much they had if I hadn't done my research. So if you want your money to factor in, make sure you have signs of wealth. A nice car, a nice house in a good zip code etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:38 AM
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This was a terrible show. Cooper was a fucking catch😒
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:04 AM
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Height is the fastest way to narrow my pool and I am a tall woman (5’9). But in general, I just don’t find average or short men attractive. I have seen a guy that was gorgeous facially with a good body on OLD and the moment I asked his height and he told me something like 5’8, I nexted. Dating for most women I am assuming is not about widening their pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:00 AM
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Yes wow I really put that man through the wringer😭 I think he likes unpredictability too much honestly and he wants to turn a girl that’s not interested in being stable into the sweet agreeable housewife. He’s got the looks and the patience so I hope it works out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:53 AM
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He seems to think he’s essentially her life. She cleaned his apartment the first night she stayed over, she initiates every conversation. It’s a little funny to me because those were all the things he said he wanted from me that I just wouldn’t do. Oh and I guess he thinks she doesn’t have any hobbies & makes his hobbies hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:25 AM
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A discussion about men liking women with BPD had me thinking about a recent call with one of my exes. He’s finally with a sane girl and he thinks she’s “too available” and boring. Men definitely have an affinity for the unpredictable. Our relationship was toxic because of my Eastern European craziness but he was never bored. Who knew the occasional plate throwing and make up sex in the middle of the night on the beach is what men actually want. u/SmurfESmurferson was onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:46 PM
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I mean she’s 36, I know girls in my sorority better looking than her. I think the standard for seriously hot older women is probably set by Irina Shayk instead right now. Anyways, I am not truly optimizing for the highest value guy I can get in all of those categories. And I am obviously not completely against a prenup, I still get to spend his money in a marriage even with one, I’d just prefer to do without. I am 20 so we’ll see🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:44 AM
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I am Eastern European after all😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:27 AM
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I am on the fence on a situation like that. I am going into a high paying field so it’s not like I’ll need his money, I just would like the upgraded lifestyle. I would be okay with that if I actually thought he was as attractive as the other men I could get with those stipulations. As for what I said about dating down, I think face is really important and I don’t see a shortage of men with good teeth, good skin, and a decent body as well as the height in my pool. I guess the idea with that is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 09:25 AM
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LOL I love this OP. You’re absolutely right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:24 AM
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I can find a man attractive that's less attractive than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:38 AM
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The whole point of conventionally attractive is that most people would agree that person is attractive but in general features like the following: tall visible abs/ nice arms clear skin nice head of hair, preferably straight good teeth All of those features and some others make a man attractive to me. In my comment I was just saying I'd be more than happy to date down a little bit physically as long as a man had money/familial wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:33 AM
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I do this. I'd date down a bit in looks as long as he's still conventionally attractive if he has money. My sister did that and she would always say to me “you can marry more in a day than you can make in a lifetime.” That was very true for her I have no idea why this is s discussion post though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:28 AM
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Demeanor is what girl game is essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:08 AM
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A man paid for my lunch today, therefore, men are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:26 AM
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Men don’t make it hard tbh🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:19 AM
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His other options are around his looks, I don’t believe in TRP “game” that somehow gets an average man gorgeous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:16 AM
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I am pretty blackpilled so I don’t believe the crap that an average man can pull 8s because of game. Most of his options will be around his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:15 AM
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It’s all about looks tbh. Everything else comes secondary for men so take care of your looks so that you’re hot enough to have the men you want in your pool. Getting commitment beyond that is about girl game imo and even that isn’t necessary if you’re above him enough looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:02 AM
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Men are wonderful💯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:40 AM
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I’d be perfectly happy with an average penis size and highly above average income in a man. After you buy a few Manolo Blahnik‘s with his income, his dick probably starts to feel bigger anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:34 AM
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Found the real man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:29 AM
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Most women can get upper middle class men that are healthy & happy to date her? Let me tell my poor friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:28 AM
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Yeah this is true. I could care less if he’s ambitious in something that makes pennies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:58 AM
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I literally only care about ambition if that’ll lead him to making money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:58 AM
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Most men that love you don’t want you to wear a ring that doesn’t reflect well on them so it’s a 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:28 AM
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Best post ever, I agree😈
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:11 AM
