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cancel netflix. If her watching endless bullshit has become more important than cleaning up and looking after you.... Well, cancel the fucking thing. You want a partner in your relationship and life... not a passive agressive resentful toddler who gets pissed at being asked to do a simple thing
/r/askMRP11/12/19 12:19 AM
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Yep.. It blew my mind....Highly recommended.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 03:37 AM
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All of those things were spoken in the course of a couple of days. She said that her identity has changed and that she wasn't the person she was when we got married. The lead up was an argument we had. At the of the argument I said, what can I do to make you happy, what do I have to do and she asked herself the question and came up with the answer of nothing because she didn't love me at all and wanted out. She said that she wasn't going to stay in a loveless marriage, and I said I won't stay in…
/r/askMRP27/09/18 02:44 AM
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I think of it this way. There are a number of dynamics in a relationship. These are; The sexual/attraction dynamic. The power dynamic. The identity dynamic. and the intimacy dynamic. (note this is different to the sexual dynamic,you can have sex without intimacy) In order to change a relationship positively you need to change all of the dynamics at once. Let me go through them. The sexual/attraction dynamic fades over time. In this forum this dynamic is addressed by the repeated admonitions to l…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/18 03:27 AM
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Your gut was right. Lawyer up... get a DNA test before you hand over a dollar for the kid.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:26 PM
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" Afterwards, she had some questions, the crux of which were wondering if I would leave if the sex dried up " Yes... It seems to me you have boundary setting problem. If you want to get into the swinging community, have at it. But you have to think long and hard.. would you be happy knowing that your wife is being taken to pound town by a randomn guy and coming home to you with his cum dripping out of her pussy? I've know a few couples that have gotten into the swinging/poly community and most o…
/r/askMRP05/08/18 11:59 PM
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Women with young babies are frequently not rational. Her shit test was a call for strength. What I do is either say, I think that's bullshit and I'm going back to doing what I was doing... or simply say... Okay... and go back to what I was doing. You can't respond rationally to irrational statements or irrational thinking. That just doesn't work. It's like you are talking and thinking in english and she's talking and thinking in ancient sanskrit for all practical purposes. Trying to rationalise …
/r/askMRP02/08/18 09:06 PM
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How much input does a captain of an aircraft ask of his first officer about where they are going? Not much.... The destination is agreed upon in the beginning and the captain flies the aircraft. The first officers job is to ensure the captain isn't fucking it up and to make sure the plane is running just fine and nothing is going to break... Don't talk about work too much. that is what your male buddies are for.. When deciding on a new job, I would get her input but it's input only...The decisio…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 09:09 PM
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Avoidance isn't an effective problem solving strategy. You're avoiding having a in depth conversation about why you think it's a bad idea and a deal breaker. She's hung up on the idea and won't give in. You need to hit this head on and keep on doing so.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 08:34 PM
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Gold... Rock solid gold...
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/18 08:24 PM
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who gives a shit? Were you a virgin before you married? You said you banged a girl when you were at the academy. You are judging her for doing the same shit you did. Deal with it. Get over it and stop being a pussy.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 03:41 AM
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A couple of thoughts.. Good on your dad for speaking to your SBX as he did. A guiding principle for this is.. do what is the best for your daughter and know that she will be looking at you to see how men act. My brother went through a main event with his wife who divorced raped him. He was the model of a gentleman the whole way along even through she was a total bitch. She fought him tooth and nail and it cost 750k in legal bills. In the end kids figure out their parents. Kids know if one parent…
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:34 PM
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What stood out for me is your comments about her mom's relationship with her dad. This for her is the model of what a healthy relationship is like. She will have picked that up as a little girl watching her mum bombard her dad with 10 buckets of shit on a daily basis. That is normal for her. So getting into a LTR or Marriage with her, she will try to recreate that. It's a truism that people attempt to recreate the relationship of their parents in their LTR's or Marriages. So, the longer you are …
/r/askMRP30/07/18 09:13 PM
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Set hard boundaries.... Any guy who says he loves a woman is going to want to fuck her. Any woman who spends a lot of time with said guy will probably let him. Set a hard boundary and detail consequences of a transgression. Lift... see a divorce lawyer... and get ready. You can't stop her from hanging out with the guy if you want to but be prepared for when she fucks it up. IF you have a main event, never ever date another artist ever again. Being an artist isn't a job or a carreer. It's fucking…
/r/askMRP23/07/18 01:54 AM
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Do you ever think this is going to get better? Do you think it's going to get better if you have 1 child and she hasn't slept hardly at all for 9 months and she's totally fucking exhausted? Do you think it's going to get better if you have 2 kids and she is spending 16 hours a day looking after both kids? With some women it simply will not get better and here's why. Some women have a negative comparison engine. What that means is she negatively compares herself to other women and blames you abou…
/r/askMRP05/07/18 09:32 PM
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Run... do not walk in the opposite direction... Kids are a deal breaker. If you want kids and she doesn't her life will go to shit in her eyes when she's spending 16 hours a day looking after a kid for the first year of it's life. That's what it takes. You have to really really really want it for it to not totally fucked with your head and even then the system shock is extreme. Ditch her. Find a girl who wants to fuck you all the time and have a baby. Times running out mate.. You only get one sh…
/r/askMRP04/07/18 02:22 AM
