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REMINDER 👑Madssmkay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:21 PM
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DISCUSSIONMadssmkay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:15 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Ew she’s losing in life. Isn’t that enough for you🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:26 AM
2

I don’t believe every woman on Reddit has had a “narc” ex🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:16 AM
5

On my old account I was on the FDS discord and they weren’t ugly. Like everyone could use a glow up but a lot of average girls that were skinny-fat. So I am not even sure most of the girls are stuck with super weird men that literally have nothing going for them, but it could also be the only people that posted were the ones that weren’t chubby/ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:15 AM
3

Where did they approach you..for research purposes✍️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:09 AM
2

Bestie we need to get more bad exes to fit in. I also don’t understand where you find a man like that..local psych ward??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:02 AM
2

I don’t know where they’re finding these men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:59 AM
3

Yepp I don’t have enough abusive ex stories👩‍🦯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:55 AM
4

No but they’re too traumatized for me. I literally have no bad dating experiences that keep me up at night but an innocent discussion post led to this wild comment. Why does everyone have such terrible exes on there wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:53 AM
3

Yeah I am done with FDS🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:50 AM
1

Jesus you grew up too fast. Let me enjoy my toxic phase at 20 Weird you had yours so early
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:02 PM
1

BPD would be more inherent, I just do it on purpose. I prefer the occasional drama🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:00 PM
1

Will do when I am 24-25🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:54 PM
1

If you’re not toxic when you’re young, what are you suppose to be😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:50 PM
2

I am a little crazy…err passionate but guys seem to not have an issue with it and some even wanna get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:22 PM
4

One of my exes that was my high school sweetheart used to think I was crazy for throwing plates/shoes & threatening to jump off the balcony for dumb reasons but now that he’s in a healthy relationship he’s bored. AMALT
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:55 PM
3

🥺 this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:54 PM
3

I have seen some users utilize NVX to mean just that already because they take away from their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:51 PM
4

Oh okay. Good for her leaving him and starting the gym 5x a week now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:29 PM
3

I hope you appreciate our move away from calling men low value because some have no value 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:26 PM
5

No value ex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:24 PM
3

I am kinda confused who is BB here. Her NVX?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:21 PM
25

They both dated other people and look much better in the 8yrs later pic anyways. Most likely just were both single at the same time and finally decided to go beyond friends. But obviously men on Twitter will want to focus on what she was doing in the past 7yrs…assuming he wasn’t also fucking around lol. That guy doesn’t look like he had to wait around for crumbs from her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:31 PM
1

Women can’t get themselves off by using only their hands as quickly as men can or maybe I am just terrible. As for what do women need men for, most of the things you named they don’t need men for but I figure most would prefer men take care of it. Personally, I like men for safety, emotional stability, and me not having to be the decision maker👩‍🦯 Masculine energy that reassures you to take a backseat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:14 PM
1

No, I was dating the most towards the latter end of the pandemic and men were the same as they have always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:05 PM
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Of course it’s self interest. They don’t wanna take on the responsibility of a child when they’re not ready for 18+yrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:03 PM
1

Men have their hands. What do they need a sex toy for🤨 Edit: some of you are gay for downvoting this🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:15 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:00 PM
1

Yeah if I found out my boyfriend had a flesh flight before I met him, I’d dump him probably. It would mess with my image of him as a man that can get laid whenever he wants too much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:00 PM
2

Is the “inconvenienced millionaire” comment a reference to how conservatives consistently vote against policies that statistically benefit them the most? How people in Mississippi hate ACA yet are one of the states that need those benefits the most…how conservatives keep trying to cut capital gains tax even though the vast majority of benefactors would be the rich? I feel like a lot believe they’re all temporarily embarrassed millionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:29 AM
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A man in his 40s on Instagram is a red flag to me much less following random women he’ll never meet. Move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:11 AM
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You’re 6’2 standing on your personality🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:45 AM
2

Is it true back in the day people shared a phone line and could eavesdrop? It was the plot of this Rock Hudson and Doris Day movie. Always wondered how much truth there was in it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:25 AM
2

I deserve it for calling at such odd hours of the morning consistently for months but I didn’t think boomers knew how to block
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:02 AM
2

By Chad if you mean my father sure😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:50 AM
1

Yep I am blocked. Thanks for the method🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:50 AM
2

