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| 3 | What would you describe as unreasonable female standardsI don't want to point out the signs, I'd rather you keep typing like that so women in the future know you watch a lot of porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 11:52 AM |
| 4 | What would you describe as unreasonable female standardsYou write like you watch a lot of porn. You know women can tell, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 11:44 AM |
| 3 | What would you describe as unreasonable female standardsMaybe, but I've never had trouble attracting guys before I changed my style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 11:22 AM |
| 8 | What would you describe as unreasonable female standardsIt's also because they don't realize how much effort a woman actually puts into her appearance when she's "all natural". I would call myself a very plain woman, I used to get some male attention when I wore natural makeup and had long styled hair, but now I don't wear any makeup what so ever and dress casually, open buttoned shirts, jeans, etc, and either have my hair short or in a basic bun if it's longer, and I get far less male attention, including from the type of people who used to praise m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:53 PM |
| 9 | What would you describe as unreasonable female standardsI agree but not fully. If a woman is bringing something to a relationship that a man lacks, and he's doing the same, it's fine if they are not equal for certain aspects of their lives. For example a woman who does the majority of the housework/child care should be able to expect her partner outearns her or works more hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:47 PM |
| -1 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedIt's true that it's easier to at least have sexual encounters or flings with men, but not necessarily ltrs. Most bi men date women or end up in a ltr with a woman, yes getting to the point where they are in a relationship is harder but the actual relationship itself tends to be better with a woman. I'm a lesbian and I've found it super difficult to date women, particularly as a more masculine woman who is expected to play the role of a man in a relationship. However, seeing what a lot of women h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:43 PM |
| 0 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedYeah but far less have never been in a relationship. The rate for men and women having never been in a relationship as an adult is pretty equal, as is the virginity rate of 30 year old men and women. It's just that men are less likely to call a situation or a casual relationship. Sexlessness and inceldom/volceldom, not just not being in a ltr at a particular time, is far more equal between men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:32 PM |
| 9 | Men who believe AI “girlfriends” can replace real women should be judgedYou don't know anything lmao. No study can test 10% of the population, sample sizes are proven accurate for peer reviewed data. What you're saying is that no study ever written can be relied upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.The guy is posting to social media the fire did not cause significant harm and he was out quad biking shortly after the incident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?It's not even empirical because we're not provided the full set of messages, just a few, so we cannot verify it assess many of the claims he makes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?In terms of sex? Femcels do exist and they're the original incels, but they were lesbians. For straight women even femcels can get laid if they wanted, but straight femcels cannot find romantic relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?To be fair, she was a lesbian. Lesbians can be incels like straight men can be, but we're talking about heterosexual women here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?Hardly an academic study lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?And a lot of women don't want sex without commitment, and sex without commitment is as useless as no sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?That's because they'd fuck anything, doesn't mean they'd date anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceThey're just lazy, conservative or liberal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceMarriage is a better deal for men than women. It's why women divorce more than men. If marriage was worse for men they'd divorce more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?No, only women who are part of niche A like criminals, for people outside of that niche A is more hated than incels. It's the same for women. Criminals like Jodie Arias will always get more guys than a greasy femcel. Also there's no niche for being a loser, it doesn't correspond to a major fetish like criminals do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?It's an hyperbolic example of incel lingo, which, as I said, is unintentionally hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableThe world is 50/50 men and women, statistically both are replaceable. If the world was 90/10 men to women you'd have a point, but that's not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?I don't think most are super attractive but a lot aren't ugly and are average. They just have really poor social skills. I remember looking at incel selfie threads and seeing guys on the street who have the same level of attractiveness having fun with their looksmatched girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Yeah because fulfilling a tiny niche but not fulfilling the overwhelming mainstream standards will have more success than not fulfilling any niche and not fulfilling mainstream standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Luigi also has a massive gay fanbase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Theres a difference between "I'm struggling with my dating life" and "fuck foids I am adding