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Now go compare the rate of divorce to the incidence of domestic abuse and cheating from men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:33 AM
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Right? He doesnt even mention his gf complaining about it, he said she mentioned it. He's raging over something that's a non-issue and definitely trying to use it as a gotcha moment and/or is jealous he cannot do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:42 PM
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Most people don't care and only do it to other women they know. If someone is not comfortable I assure you people call them out. Comparing this to a random man touching a woman is definitely weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:40 PM
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Most people don't care and only do it to other women they know. If someone is not comfortable I assure you people call them out. Comparing this to a random man touching a woman is definitely weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:40 PM
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Touching grass and looking around is literally the argument that would be used against you. You seem like someone who is VERY unaware of what real people are doing out there. I don't know in what kind of cult you've been living in and what kind of propaganda you've been fed, but please, for your own good, talk to an actual human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:56 AM
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Your post reads like it was written by a child. Not everyone's goal is to marry, much less marry young AND struggle. I don't see a single reason why someone would start a relationship in failure. IMO people should have some form of lived experience before they decide to do anything for the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:51 AM
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Money won't help you as a bonus if everyone around you is on the same level. Also the self-review on personality for yourself and your peers is kind of useless to mention. I could say me and my friends have great personalities and that probably isn't the same thing people outside of our group are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:23 PM
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Possibly, if men don't pick up the slack. Less men are willing to get a secondary education and "learn a trade" will only get you so far until the market is saturated, plus not everyone is built for that kind of physical labor. But who knows too, younger people are struggling to find jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:36 AM
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Or perhaps they groom themselves and have many other good qualities? What most people say is ugly is just average and can improve substantially with basic work, but it's easier to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:19 PM
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Yet I do all the time, because I actually do touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:17 PM
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Because the pay gap encompasses different industries and socio-economic levels as a whole. Also there is generally a pay gap because a lot of women have children to take care of, which is a huge disadvantage when working. A lot of the more successful women right now are CHILDLESS women or women who had kids way later in their careers. Within my friend group most women are childless, others had their kids after 35 and the ones that had kids earlier are in significantly worse economic state compar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:17 PM
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Well, I gave my answer to that. That's the normal consensus but it still doesn't make up since women stuck at home or with the majority of the home workload miss on opportunities, income and socialization. A SAHM not only is stuck at home with kids, they miss socializing with their childless friends, they can't go to social gatherings that don't involve children, they have a huge work gap. So unless the man sticks around, which for a big chunk of women they don't, it's just a complete loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:11 PM
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OP asked women's opinion, whether you want to hear it or not that's on you, I was not responding to something YOU said nor the thread is a "men look here and find the advice you need". And as your last comment, idk what your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:07 PM
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Nothing, I'd rather have a partner that does the same amount of effort and brings me peace. In the case where I'm saddled with housework then of course I'd rather someone who would bring more money so I have less work stress and can effectively deal with the added burden. Being stressed out from work and from your own home while having a partner is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:00 PM
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Which is usually what well-adapted people do. Women are just not willing to do the emotional labor for people that do not bring something to make up for it. In a perfect world everyone is doing 50/50 in everything, but more often than not women are saddled with taking care of children and home at a higher rate than their partner. If I were to expect to be in that situation, I sure as hell would want to have something else as a bonus to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:53 PM
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They're not the only thing that matters, personality is a big plus because it brings a different kind of value. Many people would rather be with someone they enjoy being around and helps them de-stress than being with a beautiful person who makes them feel like shit. It's about the balance. Are your negative traits way above the positive ones? Then good fucking luck. Go outside and you'll see a 5'2" latino man with charisma have zero issues dating/having a family because of the charisma they bri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:48 PM
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You're talking like a big percentage of the population is absolutely undesirable. Touch grass and look outside, people are dating all kinds of people and usually within their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:43 PM
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This is 100% facts. Having these better conditions for women means most people (that are in good socio-economic standing) are partnered because they genuinely enjoy being with their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:41 PM
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Which is what living beings do. Most people don't want to have children with unsuitable mates and non-ideal situations. Why would anyone pick that when given a choice? Not even animals do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:39 PM
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Probably nothing if you're completely OK with your situation. Usually people who are in same stages of their lives are in relationships because they enjoy the company of the other person, not because the person is adding a separate kind of value other than intimacy/being there for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:36 PM
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Lack of drive, emotional intelligence, consistency, basic grooming, etc. Why would anyone date someone who is working a dead end job (with no effort to change), doesn't groom themselves and isn't even affectionate/attentive to make up for it? Adding the fact that a lot of men are absolutely terrible in bed and women would just rather masturbate than have sex. It's just a losing game, and of course the men who check the boxes are scarce, partnered or have no intention to date seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:32 PM
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Women are more likely to avoid dating at all rather than date mediocre people. I have much more fun going out with friends than with a random man. Thankfully, I am engaged and don't have to deal with this bullshit anymore, but if this relationship doesn't work I wouldn't intentionally date again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:27 PM
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But we're not talking about men following Sydney or whatever. The most plausible scenario is men following a bunch of IG models or OF girls, lots of sub-50k accounts, in hopes of getting a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:43 PM