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Maybe, I am really surprised by the % of men here on this sub that don’t multidate. I am almost certain 90% of my boyfriends multidated and then just stopped when we became exclusive. You’re definitely not an outlier on this sub but maybe in my social group (18-early 20s, sorority/frat members).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:07 AM
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Usually, they’re seeing other people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:03 AM
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Sure, but it wasn’t for lack of commitment. I think it’s natural for both men and women to see other people in the beginning stages, I was multi dating 4 guys for about 3 months earlier in the year. Soft harems seem normal if you’re open to seeing more than one person when you’re single. I’d say most are probably mutually enforced. Avoiding it is useless, I say have your own rotation going and don’t sleep with any of them until you decide which one is boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:36 AM
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I find it fairly easy avoiding the kind of men that would brutally injure me or whatever in DV. But I know as a woman, I could see getting into a heated argument with a female partner and her shoving me or throwing something. Plus, masculine energy is truly hard to replace. That safety you feel in the arms of a man is intoxicating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:54 AM
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I know I am an FDSer and we’re known for complaining about men but I would date a man 100x faster than I would ever consider a woman. I have a multitude of reasons but I appreciate how low maintenance are both emotionally and generally speaking. I know if i am dating a man, he won’t make a big deal out of a forgotten birthday as long as I fuck his brains out and briefly act apologetic, I know he won’t expect an expensive gift because most men I know tend to be less materialistic. Oh and the DV r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:40 AM
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I guess my issue with that is I see FWBs just as a guy you're fucking. Like I don't like sex enough to just seek it out, I need it to be a bit of a seduction. So nice dates, lots of words of affirmation, gift receiving etc all makes me want to sleep with someone, even hot guys need to turn me on using my love languages, but I think getting that from a casual relationship like FWBs is far fetched. I have a good relationship right so just hoping he doesn't talk about moving in together or getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:54 AM
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I'm also not sure why you like dating marriage minded guys if you aren't into committing yourself I don't know where to find the men against commitment tbh and I don't like casual sex so coupling those things together, I just end up dating also interested in a a monogamous relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:44 AM
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Drop it, I'd love to see it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:42 AM
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It’s like once they fall in love they’re ready to get married. I am pretty sure I've been in love with a few of my exes and marriage talk isn't romantic, it's scary. Committing to one person for life sounds dull & unfulfilling, I enjoy dating and the low barrier for exit. You can break up with a boyfriend with a text message. I am this way with every guy, I tend to get into relationships quickly and sometimes even break up with them before we sleep together since I wait (once a guy lasted 2 week…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:36 AM
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I think some people just aren't cut out for LTRs to begin with Most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:29 AM
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Question for the older ladies in LTRs on here: Did your want for new men/branchswinging subside when you met your partner? I have a pretty great boyfriend right now and I don't wanna leave him, but I can never find myself committed enough to a man to not leave if someone better comes along. Kinda feel like I'll mature out of it since I am 20 but would like to hear from others who've gone through it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:12 AM
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Udaan sounds good😍. Thanks! I'll watch it tonight since it's on Netflix
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:11 AM
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Do you really think this guy is being truthful Atlas? I half expected you to call him an attentionwhore for making an entire post trying to use his relationship, which is really uncommon & even TRP would say he's wife is fucking around, as some evidence of a greater issues in the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:08 AM
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This is so weird, why write an entire post and use your life as the main evidence of this? Especially since people don't believe OP because it's not a common arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:06 AM
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Darn it, I am not a fan of action too much unless there are big actors headlining and/or really good soundtrack. Recs with that in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:32 AM
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I am about to watch another Bollywood movie tonight with my bf, any others on the sub watch Bollywood? If so, what are some of your favorites? So far, the movies I’ve liked are: • Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham • No entry • Dhoom (2 was the best because of Hrithik) • Don • Dil To Pagal Hai • 3 Idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:23 AM
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If this was true I wouldn't have an ego. X doubt but for your sake, let's pretend it is. Yep, without make up, I turn into an 800lb tranny🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:55 PM
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Throw a pity party for me too, men in their 30s aren't lookers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:46 PM
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Your flair says you're 35, why such a big age gap? Are you gonna have kids with him? Sorry to intrude. And idk, I am 20 and even the good looking male celebrities in their 30s aren't much when you compare how hot they were in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:14 PM
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All the Wall posts are making me realize someday I'll have to date men in their 30s😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:10 PM
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Even when it's in front of me, I really can't tell, kudos to the women that can. Just don't be small, whether you're hot or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:09 PM
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Just lie about your n count & don't date men this obsessed with it otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:06 PM
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Masculine energy is great when he’s hot too. Are there women that settle on looks to get masculine energy in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:18 PM