Dang😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:44 AM
2

They have been telling me they’re gonna block me for months but they didn’t know how to💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:41 AM
2

I’ve called at different times today and it goes straight to voicemail so maybe blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:37 AM
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How do you know if someone blocked you or if their phone is just turned off for sure🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:32 AM
1

Oh goodness is this really the worst you’ve done? I mean if this girl is gonna fuck you and fell for these lies, she’ll get burned and hopefully learn. It’s not good to lie but I also don’t think these lies are the ones I’d deem you a terrible person for. You’re being selfish, manipulative, and inconsiderate that’s all. Go get laid though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:06 PM
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What fucked up things are you even doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:53 PM
1

Well, the question is, does he give you husband privileges? I don’t believe women should invest before the man does, let him set the tone for how he should be treated in the relationship. If you’re doing wife things at gf price, why haven’t you been upgraded to wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:38 PM
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We’re fun🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:36 PM
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a height requirement as long as she can get those men for LTRs but I advise against dating someone that tall. I once dated a guy that was 6’6 and he was too tall for me even though I am 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:35 PM
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There is a rule against posting for advice..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:28 PM
2

Cool this isn’t the subreddit to get advice from either so might wanna post on r/dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:26 PM
1

What’s the point of being with an immature hot girl if you can’t fuck her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:24 PM
3

@ me when you bring her, I’ll introduce her to some lovely ppd related subs😉
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:11 PM
2

Just that I didn’t think most people would go through the rollercoaster she went through dating unless they had a bad picker (probably in her case) and had no idea about their SMV, the latter which she admitted. I also don’t think it takes 15yrs to simply understand: your standards are only as reasonable as your pool of LTR potentials as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:19 AM
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What the actual hell did I just read…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:43 AM
1

This is our first fight..I think you’re mixing me up with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:31 AM
4

I am a little caught off guard dating is this grounding for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:30 AM
2

Lol look at the replies to my comment..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:01 AM
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I am always surprised by PPD ratings for men but then again, it’s the place I once heard multiple people call Adam Driver a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:48 PM
1

Goddamn you’re good, thanks 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:29 PM
2

I had a couple of good points but overall I was petty & over dramatic in my execution. You know the whole it’s not what you say that matters but how you say it..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:35 PM
2

Yeah I am gonna have to figure out a way to apologize for being petty all the while helping him see the few valid grievances I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:12 PM
1

No wonder I like you🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:10 PM
3

This is actually what I was thinking of doing if he doesn’t reach out tonight. A few tears and a “damn I was crazy last night I appreciate you being the bigger person”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:08 PM
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I cunted out a little too much so I doubt I’ll get anything resembling an apology and idc about winning I just want to forget we even fought and go back to normal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:48 PM
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See I didn’t know I was being petty at the time but upon 12hrs of reflection and realizing I was a little crazy, I see it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:35 PM
1

I had a petty fight with my boyfriend that I am pretty sure I am at fault for but I am waiting for a formal apology like some saint🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:19 PM
4

Did he tell you why he picked purple? As in, what aspects of Red he identifies enough with to not say he’s straight up bluepilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:40 PM
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I think she’s got a niche cute face but nothing that would make her standout in a room. But I am crap at rating women so take it with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:29 PM
2

Phew I know I am straight because I can’t assess women’s body types as attractive unless their faces are too😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:09 PM
2

Too ugly for that😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:05 PM
2

How long have you been together? The biggest tell for me has been what kind of advice he gives to other men/ responses to general questions about dating. Report back😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:43 PM
2

I think it’s beneficial for men to not have to deal with the women that would literally filter them out based on height only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:15 PM
5

Hinge has the height filter feature too. I don’t think they’ll release it but it’s a good feature since you’ll have to deal with people you’re not interested in less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:09 PM
3

lol so he’d be the kind to shit on TRP for having a bunch of guys that need the sub to succeed but he’d have some of their principles internalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:08 PM
15

Is the victim complex this bad wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:06 PM
2

So probably knows RP naturally but doesn’t really need to apply it kinda guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:04 PM
3

Why does she shit talk women to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:03 PM
4

Q4PPDers in a relationship: If you had to guess, which pill does your partner most closely align with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:43 PM
2

So the guys are trying to date out of their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:36 PM
2