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Except most of the time women are not trying to DM those k-idols.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:30 AM
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You are free to date whoever you want man, what nobody cares about is you mentioning what you aren't attracted to, unprompted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:24 PM
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That's what you say until it ends up going around and that same man you wouldn't attack ends up attacking someone close to you. It's always someone else's problem until it happens close to home.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:18 AM
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Yeah, this is not talked enough. I dealt with this even working as a teacher. Kids would cite "boys don't hit girls" and I'd have to clarify that NOBODY should be hitting anybody and that if they did, they shouldn't be surprised if they get hit back. Although I do understand that the damage is not equal between a woman hitting a man and the alternative, violence itself should not be allowed. Problematic people like these will get you in trouble and it's very isolating to be a victim of violence …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:14 PM
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I'm sure every person regardless of gender has encountered someone like that. Like I've had a fwb that was great at sex but I was not physically nor emotionally attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:26 AM
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It's as if... People change as they age, huh? Especially when they have higher priorities that take their time, you know, like a stablished career and a group of friends whom they spend time with doing more fulfilling things like fine dining, group clases and traveling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:31 PM
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Are straight men ok? Imagine thinking that being husband material is a negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:40 AM
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Yet you refuse to provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:51 AM
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Where do you meet these people? All of those are 100% sexual harassment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:03 PM
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Yet you don't post a single source.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:02 PM
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Source: trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:56 PM
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Like I saw yesterday, "misandry leads to irritated men, misoginy leads to dead women". The "blaming" is not equal due to the outcomes of these behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:17 PM
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Literally every girl goes through that that early That's why a lot tend to hide behind baggy clothes, esp if they developed breasts early. You guys always act like women are exaggerating or making shit up when that's the reality girls live from 10-11+
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:30 PM
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Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:36 AM
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My brother in Christ, you don't even know what emotional labor is if that's what you're posting about. Emotional labor is not pulling teeth from some emotionally stunted bum, it's having to basically manage/mommy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:24 PM
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That sounds sad. Have you considered joining local interest groups? I have never had problems making the friends that way. Then after that is just putting in the effort to keep and make the friendship flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:21 PM
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How do you try to make friends though? And how do you cultivate that friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:25 PM
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The fact that you are acting like you don't know what other factors are what make online dating specifically difficult makes your whole argument useless. There's so much you can do to someone's profile if there's a 3:1 ratio of men vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:19 PM
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I don't think any woman claims that dating is harder for them than men. What people complain is that it straight up sucks. Can you get dates? Yes. Do they conduce to a proper human interaction these days? Nah. I am thankfully no longer dealing with that, but when I met my bf it was due to a miracle as I had already withdrawn from the dating market. I just happened to have gone to an event and it'd be easier to connect with people via dating apps due to the sheer amount of people attending (it di…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:37 AM
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Well babes, if vasectomies were the norm abortions would have no need. So yeah, whatever blows your goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:29 AM
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If you don't want to pay child support you can get a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:25 AM
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Not really. I feel jealous when someone is with someone who's rich and nice. Not because of the man, but because 1.8k rent I pay is not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:22 AM
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That's exactly what I'm talking about, dimwit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:08 PM
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Russia also has a whole generation of men that were wiped due to the war so there's definitely a whole lot of reasons going on for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:28 AM
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Why would I be happy about people being miserable and spreading their misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:42 PM
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That sounds like such a miserable way to live. You might want to address that before it brings you to an early grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:14 AM
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I have always been in queen spaces and I will tell you, I have not seen a single gay man that has been exclusively in "extremely chill/drama free" relationships. Perhaps that's what they've shared with you and/or you met them on their good relationship. My friends, now, are on healthy relationships. But they're all over 30, they've been through their disasters already. I'm talking consistent breakups/coming back together after physical fights and all. With lesbians I haven't seen physically viol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:09 AM
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Lack of third spaces and current lifestyle styles have made speed and online dating no longer stigmatized. A lot of people don't meet organically anymore because the places to meet people organically no longer exist. Even in situations that people could mingle at, people just avoid strangers. E.g: public spaces like gyms and clubs. People go with their friends/alone and don't want to be bothered. People ARE fighting back to reclaim/create those third spaces though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:03 AM
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There's definitely a lack of relationship material men. I'm gladly in a relationship now, but before I met my boyfriend I had already given up dating due to how horrible it is. Men either had no future aspirations, no desire for commitment, poorly groomed/dressed horribly, misogynistic, red flags overall. I did meet 1 or 2 who would be relationship material. 2 of them I still have on social media, we all got into our respective relationships around the same time after parting ways. But other tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:59 AM
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"take half of your net worth" I just love how men that make probably like 40-50k a year keep parroting this on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:48 AM
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Finances, career and success are not overrated for nobody. I do like to think that people enjoy being able to afford housing, food and entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:46 AM