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This is what women did in the 1950s. It’s not a new concept and if you don’t fuck any of them, it’s an excellent way of learning your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:16 PM
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It’s even more ridiculous because there aren’t enough FDSers or people who have even read the sidebar (handbook) to debate these posts. It’s like 3 posts a day about TRP with only a handful of real Rpers being on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:13 PM
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I highly endorse a dating rotation. It’s a great way to know what you want and if you can’t get it, it’s better to stay single than settle for someone that’s underachieving in the things that matter for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:10 PM
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Get T supplements and fat men should lose weight first and then get on them. No excuses!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:45 PM
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Deal🤝 no more excuses from either side!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:36 PM
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Huh don't rule it out. My ex was on them after he stopped doing football and I didn't see much of a change in his mood. Only change was his body, definitely recommend it but I know not every woman wants a low body fat percentage guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:29 PM
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No, I have been trying to convince men on the PPD discord to get on them for months with no success. Why be natty when a roided up guy can shit all over the progress you made in 6yrs with half the time? My ex was on roids and I was a big fan. All men should look into them, no excuses for being fat or not having this body RIP Greg Pitt and his wonderful abs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:28 PM
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"ideal male body" is unrealistic to maintain due to too low bodyfat percent. Nothing steroids can't help with. More men should get on them but natty guys are playing games🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:16 PM
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Um why do people date? But sure I’ll bite, I am decent looking, go to a T10 uni, and yes I am poised to enter a high paying field.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:06 PM
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People here are getting too predictable, every man on PPD wants to warn me about what’s going to happen to me at 30…10yrs from now😂 Yes let me start getting scared now!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:50 PM
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He knows my passcode, that should be enough. If he wants to check my messages, he should do it when he has my phone for practical reasons. Not say “now let’s exchange phones so I can snoop” that’s just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:06 AM
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No, I don’t want an equal. I am a 20yr old senior that makes ~30-35k a year. I am pretty entitled when it comes to dating and extremely flaky; so what most people are at 20. If I dated a man like that, I am pretty sure I’d break up with him within a few dates I don’t date guys my age but tech guys (FAANG/Prop shops) in the 22-26 range since I am in a city with quite a few of them so as to avoid someone that’s acting like me financially (frugal & aiming for FIRE) although an unfortunate % of tech…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:02 AM
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I don't think as a woman, I should be the one to educate my sons on women. I remember my father gave my brothers Beta Buxx tier advice and now they're both married to their childhood sweethearts and have them as SAHMs taking care of their kids so I guess it works for some people. Most of the advice I got as a girl wasn't at all like my brothers: my father would warn me boys would say and do anything to get me into bed, my mother and grandmother would tell me FDS-type advice. Play hard to get, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:22 AM
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I don't mind if men lust after me for how I dress. I just don't want them to approach me with that lust unless they're someone on my level. Some weird older guy coming up to me out of lust is when I'd call him creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:16 AM
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I am in a sorority that's unusual tall ( 8 girls 5'7-5'11) and almost all of them wouldn't date shorter guys. If he's the same height, they usually reluctantly date him initially but it's definitely a minus to his appeal. Also you're point on taller women having to be extremely attractive, I kinda agree but don't overestimate how men see attractiveness: if she's a tall girl that's slim and she wears make up/ has good style, it wouldn't be hard for her to go from average to significantly over (5-…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:02 AM
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I am a so called tall woman (5'9) and there aren't issues with me being able to get taller men. Women don't usually face those issues until 5'11ish from what I've seen. Being 5'9 has helped narrow my dating pool to tall men mostly because short guys don't approach thankfully. So maybe we can compare heightism in both genders but for women it wouldn't come into play until they were 5'11 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:53 AM
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Excited to see how men will deflect the consequences of their actions onto women👀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:34 AM
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Yeah people should post themselves in a subreddit filled with incels to prove a point. You're right, I am a 800lb woman in Siberia! Can't find a good man!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:41 AM
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Maybe we just like different looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:36 AM
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Definitely a good example of how women's vary!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:34 AM
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I don't know why you're assuming me actually responding to your post physique comment was to brag or anything. We're strangers, I am not gonna post my pics but that was a picture that showed I am not fat or anything at least 🥂 Thank you though🥺❤️ I appreciate the love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:34 AM
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I described it to someone else but the tldr is basically his face isn't well developed, looks like a nerdy guy in the midst of puberty. Very bad body (from pics I saw he's as scrawny as they come) and really short.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:32 AM
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Look at my r/niceguys post🧠. It gives you a pretty good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:22 AM