you to my rape list", incels who speak with incel lingo are unintentionally hilarious because of their idiotic beliefs and linguistic idiosyncrasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Men are much more likely to be into fucked up things sexually. Look at any group about some weird fetish and it's almost always 95% male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Yes they do, especially to women they are trying to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why?Jodie Arias gets more male attention than your average ugly woman. Having a niche will always make you more successful than fulfilling no niche and no mainstream standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”Being seen as a piece of meat for someone to stick your dick into but suboptimal for anything else isn't better unless you're fine with having your value attached to that fact. Some people are fine with that, a lot aren't. And male desire for lesbian women is as useless as gay male desire for straight men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyNot just that, but ask any guard in women's prisons, attractive female prisoners have easy access to men who want to date and even marry them too. Jodie Arias has hundreds of potential lovers message her and she tortured and killed an innocent man. She's now married in prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 01:52 PM |
| – | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.The idea is that, typically, men are far less choosey when it comes to casual encounters than they are with long term relationships, which is completely true. So a woman, generally, can access far more attractive men for casual sex than she can for long term relationships, which is a logical inference of the original point. So a woman may have to settle in terms of attraction for long term relationships in ways she doesn't have to for casual encounters. OP is saying that a promiscuous woman can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women invalidate men's emotions and experiences by saying "go to therapy" in response to men's concerns about dating certain types of women.Plenty of women care about their partners sexual history, me included. I've been open about my dislike of promiscuous men and women (I'm bi), and men don't seem to have a problem with it with one exception. I think women are more likely to take exception because they take it as a value judgement against them rather than a personal choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:58 PM |
| – | You are not a victim just because nobody wants to date you. Loneliness and sexlessness is just an unfortunate by product of free will, which proceeds all other rights in datingIt's funny because ugly women rarely have this delusion about being able to go for hot men, and there's many lonely women out there and I've not heard a single one blame men or attractive men for their problems. I have sympathy for lonely men and women, but god women make it easier to feel sympathy towards them. And just to add onto that, I see far more sympathy from women towards men who struggle with dating (as long as he's not sexist) than men having sympathy for lonely women. Men always say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 10:19 AM |
| – | You are not a victim just because nobody wants to date you. Loneliness and sexlessness is just an unfortunate by product of free will, which proceeds all other rights in datingThat's just a insecure fantasy of yours, we're talking about real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 10:15 AM |
| – | You are not a victim just because nobody wants to date you. Loneliness and sexlessness is just an unfortunate by product of free will, which proceeds all other rights in datingThat's just a insecure fantasy of yours, we're talking about real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 10:15 AM |
| 3 | Women have sexual needs just as much as men do if not more soLike 75% of asexuals are women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 10:12 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”Depends how ugly, but sexual success for most women is meaningless, we don't desire sex like men do (although some women are as horny as men). So being used for sex as a woman is a bad thing, esspecially as a uglier woman who can't get a relationship and is used by men for sex including by her looksmatch (who wants a hotter girl). Also depends if they're straight, uglier lesbians have it harder than uglier straight guys with sex or relationships. Depending on location more attractive lesbians ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 03:51 PM |
| 25 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”This affects women too. An hot eccentric woman will be seen as fun and interesting whilst an ugly eccentric woman will be seen as annoying and weird, even where both people are exhibiting the same behaviours bourne from poor social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”It's the same with women to some extent, but I'd argue that looks play more into this and personality plays less into this for women. Women who act weird and have low social skills will be seen as "eccentric and fun" by men if attractive and an annoyance if they're seen as ugly or odd looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?It's not the standard outcome at all. This is a hate fantasy you've concocted in your head, just like pretty much everything that serves your spite and envy driven politics. I never said a man is obligated to fund a woman's life, I'm simply saying that you're wrong on a statistical level, the outcome for most divorces are with the women worse off financially and the men better off. Women are more likely to give up their careers and work opportunities to look after the children and take care of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?This is not a standard outcome, women are more likely to suffer financially after divorce than men and attempt suicide more often than men do. Women struggle to have men pay equally