I think good money is relative to age too in general. I make good money for my age but not good money for people older than me for instance. Maybe she’s first year and has some side hustle that pays well but yeah law school is time consuming so don’t know how she makes it work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:32 PM
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I mean most men aren’t tall and most women don’t end up with tall men. So there is hope for short guys for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:29 PM
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I am tired of fat people ngl. No matter what people say in the comments, that woman KNOWS she’s fat and she has chosen to not act on it. The weight says enough about her as a person but the comments are needlessly kind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:12 PM
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Wasn’t he the one calling her his queen?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:13 AM
3

Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:07 AM
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You ignored the part where I said I buy him shit too. I don’t see anything wrong with being a gold digger but at least call me one when I am acting as one. Not when I am in a relationship where I buy my guy Creed Aventus🤡 But yeah no totally I buy him a Kit Kat a day /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:39 AM
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I haven’t used my iPhone for saving voice memos but one trick as a last resort might be screen recording, it usually automatically picks up the sound too. So whenever you play it, if you screen record, you’ll get the audio playing along with the open screen of your messages. Hope it works out❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:49 AM
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What platform is it on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:43 AM
3

What’s the point? You’ve made up your mind and you don’t care what I say. I am not that bothered by it so I’ll let you assume whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:19 AM
3

Wish I was dating a man that ate candy😩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:40 AM
3

Yep I am using him for his money so much so I let him decide if he wants to buy me something and I buy him shit too /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:22 AM
2

We’re on ppd so yeah we’re gonna overanalyze but I honestly don’t think most guys think “oh this girl is being sweet and appreciative, must be playing me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:50 PM
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I don’t like asking for things so gotta wait til he offers or do it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:05 PM
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Lol he is now, he just didn’t know I needed a new one. So I went over to his place and complained a little about it when I was using my laptop, he offered, I said no it’s too expensive. Let him convince me & we’re going to the Microsoft store tomorrow. Funny you remembered that😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:57 PM
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That’s being mercenary and it’s not a good idea when you don’t have the ring. If you want an LTR with him and want him to provide, you have to play modest. So no, don’t order the most expensive thing on the menu on the first date wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:52 PM
3

Precisely👌🏼there’s a reason dogs always find their way home & husbands don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:48 PM
3

She told him in the beginning of their relationship so of course he remembered it enough to post it. It left a bad taste in his mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:46 PM
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This is true tbh. I guess mothers nowadays aren’t teaching it the way they used to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:45 PM
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I just don’t think the way she communicates her wants/needs is gonna lead to a healthy relationship. He posted about it so I guess it didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:42 PM
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Maybe but I also think a lot of women think being upfront is somehow a desired trait in situations like this. No man wants to feel bossed around or told what to do It’s better to lead him where you went through rewarding desired behavior. He’ll reach the destination all on his own and think he’s in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:38 PM
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What’s wrong with it is that it’s fucking dumb to tell a man you’ve started dating you expect him to pay for everything because he makes 2x your income. It’s a terrible way of ensuring he happily embraces provision in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:33 PM
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It’s not a good long term strategy. I do believe most men if they have the means to, they want to provide for a girl they care about. It’s making him feel good about it that’s the trick. I guess some women think they’re being upfront by telling a man “I expect you to pay for everything since you make 2x my income” but it doesn’t leave the man with a good feeling about providing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:32 PM
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It was removed but the title was “girlfriend holding me to higher standard than ex” and in the body the guy talked about her EXPLICITLY saying early on when they were dating she expected him to pay for everything because he makes 2x her income. I believe most men naturally want to provide for women they care about so usually when they do, you have to make them feel very good about it. If he associates paying on dates with how you told him you expect him to, then he doesn’t feel like he’s doing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:30 PM
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I don’t even think she’s wrong, I think it’s wild to tell a man you expect him to provide so early on dating and then talking about how easily you would have let your broke ex get you pregnant. There’s an art that I feel like our mothers / grandmothers knew to make men feel good providing. And it sure as hell wasn’t “you’re gonna provide because you make 2x my income.” It was rewarding providership when it occurred. Being sweet, grateful, and making him feel good about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:24 PM
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I didn’t say anything about FDS. This girl wasn’t an FDSer but even if she was, that’s trash girl game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:05 PM
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We need to start teaching girl game. The post about some girl telling a guy he needs to provide for her because he makes 2x her income has shown me we’re in a crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:54 PM
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You’re an HVM now for not overspending🤝 good call.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:59 PM
5

