| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 546 | A man attacked three women on a busy street and no white knight came to the rescue... | TRIGGER WARNING | Magistraliter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field StudyI just went with my gut, but if you vet him like you would any other man, you should be ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 10:56 PM |
| 70 | Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field StudyI'm over 40 and get hit on by younger men. Some of them are, of course, just blinded by their porn fantasies about "milfs" and experienced women, but some are genuine. One of them is now my boyfriend :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 09:12 AM |
| 108 | Incoming meltdown in 3 2 1....That's the way for many, many men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:58 AM |
| 27 | What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement?Nipples are just a part of my body. They are not sexual (or, they are sexual just for my man when we are having sex) and it's not my problem if a guy gets a boner. Go meditate or something, I'm not covering my body just because you can't control yourself. Men trying to dictate what part of our bodies should be covered or altered or whatever just piss me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 02:04 AM |
| 182 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄"Dating market" Maybe there's the problem, huh? They think finding a woman is the same as picking and buying a car or a washing machine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 35 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”I like to see my man happy, but he likes to see me happy even more. If it wasn't so, my enthusiasm for his pleasure would evaporate very quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:53 AM |
| 5 | That time I walked out on a date after his first sentenceThe look you probably gave him was all the explanation he needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 64 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.Not all men, but definitely all women. Every single one of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:07 AM |
| 7 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!Also there's no spot in your home that wasn't touched by the cat's anus :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 10:25 AM |
| 17 | Dog bites man because girl is screaming during sex and his reaction makes him a “keeper”?I did break my tailbone by falling hard on my ass. It's rare, but yes, you can get unlucky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:00 AM |
| 29 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsSo you basically told him about your boundaries and feelings and his answer was "who cares how you feel!" What are the good things about him, and what are the other bad ones? Is there more red flags? What makes you think he's gonna be a good husband? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 74 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsHuh, a man who THINKS. For himself, even. Are you sure he's not a unicorn in disguise? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 11:58 PM |
| 13 | Whenever I think men cannot possibly get worse…Might have been one of those weirdos pretending to be a vampire? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 12 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Have you guys seen the Grave of Fireflies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 6 | I don’t even desire sex with a man anymoreWe have a different universal insult in our language (it's shitting instead of fucking :D ) and the men are not any better. Just a random fun fact :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 13 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?I got married at 32 yo and kept my surname. I already did a lot of work under that name and changing it would make no sense. He tried protesting a little, but in the end listened to reason :D (And we divorced after 4 years, so I would have my old name back by now :D ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 10:36 AM |
| 6 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?Kids see right through any bullshit. Be honest with him, set a good example and don't be afraid to explain things you might think his brain can't understand yet. It can, and it will protect him later. Good luck on the journey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:52 AM |
| 56 | LVM really do think we're a hive mind.It's like drug addicts forever chasing the "first high". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 6 | I need to learn to trust my instinctsAt least you have a funny/horror story to tell. It's something. Or... Not? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 09:10 PM |
| 30 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Why even "gift" your man a threesome as something "special". It's like saying "I know Im not good enough for you, so here, have another woman." A relationship should be "I'm the best for you and you are the best for me." Period. No doubts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:26 PM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]He's old enough to be her grandpa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:38 AM |
| 19 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMsShe's probably just high on the gas. Just like pickmes are high on the gas(light). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 27 | I have no wordsObviously not, she thinks she just needs to communicate better or some other shit. Can we send her an invitation to FDS? She needs her eyes opened asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:01 AM |
| 46 | Being an OF model/stripper/camgirl/sex worker is not empowering, here's what is empoweringCan you put sex work in your CV or talk about it with people just as you talk about any other job? No? Then it's not empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:50 AM |