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I live in a major city and on my college campus where I am not running into these fat 30yr old men, I consider my peers better looking than him. No guy in any of the frats my sorority hangs with has a face that dweeby and a body that scrawny so yeah he's ugly to me. Totally fine if you think he's not. He's also very short
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:19 AM
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No fucking way😭 he looks like a nerd that never finished puberty. There's no way he's in the top 15% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:12 AM
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You must have a really high standard for ugly. They're all unattractive IMO but power to you for seeing beauty in everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:44 AM
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Fine, I'll bite. Here are a bunch of pics of ugly men 1st one 2nd one 3rd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:41 AM
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Never said I cared about the bio
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:58 AM
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Doubt he could put anything in there that would change him from a No in his pictures to a yes (swipe right). Unless he says he's Bill Gates son or something😭 maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:53 AM
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I don't really care about bios. The bio can deter me, it will rarely get me to match with a man I wouldn't have swiped on based on pictures. I agree that the photos need to improve, a batch of professional pictures do wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:48 AM
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If he lies, he lies. It's not the end of the world either way for me but one would lessen my attraction if I knew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:30 PM
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I am not turned off as long as he was on top
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:21 PM
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Yet again, men on PPD have taken an FDS term and spun it into some version of alpha rich Chad. HVMs in our subreddit are financially secure and generous. That's maybe 65k in Kentucky and 40k in Mississippi; a man doesn't have to be rich to be HV. He also doesn't have to be ideal — just because the ideal man for a woman is some billionaire with a 6 pack doesn't mean you have to be that to be considered to be HV. Secondly, with your description of all men want women to be to be considered dateable…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:12 PM
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Guess I live in a hot city:-) he looks 30+ too which isn't my age range
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:23 PM
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I didn't think much of this when I saw it. I don't think he's particularly attractive or above average. He's solidly average or slightly below facially but he's tall at least. He tried, which is more than most incels can say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:38 PM
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I don't mind how many times a man has been divorced but since I am dating guys in their 20s I'd be more annoyed they got married early enough to even have a divorce under their belt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:37 PM
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How did this get through the filter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:36 PM
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Sure, I am 20 and have had my first fiance. Unfortunately the only obstacle between me marrying an HVM is my inability to commit long term. See you in 2yrs😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:34 PM
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In 4mins you read 100s of posts and even gave me a nice tldr by saying they're over 90% something. I can't debate with such a brilliant person!!!🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:07 PM
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I know you think you got some amazing point across but you really didn't. Learn to search by flair next time Try how to high value or one of the Level up ones. Somehow I see those posts and you don't 😱 Sheesh I never thought I'd have to teach someone how posts are organized on subreddits. Let me know how navigating the search bar goes!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:57 PM
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First time I've seen a non FDSer understand our philosophy so well and what the women there are coming to FDS for. Excellent comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:52 PM
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Nothing on that sub teaches them how to be a woman that a high value man would want Can you read our Handbook and then make this comment? Specifically, after you read our sections regarding beauty/levelling up. P. S try to not comment on things you don't know much about, it's lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:51 PM
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Does FDS, a sub created barely 2yrs ago, have anywhere near the success that TRP, a sub that has been around for 6+yrs, has? Well, let's dive into this for argument's sake. TRP's end goal is to get men laid and participating in casual sex, so a TRP success story is literally a dude posting on the sub saying "hehe got my dick wet after working out (duh) for 6 months and benching 363737382lbs" while an FDS success story is marriage to a high value man. The closest to success stories FDS has right …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:45 PM
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Usually on IG I don't get random offers for sex for money specifically but a lot of guys sometimes Youtubers or small musicians with decent following will like your pics and then ask you out. Most of the time, they'll offer to give you a ride in their expensive car, chopper, or have you experience something unique. It takes pretty bad game to come out of the wood work with "I'll give you X amount of money for sex" to a random girl on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:43 PM
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She was attracted to him physically somewhat but at the end of the day, if he was Johnny Depp the car salesman in Utah, he wouldn't be getting hot young women acting crazy for him. But since this is PPD and all the men swear up and down they're 45 and have 18yr olds breaking down their doors, perhaps I am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:56 PM
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This is exactly how I felt and I was starting to think there was something wrong with me for missing being single while having such a wonderful guy in my life. Appreciate it🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:27 AM
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That's scary tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:37 AM
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Gonna look at the unemployment rate again...these men have too much time on their hands🙄. Sorry that happened to you love💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:13 AM
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If anyone has a cure for commitment issues, I'd honestly put all my Dogecoin into that😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:07 AM