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The fact that this post exists means that people have an issue with women having high standards. Depending on the person, both genders get called out for being delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:45 AM
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The resentment towards women has been there for ages, let's stop acting like this is something new. The issue is that now it's frowned upon so it's called out when a man is being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:41 AM
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Because they act like what they hear/think is the absolute truth vs what the actual individual says. Women are not all the same, it'd be stupid to think every single woman wants the same thing. They hear opinions by women from all kinds of backgrounds and their thought process is "women can't decide what they want" instead of "oh, these are opinions from multiple individuals with different backgrounds, morals and lived experiences".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:37 AM
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Find someone who aligns with your values and goals Someone who's 23 doesn't need to have a high paying job (yet) but having no ambition to do anything else to improve herself is concerning. Cut it off early, it's the best for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:30 AM
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I'm ok with it, I currently haven't had sex in a year and I'm completely ok. I have a partner but neither of us have felt the urge in a while, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 05:28 AM
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You're arguing with people who are allergic to reading, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:13 PM
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The other day i was walking around and seeing birds do the whole dance. Birds have to be architects, find the best materials, do the best dance, have the best physique just to be considered. Men definitely have it easier than birds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:09 PM
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They aren't scared because they're delusional and think it will never happen to them. They should 100% have their own savings on the side to prepare just in case. Of course, you don't get married thinking it will end, but you should NEVER let your fate be on someone else's hands. Can't be me though, i grew up knowing I'd never put myself in that situation. Edit: just to add. My brother IS having a traditional relationship with his partner. But he told her to make a savings account that is on her…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:32 AM
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I don't see how women letting other women know they're in toxic relationships equates them to being miserable IRL lol. And you say "small things" when a lot of it is shit like "my husband doesn't do absolutely anything for the baby even though I am still bleeding" and shit along the lines. Also very stupid of you to say that when MGTOW is literally men just talking about how they're removing themselves from the dating pool and how miserable that is making women (not).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:39 PM
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People are being honest to you in their answers and you just continue to challenge them. No is an honest answer. If men ask specifically what turned the woman off, then most likely the woman will respond if they feel safe. Like over text and this guy doesn't know where she lives/works). But why would anyone say that unprompted? "Oh sorry, I don't feel like dating you because you're creepy/disgusting/interesting" Tell me, in which world does anyone tell someone that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:59 AM
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Because that could make the difference between someone yelling at you vs beating you up :) What doesn't go through your thick skull? Do you trespass and go pet a guard dog just because the dog could potentially want pats? Or do you choose to not do it because the risk is high and the reward is nil? What is my motivation to be blunt with men? I see only downsides and absolutely no reward to it. If their friends can't tell them they're shitty, a random stranger doesn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:53 AM
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"women value their comfort over integrity" My brother in Christ, having survival skills is a crime now? You go and figure out yourself wtf is wrong with you. Go to therapy. I'm pretty sure is plenty obvious to everyone, not just prospective partners, what is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:44 PM
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No thank you, I once had a man go nuclear on me just because I said I didn't want to be picked up for a date and I'd get there by myself. Women being less than "nice" or neutral puts them in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:42 PM
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No, we fear men due to lived experiences. I've been harassed on the street, followed by foot and car, gotten things yelled at me while still being a young teen. Then it's all the women who've been beaten, raped and/or murdered. It's never some case you heard about in some country you barely remember exists, it's stuff that happens in your same town, to someone you know or a friend of a friend. I briefly worked in foster care and had to be explained that sometimes women don't abandon their kids b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:25 PM
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Ayyy DR representing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:15 PM
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"it's an obvious lie" Babes, women speak from their own experience and main LOUDLY claim that's the specific reason they like to date younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:05 PM
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No, the problem is that women have figured out that it's a zero sum game to commit to men in your early years instead of investing on yourself and being left with nothing after being abandoned by their husbands they poured their soul into. I rather have my degree and guarantee that when I marry, I have insurance for me and my potential kids in case things turn differently. The man doesn't even have to be a bad husband. Things happen. What if he ends up being disabled? Women tend to stay at a hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:40 PM
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No, it's because they're going specifically to countries where women would choose them just because they're a chance to a better life/green card. You don't see them doing that BS with women from non-strugglibg areas. There's even have a word for that, LBH (Losers back home).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:29 AM
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Holy mother of delusional takes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:19 AM
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I don't understand why it should be considered shallow to not set up with child for failure. Being a mother already puts women in disadvantage in the workforce. Pregnancy, birth, child care, time off to take kids to appointments. All that mostly falls on the woman, it's fair to want someone who can make up for the loss of income that comes with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:13 AM
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I currently know two guys who should have ended their relationships a long time ago. One married, has been telling us he's going to ask for a divorce since 2019. Hasn't done it. His wife wants a house and kids. He wants none of that but refuses to let go. Second guy is unmarried and lives with his girlfriend, but shows discomfort every time we called his girlfriend's mom his mother-in-law. One day while driving me home he clearly stated that he didn't think his gf wasn't the one and had no inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:10 AM
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It's as if the kind of people that would agree with that statement are the kind of people who would respond to that thread. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:25 AM
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The younger party tends to change to fit the relationship. Go out less, have less friends, be easily manipulated into doing things they wouldn't do. I personally was trying very hard to "be more mature" and "not bring drama" when all that time that guy was cheating. I believed his BS when I wouldn't have believed someone my age as they wouldn't have the "I know best because of my experience" factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:11 PM