Do you finally have a car👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:34 PM
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Not something to be had with a 100 people that’s for sure..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:18 PM
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If all else is equal, I’d prefer the second guy. I am young enough that a guy not having had relationship experience isn’t some sort of glaring red flag. 100 ONS is a huge turn off. He fucked a 100 women and just walked away🥴 he most likely doesn’t view sex the way I do then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:09 PM
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She relates to the plight of most divorced men but she’s misandrist?? Lol She’s rich and got divorce raped and is now paying CS to a man and she thinks it’s not being used to actually care for her child. Of course she’s shit talking her ex for that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:42 AM
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If you’re Gen Z and saying you’ll check out of society, I’d have more hope you’d age out of it. Anyways you don’t have to share, I am 20 fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:06 AM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:01 AM
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I guess it all depends on what you consider contribution. You need a job to pay your bills so you are contributing financially but what makes you think your friends/family don’t care about you? Random people in society don’t care because they don’t know you. But the people close to you probably do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:37 AM
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You need to pull the trigger soon and ask her out. Don’t give a girl you’re not dating / fucking this much thought or attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:58 AM
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Yes ppd men do seem to acknowledge that on paper only top % of men are desired by women. But my confusion lies in why they then think when FDS women list out their standards online, they’re some sort of outliers that are delusional when their standards fit 80/20. For what it’s worth, I don’t believe 80/20 is how women select for men IRL but it is how they select for men on OLD/ and most likely if you asked them to list their standards. The reason why you also see a lot of their “LVM” exes also b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:35 AM
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Shoot your shot always. Don’t simp, simping is best when it’s mutual and the girl is simping too. If she rejects you, her loss 💯 good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:24 AM
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I am fine with the hate but calling FDS evil is a tad far. He’s giving us way more credit than we deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:23 AM
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Well I don’t actually agree “non hot man” = LV on FDS. Men lurk on FDS and all they see is women discussing their ideals. So I am shocked most men on ppd think it’s wild or even rare for women to on paper, only desire top % of men facially as well status wise. And to answer your question, I think the biggest disconnect FDS has with the SMP is underestimating how important looks are in the SMP for women. Our handbook does discuss how to “level up” your appearance but we don’t discuss it enough. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:17 AM
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We don’t discuss LV women that much because it’s implied certain behaviors are LV and if you possess them, you have to “level up” so to speak. There are a lot of stories of women who were LV because of doormat-like behavior (lack of self advocacy), were gullible, weren’t focused on their own well being/health. One big archetype is the “NLOG” ones that used to say “hehe I don’t wear make up like all the other girls” and then they leveled up & learned make-up/ feminine interests are good to have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:56 AM
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Is she hot at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:53 AM
0

What has FDS done to you to be so evil lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:45 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:43 AM
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LV women gotta be called out too😤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:38 AM
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God damn it now I feel misogynistic. I hope he uses his GI Bill when he gets out to get through undergrad and attempts med school. I honestly think he should abandon the kid and just pay CS (although I know it’s gonna be hard financially). He has no obligation to be a father to a child he was deceived into having & the little girl doesn’t need to sense her father doesn’t even like her. What a fucking bitch🥴 wish him the best Edit: ew why is this chick making it about herself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:23 AM
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So I guess my follow up question is would telling your attire is too revealing and asking you to wear something else part of “some” of the things they can have veto power over?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:15 AM
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So why is it so controversial to give your partner veto powers over what you’re wearing🤔 and I guess for people that believe that: why would you wear something willfully you know your partner would be uncomfortable with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:07 AM
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Yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:03 PM
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Q4TRP men: is sex really worth all of that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:07 PM
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This is like when men change their gender to female to see their competition. Distasteful, he’s obviously insecure. 5’8 is short to me but I am tall so w/e
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:40 PM
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So a short guy decided to lie a lot about his height and he’s surprised people think he’s shitty for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:17 PM
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Every self proclaimed bi girl I know dates men and maybe has drunkenly kissed a girl once. It’s more of a social trend than fact — more people claiming to be LGBTQ+ because of “straights are boring/bad” idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:06 AM
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Are you okay with him watching it while you’re right next to him sleeping/in bed reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:04 AM
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As she should😻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:35 AM
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Nooo she sounds fun. I’d totally party with her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:12 AM
1

