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Fully agreed! Incels hate the fact they have to put in work. Women hold the keys when it comes who they share their life with. Incels HATE that. Rather than hefting their flabby bodies up from the gamer chair and hitting the floor to do some pushups and situps, and accepting their hair loss instead of wearing a fedora, they choose to hate the women that reject them. I've seen it firsthand. My old roommate thought every girl I took up to my room was a "slut." Funny...he cornered them in conversat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:12 AM
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"Fuck yeah, I'm 6'3", 38, not married, no kids, white, physically hardened beyond belief in my manual labor job where I make 50k. I'm the best! My mom says I'm a catch!" Nope. I'm not, if online dating is any indication. I was married for 10 years then landed a 3 year relationship. I've been available for 3 years now. It's an absolute desert for men in their late 30s who can't hang with the mid 20s crowd. And if you can hang with that, you're stunted somehow. I say this to myself, but also to my…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:55 AM
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Haha! Joke's on you and I'm 38 and still single- Oh. Damn. When you're right, you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:29 AM
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Modernerity is killing itself. I've done all things, seen all things. I see a hatred towards CIS that baffles me. Sexuality is ultimately about reproduction. The modern world is killing itself off through work and education. The more you work and the more education you've had, the less children you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:22 AM
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In the words of my partner, when I asked her why we weren't as intimate as we used to be... "You're supposed to do it. You're the guy." Nah. Honey, this is a two way street. Get off the road if you're not willing to drive once in a while. Haven't you had sex with more than 70 guys? "Well, yes, but they've always done it. You're the man." Ugh. I say this in 5 years restrospect as I eat my bowl of off brand cornflakes in my small apartment. At least I got the dog
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:50 PM
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Truth. The ugliest dudes I know have this weird arrogance. They are bullies to be honest. Holy eff, I just realized the nicest guys to me, as a fellow guy, are good looking successful men. Guys sorta like me but I'm not quite there yet. The worst guy I know is a forklift operator at my work. The least pleasant part of my day is placing 2k lbs pallets at his work station. Some days, he is barking orders at me, down to fractions of an inch. "No farther! No, your forks are too high! You're busting …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:54 AM
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I couldn't afford the mortgage on my own. Neither could she, but she already had a boyfriend and two roommates ready to move in. Ironically, I later got her two roommates hired at my work. Her new boyfriend had an adderall flippout when she tried to break up and smashed the house, particularly the porcelain in the bathrooms with a sledgehammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 09:28 PM
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I was in a 10 year and then a 3 year relationship. I'm touching 40. I've dealt with cheating. Look after yourself first and foremost. A relationship does not define you. If you can find a good one, it will enhance you. A bad one is still beneficial, though. I have every reason to be bitter, but I'm not. For example, my ex wife, we were married when I was 20 and she cheated 8 years in. We got married too young. I wish her nothing but the best. I bought a house with my last ex when I was 30. I los…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:51 AM
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It's really simple. Women are teachers because of child rearing. They get the summer off the same as their kids do. It just works out. School is public funded daycare, caregiver, and education. That shit is super expensive privately. So mom gets the summer off to be a caregiver to fill in the summer gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:13 PM
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How can I be rejected when I never wanted her or hit on her? I'm catnip to 20 somethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 10:03 AM
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No, she wasn't. I just have my numbers wrong. She could have been 24, I could have been younger than I'm thinking. Her exact words were, said with a giggle, "Jon! That means we can date, it's perfect!" Whatever our ages were, it ended up being exactly my age + 7. Point is, I was at the age where a young 20 something, as attractive as she was, as good of friends we were, she was not someone I wanted to date, and she was indeed being a bit flirty. If it makes you feel better, have your narrative! …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:07 PM
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You didn't understand me, my friend. This happened years ago. I was 32. Maybe 33. I was old enough to realize when someone was coming on to me. I rejected her. Which was weird for her. As a 22 year old girl, she wasn't used to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:28 AM
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Same here. I'm 37 now, and maybe 4 years ago a 22 year that I knew casually brought up the half your age plus 7 rule. In a flirty way...I laughed and said a lot of your life changes between 20 and 30. Get with me in ten years, she'd be 30s, I'd be 40s. That seems fine to me. But a mid 30s guy with a 22 year old? Creepy AF
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:52 AM
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My ex loved to hear me talk about my passions. She was an artist, canvases strewn out all over the living room. I have no talent that way. I can make a guitar sing though. We appreciated each other. I marveled at her paintings. Her art was something I could never do. And it was something to behold. How in the hell can a person do that? Weeks later, I picked up my guitar, which she had no idea I could even play.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 11:24 PM
