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| 3 | 2 months in, mediation next | MajesticDrive4049 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/24 05:22 PM |
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| 3 | 50/50 dads.#respect 🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 02:23 PM |
| 4 | I’m bitter, angry, and want people to agree that I was treated badly.Sheet…my wife withheld sex for 4-5 years. Dont worry, youll get to make up for lost time on court! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/26 11:06 PM |
| 2 | I don't love my wife of 8 years any moreExactly! Wtf is this love & happiness bullsheet | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice from divorced menMy wife was pretty & had a good job. Theres never just 1 reason why, its like 1000 small little reasons. As long as you wont have to pay alimony or child support youll be ok. I think soulmates is like winning the lottery, but everyone should get married once or twice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Just need to vent and get some thoughts from the outside...Separate finances and give her a allowance. I think we are all going through something as we get older. Maybe get a side piece buy dont get attached. Have some fun and maybe she will become retracted. Good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/26 03:09 PM |
| 1 | My wife is divorcing me after 20 years (would be 20 on August 12 this year) any tips .This 💯☝️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/26 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Accurate! I was on date 6 and i was asked about going on other dates, doing drugs and neglecting my kids. I was seeing red!!! Turns out her & the ex had a mutual friend on fb. I confessed to all 3, then a while later we were making out in my truck. I ghosted her after that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 01:42 AM |
| 3 | I’m looking for advice on my marriage situation.Dont be so hard on yourself my guy. We are all just people living with two hundred thousand year old operating system for a brain. You really cant keep her from leaving, and theres nothing you can say to change how her heart feels. All relationships have a timer set regardless whether there is a verbal or written contract. The heart wants what it wants. You were always gonna be the bad guy when its over anyways | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 05:07 PM |
| 4 | STBXW trying to take the whole house. Need advice.Lawyer ⬆️ - move into the basement or utility room. Wait for the equity payment | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Early separation with a baby - wife wants full custody and near zero visitation. What should I be doing?I just got a 50/50 deal, i think its the new normal. I wouldn’t entertain anything less. Tic tok is deluding women! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Exs new dudeYou gotta feel to heal brutha ✊ - in a year she will have different problems that she wont be able to blame you for. Womens operating system is 200k years old and alittle outdated. Its just biology | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/26 03:51 AM |
| 11 | Hard not talking to her missing her loving her thinking about her well being as a protector.I get joy out of watching women on dating sites ask where all the good men are when they already had one and left him for a myth | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 02:09 AM |
| 4 | What does a divorced Christian dad do on the nights when he doesn’t have his kids?Get a rotation broski | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 01:56 AM |
| 2 | helpThis is a great post, i think most of us can relate to this. Anger is a normal emotion that men face when we dont understand the why. I think it makes sense to think the reason why relationships fail is due to one reason, when really its a thousand little reasons. I think most men exhaust themself day in day out to keep it all together and then the when the rug gets pulled, thats how we feel. If your dad didnt care i doubt he would be angry, but its sometimes hard to put words to emotion. There … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 03:03 AM |
| 7 | What’s it like out thereListen boys, im a year post divorce. Follow dr Corey Wayne and Casey Zander - im 50 and 275# and wish i had more time to date im having so much fun. Be ready when they ask you for commitment, just deflect and say the right things like “why the rush, i aint going anywhere”. Tell them they can see other people. Women say crazy shit and with indifference you will have more sex than you ever had in your whole life. Dont catch the feels tho. Best time ever to have your shit together. Good luck and ha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Getting back into dating after divorce, how do you rebuild confidence for conversations?Adivan | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 09:31 PM |
| 12 | I Sense She is Regretting Big TimeSame! Wife started on ozempic after 14 years - lost 65 lbs. started coming home 2.5 hrs late and then asked for divorce. I dont know if the backup plan pumped & dumped, but she found my replacement on Tinder and i keep getting asked if i cheated on her. Pfft, i wish!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | First sex post divorceSemen retention 🤘 finish yourself after she leaves it will be glorious! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/25 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Ex won’t stop talking to meThese hoes aint loyal | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 01:25 PM |
