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To keep trying.. Y'all think that there's is NO ONE who wants you after trying a few times? There will always be more disappointment than approval unless you are incredibly lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:59 AM
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I mean, the moment I hear she is "demi..." im out. The guy dodged a bullet anyway.. Also i only ever hear of women being "demisexual" never men...interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:51 PM
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True but those who are sex positive seems to be pro cheating.. based on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:23 PM
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True, but the argument here is "fuck marriage"..Marriage isnt needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:58 PM
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It is NOT controlling at all. If your partner loves/respects you, they would respect your lines..and you would respect theirs....within reason of course. If its a no go for you and she chooses to go anyway, then you have a decision to make: 1. compromise 2. leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:49 AM
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ITs because people are listening too much to social media putting this garbage out there. Taking what you hear online as gospel is what creates posts like this and makes people think this bs is true and then convinces people to start acting this shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:06 PM
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Maybe? but im not so sure...Dating App usage is lessening as the years go on...its slowly dying. At least thats what im reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:20 AM
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yes, but the court of public opinion dont care about that...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:14 PM
2

Disagree.. We should only talk to one, if we are looking for something meaningful and long term. "Keeping your options open" just leads to feelings being hurt, confusion, possibly cheating. The only reason I ever talked to more than one person was because I just wanted to have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:55 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:00 PM
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What is the point here you are trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:17 AM
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The best and healthiest thing one can do in situations like this, is to stop caring so much about finding a partner. Focus on you. Get a hobby, join groups, do some fitness, read, just do something that takes your mind off that superficial crap. Focus on making friends and let things happen for you naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:59 PM
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Sorry, but I heard nothing but man bashing in your post...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:12 AM
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Depends on what shit consider "red pilled"... This is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:52 AM
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There is literally no difference. They are interchangeable..but peoples "feelings" get hurt... I just ignore them. People getting butthurt over words and getting offended for others is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:52 PM
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Huh? no...no they dont say this. There are ugly and pretty skinny women (subjectively). Same goes for curvy, overweight, fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:25 PM
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Its all related to physical attraction. All of it. You wont know someones personality simply by looking or even at first glance. So, for most cases, the cold approach/looking and smiling at (flirting) approach is only really well received when the other person is attractive (in a general sense). I am fully aware, there are instances where someone approaches and isnt all that attractive, but their personality shines through and the other party gives them a chance...however in MOST cases, this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:11 AM
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Most people dont hate them. They just wont date them...Theres nothing wrong with having that preference. I will not date anyone who is/was a sex worker in any capacity... Personally, in my own opinion, sex work is not honorable work and is filled with people who were forced to perform that kind of "work".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:45 AM
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Yea...any "study" that relies on the honor system is not a real study..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:49 AM
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Men being forced into relationship? What?? I thought so many men were complaining because they cant find a relationship. Also " It has been brought up here a few times, how some guys are forced to seek out relationships in order to have access to sex" -- HAve they never heard of Fuck buddies? Hooking up? These are simply men who want sex without the relationship? I am not understanding this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:47 AM
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No... Female or male or animal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:00 PM
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I agree with you here. What we are seeing is a loud minority on social media trying to make these issues the forefront...They are far less of an issue than people actually think. People just need to chill and let things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:57 AM
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Again, posts like this seem to be referring to men you see on red pill / MGTOW social media. The general populace is not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:57 AM
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People. Not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:39 AM
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As long as you and your partner agree with this, then no theres nothing wrong. dont go years into a relationship/marriage with a person who loves her and spring this on them..what you are asking wont be possible then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:21 PM
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Just dont be a douche and usually people are pretty nice. Unless they are drunk...dont approach drunk people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:13 PM
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You mean physically attractive only? Also, they arent marrying them because of....what? do you have any stats on your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:07 PM
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Geez.. someones bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:47 AM
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How so if I may ask? From what I am seeing, the left is promoting sexual freedom, dressing however you want, identifying as you want, etc. How is this anti sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:46 AM
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what is promoted and what is actually happening are totally different. Thats the problem. People are having to learn the hard way that what is being said online/in media isnt the case in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:44 AM