What does this have to do with a debate subreddit..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:21 PM
1

Wholeheartedly agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:21 PM
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Yeah a man isn’t ready at 27 so a woman should waste more fertile years on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:21 PM
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Yep, his advice isn’t usually this Team Man but I think he related to it. “You know he loves you” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:18 PM
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Yeah same, I completely understand men have a financial clock and that inserts itself prior to proposal. But by the time they propose and the wedding is so close…it’s rarely financial. It’s almost always commitment issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:16 PM
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I get the financial clock analogy but a man usually puts of PROPOSING to get that in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:01 PM
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You’re very talented for turning the victim into the offender
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:00 PM
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What would you say to her instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:52 PM
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PPD men, watch this 4min video and let me know if you agree with the advice he gives that girl. Let’s see how many of you know good or bad relationship advice for women🥴 PPD women can probably spot the difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:38 PM
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And this is why you vet a man’s family too☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:27 PM
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Maybe shedding a few tears during a movie is understandable. Crying over financial issues instead of fixing them…? Tears of joy are obviously different altogether. It’s extremely weird to cry over a song as a man wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:24 PM
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Absolutely, even if I was bisexual I’d probably prefer men because of their emotional stability
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:18 PM
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Almost everything outside of death/health decline of family or close friend is a trivial matter for a man to cry over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:17 PM
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This is fair, I can see how men might be getting confused with that phrase without knowing the stipulations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:17 PM
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To piggyback off of u/angels-fan, why do men on this subreddit want to be able to cry for trivial reasons without judgement from their partners🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:10 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:54 PM
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I don’t think it’s an intentional lie. I say it’s sexy because it is in very rare moments. I just don’t elaborate on that but u/angels-fan pretty much categorized one of the few times I am okay with my partner crying. I’d feel like he was weird if he cried over the stuff I cry over. Frustrating day at work for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:49 PM
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This is unironically what I say and how I feel. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:41 PM
1

Really😂 you’re most loyal to a porn site
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:39 AM
1

You drink tap water?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:23 AM
2