for their children, men consider having to pay equally for the lifestyle of their child becoming a debt slave because they don't care about their children as much as women do, which is reflected in how much time they spend with their children before divorce compared with women. Men who go for equal custody get it as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?Violence isn't just murder, violence can be sexual assault, general violence, harassment, etc. All things that men do to women at alarming rates, even crimes where the rate is somewhat more equal like domestic violence, violence against women from men is much more likely to result in serious injury. Very few men innovate to further the progress of our society, the few that do are paid handsomely for it anyway. Even men who protect our freedoms are in the minority, most men do not and those that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?People exaggerate to make points all the time, men do it to women when they call them all sluts or gold digging hoes. It's not misogyny but it's wrong to extrapolate that to all men and women when women statistically tend to be the party that are financially less well off than their partner after the divorce. Women are more likely to struggle financially than their male partners after divorce if we look at things more generally and not from personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?Being safer than a bear, an animal known to maul people to death, isn't saying much. The man Vs bear argument was meant to point out the danger men pose to women, not literally prove that bears are less dangerous to encounter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 10:35 AM |
| – | CMV: Men who go to brothels shouldn't be stigmatized it's and prior the late 20th centure it used to be the normIt also used to be acceptable to beat your wife. Just because something used to be acceptable doesn't mean it's acceptable now. Even in countries where prostitution is legal, sex trafficking of vulnerable girls from poorer countries is super common and is pretty much an industry standard. You can't effectively consent to sex if you're being seriously coerced by your circumstances (often they have their passports witheld, money stolen, etc so they can't escape), it's pretty much rape no matter ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 10:26 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Objectively, unless one’s circumstances are worse than Godfrey Baguma’s, there’s no excuse. CHANGE THIS VIEW.Well, ugly men date all the time. Incels problem is typically a mix of looks, being unkempt, and more importantly, a lack of social skills. Ethnicity is sometimes a problem, too, particularly where they are from a minority group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?We're all the backup to some degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:40 AM |
| 5 | Why women friendzone men if they know they don't want to stay as friend?No they wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:37 AM |
| 1 | I've tried helping a few younger guys get dates, something is wrong here.This isn't true at all. Some people find Steve Buscemi hot, other people think he looks deformed. There are features that are generally considered attractive and features that are generally considered unattractive, true, but people are attracted to a wide variety of people. Go outside, fat people and ugly people, men and women, are in relationships just like attractive people. True, it's more likely for a man to date someone outside his league in terms of looks than vice versa, but ugly people g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do men think they are funnier than women?Sorry I'm a leftist but sometimes there's nothing funnier than punching down as hard as you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do men think they are funnier than women?I am a woman and many people on this forum would call me a radfem manhater lesbian but most of the art I prefer is made by men. I don't think respect has anything to do with it, I know a man who has almost definitely committed sexual assault several times and I know he loves Lana Del Rey and Sarah Silverman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think they are funnier than women?Nothing made me laugh more than that video of that guy farting in a quiet, full church. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Why do men think they are funnier than women?I don't know, I've known a lot of funny ugly women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"The average woman has a similar body count as to the average man, which is low and what a gay guy can get through on a weekend. Most men and women aren't hoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Well yeah, they're not going to tell you that, but men cheat more often on their wives than women do on their husbands and it's almost always with a younger woman. As someone who has been "one of the guys" I see both subtle and overt signs of this all the time. They also don't use language like "she's higher quality" or directly verbalize comparisons between their current partner and a prospective future one, that's something a woman would say, men don't speak like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that the most beautiful women aren't on dating apps?Men are naturally hypergamous when it comes to looks, ugly women struggle to find a decent guy who respects them even when she's dating people in her league. Often they get settled for by guys who would leave her if he could get a hotter girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?I'm sure your respect is greatly sought after... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?I'm not being passive aggressive I'm actively mocking you because you are absurd, sad character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 09:18 AM |
| 9 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?If that really is true it's probably best to stop posting on forums that thrive on picking at mens insecurities regarding women and dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:08 PM |