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What you just said had nothing to do with who you are replying to said. It is promoted that looks arent always that important. Stop detracting and address what they actually said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:43 AM
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Honestly..I don't buy into the whole alpha beta nonsense. I'm any case, I'm not a pushover if that's what you mean. No issues leaving someone who doesn't respect\appreciate me. Also I don't understand your message.. They found a beta provider? You mean they are in a relationship but still looking for fun with others? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:58 AM
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In my case, I wasnt the Beta Buxx you describe.. I had/have the lifetime sub to Bumble (sad to say). However I got it because I prefer to see who likes my profile first then I swipe on those who showed interest first. I dont go on the main page and swipe. I would swipe until I got 3 matches then quit. then restart once those 3 have ended or closed or whatever. However, I will say, woman are JUST AS bad as men on these apps. I have tried every single app there is..that was until i landed on bumbl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:25 AM
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While I get what you are trying to say. It's in our DNA to be physically attracted to those of the opposite sex or whoever we are attracted to. If I get an erection looking at a woman who is naked or and about, I'm going to be labeled a pervert though it's a normal thing to happen. It would cause many distractions and ultimately lead to more harassment..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:47 PM
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Ill give you that...especially younger people. Andrew Tate for example...This loud minority reaches a lot of people and spreads the same sentiment. while some of what the red pillers say does make sense...people like Tate have no place even speaking honestly.. I just personally think that a lot of what is discussed on these podcasts doesnt happen as often as they make it sound...but they make it look like it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:43 PM
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No..its not. You both are right. How can you say that "bitch" is the first one...you are likely basing this on your experience, but this isnt fact. you both can be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:26 PM
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hm..maybe. But on average, people do not care if a person is promiscuous. Sure, flaunting it will get you weird looks. Such lifestyles, especially flaunting it are just not conducive to monogamous relationships. what I dont like, is someone telling me im wrong for not dating a woman who did certain sexual things in her life that Im not ok with. The only reason you feel its heavily demonized is because of social media. Its a loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:24 PM
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Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:05 AM
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Probably not you no..But I think OP is trying to bring up the conversation about the near future. If AI GFs become the norm, the tech becomes more sophisticated, more life-like, more everything, maybe it will become an actual issue for women. People keep saying that "low quality" men will be the ones to use AI, but I can see "high quality" men doing the same depending on how good the tech is. ​ I guess this is more of a "What If" kind of conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:11 AM
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"weak seed deleting itself"...yea total empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:06 AM
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Huh? Yes you did..thats exactly what you said. Dont hide from it man... If thats NOT what you said, then what was said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:55 AM
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a bit presumptuous. Maybe he wants an AI that does have her own wants/desires, but isnt rude about it like what He might be used to. Maybe he wants an AI who is just decent at expressing themselves without causing more drama. ​ Just a guess though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:53 AM
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the fuck? Why is this important? You are just trying to be "edgy" or just a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:49 AM
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so instead of actually contributing to the convo, you just wana divert and name call. typical lol ​ Also calling something "gay" in an Ad hominem way, is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:44 AM
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No offense but you both sound a little bitter. But then again, we are taking random people on the internet seriously with their "stories". Im willing to bet that either 1. your stories arent true, 2. the other party had legit values but you VIEWED them as idiots, or 3. a few guys treated you wrong and now you are blanket coating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:43 AM
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Ive experimented, but didnt stick with it. I personally wouldnt date a bi woman, but thats just my opinion. The why is, that I wouldnt want to invest a good chunk of my life with someone, just for her to get confused or change her mind halfway through our marriage about what she is attracted to. I understand this can happen to anyone, but I just feel that it would be more prevalent in people who are Bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:49 AM
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The problem is, these "studies" are based on the honor system..meaning they rely on the subject being honest. Take ALL of this with a huge grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:16 AM
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This is not true. First off, you are taking peoples word by what you read online. Most of what you see online is fake anyway. Most people (Men) do not care about a womans sexual history. What people DO care about is context behind it. Context is everything. If I am on a date with a woman, and she had sex with someone the night before, Yea im out. This is actually kinda common with online dating. If she had sex with someone she was dating, before her and I met, then its not an issue. Context. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:55 AM
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This here. If you are not happy, then do whatever you need to do to correct it. Within your means that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:44 AM
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From a womans perspective, men bodies are/can be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:42 AM
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Most PEOPLE would be...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:55 AM
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Someone who started taking care of themselves in their 30s would look better in their 30s than their 20s.. But then again, it depends on what "looks better" means to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:28 PM
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Are the majority of men the best looking? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:26 PM