| 214 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressiveThe difference is, birds don't rape. (Or at least almost all of them, with the exception of some duck species.) The males dance, sing, chase, build houses, even play musical instruments, but will never mate with a female that is not interested. She chooses the male she wants and gives consent first. I would happily let men shake their feathers in front of me if I knew I'm 100% safe from assault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:36 PM |
| 22 | Message to Male LurkersAnd in my country's news today: a 47 yo male celebrity marries an 18 yo woman, his girlfriend of 3 years and mother of their 6 months old daughter. Why are we even trying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:22 PM |
| 6 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Obviously a good guy. The goodest of them all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:40 PM |
| 29 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3I tried that once shortly before joining FDS. They descended on me like vultures with their tired "reasonable arguments". I noped outta there so fast, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 64 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3Also, what is reasonable about commenting in a sub where men are not allowed to comment? And then being salty when the comments get removed? There's no logic in that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:41 PM |
| 54 | Dead bedrooms, and men.Foreplay happens 24/7 OMG YES. So many men thinking it's something they have to perform for 30 minutes before sex. So much time dedicated to unearthing these ancient secrets they think they have to know to succeed at seduction and foreplay. And all the time it was this simple: just don't be an asshole to me the other 23,5 hours! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 43 | Dead bedrooms, and men.My ex did this all the time. Whining that seducing me is too much work, trying to guilt me into sex ("muh needs"), then whining again that I'm not cooperating or that I want to finish him too quickly (when I gave in and agreed to a handjob or blowjob). He was great in many other things, I really thought he's the one... Well, he wasn't :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 13 | Would love to flip this around and ask sons of fathers who visited prostitutes, how do you feel about what your father did?Also SeX wOrK iS eMpOwErIng! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 312 | WHY are Males?This rule used to exist in the European Union, but not anymore... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 86 | WHY are Males?Why the hell would you even upload your crappy, shaky video of a random woman workin out to a porn site? Who wants to watch a boring video of someone running on a machine? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:15 PM |
| 50 | WHY are Males?But they don't do martial arts, unfortunatelly :) But some do sports in their free time or when working with young people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.If this post offends you, something in it hit a sensitive spot and you would probably benefit from exploring it and thinking about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:59 AM |
| 27 | If you ever need a laugh, just remember that ancient Greeks spread the rumour that having a small D is a sign of intelligence and self control.And what happened when the women inevitably became widows at a young age? Athens must've been a place full of young widows? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 42 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteOr maybe the editors made her to rewrite the article from FDS praise to FDS hate and she's just now seen their true colors and will be leaving Vice and coming here as a radfem apprentice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:52 AM |
| 41 | Keep your friends safe! 🌸In the clubs in my city, there's a poster in the bathrooms giving advice what to do in such cases (and the staff is trained to help). In the ladies' bathrooms, of course. I asked my male friends if there's a poster in the gents and surprise surprise, it isn't... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:41 PM |
| 42 | You CAN stop in the middle of sex (safely): A GuideAnd what about a woman's right to finish? Can I keep the guy prisoner until he makes me orgasm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:54 AM |
| 8 | A lot of “Doms” in bed are really just sexually selfish men who use the presence of a dynamic to justify not having to care about their partner’s sexual pleasure.I commented about real doms caring about the sub's pleasure last week and got downwoted and tempbanned. So, is there something as a "high value dom" or not? Is high value and dominant mutually exclusive? I have no personal experience with BDSM and would like to know from someone who does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Groomer (32M) Wants to Marry Girl (19F) He Used to Pick Up From SchoolThere's a celebrity in my country, a 46 yo man, with a 17 yo girlfriend. They already have a baby and plan a wedding and another baby when she turns 18 and finishes high school. My blood boils everytime I see the guy in the tabloids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Has anybody been following the Armie Hammer situation? When they say consensual BDSM isn’t abusive...I don't agree. I believe there is the 0.1 % of real doms and real subs, who truly like this kind of sex or lifestyle, but would rather be celibate than being with someone who doesn't fully and ethusiastically consent to it. But that doesn't change that I am, in agreement with the whole FDS, very against any wannabes and any promotion of BDSM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 04:07 PM |
| -5 | Has anybody been following the Armie Hammer situation? When they say consensual BDSM isn’t abusive...But that's EXACTLY what I said, I don't know why am I getting downvoted and you upvoted. In the rare cases of real BDSM relationships both sides care about the other, and I - maybe naively, but still - believe such relationships still exist. Those 99 % of wannabe "doms" born from porn and 50 Shades are abusive jerks. (Disclaimer: I'm not interested in BDSM of any sort.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 01:49 PM |
