MakeAVision Archive

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2	Vent: I am tired of the widespread normalized hate we are facing as men and being expected to just shrug it off. Yes, I know the right doesn't love men either. I don't support or endorse them, but neither will I stand in opposition against them because they're the only force putting checks on modern progressivism and wokeism. I'm an Independent and not a Republican for a reason. Well, lots of reasons. I disagree that living under the right's vision is worse than feminism. At least the right can acknowledge men have systemic issues in modernity. Feminism can't, because to do so would completely undermine it…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/01/26 04:45 PM
6	Vent: I am tired of the widespread normalized hate we are facing as men and being expected to just shrug it off. I'm 46 years old and have been left wing my entire life. As I've gotten older I've moved a little bit towards the center, but I still remain fairly left wing and I would describe myself as a liberal. But modern progressivism has become so man hating that, as an American, I've left the Democratic party and registered as an Independent. I no longer give the Democrats my allegiance. As much as I don't like the Republicans, I'm no longer standing in opposition to them. Why should I? As a straight wh…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/01/26 09:58 PM
1	Can we start a New men's movement and actually bring back masculinity? I think it's about time. I swear, watching you lot bitch and moan in this sub is incredible. Then leave. Nobody asked you to be here, and nobody will miss you when you're gone. Women don’t need your votes or your compliance because they already wield the power. There are several entailments of this argument. The most obvious being that if women wield the power as you've claimed, then the feminist claim that women are oppressed must be false and an outright lie. It is impossible for the class who wields the power to also…	/r/MensRights	17/12/25 09:54 PM
3	Can we start a New men's movement and actually bring back masculinity? I think it's about time. If men collectively stopped giving into women's every demand, it wouldn't matter what feminists believed. Yup, this right here. Feminists could screech all they want and none of it would matter. They need our votes to pass the kind of legislation they want, and they need us to conform to their demands to get the outcomes they want. All we need to do is not vote the way they want and stop conforming. "No" is a complete sentence.	/r/MensRights	17/12/25 08:13 PM
1	What caused you to get into Men's Rights? Getting cheated on, divorced, losing significant time with my child, and being forced to pay child support to my cheating ex wife. That sure did it mighty quick.	/r/MensRights	05/11/25 06:40 PM
0	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? I have NOTHING in common with Maga people or their conservative apologetics or "the white man is under attack" bullshit. And if I was worried about who did or didn't like me, I wouldn't be arguing for men's rights, now would I? These two statements are in direct contradiction. White men are men. The MRM isn't the BMRM. If we can agree that men need additional rights, then that means white men must also need additional rights. And why would men need additional rights? Because we can agree that wo…	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 04:56 PM
0	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? The argument that I'm making is that taking extremists and trying to say that their views are general of the group they belong to is not right. Apply this same logic to the right. If a minority of the right says something utterly horrible like "one racial group is superior to another", I highly doubt you'd show them the same grace you are expecting the right to show your group. Most liberals and leftists would say something like "That is completely emblematic of everything the right believes!" T…	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 04:35 PM
6	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? If you actually want to further men's rights, then you're going to have to build coalitions with people you don't agree with on every political issue. This is just simple fucking reality. I believe in strong unions. Many on the right don't. But if I find common ground with a right-wing person who is anti-union but believes, like me, that men should get extra benefits as a consequence for being solely eligible for the draft, then I'll stand by him to enact that policy. I would much rather affect …	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 04:17 PM
2	What are your thoughts on pornography and sex work? Is OF ruining people? What do you mean? The fact a woman can take her clothes off from the safety of her home instead of stripping at the club is probably a good thing. The commodification of sex and the objectification of one's self generally aren't healthy choices. As a man who also has a teenage daughter, my hope is that boys and other men view her as something more than a body to fuck or jerk off to. She has more value than that, and I think it would be a massive shame if she chose to reduce…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/25 09:27 PM