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Not true. If they take care of themselves, they will look the best they ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:25 PM
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Then you arent talking about most men or even the average man. You are merely talking about those "top G's".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:22 PM
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This gets kinda dicey. Unless you are in a relationship, you are technically single. LEGALLY you are single until you are married. Personally, if someone asks, ill tell them im single but I am seeing someone casually if Im in a f+ or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:41 PM
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But what is "free sex" thats what OP is asking. What does it mean here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:17 PM
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Yes, but what does "free sex" mean here? Thats what OP is asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:16 PM
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This doesnt address OPs question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:15 PM
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Thats..not a good reason to cheat...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:02 AM
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It is not the norm...well, in my experience. I USED to expect this when dating..only to be let down every single time because "I never brought it up". Now it has to be specifically talked about and agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:59 AM
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You keep saying that but provide nothing to show...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:57 AM
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You could just link it to shut them up..but no you want people to scroll this entire thread...you are making the claim, the least you could do is give an example of it..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:57 AM
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This is self explanatory right? People who dont do the hookup thing, will have less sex. And 1 + 1 = 2. Also, if you are hooking up, the more attractive you are will grant you more possibilities for hooking up...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:37 PM
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Becuase you only see it online. That is no way indicative of the general populous. Most of what you see online is either fake or manufactured or has very little truth to it. The entire red pill, bad bitch etc this and that, all come from people online trying to start some sort of "movement". People online do not represent the average person or the general populous. Its only popular because we see a bunch of people online doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:01 PM
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I dont see a problem with dating a woman with kids. Its only becomes an issue when they have multiple kids with multiple fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:27 AM
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Why does this even have to be said..ITs true for everyone... Chances of orgasm are higher the more attracted you are to the other person... And the sky is blue..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:59 AM
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thats definitley incorrect. Just ask my ex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:56 AM
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Needs a source, not your word of mouth. While im inclined to agree with you, we have to take everything online with a grain of salt here. Hell, even studies online often have to be discounted just because something in the study is usually off..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:55 AM
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Well, at least you are honest. anything you say then is just anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:50 AM
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huh? Hookup culture is exactly that...people not sticking to one partner, but multiple.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:48 AM
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Im failing to see what point you are trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:48 PM
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As I am a person who doesnt like the whole casual dating thing, I would wait 2 days for person 1 to respond. If they dont, I simply say "It was nice meeting you" and unmatch and then go with person 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:15 PM
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I think its simple. People who dont believe in casual dating, like to keep it to 1 person at a time. So yea I can see where I would wait for person 1 to respond and if not, unmatch and move on to person #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:14 PM
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He's juicing... They all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:04 AM
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meh..depending on who you ask. Plenty of people consider that a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:58 AM
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Depends when it's asked, but it comes off as aggressive, like you are trying to start an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:17 PM
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Are you sure? not from what im googling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:58 PM
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I agree with this as well. Was a good idea at first but the way people use it more often then not has actually hurt dating culture as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:37 AM
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I can imagine that if people stopped using the apps for dating, they would become more social and interact more with each other. They would be more open to building their friend circles. Men and women would have a much smaller number of options since they dont connect with people long distance. In a way you would be forced to concentrate more on who is around/near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:34 AM
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What level and attention are you referring to? The hookup kind of attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:31 AM
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Doesnt help the case for dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:30 AM
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Thank you! Freaking finally someone said it. 100% agree with this. Its because of social media/dating apps that people are so damn up in arms about dating culture and the like. This whole "paradox of choice" thing turned out to be a real pain in the ass. If you just get rid of the dating apps, and dont treat social media as your Dating buffet, you will be happier, at least a little bit. Get involved with friends/groups/just getting outside, you will be happier for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:27 AM
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I will age with her...Isnt that how its supposed to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:09 PM
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Do you have a source on this? The NIDDK says 27.5% of american women are overweight and 11.5% are obese. Overweight & Obesity Statistics - NIDDK (nih.gov)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:45 AM
