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ADVICEMagicallypeanut/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 01:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONMagicallypeanut/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 07:17 PM
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Just talk to him. Ask questions about his responses. How was your day? Did you enjoy your lunch? Is josh at work still being a putz? Remember when we went to the lake a few Sundays ago? I really enjoyed that. Would you like to go again sometime?
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/26 04:26 AM
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You talk about how you can quit your job, raise kids, and have stability. While important, that is only part of a relationship. It reads transactional not romance. You need romance, too. Romance gets you through those rough patches that every relationship goes through. You talk about how he is introverted and not dominant. These sound like big things you want in a partner and that reads as incompatible. How would you feel about him if he lost his job? How would you feel if he got sick and couldn…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/25 10:26 PM
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You are 4 months in. He said he does want kids but doesn't care? Having kids isn't something you should jump into ambivalent. You don't want kids and are firm on that.. He is on the fence but may pick a side longer into this relationship. Do you want to be blindsided in 3 years when you are married and he wants kids? What happens then? You Gotta be firmly on the same page with this. The decision to have kids can make or break relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 12:53 AM
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First and foremost, you are 25 and survived a lifetime of trials already. You are not damaged goods. You are not worthless. You are priceless. you are a human and capable of deep love and compassion. You can't buy these things. They must be fostered and protected to grow. A real man, a good man, will see that and love you with all the trials you've survived. Loyalty counts for so much more than you know when it comes to men. Good men are out there i promise.You'll have to go through a lot of fro…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/25 05:36 PM
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Couples counseling isn't a bad thing here. You both have been through such tragedy and trials in a short amount of time. He could be processing the miscarriage in his own way leading to how he is right now. The cancer could also play a role here. This doesn't mean your marriage is failing, you both might just need a 3rd party perspective to help process it all.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 10:52 PM
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If you notice you want to anxious eat, do something that involves your mouth. By that I mean, brush your teeth, floss, chew gum, suck on a hard candy, drink water (much thirst is disguised as hunger), read something aloud, go for a walk (get away from the kitchen), swish mouthwash. If you REALLY need to eat something, stockpile fruits and veggies. Have some plain greek yogurt and frozen fruit to make a smoothie. Learn to prepare veggies that are tasty and make a good snack. I really like refrige…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 06:49 PM
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Compromise and communication are the most important things in a relationship. It is also important to take this transition slowly and truly consider all the things that go with it. Have him write out what his perfect red pill relationship looks like. Leave nothing out. Give every single detail. Then you read the list and take as much time as you need to research, learn, and consider it all. Make a yes for sure, maybe in time, and hell no not ever list. Rank the stuff you want to start (if any) a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 07:18 PM
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There isn't a huge rush to get to the end of a journey. Take your time and learn along the way. Growing in any way can be a tough endeavor. Set a heading and head that way. Be kind to yourself if you step off your path. Find your way back when you can or carve a new one. You got this!
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 06:58 PM
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She asked for opinions and I gave her mine. She sounds like she is trying to force herself into a type of experience and it is leaving her frustrated and dejected. Maybe just getting it out of her system and realizing how shitty one night stands are will help her get to where she wants to be by learning it first hand. She doesn't have to take my or anyone else's advice here. Mine probably won't be popular but perspective isn't always a bad thing either. She might read it and vehemently disagree …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 10:06 PM
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It sounds to me you aren't ready to settle down into a monogamous relationship. You admit to almost cheating and then breaking up because of those thoughts. It sounds like you aren't ready to a ltr. That is totally fine!! Get the one night stands out of the way so when you are ready, you can settle in with someone, satisfied with the partner you have. I think one night stands become exhausting after awhile because it is always someone new, nothing consistent. Eventually you might find yourself w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 09:58 PM
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https://www.bu.edu/articles/2021/do-covid-vaccines-affect-menstruation/ You aren't alone in noticing this issue. There is a study linked that aims to figure out why, if any reason, this is happening. I doubt there is a fertility issue longterm. Irregular periods could make it harder (but not impossible) to conceive. This is most likely temporary and will resolve. If it is causing you stress, speak to your obgyn about how to manage your symptoms for now (ibuprofen, multivitamin, etc.) Or hormonal…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 06:50 PM
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This might be the best bet. A lot of therapists will do an interview call of sorts so you can get a feel for goals and best fit. Use psychology today find a therapist too and sort by faith. It can also be narrowed down by insurance, gender, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 03:12 PM
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Also, he might just say no. That's nothing against you. There just wasn't a click. It happens. Be ready for that. That said, he will appreciate you being direct about your intentions, I'm sure.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 03:49 AM
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"I really enjoyed our lunch especially learning about (something he spoke passionately about or something that sparked your curiosities). I'd like to see you again, if you'd be interested. How do you feel about (meal) at (restaurant or a place)."