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So basically it's easy to hate people because now they have rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:59 AM
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Shouldn't, but is in most cases. Or even a negative, as it could be physically or emotionally tasking. Having mediocre sex and ending up with your vaginal PH out of whack for a week+ isn't exactly the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:57 AM
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It's the basic principle of "they're not into you". If you have to pull teeth to have a conversation on a date, they are already not interested in you. I had immediate connection with my bf when we started talking because we both had interest on what the other said. We spoke on the phone vs just texting from the start. Anything less than genuine interest, people should just cut their losses and move on early.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:55 AM
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That last sentence is a false equivalency. Women are not awarded the same grace as men when electing for the sterilization procedure. I had a friend that took over a decade to find a doctor who would be willing to give her a hysterectomy even when she clearly stated she had no desire to have kids ever and was suffering from horrible periods, which ended up being endometriosis. If you're young, childless and unmarried ,they will not do it. If you have a single kid, they will not do it. If you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:51 AM
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Most men do not listen at all. Some even get offended when given any sort of direction. It's a zero sum game, hence why women are starting to have less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:41 AM
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These are definitely the ones who scream that women don't want to date them because women just date the top percentage of men. No man, they don't date you because you reek of creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:39 AM
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If someone is being blatant about it, I will not go out with them having that notion before hand unless I had no intention from the start to date him seriously. Sex can happen on a first date, it'll happen organically if both parties are down to it. But a man stating from the get-go that he wants to have sex on the first date leaves the impression that he has no desire to pursue anything serious. Even if he states otherwise, nobody would believe them as most men lie in order to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:32 AM
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I am in my 30's and I deeply dislike age gap relationships because I've been there. My friends have been there. Some younger women may not dislike them because they've yet to have the experience and the introspect to realize how it may have affected them. I also don't understand how anyone in their right mind would go out with someone who's in a completely different stage in life. After a certain age and lived experiences, age gaps don't matter as much, but this is assuming that the younger part…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:27 AM
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Regularly sex for women with strangers is below mediocre at best and terrible at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:19 AM
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I agree. I have so much more peace of mind now that I am not that worried about strange men talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:52 PM
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Man, you really need to date somewhere else if that's your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:54 PM
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It ultimately depends on the guys experiences and awareness of his situation. I have friends on the spectrum that are hyper aware of their behaviors and mask accordingly. They're considerate so they are clear of no-no's even if they don't agree with them. Then I see other people who use their neurodivergence as an excuse to act like assholes. You're responsible for your own neurodivergence and need to plan accordingly. Personal example: I have bipolar and ADHD, possibly mild 'tism but I'm not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:11 PM
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I don't agree with this. If you claim something, you need to back it up. It's not something basic like "yesterday I saw a bird". Usually it's some bold ass claim with statistics taken out of their asses. Pretty darn harmful for people to be spreading stuff online without backing it up. EG: today I saw someone suggest that people should not throw grease away, but instead to mix it with seeds and feed it to birds. There's no actual source that supports that. If you look online, they will instantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:23 PM
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While yes, 18-30 is allegedly the prime, you can't bullshit your way into saying that men don't do it for the power imbalance. If that was true you'd see younger men going for women THEIR AGE or older within that age range. But they largely don't. BS argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:27 AM
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People will claim they care about a million things then you go outside and see the case is not as people claim. Go outside and people watch. Does real life reflect whatever BS standards people parrot online? Sit at a park and see what the families look like. Are they all tall, fit, 6+ rich CEOs? Some people will care, others don't. I am 5'0". I have dated guys my same height as me and up to 6'3". Current boyfriend is 5'8".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:58 AM
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Innocent father of two kids is such a fucking wild thing to say about someone who's entire MO is denying care to people in need. People in need who already pay for the insurance coverage they should be receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:53 AM
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Oh God, this one is so painful to notice. I get a lot of red pill content on YouTube for some reason, and heading people parrot the same thing IRL has to be one of the cringiest things in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:50 AM
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It's not as hard as you make it seem. There's behaviors and comments people make that instantly show the person's overall behavior. Sure, some people are better at hiding it than others, but the cracks show. I do not relate to people who make consistent misogynistic, -phobic or -ist comments. You can tell early on by what they consider jokes. Or "small" comments. You can also tell by their reaction to certain things. Someone who has an exaggerated reaction to a non-issue statement of behavior is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:44 AM
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It's a genuine observation. I cannot imagine you have had any actual interaction with actual human beings when you make that kind of statement. Much less seeing the conspiracy theories and anti-vaxx stuff on your post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:34 AM
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I wonder what it feels like to be one of those people that have never had a religitimate interaction with another human being. I mean, that's what you sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:20 AM
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I don't think women are intimidated by either. Fuckboy is basically that so women already know that's not going anywhere. And husband material is kind of a very vague term? Very handsome men in general are more intimidating, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:02 PM
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Great to see men actually telling other men that basic hygiene, grooming and a pleasant personality goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:54 PM
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Y'all seem very blind to the blatant misoginy, racism and homophobia, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:40 PM
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Age gap relationships when one part is below 25 is creepy AF. Why is a grown ass adult with lived experiences going out with a person that just started adult life? Sounds like a good way to manipulate someone since you're the one who "knows" how life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:37 PM
2

