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IMHO the first thing to fix is your mental and physical health, having a girlfriend or having sex doesn't define you who you really are. ​ I feel like no women desire me and now I look in the mirror and wonder how I could have improve my game. ​ Could you please explain what are you looking? maybe you can already see something that could be wrong and can be fixed.
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:29 AM
1

I have some friends who girls just love. I cant get girls. Would it be a pathetic move to ask them to help and give me advice? ​ They are not your real friends.
/r/seduction15/06/20 03:33 PM
1

Don't compare yourself with others. ​ It seems that you're trying to find a list of steps or like a "to do" list, that doesn't exist. ​ Fwiw, I’m super ugly ​ This is not a good thing, your confidence must be really low and you have to work on that first.
/r/seduction08/06/20 01:42 PM
1

I don't make more money and I don't think I will because it's out of my hands. ​ But I'm fit, dress way better, got my social circles and felt in love with a sport, those things are showing success in the dating/sex scene.
/r/seduction07/04/20 02:51 PM
0

Back when I was a young adult, ​ You're still a young adult?
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:40 PM
2

I’ve always had to come to them ​ Which is okay, you engage, show your interest and that's it, don't chase if they are not interested.
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:20 PM
2

Working out will give you a confident boost, yes. But that will not guarantee you an automatic reaction, you just have to do the approach, not matter what.
/r/seduction07/02/20 10:29 AM
1

Your confidence is so low honestly, work on that first because you're only 19. Stop thinking about women and think about you.
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:55 AM
0

I'd say no, don't use drugs.
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:38 AM
3

That's an excuse, just go and talk with her if you find her attractive.
/r/seduction01/12/19 06:53 PM
2

im not sure if i should jump into the cold water ​ You should jump into the cold water, you will never know what will happen.
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:54 PM
0

My upvoted this thread just because I want to save the whole discussion somewhere, this needs to be downvoted.
/r/seduction14/11/19 10:39 AM
1

TLDR ​ Don't use dating apps and learn to socialize and the rest will come up eventually.
/r/seduction08/11/19 07:43 AM
2

Exactly this, you will never know before you approach her.
/r/seduction05/11/19 08:28 AM
1

Don't take OLD apps that serious.
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:46 PM
10

Please, i know it's hard but, you should not think about the only goal in life as a man is to get laid. There are so many things that you should work on, focus on that, your education, your body, your health, your social skills, get a solid inner social circle.
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:27 PM
1

Unfortunately, I was a bit of a late bloomer and didn't get my first girlfriend until 22. Which meant I really missed most of the 'experimenting' of college. ​ That's totally fine, don't see that as a blocking issue. ​ Personally is always awkward the first time when i have sex with a new partner, but do put a lot of emphasis on oral sex and enjoying her body before we go on the PIV part.
/r/seduction15/06/19 03:30 PM
1

Talk with her, in person. Don't use any social media app.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:34 PM
1

i cold approach every day and go out every single night. i approach girls everywhere i go, always. ​ It is hard to believe that in 10 years you did that and zero success, something must be missing.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:33 PM
2

Yeah, you should respond like wishing her a good day and it was cool to met her (i don't know the whole story so yeah).
/r/seduction03/05/19 08:04 AM
-2

I ended my relationship with last serious girlfriend...a girl I was with for 3 years. ​ Additionally, because I've been in relationship for so long, I've forgotten how to talk to other girls. ​ 3 Years is nothing, wait for more than 10 years. ​
/r/seduction06/04/19 03:28 PM
1

I had that conversation a few days ago with a girl, i asked (in person obviously) if she was dating other guys and she said no, then she asked to me the same thing right away, we agreed to go further, so yeah.
/r/seduction18/03/19 01:37 PM
1

Better to ask that in person.
/r/seduction18/03/19 01:34 PM
1

I saw this video early this morning, and it's so simple to spot what is really going on. ​ The fear of talking with a woman.
/r/seduction12/03/19 10:17 AM
2

36 questions that lead to love. ​ The thing is to mix up those amazing questions into the talk, they are too great to slide it in randomly.
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:18 PM
1

At your age, i don't think that hobbies/interest are that important.
/r/seduction04/03/19 04:04 PM
2

There's nothing defined yet so yeah, show your intentions with her and see how it goes.
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:36 AM
1

You should give us more context, you're dating this girl for how long? is a relationship? official? open relationship? non monogamous?
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:27 AM
49

This. ​ If a girl is interested in you, they will show it in so many ways that you just have to catch those opportunities.
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:44 AM
1

Instagram is a good place.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:57 AM
1