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 03:39 AM
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"Id like to get to know you better. Would you like to go out sometime?" Worst they can say is no.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 03:12 AM
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I was wondering the same thing. If all of your interactions with others are business related or the expectation is nonsexual, people might be less inclined to try to date you. Be in a dating environment or at least one that isn't work related. Take hobbies up that put you around people (safely of course!) Where conversation is about clients
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 11:47 PM
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Make more than you need. At best he is completely full and happy, at worst you have leftovers
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 06:46 PM
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Better to figure this all out now than when kiddo is 10 and things are getting meh in the relationship. Keep on keeping on!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 10:09 PM
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Also babies change EVERYTHING so congrats on any kind of sex life post baby! Relationships are active things to maintain not passive. Gotta pit the work in.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 05:59 AM
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I was in a similar situation to yours and things are on the mend. You can never take back what happened. You can only move forward. Sit down with him and genuinely apologize if you haven't already. Then ask him what he would want to see happen if he had a magic wand to fix it. Obviously perfection doesn't exist but it gives you an idea of what steps to take to mend the relationship. Mine were simple, keep on therapy and meds and give a heads up on my triggers. He started recognizing them as well…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 05:58 AM
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I googled something like board game play zip code. Might have to do some digging. If there is a specific game you like to play you could try searching that as well. Meet up might also work for you
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 06:49 PM
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Check your local library or consider volunteering somewhere. Do activities you like and you might find like minded people there. I like to knit and my library has a local knitters group that meets weekly. I enjoy board games so I found a local board game shop to play.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 03:45 PM
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I dont mean this sub i mean the one for men. Some people find that extremely toxic and believe this one to be equally toxic as well. Just perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 02:59 PM
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I think it's because this sub is associated with redpill men and everyone knows that place is toxic af.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 02:55 PM
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My only advice is to kind of be cordial with the., just like the poster above suggested. Ask about their life and work. My reasoning is that these moms could be moms of you child's friends. Being on okay terms with them means they might be more likely to get invited to birthday parties and sleepovers. I'm not in your shoes so I can't evaluate the situation further.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 04:23 AM
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I'm not sure your budget or anything but services like stitchfix have stylists that can help you piece together their outfits. Also, there's probably a personal style subreddit where you can post your wardrobe or something and people can give you ideas. Eventually you'll recognize a pattern of what goes well with what and also what you feel comfortable with. If all else fails, maybe ask your man to put together a few outfit combos he likes. Figure out what you like and don't like about them. Try…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/21 04:47 PM
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If you do nothing else, get a good facial sunscreen and moisturizer. Those are the minimum basics we should be wearing everyday.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 07:10 PM
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If he gets clingy and emotional during or after arguments it could be because he isn't being heard or the concerns validated. He could have existed in a childhood where speaking up meant being belittled so when he speaks up and you disagree or put him down he feels vulnerable and like he needs to seek your forgiveness instead of addressing the issues at hand to cause the argument. Validate his concerns, you dont have to agree but just acknowledge they exist. Calmly discuss, don't argue. Understa…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 08:51 PM
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There is nothing more feminine than having a baby! That is the most feminine thing we can do. Your body now is a result of that and so. Many. Men. Find a post partum body sexy af. You just grew and birthed a human-his child the ultimate gift of love. Embrace the process. :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 07:15 PM
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Have him get you first. Perhaps try a magic wand or another similar clit vibrator (Hitachi magic wand is my fav). Have him stimulate you in some way as well so he's not just watching.. teamwork!! Then once you're good you two get together. You might find you go easier and often as well with him since you're already more sensitive and receptive, so to speak.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 01:34 AM