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I see both your points. OP is kinda right. While her potential suiters may have already been filtered, thats not something she can control. She lives there and frequents where she frequents. Its only natural to be approached from people in those same areas. This is how dating was done prior to online dating. What is she supposed to do? Go to places shes never been or doesnt want to go, in the hopes of attracting men you feel she should be attracting? What shes describing is perfectly natural... …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:28 AM
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Damn...I mean...you make some very valid points.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:21 AM
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jesus....good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:18 AM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:18 AM
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If I approach a woman and she thinks im bothering her, then she can say so and Ill walk away. If shes ignoring me, got it, ill walk away...aside from that, what social clues are you even referring to? Unless they are blatantly obvious, most people wont pick up on social cues. Most people cant "read between the lines" or know what you mean. If I have the feeling im bothering someone, then of course Id walk away. But If I am not getting that feeling but she feels I am bothering her, but she doesnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:35 PM
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I think the only complaints people are making, pertain to online dating. At least from what I am seeing. If we are excluding online dating, then this argument is clear. But with online, you dont have to approach women IRL to see whats going on and complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:50 AM
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You keep flipflopping. Are you talking about two peoples FIRST interactions or repeated interactions? Huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:46 AM
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Did you even read their message? Two guys did the exact same thing, and one was perceived to be harassing her. He wasnt harassing, but was perceived to be....On the FIRST interaction. That is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:45 AM
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A person does not know if they are bothering someone. We are talking about approaching someone you might be interested in asking on a date. How is that "bothering" on the very first attempt with no prior interaction? GTFOH regarding "social cues". This doesnt apply to initial and first interactions. Use your damn words. Sure, If a guy approaches and says "hello" and shes reponding with her back to him, then yea, walk away. But if shes talking to the guy face to face, how is he supposed to know i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:42 AM
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Alright, I see what you mean. Just every day life and you happen to see someone you are attracted to. But arent most issues that people complain about here pertaining to online dating mostly? You dont have to approach women IRL to see trends and complain about online dating..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:37 AM
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The way you talk, you approach everyone, every single chance you get. Dont be purposefully obtuse here. If I were to go to a club/bar/social gathering and hit on every woman there, of course a reputation would build... Also depending on where the person lives, this will happen even quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:27 PM
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There are limits to this.. You don't want a reputation. Doing what you are suggesting creates a reputation and not a good one. I do agree though, that people can't really complain if they haven't even tried. I have tried multiple times and got burned pretty badly.... Not just rejection, but ridicule and shit... But that was a long time ago. I'll admit, in my case, i do get looks from women and i don't engage... Maybe I'm nervous or maybe i think they would cheat or whatever the reason...i could …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:18 AM
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Maybe they knew it was a fake profile based on your code word
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:40 AM
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Yes! Thank you someone finally said it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:54 PM
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Why? Because we are human and we have good and bad days. Both men and women have days where they want attention now. As long as what you are doing isnt important, then fine, nothing wrong with interrupting it. Personally, if I am playing a video game, its not a big deal if my partner interrupts it, unless im playing in some special tournament or something. If it happens often, then ya, that would be an issue. But on offs every now and then arent an issue. Your partner should be understanding of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:06 PM
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I absolutely do not care how much money she makes. Even if she doesnt have a job, im ok with that as long as she is trying to improve. Someone who doesnt try will lose my interest. As long as she lives within her means with the amount of money she makes, i would be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:43 AM
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Im getting "still simping" vibes from your post. If you gave up an interest because she has a fit every time you do it, then you simping. If shes just having off days sometimes and wants you to drop everything (within reason) and pay attention to her, thats cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:04 PM
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Your post doesnt make sense. "Stop trying to figure out what youre supposed to say in favor of listening to what shes saying" -- In your own post you state she told you she wanted you to be nice. You heard her and reciprocated. Yet it was the wrong thing. You arent a damn mind reader. You can only help when the person actually articulates what they want. No amount of intent listening will change that. ​ What someone says and what they mean are often very different, but im not gonna feel bad if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:00 PM
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It only exists because of social Media and people listening to it... It would not even be a thing if people didn't treat social media like it was truth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:44 AM
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This post is one sided. You don't think women do the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:51 AM
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Alright fair enough. I agree with the (everyone else on reddit) part as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:49 AM
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I agree with this. I have been with women who were overly jealous or accusatory, which in itself isnt that bad. But when its constant, then we have a problem. Getting jealous when someone is very obviously flirting with me, there is nothing wrong with that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:07 AM
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Then you are faking it. I dont know about other men, but I love jealousy in a woman. Of course, Not "grab the wheel and run the car off the road " kinda jealous, but showing the other woman flirting with me, that I belong to you is hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:05 AM
