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| 9 | It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all menExactly. A lot of women will claim it's "not safe for them to be walking all alone at night wherever." Like dude, it's not safe for anybody to do that. Men might do it quite literally because we don't care even though we probably should take more precautions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Divorce reasonsI mean that's how a lot of women will act. They'll look at one instance of a man doing something and then freak the fuck out as if all men do it. Men are doing it here. They assume every women is treacherous and willing to divorce the moment it's convenient. Everyone is slowly becoming more paranoid and vindictive. You can't really reason with the hysteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:53 PM |
| – | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.So pretty much the modern Mgtow Redpill but for women. That's actually kind of funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthVery good question, cause a lot of women by this definition would be considered abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:16 PM |
| 11 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?It's pretty interesting how even when trying to gather more positive instances of male vulnerability turning out for the better, it's still largely futile. Just from my experience, my mother is the only person who seems to be okay with any emotional issues I've ever had. She's gotten me through a lot, even as an adult. Never felt judged, either. Other than that it doesn't seem like women are capable of handling male emotions, vulnerabilities, weaknesses, and humanity without them being either tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:49 PM |
| – | Do you think mens attraction itself is misogyny?It sounds like you think women are amazing over Mary giving birth to Christ, while trying to proclaim men are somehow less than just because... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | PPD women be like:BASED | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 04:18 PM |
| 9 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?There's only so many times I can say, yes, you have problems too or I have sympathy. It doesn't stop this stuff exploding, it doesn't stop me seeing men say vile, horrible things about women all the time on the internet I keep seeing fucked shit from all kinds of women and they often excuse themselves but I still don't treat women as if they are all like that. Ultimately you're responsible for yourself. And that's my issue. Feminist types want to be treated like people, but dare not extend the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?You know what. Have a good one. I'm sure being obnoxiously rude to men and ignoring their issues will make them recognize woman are people faster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?What in the mainstream in particular? Music? TV? Or news? All of it? Like any social media site has plenty of women congregate around speaking terribly of men in a variety of topics. How bad they are at sex, how much of an idiot men can be, how insecure and immature they are for getting angry at women, dad's a stupid stereotype, ect... It is men that still largely control the mainstream media. What does this even mean... Because some big wig at a company is the same gender as me, that rude behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?I've had women shout mansplaining at work for trying to explain something. And this isn't like me explaining basic stuff either. We work with insulation at our local shipyard. The materials and components will be often different and sometimes people forget how to do certain things because of how sporadic the work flow can be. I'm talking weeks or months of time with no work and then suddenly we need to start insulating shit out of the blue. So trying to offer pointers is a given. Especially when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:39 AM |
| 11 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Sure but the toxic treatment towards men is way more mainstream. I don't care an atom for Tate or RP types, but they only became popular because a lot of women enmasse couldn't handle the toxicity being thrown back at them. That's why a bunch of men rode on the Tate bandwagon. It was seen as a mighty fuck you right back at the feminist types after what seemed like a eon of man bashing. Anything RP or Tate related often got banned and censored. It only kept getting brought back up because everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?Simply put it seems socially accepted to just assume the worst of men as a gender but NOT any other group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?Where the fuck do you even live at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 01:32 PM |
| 48 | CMV : For a woman to want to commit most of her mortal life to a man and grant him exclusive access, he SHOULD be pretty impressive, not just a guy who existsYeah. If your first response to a person is "what can you bring to the table..." chances are you don't actually like the person. Or at least not in any meaningful capacity. And you see this from both genders. "How many children can you give me?" "How much can you provide for me?" No normal person talks like this. It's good to have those conversations. "Do you ever want to have children? How many?" "What are you goals and what do you plan for a career?" But these days it's like everyone treats pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+Usually because things like having children, being married, having a career requires a lot of time and sacrifice. But I definitely agree with your sentiment. This all or nothing attitude concerning personal happiness is pretty fucking stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 01:11 PM |
| 6 | Should men still cold approach women?There was a post about exactly that not too long ago. You're expected to approach and do all these things as a man so that no woman will be without a good man. But then you get scolded and treated like shit if you try anything to do just that. Modern society is extremely schizophrenic and paranoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 11:59 AM |