5	What are your thoughts on pornography and sex work? From a moral standpoint, pretty much anything that involves unexploited consenting adults is fine to me. I would further stratify this into "legally moral" and "socially moral". I fully agree with your two bullet points, as well as anything that involves unexploited consenting adults. I would categorize that as "legally moral". Meaning, it's not illegal, and therefore consenting adults have the freedom to make those choices regardless of how anyone else feels about it. The government shouldn't b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/25 09:16 PM
1	There are far too many single moms (and dads). How can we fix this? It's not men's problem to solve. Women wanted independence, so they got it. It's up to them to achieve better life outcomes.	/r/MensRights	09/09/25 09:08 PM
2	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. You just shifted the goalposts. In your first response, this is what you said: No, that's not what the left provides/wants, they have one framework for this: equality between and women Now you're saying it's this: it's the overall stance of how the government and economy interact with the people Since you argued that they have one framework, then it can't be both. Either their framework is about equality between men and women (which it objectively isn't), or it's about the overall stance of how …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/25 04:51 PM
3	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. Harris campaigned on abortion, she's definitely left-wing. By the way, there's another unequal domain between men and women: abortion allows women to opt out of parenthood after the sex act has already occured, while men have never had such a corresponding equal right. I see no reason why women should be able to engage in unprotected sex and still opt out of parenthood while men can't. But the left is staunchly against men having any reproductive rights beyond "keep it in your pants". If that's …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/25 04:10 PM
3	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. The draft shouldn't exist in the first place for men or women Then why hasn't the left campaigned and platformed on removing it? Why wasn't that part of Harris's campaign? the death rate of men needs to be lowered on the job (but also what contributes to that statistic in the first place?) Only men are willing to do the most dangerous jobs. Women prance around saying "We don't need men" while men are the ones dying on the job so we can all have this amazing first-world infrastructure that we all…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/25 03:48 PM
3	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. If that were true, then women would also be subject to the draft; men wouldn't be 10x more likely to die on the job; the male suicide rate wouldn't be 4x higher than women's; women wouldn't be getting 63% of all total scholarship dollars awarded; and men wouldn't make up over 60% of all homeless. This is obviously in the US, of course. The left has no framework and offers no prescription on equalizing these dimensions. I reject your claim.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/25 03:19 PM
6	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. Not if they want equality, no.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/25 12:32 PM
2	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. Me personally, i would choose living a pointless life over dying a “hero” Then I don't see how you're in any position to make valid or healthy descriptive claims about reality, much less any prescriptions on how to live life.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/25 04:16 PM
8	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. No, I reject nihilism. It's not preferable to have no purpose and do nothing to mitigate suffering in the world when it's absolutely within your power to alleviate suffering. This is why more young men are moving to the right. While the framework is imperfect, it at least offers them something. No purpose is quite literally nothing, which only serves to prove my argument: the left offers men nothing. You can't logically argue that the right hurts men more when your alternative to their framework…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/25 03:57 PM
2	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. But they are still the “women and children first” type of ppl As opposed to what? I can agree that if women want equality, then they should be held to the same standards as men and should be willing to accept the same standard of sacrifice as a direct entailment. But taking issue with making sacrifices for children? Yeah, that's a hard sell.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/25 03:31 PM
10	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. I think that's a bit hyperbolic. But at least the right says men should get something more for being subject to the draft. Maybe that justifies any gender pay gap, or maybe that means men's votes count more, or perhaps something else. I've seen many "feminist" women post videos online saying "Men used to go to war and die, heaven forbid they have to accept any duties". The right at least wants men to get something for their sacrifice, whereas the feminist left doesn't. I'd argue that the left wa…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/25 02:31 PM
23	How the right is actually hurting men more than the left. I'm honestly not so sure. The right, at least, has a prescription for men. We can argue as to whether or not it's a good one, and that is certainly debatable. My point is that they at least have a framework to offer. The left, on the other hand, offers men nothing. Absolutely nothing. They have no prescriptions, no framework... They are completely devoid of anything that might offer men a path to walk other than "Feel guilty for being born a man". Unless you're a trans man, in which case they'll…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/08/25 02:13 PM
