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| 11 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!Can someone link to that post from a little while ago warning about Desi men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Singles who are satisfied with their friends are less likely to desire a relationship partnerAt the risk of sounding like a pickme... I'm struggling with this. I have been trying to lean more on friends/family but I feel like the intimacy that I want is not something I can find through them. And these are close girlfriends that know every embarrassing detail about me 😂 How do y'all deal with this? I wish I could just buy intimacy in a bottle so I don't have to think about men at all lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:28 PM |
| 33 | Alright ladies! How many of you have been in a fight like this?! (The Break Up)I just remember him being so annoying. Good to know they don't get back together. Makes me want to rewatch now though it would be hard to sit through his shitty behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:45 AM |
| 82 | Alright ladies! How many of you have been in a fight like this?! (The Break Up)I remember seeing this when it came out and not liking it but couldn't articulate why. His character was such a dick (he always plays an immature asshole) but didn't she take him back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Shut down an LVM at work who tried to treat me like his personal secretaryLove seeing a woman who's unapologetic about being BOMB at her job. Too often we undermine our excellence to make others feel better about themselves as if we didn't put in the work to be able to be so confident. Here for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:25 AM |
| 30 | Omg Sis, you are so lucky! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 #blessedhunThis is so corny 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Thank you. I'm very pro mental health. I was seeing a counselor but haven't found a new person yet since I moved. Trying to take advantage of some free group therapy through school until I find someone. And yes I'm losing the weight. Right now working on changing my mindset to view working out as something that makes me feel good instead of punishment for eating. I notice that if I feel depressed, I feel better after I work out so trying to remember those things as motivations to keep going. Hop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Thank you. Bleak is an understatement. I wish I could just flip a switch in my brain that turns off thinking about dating. It just doesn't feel worth it. I'd get so much more done with my life lol. I'm willing to make compromises but I don't want to settle. I'm watching my sister do that and it's hard to stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020What makes you say avoidant? I try to put myself out there and I've even asked guys out, which I now know is against the rules. (Not being defensive, just trying to understand.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Omg I totally feel you on the pet thing. I have a cat you are gross but why are you so adorable?! I'm definitely more strict than my friends in that she doesn't touch my face, isn't allowed on tables/counters, I was my hands after touching her, etc. I am trying to do positive affirmations to help with my confidence but I feel like they're lies. I'm just so used to beating myself up that anything otherwise feels foreign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Yup I'm deleting my apps and I'm going to try my hardest to stay off them. I just download when I'm bored or lonely. I will find more in person activities like you said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Hey thank you for the thoughtful reply. My inbox is definitely full of "lose weight" suggestions instead. Which I have btw, 100lbs actually. I had to go to extremes to get here. I still need to lose another 40lbs to be in the "acceptable" range. To your point about confidence. I try to take it till I make it and apparently do a good job, at least according to women. When I admit my struggles with not having confidence they are like "you just did xyz. That's confidence". Maybe I'm just not doing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Edit: thank you stranger for the Hugz ❤️❤️ Here because I'm feeling really insecure. I just need to rant/wollow for a bit about several aspects of my "dating" life. Is this allowed? I feel like even though I have HV qualities (make good money, own a home and an investment property, no debt, putting myself through grad school, well traveled, work out 3-4 days a week, friends say I'm funny, pretty easy to get along with, dress well/do my hair and makeup, am a decent human being, etc.) because I am… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:58 AM |
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