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There are many places to get free or reduced birth control. Your college health clinic is the first place you should go. They have tons or resources and can either give you free stuff or direct you to the nearest clinic. Condoms are effective most of the time assuming they fit correctly. I love myone condoms because they offer a dozen or more sizes for guys to find the right fit. Birth control is very effective but does not protect against std. The best combo for nonmonagomus sex is birth contro…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 03:05 PM
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I get a hard wax done. I have my brows, sideburns, lip, and nose done every 8 weeks
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 02:04 AM
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Nope gave it up completely. Working full time, part time school, and a side hustle when there's more month at the end of my paycheck, I just don't have the time. My mental health was getting me because id see the dirt but I didn't want to spend my limited free time cleaning. I hired a housekeeping service to come by 2x a month and I have never felt better. No regrets
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/20 09:19 PM
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What a great question! If any of you are interested in her, check out RGB on hulu. Its a great documentary and they put much emphasis on their relationship together.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 05:32 PM
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Nursing! Excellent pay and you can do sooo much with it. Takes 2 years to get an rn at a community College.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 06:58 AM
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Id leave before you invest any further emotionally. He doesn't like the way you look and he made you feel bad about yourself. While looks arent everything somone being that critical of you to ask you to put your clothes back on is an asshole. You need not spend more time on him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 12:55 AM
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I think there might be a way to get it discharged. I remember reading about having it dismissed because of abuse. I have zero idea how it might work or the requirements
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 04:48 AM
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Your dad already gave his response. I wouldnt delaymy wedding in hopes he will change. If you love your guy, feel safe, and are loved/respected in return then go live your life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 07:59 PM
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call them out on it politely if they are rude to you or whispering about you "Yes, I agree being rude like this is unacceptable. Talking low enough that not everyone can converse is very inappropriate."
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:42 AM
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Since you know they'll never accept you, go hang out with your husband's friends who all seem to have respect for you and enjoy being around you. Maybe one day one of the friends will mention to their wife to hang out with you. You kind of get his blessing of sorts, if that makes sense. The fact that your fiance stands up for you and protects you from his best friends' wives is massive. You can trust in that. Just be yourself and move on from that toxicity. You already said they'll never bring y…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:41 AM
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Thats exactly it. You're a team
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 05:31 AM
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I think I have the same disorder as you so I won't put you on blast. Get the help you need or think you need. He wants you well and by not being well you are pushing him away. Being high value does not mean you are free from scratches and dents. Health comes first
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 05:41 PM
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It works so well! I love their products and my derm does too. I prefer them over neutrogena. They're basic but powerful. No frills
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 09:32 PM
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Sonicare was what they recommended. The brush heads are expensive but you can find good quality ones on amazon. I haven't had cavities in years and it helps with my gingivitis
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 07:30 PM
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I like their cerave in the jar. I get really ashy and this clears it up quick. Its unscented too
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 07:29 PM
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I cant speak to the specifics of your relationship financially of course. She could take on bills that equal maybe 15-25% of her pay. It can be ones that are consistent like the internet and tv bill that way there are no surprises and she can budget them consistently. Perhaps trimming down the bill in general. Maybe getting rid of a home phone in favor of cell phone or expensive tv addons. Or cut the cord entirely. Maybe switch to efficient lightbulbs and turn off lights as you exit the room, ru…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 11:36 PM
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I only get 1 upvote :(
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/20 02:09 PM