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It does prove men are shallow but we already knew that and women have been told from a young age that men are just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:31 PM
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I always wanted someone I can grow with, found that person, and continue to grow with her. Honestly, it makes me happy to know that our relationship is built on mutual admiration for the content of each others' character above all else. Sounds like something that works for you but I wouldn't impose your relationship dynamics on others. If you're disgusted by people wanting to get the "best" they can absolutely get, then so be it but acting as though FDSers or anyone wanting that is "trashy" come…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:16 AM
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Chill, it's not that deep, even I don't mind of the Redpill twerps make a few more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:47 AM
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I prefer the crown emoji👑
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:44 AM
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Thanks for a non answer👋
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:42 AM
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Men's value increases as they age I see someone has drank the Red Pill kool aid on 40+ yr old men getting hot 18yr old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:39 AM
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Why are PPD men obsessed with unconditional love? Are you really gonna stick by the girl that put up with your low value tendencies when you could upgrade to hotter girl when you've levelled up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:26 AM
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Prop shops and unicorn startups are the best for salary, my guy I am seeing now is at one and does well for himself. By no means are the % of men making that money high but I seem to find them with not a lot of issue since I am in a nice location and the app I use (Luxy) caters to men with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:42 AM
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6'3 Intellectually Curious Looks like Shawn Mendes but Asian/Indian version please 22-27 10-12% body fat with visible abs Head full of hair Went to a Top 20 university or a prestigious one that's top tier for his profession High income (depending on age, I live in a tech city so not hard to find) 100k isn't what I would consider high, 200k for a 22-23 yr old new grad is manageable. Enjoys dance/will let me dance for him Avid reader Sexually open and wouldn't mind an open marriage down the line s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:44 AM
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Funnily enough, my father and older brother have both told my sister (28) that when she was dating around. She'd meet these successful men 35+ and they all had some sort of baggage: some were visible, others more emotional/psychological.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:38 AM
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A lot of those men aren't even selfless. It's an ego thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:05 PM
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I've been trying to do god's work in DMing some of these poor girls that post in predominantly male subs like the main dating one to remind them doing the man's job isn't gonna work. There was one girl in particular that after staying with a man until 1:30AM wanted to be the first to text him for a follow-up date. Scrotes were telling her "go for it!" But I messaged her and helped her come to the conclusion that if a man can't do the bare minimum, she shouldn't accept him in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:00 PM
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Reread my original comment thread and notice I recognized that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:55 PM
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Ah yeah a 20yr old that's 127lbs and 5'9 doesn't have options🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:59 AM
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Top 20% of men aren't even dateable. The top 2% of men are so aim for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:58 AM
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As a 20yr old that gets approached by crusty scrotes well into their 30s, some have admitted it's because it's much easier to impress younger women. They assume because I am in college, I am probably super low maintenance and just happy with a man that has a full-time job. Little do they know🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:17 PM
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Had the exact same scenario. Guy asked me to coffee and said he'd take me to dinner if we hit it off. I said no initially but then accepted. I picked up my copy of The Rules from under my bed and reread some chapters. Right before bed, I sent him "Hey, hopefully you didn't pencil me in yet. I am not gonna be able to grab coffee with you, good luck!" Blocked Went on a fabulous dinner date with a cute guy last night. Keep enforcing your boundaries love💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:15 PM
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We've got some ladies here who post and this applies to. Don't be hard on yourself but understand that FDS becomes easier as you implement the good habits. Establish boundaries and stick to them with 5 men and then 10 and then 20 and it becomes a part of you. Set goals and hit them; it's okay if you haven't finished the marathon yet, just keep at it. Sending the best to all of you ladies💞 keep working at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:12 PM
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... April Fool's Joke
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:05 PM
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Classic DangZagnut
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:04 PM
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This subreddit was built on the back of misogyny... Happy April Fool's 😉 I look forward to increasing misandry to balance it out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:01 PM
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.... I am not discussing women with men. Single women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:17 AM
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You think TRP/MGTOW should allow men that have no interest to consider their philosophy or follow it? That's how I view FDS not allowing women with no interest in our philosophy We have seen the comments these women leave; they tend to say something along the lines of "I did x thing against FDS and still got married!" Good for her but we don't want to give that experience a platform to potentially harmfully infiltrate other women's lives. Because my neighbor got her husband by being his mistress…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:02 PM
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Yikes, couldn't be me. But nice revenge fantasy, I'll let you know if that happens to me:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:48 PM
