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1

The fact you even responded to her text when she stood you up shows her you have no respect for yourself. The only acceptable text I'd respond to would be an actual apology w a reason and a suggestion for a new time to meet. The fact she's saying lol about standing you up is ridiculous
/r/seduction14/07/26 02:54 PM
1

Hmm interesting. Also need to make a distinction here between short average and tall. 5'7 and under I'd call short, with >5'7 to <6'0 average and 6'0 or above tall. In my opinion even just between average and tall there's a noticeable difference in the amount of attention I see people get, let alone vs a short person. Regardless of height though, it does suck to feel invisible.
/r/seduction31/10/25 04:01 AM
2

5'10 is not short though lol
/r/seduction30/10/25 11:03 PM
2

Well this is just flat out wrong. Sorry to say but it's a huge advantage
/r/seduction30/10/25 10:54 PM
1

absolutely, does it go the other way?
/r/seduction29/09/25 12:36 AM
3

I'm not really fat persay but this thread is giving me great motivation to get in shape.
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:51 AM
1

Mate chill tf out I'm 10 years older than you and never been in a LTR
/r/seduction25/02/25 07:53 AM
1

Assuming you're only going for short term stuff then as long as you're a convincing liar I can't see why it wouldn't improve your chances. I myself am terrible at lying haha.
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:43 PM
11

Genius advice
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:59 AM
2

"If you are attractive then it's not hard to get laid" You don't say pal. Not a fan of these brag posts.
/r/seduction09/02/25 03:23 PM
12

Doubtful anyone notices if you add only an inch
/r/seduction03/01/25 03:54 AM
2

Yeah like this
/r/seduction31/12/24 01:50 AM
1

Oh that explains it, what's your point though
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:15 AM
19

Mate guy no.2 sounds like a flat out creep, never be guy no.2 Then again, being like guy no.1 will probably get you nowhere also, so you have to find a middle ground but I'd say middle ground leaning towards no.1
/r/seduction17/12/24 03:03 AM
2

Every time you swipe right you get a match? Are you harry styles or somethn
/r/seduction17/12/24 02:21 AM
7

Terrible advice, no guarantees he approaches, you don't want to act needy or desperate but women are allowed to approach
/r/seduction05/12/24 12:41 PM
8

Thumbs up is like the worst possible reply
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:27 PM
2

This
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:27 AM
4

Unwise, retain that energy and normal dopamine levels.
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:45 PM
1

5 is average, 7 is above average. It doesn't work in percentiles, that would mean 10% are 9 or above which isn't true. You can usually gain like 2-3 points looksmaxxing imo.
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:11 PM
0

dont be ridiculous absolute clown you are
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:57 AM
1

put yourself in situations where you can practice. read about some good skills and habits and try to implement them, eg. good eye contact. ultimately its just practice, takes a long time, i need to follow this advice as well haha.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:01 PM
1

no, unless they are crazy/excessively desperate/needy, then maybe.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:50 AM
2

massively
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:44 PM
5

damn, you're not wrong
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:33 PM
2

I mostly agree but I think there's a lot you can do to maximise your own looks and vibe.
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:09 AM
6

Exactly
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:14 AM
11

you're deluded, a lot of guys have very low standards and women usually go for the small percentage look at literally any statistics and they will correlate this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:05 AM
1

yeah just dont freak out and come off really insecure. learn to brush off the lightly rude stuff. obviously if its a lot worse then thats a big red flag.
/r/seduction23/11/21 02:38 PM
1

Idk what to say mate nothing wrong with being respectful I am too but timid you can work on but it will take time. Keep building yourself up and keep practising trying to be less timid I guess. But who you are is who you are so don't pretend to be someone you're not either people will see right through that. But you can gradually "evolve" yourself as a person and your personality. Perhaps slowly try building up by starting small and trying to get more and more out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction23/11/21 01:35 AM
1

Probably not, I don't know if you mean this in a positive or negative sense but I still have a lot to work on, I'm definitely getting better with eye contact though. For me I need to turn theory moreso into application.
/r/seduction23/11/21 01:28 AM
1

try getting yourself out of your comfort zone a bit more and hopefully after a bit of this you'll subconsciously realise that whatever happens you'll be okay and become more confident here. there are some people out there who teach game, maybe try out following their advice, idk. easier said than done of course.
/r/seduction23/11/21 01:15 AM
1