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I think yes is the right answer. I've had so many people take advantage of me when I was younger. My soft heart never did anything for me. It was just hurt all the time. So I abandoned the fucking thing. I can't say I've never looked back, I have, but my life has improved since I started making me my priority and not others. I have a heart, deep beneath, but good luck trying to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 03:19 PM
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I used to wear my heart on my sleeve. I am hardened now. She was a cold person, non-emotional. I am hardened beyond belief now. Still love her and wish the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 11:43 AM
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I listened to Dan Carlins Hardcore History podcast. In it, he said there was a young teenage girl forced in the ditch by Nazis after they killed her mother and father. She pleaded, "I'm only 11!" She was forced to lay atop them as she was pelted with automatic fire to her end. It affected me. I almost couldn't work. I told my girl about it when I got home and I have to admit, I cried a bit... she gave me a thousand yard stare. "Sounds like you needed to get that off your chest." She looked at me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:45 AM
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Same here. I work in auto salvage. I laugh at my adorable hippy friends that comment I don't have an aluminum recycle bin at my apartment. I recycle more aluminum in a day than most people do in a lifetime. I love what I do. It is hard work, and bloody work. I dropped an alternator on my foot from a good 2 meters, so I'm down for the count. I'll be back at work in the next couple days, grinding it out in the heat of summer. I love it though. It is what I live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:09 PM
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Every word is true down to the last letter of what happened. It has hardened me beyond belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:28 AM
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37 here, had a 10 year relationship and a 3 year one. I'm enjoying my break, because relationships are exhausting. I've been single for 3 years and my life is just so incredibly carefree. That's not to say I don't miss being in a committed relationship, but, I thought I'd feel lonely being single. I don't. Some days the only time I talk is to my dog and cat, and we are all perfectly happy with this arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:25 AM
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I'm mid thirties, my 24 yo friend made a joke about us falling into the half your age plus 7 rule. She is very attractive and honestly, I had a crush on her. But I could not imagine a life together or even a hookup. A world separates us. I'm not saying I'm mature and she's not. I just know how many mistakes I made when I was in my mid-late 20s. I guess...I don't want to be one of hers. I'm too old for more mistakes. And old enough that I'll say the same thing in 10 years time having made many mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 08:24 AM
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I've helped buy two houses. Got dumped a few months after the paperwork went through in both situations. In all fairness, my wife of 10 years had reasons to cheat, and my girlfriend of 3, we were polyamorous. Things crumbled in both, but dammit, the next house I buy will be mine. Thousands lost for me in both cases. And both cases, it was worth it for the love we had. I get where they are coming from as well. I can't justify spending so much while getting so little reciprocation though. If I wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:45 PM
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Women shape men's behavior because men want women. Is this new news?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 10:32 PM
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My ex, when we first started dating, said we might not be a good match because we were both leo's. She was very cute and a genuine nice person, so we dated for three years. I have a love for astronomy and, actually all sciences. Two different worlds, too different of an outlook
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:14 AM
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Once I got broken up with and didn't give a shit, I started acting like a distant jerk. I cared so much about my partner in my relationship, I lost the ability to have any emotional investment. I got laid so much, I had to balance time with several girls. I didn't do a great job, I once had two girls come over at the same time, one showed up randomly, the other was a planned Netflix and chill night. I didn't care at all, but I expected them both to leave angrily. Nope. Turned into a threesome...…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 06:41 PM
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Everyone is welcome to their own beliefs. Do you agree with skinheads now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 06:03 AM
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Why would you share company with skinheads? I'm curious how you even got yourself in that situation? Was it a man that got you into that lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:55 AM
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I can't change your view, nor do I want to. I would suggest being cautious of men, always. I can give you statistics that most rapes and child molestations happen with people that are known quantities, like family members...not random strangers. But, people aren't entirely rational. Stranger danger is very real but for the most part, unfounded. Most people are good and kind. But, I have the luxury of believing that. When I'm walking down the street, I've never had some douchebag catcalling me. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 07:58 AM
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Women and children get on the boats first on a sinking ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:16 PM
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I know more polyamorous women than mono ones. My last 3 year relationship was poly. In that community, I had a real glimpse into just how easy it is for a girl to slip into a relationship. 20 messages a day for my girlfriend vs. me rarely getting a reply back, even from girls I wasn't attracted to, I just thought they'd be cool to hang out with based on similar interests. I'm not upset about it, it's just the way it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:26 AM
