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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | Free on paper but falling apart inside. | Main-Produce-7291 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 08:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Recently DivorcedI have been separated for two years and divorced two months ago. I have used apps on and off, and they have been an absolute source of resentment, toxicity, and exhaustion for me emotionally. I have had zero success on the apps. Just to give you context, I am a 39-year-old male writer based in L.A. In real life, I have gone out with models, actors, artists, and creative, stunning women, but on apps I have never gotten anything. My dating strategy has been focused on myself: growing my art and my… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/26 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Supposed to hookup with a girl soon, only ever been with one person.Great advice in the comments. Here’s my two cents: - Stay calm. If you don’t meditate, get into the practice. Even 10 minutes per day will make an unimaginable difference. - Make a playlist. Nothing loud or dramatic. But romantic and sensual instrumental music. Even YouTube has hours of music that gets you into a passionate mood. (Search something like Kama Sutra music, & you will start to see many options) - Ask her what makes her feel safe and alive. Do more of that. - masturbate a day or two … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Considering divorce in CAUse your individual therapy to plan for the divorce. You deserve your peace. You already know that. Prayers and strength to you | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/26 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Ex wife want to move on with another guyBrother, perhaps the “nice guy” in you doesn’t want to hurt her. And this may lead to you becoming her on-demand therapist and coach. Over time, it will demean your self-image. It’s time to peacefully end this dynamic. Hold loving space for your two kids. And build YOU. Meditate, yoga, workout, creative activity. Go all in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/26 12:43 PM |
| 6 | Solitude after divorceI’m an introvert, not much social. I moved to a different state after my separation. I’m still trying to find my people but it’s not been easy. However, I am finding so much solitude in my own company. Cooking, reading, and focusing on work has been a blessing. I recently joined yoga studio. Never did yoga before. It felt awkward at first. But really enjoying being there and seeing familiar faces every week. The girls are beautiful in my studio, and one of these days, I’ll say hello to them. :) … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 06:55 PM |
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