This is so sad. I wonder what the female version of this would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:16 PM
5

There's absolutely no way you're not an incel posting as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:59 PM
10

Seen it way too much. Not even a bad partner, either. I know someone who is in a relationship with what seems like a good girl. He just has no intention to marry her and he keeps dragging it for no reason. I did tell him that what he is doing is cruel, esp because she does wanna get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:57 PM
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One of my ex coworkers years ago told me how he was sitting with a group of friends and they asked him if he was gay just because he refused to cat call a woman he wasn't even interested in the first place. It's extremely normalized for men to harass women for absolutely no reason and if you dare to not do it, your peers will think lowly of you. I hope he is no longer in those toxic masc friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:55 PM
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This is the lowest quality bait I've seen in a while. There's no less sympathy to show when there's none to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:08 AM
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Reminder: this obsession with circumcision is mostly an AMERICAN thing on this side of the world. So yes, a big part of this group is US centered so the genital mutilation must be very rampant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:06 PM
1

The only thing I had heard from bisexuals was that men are just easier for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:42 PM
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What happened to dead people? Are we living in the same world? Why are you talking like misoginy was something that happened in the past? Incredible how blind men enjoy being about issues they perpetuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:35 AM
2

I'm talking about the reasons for it, not whether or not individuals deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:26 PM
2

Casual misandry is a response to the casual and non-casual misoginy that is both on the internet and irl. Men have historically treated women like shit and now wonder why they're being attacked back. Imagine women are not keen to talking greatly about men when almost every woman has been sexually assaulted in one way or another, or at least knows someone who has.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:49 PM
4

Wait, that post, aside from the last one, is about "boy moms" Also having likes/views doesn't mean people agree with something. The boy mom thing is a completely different fenomena. And if you have to "dig deeper" to find something, then it is not a widespread issue, you're just looking specifically for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:08 PM
1

Man, you are from India one of the world's worst countries for women. Sit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:04 PM
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You need to touch grass if you think the same volume of people you see online are the norm. If it's up to that argument, the same men who are wishing harm upon women are all the ones on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:34 AM
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Where have you seen this unhinged posts? Not saying that they don't exist, people are fucking insane esp on Twitter and Tiktok, but no algorithm has ever brought me to those
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:29 PM
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Probably because men are lonely at a bigger scale than women. Women can easily find communities where their needs are consistently met emotionally. Men on the other hand have historically relied on their partners for emotional connection. With women now having the choice of not depending on marriage, men are losing on opportunities. Before having a partner was easier as women couldn't do many things due to not being allowed, being discriminated about or due to shame/fear of becoming a "spinster"…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:04 AM
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Go tomorrow to a park, sit there and observe. For you to claim it to be a lie, it means that you don't go out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:43 AM
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It's a self fulfilling prophecy. They believe women are XY (eg, women don't date men under 6) then men who do not meet that criteria just stay angry and bitter and are validated by fellow men that believe the same thing. You can't meet a proper partner if all you do is talk shit about women online. The female version of it is the Female Dating Strategy. It's the same self sabotaging mentality. Edit: went on a tangent. The correlation is people feel bad > they look for communities where they feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:38 AM
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Yet you go outside and men of all heights are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:18 AM
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If you went online and outright believed everything, specially from the "manosphere", I think you have bigger problems to address aside from dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:16 AM
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The problem is when this kind of behavior starts seeping into real life. I've seen men go from normal to start talking in these internet terms. Hell, I've had some guy talk about how I had masculine energy when I challenged his behavior. I just laughed and stopped contact. We like to think that it's just loud people on the internet, but some people are spending so much time on the internet (men with red pill content and women with spoiled girlies content) that they are begining to believe that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:11 AM
0