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Anecdotal evidence, but I've never had my girl friends go more than a couple months without getting into another relationship after a breakup. Usually, it's way less time than that. Often they already have someone else in mind. I've seen my male friends go months and years, often by choice. I suppose I am one of those guys. 2 years single, certainly by choice, I have a few options. I'm just not ready, I haven't worked on myself hard enough to desire a companion again. There were flaws in myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:51 PM
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Oh yes! I've been giving dating a rest for some time. The girls I feel that special spark seem to ghost me. The ones I don't blow up my phone! It has nothing to do with looks, either. I've felt nothing for some attractive and hilarious women that we just didn't connect. Ive never had a sister, but it felt like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:43 PM
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Other than losing weight and getting in shape, then surgery is the only way for a girl to be attractive? Hrmmm..You mean a girl who takes care of herself, is working to be in good shape, is attractive? We are in agreement on that, for sure. I don't view cosmetic surgery as a benefit, it's a turn-off. A girl who has had surgery, liposuction or implants or whatever, is like a guy taking steroids. Roided out body builders are not attractive to most women, aside from the shallow ones. Girls who have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:45 AM
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This is the dumbest thing I've read today. Are you a teenager? You said a woman will never work or earn her way to a higher status without surgery? That reflects what you value about women. Good luck with that as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:13 AM
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Haha, horniness confuses everyone. Why do people have one night stands for months and months, but delay having sex with someone they really like? It's human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:31 AM
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I suggested cam modeling to my partner of 3 years when we were struggling for money after we had bought a huge house and our 3 roommates got into relationships and moved out. My ex was gorgeous. I was like, what's the harm? We were polyamorous, we liked showing pics and vids to friends, let's monopolize on be our exhibitionism! She was like...alright. You first, though. What? She wanted me to be a cam model first. I considered it, but it never happened. I think the main reason is...it would be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 11:46 AM
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I'm so sorry, that's about the worst thing I could ever imagine going through. I'm a male, I've picked up the plan B pills twice in my life. That was bad enough and both times were accidents. Both of us were to blame for poor decisions, but I felt guilty I didn't suffer the real after effects. This was my wife of 7 years, btw. She had an affair, I think both of us wanted to cement our lives together afterwards. But, reality hit. We decided we couldn't go through with it. She adopted a foster tee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:56 PM
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This is true! My ex loved her horoscopes and didn't think we'd work out at the beginning of our relationships because we were both Leos. Not a good match, apparently. Her boyfriend directly after me was a self-proclaimed shaman, who aligned her chakras one very steamy night, as she told it. I was stifling laughter during the conversation. But, I have to say, her woo was endearing in a lot of ways. We had a sage burning ritual in our house after some toxic roommates left. It smelled good and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 12:57 AM
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Well, you chose your man, didn't you? You can choose to leave as well. You were forced to consent to his relationship style? Nope. You're free to go. Good luck to you in choosing a better partner!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 10:57 AM
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Exactly. This is the stupidest article I've read today, written by someone who has never worked a blue collar job and dealt with the light amount of hazing we construction workers, auto mechanics, utility worker, welders, etc deal with. I'm sorry, but we found a bunch of sex toys in a wrecked car (auto salvage industry) and hid them in various places in my 50 year old boss's desk, on his forklift, in his toolbox, etc. He turned red from laughing so hard. Imagine if we did that to our 25 year old…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:16 PM
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If I go look at or fix something, I don't want or need sex in return for my labor. I'm your friend, and it's almost insulting to think you can "pay" by sleeping with or flirting with me. There is no debt, silly, you're my friend, I do it for my guy friends as well, although they're less likely to ask for help because of male pride. My other theory is I'm just a bad lay. I dunno, I haven't had complaints before. Or, I've been on a break from sex for about a year now, and relationships for 2, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:47 AM
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Women don't value attraction as much as men do. I've found they value usefulness combined with attraction, then other factors. Money is becoming less of a factor, for sure. You can be a single mom with 4 kids, reasonably comfortably (compared to how difficult that would be 100 years ago, it's still difficult as hell, don't get me wrong) Women value what men can provide, still, but it's more skill based. I'm blue collar, I make decent but not spectacular money. I have a large group of friends tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:59 AM
