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For a change, I'd like a man who does not think women deserve being raped because of how they were dressed, and who does not support Andrew Tate and similar men. Finding one like that is already a great challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:34 AM
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Why not starting to offer then? Women talk all the time what they want in a man, they even yell, they cry, but guys don't listen Instead of calling us golddigers and saying you don't have to come home from work and help your wife with chores and kids, maybe actually take notes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:27 AM
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Not really. If she fucks you, feeds you, and leaves you, that's like the best deal. Worse if she stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:54 AM
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Then become a bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:49 AM
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I think no man will complain a woman ghosted him after sex. Unless she was his crush or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:49 AM
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Btw you made me remember. You asked if my boyfriend knew and was okay with it. One guy hit on me despite me being with my bf. Then he paid for a whole plate of biscuits some sweet cute stuff like that. I told my bf he said take it I want some biscuits. I laughed and accepted it then we took it home that was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:48 AM
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you're accepting attention, drinks and dinners from guys who want to bang? You really can't read. I reject guys 1-20 times, if they still persist, I open the menu and say buy me 'pick the most expensive option'. This is to make them either fuck off, or pay to make up for inconvenience they caused me. My boyfriend knew it and agreed 😂 why you feel bad for guys who can't take no for an answer lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:36 AM
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Lol no. He wanted me to ditch my parents and he hated them because they didn't like him. He wanted me to set boundaries and tell them to fuck off. Ummm then take the responsibility for me! You can't make me separate from my parents while also benefitting from them because they pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:25 AM
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Yeah it's mostly an internet thing But I'm Russian and I hear it in irl sometimes. I am a gamer and said that I'm upset a guy who used to gift me games is gone, and joked that now I will have to buy my own games (btw I buy my own games in 99% of cases, only some of my games are gifts). My irl friend got offended and called me a golddigger and he meant it. This guy was a mess too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:48 PM
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Its not that. It's control. My parents helped me dump my boyfriend and helped me see he's abusive and a bad person, it took a year but I got it, and it was my parents who instantly took me back so I could move on and didn't end up on the streets. My boyfriend was mad and hated them. Because they simply wanted the best for their daughter. And he would prefer I was a poor orphan, so I could not leave him so easily and had a choice between tolerate and suffer with him, or out in the streets. Abused…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:35 PM
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Gotta be a reason though!” Please don't make me say what will make me banned from here lmao. or being alone, which would she choose? Sex is not all that and other needs need to be met, like emotional, financial. I think it's not hard just listen to what she says and her complaints. Most guys see it as 'woman nagging again il wait when she calms down', but she expresses her displeasure. Take notes. Goes both ways. Ignoring someone because you think they are just being emotional is a sure way to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:32 PM
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I think the very best approach would be to never talk about your sexual history as a man unless you are asked. And if she asks reply 'not too much'. This way you are being ambiguous, you don't sound like you are bragging and lying (which is a turn off), and you don't sound like a fuckboi or inexperienced dude either. I would think yeah he had some action he is just humble and that's like a good thing in my eyes. Of course act like you had girlfriends and ONS don't give away inexperiencedness. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:24 PM
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Ehh yes. I forgot that men want to fuck all women of all ages. Men told me that even 80 year old grandpa's still want to fuck girls my age you can't make this shit up 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:16 PM
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can cook better than most women my age that I know. Ur better than 90% of men lol. I can offer sex Idk most women never come from sex and only pretend to enjoy it. 'Women fake orgasm for a relationship, men fake relationship for an orgasm'. I can offer starting a family together. You have a point. you’re just looking for an excuse to put men down Maybe. But even if I sound extreme there is some truth to my words. Many women are hesitant to enter relationships and meet up with men. Gotta be for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:14 PM
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Average men who want to sleep with us*. If you are an average guy and we meet online to videogame, laugh, or you are a guy I go to college with, or an old man telling me veteran stories. I respect and love these people. The moment it turns sexual, which on dating app it always is, by default, we feel disgusted. Oftentimes even if it's a hot guy behaving like a creep we feel disgusted. Women are also much more likely than men to regret sex they had or a guy they had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:12 PM
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No it's more like I believe you have a right to go for those women. I might be upset at the notion some men would rather a woman be an orphan rather than good parents, but ultimately, that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:07 PM
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see the prospect of a relationship with a gay men as disgusting Finally you get it. It's disgust. That's why we hate dic picks. They are disgusting. Strange men wanting to fuck creeps us out and is disgusting. So please understand that we don't want these trash options. The same way you would not want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:05 PM
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Women offer sex, kids (that will have your last name), clean house, homemade food, +1 body count so you can feel better about yourself and have an ego boost. Men offer ummm, money? Courtship? Dates? Attention? I won't mention the other things both gender offer such as love , care, support. Since both genders can give it and you can get it elsewhere. Some people also don't need fluffy romance stuff and are straight to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:03 PM
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Did you read at least first half of my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:01 PM
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Fair enough. But it's not wrong for people to pick between different partners or pick between a partner or solitude. I would not judge you if you chose to be single instead of getting with a single mom with 3 kids who is in love with you. It's reasonable for you to think that you don't need this headache and she won't add anything to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:00 PM
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That's because men hardly have anything to offer to women, and money is a big one. Without it, it's hard to see value in settling down with someone. The option is either leave those women alone and go for poorer women, or offer other stuff that's not money that women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:52 PM
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Do men often hit in you but then leave as soon as they find out you are 28?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:50 PM
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Plus I'm a golddigger because I asked for a drink that's funny. I might as well now start going for Cartier and sport cars cus I'm called the same anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:50 PM