It is better to find an amateur photographer instead a professional one, i think they will put a better effort on natural shots. ​ better if is a girl.
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:49 AM
1

Just wanted to point something, is not that easy to find the right psychologist/therapist for you, so the best thing to do is to keep looking, like you said. Now try to find a therapist instead of a psychologist. ​ A therapist could be like a life coach, they could have different degrees in disciplines. ​ A psychologist works towards mental health and they will look for a diagnose.
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:46 AM
1

But, I have travelled so many places, met so many people, gathered so much socializing experience that I can tell from a mile away that I'll get rejected. And if I know, I won't bother coz I or no one likes getting rejected. ​ You should not care when you get rejected because you have a lot of experience socializing, it is weird that rejection affects you a lot. ​ sometimes I speak to some of them, they're friendly and talk for a while 10+ Minutes and you think all is good, but when you close fo…
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:16 PM
1

I see. Well, i know that those kind of actions sucks but please don't even pay attention to that, obviously those girls are not worth. Just keep trying like i said, work on your approaches, your tone of voice, the way you move, be respectful, gently and smile.
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:40 PM
1

I've approached so many women and was treated so badly...I completely lost interest in women ​ Can you share something about this? I've approached women in different environments like a bar, live concerts and meetups (language exchange) and i had some decent results and rejections, but they never treated me bad like insults or just a straight "no" or something like that.
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:10 PM
2

Everyone has different ways to see things!
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:59 AM
1

I'm a foreigner too, from south America to Europe and yeah, it's way different but you just have to adapt, not everyone is like that, i can guarantee you that. ​ Keep trying dude, just keep trying.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:45 AM
2

Yeah i understand your point, like two years ago i had that mindset to get laid the first time I've met with a women, i didn't like it because there was a lack of connection for me and it ruined the intimacy, i was feeling super gross and decided to stop that. ​ So now my goal is to work a little bit on connection before going intimate with them, for example i need two or three solid dates before going to bed. It is working well so far, better quality.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:42 AM
2

My motivations to keep doing what i love to do individually or with a group are not related to women in general, i don't have that mindset that says "i need a woman to be complete in my life". ​ My motivations are to be a better road cyclist, be a better Airsoft player and on other things. ​ The thing is you don't have to give up on what you really want, if you give up. You will not escape from that dark hole.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:37 AM
3

Break with her. ​ There's no need to confront the guy, it's not worth your time. Better work on yourself for a while and relax.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:29 AM
2

I always push for first date sex ​ Cool, but that's not my style or my way of thinking. ​
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:19 AM
1

Those apps are very superficial.
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:54 AM
1

Exactly, but you must be super clear with your intentions as soon as possible, not wandering around with different topics while talking with a woman that you're interested.
/r/seduction13/02/19 08:44 AM
2

Remember something, most of the women out there will never say explicitly that you're attractive, you need to do some actions to show intent and they will follow that.
/r/seduction30/01/19 09:40 AM
1

Never had any woman consider me attractive enough to date or anything so ​ How do you know that?
/r/seduction30/01/19 09:16 AM
3

If that's your way of thinking, you're doing it wrong. ​ You need to boost that confidence up.
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:55 AM
3

Mix eye contact and looking at her lips when she's talking.
/r/seduction29/01/19 05:38 PM
1

Don't use OLD apps.
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:21 PM
1

Is anyone on here speak English as a 2nd language? ​ English is my second language. ​ Currently living in Italy, so Italian is my third language. And to me is very easy to start a simple conversation with a woman that you're interested in, one of the first topics will be "You don't have an Italian accent, where are you from?". ​ With that topic you can talk for a very long time and even showing your intentions with your native language and then translate it or even they can understand you. ​
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:14 AM
0

This BS has to stop seriously. ​ Please talk with women in person.
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:52 AM
1

When it comes to interact with new people, you need to have like a blank state of mind and just go, so your brain will not have the right amount of time to overthink things, it might be awkward but you should not give a single fuck about it.
/r/seduction28/01/19 02:06 PM
3

For some time I've been following one girl on ig and I think she's cute but I just can't think of good start of conversation. ​ Go out and talk with women in the real world. ​
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:44 PM
2

Find a hobbie and a sport that you'll fall in love because that you make you more valuable and will boost your confidence, in the meantime build a solid social circle because that will be your foundation to get better with social skills.
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:17 PM
2

You're calling yourself a loser, so yeah you have to start with that first before you make a move into any women.
/r/seduction28/01/19 11:19 AM
1

The next thread will be. ​ "How to game on Microsoft Excel?"
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:23 AM
2