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Well now you are simply judging every future partner based on the acts of a past partner...and we are taught not to do that. Learn from it, sure..but to judge anyone in the future for having a healthy amount of jealousy is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:04 AM
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Ok so what about this 90% of women want the top 10% of men? Plenty of dating sites put out stats on this if I remember correctly? Is this also untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:19 AM
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You are being purposely obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:49 PM
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But if I man were to have the same requirement, its misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:44 PM
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Someone posting thirst traps does not equal "influencer".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:43 PM
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As previously stated..it depends on the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:42 PM
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This was all made popular by social media. The pair Issue doesn't exist realistically.. If social media want a thing, we wouldn't be having this conversation right now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:17 AM
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Can you be more clear? What made you think they had mental health issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:35 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:34 PM
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There most certainly are ways to measure this. Brain activity..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:26 AM
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I just think more people are more interested in short term satisfaction than long term happiness. However I feel this pertains to online dating mostly. Did it on and off for over 10 years and as a Man, the majority of women whom I had actually wanted to develop something with, only wanted sex. Those who wanted more with me, I simply wasnt attracted to...it sucks. I wish I wasnt like this...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:15 AM
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I dont believe you. What you are describing is temporary at best. Assuming "bachelor life" provides sex, the average man will choose this over a sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:37 PM
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This is definitely not how it works..not for long anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:34 PM
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You know damn well thats not what they meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:18 AM
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I think this entire conversation is blown way outta proportion. You guys all listen to media and then this tiny issue is made to look like a much bigger one. I dont know a single guy who thinks this way as described by OP. Regarding body count, i think this applies to all people. This feelings one has when hearing their partners number is subjective, but I believe a good portion of people would cringe inside a little bit if the number is very high for them. Its not a pleasant thing to hear most …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:02 PM
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From where did you pull this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:46 PM
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Yes, he should support her. The problem is, it goes against the old fashioned norm of the man being the "bread winner" and he is therefore looked down on and then gets cheated on or left for a man who makes equal or better than her. According to all the current dating statistics I keep reading about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:41 AM
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Thats very dependent on experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:21 AM
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Because women dont need apps to get a partner. Men have to work to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:20 AM
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I get the idea behind it...However the abuse of this can/will be rampant and this outweighs the benefits. What happens when there is a false rape/SA accusation? The guy wont know....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:36 AM
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thats true...when talking to their friends face to face. But this is the INTERNET...this is like going go a concert of thousands of people and yelling someones info into the microphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:34 AM
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But what happens when its a false accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:33 AM
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So you hate it when companies get your information... But its totally fine to make groups like this, share the guys info and then potentially ruin his livelihood....awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:32 AM
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Not completely. The idea area around it is looking out for each other, but a simple "bad date" is misinterpreted and then potentially ruins a persons livelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:31 AM
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Doesnt mean its o to create groups like this and potentially ruin a persons livelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:29 AM
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Thats great and all, but there are also lives being ruined just over a bad date. At least thats whats being said in some of these groups.Im sorry but if men created such a group about women, they would be banned immediately. EDIT: so I did a search and found 1 group "are we dating the same woman". There are hundreds of "are we dating the same guy"..... I get supporting women and protecting them from perverts, convicts, etc....thats what friends are for....but posting these guys online who potent…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:23 AM
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Thats not correct
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:18 AM
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Depends on how much work. If you look like a doll, then yes, Id be inclined to agree. But, Im sure there are a lot of men who wouldnt date a woman who had any work done. Im not one of them, but im also not an incel. Maybe my input doesnt matter here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:28 PM
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Not by men who like women who actually like when they say/do what they are thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:25 PM
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It stems from me wanting something worth while. I simply dont like to share someone I am happy with. I dont see how a fear of rejection would make me possessive/jealous. I simply find another if I am rejected... I have tried both mono and poly and i simply dont enjoy ploy completely. I am mono because sharing experience with one person is more worth while and meaningful. In anything poly I have seen or participated in, it was more sexual than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:10 PM