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I won't cus I am not having sex easily. I'm hard to get :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:49 PM
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Yeah guys like that exist too. Most definitely. But they also don't like independent women and think women going into workforce was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:49 PM
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Why? What do I gain from making an argument? Why would I want you to go for certain women. That's none of my concern. I simply found the notion funny that some men love women who can be controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:47 PM
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😭😭 my baby boy, why did you miss the point. No wonder women give up explaining shit to men. I just said 'they want them for sex' and you replied with 'nah they fetishize them aka want them for sex'. Which is... What I said is trash about the matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:45 PM
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Not being a Russian guy is a big advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:44 PM
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I didn't say this. I said a good portion of men will be like I described.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:44 PM
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Man forgot we live in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:43 PM
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Nah, Russian chicks use tinder with passport to escape Russia and find their dream American/European husband. Being better than a Russian man is so easy I'm sure even half the men on this sub fulfill most requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:43 PM
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Even those long term partners settle for them for sex. It's much harder to find a guy who genuinely likes YOU, and would not choose any other person, because you are the one. That's what women want. That guy. Not those trash matches full of desperate guys who'd fuck a hole in the tree. The problem is guys know it. So they try very hard to fake being into a girl genuinely when in reality he just does not want to be alone and go back to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:40 PM
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It's not about the looks at all. Men say we have 'options' - those options are some weirdos who want to fuck us, cum on/in us. That's disgusting we don't want it. So I'm simply making you understand why we don't want those matches. Who wants to be fucked, cummed into, by some random lowlife? Neither men, nor women. Has nothing to do with sexuality straightness at all. You as a man are not attracted to them, but women are also not attracted to most men even if they are straight. And fucking someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:37 PM
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leaves you the minute you have one tiny bit of financial insecurity. That's the issue that comes with dating poor women. They rely on your money and once it's gone they don't feel secure and don't want back in poverty. Can't blame them. It can be avoided by dating independent women, but those are more likely to leave you for cheating, abuse, red flags, lack of effort etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:34 PM
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Not my problem tbh. Fuck Adam.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:32 PM
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Men say all the time that they punish gold diggers and women only wanting money by pumping and dumping then. Does it sound reasonable? So just as it is reasonable in reverse. If a guy only wants to bang me, it makes sense to use him for money and dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:31 PM
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But guys say they hate high earning women cus they are less accessible and are more likely to leave you at the first sign of red flag or abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:30 PM
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I asked my boyfriend to pay for my college (it was $1200 for the third semester), since he complained I still lived with my parents who paid for everything for me, and wanted me to move in with him and to ditch my parents and tell them not to meddle into our relationship. No jokes , that was his demand. I said 'how convenient , they pay for everything and you want me to ditch them. Go ahead, pay for my college from now on, $1200 this semester, and twice as much for the next year, from now on buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:28 PM
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No then will have to pay for the date, and later for all the bills. He does not want a golddigger remember
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:22 PM
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The formula “what do you add to my life” is objectifying, no matter which sex or gender is doing it. It’s treating humans as means to an end. Lmao. Said men who say 'what do you bring to the table' all the time :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:19 PM
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Men call anyone a gold digger. I have been called a gold digger because I demand a drink/a steak when a guy persistently hits on me and can't hear the word no. If I'm being harassed and troubled at least pay for it bitch. The guy who saw me saying this got butthurt and called me a golddigger 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:16 PM
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Not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:14 PM
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So basically a huge portion of men want a girl who pays for herself, buys her own stuff, pays for her own bills, never asks for money, BUT looks like she is being paid for and never works, but also she has to earn little and god forbid she is independent. Basically they either want a girl whose parents pay for everything, or a girl with low standards who is fine to be content with little and is too insecure to demand being paid for. A free hot bangmaid in other words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:13 PM
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Judging by how women reject those men, clearly not lmao, or half this sub would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:44 AM
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LOL. How did you get that from my text? I said if you want trash matches women get, go get them! Get those men who only want to fuck you, cum all over you, and dump you. Do you want these men? No, then why the f would we want this 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:42 AM
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You are good enough then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:39 AM
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Go to Grindr and say you are ready to be a bottom, to be used by hairy greasy men. Are you sure you want the trash matches women get?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:38 AM
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Split the bill has never been asked from women from the past, at least not as often as now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:38 AM
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That's because of sex though. Not because they genuinely like this girl, she is their type, they genuinely want her and her only, and would NOT go for a hotter girl had there been a chance. Like lol. Who needs these trash matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:35 AM
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This is sad coming from a woman. So just because he's scared to fumble be will still pursue me if I show some interest even if he's not that attracted to me, does not like me that much, does not care about my interests or my family, and does not agree with my future goals. What's worse is many men actually marry for sex like that. Then years later they complain they are with a wrong woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:33 AM
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I do get lonely (been single for 2 years, no sex), but the alternative is go out there and meet with men who only want sex, or aggressive, or still married. Finding someone to truly just to kiss, hug, be emotionally intimate with without him expecting sex is tough. Also scary to invite them over to cuddle and watch stuff. So in a sense risk reward ratio and we are like oh yeah, I'd rather just watch movies alone and we are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:28 AM