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Am I the only that thinks OLD is excellent? Removing the element of interacting with unwanted men won me over. You can get 1000 likes and only interact with top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:04 PM
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Women being gatekeepers of sex does Jack shit for them wanting to marry an HVM. Even TRP recognizes men are the gatekeepers of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 01:26 PM
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"Pickme" is neither a term coined by FDS nor exclusively used by FDS. It's a term that has penetrated mainstream media especially social media and has been present for at least a decade. FDSers call out pickmes yes just as NLOGs are called out. Pickme/ NLOG are tropes that are also present in movies/television shows. LVM is a term coined specifically to classify the value that man holds in FDSers eyes which I don't see much of an issue in using. Just as TRP used AF or BB to define a man's role/ …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 01:16 PM
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I just wanna say in this thread for a PPD man, I find your take incredibly refreshing and I agree with it entirely. Especially with regards to the misandry, I don't endorse it but with a lot of the women there is trauma bonding that occurs which muddies what is acceptable language to discuss their exes in. Overall, thought I'd tell you it shows you're well read on FDS even if you're not allowed to comment in our sub; I appreciate the open-minded nature of your exploration of our subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 01:04 PM
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No, it's the field I'll most likely get into. Have a summer analyst position with one big firm this summer. I don't really understand what you mean by that but okay? You seem really hung up on who approaches who, when most people would agree men do the approaching although women give men cues to approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:47 PM
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Your girlfriends are outliers. Most women don't approach men, I don't know what planet you're on that that's a regular occurrence. Anyways, have fun with all these women approaching you! No I don't have a child (I am 20) but if I wanted to and didn't want a man to deal with, I'd have one and get someone to watch them while I am at work. I am not opposed to hiring a nanny or having family take care of my kid. If you can't support 2-3 people on a 200k+ income, you're bad with money Money fixes mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:43 PM
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You're overcomplicating a comment I made. I am a single woman that'll enter investment banking at a top 3 bank....someone like me will absolutely outearn the average married couple. I am not suggesting ALL women do this. I am suggesting women become more strategic in their financial goals including what industries they enter to afford the luxury of being able to have a family without a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:32 PM
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What the hell are you on about??? Men always approach me and the ones I am interested in I signal to and they approach. Most women do not approach men. Lol I've had to deal with nice guys and I can assure you not but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:29 PM
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Women are on pace to outearn men. I am not suggesting this for all women but the ones that can't find a relationship they'll be happy in should look towards putting themselves in the financial situation to get those things. I know I will be able to if I wish to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:21 PM
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Girl game is passive relative to men's game which is active. Yes, a woman should show she's interested in a man but do that without approaching him. First these men don't exist and now they exist but are male pickmes? I guess you can never make everyone happy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 12:20 PM
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Such a thorough response wow
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:00 AM
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High income single parent households are much better than households where people are miserable with their partner and the child is exposed to that dynamic. Women shouldn't settle because of a decreasing fertility. Settling for some man you'll divorce 10yrs later or have to fuck in the dark is much worse than raising a child in a high income household where you're happy and can afford help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:56 AM
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Marriage rates are dropping because of both genders not just one. I am excited to see women not settle because they want kids. Focus on career and get a sperm donor; no more settling because of biological clock. The future is bright🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:52 AM
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TRP has more success stories FDS assumes that most women want marriage with an HVM. Now you tell me, is marriage with a high value men easier to get than sleeping with women? I've seen the TRP field reports; the FDS field reports are rarer simply because of the nature of our sub. When I post about an HVM boyfriend, I'd get told "hold your horses, make sure you vet him thoroughly before you claim he's HVM." While in TRP, a guy says he got laid and that's the end of it. Round of applause for him &…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:00 AM
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People say TRP is also common sense yet it has apparently changed the lives of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:33 AM
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Oh wow you know how our members end up when our sub has barely been around for 2yrs🥰 Fascinating!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:08 AM
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Big Yikes if you think choosing to be single over being with someone you're not crazy about is "empty"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:07 AM
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Chasing? No. Anyways, if FDS women can't get the men they want, we advise them to live their lives and be happy communing with themselves. We believe being single at any age is 100x better than being in a relationship with an LVM. If an FDSer wants the top 10% of men and can't find them in her dating pool even after levelling up, she should not settle and live her life as is. It's 2021, women don't need men for even a quarter of the things we used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:39 AM
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FDS is to serve the female imperative first and foremost. We don't care if that means 90% of the male population is ineligible; personally, I prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:30 AM
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Ah saying someone trying to critique a dating strategy they haven't read (because what he's saying is easily refuted by our sidebar) is cult speak? It's like someone discussing TRP while showing no knowledge of the self improvement TRP preaches and criticizing it for not having any.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:26 AM
