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| 5 | Direct game advocates?In my experience, direct game is best for day game and for girls <= 7 on the attractiveness scale. If you're going to stop a girl in the middle of the day with an indirect opener, it's going to be pretty tough to transition into an engaging conversation without at least some initial awkwardness. "Hi, you're gorgeous, I want to talk to you, what's your name?" let's her know what's up, will probably get a laugh and a bit of a blush, sub-communicates that you're a BOSS (if delivered properly), and … | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 10:58 PM |
| -1 | What are some "tricks" to build kino early in an interaction and also seems natural?When I approach a group, I try to find some lame excuse to hug at least one girl in the group in the first 10 seconds of opening. "Where are you from?" "Such-and-such place." "I love that city!" Joking hug. "What are you drinking?" "Such-and-such drink." "We got a badass over here." Joking hug. It's obviously bullshit, so it's funny. It also sets the frame that you're a fun care-free guy. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 01:03 AM |
| 1 | I am reading The Mystery MethodThe topics that Mystery discusses at the high-level are excellent. The low-level nitty-gritty details he provides work for HIM, but are very different from my style (and likely several other styles). The stages bit is spot on though. Attraction, comfort-building, seduction. Typically in that order. Basically, with seduction being the end goal (getting her back to your place), you need to have a solid foundation built in the previous two stages. If you've got her attracted but failed to make her … | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:49 AM |
| 3 | The most effective way to engage someone is to ask questions and then listen to their answers.Next time you're talking to someone, make it your goal to learn about them. Make them chat with you. Perfect advice. But... "How was Berlin? I'm thinking of taking a trip to Europe next month." "It was great! You totally should!" "Oh what school do you go to?" "Such-and-such school." "How was your exchange? A lot of work? Did your courses transfer well?" "It was hard work, but it was great!" "Are you glad to be back?" "Oh yeah!" Your questions can be sufficiently answered with one concise generi… | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 11:09 PM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)You would be surprised at how little most people actually care about what's going around them. We are all conditioned as individuals to think that everyone around us notices us, critiques us, identifies imperfections and casts you down for them. In actuality, they probably don't give a fuck. Thus, you being by yourself at a bar is probably a lot less awkward than you feel it is. For some more concrete advice, there was a solid opener that I saw posted on here earlier this week. "I'm out meeting … | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Has there ever been an established pick up "guru" that was truly introverted?Think of introversion and extroversion in terms of how someone's energy is expended and restored. The common misconception about introversion is that an introvert, by nature, doesn't understand social norms, dislikes being around people, and is uncomfortable to be around. This is garbage. Both introverts and extroverts can enjoy social interaction equally, but it affects them in different ways. An introvert expends energy when he spends time in social interaction. It has nothing to do with how s… | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 05:34 PM |
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