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| 2 | Any tips for collegeAlso be socially active, contribute to community - sign up for volunteering projects that you like to gain skills with working with people and to learn taking more responsibility. Also this opens up many opportunities to meet girls | /r/newTRP | 03/07/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 07, 2022Yes I agree I am making good progress till I will hit a plateau. Right now my body is leveraging muscle memory from the past, in that I was pretty stronger so I'm gaining same muscles a bit faster now. I am able to increase weights each time. But yes it would be good to lift more times. 3 times right now is where I can manage it, and I will increase it when my life gets a bit more stable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/06/22 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 07, 2022I am not sure if I want to prove something, but perhaps to me. it mostly feels just like an improvement point as gaining a new habit would. A deeper part of me though also says that I want to give great sex (perhaps indeed to prove to myself?). On the other hand I also kinda want to be good at it for myself, for myself. Its something I don't have super clarity on yet. It's a good and difficult question :D Where I also think this goal is coming from is that I want to get better at sex, and after … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/06/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 07, 2022OYS #5 73kg, 24y, 1,82m. LTR of a few months. Lifts: 3/3 lift days. 5x5 lifts. Squat 75kg, OHP 37,5kg, 55kg, Barbel row 55kg, Deadlift 100kg (1x10 reps). After main lifts I do auxiliary lifts that I don't track: chin ups, pull ups, dips, bicep curls, butterflies. Read: The Rational Male, Preventive medicine, Models, TWOTSM(4x), SGM, NMMNG, most of the sidebar.My goal is to get squat to around 110, OHP to around 50, bench to 75kg, Deadlift to 140kg before transitioning to a more hypertrophy focus… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 31, 2022I agree that it's a beginner program. Since I was on and off I want to build foundation before going further. I do couple of extra exercises after main 3 compound lifts to supplement. I will check out GZCLP, thanks for the suggestion! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 31, 2022Your recap increased awareness of what I focus on my OYS, which are my weaknesses. Writing and identifying them helps me acknowledge them, admit them to myself and start correcting them. I reflect now I don't write about things I'm proud of much. I didn't feel a need for that, but I might do more reflection on my accomplishments of the week more, because that's also an important part. "i feel like there has to be a part of you (maybe buried deep down in your case) that wants to dominate woman, o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 31, 2022Nice comparison, and a good reminder that it's a feature. Props for the diss too, made my day but yes I get what you mean, I still have much unplugging to do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 31, 2022Well I'd say for sure its a common fear of approach combined with some insecurities that come up here and there. My main goal was and is to follow my mantra which is to become the best version of myself, and I met girls through mutual experiences of whatever I was doing. But when it came to cold approach in clubs for example, it was a different story - it depended on my state and sometimes I failed to approach miserably. I met enough girls through other occasions anyway (though friends, voluntee… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 31, 2022Interesting take on Stronglifts, first time I've heard someone diss it. I don't doubt you lift more than Medhi. I like SL right now because it's simple and my goal is to increase strength. Afterwards I will go for a program geared towards hypertrophy. Regarding red knighting, its for sure a new perspective for me, thanks. I will think about it more on what you said it being a disservice or patting on the back. Right now I'm in between - with those close friends we're in any case talking about re… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 31, 2022Thanks for thoughts. I use Strong Lifts app to help me track my weight, though I currently don't intend to count my macros. I don't have issues with fat and I have a fast metabolism - as long as I sported and held on to certain personal guidelines for dieting, I never had weight issues. I would be curious as to your opinion to not share red pill insights with close friends where I think would help them? I've already had some pretty cool discussions. Raising awareness of RP of young men I also se… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 31, 2022OYS #4 24yr Reading: Rational Male Positive Masculinity Social & Red Pill: I have thus far felt regarding a few friends that they would be aware enough to grasp red pill and be open to it. I’ve put a few pieces of insight here and there that would help them with their situations, and recently two picked up the book. One read it and found it insightful, understood the concepts, though did put some distance to some claims he thought unscientific. Another just started reading it and I invited him t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/05/22 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 24, 2022OYS #3 24yr OYS insight: just writing a few OYS in a row, and it helps me already see one thing - how I thought about things one week ago. This seems to me valuable information, in sense that I am able to build on top of my previous learnings or observations, compare them to my current thoughts and behaviors, and go from there. It helped me see some incongruences and failures to work on certain goals - I will keep discovering that. Work: I have a couple of days free from work. This is my opportu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 