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| 3 | How to last longer in bed?I guess you could say every once in a while it's fine, but it's really easy to cross that line. I think doing it really at all increases your sensitivity, and you're accustoming your piece to your hand rather than a woman. It's not a good habit and is well known to cause ED problems | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 5 | How to last longer in bed?Get prescribed ED medication. Suggestions for roots and things.. I don't know about that. Maybe it works, the pharmaceutical stuff will definitely help. Your doctor won't judge you, just ask your GP. Have sex more often, try to consider if some of your problem might be psychological. Also stop fapping if you are. | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 03:44 PM |
| 41 | Do women enjoy giving head ?This is a borderline deal breaker 😬😬😂 | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How much role does college play?I would say it's a big element. I think when it works best is when you are in the different social groups amongst the students. It's definitely possible to hook up with people in your class, I think it just depends on what type of class. If the class has a lot of group interaction, that helps. Otherwise you can still do it it's just more akin to a cold aporoach. People are young and generally single so it's a great place to be, although you have to make effort and be social it's not guaranteed y… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Field report since my divorceYou are in the zone dude. You don't care if she cums, stays or prays haha. I think you're handling yourself really well with all of these weird women with problems that you have had the ill luck of running into. Keep your sharp, discriminatory mindset. You don't want ever want to settle, and it sounds like you know what you want. If you keep banging your head against the tree, eventually you will get some fruit. Make sure to evaluate yourself of course and what you could have maybe done better, … | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | The game is simple.. try to get rejectedAwesome stuff man this is a great idea. A+ for your writing too. I was cracking up reading this | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Be Honest: You actually don't want most of these women to be a part of your life.I'm with ya buddy. I date for marriage too. I don't know personally why you would be in a relationship with someone who you don't think you could marry down the line. If you have already seen enough red flags to dissuade you from marriage, just break up with her, or be honest with her and if she's down for a casual thing so be it. Stick to your guns, I'm also disappointed in the extent of our generations hook up culture. Still good girls out there though, just more difficult to find. | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Be Honest: You actually don't want most of these women to be a part of your life.A good woman, just like a good man is hard to find. If you want to find find serious, awesome relationship it's very difficult to find. Gotta wad through a lot of mistakes first. If a man sticks with a girl just because she's hot, that's a weak man in my view. Plenty of attractive, awesome ladies out there who aren't complete disasters. | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting Instagram handles instead of numbers?Go with whatever works for you, but for me it's huge. It's more interesting than texting, and allows for much easier game. It's more natural than messaging someone on Instagram back and fourth | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Getting Instagram handles instead of numbers?Go for the snapchat, not Instagram | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Conversation Tips to Become a More Interesting PersonYeah I'm with you, you should be judging people. You cannot help making judgements about people. If you meet a psychopath, who is giving evidence of such, should you ignore it because you don't make any assements or conclusions whatsoever about people using your experience regarding human nature? I don't think so. What you should try and do is not make unfair judgements | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with girls requestsIf a girl simply walks up to you and asks you to buy her a drink I would decline in most cases unless she seemed really fun and it could go somewhere. You aren't a bank, if she actually seems interested and asks, I would do it then. Although I think it's better for you to offer to buy her a drink rather than her asking. When it comes to the cigarette example, I vape and in my experience I just let them use it unless they are just cold approaching me about it lol. Interesting idea though OP. I th… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | I think I intimidate women - does anyone else have this problem?I think you're height and apparent good looks are an advantage. While 6'4 is definitely tall, you aren't a 7 footer. When you approach girls really make sure you are coming off in a funny, charismatic way. May have to work a little harder to put them at ease and be comfortable. Are there any cities nearby your town? May have to expand to nearby places if they aren't extremely far. Also, just my 2 cents, for guys who are on the more attractive end of the distribution online dating works better. S… | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | The total lack of parenting in dating.Hey what a great post man! Absolutely true. I can say that my parents never discussed dating or relationships with me. The only thing my dad told me was to wear a condom after catching me hooking up with a girl at 14. I imagine some parents are trepidatious about dating. They want their kid to figure it out for themselves I suppose. Overall though, it's the wrong strategy for both men and women. For guys, it should just be laid out and explained some of the elements of seduction. Good hygiene, t… | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Asking for the girl to get checked for STD’s?If you're starting a relationship with someone, absolutely you should ask, it gives everyone peace of mind and I recommend you both do it. If you just met someone, and are trying to smash, I think asking her to get tested may just cause her to reject you. Like why would she do that for a random guy to sleep with? If you're going to be FWB than I guess..but even then I think if it's a casual situation you should just wear a condom. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I try again?Why does texting make you feel uncomfortable? Some people on here think texting should only be used to schedule dates, I disagree with that. I think it's highly beneficial to chat up a girl through texting or snapchat. Hit her up bro, get another date going and go get after it. The worst she will say at this point is no. I think you should also get out of your head that you need to 'test' her by seeing if she will hit you up first. Unless a girl really likes you she probably won't do this. It wa… | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | How to become less outcome dependent?Having game is a process, not necessarily any one particular result. Make sure you're doing your best, if you are following a process of self improvement, and being the best you then eventually you'll get the outcomes that you want. You also sound like a relationship guy to me, not so much of a casual sex kinda guy. | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | How to become less outcome dependent?In my opinion properly meditating is focusing on your physical sensations (you can 'focus' on a mantra or really anything else, but I think your body is the easiest), so you will breathe, and when you realize your mind is engaged in thinking, aka not one with the breath, then you gently bring your mind back to the breathing. Don't think "I'm breathing" just breathe, and redirect your mind to the action of breathing or other physical sensations. It's highly relaxing, all sorts of research indicat… | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the general consensus on winking?Most men in my opinion cannot pull of a legitimately seductive wink. I think if you're going to wink it should come more from a place of humour rather than trying to be sexy. Women might find it creepy, I think most would find it odd or weird. You do you though, if you have a great wink go for it. Back in HS I tried to wink at a girl and she thought I had like an eye problem, lol so if you're going to do it don't look like a moron. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Went on dates with a girl and am now dating them.Congrats buddy hope all goes well! Maintain the lessons learned throughout the relationship. Always be on your toes, lol | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 4 | The boyfriend/girlfriend talk?If you want a relationship with this girl, talk to her about it. I'm in a similar situation at the moment, in some ways you don't want to bring up a relationship, have her reject it, and then your casual fling is destroyed. But if you want to date her, you have to give it a shot dude. Don't wait for her, she's giving you plenty of signs that she's interested. If this girl doesn't want a relationship though, I would probably just walk. If you are looking for that, and this girl isn't interested, … | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Why being Alpha is bullshitI'm saying Alpha in the manner OP was talking about, with man's history of violence, sexual assault, war etc. Not alpha in the current sense, but in a primal kind of way. | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 03:08 AM |
| 7 | Why being Alpha is bullshitA refreshing alternative opinion. I also agree that being an 'alpha' in the classic sense is something unavailable to men today, not to mention its immorality. I think the line between arrogance and confidence is a slim one, and it's very easy to become a narcissist with the 'alpha' mentality. It's good in so far as it pushes individuals to approach, be confident, and not be a pussy when the 'game' is on the line. But it's often taken to its extreme, where someone doesn't care at all about other… | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 3 | I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - WomenGood for you! Keep it rolling, enjoy yourself. It's supposed to be fun, after all. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement tips for 33 year old VirginYou should really just try to get out there in the social scene of Stockholm, I'm sure it's loaded with things to do. Go to the bars, clubs, events, concerts, anything like that. Go out into the social scene and enjoy yourself, you're not trying to sleep with random girls so I wouldn't put of that kind of vibe. Be yourself and look to strike connections with people. Dating apps are good, I have less experience with those but I'm going to install them soon. It's an easy way to throw yourself in t… | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Have a few reliable male friends. Some guys struggle with girls bc they have no guy friends, so they depend on the girl to give them all their emotional support, or help them everytime they're in trouble. Learning to make and keep good male friends is an important skill that's not practised enough.Absolutely agree. As r/seduction very correctly emphasizes, it's about having a good, balanced life. Included in this is having guy friends, you have a different relationship with them that's good for you. For a partner you would want her to have girl friends too, it's healthy. You don't want an excessively co dependent relationship, in my view Hollywood and popular romance kind of push that and it's unrealistic and untrue. | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 04:35 AM |
| 10 | Sliding into dms?I have had the best luck replying to stories, seems more genuine I guess but it's still kinda a longshot. Definitely want them to follow you in my opinion, if they like any of your pictures that's a plus too. At the end of the day these girls are strangers and you have nothing to lose from trying | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:17 PM |
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