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Excited to hear what the ladies think of Bridgerton. I wasn't a fan because of how they portrayed Eloise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:17 AM
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PPD men constantly claim we want spineless men and no man will want an FDSer that's actually High Value. Engaging with you on something that I know you're not willing to concede on is a waste of time. You can try it with someone else though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:14 AM
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If you say so, it must be true:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:39 AM
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Honey, I knew this guy was a fraud when he was lecturing to women to split the bill with men. Hopefully more women realize taking dating advice from men, especially LVM ones that have a financial incentive to feed us their bs, is never a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:23 AM
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Absolutely👑
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:18 AM
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I am not sure you're well read in FDS if you think we don't give advice for preselection. Women shouldn't approach men and actively pursue; we advise women to be the type of woman that the men they desire will approach. That includes being your best inside and out; holding standards that discourage LVMs, and ultimately understanding that being single is better than being in a relationship with an LVM. We have sections in our Handbook dedicated to levelling up and countless threads discussing whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:16 AM
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As an EE woman, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:55 AM
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Even that wouldn't be the best strategy. I'd say he attempts to fib about moving there, and doesn't say he's from a Western nation. I am EE and we're well aware of foreign men that come for the women and make it very clear they're foreigners. The women latch onto them and see them as a way out & a wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:53 AM
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As someone from an Eastern European country, I have to say Western men romanticize foreign women from traditional cultures. Most Western don't have the masculinity nor the money to keep those women happy. So if men in PPD complain about being a Beta Buxx while in progressive western nations, imagine how much more their money will define them in cultures where the women believe the man should be the breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:51 AM
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Scrotes try to tell me even at 20 I should worry about "dying alone" and being a single at 35. The male revenge fantasy has become so ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:28 PM
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Of course he has to be attractive, I can't publicly claim an ugly man🤐. My list is only as reasonable as my dating pool and right now it's looking very reasonable. If yours is the same, enjoy😇
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:15 AM
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Same can be said of wanting wealthy attractive men:-)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:09 AM
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Nothing wrong with wanting men with money🙂 they want pretty women. I'd never be proud of having low expectations, I am much happier to embrace my high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:08 AM
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Tinder is overall just a sucky app. Everyone is flaky, male or female. I had tinder for 1.5yrs and met up with 6 men. Other apps are much better; I've used Luxy and have met up with almost every man I matched with on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:54 AM
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You're assuming a lot. A man may wait for 3 months to fuck one woman but he's not waiting on sex in general. I am seeing multiple men at once and not ready for LTR so I am not fucking them; they're attractive men with options. I am sure they're getting sex from someone, it just isn't from me because I am not ready. While buying the chick gifts and paying for expensive dates HVM ≠ a guy that randomly splurges just because he can. That can be an HVM but financially stability does not equal consume…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:22 AM
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you label sexually undesirable but financially desireable men as HVM Can I get links to where we do this? If you're RP, of course you will disagree with our characterization of HVM and think they're sexually undesirable. But most HVMs are what would socially be dubbed as "catches" and if you're not physically attracted, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:31 PM
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That's where the definition of HVM is blurred. Men think a desireable men due to status or looks is HVM while our subreddit labels plenty of desireable men as LVMs because of their conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:24 PM
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You seriously need to read. I said I wouldn't respect him because I'll believe I am above him. In a relationship, a man has to be superior to me on paper at least for me to actually feel like he's worth my time. I don't care if it's rational, I just know it stops me from dating broke men and low status men; a demographic of men I have no interest in and that don't deserve me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:16 PM
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Why won't I date down in status??? I already told you If I date a plumber while being an Investment banker when I graduate, I won't respect him in our relationship. I'll respect him as a human being but I'll believe I am better than him and start wondering why I gave him a chance I don't really need others to shape my worldview; I am vehemently against dating someone lesser than me on paper and that'll never change
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:10 PM
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Respect in a relationship no. Just like when I start my career I wouldn't date down in income, I don't plan on dating down in status either. I'd rather be single than do that ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:06 PM
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It's funny how true this is. Most of the women I know with HVM husbands all met them while they were minding their own business and not putting their lives on hold husband hunting💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:04 PM
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I plan on going into a high status field and wouldn't respect a man who wasn't in one for an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:59 PM
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very wealthy and successful men Narcissistic What the hell makes you think this guy is an HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:57 PM