03, 2022DEER Yep pretty much. This shit comes up somewhere from deeper parts of myself where it got rooted when I was a teenager or something. Why? As for the habits stuff there's nothing better than James Clear. Just from his site and tweets you can get a lot, and his book - Atomic Habits - is amazing. I thought I should do it because I should feel grateful for surroundings they had made available for me, e.g. place to live, a car, and other forms of value. And I should not be an entitled cunt, and p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022OYS #2 24yr Productivity: In last two weeks I seemed to have caught a wave of balance with productivity and my mental health wellbeing. I am in process of creating a habit to do some productive work after workday, and pick something to relax with for the evening. Wow what a realisation right? I figured out the missing piece was the relaxing activity in the eve. Be it an hour of computer games or watching a series. Around 70 minutes in the evening is what I need to finish the day completely satis… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022Alright I'll do that :) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022I did read a good portion of sidebar. I focused on mentioning reading material mentioned there. Fair enough tho, it seems I need to think more before commenting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022In order to figure that out, how much of the RP and MRP sidebars have you read and how do you square this book with them? I read NMNG recently, Rational Male and Preventive Medicine from Rollo, Models from Manson, I skimmed over book of pook and read parts that were useful, I read The way of superior man around 5-6 times in different periods of my life over last 5 years, 48 laws of power, sex god method, how to win friends by dale, various articles from rollo, and a number of other books that ar… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/05/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022I agree words matter. Book: in general it with storytelling explains principles surrounding what I'd say we call when someone's in their head. When someone's looking at work colleagues/whoever as objects. It explains what it means when you betray yourself and what negatives follow - and I could relate a lot of that to problems I read in this sub. So in our context it helps to start seeing women as individuals with their needs, objectives and interests. So you come from a healthy, outward standpo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/22 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022My opinion shouldn't be evaluated upon the number of OYS I did lol. Give me something constructive instead | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/22 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022Me too, the commenter above mentioned so I assumed it. Nevermind about the mission:) My thought on the ego thing: Leadership and self deception book nicely explains when and how people see other people as objects instead of as people. How to stop seeing them as objects, and start seeing them as people. As soon as you start seeing them as people, I somehow doubt you'll still call them bitches - that's just my assumption. I'd love to know your take on your impressions from the book on this in case… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 10, 2022You shouldn't care what you're being poked at because OYS is for you, not for others. Bitch is still derogatory, no matter how you look at it, and you got called out for contradicting your mission - sth you wrote- so look at that instead of the feedback on naming. Not to say I got the impression you were practicing Zen, of which one principle is denial of ego and your writing clearly says your ego seems pumped up. Of course that's my impression, and you know best for yourself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 03, 2022OYS #1 24y. On multiple parts I’ve focused on the process of achieving goals. Work: When driving to work, I now regularly listen to a book, which I choose based on what I need currently in life. Upgrade was that I put it to 1.5x speed. Work#2: I got feedback I am progressing too slow. I am making it a high priority now for some time already to study more and reflect on getting better after work every day. It’s been going well and consistent and I just need to keep it up. Work-life: as 9-5 is new… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/05/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | The "Not you" rule"fuckboys" just use same plate spinning tactics that women do. Women are natural plate spinners | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/22 06:04 AM |
| 18 | An Illustration of Critical ThinkingNice illustration! Some people just have different views of the world. We should accept it and not take it as shocking, because what OP did not do, is established boundaries and expectations and just assumed how GF views the relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 15, 2022How do you communicate/act not cumming every time you have sex? Overtly, saying you're good? Or just stopping? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/03/22 09:07 AM |
