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100% agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:49 AM
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No one reasonable would deny that males also attempt to punch above their weight. I think the more meaningful criticism of dating dynamics these days is that the ease with which women can procure a one night stand from a better looking man establishes an unrealistic baseline standard for the men she meets moving forward. "I had a fwb with X when I was 22. Why should I settle for Y when I'm 30 when he's not as good looking?" in other words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:26 PM
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Yeah. That's one area where I completely agree with women. Interacting with significantly younger girls, I just feel I have absolutely nothing in common with them, nothing to talk about, nothing to share. Perhaps things were different when tertiary education wasn't wasting four years of both men and women's lives but these days university and a career is definitely a great demarcation point of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:54 AM
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A lot of the women on that subreddit married someone they never felt physically attracted to. If you go through their post histories, a good number had fairly wild twenties and then settled down in their 30s (or even before). Now I don't subscribe to the idea that a woman who has had a wild past is necessarily going to cheat, but my understanding from also having lurked is that when they felt the desire to settle down they artificially memed themselves into prioritizing a man's money above his l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:45 AM
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Didn't you defend gold digging on a post on FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:34 AM
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Cosplayers to me always seemed like a train wreck of a community. I don't think I've ever encountered a larger number of dysfunctional, genuinely mentally ill, hateful, chronically depressed people in my life. I'll make an exception for the odd girl or group of girls who do a one off cosplay for their local convention but the ones who blow all their disposable income on traveling around the US going to cons, dressing up in what amounts to pornographic outfits and thriving off of the attention ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:27 AM
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Women are very much interested in looks. It's by far the most important factor by which they decide whether they're attracted to someone. This is, in spite of what TRP says, a good thing because the alternative to it are societies like China and South Korea where all that matters to a woman is how much money you earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:22 AM
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I'll illustrate with an example: I'm fairly certain that those women who put things like "no hook ups/no one night stands" on their OLD profiles will let it slip for a sufficiently attractive man. I'm certain better looking men than me can get away with a lot more, especially in terms of being immediately explicit. Similarly, I'm fairly certain worse looking men have it even more difficult and are often regarded with reflexive repulsion for even being mildly flirtatious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:17 AM
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It's not just people here, major media outlets regularly quote random people on Twitter as "evidence" of a "backlash" against something perceived to be "racist" for example. Twitter's a con-game. Journalists are represented among its engaged userbase at something like 10 times the rate they are among the general population, and they have a vested interest in portraying its various woke contingents as emblematic of the western mainstream. Vast parts of the mainstream web that serve no discernible…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:40 AM
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It's interesting how they despise all of the things that are good about women: the fact they're more compassionate and empathetic is why men feel they can open up to their girlfriend or wife more than say, their male friends. This isn't a bad thing. It's something about women that's very delightful and appreciated by most normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:26 AM
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This doesn't tally with my experience at all. It's fairly easy to get dates on OLD, but it's significantly more difficult (though not impossible) to get regular casual sex. Of course it may be different if you're exceptionally good looking. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:42 PM
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It's more or less impossible to engage with them. I'd regard myself as very very right wing in certain regards but they more or less just refuse to engage with dissenting viewpoints. I don't even reject everything they have to say. Like, yeah, looks are damn good important to most western women (and they should be). But why is the implication of that bad? I'd prefer women went for looks rather than money. Asian societies do that and they're fucking miserable with precisely zero romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:03 AM
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Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:39 PM
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I think faking that you want a relationship is pretty low tier behavior. All things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:39 PM
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Depends on the effort you're prepared to put in and what you'd consider a lot of sex. I find getting dates on Tinder was fairly easy (I'm a fairly average looking white guy with a good job). Getting ONS is harder (most girls on there are wise to the ways of men) but not impossible. If you're prepared to sit on Tinder, swipe right all day etc. Then I suppose I could find a decent FWB once every few weeks or every month. Honestly though, the best girls I've had casual stuff with all came from 4cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:14 AM
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I dunno man. 10,000 seems pretty hyperbolic even for an athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:12 AM
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Yep. Although I can't understand men who marry a woman way better looking than them who blatantly feels no physical chemistry for them. "Women are attracted to wealthy and powerful men" is a giant cope for ugly, wealthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:03 AM
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This is just plain fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:01 AM
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Whether you're a man or a woman it's not good to over indulge on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:59 AM
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Yeah I know. But I do genuinely feel pity for them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:54 AM
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Nah. I just find it hard to open up to my friends. Women are easier to open up to, they're empathetic, they genuinely want to make you feel better when you're hurting. It's not about temporary ego boosts. If you meet a woman you love you want to give her the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:11 AM