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Go to Russia and find a wife there, women have dirt poor standards and if you are even remotely attractive (which is just don't look like a fat goblin), at least average wage, and you are not even abusive on top of it, and don't piss your pants, and been to jail at least not for paedophilia, you are basically a king.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:22 AM
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Ummm? No. There are non religious attractive family oriented guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:48 PM
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Yeah the only way to do it. Only yesterday I had to deal with a really crazy guy. I didn't argue with him, tried not to. I said 'yeah ur right' and blocked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:46 PM
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Why would I tell grown ass women anything? Most of these women are pick mes and whores and much older than me. My sister, me, and my friend group are reasonable women and I talk to reasonable women. By the way, women going for 5'7 porn addicted losers does not mean they are going for good guys. Let's stop equating unsuccessful men with good guys. Like another user on here suggested lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:08 PM
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I mean we do already. We test men for red flags but they get offended when we do. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:05 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:05 PM
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Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:05 PM
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I think some desperate men do spike drinks yeah. Being desperate does not equal being highly moral good person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:03 PM
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I made a post in the past with screenshots of men who wanted to fuck their own 12 year old daughters and admitted it. I then asked if all men were like this. Most men were like 'women are like that too', 'women are no less depraved. And only like 1 guy was like 'thats crazy, I never felt this way about my daughter, men like this are dangerous'. Says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:02 PM
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But it's in US that women now cover their drinks even on dates let alone clubs. So maybe you are wrong and men like that are quite abundant?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:00 PM
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those who are aggressive will likely violate boundaries anyway even if you said no. Yes!! I talked about this in my post. Good guys will back out after 1-2 rejections, but bad guys will persist no matter what. They will hate you and themselves for your rejecting but they will keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:59 PM
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Why should I want some dangerous exciting guy, or some 5'7 porn watching videogaming loser? No third option? Safe, attractive, family oriented calm guy does not exist in your worldview lmao. You try so hard to make 5'7 porn addicts sound appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:57 PM
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And you are naive if you think less than 1% of men pose threat. Then who are these married women being abused all the time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:56 PM
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Then become a rapist too, stop complaining boo ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:54 PM
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I like how men's response to 'some men are depraved' is not 'its small percentage of men and we hate pedophiles', but 'women too'. You guys don't even deny being depraved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:53 PM
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So the low IQ aggressive monkey who attacked and raped a woman is not dangerous because he is not smart enough to mirror his victim's ideal type to be her perfect partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:51 PM
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It does. It is necessary warn women. We need to be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:50 PM
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I think you don't notice them when u go to clubs. But it's heavily area dependent. When I was in russia I met those men are least 3-4 times when I went to clubs (and I did like 6-8 times). But here in Asia men are more chill and know the word no. But I still don't relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:49 PM
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Never saw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:48 PM
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That would not stop rapists from approaching women. I prefer to approach men but bad ones still pursue me all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:48 PM
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During wars it's like 100% men raping women and babies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:47 PM
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That's because dangerous men are like every second guy. I was talking in my post specifically about rapists and maniacs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:46 PM
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Cubicle Carl who makes $45k/year, weights 135lbs at 5'7, has a job in low management, and whose hobbies are playing video games and jacking off to IG girls because he is too afraid someone would know he watches porn A man like that sounds like a miserable lazy and he's a bad guy 100%. Ew watches porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:45 PM
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Just to clarify I was talking about rapists. Sorry I didn't make it clear. The percentage of bad men is much higher than 1-5% or else we would not have abused wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:43 PM
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Women's choice to be raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:43 PM
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Yes yes exactly my point. Good guys maybe meet 2-3 girls and they talk to them. Bad guys and rapists approach women constantly and are pretty active.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:43 PM
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Yeah rapists and bad men are pretty aggressive and insistent (while good guys back away after 1-2 'no'), so women are more likely to end up agreeing to go out to a rapist/bad guy due to him being more active and ignoring our no's. That ends with him getting pussy, even if thru rape. But that works right so they are doing it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:41 PM
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But they are 10x - 20x more likely to approach woman Yes that's what I'm saying! When I went to clubs I also met groups of men who stayed sober the entire evening, and waited until women get drunk, after that they approach and offer a ride or just take them in arms and drag them to cars and gang rape them. Like I met them in person lol and they tried it on us ended badly for them. One group of them had 3 uglies and 1 very cute guy who approached me, since girls would be more likely to trust a cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:39 PM
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I see those dangerous men desperate in women's dms and spiking women's drinks. Are they treated like kings?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:35 PM
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And men lust after 11 year old girls. Should I now say all men lust after 11 year old girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:34 PM
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I said if the percentage of abusive men is 1-5% then it feels like 10-20% due to higher concentration of bad men among single men and due to them being highly active and persistent. If the percentage of abusive men is higher than 1-5% then adjust accordingly I guess. The numbers are just to get the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:34 PM
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So a normal person with good wage, good parents and good self esteem, versus a broke orphaned girl :D Men: we pick the second!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:31 PM
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Men are animals too tho, worse than bears
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:24 PM