| 2 | My marriage collapsed and we are divorcing , and now I feel pity for her.It amazes me the amount of women who make terrible choices, get ran through during the hoe-phase and then get cucked up by capt. save-a-hoe. Its like the butterfly turning back into a caterpillar to complete the hoe-reformation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/25 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Divorce & HolidaysIf i had it to do over again i would have found a good relationship youtube coach like (casey zander) - worked on me - found a side piece - just detach bro. I wouldnt worry about her affairs really, its in her nature and dont take it personal. Get your money in order and be prepared. Filing is only the beginning and it never ends. Youll probably have a easier time finding woman being married even. I like where your head is at tho, good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Another post from me (sorry) - With my ex now moved out, neighbors and friends are noticing. How do I talk to them about what happened while maintaining privacy?Just tell them that your a serial killer because they think that anyways. I mean, we have to blame the man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/25 05:18 PM |
| 12 | Visited the other divorce subs and I'm shocked...I find alot of value in writing down how i feel so if i ever forget i can look back and have clarity. It was only our turn! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 01:32 PM |
| -14 | Guys, I really need some strategic adviceYour friend should just deal with it! Women cheat who cares. He should just pound side peaces and stash side monies . Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/25 12:13 PM |
| 4 | For those of you with verbally abusive and controlling wives, how did you feel after divorce.This is a great question. Im really enjoying the freedom. Also i have been dating 2 different ladies so mon-fri is variety and adventure. I have my kids from fri-mon. I have been following dating coaches dr Corey Wayne and Casey Zander and have been having great success. Its been a struggle but i just have recently been feeling alot better of my situation and im having so much amazing sex. Life is getting better every day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/25 09:23 PM |
| 6 | For those of you with verbally abusive and controlling wives, how did you feel after divorce.I moved out in march and im doing and feeling great! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Cybersecurity hygiene through divorce and separationI too was caught by surprise, however my divorce has been final since march. What i find wierd is that my apple id pw keeps not working and i have to charge it. Also im still on her plan as she owed me money, and i just had her continue my service. My 11 yo son has my old phone and shared apple id, i deleted all the messenger apps off from his phone. I dont know if she is still able to access any of my info from the cloud but i did get a random alert a couple weeks ago that my whats.ap has been … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | I just wanna say sorryWomen can do most things but are experts at making babies, debt, over complicating things & collecting cats. Cats are cool tho | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 04:09 PM |
| 4 | I just wanna say sorryIf women didnt cook or clean what would they do? Oil changes on the car, fix the deck or finish with the chimney repair? …asking for a friend | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 01:47 AM |
| 9 | Finally got laid by a good womanBreaux’s, im also having the time of my life after 50. I wish i had more available days in the week to see another one. Great job & good luck boys! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Need advice after divorce and discovery of affairI think women really love the pageantry of marriage and the party but thats about it. My wife kicked me out of our house (i took the money and bought a condo). The daughter hates it! Shes 14 and told me that she wants to live full time at her moms as soon and she is legally able in mich. sometimes i drop the kids off at their moms after parenting time and her mew boyfriend is over. He sounds like a decent guy, as in my kids are always telling stories like (i think moms boyfriend built a house ov… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/25 03:16 AM |
| 2 | How many of you had sex on tap once you split up ….I never had game! I thought once that i was married that i would have all kinds of crazy sex but naw. Twice! Now im 52 and a recovering nice guy. Maybe women see vulnerability in past relationships and like to hear about growth or heartbreak… but i have been doing the work and putting in reps. Now after alot of effort and following dr Corey Wayne and i have alot of options and am doing very well. I wish i had more days open in the week to fit it all in. Maybe its easier as we get older…but the s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/25 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Ex-wife glow up…My hot exwife gets me so much poon because these women think i must be higher value. Im not gonna be the one to tell them that im not. Go on dates and spin a story about how you guys grew apart and how you grew as a person and just drown your sorrows in poon. They cant all be first but they can all be next! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/25 07:45 PM |