| 13 | The “modern woman” is changing, and the “modern man” needs to adapt to the changeYeah makeup and camera filters do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 03:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticI'm noticing that both genders in a lot of these discussions will just accuse the other of lying and assuming that they know what the other thinks and feels. Using their own experiences as confirmation of the entire demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?God watching that second video hurts. Like these women aren't teenagers. They're mostly adults and they just don't understand how money making works. God it's so painful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?I don't know what the term for it is, but it is akin to when people give those bullshit answers to the bullshit interview question of "what is your greatest weakness". It's a form of "humble bragging." Where something you say that's meant to be self deprecating, is really just used to make yourself look better. Man 1: I haven't had sex in years. Man 2: It's okay dude. I only had sex 24 times this month instead of 25. <Unironically trying to sound well meaning but just comes off condescending and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:00 PM |
| 2 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeThat's pretty fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 12:53 PM |
| 4 | When a woman earns more, her man should be proud of her and support herI think I'm a superstitious man. I'm not exactly hopeful. But, maybe adapting is all we can do. I just don't see a bright future. But being wrong would be nice here. I don't know man.... You just look at history.... And you look at the now.... All our problems never leave us. Example: women can now work and be independent (this is a good thing by the way, women back then were fucked if they became widowed). But now a lot of them are lonely. And a lot of them can't find a man to be a good partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 02:05 PM |
| 8 | When a woman earns more, her man should be proud of her and support herI appreciate how honest you were here with your experiences. I think our desire to be the sole provider is something deeply innate. Some people will say that it's just a socially contrived expectation. But I'm not so sure. Like, I know that a woman making more than me in a relationship shouldn't bother me.... Just like woman should be okay with not having children.... But then a lot of women will eventually have this need to have children because there's clearly more going on there. Everyone can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | For men who have opened up in a relationship, how did your SO respond?Jesus wept has nothing to do with men crying, so I'm not even sure why you brought that into the debate. I'm guessing your probably not a christian, so I won't waste my breath explaiing all the reasons why with my faith that has nothing to do with your arguments unless you are a christian yourself and want me to explain. It does. Jesus lived life on earth as a human. He suffered what we do to be able to sympathize and connect with us in a way that most religious figures cannot. A God coming into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 11:22 PM |
| 3 | For men who have opened up in a relationship, how did your SO respond?Real question for you.... You view crying as something real men don't do.... And you're a Christian. What do you think of Christ Himself crying? One of the shortest verses in Scripture, John 11:35 "Jesus Wept." It's curious to me that you're a Christian yet you're against men being more emotional, if even for a bit. I usually hate the term "toxic masculinity" but your standard of what a man should and shouldn't do is basically where the concept of toxic masculinity is stemming from. And the fact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 01:58 PM |
| 3 | men should never help women with anything unless they clearly verbally request itBased and Spider-Man pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have this complex involving "virgin men"?Lmao that just cements how depressing all of that is. I get why people do it. But that's a shitty foundation for a relationship. Especially considering people are trying to build a family off of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have this complex involving "virgin men"?I'm 26 and a virgin. Kind of depressing that I would have to lie to a woman just to be able to satisfy. Like everyone is allowed to have their preferences and standards, but something about just having to lie when the question is inevitably asked is a bit sad. Like people would rather be lied to and wonder why their relationships are full of discontent and mistrust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How do women tolerate getting complimented all day? It sounds horrible and oppressive. Men wouldn’t last a day.Man life would be so awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:45 AM |
| 4 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!So at what point is a man allowed to defend himself from a woman that is dealing physical aggression? Like I'm not necessarily disagreeing that almost killing is tragic and pretty fucked... But that's the territory with self defense. If you feel your are threatened, you have an obligation to defend yourself. Death is something the initiator should've thought about themselves, that's not on the person defending themselves. Or at least you shouldn't hold them accountable in that way. Like I'm noti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!Genuine question, why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | "just be a good person" and other stupid shit that people give as adviceSure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | "just be a good person" and other stupid shit that people give as adviceLike sure dude. But I feel like this is all just beating around the bush, getting nothing and that's what kind of just make men roll their eyes at this kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:07 AM |