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Not surprised. Side question, do you agree with women choosing bears over men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:19 PM
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So you'd choose to go insane rather than stay loyal to your husband, cook and clean, suck his dick and submit no matter what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:18 PM
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This is why men should not pride himself that they would give a chance to some broke cashiers when women would never date a broke guy. Many of you guys prefer orphaned/evicted by parents, poor and riddles with insecurities woman, rather than a woman with good parents, support system, educated, above average wage, confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:14 PM
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Lol, would you choose to be a woman in the middle east or west? Do you wanna submit to some lowlife who thinks beating you is his right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:09 PM
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We know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:28 AM
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Does not make sense for some men to fuck corpses and animals it does not stop them. And no it's fine if the girl looks like 20+ but is actually 16, I also think some 16-17 year old guys are attractive there is nothing wrong with that. The main difference is I think 'this guys hot' and scroll. And men actually approach and write long theories about biology and comment 'younger the soul tighter the hole'. Like at this point there is nothing a man can do or say that will make me genuinely horrified…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:23 AM
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Quite a few of men told me it's natural for men to find 12-15 year old girls attractive. At this point I don't even judge men it's just clown material for me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:11 AM
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Most men would sleep with a 5/10 fifteen year old girl, than a 7/10 twenty five year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:01 AM
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Why? Wanna know where women who think cheap male attention is worthless reside?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:44 AM
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Why let somebody you don't want anything to do with buy you something? Cus he is not leaving me alone lol might as well take advantage of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:43 AM
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I don't understand one thing. How on earth men and women come out of the same families? The men were boys too right, with sisters. Why the f sisters grew up normal and boys turned into, well, men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:51 AM
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No I'm 21 almost 22, and I have Instagram TikTok and used dating apps briefly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:48 AM
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If any man who feels ☝🏻 this way is reading this, male attention and access to 'sex' is literally not a good thing. We get access to 'sex' even when we don't want to, when we clutch keys, when we yell to stop, when we say no. Just imagine that you can also get access to sex with men the way women can. Become bottom gay and spread your cheeks for hairy, smelly, abusive men with sick fantasies, who will talk bad shit about you after they are done. Let someone use you and cum all over you (im sorry…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:45 AM
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Girls who date older guys like that lose their virignities earlier too (look up teen pregnancy and the age of the father). I lost mine at 20, and that's because I only dated younger guys throughout middle high school and college. Had I dated an adult guy as a teenager I would absolutely be deflowered much earlier. Damn men don't see how they themselves make women lose virignities early and blame it on us once again 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:42 AM
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I know I won't change your opinion and I'm only one woman, but no amount of beta male simps and creeps attention ever did anything to my self worth. At most it made me disgusted and terrified creatures like this walk the earth. As to non abusive simps, I simply don't even remember them. It does not matter to me. Those guys would fuck a hole in the tree they give same attention to every woman, I'm not special , why would it make me feel better about myself? But some nice gentleman's attention, ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:35 AM
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Higher body count is bad for women, that's another cost to having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:24 AM
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I only demand drinks or steak to be bought when I'm approached and pestered by a guy I clearly don't want. I reject him he still goes on. I reject him again he still sits at my table and chats me up. Then I'm like okaaaay mister, open the menu, choose what I want and tell him to buy me this. It's either to make him leave and call me a shallow golddigger, or make him actually get me a steak/drink. Either way I win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:20 AM
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Those men also don't think that far. Their fantasies of getting with a woman only involve the sexy part and early relationship. They also want women to want to marry and settle down but that is not the same for men. They don't want men to want to marry. It should ideally be - woman wants to marry, men is reluctant, but agrees, but she 'baby trapped' him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:08 AM
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Inb4 red pillers come with the wife goggles nonsense :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:05 AM
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This is also why men who say that only when women turn around 30 suddenly they are rejected cus of their age, and before they are queens who can dispose of any guy they want. Sorry to disappoint you but it starts for women at around ~17 year old if not earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:01 AM
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Well I don't see anything wrong with 21 and 17 tho I get what you are saying. It's the 27+ year olds who think I'm 14-17 who make me mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:55 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:37 PM
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I noticed age for men is more important than looks. I'm 22 and I look 15-17, until recently looked 13-14. And countless times men of all ages, my age and up to 44, hit on me thinking I'm 13-17. Upon finding out that I'm actually 19-22, immediately lost interest and left me alone. I heard similar thing happens to older women. A dude thinks she is 21-23, she turns out to be 29-35. He immediately turns around and leaves, even if he himself is like 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:35 PM
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I had a coworker who has like 40 🥲 he told me proudly he works unofficially to avoid having to pay child support. I said well I don't care good for you. He kept talking even tho nobody asked. That his ex wife is a b1tch, and he would pay child support if he still could hit it raw few times a week. Dude I swear I felt my stomach turn. So his son does not get what he needs because his mom won't fuck the husband she divorced 😭 wtf is this what he will tell him when son asks why he was absent. Istg …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:30 PM
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100% right thinking. A right partner is crucial, like the most important part imo. Money can be made, issues resolved, but a wrong partner, you are cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:04 PM
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This thing happens, but a more often scenario is man and woman wanted kids, got married, then they divorced (for whatever reason), and the man does not want to pay child support at all. For him with the ex wife children also became ex children. What do you think about these cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:36 PM
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If childbirth became possible for cis men would you go through childbirth? Or would you prefer to pay your girlfriend to carry the kid and leave it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:34 PM
1