Homie, either this is a ragebait or you need to dig deep within yourself as to why you keep getting into these situations. What kind of environment are you in? Why are you not getting out of it? Are you going for a VERY specific type of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:04 AM
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It's a zero sum game that could potentially be just negative. Even women who are into casual sex end up realizing you're better off masturbating than having sex with some random guy. It could be because generally it's bad + the added risks (STD, pregnancy) or simply because they do not get any pleasure from having sex with someone they don't like beyond physical appearance. Women have to deal with most of the consequences of casual sex and way less enjoyment so it's pretty clear why most people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:57 AM
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Sure bro Nevermind, reading a single post by you is enough to tell what kind of person you are. Basura.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:25 AM
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Respectful, not any -phobic, cares about human rights, is not quick to anger, does not yell, is kind, cares about his careers and hobbies, can have a decent conversation, has friends, is great at communicating, is not afraid to show love, cuddly, etc. So I'm basically defining my boyfriend, soon to be fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:02 AM
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So what you're coming to say is that men have not evolved past primitive behavior? Sounds like a terrible way to paint men. I am so glad my boyfriend is nothing like y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:59 AM
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So what you're saying is that men should change their ways and fight against the stigma of support groups, just like women had to fight for their basic rights? What a wild idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:57 AM
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Nobody calls modest women pick me's, people call pick me the women who are clearly pandering to men while putting women down. So the example you made of the "non-modest" woman is what people call pick me's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:52 AM
1

Most people wouldn't hesitate to go on a second date if the guy is interesting to them. Kinda pointless question to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:32 PM
2

I take shit that didn't happen for 500
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:28 PM
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Well, if you have a dog that makes talking to people extremely easy. Not a guy, but I didn't even meet my neighbors until 2 years in when I got my dog. I talk to people way more and people tend to talk to me even if it's just go say hi to my dog or say that they also have one. This is not relationship related but I swear it gives a great boost to just have normal consistent conversations within your neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:21 AM
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I'm pretty sure anyone would take not having kids at all vs having them and seeing them struggle any day. You could still, you know, foster or adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:08 AM
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Although some would argue for the sake of the kids, in the case of the parents this is not a hot take. What people usually have a problem with is that "what about the kid who saw you as a parent all that time?" F the lying mother but the kids have no fault in this. Socially, this is a nightmare too. This kid would end up going from a normal family, to maybe homelessness, creating a child with educational and social deficiencies up to and/or beyond adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:21 PM
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But what exactly are you offering apart from your job and looks? Did you send your friends out with good pictures and good points to talk about? Or they just pulled some random ass picture that probably sucks and didn't say anything meaningful? Also how do you know they asked 47 women? Like before any of that has happened, I'd make sure I had my social media carefully curated to make sure it was showing who I was and what I liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:10 PM
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Then he shouldn't even add that in the content of the post. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:24 PM
2

Sure bro. That's probably why you're here on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:27 PM
2

Go ahead and try that and post results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:21 PM
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Newsflash kiddo, women aren't and don't have to be interesting for the sake of men. They are their own person, they just don't care to share their interests with y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:20 PM
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Fluctuating/declining as a whole =\= consistent fluctuation throughout the month. You have just outed yourself as a dumbass. No need to continue this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:29 AM
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Perhaps the hormones women have to deal with? Men don't have fluctuating hormones nor meds that cause weight gain prescribed as every day meds, so what is their excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:14 AM
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Tbh Kevin Samuels was not a good person but he wasn't bad either. His advice was just for people to get off their high horse, he didn't tell women to settle for BS. He called men and women out. Now, everything else is ridiculous. Like some of those channels saying that you should stay married even if your husband cheats or that if you wanna be with a HVM you need to accept him cheating. Etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:06 PM
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Women dating men in what further proves that sexuality isn't a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:41 AM
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That a lot of people here have no life experience of what they're spouting. It's comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:30 AM
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Kids are expensive and a hindrance to personal development. People who are choosing to have kids are doing so at a later stage which means less kids as a whole. Basically nobody has the time and money to have kids. Some people are afraid of bringing children to the current socioeconomic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:45 AM
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Kind of like Elon. Yikes. Your friend needs to seriously invest that money on being less socially awkward. Not just dating but as an overall help for himself. I'm rooting for you, awkward fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:03 PM
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The men saying this is already above average have already proven OP's point about the kind of people in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:34 AM
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Bro really thought he ate 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:58 AM
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Advise from people who are actually married/in healthy relationships. Im pretty sure there has to be a subreddit for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:27 PM
1