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We did a shared account for bills and it didnt go well. Now we divide up bills based off the percent difference in our paychecks. I make 60% more than him so I cover 60% of them. That's fair. No shared bank account. We set threshold limits too. If he runs the phone bill up he reimburse me the difference, same with the electric bill. It works well for us. As for savings, it's a trust thing that hes putting money away. I have my goal and he has his.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 02:51 PM
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Wait can we back up for a second. You're unemployed atm so you're babysitting kids for $30/day. Okay nbd there. But you're expected to pay for THEIR FOOD, ACTIVITES, AND ENTERTAINMENT? Why are you paying to care for someone else's kids when sje has a job and you dont actually have a job? What a cheap and disrespectful person. She's using you. I'd walk away from that very fast
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 02:46 PM
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I have the hair pulling one. It's usually considered and OCD issue. My eyebrows look terrible. I found that waxing them helps me from picking. I hope you find some kind of relief too.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 05:36 AM
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I'm not sure if you mean borderline personality or bipolar. Regardless, the best way to be a rpw is to do what everyone else here does: take care of yourself and be the best you you can be. We just have more to do to care for ourselves. The best you, brings their best to their relationship and world everyday. Remember though, your 100% today is not necessarily you 100% tomorrow. Make sure you maintain a good routine. Set reminders to brush your teeth and wash your hair. TAKE MEDICATION AS PRESCR…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 08:27 PM
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In some ways having people around you who are different can be a good thing. It is always good to have exposure to different viewpoints. However if it causes you significant stress you might want to start moving away and towards another group. Look for clubs that have similar interests to your own or ones that might be on the more traditional side. If you get a stranger danger vibe from that dude I'd avoid at all costs. Always ALWAYS trust your gut on these things.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 05:02 PM
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You could wear those old white nurses scrubs dress thing
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 02:43 AM
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Do your education now. Itll be that much harder to go back towards your late 20s or early 30s. I'm a pharm tech in the us and work very closely with pharmacists. They all have their pharm d and make easily 120k a year. They even work from home.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 05:53 PM
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Rap and hip hop mostly
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 05:48 PM
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I dont understand this post at all. Rpw would most likely not give him a second glance because he has nothing to offer to the life style here. Even a more egalitarian relationship minded person would probably pass him over too. That being said, he prob likes them young because they're still easy to manipulate. Women 30+ would most likely not fall for him or his story. Avoid him
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 08:22 PM
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Makeup can help here. You want to pick a color from the opposite side of the spectrum. Green to hide red, yellow to hide purple. Check out an under eye concealer. Check out sephora for tips. They even give samples.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 09:40 PM
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Same!
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 09:28 PM
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It's kinda lonely tbh. I don't have issue making friends with men but women? We are a different story entirely. I just don't really know the "language" because men are just so straightforward. Women tend to be a bit more silent? in their true opinions and don't want to "hurt your feelings" if they're just not vibing with you. I can't really see where I stand with them. But I am pretty close with his friends so there is that. Just wish they'd go shopping with me and try new makeup on! lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 07:05 PM
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Men are REALLY good at seeing the intentions in other males. Call it innate ability (men competing for females for procreation?) for men to call out other men. Mine did the same thing. I had a male friend I was super tight with, bestie level, and my fiance was like I don't trust this dude. You should really stop hanging out/talking with him. I figured he was being a jealous untrustworthy person. Turns out, as I got more serious with my fiance, this "bestie" started acting way more flirtatious an…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 07:02 PM
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I'm kind of in the same place as you in regards to your plan. As others mentioned, don't try to change him, change yourself. This sounds really weird but follow me for a second. You want to make the change in the relationship. Okay, cool. RPW discusses how if you let yourself fall into a more traditional role, it will bring out more of his traditional role. This can possibly sync up the relationship again bringing you both closer. It's not perfect but that's how I understand it to be. That being…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 06:54 PM