No. But don't blindly trust men in question did not commit crimes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:34 PM
1

Btw I just checked your profile quickly and you are pretty asf so idk what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:10 PM
1

That's sweet. That's not the case I have been thinking of the. Some tall strong abusive men pick very short meek and stupid women to control, but then the son might turn out meek short and stupid :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:07 PM
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Did he perhaps like submissive stupid short women? And picked your mom? Is it your mom? Anyway I'm leaning childfree so ig I won't have to worry about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:57 PM
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Only one. But I see similar shit with every woman in my life. They work AND do chores, on top of it have to stay attractive, or else 'she let herself go'. The husband just goes to work and that's it lmao. Oftentimes they pay the bills (my sister herself pays for the rent) but they still have to cook and stay attractive 🥲. Not to mention kids and breastfeeding. You sound like you are not one of those men. Good for you and for people in your life. You are already better than an average man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:45 PM
1

It's not about a gamer. It's the average man really. In the beginning it's all roses sunshine, promises of love. Move in with them after few months, you cook, you clean for some reason, he uses you for sex instead of quickly wanking, flowers and dates stop. If I have any needs or wants I have to go earn my own money he won't give me them. So basically it's just added responsibilities for me. That's without kids, with kids it's gonna be much worse. If she’s cooking, cleaning, having regular sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:24 PM
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Fair enough. But that's because even low value women still bring tons of value. Low value men only bring problems and troubles and any sane woman is better off alone. Like really, a LV woman can still give you sex (which is perhaps #1 thing men want from a woman/from life), birth you kids, cook you food, make your house at least somewhat cozy, +1 body count so you feel better about yourself. LV man gives what exactly?... He demands sex, demands cooked food, demands children, and gives back what …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:05 PM
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Jesus do it privately in silence. The idea of the secret stash it's secret you won't find out about it. Do the same and stop the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:56 PM
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The demanding part is to create drama and make the wife split the bill/pay for the paternity test. Paying for it on your own is too expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:55 PM
1

