MaeMaeGriff Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Having a soon to be wife that is down for whatever you want is amazing As the fiancé he’s talking about, I hope for that for all of them too. I thought I was going to be alone forever and then I met OP and it’s been amazing ever since!!	/r/AllPillDebate	16/09/23 10:16 PM
-1	In your wildest dreams what is the "perfect" relationship Except I’m not 🤷🏻	/r/AllPillDebate	16/09/23 09:57 PM
4	In your wildest dreams what is the "perfect" relationship I mean you already know this, but my ideal is Morticia and Gomez Addams- devoted to family, obsessed with each other, always face the world as a team, and care deeply about each other.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/09/23 09:55 PM
0	In your wildest dreams what is the "perfect" relationship Meh, hate and call it bluepill all you want. Literally has nothing to do to you 🤷🏻	/r/AllPillDebate	16/09/23 09:54 PM
-3	In your wildest dreams what is the "perfect" relationship Right? As an AFAB person, I’m like “I’d be bored within a year if all you want is sex.” Half these folks need to invest in a fleshlight and an AI like replika 😂	/r/AllPillDebate	16/09/23 08:59 PM
1	It's actually really easy to keep a girlfriend or fiancé happy once you find one worth keeping around. Hi! Fiancé here, here’s my side of things. He’s brought so much peace and joy into my life. He’s thoughtful, kind, helpful, and lets me vent (definitely needed as a 6-12 interventionist/English teacher). We’ve had our battles and bad days, but unlike every relationship I’ve been in (romantic and otherwise), I know that no matter what this man has my back and has my best interest in mind. Even when days turn bad (like disastrous dates, family squabbles, or travel issues), we find a way to make it…	/r/AllPillDebate	20/08/23 11:12 PM
-2	Being here at a stadium listening to music twice my age with my fiancé really puts things into perspective. Who knew a guns and roses concert could be so enlightening Oh and to add context- he’s 22 and I’m 28	/r/AllPillDebate	16/08/23 01:10 AM
-3	Being here at a stadium listening to music twice my age with my fiancé really puts things into perspective. Who knew a guns and roses concert could be so enlightening Lol thanks- I mostly follow him here because I’m fascinated by the way people think and he thinks this mental processing is ridiculous. In reality we ended up in a really conventional relationship through like the absolute most unconventional path.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/08/23 12:54 AM
-2	Being here at a stadium listening to music twice my age with my fiancé really puts things into perspective. Who knew a guns and roses concert could be so enlightening I asked him first lol- we’re both feeling decently ready but planning to take our time. Also don’t let him fool you, I’m just as handsy as he is. I just get weird about it because I’m a former fundie missionary kid.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/08/23 12:42 AM
0	My hand is on my fiancé's boob rn after we had breakfast while we watch FMAB together. Having a fiancé that craves your touch is better than an ice tea on a hot summer day. What’s funny is being a Christian and actually studying scripture and it’s history drove me all the way left into anarcho-communism. Bible college did more to make me a leftist than any weird cartoon or gasp salacious satanist magazine or lecture on another religion I sat through ever did.	/r/AllPillDebate	11/08/23 08:31 PM
0	My hand is on my fiancé's boob rn after we had breakfast while we watch FMAB together. Having a fiancé that craves your touch is better than an ice tea on a hot summer day. Lol it is according to my mother and that pastor. Jokes on them, I think God and I like me better actually happy instead of faking being a girl because my mommy told me to	/r/AllPillDebate	11/08/23 08:27 PM
0	My hand is on my fiancé's boob rn after we had breakfast while we watch FMAB together. Having a fiancé that craves your touch is better than an ice tea on a hot summer day. He’s converting me- my mom was a fundie Christian so I wasn’t allowed to watch until I was older unless I snuck it at a friend’s house. But our pastor back in the day thought all anime was hentai, Pokémon was “pocket demon” in the Christian sense (since Japanese mythology has a different demon concept), and Saturday morning cartoons made after 1980 were all trying to turn kids into “sodomite” Satanists	/r/AllPillDebate	11/08/23 06:20 PM
1	You have to be an asshole to get a partner that loves you As his fiancé, I do like that he’s short. Easier to kiss when we’re the same height. I do regret that he can’t reach high shelves for me, but that’s what my 5’11” sister and 6’4” dad are for 😂. Now I can live out my fantasy of living in a hobbit hole without worrying about him hitting his head.	/r/AllPillDebate	06/08/23 04:44 PM
1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" Yeah, that is a risk. That’s why I say to focus mainly on the friendship, not necessarily romance yet. It’s hard. My fiancé and I met right after I had decided “I give up on relationships, I’m going to focus on work and become a foster parent.” Like literally 1 week after.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/07/23 04:10 AM