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I once had a guy say to me that he's a people pleaser... I replied... So, what, you aren't a people? People pleasers tend to put everyone else's need above their own. They see themselves as less than everyone else. They are slaves to everyone else other than themselves. Don't do that shit. Man the fuck up. Ask for your needs. Your needs are just as important as anyone elses. What you might find is there are a bunch of people out there who want to meet your needs but you were too busy pleasing th…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 02:09 AM
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Good work mate. You've made progress you didn't talk about her much at all in your post. Be the Prize. See yourself as the prize. Make yourself the focal point of your attention. Ask for what you want and need, from yourself and your life. Women will find that very attractive. Your ex will do what she will do. She might go and bang a hundred chad's or find another BB to subjugate.. But that won't be you again.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/18 01:58 AM
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I found this only a few months ago but I was on the path to stepping into my alpha anyway. I was on the way to divorce and decided to step up. That is now not going to happen. Marriage has heaps of downsides and little upside. I agree with the poster who said that the one and only reason to get married is to have kids. That is why I did it. I selected my wife because that is what she wanted and was very good with kids and our sex life was awesome and I thought that I was signing up for that to b…
/r/askMRP02/07/18 05:35 AM
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Lactone is a hormone that women's bodies produces to stimulate the breast tissue to produce milk. It has additional effects of supressing testorone and progesterone which are the two hormones in womens bodies associated with libido. In short, while she is breast feeding the lactone in her system is hammering her libido to make sure she doesn't have sex and get pregnant again while she is breastfeeding. Biologically it makes sense. Also, breast feeding calorifically is the equivalent to running, …
/r/askMRP02/07/18 04:55 AM
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" Our sex life has been awful in the last 1-2 years and I attribute it to many factors which feed into each other: " Are you out of your mind? You're supposed to marry a woman when the sex is amazing and she's giving you everything you want, not when you are having an aweful sex life now. NEWSFLASH.... it will get a LOT WORSE when you are married. She will have not competition anxiety. It will get a LOT WORSE when you have your first child and she is breast feeding. She will have all her hormone…
/r/askMRP02/07/18 03:00 AM
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I'd say a couple of things. Firstly don't trust her with a barge pole. As a lot of the guys have said. Record everything, don't let her into your house, always have someone around when she is, never be alone with her. But i would say this. You have a son. It wasn't his fault he was born to the woman he was. It's my belief you can use this as an opportunity to get to know your son. You won't have another one like him and one of the most satisfying things in the world is being a dad and having you…
/r/askMRP02/07/18 02:42 AM
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You are making the presence or absence of a woman as being necessary for your happiness. what if you could be happy with no woman? What if you determine what sort of life you want to be and go out and live it regardless of who wants to share it with you? What if you become so motherfucking confident that you are the prize and you are the one to be fought for? Read the book of pook... No wonder she doesn't want to be with you... Neediness kills desire in women stone dead dude.... My suggestions..…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 01:48 AM
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I think the frame of I will not stay inn a sexless marriage is just fine. I've used those words in my relationship a bit over the past 6 months. You have to be congruent with it and hold the frame but if you do it can' fundamentally change the basis of the relationship. I had a massive blow up with my wife last year where I'd had enough. I knew that she would have a big problem with that frame but I didn't give a fuck.Because I was congruent with it she had to examine her part in the relationshi…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 01:36 AM
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"I got more messages the next day. I replied "I want to be perfectly clear: I want to be your man, not your friend. If I can't be your man, then I don't want to keep in touch with you. Meet me at my place at 8 PM. You can either get your keys and go, or you can come and stay as my girlfriend." She chose to stay a girlfriend. Should be fine, eh? Nah, she came in and it was the same shit all over again." Yep.... why is that? because she knows you will back down and you haven't created competition …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 07:12 AM
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46y/o married 9 years, wife sahm, 2 boys. Reading the book of pook at the moment. Just finished MMSLP and I'm rolling on the the MAP. I've finished 2 of the rational male books. Health: My work on my upper body is paying of. I flexed my muscles to my wife last week and she melted. I've never had muscles like this before. That night she insisted on giving me a blow job while staring into my eyes. This is new behavior. Sex is better than it's ever been. Not quite as frequent as I'd like but I'm aw…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/18 06:35 AM
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I agree. She's using you as either the beta orbiter or plan B back stop. Either way the chatty flirty office chats are about keeping you available but not acting on it. Here's what I've done in the past with ex's. I say look. "Our relationship is over. I understand that you want to be friends but I don't want that. I have enough friends already and don't need more. My interest in you was in having a relationship with you. If I'd wanted to be your friend at the beginning we would have been friend…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 11:39 PM
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47 married 9 years, 2 kids wife SAHM. 6'2" 108kgs Seeing some substantial change in my relationship/sex life. Sex: the last week was interesting. sex on the previous weekend was great but too late at night. Late night sex isn't the best when we are both exhausted. During the week I wanted to have sex but my wife wasn't into it. I let her know I wasn't happy but I didn't lose my shit. I thought. Fuck it.. I'll focus on what I want and own my shit. I didn't buy into her rejection and instead withd…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 11:31 PM
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I'd recommend you read some of David Schnarch's work.. which I'm going to blatantly riff off... Peoples sexual styles in a long term relationship are defined NOT by what they are dying to do.. They are defined by the meanings they are trying to avoid... or the developmental tasks they aren't ready to deal with. So, you wife (and yourself for that matter) was perfectly comfortable with vanilla sex in a marriage/LTR but not the kinky shit because it had a meaning that you were trying to avoid. Ove…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 12:38 AM
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