0	A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood The only abortion bill I would ever vote for is one that also allows for legal paternal surrender, as well as place a cap on the number of weeks into a pregnancy that an elective (not medically necessary) abortion can occur. Any abortion discussion that doesn't include those two elements is an immediate non-starter for me.	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 05:09 PM
3	Men should stop posting their issues on Reddit, every time, the conversation gets hijacked with “women have it worse” or “men caused this themselves.” There’s no sympathy, no empathy, just disdain. No one reads to understand just to shame, deflect, and silence. They have to start facing consequences for their rhetoric. I think being relegated to an electoral minority is a good place to start.	/r/MensRights	29/05/25 02:39 PM
4	Men should stop posting their issues on Reddit, every time, the conversation gets hijacked with “women have it worse” or “men caused this themselves.” There’s no sympathy, no empathy, just disdain. No one reads to understand just to shame, deflect, and silence. The arguments go no where. With the feminists against whom you are arguing or debating, that is true. However, what I've learned is that a debate isn't about converting the person you're arguing with to your way of thinking, but to convert everyone else who is watching or listening to that debate. You don't win when the other person says "Okay, now I believe you." You win when you utterly and completely destroy the other person's stance and worldview using facts and logic, thereby convincing oth…	/r/MensRights	28/05/25 01:24 PM
73	Men should stop posting their issues on Reddit, every time, the conversation gets hijacked with “women have it worse” or “men caused this themselves.” There’s no sympathy, no empathy, just disdain. No one reads to understand just to shame, deflect, and silence. All these women are doing is ensuring a Republican majority for the next generation of men in the US. I'm not, and have never been, a Republican, but these women deserve the electoral takedown that'll happen as a result of their blatant sexism.	/r/MensRights	28/05/25 01:17 PM
14	With MGTOW growing quite fast how do you see governments responding? I'm not convinced there will be a tax penalty for single men. If more men GTOW, then as that group grows, it would naturally become a stronger voting block. Just look at how young men turned out for Trump. I think men need to lean into the kind of feminism that women hate: holding women accountable for their outcomes. If they're so independent, then they can't appeal to men in any way. And we wouldn't let them because we vote for those outcomes. What else could they do besides complain? Andrew W…	/r/MensRights	22/04/25 07:04 PM
93	Dating app double standard: Hinge requires you to enter your height but there isn't even a field for weight I wish this would be plastered all over every billboard in America: men need to boycott dating apps.	/r/MensRights	12/03/25 01:42 PM
18	"Do Men Even Like Women Anymore?" Why would your ideal man want you? What exactly do you have to offer him that makes you stand out from all the other women who want that exact same guy? I'll take "Nothing" for $1,000 please, Alex.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/02/25 02:29 PM
3	Holy crap! Online dating for men are so fucking cruel! Jesus. Yeah, you really do have a choice. There are about 3 men for every 1 woman in online dating. If more men left the dating apps and never looked back, then the dating market would shift. Men absolutely have the power to make dating apps useless by refusing to participate in them.	/r/MensRights	07/02/25 10:21 PM
8	Just posted this on r/rant I'm gonna register as an Independent (I've been a lifelong Democrat thus far) and simply not vote for anything women care about. I've gotten a vasectomy so I couldn't care less whether women can get abortions or not. Their problems aren't mine and I don't give a shit if they struggle.	/r/MensRights	20/01/25 11:33 PM
2	"You just couldn't find a woman in your own country/you wanted a slave from the third world/you're taking advantage of those poorly educated girls" - How would you respond to this? "My happiness isn't contingent upon your approval of my life choices."	/r/MensRights	31/12/24 05:23 PM
3	Wellness check: how're you coping with the fallout? To be fair, Kamala herself did not speak to her being a woman and a POC. It was the leftist media machine around her. Diversity is good. Inclusion is good. Alienating men by saying their sexual orientation and gender is bad and making all new video games and movies with straight up ugly characters and no white people because “Inclusion!!!”, when like 70+% of gamers are fucking WHITE MEN…. Yup, you nailed it. The left is using politics to fight the culture war, and they've lost voters because of …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/11/24 04:02 PM