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Well, shes kinda right. Those who DO initiate, will only do so if the other person is attractive to them. However what everyone here is forgetting is that ON AVERAGE, women do not initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:10 PM
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If what you say is true, then YOU are the exception. However on average, women do not initiate, men do or are expected to.. Thats the entire point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:06 PM
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There is no "what you define"..there is a definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:58 PM
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Dont know a single one. But go off. Let me guess, you know lots... Still, your original post does discount /u/thatblackgirlellie statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:54 PM
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Do feel women DO have this room?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:43 PM
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Running the servers for those free platforms is a full time job, yet they are free anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:41 PM
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Thats also twitter...its a cesspool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:40 PM
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Give a description of this. Because it seems like you are relating 2 very different situations that arent relateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:37 PM
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Its no different than going to a strip club and paying them. Theres no touching, well, unless the place you go has different rules. But assuming standard rules, where thes no touching, its the same. But this you would have an issue with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:35 PM
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same. Anyone involved with sex work on either side is out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:33 PM
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Literally no one looks down on others who drink. Looking down on alcoholics, maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:46 AM
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This is the first time ive seen someone disregard something because its an "exceptional case". Though, the loud minority on twitter is begging laws to be written for all these "exceptional cases"..People are trying to change our very language for these "exceptional cases"... ​ Sorry, just wanted to say that even though it doesnt pertain to this specific issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 AM
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Same here. However, I dont believe Sex work is honorable work. Just personal opinion. I would be with anyone who worked/works in the "industry" or participated in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:27 AM
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Sigh... I know my opinion doesnt matter, being a male and all, but this is an open forum. I personally believe that since there were 2 creators of that baby knowing full well, a baby could very well be created from their night of fun. Both creators, regardless of who carries the baby to term, or who is financially responsible, should have equal say in aborting or not. However, I would concede that men should have no say at all since the female/woman must carry the baby to term..if we are going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:27 AM
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You are basing it on physical responsibility only. However its more than that. There were two creators of that baby, there should be equal say in the matter. However if you think men should have absolutely no say in the matter, then ill agree, as long as men can choose to not be monetarily responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:22 AM
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They may be able to physically leave sure...but not without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:12 AM
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again..incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:11 AM
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This is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:11 AM
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Well, if it is impossible to know the biological sex and race of a fetus, then Id agree with you. However, if sex/race has been determined and you push for abortion on the grounds that its female, that can be considered sexist....of course depending on the reasoning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:07 AM
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Right, for another thread. But for this thread, it's simply about getting fat.. Nothing else. And I'm simply saying that an male equivalent test would be for him to get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:20 AM
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wow...the reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:44 AM
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Well no...I see your point but its not an equivalent test. An equivalent test would be for the guy to get fat...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:43 AM
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This...has to be a troll post..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:42 AM
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Perfectly fine with woman having a height preference...within reason. If shes 5ft4 and her bio says Minimum 6ft2, I mean...its a preference, but a pretty crap one. On the other side, I actually like when my partner has some experience sexually. Now, it doesnt take much experience to learn what you like/dislike and to learn how to do things in bed. A man is allowed to have a preference on number of past partners In regards to this argument, a person cannot control this. However, weight/# of partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:43 PM
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This one is weird. The number of times ive been on a date with someone with "not interested in ONs or fwb" in their profile, to end up with her wanting sex on the first date or not wanting to get serious and keep sleeping together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:39 PM
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Mature conversation cures everything. The way people communicate today, be it politics/dating/religion/anything really, is deplorable. Everyone is offended. No one can admit when they might be wrong. Anyone who cant provide anything further simply starts calling names or tries to erode the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:43 PM
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OLD has most certainly ruined dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:54 AM
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Damn....just....damn.. Therapy does the same thing...but you do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:06 PM
1

What about Hitch??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:54 AM
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Nothing wrong with it.. Most people on these apps are wasting everyone's time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:01 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:49 AM
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To be fair, you started the lawyer analogy..Not so bizaare take