Through practice and working on socialising, health/fitness, fashion/grooming, furthering your career/finances, other self improvement eg. reading books or learning a new skill, in theory you should naturally become more confident. But yeah mastering eye contact, posture, not being a social pushover (be yourself/genuine) or really sensitive (if you are really sensitive then maybe try to relax your boundaries just a bit) ought to help a lot in appearing confident. tbh once you can internalise goo…
/r/seduction23/11/21 01:12 AM
6

i guess just evaluate in your head which kind of insults are too much and which aren't really a big deal if you deep it and then yeah if anything slightly rude or insulting gets said kinda just try to ignore it and kind of confidently brush it off in a way where you're like confident in yourself and obviously what they said is clearly wrong so you disregard it. obviously if they are crossing lines then don't be a pushover and let them make genuinely offensive insults. but yeah try to ignore ever…
/r/seduction23/11/21 12:58 AM
94

work on your social skills and work on your health and aesthetics. ie: get in shape, present yourself well (style and grooming) and get out there and talk to people. in terms of appearing confident work on your eye contact in particular but yes posture is important too. also having a thick skin, dont be easily offended and dont act like you like everything they like if you dont actually, be genuine.
/r/seduction22/11/21 10:32 AM
135

Not everyone has integrity I suppose
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:10 PM
2

Cheers
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:32 AM
1

What's a near beer?
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:26 AM
1

what if you're on a no artificial sugar no soft drink diet? order a glass of water? lol
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:45 AM
13

His mates GF's friend.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:00 AM
2

she was subtly signalling to you to talk to her
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:11 AM
2

Big red flag
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:46 AM
2

who cares, he didnt kiss them or act on it hes a married man
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:06 AM
10

Because it makes you seem more genuine and like you don't give a fuck which in turn makes them feel more secure around you. If you're giving them shit it means you aren't sucking up to them.
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:24 AM
2

Ask the girl what she prefers
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:50 AM
1

when i say messaging i just mean my friends, i'm pretty inactive lol perhaps they are insecure about someone messaging other girls, thats definitely something, though i dont think thats the main thing
/r/seduction19/10/21 11:14 AM
17

You worded what I said a lot better its this
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:58 AM
4

They want guys who don't give a fuck about being validated and are too busy living their good lives to spend a lot of time posting on instagram.. Social media inactivity possibly suggests someone who lives too in the moment to take photos all the time and update a profile, also perhaps someone who doesn't really care what others think of them, they just do their own thing, which is a trait I'm led to believe women love. Personally I only really use insta for messaging :)
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:58 AM
1

Huh? No I'm same age and 0 interaction with women in an intimate way.
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:46 AM
1

i can relate in many ways, good luck!
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:31 PM
1

jokes on you im from melbourne 😭
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:09 AM
6

not a woman but i agree this shit is predatory behaviour and it would be the bold thing and right thing to do to step in. but before next time best thing to do would be to talk to him about it and call him out on it, but not in an accusatory way.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:01 AM
1

agree
/r/seduction07/10/21 01:40 AM
6

It's hardly the top 20% of women more like the top 50-60% looks-wise.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:07 PM
2

:)
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:54 AM
5

cheers for this, helpful
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:23 AM
6

cool post, GO FOR IT
/r/seduction24/09/21 04:25 AM
1

Yeah exactly.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:35 PM
12

4'6? thats bloody tiny for an adult woman lol if women your height or shorter are rejecting you cos of your height then they arent worth your time anyway. taller i can understand as some people just dont like that dynamic. fwiw my mate is 5'4 and does pretty well with women, he takes this approach of not giving a fuck about the outcome and giving it a go and sometimes it works for him. i guess work on yourself and work on your game try and improve socially is my advice you'll be right mate.
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:30 PM
2

was he skinny?
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:28 PM
1

Yes I know, I worded it slightly wrong to exactly what I meant, hard to atm though with covid restrictions where I live making it super hard to meet people, quite literally impossible till at least like early November.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:42 PM
1

23 just havent put any effort into it and dont know any girls through friend circles either went to an all boys school and yeah it just hasnt happened at uni i need to sort my own life out first anyway
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:50 PM
1

work hard on your studies/career, get in shape (exercise and clean up your diet) and when you feel comfortable to do so pick up some kind of hobby/activity where you can meet people if you want, apparently this is a really good way to get out of your shell. mate I'm in similar situation and I'm 23 (a little overweight but not that overweight, still gotta get into shape tho) but I'm not worrying or complaining about it, I know what I have to do (but sometimes starting things can be the hardest pa…
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:42 AM
1

fair enough mate
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:54 PM
5

I'm also 41, and fuck 18 year olds thats kinda weird bruh, age gap is huge, at least go for 23+ girls with some maturity about them. 18-22 yr olds still are often kinda immature. if you are specifically going after 18 yr olds then that sounds kinda predatory/creepy tbh. if you meet someone and have chemistry and they're pretty mature but then as it turns out they're young then thats one thing but if you're going to places specifically looking for legal age girls straight out of high school then …
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:30 AM
30

best post i've seen here
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:08 AM
2