1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" It’s a wait for the right moment kind of thing. Don’t go into it making a friend to marry. Go into it making a friend to have a friend, and if you feel like she’s someone you want to get to know romantically too, tell her that	/r/AllPillDebate	31/07/23 02:42 AM
1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" I’ll be real, I wanted to date for marriage my whole life, but also, raised fundie, I truly thought I’d go to hell if I had sex with someone I wasn’t married to (still has me kinda f*cked up). It all depends on the spaces you’re in. Some of the best relationships start in weird places- put yourself out there and meet people. The best relationships start as friendships first.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/07/23 02:25 AM
1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" We’re not married just yet. We’ve known each other for almost 5 years, dated for 4, and got engaged this year. I’m 28, so I’m definitely older. We’re hoping to get married soon-ish but money is tight so right now we’re focusing on getting a home of some sort together. I have lots of friends who got married young (I was raised fundamentalist Christian so a good bunch of my friends got married between like 17-25)- you can make it work if you’ve really got your finances together and you don’t have …	/r/AllPillDebate	31/07/23 02:20 AM
1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" No kids yet for us! Probably in a few years because it’s EXPENSIVE. I don’t want to wait super long since I’d like to have kids before I turn 35, but that gives us like 7 years.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/07/23 02:12 AM
-1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" Reading through their posts definitely gives the “methinks he doth protest too much” vibe to their obsessions. My fiancé and I mostly come on here to laugh at the ridiculousness- as an AFAB person who still identifies as a feminist and is grateful for the strong men, women and others who raised me, the whole redpill/blackpill debate sounds like a great big “I can’t accept that my personality is trash and I hate women so I’m going to blame them for my own issues instead of working on myself” part…	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 05:24 PM
-1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" Yeah, they’ve now decided that we’re a mess because I’m non-binary 😂 gotta love folks who hate you because you have the courage to be honest with yourself	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 05:19 PM
-2	I'm curious, What's the consensus for this sub? Is it just another Redpill forum that'll get nuked once the nazi's show up or is this just a place to vent frustration? Hey, as the trans person he’s marrying, at least we’re happy and not blaming “women” for what seems to be an utter lack of a personality beyond blaming women for everything wrong in our lives, as I’ve seen on this forum. Also, at least I found myself and I’m happy now. It’s nice not being suicidal anymore. 🤷🏻	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 01:42 PM
-1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" OP’s fiancé here- I mostly want to be a stay at home wife/spouse during the summers because right now my teaching contract requires me (without saying so) to work in the summers, so I’ve taught grades 6-12, 50 kids on average, basically non-stop in a low income district for 3 straight years now. My position is super involved. So I told him to not let me do that to myself for at least a couple years when I switch schools after this year because I need a break from these teenagers 😂	/r/AllPillDebate	29/07/23 12:42 AM
-4	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" Whoa… didn’t realize my fiancé was right when he was telling me about the ridiculousness of people in these groups. Have a good night, random stranger who is projecting his insecurities on a person he doesn’t even know.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/07/23 11:38 PM
-1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" Hey, OP’s fiancé here. Your words make it sound like you’ve been hurt in the past and I’m sorry to hear that. While I’m glad for my fiancé’s blue collar job (teacher pay sucks), I’m not with him because he keeps “bringing home the bacon”. I’m with him because he is awesome to talk to, encourages my nerdy/gremlin rants, is willing to help edit my writing, and about a dozen other things I won’t bore you with. Speaking as someone raised female who no longer identifies with it, I can reassure you th…	/r/AllPillDebate	28/07/23 11:35 PM
1	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" As the “they” he settled down for- he’s definitely too good for me lol	/r/AllPillDebate	28/07/23 11:13 PM
-4	Being in a loving relationship is great, hard to find but not just for so called "Gigachads" Speaking as OP’s fiancé- I’ve loved him when he didn’t have a job just like he loved me when I had a hard time getting hired because I graduated two months before COVID hit the US and shut down schools. I don’t love him for his money or his providing- I love him because I finally have a person I can be myself around. He handles the money because I have major anxiety around it and I’m recovering from a shopping addiction.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/07/23 11:12 PM