| 13 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Well at least one person respects you, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offThe statement isn't that men are typically stronger than women, the statement is that women are typically turned off by kindness, which is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offNo, sorry but you don't understand how words work, maybe fix that before engaging with people on a public forum. The generality isn't false because there's one exception to it, if something is true generally then exceptions do not contradict that, it's false because the generalization it makes is wrong as the declarative statement (women are generally turned off by kindness) in question is incorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offMost women are in monogamous relationships with men, they don't hate men at all. They just hate whiney losers who use their lack of success in dating to lie about women and act like the mysogonistic loser they really are. Nobody is saying that a lonely guy asking a girl out is oppressing her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offYes, he did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murderNo it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offYou can if you have any degree of social skills, which most women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offMost women hate criminals and only a few deranged ones with a fetish for criminals write to them. Men fraternize with criminals more than women. Also, Jodie Arias gets thousands of letters and is even married despite killing and torturing her boyfriend. That British girl who killed those toddlers got married after she was released. This is not a woman thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offGetting people to like you does not set you back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offMost women date men that earn below 75k, and women are more left wing then men and are more likely to be pro worker and pro union than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Kindness is Considered Weak, Weak turns women offWell if you make false generalities, expect to be called out on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:31 AM |
| 3 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?That's not paying for sex lol. You have sex because you want to have sex with him, he didn't pay for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | No, you are not "unempathetic", Women's emotional expectations are just unreasonableBut most violence is emotional. It's like butting into an argument about shootings to talk about paintball. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?But most people don't literally get paid to have sex. There's a major difference in the transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?Love isn't a currency lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 11:20 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?Sorry but an 80 year old rich man could probably get a woman younger than 60. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 11:18 AM |
| 4 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?So you are a prostitute, by that logic. If I really believed that and was straight I would never go near a man out of respect for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Non-westerners and non-assimilated foreigners are ruining western dating discourse and western dating.Non western men who are married aren't any less sexist lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Why is the "Office Siren" trend getting so much hate?Men are such emotional creatures lol this stunt always works on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 10:59 AM |
| 1 | No, you are not "unempathetic", Women's emotional expectations are just unreasonableWho hits their toasters when they're angry and it's not working? Men are more emotional than women, and are worse at holding their emotions in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 10:55 AM |
| 1 | No, you are not "unempathetic", Women's emotional expectations are just unreasonableBut getting into a fight at a pub or hitting your toaster because it's not working is based on intense emotions. People aren't talking about combat sports lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | An Assertive dirtbag is much better than a super shy guy.I agree to some degree but men fail to accept that most sluts are men, if men had the same level of easy access to casual sex that women had then most men would be sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | An Assertive dirtbag is much better than a super shy guy.Even the somewhat attractive ones struggle because of their poor social skills. You have to be VERY attractive to make up for poor social skills. I met a guy at a black metal concert whose pretty hot but a virgin in his late 20s because he basically acts like Chris Chan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sThat's not saying much lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 10:08 AM |
| 3 | An Assertive dirtbag is much better than a super shy guy.That's because they're autistic. Most incels are autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 10:04 AM |
| 4 | An Assertive dirtbag is much better than a super shy guy.Yeah, but violent, criminal, manipulative women also have no problem finding men. Jodie Arias brutally murdered her boyfriend and filmed it, and had many offers of marriage in prison and is now married despite serving life without parole. That hot blonde chick who was a pedo and targeted one of her students is married with kids now. The only reason why you hear more about violent, evil men being successful in relationships is because there's far more violent, evil men out there than violent, evi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 10:00 AM |
| 2 | An Assertive dirtbag is much better than a super shy guy.Men as a whole are also insecure and neurotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 09:52 AM |