| 39 | Another reminder why not to reproduce with NVM video game playing manchildren.A lot of men don't really want to be fathers, yet they keep making babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 89 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?Exactly! I like children, but I would hate being a mother. Society expects so much from mothers. Children don't take your freedom away from you - the society does. Also I didn't find a man I would be willing to have kids with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 02:28 AM |
| 24 | 🤢 Imagine he’s gaslightening her into thinking she’s crazy?!!!Came here to say this. Either it's his twisted idea of exposure therapy, or he's getting off on it. Either way she's fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 04:07 PM |
| 61 | Circle the LieMen have too much free time. They need a 24/7 job to stop them from doing stupid things. Like taking care of a household and a bunch of kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 14 | And this is why men and woman CANNOT be friends. Ever. They're just in the cut waitingI do have one! But he's a HVM and genuinely values friendships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 02:22 AM |
| 52 | 'The lead in Promising Young Woman isn't hot enough to be raped'- a scrote reviewing the movie in VarietyI call this "word masturbation". You can almost hear him go "oooh yeah this feels so good" over every frisson and flummoxing. Nobody wants to read your narcissistic ejaculations, sir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Maybe he’s trying to do her a favor by kicking himself out of her life so she can move on to better things...One of my exes always walked one step ahead of me. I have no idea why, he wasn't a bad guy. Not a HVM, but not a total LVM either. He noticed after a few steps if I stopped, but still... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 34 | “YouTuber kills pregnant girlfriend on live-stream as viewers pay him to abuse her.” - Summary in comments.I'm from an Easter European country and the sentences are often a joke here too. It's not as bad as in Russia, but still bad enough. Just recently a guy who was abusing underage girls was only put on probation. He was targeting girls on internet, sending them porn, asking for nudes, threatening them with rape. He GOT FILMED doing all that for a documentary about internet predators and still got away with 3 year probation. (Btw the judge was a woman...) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Personal break up boundariesI think I managed all of these that one time I fell hard for a guy that didn't want me. Mistakes were made, lessons were learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:46 AM |
| 25 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.I don't think they really mean it, at least most of them. They just want to make you feel bad - "look what your cruel words make me want to do!" They should stop whining and start working on themselves. And if they're really suicidal, get professional help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 27 | I politely declined a mans advances and ended up getting followed.This makes me want to rage quit this planet. How do these men even dare. Nobody cares about your butthurt little ego, you shitstain. Crawl back into the sewer where you were born. Sorry, I just hate these aggresive entitled bastards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 24 | Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this..."What should have I done better or differently?" Well, you could've shut up, just saying... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:56 PM |
| 8 | I can't read relationship subreddits anymore...Wishful thinking mixed with stockholm syndrome? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Be balanced ladies 😂"I like a balance of feminity and masculinity." Oh, me too! What feminine qualities do you have? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:37 AM |
| 17 | Saw this on IG, thought it belonged hereThis is why I don't have children. I like children, I just don't want to be a mother. I would happily be a father, but finding a man who would be ok with "switching the roles" is impossible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Inside the LVM brainBefore I knew the mensrights sub was an incel one, I commented there in a discussion about suicide rates in men. Uh oh :D Yes, exactly this happened. Women are to blame, because they steal mens' money and children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Suicide rate for men reaches its highest level in two decadesHaving emotions is not masculine? I thought this is a sub discussing the problems men face in today's world and women are welcome here. Obviously not, if a simple comment about emotions makes me a hater and a misandrist. So I'll be going back where I came from. Have a nice day everyone. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 10:42 AM |
| -2 | Suicide rate for men reaches its highest level in two decadesA feminist cannot be a misandrist, so, which one am I? Also, teaching boys/men that emotions are ok, that's something we can all do. Mothers, fathers, the whole families. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 02:10 AM |
| -1 | Suicide rate for men reaches its highest level in two decadesBut it was literally men who created this society that expects men to be "strong" and "tough". Society that lacks empathy towards men. Also the elitist intelligentsia is almost exclusively male. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Suicide rate for men reaches its highest level in two decadesMen should be taught it's ok to have and express emotions (all of them, not just the "manly" ones) and to seek help when they need it. I'm sure suicide rates would drop significantly. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/20 11:34 PM |
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