| 13 | Invisible Wars - Part 12 - Self-Replicating Mental Machina: How to Change your Mind for the Better.For people curious to explore Change but put in simpler words, check out Awaken The Giant Within by Tony Robbins. What OP is encompassing in his words is including the fact that we form beliefs based on experiences and the intensity of our emotions at those times - e.g. broccoli + intense negative emotions = negative experience = less likely to eat again. So create positive experience by learning to induce positive, intense emotions in things you want to improve. Things you want to remove - indu… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 08, 2022The goal of pleasure is partly based on what I learned from SGM. Maybe I didn't word it the best. I want to give great sex essentially, learn to become more dominant as well. Part of it is learning more about sex in general. Then probably another part is truly coming from my past insecurity or some non productive beliefs, I'm suspecting it's that "she should be satisfied or else she'll start looking elsewhere" which admittedly I probably got from red pill (on hypergamy). I got lots of things to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/03/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | We've been dating for three months and all I can get is a kissYou're probably creative some kind of resistance by the way you're behaving. Check with yourself it you're escalating with her because you want it for validation or out or natural desire. Then check whether you're butthurt after she says no. If you are, stop. Then check your expectations. Do you expect sth from her? Stop. Then check whether you're even being aware of her and yourself in the moments you're escalating. Meaning feeling wise, desire, etc. | /r/askMRP | 13/03/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 08, 2022Oh yes, the breathing method helped me the most. If it didn't click with you, then you're probably doing something wrong especially if you're healthy person. Check if you're breathing correctly (+not forcefully but imagine oxygen going to your brain and through whole body). I've been doing this for more than 1 year, now it's part of my morning routine, 1 round WHM + 10 min meditation gets me going for the day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 08, 2022#OYS0 Even though I am not married, I am drawn in to track my shit here. Lurking these OYS threads has been nothing but inspirational, observing dudes working on themselves and dealing with their shit. I am jumping on the train, and use it as a tool to motivate myself to reflect each week on my progress. I just hope it sticks. Another one is the tough judge part - I intend to appreciate any wake up calls for things I overlook. Stats: 24y, 182cm, 75kg, BF ~12% Girl: 19Y, dating for 3,5 months Boo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 08, 2022Meditation and learning how to manage energy (The way of superior man) Also check out Wim Hof method to manage stress - now you got more time, try it out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | (Masculinity Self-Improvements) A Personal Manifesto. A Brand New Testament. ✞Sure! I'd say just don't refer it to god at all. If you want to make it neutral, call it inner voice and refer it to god in your own mind. Otherwise, you can see in the comments, you'll trigger atheists and agnostics won't read your post. God has religious connotation to most people and you can't change that, so if you want to reach the wider community I'd just refer it differently :) | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | (Masculinity Self-Improvements) A Personal Manifesto. A Brand New Testament. ✞Maybe you shouldn't call this God then. But as you say.. inner voice, gut feeling, instinct... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 01, 2022In NMMNG check out more or again the sections on Covert Contracts. It's a nice reflection you made but from how you wrote about her it seems to me you might be holding some of those covert contracts. I think that as soon as you do sth for her in expectation to receive sth, she might catch that underlying tone making her draw back - check on that if its true for you | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 01, 2022Not just that, its also how you leave your SO feeling unloved Kiss her bye and go about your way | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 01, 2022Read sex god method for the anal stuff | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/22 09:48 AM |
| 3 | holding frame in an all-female houseI'd say its easier to get pulled out than you think. Some kids can be super smart when experimenting various shit tests, tricks, manipulations of what works and what not - its how they grow | /r/askMRP | 01/03/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | /r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer..."opening up" means different things for different people, and understanding what each means is probably important. Someone can open up about a past tough experience, where they went through an emotional time and how they dealt with it and that's fine because it shows vulnerability and the other person gets to know you deeper. Now someone can "open up" by complaining about current emotional problems and hoping/expecting sympathy from the other person, and that's seems to be the off putting thing.… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | How can I escalate on this girl when giving her a massage?Ask her to turn around and then kiss her Or turn her around yourself slowly and do it | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Question - Shit Test - What happened to your face?You can use it to make a joke about yourself, to show you arent insecure about it. Still stay honest, tell her truth if you want. Personally I'd say: ''I've been in many battles, tough times.''. But thats just how I feel like saying in the moment. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | STOTD - Is that your phone?The smirk ruins it! Stay serious | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 08:22 AM |
| 3 | When to go for a kiss?There arent perfect moments, waiting for the perfect opportunity will only get you more anxious. Do what you want, you're a man! Kiss her, be carefree, and dont let whatever reaction make you react back. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Best night game product?TenGame by Julien. Doesnt focus on techniques but how to make yourself feel like seducing - > way easier than faking it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 08:18 AM |