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I can't speak for other men but I genuinely appreciate the kindness and compassion women have always shown me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:04 AM
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I've dated girls who have had these sorts of issues. I also didn't treat women particularly well in my mid 20s, I wasn't abusive but I was a commitmentphobe. I suppose I feel a sense of guilt as a result. It's hard for a lot of men to truly empathize with the difficulties young women face when dating since they mostly just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:34 AM
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I unironically feel sorry for them. They've obviously been hurt by men enough that it's completely destroyed any trust they once had and they've become deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:29 AM
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It's generally not stacies having casual sex. It's awkward, unhappy, broken girls. Subculture girls, think goths and especially cosplayers, are far sluttier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:44 PM
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Why can't you just be honest with us? You're not actually cool with casual sex, it hurts you and makes you feel used, even if it's good in the moment. You're not cool with men you like "taking breaks" and seeing other women. You're not cool with sex on the first date and most of you would prefer to wait. I just want to see women stop aping men's worst tendencies and be honest. At heart and your best, you're kind, compassionate, gentle, forgiving and loving. That's what I love about you. You bala…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:17 AM
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Your thought-police schtick couldn't be more irrelevant to me, archetypal redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:52 PM
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Yes, saying you primarily care about your own people is concerning when you're white. Not when you're any other race. Then it's acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:18 PM
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Yep. 99% of all historical human beings were unhappy because universal suffrage emerged in the 20th century, alright dude. Liberalism is so delusional it defies belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:49 PM
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The architects of liberalism (Mill, Locke, Rousseau, and later Rawls) are all men. Every. Single. One.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:37 PM
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Happiness is impossible without order and stability in the first place. These are the basic building blocks. Equality is a tenet(sp) of modern democratic society And that's part of the problem. Inequality between races or genders or religions is completely different and there is no reason to justify it. I can guarantee you that you believe in inequality between races and religions and genders on some tacit level that you aren't even conscious of because it's so embedded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:36 PM
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I believe everyone implicitly accepts that order and stability stem from hierarchy (hence why we give law enforcement and other institutions more power than the average citizen), so I see no reason why we equality is something to work towards as a general principle. This is different to cases where some degree of equality is incidentally advantageous to a society: for example, income inequality while natural, when it becomes extremely pronounced destabilizes societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:03 PM
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I don't believe in equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:56 PM
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The very notion of "men's rights" is simply the obverse of feminism. The whole "rights industry" is based around the idea you can create rights without attendant obligations through legal mechanisms and that some sort of legislative hocus pocus will work everything out. "Rights" without obligations are the problem. Men simply taking feminism and making their own version of it will just make things even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:18 AM
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I don't really think there's much to "agree" or "disagree" on that point. I care primarily about other white people, and I'm most attracted to white women. I'd expect non-white men to feel the same, but then again I've never actually met a non-white guy who prefers his own women so....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:51 AM
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My experience with nerdy girls is that they're often more sexually peculiar and non-monogamous than "normalfag" girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:48 AM
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I'm white, I'm most attracted to white women. I'm (honestly) not really that concerned about the health of the dating dynamic between non-white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:43 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:26 AM
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I've noticed upper-middle class professional women in general have insane expectations of what sort of earning power a man should have. I'm an accountant, not a big-four one either, so I wouldn't stand a chance of having RMV with your average STEM girl. This is a big reason why so many female doctors, lawyers etc are single. Glad I'm with a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:54 AM
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I do it because I think the manosphere is based on an entirely contradictory premise: namely the complaint that women are too naive to make decisions, while also holding them to the same standards one would a man. You can't simultaenously say women are too childish in their understanding of the world and then put all of the damage the past 70 years of liberlism (with a small l) on their shoulders alone. Women didn't actually create the culture we live in now, it is overwhelmingly men who did. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:24 AM
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Sexual objectification is a part of how we evaluate a person of the opposite sex, but it shouldn't be the totality of how we view them. Moreover, propriety, civility and good manners should dictate that we aren't crude in how we reveal this to them. In other words: we shouldn't open conversation by talking about how we want to fuck them etc. Which is how a lot of online dating works these days unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:14 AM
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This makes no sense, if they're just as horny as men then they wouldn't be able to maintain a looks threshold that high to begin with by definition. They'd biologically want to fuck as broad a range of men as men do women. Men have higher sex drives, this is incontrovertible fact. The people who argue against it are usually coomers and feminists who want to push raunch culture onto other girls and bring them down to their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 08:25 PM
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