Best thing about them is Dasani
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:47 AM
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Do you only have their phone or have the watch/earbuds too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:30 AM
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What brand/company are you the most loyal to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:21 AM
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She does something in moments in their relationship that has him wondering her sexual history. Couple that with the fact he doesn’t trust she’d even tell him if he asked about her colorful sexual history and I am wondering what’s the point of being with her? He has seeds of doubts that won’t go away no matter what she says or does because he is coming from the assumption she is lying even if she says “I am 100% vanilla”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:23 AM
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He has moments that make him wonder..that’s not normal. What is she doing to insinuate her sexual history was colorful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:21 AM
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You feel uncomfortable and you won’t feel any differently even if you talk about it because you’re convinced anything she says will be to shore up your ego. Cut your losses and find a girl that doesn’t have that sexual history. Don’t let anyone gaslight you, it’s perfectly fine to feel uncomfortable with someone’s sexual past. If you don’t want a girl that used to be some sex slave to a random boyfriend as your future wife and mother of your kids someday, more power to you for enforcing your bou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:09 AM
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Not all heroes wear capes. Some are Mrs Drgree and if you bother them they’ll actually help you learn to cook😌
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:53 AM
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I am stressed and nervous. Hopefully it all works out today
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:30 PM
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Ask unattractive sexually successful men, not women or hot men if you want casual sex advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:42 AM
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I thought you were married 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:08 AM
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Does she have access to your bank account? I’d make another one and pick up a part time job to put some money away in that account.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:18 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:12 AM
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It was mine but I brought it up as a joke and he ran with it. I didn’t think it would lead to my attraction to him plummeting the way it did tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:31 AM
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Ex boyfriend, had to dump him after pegging episode cause I couldn’t see him as a man anymore🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:50 AM
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Because maintaining the stamina to keep thrusting is a different ball game. I pegged my ex and even though I am a runner and lift, I could only last 2 mins before I got lower back pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:40 AM
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You really throw me for a loop sometimes😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:36 AM
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u/TakeThePinkPill will probably have the best explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:16 AM
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Tall men👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:14 AM
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It’s like they’re all a bunch of victims. I hope the algorithm stops suggesting that crap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:30 PM
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I don’t like broken people on or off FDS but I am willing to tolerate someone saying “I was inexperienced/naive and my ex played me so I am wising up” over whatever the hell is happening on these Tiktok videos of 18-22yr olds. How can there be so many people relating to all the bullshit I listed, makes me sad for my Gen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:28 PM
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I am really worried for my generation, Gen Z. There are these Tiktok videos getting millions of likes describing childhood trauma, divorced parents, neglectful families, abuse, depression, suicidal tendencies, and low self esteem. It’s like there’s this whole new world where most of the people have some sort of trauma. Having happily married parents that actually gave you a good childhood and hyped your appearance, not being depressed at any point in your life, and no self harm/ suicidal attempt…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:19 PM
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I was speaking in comparison to white women. Once we bring in racial minorities, the discussion changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:15 PM
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Excellent rebuttal, take my upvote. I do think there’s something to be said of the fact that white men are the most prominent at the top but also at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:08 PM
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In your other comment you said when you don’t account for the outliers, you think white women have it better. But the fact that so many of the outliers happen to be cis white men disproves that imo. Regardless, I’ve noticed having this debate with white men is pointless. I shall agree to disagree since there isn’t much either of us can say to change the other’s POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:53 PM
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I remember on my old account the day I got the most death threats and referrals from the Reddit suicide helpline was when I said cis white men are the most privileged demographic in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:48 PM
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They’re an acquaintance for a reason. I just tolerate them because of the networking benefits of having some of them around but I don’t really wanna deal with the drama the last girl tried starting so I’d rather not draw more of her kind from social media
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:46 AM
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Duly noted✍️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:53 AM
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Agree😌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:35 AM
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Hm what exactly in that proves TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:15 AM
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Last time an acquaintance of mine knew about him she ended up calling me and when I told her she was on speaker since my hands were full, she asked me what I was up to. I told her I was with my boyfriend and she said “which one? Derek?” My boyfriend’s name isn’t Derek🤨 This girl knew a couple days before I was going to see him and she knew She knew my boyfriend’s first and last name literally because she did some internet sleuthing. She ended up flying into his city to find him and apologize for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:37 AM
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I wish it was that simple. It sounds a lot more understandable than the real reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:19 AM
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No idea haven’t seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:07 AM
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Had two of my best friends that are in a relationship over for some food and to catch up on gossip. Apparently my sorority sisters had come up with a rumor as to why I wasn’t posting my guy and they thought it was either because he was ugly or he was some older guy. People really assuming the worst just because I changed up my social media habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:01 AM
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I don’t think there’s a real way to draw comparison but I’ll try. I’d say when a woman was with a man for years (let’s say 3) and he gave her every excuse under the sun for why he wasn’t ready for marriage/ wasn’t going to propose yet. They eventually break up and he ends up proposing to the new girl within a year and is gushing about how excited he is to wed her etc. This is an article where the author went through that. He dated her for 8yrs and he got engaged to a woman he was dating for 6 mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:09 PM
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Good thing I am not in charge of the law in this country😤
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:48 PM
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That’s obviously the issue with the death penalty but I’d only do it for the Ted Bundys of the world. Also, willful perjury that leads to death is incredibly idiotic. If someone wants to lie that killed multiple people and actually go through trial for it, why should the state save them from execution?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:20 PM
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We should execute murderers and serial child rapists. Line them up and just shoot them — the fact they get 3 meals a day and a roof over their head when serving their “punishment” for their heinous crimes is a disgrace. Bonus: We should allow cruel and unusual punishments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:56 PM
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Fast metabolism working against ya sometimes though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:48 PM
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$10/month and I am yours
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:04 PM
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This is unbelievably ironic coming from you..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:56 PM
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Actually not that many but the few successful FDSers I know are all EE. Probably because our mothers told us everything in the handbook and essentially said “the key for all of these games working is you taking care of your looks and being feminine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:51 PM
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Being multilingual is great up until you start getting languages mixed up. I just realized while on the phone I always say “свет” which is Russian when I am speaking in Ukrainian trying to say “Світ” and I haven’t been able to catch it since I don’t speak either language often enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:30 PM
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Fabulous🥰 you? I am manifesting a low n stacy for all ppd men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:00 PM
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Ew why is this a boyfriend still
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:57 PM
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From what I know, this isn’t red pill but it’s him fishing for sympathy. How long have you been seeing him? This is a red flag in itself especially since it doesn’t seem like you’re in a relationship with him. RP weirdos out themselves with being cheap, faux fuck boy act, and the media personas they follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:27 PM
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I am straight and I don’t wanna see naked women. Trying out a few different ad blockers now tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:09 AM
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Bestie even a gold digger has her code of conduct, can’t be rinsing a man you’ve caught feelings for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:38 AM
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Blessed, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:36 AM
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Are there any pirating sites without half naked women pop ups or am I gonna have to actually pay for shit😩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:27 AM
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Duly noted, thanks for the words of wisdom😊
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:22 AM
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Ugly and trad/religious guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:15 AM
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Yep, this NYT article from 1974 and this wapo article in 2003.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:29 PM
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Baryshnikov had a lot of fan girls, one of which is my grandmother. You should read some articles written about him 20+yrs ago to grasp the full magnitude of the awe he inspired in everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:38 PM
2

