| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends? | Discussion | MagnetoEX | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:24 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Why therapy doesn't work for men and trauma dumping clarityNone of those links prove anything you've claimed. Correlation does not equal causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Jesus Christ is everyone on this sub reddit dumb and intellectually disingenuous ?! I'm asking you to explain your viewpoint because I'm trying to understand it. I asked for what data are you pulling from because I WANT to be familiar with it. I gave you type of info I'm pulling from. I'll happily share some of it, if you want, which I doubt. You dodged that part of the discussion and seem more interested in asserting brain dead anecdotes that don't amount to more than your own limited and narro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?The data I'm aware of the original claim ( I do not personally know any men who were good friends with a girl for an extended period of time(more than like 3 months) that were then able to transition that into a romantic relationship ) is mostly anecdotal from my own lived experiences and the social studies that are filtered into my search engine's algo. I was asking if you had data because it's a viewpoint I'm unfamiliar with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?I mean do you have data that suggest otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Yeah the 'treat a girl like a guy advice' is just bad. Treating a girl like a person is much better advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?......how am I projecting? It's rhetorical, I know you won't actually answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Yeah see, I have a problem with dumb & dishonest people trying to bully me into their position with fallacious reasoning, so I'll pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?You hand out bans now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?LOL I didn't admit anything. I'm just not interested in answer your made up hypothetical because you keep dodging me asking you why you defaulted to it in the first place. You're......special! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:41 AM |
| – | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?You got hurt bad. Wanna talk about it? I'm sympathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Again.....why are you defaulting to how the woman feels about a male friend escalating? I intentionally left the topic title vague and specifically said it could occur through any number of gender dynamics. You are projecting your own lived experiences. Just own it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Some guy hurt you, it's obvious. Not insulting either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?The fact that you default to 'he wronged her' is the irony about you saying selfish self center and self-indulgent. You are clearly projecting your lived experiences, which is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?" It's a lot more common for men to fall for their female friends than the other way around, for a host of reasons " Do you have stats that show this? Im trying to understand how you came to your conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?That sounds awful, i'm sorry that happened to you. I've had that experience more times than I count in my life. I do have to say in the interest of accuracy that a 'real friend' is a No true Scottsman fallacy. I'm not interested in apologizing on that guy's behalf but it's very possible he felt terrible after the rejection and cut communications because you weren't interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?It's the truth but you can't demonstrate it with objective data? Ok. For the record, I'm not saying you are lying. I wanted to understand your position and learn how you came to have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?I'm a guy, a straight guy. I'm actually kinda shocked alot of posters thought otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?I understand being wary of a partner's friend that they slept with, but expecting them to always not be friends? Don't you think that's kinda ridiculous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?" Well, I'm the most unhinged person in this thread. So that might explain things. " The very fact that I want to challenge and debate you on that sounds volumes about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?......so it would be pretending if someone came out and later admitted it? So what would it be if they later said it was sincere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:46 AM |
| 0 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Who hurt you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?The irony being of course that you apparently only consider this situation can only happen to 'his friend'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?It is understood that women are the more sexually selective gender. And yet guys here are constantly astonished that women are indeed more selective? What do guys think greater selectivity looks like? So many of the posts here basically boil down to some variation of shock or whining about women having higher standards than men, and those standards not being ONLY about the man being loving, kind or loyal. Yes, this does not square with complete gender equality or social constructionism, but it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:39 AM |
| 7 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?It feels like emotionaly naked because you shared things with him and it turns out it didn't mean anything to him, that he doesn't value you as a friend. I'm confused here. If you shared deep, emotional things with someone and that in turned caused them to have deeper feelings about you, then wouldn't that by definition mean it meant something to him? Because this sounds like it meant alot to someone and they value the friendship on a high level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Thank you for your thoughts, as hollow as they were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?I assure you that the vast majority of women get way more sexual than platonic attention And are aware of it That's your claim. If you don't have any supporting data for your claim, you can just say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?NGL this is the most unhinged thing I've seen in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Your assurance doesn't mean much outside of an opinion, I'm afraid. If you have data that supports this, I'm open to learn from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?This is a sub for adults, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?This is the weird kind of cynicism that throws me off. Is your 'Blue Pill Woman' tag supposed to be sarcastic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Can anyone who downvoted my last post explain why? Really curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Ok....if you wanna do the 'both sides' fallacy, at least be consistent with it. A crazy bitch and a delusional dick aren't even close to being the same. A 'crazy bitch' is objectively worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends? I mean I honestly think people operate under a 'the person you don't know is better' mindset. It would explain why people are attracted to 'the mystery' and 'figuring your partner out'. Makes me wonder if that's when relationships end, when people are bored of each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Basically you don't matter, only she does. That honestly seems like the conclusion I'm drawing from these responses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?Thats why good looking girls have tons of male "friends" (orbiters) compared to say fat ugly girls. Ugly is extremely subjective, but I fell for a couple of fat women who were considered ugly by most men and they rejected me too. :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to fall for your friends?This is why men are confused about why women are so against romantic interest between friends cause women exploit male friendship Interesting. You have any good reading that goes into this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | The reason that having SWAGGER works with women is that most of them will fall for the same sales pitchI dunno why you'd lie but you must be the only woman in history to find a nervous man exciting and romantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | The reason that having SWAGGER works with women is that most of them will fall for the same sales pitchWhy you lying to these people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 01:48 PM |
| 4 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themIf women approached men our species will be extinct in 100 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 04:43 AM |
| 3 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?Probably late 30s. I've noticed women at that age don't wanna date for a myriad amount of reasons like men treating them like shit and they dealing with depression from the last relationship. I was never allowed to date so my views are skewered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person?For the most part? Hell no. Having another person usually means more resources and help available than being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victimsThose aren't real men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Why do women here consistently portray men's dating preferences as malicious and their own as benign?I'm convinced the point is just to degrade the man to feel better about themselves. Some twisted virtue signal type of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:06 PM |
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