14	Wellness check: how're you coping with the fallout? Honestly, I'm reveling in the collective freakout of the left. I'm a moderate liberal who voted for both Hillary and Kamala, but every criticism of the Democrats handling of men and this election is spot on. The left has become so insufferable that I can't help but find their tears delicious. I hope the Democrats return to the party of the blue collar working class and ditch the intersectional identidy politics. But I don't think it'll happen anytime soon. In the meantime I'm going to go about m…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 06:03 PM
60	All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless wars This should be higher up because it's 100% correct. I've considerably distanced myself from the Democratic party due to its embrace of feminist identity politics, but it absolutely was the Republicans who shot down the idea of forcing women to also register for the draft. Christ I am so politically homeless.	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 06:24 PM
3	stop talking about man and bear question Exactly. Our response to "I choose the bear" should be "Whatever, I don't give a shit". Remember, they've set us free from our old duties, obligations, and responsibilities regarding women's outcomes. We owe them nothing now. So don't give them anything and let them get eaten by a bear.	/r/MensRights	03/05/24 01:53 PM
3	The "Bear or man" question has made me lose faith in humanity. I say let them choose the bear. Then sit back with a box of popcorn while they get subsequently mauled and eaten. It's quite liberating to be divorced from women's outcomes.	/r/MensRights	03/05/24 03:59 AM
2	What real leverage does a guy have in modern relationships? It sounds like YOU are willing to go further if the girl is pretty. Understand that if you sacrifice a woman's personality for her looks, then you are choosing to accept the consequences that come with that decision. Pretty women are entitled because they know they can leverage it against men. Why? Because we allow it. So the solution here is simple: don't allow a pretty women to leverage her looks against you. Require something more. Otherwise, you're consciously choosing to sacrifice the quali…	/r/MensRights	23/04/24 09:17 PM
5	How Would You Balance Feminism And Men's Rights? This is an excuse for you to not take responsibility of your own shit. You can blame men all you want for your problems, I'm still not obligated to do anything about it. Fix your own damned shit.	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 03:04 PM
24	How Would You Balance Feminism And Men's Rights? Women can take care of themselves. They keep saying they don't need us, so take them at their word and let them solve their own problems. In the meantime we can solve ours.	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 03:52 AM
12	Why is loss of libido a bad thing? Is it not freedom? Yep. I'm 43 and get horny almost every day.	/r/MensRights	20/09/23 03:49 AM
4	What are your opinion on "Girls rule, boys drool"? mentality? "Sure, if you say so. Now, can you move this heavy furniture all on your own? You got this? Cool."	/r/MensRights	20/08/23 05:59 AM
12	How do I make peace with the fact that practically no one has progressive views on the role of men in society? No one gets the benefit of my traditional masculinity for free. If a woman wants me to be traditionally masculine, then she's going to be traditionally feminine in return. Otherwise, if she wants to be a modern woman, then she gets a modern man. I only had to say that to my girlfriend once before she started acting more traditionally feminine.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/22 03:23 PM
6	According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smh Their saltiness is tasty.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:51 AM
19	Why do people tell unattractive guys to be “nice” to compensate for being unattractive? Then the solution is simple. Those obese women need to lose weight. Nobody is entitled to a relationship. They have to earn it by becoming more attractive to the kind of person they want, or accept the consequence of their obesity.	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 01:28 PM
5	how men's rights is perceived as cringe and what to do about it Username checks out.	/r/MensRights	19/08/22 04:38 PM
12	Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic? In contrast, feminists come across as selfish hoes who want to accept wicks from as many men as possible with no consequences. Or perhaps the issue is more nuanced than that, and we believe the ability to consent to sex without being forced to consent to parenthood and reproduction shouldn't be solely within the purview of a single gender. That's why I'm pro-choice for EVERYBODY. EDIT: If abandoning a child is so much worse than aborting it, then why do safe havens exist for women to literally d…	/r/MensRights	29/06/22 10:15 PM
1	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. you think everything and everyone must agree with you personal opinion to be welcome here Not at all. Disagree with me all you like. Just don't expect the fact that you disagree to sway me, especially when you call my assertions stupid. It's one thing to argue and debate in good faith, but entirely another when you resort to ad-hominems because you don't like what the other person has to say. If you throw shit at someone, expect them to throw it right back. my membership predates yours by years …	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 08:01 PM