| -3 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themYes, I believe that. For example, a majority of men watch porn, an industry rife with sexual exploitation and assault, and seem very unconcerned about the amount of trafficking and abuse involved in the industry. They not only don't find the industry disgusting, but actively get off to what it produces, many of which due to financial or even physical coercion, involves the sexual abuse of the actors and actresses involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 02:12 PM |
| -8 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themIt's distasteful but true. And it applies to nearly all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:19 PM |
| 5 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themThat's why I said kids make the real work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:17 PM |
| 5 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themMaybe for you, not for most men. I'm a masculine acting woman and I can easily get a man. I could go out today and find a long term BF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them?Yes. In my eyes if you view porn, you do not deserve a relationship. You're participating in one of the worst legal industries in the world to get your useless dick wet, and ruining your brain with degenerate rot. Read erotica if you must or use your imagination, but porn sick men are repulsive to most women and for good reason. When loser pornsick men cry about being alone I just think "good". I'd advise all women to reject men who watch porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 12:18 PM |
| 29 | Why do a lot of you say, it’s easy for men to get a date nowadays when it really isn’t?Because the average woman has the same level of flaws as a man yet dating is much easier despite this. Ultimately this is partially men's fault for being useless losers with no standards, but most women are fat and lazy just like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 12:13 PM |
| -12 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themA lot of women doesn't mean all women. That's like me saying all men are okay with rape deep down just because a lot of them are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 12:11 PM |
| 24 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themAt the same time women greatly exaggerate how long it takes to maintain a home. I used to be a cleaner and I could clean several homes within a working day easily. Looking after kids is the real work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 12:10 PM |
| 16 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themMen love masculine acting women as long as they're attractive. The ideal woman for a man likes what her man likes and acts like he does. Women do not like men who act like them/feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Why men who provide security are boring ?Just like how the women men cheat with (and this statistically happens more than women cheating) are usually younger and hotter than their wives. Some people are just cheaters, and there's more men cheaters than women cheaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Why men who provide security are boring ?Because it's almost always not the same woman. Women have the vast majority of sex within monogamous relationships and statistically prefer monogamous relationships over casual sex. It's men who are more likely to cheat and attempt to have sex outside relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Why men who provide security are boring ?No, because men in relationships have far more sex than men who have sex outside of relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:24 AM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menBecause so many sex workers are trafficked, vulnerable women in countries that have legalized it. What you're saying is "I want men to be able to rape women as long as the government decides what class of women are okay to legally rape." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Would men be happier if they were asexual?I'm not saying there's exceptions, I'm saying you're pulling it all out of your arse. It's not true at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.It would take her about a minute to pull out the gun, surely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.What, you couldn't outrun her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.They can smell them because they out themselves immediately. Abusers at least have the social skills to not show their true colours immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:54 PM |
| – | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.Most women get with average guys. It's not the tall, hot, millionaires that women are complaining about, by and large those people are happy (just look at happiness in relation to wealth), it's the average men that most women end up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Would men be happier if they were asexual?This sounds like you're making it up. Asexual men are no lazier than straight men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.No, because it's bullshit. Men are just as emotional, they just mistake their emotions for thoughts and reason. When a man argues with women online because he struggles in the dating market, he's being emotional. When a man gets angry and breaks his gaming controller, he's being emotional. In fact, men with anger/bitterness are just as emotional if not more than the average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.