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I get along better with men vs women. I've always been that way. I'm straightforward, don't play those high school mind games, and enjoy more male centric activities. That being said, after I got into a serious relationship, I stopped hanging out with men for the very same reason you're dealing with now. I never had a dude ask me straight out but I know they would absolutely go for it if I initiated. Because of that, I didn't want to put my relationship in a sketchy spot at any point. I do hones…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 06:41 PM
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It kinda sounds like they both wanted to get with you from the start or close to it. I read on here that at some point in your platonic relationship with a guy, they've definitely imagined sleeping with you. These 2 probably figured it's been a minute since you've been with a guy last, they're attracted to you, and they want to get it on with you 'just because'. I'd move on or set very strict boundaries. But more likely, move on.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 06:36 PM
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Sexually? Show him genuine enthusiasm to have sex with him (don't fake it, they know when you're not thrilled). If it's your thing, learn how to give a really good blowjob. Hint: don't use teeth. Participate in sex, don't just lay there and moan as necessary until he goes. Also, don't fake orgasms. He will think he's doing it right so he'll keep doing it which will lead to sexual frustration. Most men like a little life? from their partner. If you're not enjoying it, they're most likely not enjo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 06:33 PM
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I have a shark brand roomba. I love it. It doesn't get everything but it sure does extend the time between vacuumings. I have 3 dogs who are shedding. I swear I could build a 4th dog with how much hair they release. Make sure you clean the brush roll at least 1 time each vacuum session. They tend to get full of hair and make the bot ineffective. Empty the collection tray as necessary (I always forget!). Make sure clothes, socks, and any kind of cotton ball sized materials are picked up by hand. …
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 06:23 PM
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I dont and never will send nudes. I wont even take them for my fiance. I dont want the possibility of them accidentally getting out. If he wants the goods he can show up in person for them. Until then dont send them. If he pressures you then bounce. You cant do takebacks once you hit send.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 03:27 PM
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1000% this! Granted I'm late 20s and can't do a pushup...but still, she's totally right. The "wall" is more of a biological thing about kiddos. If you want a few kids, you need to start before 35. After 35 your eggs get a little "awesome" and your hormones get a bit messy. It just gets harder to conceive. That's more "the wall" you're talking about. Everything else? Don't think about it. Take care of you. Do what knnchwa1 said and take care of you. Confidence is sexy, feeling good is sexy. You g…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 04:14 AM
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I'm with you. There's a difference between marrying the man and marrying what the man can provide. It's a venn diagram people A man's perspective (which is what "onlysomewanttofly" offered in their initial post) there's a woman marrying a man for their resources or their sexiness. Sometimes those come together (the overlap) in the man's favor. But it seems most of the time, men feel like they were married by a women who value their resources or their sexiness. it's not often men can marry a woma…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 03:56 AM
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Your worth isn't tied to your virginity. If you're basing it strictly off of hymen, those things are fickle. Some women are born without one, some are born with ones that never break, some women have very small ones, and some can tear by playing sports and you wouldn't know. You lose your virginity when you say you lose your virginity. Having sex the first time doesn't "punch your v-card". You fiance is marrying you because they love you and they still love you despite your v-card status. All th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 03:37 AM
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Budgetbytes.com
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 05:00 AM
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I am understanding what you're staying here. Any guy who's good looking and generally well paid can get many women because he has resources. But to find a woman who wants to jump his bones is another story.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 04:16 AM
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I see what you're saying here. It's way easier for a woman to get sex than it is for a man to get it. Women have their choice of pretty much any heterosexual male if she so chooses. A guy on the other hand isn't quite as lucky. I asked my guy out of curiosity and he seconded the whole " basically every heterosexual male you’ve ever met since you were about 15..." is absolutely true. I had a good laugh on that one
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 04:13 AM
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It's so important to know your partner and their body language for this reason exactly. Sometimes just seeing they're not in the mood is enough to let it be for a day or two (or more!)