2	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. not every woman True, but enough women are like that to make it a problem. That's a big reason why RvW abortion was legal for decades while paper abortion was not. > An egalitarian stance I do agree with you here. The problem is that feminists have a lot of political clout, who also have no reason to adopt an egalitarian stance. Being the sole arbiters of abortion allows them 100% control over all reproductive decisions while suing men for financial support against their will. An egalitarian sys…	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 06:14 PM
2	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. I have a dick That's debatable. The status quo isn't harmful if you don't stick your dick in stupid. So you're pro-life. Got it. ETA: Look "bro", I get it. You're a male feminist. Nobody here cares. Do yourself a favor and go back to 2XC.	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 06:05 PM
6	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. RvW had been legal for 50 to 60 years, and women still opposed paper abortion. Men had already fought for their rights decades ago. Their response was to say "fuck you, got mine". Sorry bud, but I think you're dead wrong on this one. Women will never reciprocate out of kindness. It's not in their nature. If they want my help, then they must adhere to my terms. They have the freedom to decline them, and I have the freedom to withhold my vote.	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 05:27 PM
3	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. I actually gave you an upvote for this one, even though I don't fully agree. From a purist point of view, it would be really nice to stop thinking in terms of "us vs them". But reality isn't flowers and bunnies hopping through the forest. Go to Etsy, type the phrase "Men Are Trash" in the search bar, and see what pops up. Tons of fucking swag. All with that phrase on it. How in the world can I, or any man, open a dialogue with women who belong to a culture that glorifies the vilification of men?…	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 05:19 PM
2	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. So you agree with our message, but not the tone? I'm not responsible for your fee-fees, my dude. I can explain it simply: if women want men's help when it comes to reproductive rights and freedoms, then men must have a seat at the table. Anything less than that is a non-starter. Women could enshrine RvW into law all by themselves without us, but not enough of them are pro-choice to make that a reality. Feminists can either choose to be good allies to men by using political clout for true equalit…	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 05:04 PM
3	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. So then why are you here, on the MensRights sub, complaining about men abandoning children when women have laws that have allowed them to do exactly that for decades? Shouldn't you be advocating for banning safe haven laws since, according to your logic, they're actively contributing to the downfall of society? Or are you just an idealogue with an axe to grind against men?	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 04:55 PM
2	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. No, your sperm belonged to you. Just like your egg belonged to you. Which is 50% of what is required to make a child. Yes, the choice men have is don't fertilize the egg And you have the same choice. Don't want to get pregnant? Then don't spread your legs and accept a man's sperm. See how easy this is?	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 04:51 PM
3	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. The government feminist movement is trying to make this a man vs woman issue	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 04:43 PM
3	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. Abandoning children causes quantifiable damage to the child If that's the case, then why are safe havens allowed for women to abandon their unwanted babies without consequence? According to your logic, every woman who does that is also causing quantifiable damage to that child and surrounding society. So why do you get the privilege of making that choice, but I don't?	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 04:41 PM
2	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. Serious question: why is abandoning a child considered worse than killing it in utero?	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 04:18 PM
2	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. 50% of that child's genes belong to you. You equally participated in the sex act that made that child. Take some accountability for your actions. If you're really worried about men going around and making children with impunity, there are two simple solutions for that over which you have complete control: 1) become celibate; 2) sterilize yourself via tubal ligation or hysterectomy. Otherwise if you want to claim you're a helpless child, then I'll have no problem treating you like one.	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 04:15 PM
3	The Roe v Wade ruling is an opportunity for men to gain reproductive rights that have thus far been non existent. It forces the "equality" discussion onto another plane. If both men and women experience an equal amount of suckage under this new paradigm, then any discussions of changing said paradigm must produce an equal outcome for both men and women. In other words, whatever replaces RvW must also enshrine reproductive rights for men. I am staunchly pro-choice, always have been. But the status quo definitely needs to be shaken up if we want to achieve actual equality.	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 04:02 PM