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Exactly. It will hurt just as much in the start. As you will feel like you weren't good enough and couldn't keep her interest. But at least she was a bitch and now you know. Use this to work on the things you need to work on that didn't attract her. (of course if you want to, do not change your whole personality into someone you are not). And next time you find a real non cheating bitch, keep her interested.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:53 PM
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Can I just ask you, with that mind set, do you ever hope for a true LTR and a partner you actually trust and not analyze as a primitive biological being? Thank you for what you said, it helped me a bunch! The hard part is fixating away from her. I put so much in there, i stayed up 3 nights trying to find perfect cute gifts with her interests that she enjoyed. It might sound beta, but I love doing shit like that, it makes me feel great! But I feel like less I put in the more I get. Which is parad…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:08 PM
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That sounds horrible :P
/r/askTRP07/10/16 12:04 AM
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And what if you're not tough and chiseled? Then you're fucked?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:56 PM
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Imho: Get ripped. Find your good qualities and use them. If you can't figure out any, then make some. you say: "I dress well,speak politely and fluently" Are you dressing too nice? Try more casual and fun nice. And speaking politely and fluently sounds pretty boring. What about trying to be more funny and cool. Funny can be learned. girls always reject me because of that and mostly when they know me i become something of an older brother for them,they would seek help from me and also try to help…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:50 PM
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Haha, sorry but yes. The last sentence there sets things in perspective. The thing is, why does it have be that that when a man says something nice and sensual it's beta? It's stupid. I don't buy it. Because I've been with a girl before that LOVED those kinds of things, she loved me asking stuff like that. And I'm no beta when talking to people I say what I mean and disagree, and say when I feel enough is enough. If I can feel like this, then some girl out there should feel the same. Sure I agre…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:32 PM
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I guess you are right. It felt more real to me than her. One thing she said that I couldn't wrap my head around was that one night she held me an said she liked me. We kissed and she left for school. When she came back she jumped over me and hugged me. Later that day I asked if she missed me while gone. And she said no, not really. And I asked if she didn't feel anything special when she acted like that. With no good response. So the moments felt so real, but her words differ. It made me insanel…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:03 PM
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I didn't think she was crazy, just wounded and unhappy. So I started to care for her and fell in love. It didn't happen over night but over 7 months slowly. But that all those times, all those memories and laughs could be thrown out the window on a whim with the only guy she have trusted and a few days earlier slept in his arms. That freaking hurt. My life could be better, but it's ok. Reading up to become an engineer. Getting back in shape too. Mentally I'm pretty fucked now, mostly because I f…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:56 PM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it, I just hoped that she wouldn't be like that in the end, because of all the great times we had together. In my mind it still doesn't make sense. As we never had a bad moment together. But it didn't take much for it all to come crashing down.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:46 PM
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well, the phd guys couldn't either, so I guess you're right. She dragged me to hell indeed.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:44 PM
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I do regret heavily, it's really painful now. So yea. You're right. I just thought there was a good girl down there, but now I see I'm wrong.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:43 PM
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It was more than that it took though as I had some plates, but after many months I only wanted to focus on her, but I get your point..I didn't pick up on all the red flags. Or rather I ignored them. Now the other girls don't interests me no more.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:42 PM
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Because I'm an idiot. She just struggled with so much, and that made me want to care for her. At first I thought this was not smart. But as we got to know each other and what she liked matched very good with what I liked. The times together, always laughed and joked around etc. And that made me want to take care of her and make her happy. So now I feel like shit. It feels like you don't get what you put in. You actually get what you do NOT put in. And that makes me annoyed. But this is bitching,…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:58 PM
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Gotta catch em all. Feelsbadman.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:53 PM
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Thank you and sorry to hear that. Can I ask if those fucks helped you? Or did they make you think more about a real relationship? I'm not trying to bring something up, just curious. It's still very early for me but I don't really want to fuck anyone. It's like fucking a "ghost" not a real person I care about. But yea, the rest you've been doing sounds awesome, I think I'll try some of it myself! Except for too much drinking. As I've been drunk 5 days after the worst feels. Sobered up now, but th…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:51 PM
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Thank you, yes I can see that there are many red flags here, but that doesn't make it feel less shitty. It's weird though, even more I know it most likely wouldn't work out the more I want it to work out. Especially because I like her so much and care for her. And that last paragraph I agree, It just makes me feel cynical in a way you know? If I can care like this, shouldn't someone else too you know? Haha, without all the fucking mind games.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:11 PM
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I see that it would work for keeping the tension there, but all the mind games all the time, how do you get to just be you. Must you always keep that "loving" side of you head under water? Push it down just to be an alpha? And as you say I should've have acted with giving no shit. That's hard too because I give much shit! When do you know when you can actually care for her? Without all the mind games, strategy and "i don't care" attitude? When you deep down care? Should you just force those feel…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:08 PM
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