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| 27 | Legislative change: let's make it happen. | Magnissae | /r/MensRights | 22/08/13 02:13 AM | |
| 19 | Got a meeting with the representative for my district about reproductive rights... ~squeak~ | Magnissae | /r/MensRights | 21/09/13 01:43 AM | |
| 3 | Just finished up Gavin de Becker's 'The Gift of Fear'. | Magnissae | /r/MensRights | 29/12/13 04:43 PM |
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| 11 | How can I day by day support average men as a lady?Take accountability for the ways that society currently privileges women, and work to alleviate the societal disadvantages currently applied to men. Practically, this means things like splitting the bill on first dates and not participating in lopsided social arenas like online/app dating. Happy to provide more examples or discuss if needed. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/26 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Good news guys! Alimony reform caps payments to ONLY 55% of your income /sMost of the cases I've seen have been is where the woman makes significantly more than the man (prime examples are where the woman is a celebrity). | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 03:57 AM |
| 2 | I'm a contraceptive researcher and I'm interested to hear your opinions on male contraception!Does this survey have anything to do with Vasalgel? | /r/MensRights | 15/12/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | An Indian High Court rules: "Divorced women can't claim alimony if they have sex with other men"I disagree with alimony being a woman's right, but then again I disagree with the concept of alimony altogether. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/15 01:39 AM |
| 2 | An Indian High Court rules: "Divorced women can't claim alimony if they have sex with other men"In this day and age where men and women are held to be equal, there should be no reason whatsoever for a financial obligation to exist between marital partners after the marriage dissolves. One should not be able to profit off of non-financial contributions to a partnership. The flipside of this is that both parties in a marriage should contribute equally, both monetarily and in non-financial work. If this is not possible, an equitable arrangement should be developed where both parties are satis… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/15 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Feminist sociology professor "warns" official crime statisticians about their work - suggests that her crystal ball readings are more accurate (this is a brilliant Pyongyang-style Guardian headline)And such would be the same for the abuses that women perpetrate as well. Thankfully for men, feminists are working hard to rectify this imbalance for the good of gender equality. (gigantic /s, in case that wasn't clear) | /r/MensRights | 10/06/15 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Gloria Steinem is coming to my college campus in 3 weeks. Should I ask her a question?You could ask her opinion on how feminism will repair the divide between men and women (that it caused). | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/15 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Association with the MRMAh, yeah... that's a good point. Perhaps taking the tack of focusing on gender-based discrimination in law? Might be able to get some support from the law school at your institution (if such exists). | /r/MensRights | 27/01/15 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Association with the MRMYou might name it in a way that acknowledges the egalitarian goals of the MRM instead. However, just take care that the activities and discussions of the club don't get derailed by those seeking to inject feminism. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists hate men?You make good points, but I'd argue that as the result of misinformation or not if their action are to the detriment of men... there's some strong-rooted negative feelings there. For example, the Warren Farrell protest at the University of Toronto. I think I'd be difficult to argue that those protestors were saying the things that they were based purely on misinformation. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists hate men?While your comments may be true, how would you explain patriarchy theory in this context? I have yet to meet/read a feminist that does not subscribe to this theory in some form, and it's a thoroughly misandric worldview. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/15 07:01 PM |
| 3 | "In a world in flux, what’s the point of men?"I wonder if there's any self-consciousness at all on the part of this writer. None of this text makes any sense without the underlying premises of feminism to support them... and relying on those premises is a forlorn hope at best. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/14 12:36 AM |
| 2 | (X-post from TwoX) A Misouri state representative proposed a bill which would require pregnant women to obtain written consent from the father in order to have an abortion. Now, I think men should have more reproductive rights, but this bill is just horrible!I would start with the assumption that both adults involved should have the right to not be parents and go from there. The way that this law is proposed would not grant men the right to step away from parental obligations, only terminate the option for women to do so. It's a step in the wrong direction, I feel. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/14 11:15 PM |