Not everyone will want to check you on any social media, you could go out by yourself like going to a bar just hanging out and try your best to socialize, focus on building new social circles first before you want to get a woman.
/r/seduction27/01/19 07:04 AM
1

I remember when I first signed up for Tinder ​ Annnnd end it right there.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:28 AM
1

Something is wrong, you've approached 100 women and you still have the mindset that you're "ugly" ? ​ You're lying or what?
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:09 AM
-12

Ignore her and talk with a girl you find interesting in person then.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:32 PM
36

Be a man and talk with her IRL.
/r/seduction21/01/19 01:16 PM
1

women are currently responsible for 100% of my suffering, sadness and depression. ​ Maybe we're missing something else on your post, why are you saying that? ​
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:16 PM
2

Great for everything when it comes to interact with other people, seducing women is not the only thing to do out there.
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:05 AM
5

Books are really great and all that. ​ But please remember to do some actions after you read them.
/r/seduction12/01/19 07:49 AM
2

Don't overthink and just do it!
/r/seduction09/01/19 03:57 PM
3

I did a direct approach while doing my commute to work, she works near to me so it was easy to see her all the time around, strong signals were detected so i had to do it no matter what, we went to lunch together one time and said that i would like a FWB relationship with her because i don't really want to spend that much energy into a serious relationship and she openly agreed. ​ We normally setup a sexy night (including a pre - romantic dinner in a restaurant) at least three times per month. ​…
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:41 PM
3

Focus on your education, but it doesn't hurt that you approach/flirt with girls. But remember, school is top priority.
/r/seduction24/12/18 12:14 PM
1

Don't go if you don't like it, simple as that.
/r/seduction21/12/18 11:03 AM
1

It's gonna be alright, having sex the first time with a new partner is really though, but my suggestion is to do a lot of foreplay and a lot of cuddle. ​ Just don't user her to shoot if you know what i mean, you can please her in so many ways.
/r/seduction18/12/18 01:59 PM
1

Approach women IRL.
/r/seduction13/12/18 10:40 AM
3

Younger guys or teenagers tend to do that, i think is pretty normal.
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:51 AM
1

Hey dude you need to chill, i know it's hard but the first thing you need to do is to improve yourself, try new things, please focus on yourself always! ​ I don't want to get into the details, but i got destroyed really hard a year ago, I'm on my 30's and now I'm focused on being happy by myself, you don't really need a woman/men for that. ​ Wanted to add something, adopting a dog could do wonders on you, you will learn to love so much and you will have a buddy always there with you.
/r/seduction11/12/18 09:09 AM
4

I dropped out of college to work as a car salesman to improve my social skills and I'm going back to college once I have honed them. ​ IMHO that's not a good perspective of college, having a degree is way more important than a vagina.
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:43 AM
1

I'm seeing this trend way frequently, stop using social medias and get real, talk with women/men IRL.
/r/seduction08/12/18 02:03 PM
2

Those apps are a waste of time, if a man wants to grown up or be better, the perfect thing is to get real and talk with women IRL and work on themselves.
/r/seduction05/12/18 11:45 AM
2

Yep, you are your own biggest project, getting laid or a woman/man will not change that.
/r/seduction27/11/18 08:40 AM
1

I'm comfortable when naked, because I need to restock my wardrobe with proper fitting clothes god dammit. I'm losing a lot of weight so yeah
/r/seduction22/11/18 05:51 PM
1

Something is wrong with you dude.
/r/seduction22/11/18 05:49 PM
0

Ok.
/r/seduction21/11/18 02:50 PM
0

You're not going anywhere with that mindset.
/r/seduction21/11/18 02:44 PM
1

Dating apps are artificial, it will make you weaker.
/r/seduction21/11/18 02:43 PM
1

Great list, if it's applied correctly we will have a lot of talking for a LOT of time.
/r/seduction20/11/18 11:41 AM
2

I've missed clearly good opportunities to approach for sure, i know that it was my fault on not to react and go for it. I just stopped approaching recently, the last approach ended in a FWB and I'm still maintaining that relationship and i feel that i don't need to seduce other women because I'm filling all my necessities with her, i think that's a bad mindset. ​ So i think i should go and start approaching again. ​
/r/seduction14/11/18 09:27 AM
1

Well written. ​ There's a ton of people that just stay all day long inside their homes and just using online dating apps for days, weeks, months or years, others they are always out with friends of the same gender but they don't interact or seduce, and then they just use the apps to try to catch something. ​ Real life is hard, yes. But by just even trying you will become a better person.
/r/seduction14/11/18 09:19 AM
3

Exactly, physical attraction is super important while doing cold approaches.
/r/seduction12/11/18 11:45 AM
1