Wait it takes months to heal enough to have sex??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:29 PM
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So in this article , the author tests out what will happen if she turns down her husband for sex 7 days in a row. I can’t get over how whiny he is every time and she’s dumb for even conducting that experiment. Turning a man down for sex isn’t worth the damage it causes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:15 PM
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Not all heroes wear capes!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:02 PM
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I took the god pill so can you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:57 PM
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Yes sir, were you hoping your favorite FDSer died🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:55 PM
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Lol😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:51 PM
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Rude to wait staff Excessive joking (I actually can’t stand “funny” man archetype) Raises voice often, regardless of emotions Plays video games more than 1-2x a week No social etiquette Ridicules my interests Low level of formal education Lack of ambition Lack of filter which is social etiquette Doesn’t have a good relationship with his family
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:48 PM
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I am alive! Chilling in Athens. Idk what I am gonna blame on being dumb when I am not 20 anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:29 AM
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Been on the road for the past 40mins or so now. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:49 AM
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Neither of us has gone through a hurricane, packing now. Just looked up some more info and it’s a cat 4😭. GA seems safe except for excessive rain next week and it’s an 8hr drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:45 PM
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Lol he told me we need to leave but I haven’t been taking it seriously. We have supplies though, did you evacuate already?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:30 PM
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We might leave later tonight but I was under the impression the Garden District is gonna be fine. I haven’t been keeping up with the weather though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:28 PM
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I am not from there but I am staying there with my guy right now. Me being the idiot I am, I missed my flight back to Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:19 PM
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Bollywood dance routines are so underrated. The balance of Akshay Kumar to do that in the beginning🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:15 PM
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Glad you’re safely out, thanks for all you’ve done💪
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:06 PM
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He has a work trip to the Dakotas that weekend or I would have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:40 PM
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Yeah meeting his family soon, he’s very marriage minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:10 AM
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He said he’d prefer I didn’t go but it’s up to me, I am obviously not gonna go because I wouldn’t want the reverse. I definitely should have discussed it prior but it’s my final year of college and covid took away so much time away from my friends I got caught up in all the excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:41 AM
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His concerns make sense and when he asked me if I’d feel comfortable with him going to Vegas, I understood his perspective. Wish I got refundable tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:36 AM
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He said it was pretty self explanatory, I am going with a “bunch of single sorority girls” to a city full of sexually aggressive men. I trust his judgement but i was looking forward to it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:09 AM
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I set up a trip to Miami with my sorority sisters for Labor Day weekend but my boyfriend said no😒 tickets aren’t refundable either welp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:00 AM
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Lmao she called you bestie in her reply😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:49 AM
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Being sexist/ misogynistic and objectifying women. The latter only for me though, I don’t want him to objectify random women but objectify me if that makes. I have a thing for feeling like a bit of a possession
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:07 AM
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I find this list hilarious because I like some of the things in the list in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:43 AM
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The common denominator is generosity whether financially or with time. As I quickly skimmed, I saw quite few comments regarding the latter. Examples of a man going out of his way to make something for/ fix things, spend time advising them and giving them emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:01 AM
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This is a strange extrapolation. Maybe some FDSer believes only rich tall men can be HV but that’s not the case. I know men I don’t find physically attractive with normal incomes that are HV imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:00 AM
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Research how credit score is calculated — this is the best thing I did to understand how to use my credit cards. If you have a line of credit that’s 500$, using 400$ is actually bad. Credit utilization is one of the big categories so don’t make big purchases. Make sure you can buy whatever you’re getting with your credit card with a debit card, this is a good litmus test to see if you can afford what you buy. Don’t miss payments, good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:58 AM
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It’s a performance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:26 AM
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I want more FDS posts like this one and less about LVMs. Really cute thread, expected more of the girls to say their fathers though. I know my dad definitely set the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:24 AM