| 3 | "just be a good person" and other stupid shit that people give as adviceIt's more more important and more meaningful to women. Nah. with men we've already decided we want to and will fuck any half-decent woman who says yes Mm.... speak for yourself. Case in point. The idea of reading someone's vibe comes natural to women, to men they think it's magic lmao. I feel like you largely don't have a point here. Might be my manly intuition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:06 AM |
| 4 | "just be a good person" and other stupid shit that people give as adviceI mean that's basically just amounting to how she feels. If the idea is just make a woman feel good than I think it should be stated more towards that than "she'll feel if something is off about you." How does a man do this without being "desperate"? That's the issue some men are having. Because it sounds like the solution is to just simply not actually make any interest in women for fear of creeping them out. Women are all about vibe, it doesn't really matter what you say or what you do, but ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 03:56 AM |
| 8 | "just be a good person" and other stupid shit that people give as adviceWomen are about energy if you feel good they'll feel good around you. Just so the red pillers don't eat you alive, this is uhhh... just not how it works. The idea of not letting negativity get to you is good. Nobody likes someone so defeated. I just think it's ridiculous that we're supposed to believe women are some magical psychics that can intuit perfect knowledge of someone. "Good vibes" is just.... It doesn't mean anything. For example I told a woman I'm into I am a virgin and she doesn't ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity does not exist , because no behavior is exclusive to just one gender🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Toxic masculinity does not exist , because no behavior is exclusive to just one genderYep. Not my responsibility. What exactly is the point of having discussions if we're all just going to whip out ye olden "it's not my job to explain these things"? Like maybe it is our responsibility. Just maybe we all should take the effort to actually communicate or something. For a sub that wants to talk about these things, you people are very fucking quick to just.... say effectively nothing else beyond "you're wrong and I won't say why." If the OP wants to start a post about a concept, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity does not exist , because no behavior is exclusive to just one genderI like how you just.... won't explain it yet claim op is wrong. You can't just say what you claim it actually is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Single Women, what are your standards?I mean. Yeah.... actually they seem to be pretty okay with putting forth what they're looking for. There's hundreds of responses from the ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Single Women, what are your standards?So is this post going to get removed too or just the men's? Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Single Men, what are your standards?The point is that is doesn't happen to men. Sure it does. Men have this privilege of being believed and it extends to literally just saying what you like! Not to be rude but this is sort of funny. For a long time coming metoo as a movement had people saying "believe her no matter what" and only recently people have been waking up to the realization that women can in fact lie. I'm not saying you're lying. Or that your last comment or whatever was a lie. But insisting that men are just automatical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Single Men, what are your standards?Several men doesn't mean all of us. I get that some people were douches but it's not like every single man thought you were lying, whatever your comment was. Some red pill dudes see one thing and go wild with it sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Single Men, what are your standards?I was about to say. Men by and large don't seem to expect a whole lot. The question for the ladies had comments expecting more. Most I'd say weren't actually bad.... But a couple here and there were a bit crazy. And from what I can gather, women for the most part expect their men to be.... more than them or equal. While men sort of.... don't really seem to require a whole lot from their ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Single Men, what are your standards?If sex is a race, I'm coming in first.... wait a minute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlso saying the Tater tots or radfems are the worst of humanity is a stretch since there are sex traffickers or murderers or arm dealers out there, ya know. Witout being rude about it, I feel like you're missing my point. Or rather just being a bit pedantic about how I stated my sentiments. Yes.... I know.... Yes I get it.... Saying "the worst" is always an exaggeration and that's because it's mostly besides the point. Yes, a sex trafficker is worse than the previously mentioned radfem or Tater … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean I don't know what else to say about it. I don't know how else to state it. I..... kind of genuinely believe that. You have.... red piller Andrew Tate stand dude bros that assume the absolute worst of women no matter what.... And also have.... feminism to the extreme men suck and don't understand boss girls that assume the worst of men no matter what..... Like, yeah sure. There's plenty of in between that is good. But on average I'm seeing people just being absolute douches to each other a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like what was meant to be a genuine place for unfiltered discussion about relationships, intead just became a place for the worst men and women humanity has to offer to spew their vitriol. And it's just like.... you know that shit just makes it worse for everybody. Like they're not winning over men or women to their viewpoint by saying the nastiest shit to each other. They only do it because they're either teenage/young adult losers who like to troll, or have been hurt by previous relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenJesus Christ..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:15 PM |
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