You wanna try and BECOME more masculine rather than act but anyway I reckon just being comfortable in your own skin and with who you are, being your own man not changing your views to match people you are talking to (say what you honestly think but respectfully). Learn to maintain strong eye contact. Take care of your physical and mental wellbeing. Don't be needy or insecure. Don't get offended easily. Don't let yourself get intimidated by people's looks or status etc. Be respectfully assertive.…
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:15 PM
1

ikr
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:59 PM
1

i have a long way to go buddy but i know what i should be doing dont use what i've said to give yourself an excuse if you, even after getting to a decent place in life in terms of working on yourself, fail in this regard. plus i dont think i'm objectively good looking like you say you are i'm probably average maybe when i'm where i want to be that'd be above average. if you're good looking it'd definitely be easier to get a girlfriend and the bar would be a bit lower for the other things, though…
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:46 AM
2

i havent done all these things myself mate but i know what you're supposed to do. could do a whole post on this but i dont really put myself out there and right now i feel i have to focus on working on myself mainly. but from talking to people and reading and learning extensively it pretty much boils down to what i've said. work on yourself and create a life/world for yourself that women would want to be a part of, ie: healthy, you make a good living, you aren't boring and have cool friends. put…
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:37 AM
3

I’m still a fucking virgin at 23 hmm, yeah im 23 and aint had a GF or anything but there are people late 20s like that thats my point just relax, put yourself out there, work hard on yourself too and something will come and then it ought to be easier once you have some (more) experience
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:17 PM
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Mate if you really are "objectively good looking" then you need to stop being a bitch, get out there, you could pick up a hobby, join and club and socialise, thats a way to meet people, stop feeling down and fucking attack life. You've hardly missed the prime of your life, seriously this post is annoying bro. You're fucking 20 not 30. I think work on your whole self, maybe you're in shape but you're clearly lacking in other areas. You come across as an absolute wanker from your edit too btw.
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:59 AM
39

The logical thing to do is ask lol
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:33 AM
3

certainly not, unless they are so nervous that they act cold, unfriendly or even rude, then for sure it could be.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:59 PM
1

nothing wrong with having friends, unless it was impossible for you to see her in that way.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:46 AM
4

when you're both comfortable enough around each other kiss her and eventually the rest might follow.
/r/seduction10/05/21 03:42 AM
1

😮
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:58 AM
8

Goes both ways unfortunately. Better to try and meet people irl from getting involved in things, maybe joining a club or doing group lessons for some hobby or skill or just going to gatherings. A lot of people on online dating aren't people you'd want to date.
/r/seduction28/04/21 02:26 PM
5

damn thats actually half decent :)
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:41 PM
1

Damn
/r/seduction08/12/20 06:41 AM
12

The most successful people have failed time and time again.
/r/seduction28/11/20 10:20 AM
2

Dude I have plenty of friends but 0 female friends. Went to an all boy school and idk, my mates aren't the type to host houseparties either. Meeting ladies through social circles is impossible atm.
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:40 AM
16

what are good settings in your view?
/r/seduction27/11/20 05:02 PM
1

Yeah this, idk if you have the guts but maybe gesture then for them to come over/approach? u/seuoc
/r/seduction23/11/20 05:54 AM
1

wink at a guy or something haha
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:07 AM
1

a few, but none of them are chicks.
/r/seduction31/10/20 06:00 PM
2

it definitely gets your foot in the door
/r/seduction26/10/20 02:26 AM
2

join a dancing club or something like the other commenter said.
/r/seduction28/09/20 05:48 AM
5

its all about comfort and feeling safe and comfortable. if you can make/help girls to feel comfortable around you then your chances would improve a lot i'd imagine. but hey, i've never had a girlfriend lol and wont anytime soon being in lockdown. anyway, this is very important i reckon.
/r/seduction25/09/20 04:13 PM
4

brilliant post
/r/seduction25/09/20 06:52 AM
3

brilliant comment. very insightful.
/r/seduction25/08/20 11:19 AM
6

this boy's cold! true don!
/r/seduction10/08/20 06:55 AM
4

great idea man
/r/seduction01/08/20 06:12 PM
2

the bible of this subreddit haha
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:49 AM
2

Fair point, I'm just not sure you'll find many high quality women at nightclubs.
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:33 PM
1

Yeah but my friends aren't the sort to have parties unless it's someone's birthday and even then... not that often.
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:28 PM
1

But if you dont know any girls, then how would you meet them at your party? I mean I suppose you can get friends who know girls to invite them?
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:24 PM
1

Yeah but that's not the same. Difficult to talk to people cos of loud music, etc.
/r/seduction22/07/20 01:38 PM
9

but to be at some party, you have to be invited...
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:29 PM
0

If you don't care about her at all and don't want to be friends then sure whatever. But if you want to be friends at all then you seriously messed up here mate.
/r/seduction11/07/20 01:55 PM
18

Bro its not a big deal. Many are in the same boat well into their 20s let alone in highschool.
/r/seduction08/07/20 06:39 AM
1