| 4 | I banged around 100 girls from cold approach and now I can't even make eye contact without crippling anxietyYou have never even got to the core yet, which as you say is not in a great state. Start meditating and you will reach the core eventually. All the dirty shit will dissipate and you will wonder what the hell were you thinking (3 months from now, to today). | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Continuing to escalateThis. It doesn't matter that much what you're saying, it's much more how YOU feel at the time. You need to have fun while talking to her, you need to be carefree and you need to show some passion. Amuse yourself, getto know what makes you laugh and reel her in. The reason why she gets turned off is because you're not being yourself, you're trying to be, and you're taking value instead of giving value. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 09:27 AM |
| 2 | What is an absolute deal-breaker in the women you date?These are good and are similar for me. I want to add: How she treats other people in your vicinity, or in general, i.e waiters etc. If she treats them badly, imagine how she will treat you in 5 years Honesty, if I sense lots of dishonesty it's a red flag for me. Her friends. If most of her friends make up of people I really don't like, there's not much to think about. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Don't Let Yourself Get PlayedI know, right! I'm finding out slowly trough time that often too I (a guy) do shit tests for girls, as I get more confident. Some girls just ain't worth investing your time, and the sooner you find this out, the quicker you can move on. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 09:03 AM |
| 2 | How to follow up on a girl that kind of showed shes sorry at workJust go by your day as you usually do, but being open minded, not resentful, unjudging, with positive energy. She'll pick up on that.. For example, when you see her at work, you feel good, and you greet her and she sees that you're in a good mood, start small talk while giving off good vibe (giving high fives includes this). This impacts her mood and soon you will feel comfortable to say that you're going to that and that event, and that it'd be cool if she'd come along. So the point is don't be… | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | How to follow up on a girl that kind of showed shes sorry at workSo you feel attracted to her, and you like her. If you take things personally (like anyone tipping you out), your mindset is going to lead you to fail. Don't take things personally. Don't hold resentment in you, it works against your interests. Exactly! Life is too short to stay mad over anything. That's a good realisation and do go and develop that. She is obviously also attracted to you so you should invite her out, for a date, outside your work. Do it early because you don't want that attract… | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 11:44 AM |
| 6 | Please help me because I can’tThis is just hate. You are not helping him with this. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 08:25 AM |
| 6 | Please help me because I can’tWell first of all I think you need to sort out your own problems before trying to approach girls. Hear yourself talking about anger? Thats what you are projecting to girls. Bad emotions. Bad self esteem is never attractive. I suggest you start working on yourself, check /r/meditation and work through the emotional baggage, and soon you will become aware what is holding you back and what WAS holding you back. As Julien said, don't get in your own way. Have a nice day! | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 08:24 AM |
| 11 | What questions do you have about attracting women?This. And be real, be you, cause a confident and aware person will see right trough you. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How to train youself to act/respond/make a desicion quicky?Meditate daily, and you will be able to respond within milliseconds. When you learn about yourself and your emotions, you will be able to penetrate her emotional shield with your energy (yeah by staring and feeling trough her). Just yesterday my day got 200% better after I just went past a cute girl, smiled at her and she smiled back... I didn't even want to stop her, I just enjoyed the fact how better it made me feel! | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-Card/r/meditation start here, its a good subreddit | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardIts not that much on her side. He showed her his personality, humanity, core, and she liked him. Usually when a girl gets hooked on you its much easier to proceed with anything. So focus first on being yourself around a girl, not being perfect, as the girl will br attracted to your uniqueness. So its not luck, its you 😉 | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardMeditate daily. This will help you learn more about yourself and what interests you. About giving examples, I can give one, but it is different for every person, where his flaws are and what he needs to work on. So, example: quitting videogames made me more social, made me want to pursue rewards elsewhere, because I started spending more time in the gym and with other people. Another one: when I really started to meditate regulary(not on and off), my presence skyrocketed and I over all became a … | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardWork on yourself, envision a future you in 5 years with multiple partners and lots of money (actually however you want). Get your inner game settled (so focus on yourself), meditate and somewhere along your journey it will hit you: ''damn boy, I' m becoming a person I started working on (X years/months) ago''. And you will know when this happens, you will realise it. Believe me. And after that, everything will continue exponentially, as long as you're focusing on learning new things and stuff I … | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 09:59 AM |
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