I see. ​ Well, a video would be awesome because by just posting your experience it will be hard to understand what is happening. ​ And by the way i congratulate you for those numbers, that's a LOT of effort you're putting up and keep doing it!
/r/seduction12/11/18 09:28 AM
1

I still have to read that book, is on my shelf but i need to finish another book, i can't read two or more books at the same time. Thanks for your opinion about it!
/r/seduction12/11/18 09:12 AM
1

should I just get someone to record my infield with a camera so I can see if maybe the issue is with my body language? ​ It will be nice to see a video while you're doing the approach and what happened on those instadates. ​ Because having already those instadates is great, but i'm not really sure what are your objectives though, like having a girlfriend or just some hookups.
/r/seduction12/11/18 09:02 AM
1

Ok first off, chill dude. ​ My suggestion is to go to a therapist, because you need to change your mindset. In the meantime hit the gym or outdoor sports, it will be great for you. ​ Work on yourself first, no one will do that for you.
/r/seduction31/10/18 07:43 AM
7

Don’t be afraid to take risks, especially in places where things may seem ultra risky! ​ Well writen there dude, taking risks is great for everyone. ​
/r/seduction30/10/18 09:13 AM
2

I don't see any problem with that, go with a friendly approach first and slowly work your way up, don't even care about what others thinks about you while doing it. ​ If it will be your first time doing it, then try to not be a creepy.
/r/seduction30/10/18 09:11 AM
1

Personally in don't have any standards on the physical part, but i'm not interested on highly obese type of girls, the thing that sparks me is the way they look or walk around, the more simplistic way of life, the better for me.
/r/seduction30/10/18 09:09 AM
1

Approach anxiety or the fear of something else.
/r/seduction27/10/18 04:58 AM
3

Yep. I've missed at least three solid opportunities, but that's part of the whole process.
/r/seduction26/10/18 08:21 PM
7

Personally we went on a third date, we had intimacy that same night and early morning we talked about it, i went straight to the point that i wanted a FWB relationship because clearly we are not compatible in other things but sex. ​ At this point everything is going great. ​ By they way i met her when i was doing my commute, i approach her on the subway and we talked for a bit, she gave me her number and went for two dates without even thinking about sex, i just wanted to know her more and just …
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:33 AM
1

Thanks for sharing, I'll see the Ted talk later today.
/r/seduction23/10/18 05:38 AM
1

Exactly, but in this case we're not risking our lives when we talk to women, just that stupid thing called "rejection".
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:49 PM
3

That's part of the approach anxiety, your mind is tricking you so that works as an excuse to not do it.
/r/seduction22/10/18 04:50 PM
2

C'mon man, technology made us weak in a lot of aspects. ​ Yeah, but I'd rather think about to be part of those who likes to think outside of the box or break the comfort zone to try new things or get real. At first is super hard, i know. But with the experience everything will become easier. ​
/r/seduction22/10/18 03:21 PM
4

but we seem to take it as normal. ​ Which is really sad, a lot of people, men or women rely only on those apps to find a relationship or a hookup, for some works just fine, but for others don't. Personally i don't use them because is too superficial to look at it. But i can guarantee you that there are a lot, a LOT of people that don't go out and stay at home using those apps without results, they don't realize that and they are stuck for years doing the same thing. ​
/r/seduction22/10/18 03:04 PM
6

Online Dating apps, for example Tinder.
/r/seduction22/10/18 02:53 PM
14

Yup, and those who only uses OLD apps staying at home all day.
/r/seduction22/10/18 02:25 PM
1

I'm 16 and I never had a girlfriend nor cared to approach a girl, it's a waste of time in my opinion. ​ Do you masturbate? that could be the issue or you're still too young. ​
/r/seduction22/10/18 07:35 AM
16

You're not getting the point. ​ If you want to approach or talk with a woman that you find cute, hot or interesting. You have to do it in the best way possible, fear is one of the worst things ever that can happen to a man, a woman can smell that from far away, like those lions. You have to build enough confidence to go straight to your objective and no one will stop you.
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:48 AM
3

Don't, go out and meet women/men.
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:12 PM
6

Of course, i don't see any problem with that.
/r/seduction18/10/18 01:55 PM
1

Keep trying
/r/seduction17/10/18 10:29 AM
1

Yeah, that's true and i know some guys that have the same mindset and they fail really hard.
/r/seduction14/10/18 08:48 PM
1

For so long I thought it was about your physical appearance and what you say. ​ Physical appearance is great for us because we have to be a better version, with the right mindset and not brag about it. ​
/r/seduction14/10/18 08:35 PM
2