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 04:08 AM
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If you're monogamous it's not fair to force him to go without sex. Especially when it's a primary way to show love to a man. You make a fine point
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 08:05 PM
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Sex while sick no thank you! There seems to be a consensus here about trying to get there but not to force it. But also not to knock down sex just because you dont feel like it for no reason.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 08:03 PM
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Always be open to the possibility but dont drop the idea just because you're not in the mood. If you could get in the mood give it a try. I like that idea
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 08:01 PM
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I really like your perspective. If a relationship is monogamous, it's not healthy or fair to not have sex with your partner barring medical issues or other life events. It's important to find a balance that works with the day to day without being forceful.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 07:58 PM
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All of this is so true! Especially the last part. Boundaries are a vital aspect to any relationship. Thankfully we have good communication
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 07:56 PM
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It makes it easier to manage. Small chunks instead of a huge one. Plus it gives you the weekends off and grocery shopping is way easier on fridays.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 06:31 PM
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Exactly! Then the rest of the week you just straighten that room up every day so its cleaning day isnt as bad
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 06:31 PM
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I'd just leave. You should be the one going. Sounds like you're the side chick. I have a feeling they wont be in separate tents long. 3 to 4 months?? That's ridiculous and not fair to you. You deserve better. Dont be a doormat
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:11 PM
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I do this! On Monday its kitchen, tuesday is dining room and bathroom 1, wednesday is bedroom and bathroom 2, thursday is living room and vacuuming, and friday is grocery shopping. For me, breaking it up over days instead of hours on 1 weekend day is awesome. I can do a deeper clean instead of a quick one to the whole house.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:05 PM
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You can get 3M command products which allow you to hang things without nails and remove easy for move out. The curtains on the windows thing, I really think should be your focus. Curtains are a great way to bring some color and style to any room and help with heating/cooling bills plus add some privacy. I'd start there. You can get spring rods to hang the curtains which, again, doesn't take a drill to put up. Maybe a screwdriver but not a drill.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 02:23 AM
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A dermatologist will be your best friend. Also a gynecologist for the androgen hormone issues. There are medications that can lower the side effects. Spironolactone is a great one. Helps with acne due to excess androgens. Consider hair plugs or rogaine. But seriously, talk to a doctor and get an action plan together. I speak from experience at the relief it brings just to have a plan in place. You are more than your looks though. You have a voice, opinions, intelligence, humor, dreams, and motiv…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 06:11 PM
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Everyone is allowed to have an opinion so long as it aligns with the person asking for or considering it
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 04:18 AM
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I wouldnt say it's too much too soon. If you brought a full 3 course dinner, that's different. You both need to eat and its caring youd make something for the date. It's a great way to get conversations going about comfort foods, favorite foods growing up, etc. Keep it simple and check for allergies. I'm a fan of sandwiches. Easy to pack and eat. Maybe some fresh fruit too.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 04:16 AM
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I got a 1.5 carat yellow sapphire that sparkles better than a yellow diamond for a fraction ($750!) And was ethically sourced. The setting has .5k diamonds in a platinum setting. I would highly recommend platinum settings. They arent as soft and they hold their shine easily. It really is the gesture behind it. What I would do is show him styles you like in metals, cuts, and settings. Let him figure out how to coordinate it to fit his budget. Also get your ring size ;)
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 04:11 AM
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My friend did the skinny fat track and got so discouraged! I felt terrible for her. Once she started working out for a tough mudder she really saw the results she wanted. She's been hooked ever since! Girl can run a 10k with ease. Its disturbing really lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 04:05 AM
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I saw TRP and was interested but as I kept reading the more disturbing it got for me. I stumbled onto this sub and was hesitant. As I kept reading I actually came to like it. While I dont agree with everything, I find it a fantastic sub for supporting women by both women and men. It's not toxic or discouraging. It's one of the few subs I've found that is genuine and fun. The advice is great and I enjoy reading and replying. In just a week of implementing tools my relationship has gotten better. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:25 PM
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I used the couch to 5k and loved it! I ran my first 5 k and finished in 27 minutes. It was awesome
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:17 PM