Really? Even if she is 40 year old and fat? Would this gamer girl be desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:49 PM
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I hope if you ever have kids you have one who will love you the same way I love my dad and you love your mom 🙂. I'm sure he also appreciates having such a loving daughter, men tend to become kinda lonely as they grow older. Yup he does!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:02 PM
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So many people outright should not be having kids. I'm so grateful to have my dad in my life. Like dude I won't be ever tired of repeating how awesome he is. He really sincerely loves me. I know it's probably cringe as I'm 22, but I still act like a little baby next to him, speak in baby voice and cuddle him. He got my back. He also absolutely in no way controlling or abusive as I know I can date anyone I want and my dad won't do the cringe shit you described, he might give his opinion that he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:44 PM
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Do dads in america do that even after the daughter is married? Cus over here in eastern europe dads are pretty chill with sons in law, but it's a constant battle with moms and wives. Moms hate on the sons wife and will do everything in their power to make them divorce, why? Just because. She's jealous of her son. There are (rare but known) cases where moms took it even further and had sex with their sons to teach them or some stuff. But generally it's just hell that a wife has to go through. Con…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:24 PM
1

I like my men how I like whiskey, 15 years old and in my basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:47 PM
1

The AI is made of you and gay men jerk off to it. Would that not be traumatizing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:38 PM
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If. In reality no moms will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:36 PM
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No. That's my kid and I won't throw him or her out over some internet brownie points. It's crazy to do that, you are a PARENT, not a partner who can leave when there is something they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:35 PM
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No I actually prefer men few years younger than me. If he's older then by 1-2 years. Plenty of women are the same as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:31 PM
1

So does it mean if I'm dating a guy my age I'm in reality dating a younger guy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:08 PM
0

Boys end puberty by 16-17 too right? They just start it at 12 as opposed to at 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:51 PM
2

But is this a provider, and caring, and attractive type? Or just some gamer lazy dude who will sit on his chair all day while his girlfriend does chores and everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:41 PM
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I think his female equivalent would get bottom of the barrel men. Insecure men who want virgins and low count women with no social skills. That's honestly a fate even worse than dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:36 PM
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I am female and I also consider sewerslide because I feel I won't find anyone. I'm 22 and while attractive, I'm mentally unstable. Men like me initially but very soon are like 'ohh okay' and lose interest, anywhere from few weeks to few months. And it's been this way since I was 17. I can attract men I want but it never goes anywhere. Before you assume I don't sleep with these men. I only slept with 2 dudes both of which traumatized me. It seems to be only really desperate men like the ones you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:28 PM
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Why would I want my grandchildren scattered around the globe? I am sure Adam won't be alone forever. He'll find someone eventually and lead a quiet happy family life. Most parents want children who don't bring trouble or stress as adults. Would you want a daughter who dates different men and uses them for money, sucks different dicks, of a daughter who is plain, and sits at home studying and gaming instead of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:16 PM
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Idk my brother is 12 and girls at his school look quite grown up while he looks like a kid. The girls are tall and would easily pass for 14-15.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:28 PM
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I'm once again lucky with my dad. I can tell him men suck and he actually agrees with me. He told me that at his job, young and old guys discuss women in very disgusting ways.. he didn't even tell me what they said but he said it's terrible. And he worries about me each time I go at night to buy some cola. He knows how men are. Even my brother would understand if I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:15 PM
1