I feel like shit. Anybody have any feedback for me? ​ You can't simply give up after trying to the first time, just keep going out and approaching, never give up. With the time you will see that you will improve your speech, body language and reading. ​
/r/seduction14/10/18 05:48 AM
34

> become a better person ​ There are a lot of people that they just want to get laid and that's it, yeah, sometimes you can do it. But overall, we have to improve to be the best version of us so we can achieve so many things, including seduction.
/r/seduction14/10/18 05:25 AM
1

You did the first move which is great, but don't chase her.
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:12 PM
1

It was a pleasure to read the whole post. Good job there and thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction12/10/18 09:19 AM
3

Visual verification is super important at first.
/r/seduction12/10/18 06:54 AM
2

You should stop caring about others and focus on yourself, you have to persist because that will make you strong. If you give up it will be over, never give up.
/r/seduction12/10/18 06:53 AM
2

I agree. ​ That can be applied for everything, not only about seducing/approaching a woman, anyone can read a lot of books, have a master or PhD on something, but without experience in the field. It will be hard at first.
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:15 AM
3

Ok
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:21 PM
2

Before you approach, look for something interesting/cute on her outfit. Approach her and say that she looks great with that and that's why you approach her and then introduce yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/18 05:14 PM
1

There's no specific number.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:59 AM
1

Yes, you nailed it. ​ Social skill is super important because you will learn how to talk with someone else basically, one suggestion that is amazing and fun is to get into improvisations classes. You will know so many people and at the same time you will learn a lot.
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:22 AM
1

Oh yeah, forced smiles are...like you said, insincere or forcing something. I meant to smile naturally, be positive, thinking on good things.
/r/seduction03/10/18 10:14 PM
9

Keep smiling always, everyone will notice that. I can guarantee you that. We're living in a society where everyone on the street has a grumpy or sad face, take the advantage of that.
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:36 PM
18

Send the smile first to see if they answer with a smile.
/r/seduction03/10/18 02:31 PM
1

I mean when it comes to women obviously I'm not very good looking You're keep writing that and that's not good, everyone out there has it own looks, the thing is that you have to own it right.
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:06 AM
1

I'm sure it doesn't help that I'm not a very good looking guy but I've done what I can within my control to compensate for that. ​ So you're working out? what type of body you have? being fit or muscular and well groomed takes a huge part on the first sight verification of any woman out there, so you must fix that. ​ And if you're depressed or something like that when talking to a woman, they can smell that from far distance.
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:48 AM
0

I'm 32 and i have some success when it comes to "dating", but turns out that i'd rather have some FWB instead of fully committing again into a real relationship. Remember something, it's a numbers game, if a girl is not interested in you, move forward and don't chase her, there are plenty of womens out there looking for any type of relationship, obviously they are not openly communicating that so you have to work your way.
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:29 AM
1

No, you don't. Don't lie to us.
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:18 AM
1

Boost that confidence dude, start it right now or you're going down to hell pretty soon. There's no excuse.
/r/seduction03/10/18 07:54 AM
2

Dang dude, you detected your mistakes on your approach right?
/r/seduction18/09/18 05:58 PM
2

Remember something, go with a mindset that she is another good looking girl despite her work, chill and go for it!
/r/seduction18/09/18 10:13 AM
0

Why are you looking at the past?
/r/seduction13/09/18 10:13 AM
-1

My hands are trembling just typing that. You need professional help dude. I have approached so many girls and still cannot seem to find one that will stick around. I think you're lying. ​
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:54 AM
1

Nope, move on and forget her.
/r/seduction04/09/18 09:45 AM
2

It is a terrible idea because you're investing too much into a girl that you don't know if she's really interested or not. Better to go classic and grab a coffee or a ice cream and then just talk.
/r/seduction04/09/18 07:51 AM
8

Yes, a huge difference for you. You're showing a good memory capacity, some people will realize that you remembered their names and that will separate you from those who just say "hi".
/r/seduction03/09/18 06:56 PM
1

Throwing yourself into rebounds won't satisfy you. it might make you more down, even. ​ This is so true, even you might hurt the other person. ​
/r/seduction03/09/18 02:52 PM
1

Yeah, the fears are dominating you. You need to wake up and destroy that fear, i know it's not easy, but you have to if you want to succeed.
/r/seduction24/08/18 06:46 PM
2

Some people says that you don't approach a woman with headphones on, but i'll just say that try it at least, obviously in a non creepy way.
/r/seduction24/08/18 02:17 PM
1