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Building muscle increases basic metabolic rate so she will burn more calories sitting still which leads to weight loss. The more mass you have the more energy it takes to move around and the more you move the more you lose. Cardio alone wont get results nearly as fast as combo lifting amd running.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:16 PM
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So many things!! If you have stairs, every time you go down go back up and down again. Have a laundry basket full of clothes? Squat with it 10 times or more. Commercial break on tv? Do crunches or push ups. Go for walks a few times a day. Download daily yoga and do a lesson. Get daily burn for workouts in tape for multiple levels. Just keep moving in any way possible. When you grocery shop, park far away from the entrance. Little bursts of exercise can help you workout throughout the day and bui…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 04:13 PM
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Third love is a great online brand. I am a fan of aerie but third love has a ton of resources for identifying your issues and how to get the right fit. I have cup gaping which is super annoying so I went with a balconette bra and it fits like a glove
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 03:51 AM
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In today's economy there almost always needs to be two incomes to get a house going. Men will always be a bit emasculated if you make more no matter what you do. That doesnt mean you need to back off your job of healing people. Medicine is such a rewarding career and one women are good at! We are natural healers and caretakers after all! Anyway, the right man will love you because of how well you channel that innate ability. As to making him feel needed, love and support him in his journey, valu…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 09:44 PM
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This is very true. In today's world, it's not unusual to have lost your virginity before marriage. I'm guessing you're around 22 or 23? It's really more about your ability to be faithful to the one youre with over having had sex with just that person ever. Be faithful and not promiscuous and you will be just fine.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 09:37 PM
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I want to finish 2 knitting projects. I find myself so easily distracted these days that I can seem to finish one I want to get into a daily cleaning routine. Mondays are kitchen cleanings, tuesdays are dining room cleaning amd grocery shopping, wednesdays are bathrooms, thursday is bedroom, and friday is living room. I figure it's easier to deep clean one room a day than halfway clean all of them on saturday. Plus it frees up the weekend to do projects Stop boredom eating and getting takeout. I…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 05:23 PM
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I am a huge fan of budgetbytes.com. she created wholly nutrious recipes for so cheap to make it's incredible. My food bill is the lowest it's been in a long time. She has great tips for freezing, subbing ingredients out, and tips for cooking it. Love her site
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 05:18 PM
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You can never do enough of this!
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 08:07 PM
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That was my concern. Finding the balance between pleasing him and not losing myself. Thanks for the book suggestions!
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 08:07 PM
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I never felt refined. Always felt rough around the edges. I think this is what I need
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 08:06 PM
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I dont own any dresses! I'm a Jeans and tshirt kind of girl rocking Adidas superstars. Once this pandemic is lessened I'll get sundresses and skirts for sure and make an effort in the makeup dept. Working from home has kind of killed that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 07:02 PM
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I want him to be alpha. When we met he totally was but I took a little too much charge and hes backed off. I think I'll start seeing some good changes soon!
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 07:01 PM
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My brother in law and sister went through something similar. They got married and had a kid when he was in med school and residency. It doesnt have to be just one thing and the next
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 12:50 AM
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Adding to this, people talk more when they can talk about themselves. Ask about their family, careers, vacations, etc. Makes you sound engaged and they talk more. You don't have to say nearly as much, they do the work. Add in a few comments here and there for momentum.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/20 07:54 PM
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He could be using gardening as a way to "unplug" from stress and responsibilities. He's out of work right now and no man likes to feel like they can't provide regardless their roles in the family. Touch is a huge part of the human experience and can lower cortisol levels while increasing feel good hormone/neurotransmitter responses like dopamine, nor-epinephrine, and oxytocin. If he's feeling better, or at least less stressed, he might be more willing to spend time doing things OP would want to …
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/20 02:48 PM
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Go help him with the garden. Being in nature is a great way to help combat depression, plus vitamin D helps with that as well (sunlight generates it). After that is done, go for a walk together, play a board game, make a date night, "get together", massage him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/20 01:42 PM
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Lemon pepper chicken with a butter garlic sauce, stuffed mushrooms, and candied sweet potatoes.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/20 04:31 AM
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