*black men. Black women commit far less crimes than white men. And I never said that men are universally terrible, but they are more violent and anti social than women, that's just a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.True, but not the extent of men. Men are not only much more violent and more likely to commit a vast majority of crimes, but they also cheat more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.Most don't, women on average have 3-7 lifetime sexual partners, pretty much the same as men on average, and most of those partners are people they're in a relationship with or people they want to be in a relationship with, not strangers. Promiscuous women are out there but they're in the minority. Women having much more access to casual sex yet choosing not to engage in it show that women on average don't really care for casual sex with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Here's the thing, I'm a woman and I have friends who are women. This is completely untrue. I'm bi and I prefer more effeminate, skinny men. Some of my friends prefer skinnier more sensitive guys too, whilst other like manly, bodybuilding types. Usually, the people who like men with more toxic traits grew up in an environment where these toxic traits were rewarded by the men and women in their lives. Which is why it's important we don't do that, we're fucking over other generations of women. Yes,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025No, I'm not. Please read my comment again. I am saying that society, being both men and women, should push for changes in how we culturally view men and what expectations we have of them in this world. In time, as attractiveness is culturally relative, we will naturally see changes in what is considered attractive as a man, just as this changed for women in the 50s. This does not mean just promoting feminity in men but also socially punishing toxic masculinity. This would obviously take some tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:01 PM |
| – | Autistic women are not "better at masking"When men say shy women have it easier they're imagining a unicorn, that being a cute girl with a pleasing aesthetic who is otherwise very shy. They're not imagining an average, plain, frumpy girl sitting by herself in the corner looking completely sexless. Even if they aren't particularly ugly, beyond the usual sexual harassment women face, sexless, shy women tend to get ignored. By sexless I mean someone who gives off zero sexual energy either through their style, appearance, and behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 01:45 PM |
| 8 | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Personally I don't expect anything from an individual woman, but I think there needs to be a societal push against the idea that men need to be masculine and follow a certain way of life and behave in a certain way. It's obvious that most of the men being left behind are less masculine than those who are successful, and I consider it a feminist issue because the social approval of toxic masculinity that both men and women engage in is a problem. It teaches people that these traits, that ultimate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 01:35 PM |
| – | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsNo we wouldn't. WW1 and WW2 made the progress of certain technological advancements speed up to some degree, but most of this technology was already in development prior to the war. Outside of WW1 and WW2 most technological advancement was done in peacetime. I'm living in a comfortable house because the movement of people from rural lands to urban environments began the shift away from vernacular architectural styles to more centralized and regulated construction techniques which developed over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThis is true, and the DV stats show that it's more equal than most people perceive, although men are more likely to injure or kill a partner through DV. Gang crime, stranger on stranger violence, and most other violent and sexual crimes are overwhelming committed by men, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsEven if we accept it's murder, most abortion providers are men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsWomen are far less likely to commit violent crime than men. There is clearly a difference in how men and women utilize violence and the frequency in which it is used as an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsI can and do empathize with lonely men who have faced a lot of rejection despite being decent people. I'm Bi but vastly prefer women to the point where I've accepted I'll never really like men in that way, most people I have been interested in have naturally rejected me because they weren't interested in women, and I've faced a whole heap of rejection throughout my life for not fitting into the ideals of what women want from a partner (not feminine enough to be a femme, not masculine enough to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThings would be better in terms of wars and overall violence, yes. I don't think that's even up for debate, we all instinctively know that women are less violent and less prone to defending imperialism. Not saying all wars will end but across the world the amount of wars will be ultimately reduced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsWar is much more likely in countries that are developing which are much more likely to be male dominated. A vast majority of wars are started by men and involve male leaders. Women in positions of power are much less likely to start or be involved with wars, and when they are their political or ideological group is still majority male. This isn't even a point of debate, it's true no matter how you look at it. Your second point makes no sense, I said that patriarchy doesn't mean that men are less… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThis is children killed by a single parent. Women are more likely to be single mothers so it makes sense that they are included in the statistics more than men. This is also only true for certain time frames and locations, another study in Australia shows that the perpetrator is pretty much 50/50 for men or women despite the fact that women are exposed to their own children more: https://theconversation.com/men-and-women-kill-their-children-in-roughly-equal-numbers-and-we-need-to-understand-why-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 05:53 PM |