It happens to me too, i'm struggling while talking in Italian and it's my third language, i can speak in English and Spanish without problems, for example a few days ago i approached a girl from the same country as me on the subway while going to home, it worked pretty well and even we went for a ice cream but the whole conversation was in spanish and sometimes in english for fun. ​ I guess i still need more experience with my Italian, because sometimes i get stuck because i don't know what shou…
/r/seduction24/08/18 02:14 PM
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Even in person on a cold approach, if you are completely her physical ideal, it can be verr hard to mess it up! This. ​ The first contact will be the most important one, specially for physical attractiveness, if she's attracted to you, she will give you an opportunity, so don't mess with that.
/r/seduction22/08/18 03:26 PM
2

Don't think about numbers dude, just go for it and try your best!
/r/seduction22/08/18 10:08 AM
5

There you go, that's why you're not interested in women at all.
/r/seduction21/08/18 06:01 PM
8

You watch porn or do you masturbate? those two can destroy the desire of a woman/men.
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:51 PM
9

No, you're not the only one.
/r/seduction18/08/18 12:36 PM
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Alright dude so don't take the risks.
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:10 PM
2

how exactly did you know or feel that her smile was more than a customer service smile? You just go for it, don't even think about that and do your best.
/r/seduction17/08/18 05:56 PM
2

Good job! keep doing it!
/r/seduction17/08/18 09:52 AM
4

I think looks do matter a little bit when it comes on the first contact, because women needs some clear validation to see if you're not a creepy guy or bad looking one. Looks and charisma are super important.
/r/seduction14/08/18 09:59 AM
1

You have plenty of free time on week days and weekends, get hobbies, go to any bar around your area, go to meetups. This is not a "game" by the way, OLD apps are for losers so go out.
/r/seduction14/08/18 09:57 AM
2

It's a super generic question with no real sense.
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:40 PM
2

I think this post should be removed.
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:38 PM
17

Don't text, talk with the girl in person.
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:38 PM
0

I didn't read the whole text but the tittle is enough for me. Yes, you should man up always!
/r/seduction09/08/18 06:37 AM
1

I don't know where to start That statement is so vague, you already started having hookups with girls, some of us don't, so we have to start doing something about it. That being said, you already complete a good chunk of that road. Now about the quality of girls is another thing, like other redditors said, maybe you're not looking for the right target though. That depends on which environment are you approaching those girls, correct me if i'm wrong, but if you're hooking up in a club, the qualit…
/r/seduction07/08/18 09:33 AM
1

Yeah you can try, but you will keep trying to do it and not even trying real things, not through a social media app.
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:57 PM
2

IMO you should avoid any social media thing and get to know women IRL.
/r/seduction06/08/18 04:11 PM
2

Don't let this PUA noise confuse you. This is really important, be yourself while approaching girls on any environment.
/r/seduction06/08/18 03:28 PM
2

You're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction03/08/18 07:00 PM
3

Most women my age have things to do like a job or kids to take care of. You're just writing that and it sounds like an excuse for not even try it. It's risky because you never really know how old some of these girls are. Yet another poor excuse, or age is really that important to you and why is that a risky move? A potential risk for me is if my own life is taken into consideration.
/r/seduction02/08/18 01:31 PM
2

That's not the idea though. You improve your life because it's needed for self-improvement, you need to be happy yourself always, it's not like a woman will approach you.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:12 PM
1

Yeah i got your point, sometimes is hard to notice all the mistakes but remember something else, not everyone will be attracted to you so you just keep going, doing your best no matter what.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:55 PM
3

You will never know, just do it.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:40 PM
1

You just have to keep trying and fix your mistakes while approaching.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:40 PM
4

too bad I'm a 30 year old virgin. Can't do much. Yeah...boost that confidence, you're not on the right path if you're saying that.
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:24 PM
1

You can do things like this. I will do that a few times, it seems like it's for a good cause!
/r/seduction21/07/18 02:32 PM
2

I don't, but the books are pretty cheap on Amazon.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:48 AM
2

Like the other redditor wrote, you will need only those 3 books, the rest is all about you being outside and apply all the things on those books, which is the hardest part but you need to do it.
/r/seduction17/07/18 09:57 AM
4

I'm straight too, sorry.
/r/seduction12/07/18 02:00 PM
2

Fear is a motherfu×€$%. But we need to overcome that fear.
/r/seduction11/07/18 11:21 AM
2

Yeah it's way different, because on the street you need to act fast or the chance or mojo will be gone.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:53 AM
1

but when you're a hormonal teenager you think it's as good of an opener as any Well, i don't think it's something related to being a teenager, it's just a simple mistake that can happen to anyone. Don't worry about that!
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:46 AM
1