Wasn't this post removed earlier? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:12 AM
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I am against unrealistic expectations toward men. I am completely against the 6' requirement, as it really does nothing for the relationship. Maybe it's because my family is short so I don't really see value or lack thereof due to height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:36 PM
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Shh, they don't want to face the facts that any numbers that support their ideals are relating to other people being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:43 AM
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...what does that have to do with virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:35 AM
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For what reason? I don't see a single upside to that. Seems like you're the cronically online person who doesn't have actual life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:28 AM
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Girl, out of all the things to worry about, not being able to contribute in a conversation about exes isnt it. Enjoy you don't have to deal with that mess. I'm pretty sure there's a million other things you could relate to that isn't gokng through a trainwreck of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:26 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:09 PM
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Bro there is something intrinsically wrong with you if you really did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:08 PM
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Did you hurt your back with that reach?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:44 PM
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No, that's equally cringy to say IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:49 PM
2

That's not a me problem because it is not happening to me. I don't pick man children. I am staying an observation of what the majority of people are going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:40 PM
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The brilliant personality and the belief that women overseas have less standards than women in the US. Most he'd get is a woman who sees him as a green card and will dump him as soon as the process is finished.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:31 AM
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I am a hot headed person so I am more attracted to calm personalities. My boyfriend is very calm and positive, also the sweetest ever. After every time we get together, he sends me a message thanking me for the company for the day. It's been almost 2 years now. My dad was a pretty good man so of course I would never accept anything less. As for the other personalities, nothing wrong with them but I am a homebody so someone who is very energetic is not a good match for me. I already have a Jack R…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:29 AM
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Problem is, chronically online people would say shit like that because that's what's being posted all the time on TikTok. It isn't even an original thought so it's hilarious to think people try to pull this shit off offline. It's like one time a guy said I have "masculine energy" and I had to remind him that he wasn't in some YouTube comment section. Cringy ass behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:26 AM
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Truly spoken by a man who will never be loved neither in the US nor abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:23 AM
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Because they majorly don't. I know plenty of good guys, but most of them do the very basics of stuff like that, if any. Then there's the shitty guys that would literally have a girl over while their place is covered in dust and they have nothing at home that's edible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:21 AM
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It's because the bar for men is all the way down to the pits of hell. There's countless women out there having some hobo boyfriend living at their place while she works and all he does is play videogames or some bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:19 AM
2

Did you check more studies or did you just grab the one that had data that supported your views?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:20 PM
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What seems to not exist anymore is enough common sense to realize that the world is not your very limited number of peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:08 PM
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No, just seems like you're pretty mentally and socially challenged. When there's a binary, not sure why you would mention something when it's either one or the other. Also most popular = easier to interact with other people that use the same platform. So it's popular for a reason with certain demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:15 PM
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I am in CS. None of my friends are in CS and still a lot of them have Android. Another thing: in CS, most people already use iPhones in the US because most people prefer to program on Macs. Our whole dev dept is running on Mac.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:12 PM
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Bro you have a type, that's your own problem. None of the women I know do any of that. The iPhone thing is some weird ass shit to add as if iPhones weren't one of the most popular phone types.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:40 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:37 AM
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Damn y'all really keep in top shape doing all these mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:26 AM
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You went on and insulted a whole demographic and get your panties in a twist so easily lmao. Basically, if you go and can't find a woman that is "up to standards" is because you are, in fact, not up to standards. Improve yourself and hang out in places that adults actually hang out. 💯 LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:12 AM
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That's a lot of words to say that you're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:58 AM
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No, we hate them because we've been there or seen it and we know what an unhealthy relationship looks like. I haven't seen a single age gap relationship where the situation wasn't incredibly unfavorable for the woman. Y'all just want to have easy to manipulate GFs which is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:56 PM
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This post was 100% written by a guy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:37 PM
0

Must be nice to be a man and think this is just an "ick"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:50 PM
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Men will equate absolute horrendous shit to some BS inconvenience. Getting sexually harassed consistently is not the same as getting a goddamn spam call. I'm not sure how dense you have to be to actually equate those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:09 PM
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There is not one day that passes by without seeing people that desperately need to touch grass. Stop treating fiction as a general truth, JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:59 AM
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No /Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:52 AM
1

A little off topic but... How close have you ever gotten to this hypothetical situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:37 AM
1

/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:54 AM
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Either they're lying and only parroting what they hear/see online while never touching grass or their social circle is comprised of that, which definitely says a lot about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:50 PM
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As someone in IT, I can tell you that this is not the case. Even my coworker talked about past experiences where him and a girl that worked together had vastly different salaries when he said that both of them were on the same skill level. You can keep living in delululand, but facts are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:25 AM
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When will the people of this sub ever touch grass? You're just basing your idea of women based off of posts on social media, where the most outrageous takes are the ones that gain any kind of attention. Go outside, talk to real people, stop being an NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:18 AM
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As an immigrant, this loneliness epidemic feels so weird to me. Back in my country (DR) everyone cares and talks to each other. Because of that, even moving to the US it hasn't been hard to make friends. I don't know if its a cultural thing or what because this is not something that is an issue in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:28 PM
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I'm not sure what kind of experience y'all have or if it's just Internet perspective, but as a woman with a lot of female friends, we do not have any crazy standards. You also look outside and most couples are average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:23 PM
2