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That is, in part, what makes women wonderful! They seem to have an innate social understanding. My friend was afraid to tell me this car part was for her new boyfriend, though, as if I'd be less inclined to help. She was mistaken, I don't care! I get why she was vague, but it hurt to know she was hiding the truth of the matter, where, if she would have spoken plainly about her situation, I'd have done everything I could. Now, I don't care and don't want to help. I care for her, as a friend, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:08 AM
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The most amazing people I know in this world are women, they are so thoughtful compared to my male friends The most miserable, manipulative, and deceitful people I know, though, are mostly women There's this gap that is hard to explain. That's not to say men are not straight up psychopaths at times, but I can spot those guys from a mile away. Women can be jerkfaces, but they do it subtly. For instance, I had an intimate connection with this girl who had a husband. I thought everything was cool, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 09:56 AM
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I couldn't justify the cost or the weirdness of a sex doll, but maybe in 10 years my mind could change. I've been in a 10 year and 3 year relationship over the past 15 years, at age 35. I'm kinda done with relationships for now but, I don't have enough heart to try a relationship again. I'm not lonely, but I wish I had a Fleshlight, sounds like fun. I don't think women understand how much men need physical release compared to y'all. Women experience physical intimacy on a next level, emotional h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:24 AM
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The value of men is diminished by social welfare programs. An ex-coworker of mine, Emily, she is a waitress. She had a baby with a man that had gotten her roommate pregnant the year before and dumped her halfway through her pregnancy to start dating Emily. Her roommate had to move in with her parents. Emily got pregnant a couple months in...and the boy disappeared. As they do Emily's daughter is wonderful and well taken care of. She's never seen her father, he was gone before she was born. She's…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 07:28 PM
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After getting out of a 10 year and a 3 year relationship, I'm avoiding getting into anything. I don't want sex and I've never been a one night stand guy. I've taken girls home and they love on my dog and we watch The Avatar or Rick and Morty and I never make a move. Lmao, when I say come watch Netflix and chill, I'm genuine. Every now and then a girl gets pissed I won't bone her, but that's rare. I mean, look at my fucking dog I like this sub because both MGTOW and super SJWs are kinda bullshit …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 07:08 PM
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Love this!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:11 AM
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I'm a slut myself. I'll take the slut, please and thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 12:07 PM
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I think I would tear down a wall brick by brick to be with my kid. And I don't even like kids that much. I don't like most dogs, but I love mine and I would do anything for him. I'm very lucky to not have a kid yet. It would have been bad news with my previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:54 PM
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Isn't bipolar different than BPD? Borderline personality disorder is explosive and angry from my experience. I live with a guy who's borderline, he's getting better to some degree because, luckily, he has a support network...but he's not ready to have a legitimate girlfriend. His partner would live a nightmarish life trying to manage his daily narcissistic emotional turmoil. I could never date a person with BPD. The appeasement is beyond me. I want a partner...an equal. I don't want someone wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 12:33 AM
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You dodged a bullet...or rather, an unhealthy relationship. Good on ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:32 AM
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You don't have to. I believe in voluntary interactions amongst folk. You can ignore...except you didn't. I dunno, this castaway post from last night seemed to have sparked debate ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 04:55 AM
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Nope, I have no kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:46 AM
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I've gone so far as scheduling one, but my company changed insurance in between and it kinda fell through. I was kinda okay with it, I got hit bad in the testes as a kid with a baseball, so I have issues with doctors touching there...bleh. I need to get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:26 AM
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I think I am jealous of the don't give a fuck mentality. I hate condoms. I have a lot of sex. Not saying that to pretend I'm super alpha or good looking, I'm just in a kinda polyamorous/swinging group of dozens of people. I do well...but its been two years with condoms and its driving me crazy. Ive had girls begging me to take the condom off...I would...but...I'm responsible. I'm sure once I settle into a fluid bonded partnership again, my aggression will subside. And I do hear the woman's "vict…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:18 PM
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...and that's where I come in. Ladies, I'm single! Wink wink
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:50 AM
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I have no kids at 34, and the reason for that is my kid would become my life, my everything. I know guys that have multiple kids with multiple women that they see once every few months, that try to hang out and party with me. I resent them, like...what are you doing trying to live the bachelor life? Go be a dad to your kids... I also know a girl who is 24 and has a 4 year old and a 2 year old that her mom is raising. I have mixed feelings. Part of me wants to date her and assume fatherhood, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:21 AM
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