| 17 | Funny what happens when you can’t weaponize divorce anymore…My wife just got a 50/50 deal and is not happy. I think she thought she was gonna get support and custody and all that. She was mad and didnt understand why i wanted to lawyer up. All these horror stories about our fellow homies that are paying 3&4k a mo, we salute you! Kind of irony tho that some women seem to want equal treatment and then dont like it when they get it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 10:45 PM |
| 4 | I think it's coming.Bro, get Dr Corey Wayne on audible and get you a quality 2-3 ladies and just work on you. You would be doing a great community service if some nice ladies didnt feel so lonely all the time. Its gonna take some time but youre gonna go on a new adventure that you get to choose. When the new woman asks for commitment, just tell her that you are afraid and you cant but she is great and the rest of the things that you like about her. Just focus on giving and growing. Im 52, overweight and i am having… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/25 02:23 AM |
| 9 | Sex during separation/divorceSleeping with the enemy, whats the worst that could happen 💁🏻♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Finally got gut-punched with news about the other s/oBruh, you need to go on some dates and get some sexual healing. Its been since march for me too, i have 2 3 or 4 gf’s, i dont even know anymore. Stop being a bish & go have some fun! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the Single Era Girls Club (SERA) created to screw men?I just got a great 50/50 deal, but she made 15k more a year. I think mine thought she was gonna get a bunch of money. She is unhappy with half! She got a expensive house that she cant afford and had to pay me 200k. Im moving into a condo with a cheap pmt & 2 gf’s. I realize that all my bro’s before me paid the price for my good fortune and im sympathetic. Women shouldn’t have ever had to choose money over their kids parent, which isnt responsible. The pendulum is indeed swinging my guy! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 10:30 PM |
| 2 | 2 months in now, I feel worse not betterYeah, this is familiar to all of us. I found a hobby and began youtube therapy. I found dr Corey Wayne a relationship coach. Im currently seeing two amazing women and am having the time of my life even at 52. I still feel kind of empty inside but i dont think about my ex much anymore. Your best years are ahead for you my guy ✊ | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Dude I’m fucked upI think that this situation will give you strength and prepare you for the future. It may not seem like it now but life doesnt get any easier. The good news is that the better you get at handling adversity, women will see that as a attraction. Just focus on breathing and it will get better my guy ✌️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Considering biting the bulletI think we can all appreciate the struggle but imo this seems like a normal issue. My wife left me because im more like your wife. Its hard having a fam am raising kids. Your smarter than i am tho that your self aware and dealing with reality. Good thing your wife works at the least, i would hire a maid. I found some good youtube info about relationships. Its not like you arent gonna have one with your babymama for the next 15-20 years, may as well get a babysitter and take her out and make her … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Did you guys give your STBXW the courtesy of letting her know you were dating again?Wait till they start messaging each other, its like the 7 degrees of kevin bacon. No matter how big the city, they will have a mutual friend. Plus women are stalkers, she will just know. Also that will be just more scorn in addition to the next 10 years of regular scorn. I would just plan on the ex sabotaging everything you hold dear for eternity 🕺 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/24 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Bomb dropped on me this morningChange all your account passwords especially bank accounts. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | 2 months in, mediation nextI unknowingly put the inheritance proceeds into our joint account and at that point i believe it to be commingled. Hindsight i wish i would have kept it separate just in the best interest of keeping the family together but i was hopeful for a debt free fresh start. The money has actually been a curse it feels like. I dont know if we go before a judge if that could be taken into consideration, or mediation for the matter. Also worth noting: the foc has recalculated their support in favor of stbxw… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/24 02:36 PM |
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