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:52 AM
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Yea, if at any point he said no or told her to get off, and she kept going... Sexual assault. There's no doubt. Any person, can revoke contest at any time. As long as they make it clear, the other person needs to stop.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:33 PM
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Aren't sexual assault and rape different? Rape is a type of sexual assault that involves some sort of sexual penetration.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 12:24 PM
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bad response
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:11 AM
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There is a comedian who pointed this out perfectly. He said a difference between men and women: Women want to have sex with the rock star backstage in the VIP. A man will choose the woman selling pretzels outside the hall. ​ Im butchering it..and I cant find it, but its old and just popped into my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:13 AM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:07 AM
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Exactly this. A lot of Red Pilled People (pickup artists mostly) say true things, but often in a very crude way.. I just dont agree with how some red pilled people present their ideas. JustPearlyThings on youtube seems to do a good job. But Andrew Tate/freshandfit and the like, i cant get on board with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:03 AM
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I agree to some extent. Not Andrew Tate or FreshandFit levels but some.. I base this off personal experience and statistics from online dating. I mean, people can argue all day about the "90% of women wanting only 10% of men ideology" but stats are stats. Personal experience, Constantly being told by women that "maybe the problem is you", as to why i end relationships with women who give me reasons not to trust them. Im 38 and still single. Get plenty of matches and go on a lot of dates..however…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:00 AM
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thats a lie. Every other woman i meet online wants exactly that. No lie. I make it clear im looking for a relationship. What do they respond with? "Well, lets just see how it goes and go with the flow"...Most of them have "i dont know" listed as to what they are looking for and a lot of them have "relationship" listed but then backtrack when asked...Most of my F+ situations came from these apps. Lets say for argument I do meet someone who is clear about what tthey are looking for (she would be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:31 AM
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Wait..you were arguing with the other guy, saying he "didnt test it out"...as in he didnt actually plan dates and stand them up. Thats what you were saying prior...Now you say its "filtering"? Thats not what you implied before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:22 AM
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again..see above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:19 AM
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You are asking him to ghost/not show up to dates..as he said, thats cruel. A good test yes, but cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:18 AM
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Hence ghosting. Problem is women get so many matches and they actively engage with a lot of them, that many are left ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:14 AM
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Agreed. OLD has only caused me to be bitter towards women even though I get a lot of matches. Problem is, I keep meeting the same woman, she only looks different. Its made me jaded from OLD and now admittedly I almost judge women i meet before even speaking to them. I hate that I am like this. I wish I could go back to being blissfully ignorant of this current dating culture where everyone is fucking everyone. Every time i ask what she is looking for, im met with "well, I dont know, I havent met…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:09 AM
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Again..women dont NEED apps..Men do. Apps are catered to women to appeal to them, to try to get them to join. Men still outnumber women on the apps because we think thats where the women are. Supply and Demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:58 AM
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Because women easily find men IRL and dont need apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:56 AM
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Nope..not if they can easily get a man IRL..why come to the App then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:55 AM
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Well, Hoe oder Whore is a prostitute. I think in this case, they are referring to sluts, which is a woman who has many casual sexual partners... given the current times, i think this is most people. Personal opinion. ​ To me, it all depends on the reason for the number of sexual partners. Its ENTIRELY possible a high body count is reached due to dating and hoping it turns to something more, and simply doesnt. In cases like this, I dont judge. If women are simply giving it out, but are honest wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:36 AM
1

ah. you are poly. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:29 AM
1

Yes its 3 a year, but you know thats not how it happened. How would you feel if the brunt of that number was done in the past year?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:26 AM
1

So you prefer online?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:34 PM
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I disagree. It's not chosen for you. Women have all the options afforded to them in OLD and then they might hookup with a couple "high quality" men, then assume that's the kind of man they need to aspire to get. Same thing happens with men. But that's just one example. Online dating das skewed people's expectations and we are seeing the effects of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:54 AM
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There's a difference between what are are looking for in general and what you are looking for in that specific person. Everyone knows what their ultimate goal is. But you have no idea what you want with that other person yet, hence why you get to know them. If i ask, what she is looking for and she gives me some vague or unless response, then i lose interest. It's pretty easy to tell someone "I'm looking for something casual" or " I'm hoping to find a relationship" or something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:50 AM
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On average. It doesn't mean it applies 100 percent universally.. Bit it does likely for the general populace
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:28 PM
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This is untrue. No man expects a woman to wear makeup. What we DO expect is that IF you do wear makeup, and you attract a Chad, don't automatically assume that you yourself are a 10 when you aren't really. Also not one of forcing you to buy them makeup. It's also not men brainwashing you to do it.. It's the media, magazines, models who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:38 AM