Would you be okay with seeing yourself get fucked by a gay man, or pegged?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:13 PM
2

Jesus Christ I'm so lucky with my dad. God. Knowing how men can be rapists, abusers and pump and dumpers and cheaters.. well I guess it's pointless to explain it to you. So many men online hate women. Would it make sense for their mothers to throw them out and stop paying for their college? Cus it would mean that 80% of college boys are now thrown out without a dime to pay. Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:06 PM
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Idk tough choice. I have an abusive crazy loser brother and I'd not want my son to be even remotely similar to him. But I'm childfree so I guess I don't have to worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:02 PM
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Damn you too. Shit father. So you won't even wonder why she says it. You are her PARENT. Why not feel bad for your little baby, maybe she met some violent bad men? You as a man know how men are right? Men's intentions how men can lie and cheat and pump and dump. How men can be predatory. What he did was peak male behavior. His daughter was right when she said she hated men. I'm sure she meant her dad because he seems to be one with the bros. You know what's even worse? Every man was applauding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:59 PM
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It says Adam is not bitter or depressed. He seems to be happy alone. He also makes money and will financially support his parents (me), while Caleb would just waste the money on drugs women and alcohol, and end up some old fat bastard with no looks or money, and grown up children who want nothing to do with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:42 PM
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Okay it says he's never bitter or depressed. I'd choose Adam then. He will make money and help me (since he helps the ones in need), while Caleb would just spend money on alcohol and women, fuck such son. Adam all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:40 PM
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Plus in order to produce Adam I have to fuck Adam. No way I hell I'm fucking some lonely loser. Caleb I would probably not fuck too (depends on how hot he is and how much of an asshole he is), but my son would likely be more on Caleb spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:34 PM
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That's how we get mothers we already see in tons. Their sons are never wrong. They will protect their sons even in courts where he raped and killed someone. They will treat their daughter in law like trash because she does not deserve her son!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:31 PM
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Both genders have lack of empathy towards each other. I remember I posted about denying sex to my boyfriend because he traumatized me and was abusive to me, and I didn't want him anymore and very soon after I dumped him. All men in the comments 'good for him' 'he dodged a bullet' 'holy shit no sex poor guy he dudged a bullet' So me not wanting sex due to being mistreated they didn't care about. They cared about some guy's dick more. It showed me men really never have sympathy for womens entire l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:29 PM
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I have seen some posts of men literally throwing their daughters out and stop paying for their colleges simply because the daughter posted 'all men are trash'. I still think about it. How bad of a father you have to be to get offended on behalf of men and do your daughter like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:27 PM
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I'd choose Caleb too. I don't want a depressed son who still lives with me and hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:25 PM
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Wait you have a point there. My dad says he's happy with her but I know he's still hurt from abuse. If you wanna know what type of crazy shit I'm talking about back when they just married, my mom was 20 my dad was 22, she made him wash the floors, and right after that walked in dirty shoes (it was autumn or spring) and made him wash it again. It's to assert 'dominance'. My mom basically treats family as not a safe haven where people support each other and relax, but as if she is a chief in a mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:02 PM
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But I wonder if it's the truth that we need to pick pliable gullible submissive husbands/wives, instead of just choosing someone you like? My sister is the same as my mom and she holds down relationships easily. I'm not and I'm all for fairness in relationships I don't want to abuse anyone. As a result I end up being abused I'm too kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:11 PM
2

People love discussing other people's lives. Like the young people are becoming their parents they swore they'd never be. Judging everyone like a pair of old uncles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:44 PM
1

I'd rather date a rich man who will dump me in a few years than settle for a 'good guy' with no money who will dump me anyway over some petty reason 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:36 PM
1

You really would demand 50/50 when your wife is pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:57 PM
1

I never had sex in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:48 PM
4

Maybe I have a mind of a teenager but I don't see much difference between 23 and 25. If 25 is old so is 23?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:48 PM
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Your mistake is saying 'we' can afford it instead of 'i' can afford it. That's the prime reason women don't want kids now. So I'm working and earning and paying the bills the same as you do, but only I get to be pregnant and deal with 100000 issues, while for you kids just appear outta thin air? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:37 PM
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They absolutely do. His current gf is 22, and she looks like she could be my mom (I'm 22 too) xD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:33 PM
3