| 1 | UVA rape hoax fabricator Jackie Coakley's Pintrest account shows her to be radical feminist obsessed with rapeSeconded. I thought "Jackie" was a pseudonym. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/14 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's RightsFinding moderate people to have a dialogue with isn't the problem. I speak to and hear from a variety of MRAs, egalitarians and feminists who happily have civil conversations and are interested in finding common ground towards actual equality. The problem arises when people like yourself look at the feminists who are actually moving and shaking in, people with money who are lobbying for changes in laws and cultural norms... and call them extremists. You cannot seriously advocate for equality and… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's RightsIf you think this thread is the extent of my advocacy for men and boys, you are sorely mistaken. I am responding to your statements made in the OP, nothing more. The examples I've provided have not been hypothetical thought, but concrete actions taken by feminists that have privileged women to the detriment of men. You cannot NAFALT these actions away by saying through generalities and appealing to the dictionary definition of feminism. What matters are the actions of the vocal, visible feminist… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's RightsOff the top of my head: Presumption of (added: child) custody Presumption of innocence in domestic violence situations thanks to the Duluth model of domestic violence All the rights of citizenship without any of the required military service, shown in exemption from Selective Service The right to have their genitals remain intact regardless of parents' wishes in the Western world I'm sure there are others, but these were the quickest to arrive. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/14 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's RightsI don't care about what feminism is by definition, I care about what it is in reality. And yes, if the MRM is truly interested in equality there would be a focus on helping women where they are disadvantaged. However, feminism has been the 800-pound gorilla in the room helping to advance women's rights (if not their responsibilities) for over a century. There are also very, very few legal rights accorded to men over women and most feminist issues consist of social and cultural gripes, which are … | /r/MensRights | 02/12/14 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's RightsSorry, but any situation where men are unilaterally paying for something that benefits women but not themselves is a clear-cut case of sexism. It may be self-imposed sexism or involuntary, but it's still sexism. While your point about childbirth is valid, it is also an irregular expense that not every woman will incur over the course of her lifetime. Compared to BC which depending on the type you're talking about is expensed monthly to yearly, it is a much lower increase on a man's premium. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/14 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's RightsWell, let's look at your example piece by piece. If birth control is covered by insurance under the ACA: Women Cheap/free BC mandated by law to be provided by insurance: Positive Cost sharing with the entire male population of America, reducing the cost of female insurance: Positive No use of insurance pools based on sex, which drops premiums for women: Positive Access to fairly casual sex and reduced risk of pregnancy thanks to BC: Positive Men No birth control mandated by law: Negative Require… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/14 04:33 AM |
| 6 | Men's Rights Are Not the Opposite of Women's RightsI believe it should be the cause of feminism to also address areas where women have more rights than men, if only for the fact that feminists have been actively breaking down areas where men were more privileged than women for over a century. To do otherwise indicates the following: An interest only in equal/greater rights where women were once disadvantaged Complete disregard for anything resembling responsibilities to go along with rights A lack of interest in actual equality, where rights and… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/14 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Is/Should the MRA Movement be based in Traditionalism or Modernism?While you may not see it as part of your personal feminism, you must admit that traditionalist feminism is quite loud and active ('Yes means yes' and VAWA being two recent examples that spring to mind). | /r/MensRights | 15/10/14 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Is/Should the MRA Movement be based in Traditionalism or Modernism?Female privileges to give up: Being considered important/non-disposable by both men and women Have their sexuality desired/privileged over that of men Constant perceived victimhood as perpetuated by feminism Receiving the benefit of the doubt in terms of custody, child support and alimony. Unequal contribution for equal benefit, particularly in terms of military membership and health care. Female privileges to share: None. Privilege is simply entitlement if not accompanied by corresponding respo… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/14 01:05 AM |
| 2 | [Question] [Serious] What has feminism done for men's rights?Oh, absolutely. Though just because feminists are wrong on a lot of issues, doesn't mean they haven't done some (miniscule) good for men. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/14 08:01 PM |