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I agree that both should exercise free will of course.. But how do you explain the stats regarding current dating behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:00 PM
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Isn't it possible the reason so many men are acting like it's is a result of what op is stating? The stats about 90 percent of women all sleeping with or dating the top 10 percent of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:58 PM
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True but those guys get the girl anyway regardless of how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:55 PM
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lol..then you have no idea what you are talking about. Its not overstated, the shit actually happens. Im an attractive/fit guy and the shit still happens. I have literally been berated by a woman for not being as materialistic as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:16 AM
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on..line...dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:02 AM
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I simply do..not...care if a woman gets upset at me not being able to catch what shes trying to throw at me. If Im not getting it, then be direct or show me an obvious sign. Im not going to care even a little bit, if you lose interest just because I dont pick up on your ever so little "hint".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:38 AM
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Kinda true..not completely though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:36 AM
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definitely can be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:34 AM
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No. Its just that so many men are now being labeled creepy and getting called out for "getting it wrong". Again, social media is a cancer on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:32 AM
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I mean...I want to give encouraging advice, but you are right in much of your post. At least from a statistics point of view. The only thing I can tell you is to NOT give up and become angry with women. The more you do, the less chance you have. I am having a similar but opposite experience. I am attractive and fit and do get a good number of matches/dates. HOWEVER, that does NOT mean any of them are right for me. I kept meeting women who simply do not want to commit to anything. The moment I br…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:02 PM
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No no...accept that you lied first,, then ask the other question. Dont deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:56 PM
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Social media. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:54 AM
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Certain laws need to change. Online dating and social media need to disappear. Eliminate the paradox of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:49 PM
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Someone who enjoys sleeping around (promiscuity), likely will not stay faithful as this would mean sleeping with the one person..."Why stop doing something they enjoy" kind of mentality..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:18 PM
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Bbut why blame TRP? Why not those who started it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:28 PM
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How is wanting fairness considered selfish? like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:27 PM
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Maybe in the grand scheme of things..but for them individually, its the best of a bad situation. Being a "moral" person but dying alone is not a good tradeoff anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:26 PM
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The fact you fail to follow your the conversation in your own thread, not to mention resorting to calling people names without contributing to said conversation ruins your credibility..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:17 PM
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wow...are so hopelessly wrong lol..However I am on your side about being against it. Unfortunately, as long as women sell/give it away, a thirsty man will be there to lap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:14 PM
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Dont have to get married and deal with the potential to lose half/all of your assets..thats a big one. If the laws changed you would see more marriages for sure. Whether they last, of course, thats the question. Again, I feel the problem is largely online dating/social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:10 PM
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WEllll....while I understand what you mean. If men simply said no to that, it would be obvious who is at fault here. Unfortunately both are at fault. Men are extremely sexual being by nature. Women know how to be sexy and how to exploit that in men to get what they want and we fall for it every time. So yes, women do open their legs, bt we also push in the peen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:08 PM
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God damn..who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:02 PM
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umm.. what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:59 AM
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If you are a man..you are really angry for no reason. Its really hard to have a conversation with you if all you doing is lashing out lol. The problem is BOTH sexes are at fault. I also think online dating is at fault for this as well. Women sell sex, and men pay for it. -- Problem Men and Women no longer want anything serious knowing they can have different partners. Mostly due to online dating. -- problem Online dating gave people more options for low effort. -- Problem There are more comparis…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:56 AM
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Same goes for women. They could stop giving it up so easily and contributing to this delinquency. I mean, sexual liberation, bad bitch something something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:46 AM
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The media... When someone hears Feminism, they think extreme left violent man bashing women. Because of twitter/facebook/youtube/tiktok all I see in regards to a feminist, are women who wish death to men or talk about how men are not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:43 AM
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Hm..this sounds more like a man bashing post.. Also can you blame men for assuming things like that given the dating culture today? If they are then fighting you when you decline, then yea you got me there. However its not just a men problem. There have been times I declined a woman just for her to get really pissed off just because of how attractive she thinks she is. This is a universal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:18 AM
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Social media. Thats what caused everything to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:35 AM
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They can, bit we don't know what happened.. The court rules based on the evidence. Rightfully so
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/21 11:48 AM
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