Probably their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:18 PM
2

A wedding is a celebration, except this is a big one as it is supposed to be a one in a lifetime event. I don't see the difference between that and a birthday party. Now, the big diamond is an American thing, nothing to do with being progressive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:30 AM
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CUNT (preparation for the winter)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:28 PM
5

As opposed to... The very conditional marriage for social/economic reasons of the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:13 PM
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Passport bros are the scum of earth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:39 AM
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The one who wins is whoever touches grass and stops believing these things actually make as much as an impact as the internet makes it seem. Jesus Christ I swear y'all must be some chronically online idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:38 AM
4

I'm Latino and I'm calling bullshit on your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:26 AM
0

Bro you guys are so miserable lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:25 AM
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They could be bots, OP. Or you know, the same reason why you're there. It's hilarious to see someone say "I've seen this person for the last 8 years" which means you're in the same boat so why even point it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:41 AM
3

Piggy backing on that... Age gap relationships affect both sides but men tend to applaud younger men for engaging sexually with women way older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:29 AM
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If that's the quality of people around you, it definitely says a lot about you, too. If you're so superior, go around and hang in better areas/circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:05 AM
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Every single day I wonder if the people in these posts ever go outside or are magically surrounded by losers of their same standing? Because no way in hell anyone that goes outside and talks to real people would believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:56 PM
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Because a lot of the time men are pretty useless at taking care of the house. Way too often we see bums not working and contributing absolutely nothing to the house. So as a general thing women just see that and would rather not even risk that situation. Me? I hope I get to climb the ladder that when time comes, my partner can be the househusband. We both want kids but I don't like small children meanwhile he's a speech therapist and loves kids. He's the best choice to stay home and take care of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:02 PM
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That's what it sounds like but yet you look outside... Like most adults my age around me are married. My own friend group isn't widely married but some are. My cousins my age are all married. I am in a committed relationship with no plans of being a 6 year girlfriend, meaning I should be engaged soon or I'm calling it off, I'm 30 after all. The biggest issue the 20-30's are having is this shitty ass economic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:45 PM
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Nobody is dying alone because they aren't tall enough or rich enough. It's like people on the Internet don't go out and see what real married people look like. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:45 PM
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As someone else stated, as more about what is NOT good to do vs what they would prefer as people are completely different. E.g.: some girls like to see their partner all the time. I do not want to see anyone more than twice a week. But all women will tell you they don't want a man that looks and behaves like a slob and has no drive. Some women will say that men with low-paying jobs are a no while others don't care as long as the man has drive to improve or at least has something to make up for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:24 PM
1

As someone has pointed out already, the data is not transparent. If it was a % and was divided by subgroups, then it would make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:53 AM
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When was the last time you touched grass or talked to an actual human, not a reddit NPC?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:25 PM
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The overall response to this and this whole sub would be: touch grass. The internet is no representation of what people are like IRL. If people were anything like the perception y'all have, there wouldn't be any families.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:24 PM
1

Bro why you write so many words to say so little?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:18 PM
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Y'all taking the bait too hard. This sounds like a troll post. Literally word to word the female version of what men post all the time about women. "Why would I get married? She will only use me for my resources. What does she have to offer? A high body count, attitude, blah blah"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:14 PM
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Women don't date TRP/b pill men because of their shitty personalities, not for their alleged abysmal looks. Even if they looked ok, just the shit they say alone makes them go from a 5 to a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:52 AM
0

You must be smoking something weird to make this claim. Are you sure you shouldn't be in the redpill subreddit with the rest of the incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:57 PM
1

You mean that it doesn't fit the average or that she isn't disabled in some sense? That's a very vague answer, although I guess it is easy to picture what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:14 PM
2

Omg. Men with strong legs and nice butts are my biggest weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:12 PM
1

My ideal body is someone taller than me, which isn't hard as I am 5' I've dated 6'3" and, honestly, it was a pain in the ass. I also prefer men who are a lil chubby. No muscular men or very thin men. I am overweight myself so ideally, until I lose a considerable amount of weight, my preference is men who are not obese due to the fact that it makes sex more difficult. Also, race wise, I prefer PoC, preferably Latino or brown skinned with dark hair. With that said, my guilty pleasure that I like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:10 PM
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Men really are out there complaining about this as if they had standards themselves. It is beyond hilarious. Men get treated like absolute shit by attractive women and see no problem. I do not see the point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:24 AM
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