| -6 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsYou can generalize but most people who commit those crimes are men, not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:06 PM |
| -4 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsPeople get over rejection everyday and bullying can literally cause PTSD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsConservatives worship a borderline special needs sex offender who they made the most powerful man in the world, an autistic exploiter of workers who uses his own son as a political shield, and a sex trafficker who openly abuses women and earns a living off their sexual exploitation. If anything the men conservatives worship proves that patriarchy still exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:55 PM |
| -5 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsPatriarchy doesn't mean a man is automatically less oppressed than a woman, it means that most of the dominant political force throughout society is driven by men and is masculine coded. It's why countries are so violent towards each other and wars are so common throughout society, power is disproportionately held by men throughout the world even if most men won't benefit from every aspect of that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:48 PM |
| -3 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsNo, we want men to stop raping and being violent towards women and stop committing the vast majority of all and particularly violent crime, for a start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsThis is your experience but it's not at all uncommon for unmanly/efemenate men to be bullied by other men, particularly when young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How comes jocks and street boys don't get the "inc*l" label?Most women hate Andrew Tate. The girlfriend of his that we know most about was very young and easily manipulated due to her underage status. We don't see him particularly successful with women that he isn't paying or aren't in a state of particular vulnerability due to age or any other aspect, particularly when compared to men of similar wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 03:36 AM |
| 0 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?Most average women don't complain about that, they complain about how shit men are in long term relationships, typically average men who they pair off with. The average body count for women is like 5, same for men, the overwhelming majority of women young and old have the most sex with a long term partner, typically one who is equal or uglier than them in terms of looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How comes jocks and street boys don't get the "inc*l" label?Looks? Lol, he looks ugly as fuck. He's bald, beady eyes, weak chin, with dick sucking lips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Women live life on easy mode.I love it when men say "men have to be genetically gifted gods" because it means that they are shut-in losers who knows nothing about the real world. Just walking outside you see fat, ugly, working class men with women everywhere, often with women more attractive than he is (although not necessarily attractive overall). When men say "women live life on easy mode" what they mean is "I don't go outside and get all my opinions on women from rage bait on social media, or from videos made by equally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenI love it when men say "women date anti-social thugs" and the example they give is a woman who herself is an anti-social thug. Men expect much more of women than they do with other men, not realizing women aren't angels and often date shitty men because she herself is just as shitty a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 07:52 PM |
| 0 | If You Believe Women Only Go For A-Holes, Does That Mean You Believe Married Men and Men With GF’s Are Assholes?Yes you can. Just say you want young pussy. We all know what people like you want and prioritize in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | If You Believe Women Only Go For A-Holes, Does That Mean You Believe Married Men and Men With GF’s Are Assholes?The "top men" I've known are not at all assholes. They're secure in themselves, charismatic, and pro-social people, yes they're not pushovers but they treat people with respect typically. The assholes have all been the middle management type and the lowest tier men (criminals, homeless people, etc). Their insecurities lead them to lashing out at others, which makes them assholes. Men who call themselves "top tier" rarely are top tier men, they're usually, at best, middle management types who thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:54 PM |
| 4 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.Wrong. Single women are much happier than single men for a reason. That pretty much proves men are less fulfilling partners than women and on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:38 PM |
| 7 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.More like women complain about the taste of sewage water, even though it's highly available it's still sewage water. The fact that the first thing most men think of when it comes to relationships is fucking proves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:36 PM |
| 2 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.Wrong. It's easier for women to get into relationships but easier for men to get into fulfilling ones. This is because women are much more likely to be a fulfilling partner, whilst men are not, at least emotionally where it counts. There's a reason why women initiate the divorce more often. Men tend to, on average, be unfulfilling partners who don't pull their weight when it comes to the home, the family, etc. Many of them think being the breadwinner and having bad sex is enough, and since women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 03:33 PM |
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