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You don’t have to settle down with anyone, there’s always the option of staying single. But if all the women interested in you are overweight, then maybe that’s your match and you’ll have to readjust your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:27 PM
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Discussing super high status men is like only talking about supermodels. It’s not conducive to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 09:43 PM
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Yes I would
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 09:34 PM
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Is it normal to not get any financial support from family🥺 And yeah I am aiming for FI so I have my investments & credit figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:53 PM
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Hustler I see, living with them doesn’t count imo since a lot of people live at home for college. But I meant more asking for money/ receiving assistance with bills. Good job on improving your situation 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:48 PM
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What idiot claimed men prefer women close to their age when they’re older? Women tend to prefer 5yr age gap at most is what I hear often and that checks out. When men have their pick of women and they’re older, they almost always pick younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:29 PM
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How old were you when you stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:26 PM
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Do you feel guilty about it? I interned at a bulge bracket IB bank this summer and probably lost 10yrs off my lifespan
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:18 PM
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When did you guys stop dipping into the bank of mom and dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:11 PM
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Get Invisalign!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:31 PM
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I told 3 other people in this thread I am probably a gold digger. I am bad at gold digging but I am one nevertheless. Is Sonic the swinger?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:30 PM
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Nah I am enjoying how riled up men are getting over this😇
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:24 PM
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You’re the one who decided to imply I feel entitled when all I said was if I was the significantly lower earner and had a much lower net worth, I wouldn’t sign a prenup. Presumably, that man and I wouldn’t get married. It’s not that deep. It’s me looking at a situation and realizing it’s not fit for me, are you gonna get emotional over someone’s instinct for self preservation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:23 PM
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Imagine getting married and then divorced with nothing to show for it but lost years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:17 PM
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If a man wasn’t generous during the courting stage, I don’t expect him to make a 180.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:11 PM
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What about love?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:10 PM
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I feel like it’s very self explanatory as to why someone with significantly lower net worth shouldn’t sign a prenup logically: they’re a tool to protect one’s wealth in the event of divorce. If I have a net worth of 100k and my man has a net worth of 5mil, what wealth do I have in comparison that’s necessary for a prenup? Anyways I am a gold digger and only prenup I’d sign would be to protect familial wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:07 PM
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Thankfully I don’t need an excuse I’d just bounce. Worst case scenario I end up single with my own bag
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:04 PM
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I mean poor man isn’t an option but neither is a rich man that’s not generous. I gave you the analogy to emphasize generosity🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:58 PM
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It all depends on our respective incomes but I am not willing to sign if a man has 3x my income and/or nearly 6x my net worth. The only circumstance I’d sign a prenup would be around inheritance which applies to my boyfriend. I am a gold digger but not enough to have a lawyer fight a man for his family money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:57 PM
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I’d rather be with a poor man that was generous than a rich man that wasn’t. The money is meaningless if it’s intangible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:53 PM
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I edited my comment to include the link to the post. I would sign a prenup with a man that had equal or a little bit more wealth but that relationship has such a significant gap that I wouldn’t feel comfortable having one as the lower income party.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:50 PM
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She shouldn’t marry him if he’s gonna make her sign a prenup. Also here’s the correct link since OP put the wrong one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:36 PM
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Hope the guy gets money from their divorce. She’s for the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:35 PM
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If I am gonna post, I wanna post something worthwhile not some subject we’ve beaten to death 100x times. Anyways I made a comment about general quality decreasing, it’s not that deep. I have a whole season of Keeping up with the Kardashians to get through before true boredom begins
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:44 PM
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I shall exercise that right someday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:42 PM
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I saw the thread but don’t follow them or know anything. I am all for women being hypergamous but cheating is crossing the line, it’s a character flaw. Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:40 PM
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Has anyone noticed the quality of posts has gone down dramatically in the past 1.5-2months? Maybe it’s because Lilith is on vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:29 PM
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