| 15 | [Question] [Serious] What has feminism done for men's rights?The only thing I can think of that feminism has done for men is supporting men that don't fit into their stereotypical idea of masculinity (trans men, gay men, etc.) and allowing them a greater degree of freedom of expression. However, this certainly isn't worth suffering setbacks like VAWA and the Duluth model of domestic violence. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/14 05:28 PM |
| 2 | I used to be a feminist, now I'm just confused... Help? Did I go from one extreme to another?No worries. I'm glad to have provided some more food for thought, and I hope you'll continue commenting and exploring issues with us here in this subreddit :) | /r/MensRights | 15/08/14 10:11 PM |
| 7 | I used to be a feminist, now I'm just confused... Help? Did I go from one extreme to another?While I'll agree that traditionally women have held the post of homemaker, I disagree that that's all that they should be doing. Just as not all men are suited to working to bringing in the bread, not all women are suited to raising a family. Men would certainly benefit wage-wise from women leaving the workforce, but that would also reinforce the masculine gender role upon them... something that the MRM is trying to abolish much like feminism has largely abolished the female gender role. On a pe… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/14 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I used to be a feminist, now I'm just confused... Help? Did I go from one extreme to another?Given what feminism as a movement has wrought, I don't think women returning enmass to being home-makers is likely to happen any time soon. Having said that, don't feel guilty for changing your opinion or ideological stance; just make sure that it is based on reality rather than talking points. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/14 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Punching Gloria Steinem: inside the bizarre world of anti-feminist women. How do you make sense of women who think the Hobby Lobby decision is 'great', college rape is 'inflated' and pay gaps don't exMuch obliged :) | /r/MensRights | 08/07/14 02:07 AM |
| 9 | Punching Gloria Steinem: inside the bizarre world of anti-feminist women. How do you make sense of women who think the Hobby Lobby decision is 'great', college rape is 'inflated' and pay gaps don't exSorry, but that's terribly unreadable. Any chance for a larger graphic? | /r/MensRights | 08/07/14 12:24 AM |
| 2 | How can I protect my daughter from Feminism?Actively challenge anything that unfairly portrays men as lesser compared to women. While this may become tiring to keep up all the time, it will do her good to see the major male role model in her life maintaining that men and women are equal. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/14 02:30 PM |
| 1 | A Fight as U.S. Girls Face Genital Cutting Abroad --- time to crank up the white college-educated female hysteria mill againFGM differs in intensity according to what areas of the genitals are removed. The WHO have several different classification levels for the practice (link). As a personal side note, whether or not some forms of FGM are worse does not disqualify MGM from being a terrible thing. The non-consensual removal of erogenous tissue is a bad thing, no matter the genitals involved (except for express medical purposes, of course). | /r/MensRights | 11/06/14 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Just finished up Gavin de Becker's 'The Gift of Fear'.Looks like that particular statistic is unsourced within the text. Furthermore, even if it were accurate, having the highest rate of something does not mean a particular group perpetrates the most of it. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/13 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Just finished up Gavin de Becker's 'The Gift of Fear'.I did get quite a bit of the 'men are dangerous, listen to your instincts!' vibe from the book. He even opens the book by saying that men are more violent than women, period... which is true but misleading, especially in the context of what follows. He brings up the fact that most violent people are abused as children as a huge factor in predicting violence... but then stops there, never mentioning who the majority of child abusers are. Given that the central thesis of the book is becoming bette… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/13 07:54 PM |
| 5 | So I went to see The Wolf of Wall Street (no spoilers)By that rationale, almost all contemporary feminist analysis is pointless... and yet people still lap it up. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/13 04:42 PM |
| 4 | So I went to see The Wolf of Wall Street (no spoilers)While your lady may be physically weak, using a weapon (like a pointed high heel for a kick to the nuts, or a frying pan) is not beyond her. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/13 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Got a meeting with the representative for my district about reproductive rights... ~squeak~Indeed. I'm gonna walk in there with all the facts and logic I've got... and hopefully there'll be a sympathetic ear. Looking at it from the perspective of legal equality, there's not much you can throw up against male reproductive rights other than "avoiding responsibility"... and that's easily countered by the myriad options available to women to "avoid responsibility" as well. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/13 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Got a meeting with the representative for my district about reproductive rights... ~squeak~Yeah, which sucks... all that's wanted is some semblance of legal equality under the law, which is apparently controversial these days... I thank you for your additional thoughts and will be incorporating them into the proposal. Just found out that my assemblyperson is famous for domestic violence activism and spousal abuse... which is interesting. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/13 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Got a meeting with the representative for my district about reproductive rights... ~squeak~Got most of those points in already, except for when a man would be able to opt out. I personally am for being able to do so up in the same manner as a woman: up until slightly after birth. However, you do make excellent points about how such an option would be perceived, and I thank you greatly for your input. One question: I personally feel that the default assumption when a woman get pregnant should be rejection rather than affirmation of male parenthood. As such, in the proposal when timelin… | /r/MensRights | 22/09/13 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Got a meeting with the representative for my district about reproductive rights... ~squeak~Another thought: I'd like to bring up RISUG/Vasalgel as a counterpoint to the myriad options available to women. Maybe some focus/funding can be drawn to Parsemus. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/13 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Got a meeting with the representative for my district about reproductive rights... ~squeak~Oh, I'll have a tape recorder running the whole time (or at least hope to; haven't checked what the laws on single-party recording are yet). I'm definitely gonna ask for an open-door meeting, too. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/13 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Got a meeting with the representative for my district about reproductive rights... ~squeak~Actually, it's a female representative... which currently elicits somewhat mixed feelings. She may be seriously entertaining the proposal, or she may just want to see what crackpot crawled out of the woodwork this week. I'm somewhat optimistic because I stated 'reproductive rights for men and women' up front and got a reply... but we'll see. Will definitely report back with results. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/13 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.Did I claim the exclusive right to speak for all men and boys? No, I did not. Your words don't taste very good in my mouth. Unless you have something else to offer other than loud finger-pointing, I 'm taking my leave of this conversation. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/13 04:04 AM |
| 0 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.Saying something doesn't make it so, I'm afraid. I would be silencing them if I was actively working against their messages and movements, which I am not. They, as free citizens with agency, are perfectly welcome to speak up in and create other forums, of which there are many. My claim to ownership rests solely on my current efforts alone. As more people come in, this claim will be naturally subdivided. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/13 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.TL, DR: Wall of text containing the current war plan. A living document with undoubtedly many changes to come. (most of this is just me committing thoughts to e-paper; comment/bash/critique as you will) The final goal of this movement will be equality for men and women in the state of California, in all areas of law. That is to say, neither sex shall be advantaged/disadvantaged due to state/county/local law. A two-pronged approach comprising social and legislative and legislative actions shall b… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.Incorrect. They are as free as I to start their own initiatives, and I would never deny them the right to free speech. I simply refuse to dilute the message that the movement would convey. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 03:01 AM |
| 0 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.While true, I would hate to have the movement invaded by nationalists, bigots or (insert terrible group to associate with here). Especially given the goliath of feminist PR it'll have to face eventually. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.I stand corrected. You may be hearing more from me in the near future, good person. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.Thank you for all the advice; I'm taking many notes. Would you be interested in planning or being a sounding board? I would hate to impose, but you seem like a very knowledgeable person in these matters. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/13 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.But you are, no? Visibility can make all the difference in the world. I wouldn't recommend standing in front of temple with a sign, but even something simple like passing out fliers on a street corner might start something. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/13 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.I appreciate your reply nonetheless. Right now my war plan has a number of different action items in order of priority, so focus definitely won't be an issue. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/13 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Legislative change: let's make it happen.I'm a bit torn at the moment as to whether I should be presenting as moderate and thus unthreatening, or unapologetically state the goal of legal equality for men upfront in all caps. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/13 05:00 AM |
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