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| 3 | People who obsess about men "objectifying women" or "feeling a sense of ownership" over them are overexaggerating things on a semantic level.Most people do give their word, though. Just not in such grandiose or businesslike terms. A couple of weeks or so into dating you say you're exclusive, and from then on it is implied that you're not dating or having sex with other people. Calling it a promise seems a bit rich, as its a baseline expectation in a relationship for like 95% of people. Basically no one views expecting your partner not to sleep, or even be generally and even non-physically intimate, with other people as possessive. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 10:42 PM |
| 2 | What is your ideal partner like?For a start, the fact that she's confident means a lot of the red pill relationship advice won't work on her. Stuff like negging, holding frame, tests, only work on women with self-esteem issues, who are desperate for male validation (which this hypothetical woman does not require any of whatsoever). The fact that she does not need any kind of male validation at all, means that she simply won't care what he thinks of her. So she won't look after her appearance, she won't make an effort to look a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc?In my opinion, knowingly doing something which will make it difficult or painful for your partner to see their friends or family falls into the definition of coercive control, and is thus abusive. The reason why a man finding his partner going to clubs unacceptable is typically viewed as abusive, is because men, at least on Reddit, pretty much always frame their discomfort in one of the following ways: Not being comfortable with the fact he will not be able to watch or influence her actions. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Through technology we have enabled women to prioritize short term dating hence why they are choosing men who would traditionally wouldn't be a good choice for marriageDoesn't the whole idea that birth control causes women to favour men with calmer, more "husbandly" qualities over the more aggressive, masculine types completely fly against your second point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:54 PM |
| – | Women's ostensible attraction to "badboys" may just be misattribution of fear-based arousalThats because "bad boys" are traditionally taken as an archetype describing amoral, self-serving, physically attractive men, while "nerds" are an archetype describing people with deep, specific interests. The former is much, much smaller and more curated category than the latter, and it contains looks as a qualifier. In my life, I have met loads of nerdy, fat, ugly men who are awful human beings and only care about themselves. If you called these guys "bad boys", they would far outnumber the att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:20 PM |
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