You tried what? asking her age first? If that's a affirmative answer, in a highschool dance it's obvious that the population there will have a certain range of age, it think.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:37 AM
1

Yeah hehe
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:25 AM
1

Yeah, it is harder to approach girls and start a conversation of any topic, but eventually you will get there. But don't ask their age at first.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:09 AM
2

Dude, you are already winning by doing approaches and talking with them, just keep doing it!
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:51 AM
2

This, start with a conversation, you know, chilling and then you can ask their age.
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:49 AM
1

Yeah i know, it's easier to find those kind of meetups because there are a lot of them everywhere, specially in big cities.
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:44 PM
1

It's because everyone is uptight as any event that is about "business" "high finance" "pretending to know what blockchain is" and all this other forced corporate bullshit just sucks the wind outta ya. Corporate syngergy doublespeak is the opposite of sexy. It's a boner killer. Keep in mind that i went to a super small group for spanish speakers of any level.
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:41 PM
13

This is not related to get a girl, but it can help you in different ways though.
/r/seduction09/07/18 01:33 PM
1

Same to you! The most important thing is to not close yourself to new things/challenges/opportunities/risks.
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:40 PM
3

Yeah, same, i'm redoing my whole social circle and it's hard, but i'm getting there.
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:34 PM
5

The main scope of this book is to basically get friends/socialize and be noticeable through some actions described in the book. It's not about getting a girl though, people may get confused.
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:28 PM
1

Yeah i understand now, but look, i'm 32 and this weekend i had the chance to break my bubble because i went to a meetup, a pretty small meetup with around 8 people about talking in Spanish. The good thing is that i was the only native speaker there plus south American, i was like the center of the whole group attention and it felt good. At first, while looking for the bar, i was really anxious, but man...i had to do it.
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:45 AM
2

going to networking events is... painful :) What you mean by "painful" ?
/r/seduction09/07/18 09:56 AM
45

By the way, the book is really good. I'm reading it and starting to apply some things, i still have more than a half of the book that i need to read, but it's really well written! EDIT: I think this is a repost.
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:45 AM
1

I have been trying online dating Yeah, my suggestion is not to use online dating, get enough confidence and start approaching girls on the street, bar, or any other environment you want. It will be hard at first, but don't worry, that's normal.
/r/seduction05/07/18 01:05 PM
2

You're right, so the mindset will be like just keep trying and doing the best you can.
/r/seduction05/07/18 08:06 AM
44

But if you don't care, why approach them I think the correct mindset is just to do the approach in a best way possible no matter what are the results after that. So if you don't care about the result, the whole approach process will be smoother.
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:51 AM
1

I'm a little worried because I have no matches and I've been usung it for about 4 days swiping every 12 hours. Hah, i have been using Tinder for 5 months and zero matches so far. But the best thing to do is to start approaching girls and going out by yourself. Obviously with great confidence.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:28 AM
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This is such a weird question though and it doesn't belong here.
/r/seduction27/06/18 12:57 PM
2

I know it's hard at first, but you need to try dude! be strong to destroy that wall!
/r/seduction26/06/18 03:31 PM
1

First off, if you feel like a loser, you need to fix that. Second, sometimes you need to take risks, do something outside of your daily bubble.
/r/seduction26/06/18 03:12 PM
1

79/104 Went successful Out of that 79 I went of 32 dates( some never responded) Out of those (32) I slept with 18. Out of those 18 women 5 could’ve been my girlfriend. Interesting numbers, but i wonder what was/is your objective though, like looking for a long term thing or do you have some specific things to look?
/r/seduction26/06/18 11:00 AM
1

What if I don't have any friends to go out with? It doesn't matter, it's better to go out by yourself but, it will be harder though, but i think it will be worth it!
/r/seduction26/06/18 09:49 AM
1

Why you should even care about what others said about you?
/r/seduction21/06/18 11:07 AM
1

I have to agree on that, using a suit or any formal clothes, people around you will realize that you may be a more serious person than the others. It's not related to approaching girls, but when i have to go to a serious meeting in my job, i always use a suit because it boost so much my confidence that when i have to speak, everything goes so well.
/r/seduction20/06/18 09:25 PM
1

Another thing that I would like to add is that your mission is to approach in a good way and don't even care about the results, you're just winning by doing approaches, keep that in mind.
/r/seduction20/06/18 07:14 PM
7

I don't know dude, i'd rather move forward than backwards.
/r/seduction20/06/18 12:41 PM
4

that doesn't come off like I'm some sort of desperate loser? You're being negative right there, which is really bad IMHO, you should not care what the other thinks, just make the move and play around that, obviously with positive mindset. Any place is suited for a approach, or let's be specific, a park, shopping mall, on the street, coffee shop, bar, club, book store and so on.
/r/seduction20/06/18 12:38 PM
10