Yep. Agreed.
/r/seduction27/06/20 05:33 PM
7

Yes very much so provided you are in decent physical shape (ie: not fat)
/r/seduction30/05/20 07:49 AM
2

good idea!
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:48 PM
2

Most accurate comment here.
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:50 PM
7

Mate these one night stands wont always be there for you but friends and family will. The way you are currently living your life, it would be so hard to get a long-term relationship. Unless you don't care about that. You need to repair your relationship with your family members, and make some cool friends. As they say, you are who you hang out with. Find a new hobby or passion (eg. play an instrument, read books, follow a sports team, play a sport, do dancing classes or cooking classes). Otherwi…
/r/seduction11/05/20 03:24 AM
1

female friends what if you dont have any female friends haha
/r/seduction10/05/20 12:56 PM
1

Finding a good match out there for women on tinder sounds like going to a Shelly beach and looking for a really nice/pretty shell, there are plenty of shells but you're looking for something that stands out and is worth keeping from your perspective. For a lot of guys, dating apps are more like fishing, pretty annoying to get one in the first place and then when you do its luck of the draw a bit as to whether or not its a good catch. You know there are plenty of fish out there but only some bite…
/r/seduction01/05/20 03:01 PM
1

Fair enough, was just saying I think statistically its far from guaranteed, probably more like 1/3 or 1/4 or something like that. Idk, maybe 1/2 even.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:52 PM
3

guarantees a date no way it guarantees one unless you're really smooth/charming, but your chances are way better. say 1/3 instead of 1/200 (just random numbers i pulled out).
/r/seduction30/04/20 12:42 AM
3

thanks for the comment, if it wasnt obvious already it makes it crystal clear how much work it is to get a date on tinder. having to think every reply through like an exam answer in the hope that it keeps the conversation going and her interested. frankly i've been steering clear of dating apps lately, just doing lots of isolation runs and home workouts.
/r/seduction30/04/20 12:41 AM
3

Hard to weed people out when there's only 2 or 3 in the first place.
/r/seduction28/04/20 01:40 AM
1

Talk less, listen more perhaps? Work out, not just to get stronger but also specifically to improve your posture, making it easier to naturally keep a good and confident posture. Dont pretend to be someone you're not though, you can become more masculine gradually i reckon but yeah be yourself still man. The way you've described yourself sounds a lot like me, and I'm super talkative and have also been trying to improve socially. I dont think its been killing how people look at me though, definit…
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:39 AM
1

no dont do this, dont be stupid, shit aint good for you.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:31 AM
1

Huh, that's really surprising. I thought Canada was a fairly progressive country. I was half expecting you to say some Arabic country like Dubai or something. Nevertheless, its pretty rare nowadays to be beaten up for being gay in a first world westernised country I believe, though people definitely do still cop shit for it.
/r/seduction22/04/20 08:50 PM
1

what city is this?
/r/seduction21/04/20 03:40 AM
3

This
/r/seduction19/04/20 02:45 PM
2

talk to her on the phone or facetime or something.
/r/seduction03/04/20 02:25 AM
1

Tall af and skinny, exactly what most chicks want I reckon. Sure better posture helps but this guy, I mean wtf, having that many chicks check him out in 1 day, that shit just doesnt happen when you're 5'10 and not exceptionally good looking. OP here is not a master of seduction haha, having good posture does probably help a bit though. but who on this subreddit didn't already know that. Good posture, eye contact, confidence, happy, relaxed, etc.
/r/seduction16/03/20 11:30 PM
3

she is the one that added me and said I was pretty. What?! BRo! Just be confident and shit and say pretty people should hang out together and meet up!
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:23 AM
3

Great stuff man!
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:35 AM
1

You waste so much time just trying to get one date though, let alone a few. Its just too much effort, way easier to just get out there and talk to people irl.
/r/seduction10/01/20 02:43 AM
12

tinder is terrible tbh
/r/seduction09/01/20 04:58 AM
3

Thanks man
/r/seduction08/01/20 03:12 AM
266

:O FOOL OF A TOOK!! edit: Thanks so much for the gold haha! :D
/r/seduction07/01/20 04:15 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction03/01/20 12:41 AM
1

Of course mate!
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:50 PM
3

Good for you mate but you seem so up your own ass in confidence that I wonder why you are even on this subreddit if all this were true.
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:18 PM
2

well i tried toning it down to every 3-4 days and not only is each "session" much better (imo) but i just dont feel like im lacking energy to do things near as much as i felt like at a certain point where i was going daily or even more some days. You just feel a bit more vitality and vigour for life ya know.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:42 AM
11

once a day is probably a little too much tbh, probably better for you to do it every 2-4 days if you are gonna do it.
/r/seduction10/11/19 12:13 AM
2

If she keeps flaking then its because shes not really interested, move on.
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:38 AM
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