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What men here claim as hypocrisy in the SMP don't equate it. If a woman is gorgeous and she only wants wealthy men, she's not a hypocrite for being a 10/10 girl with a mediocre salary. Why? Because female attractiveness is often exchanged for male status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:24 PM
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Lol I am seeing HVMs right now so guess not😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:26 PM
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Issue with the status of blue collar work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:17 PM
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Like attracts like so stop being fat and maybe fat women won't be all over you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:16 PM
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There is but not by much. They're all wonderful and I am not sure I wanna give up multi-dating yet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:15 PM
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I don't date blue collar men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:40 PM
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It's cool if men see women just as sex dolls....we can see men just as functional wallets😊🥰 I already do, just wish more women would too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:19 PM
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Mostly invest in my Roth IRA, after maxing it out I throw my hat into the stock market. Biggest holdings are in gas/energy right now. I invest with my future goals in mind and my ambition to be independently well off and I take advantage of the fact that I am young and have very little expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:57 PM
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Honey, I said men should do better. Top 10% of men making only 150k/yr is low for the logical, brilliant, and innovative gender you all claim to be. I didn't advise any particular career or job. Heck, if some plumber can make 400k, hats off to him. I am not gonna date him but congrats to him👏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:53 PM
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There are HVM men who women wouldn't date for multitude of reasons. I wouldn't date a man from a low socioeconomic background but that doesn't mean all men from low socioeconomic backgrounds can't be HVMs I wouldn't date a man without hair, that doesn't mean bald men can't be HVMS. I wouldn't date a man below 6ft, that doesn't mean short men can't be HVMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:50 PM
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I invest most of it since I've got people to cover my expenses 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:47 PM
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You obviously don't live in a major HCOL city so I'll pass on your first question. I am a student but I make 35k/yr from working minimally. My income doesn't matter, I still make sure my rotation of men are well to do college graduates. As PPD men like to brag: "Men don't care about women's income or career." Thankfully, I care about men's income and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:43 PM
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What am I missing You are missing the ability to go outside and see that a significant portion of men are undateable LVMs (I predict 98%). What can men do to improve? Let's dive into it: stop committing the majority of violent crime against women work on fixing their mental health issues stop using sex and women as a shield from their traumatic experiences Understand that being a grown man with no furniture not because you wanna participate in Minimalism (you buy videogames constantly and indulg…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:32 PM
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Lol "you both enjoy the companionship and sex." Honey if companionship was the end goal, I'd get a dog not a sorry replacement for one (men). Also, women aren't even guaranteed an orgasm 50+% of the time. Fucking a man is becoming less and less worth it, as many Redpillers say "the juice isn't worth the squeeze." Yes, women can be manipulated into sex. You're an adult with a matured bain (I hope), don't play coy and act like men haven't been deceiving women into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:14 PM
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Don't forget in age gap relationships 18yr old girls are mature young woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:11 PM
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Men really do see women just as sex dolls but get mad when we see them as half functioning wallets🙄 a lot of them can't buy a bag of potatoes but want to stick their dick in a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:07 PM
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Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:58 PM
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I am multi-dating currently, I have a rotation of 4 men I am vetting for a relationship. I don't consider the men in my IG DMs or all my other matches "options" they're just a face on a screen until they act on that potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:22 AM
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LVM men are the ones that like Pickmes, not self respecting HVMs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:10 AM
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Reddit scrotes: FDS women have such high standards! Us asking for basic etiquette and thoughtfulness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:29 AM
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Absolutely 😊 I am waiting on him to do some more things before I accept his offer for commitment and I am really enjoying dating. Kinda annoyed it took him this long to buy flowers xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:30 PM
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It's status digging and gold digging. I had friends that had a crush on the professors because of their position and the taboo nature of it. I've seen too many good looking 40 yr old losers having girls fawn over them I'll take things that never happened for 5k please! Unless you're in some wonderland where men over 40 with their wrinkles and thin hair are the best looking bachelors on the market, that isn't true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:10 PM
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Reddit scrotes really had to act like women aren't getting hit on daily even after 30 to make themselves feel better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:50 AM
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His attitude is ugly don't waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:51 AM
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As a woman, I've realized this statement only holds true when you're an attractive woman. I'd like to think I am decent looking and the number of men that stopped for me at the side of the road WHILE I was changing my tire a few weeks ago was astonishing. I was in a foreign country once (Italy) and I forgot my wallet in my hotel room and realized when the check came. I asked the waiter for some sort of collateral but he was speaking so loudly and everyone heard, two young men split my tab and pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 12:00 AM
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