Is that really necessary to say how much you earn?
/r/seduction19/06/18 07:24 PM
3

Never.
/r/seduction19/06/18 10:42 AM
1

I've never had a single match on tinder in something like one month Ha, i never had a match since i'm using Tinder since 6 months ago.
/r/seduction19/06/18 08:00 AM
1

One thing you can do is some eye contact, smile and wave to see if she answers with a wave, if that goes well, you can get up and ask if you can sit next to her.
/r/seduction19/06/18 07:26 AM
2

I might try to go to a couple of gaming bars in a city where i frequently go to see how it goes, it will be awesome to find a decent balance between genres.
/r/seduction18/06/18 12:29 PM
1

it's this nerd bar where only nerds (70% are introverts) go to. I though the majority of those people are at least 80% male, i went to a "gaming bar" in Austria like a month ago with some friends and was like that. I don't like nightclubs, pubs are okay though.
/r/seduction18/06/18 10:53 AM
1

Hey dude thanks for sharing, i will get the book for sure.
/r/seduction18/06/18 07:40 AM
2

I could also see that it would be different for me as a tourist, than if I tried to move there. Yeah, the difference between a tourist and someone who lives here but is not native is super different, pretty much they will know that. the stigma of being a Middle Eastern refugee/Muslim, you'll be in good shape without a lot of uphill difficulties. This subject is pretty though here, i mean really though that it seems a lot of people are being racist about it which is really bad, but at some point …
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:03 AM
1

My favorite is when I start code-switching; mixing my two weaker languages together. Interesting, i will read the whole concept today and start applying it! How would you compare the attitude in places like Rome, to Lombardy? The last time i went to Rome was for something related to work, like 2 years ago so i didn't have the time to explore it outside of that moment but i have to tell you something, the people here is super cold compared with south america, it seems that everyone is so sad arou…
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:41 AM
1

Sometimes i block myself when i speak in Italian because i need to think like twice to say some things right, if you know what i mean. It's my third language by the way. I'm in Lombardy! (Milan)
/r/seduction12/06/18 12:36 PM
4

Interesting video! I'm immigrant, well not 100% because my whole family is Italian but i just moved to Italy like 3 years ago and i was born in south america, so right now i'm working on my confidence to start approaching italian girls to see how it goes!
/r/seduction12/06/18 06:43 AM
4

Excuse me but, how old are you and your friends? Sounds pretty silly to me that your "friends" are doing that to you.
/r/seduction04/06/18 03:26 PM
1

I'm lacking on the "Have balls" part. It's the hardest part though.
/r/seduction15/05/18 07:51 AM
3

There is no appropriate age for doing those cold approaches. The issue comes from the fact that younger women, who are my age (18-24), are completely... put off by cold approaches. I get maybe one word answers, they stare at the ground, sometimes giggle before simply running off. Maybe there is something wrong while you are doing it, do you have a number on how many approaches did you do till now?
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:39 PM
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Of course it will be awesome, i might cry a little bit of happiness if a girl does that to me. I'm 31 male by the way.
/r/seduction14/05/18 08:20 AM
1

Hang out with confident guys This is a really good idea, be around with people who has a lot of positive energy. This is happening to me, my colleagues are kinda depressed or being negative for any reason. I mean they are good people and i will never stop talking/hanging out with them, but i'm trying not to be sucked into that negative environment.
/r/seduction10/05/18 08:53 AM
1

I have zero matches since i have been using Tinder, like 4 months ago. I think i need to add better photos though, or i'm old (31), ugly or something like that.
/r/seduction09/04/18 06:57 AM
2

Pretty much I don't have the balls to approach a girl in the middle of the street while going to work.
/r/seduction01/04/18 08:47 PM
1

Hey dude thanks for sharing all that material with us. Now all i have to do is to try.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:12 AM
1

Zero matches and i have been using it since 6 months ago, i do the daily swipes. I think the weakest point of my profile are the photos.
/r/seduction19/03/18 01:17 PM
1

It's up to you man but i would not date someone from the same office, later it will be really hard.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:56 PM
4

Yeah dude, you're so fucking right. All i have to do is fucking TRY I lost a huge oportunity yesterday to talk with an amazing girl that sometimes i see on the street when i'm going to work, she was walking alone to her office, without headphones. I was walking behind her a little bit far, i just had to say "hi, excuse me" and then just following if she was interested... Hopefully i will have the balls to do it when i see her again, i don't know when but yeah.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:54 PM
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