Men think buying a drink is a huge investment 😂 actually not even that, they think a compliment is a huge investment. And you are supposed to react to this beaten compliment like he just gave you a car. They literally say 'using for compliments' is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:11 PM
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Oh I love generous men who don't hit on me or ask my number. They are the best. They pay for us and then leave. Wish them the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:02 PM
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My brother in Christ if you really wanted more than 2 kids you should have married in your mid twenties and not at 40 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:58 PM
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Woman here and don't understand outrage over DiCaprio. Let's be honest women he dates look older than their age, they are young but look like 27-30. Now if he dated 23 year olds who looked 15, or only 18-20 year olds I'd understand the hate. I actually think he's cool as he dates women instead of engaging in meaningless sex with countless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:55 PM
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I'm 22 and tons of older men paid for me that never made them attractive to me. If anything, that makes them prime target to be used for their money. Now if some 24 year old im attracted to bought me everything I wanted, I'd husband him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:52 PM
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How so? I never really attached age to manipulability as I met some 16 year olds who would NOT let me do a single thing not to their liking and I have met some highly gullible 32 year olds. Likewise tons of younger guys were easier to 'shape', and older guys were boring and serious and hard to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:50 PM
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As a younger girl who went after older guys because I wanted smth new, that's true to men as well. 27-28+ older men fuck my brains and get offended for petty reasons all the time. I chose to hang out with my friends where were guys present? He gets offended and types a long message. Like dude we are not even dating we just met calm tf down. In a relationship with one he was super serious and boring. After that hell I exclusively date early-mid twenties guys my age and late teens. I am not sure i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:48 PM
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Manipulable people are generally easier to have families with than people with high standards. My mom was/is abusive and even back when she was only 19-20 when she met my dad she already was looking for a highly manipulable gullible husband. Normal people look for what in a spouse? Physical attractiveness, degree and financial stability, empathy and likability, common/shared interests, family values. What my mom was looking for in a man? No mother or sisters so he had no support. My dad is indee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:43 PM
0

What does more of men getting mad at rapists look like to you? At least that would make us believe in men. Even if it won't achieve any greater goal. Because right now if I see an adequate man's comment 'rape is bad' I immediately get surprised and think 'wow, men like this exist, protect him at all cost'. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:38 PM
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1-5% is too low unfortunately 😢 Guys, we don't think all of you are rapists. But majority of you stay dead silent or support the rapists ones. You will swear it's fake allegations. If we at least got to see more of you get mad at rapists and defend the victims it would mean a lot ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:14 PM
1

I'm straight but I love how women look too. It's not just biology speaking in you, women are just pretty and attractive for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:11 PM
2

How old is your son? Do the courts factor in the child's desire to stay with the dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:09 PM
2

Damn. If you wonder if there are any women who support your cause, I'm among them. This support of mine is partly selfish as I think it's unfair women get left with kids and men get to start a new life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:06 PM
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My kid also doesn’t need clothes ironed. This isn’t the 50’s. Wait am I doing this wrong my whole life? I'm sorry for you friend. Do you at least get to have shared custody and see your son often enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:05 PM
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Men need to start fighting for their rights for equal custody
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:02 PM
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Hmm, what about real life examples? My dad is also much better person than my mom who is abusive, and I would choose to stay with dad than mom if they ever divorced. But my dad would not iron our clothes, wash the floors, cook everyday, regularly shop for clothes, get up at 6 am to go to hospital each time we fell sick. He's great but he lacks the iron fist that moms have to discipline the kids. We would be mostly on our own if we stayed with the dad. But we'd have fun for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:00 PM
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Single moms are blamed for singlehandedly rising crime statistics because who could have guessed, they can't both provide and be a breadwinner AND take proper care of the kids. Most single moms need a stay at home wife too. Single moms are hated worse than rapists and pedophiles. I have never seen a man get furious over a news about some rapist (only if he was furious to defend the rapist and say it's false allegations). But I have seen men get emotional shit talking single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:57 PM
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It was a joke. In other comments I said I'm mostly asexual and don't like sex. If the dick is good I might just be with him for sex until I get bored. And I will very soon cus I'm mostly asexual. But I would not date or stay with a man like that. I never had a good dick in my life so I can't even know if I stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:54 PM
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This sucks. Because mothers on average take better care of the kids. Even if she's abusive, crazy and narcissistic, the children will be well fed, well dressed, always clean, the girls will have hairstyles/pigtails done every morning before school, homework done, children safe, healthy. With the dad... He might try his best, but the children will wear the same outfits and clothes for years, generally look badly taken care of. Bad case scenario the father will sexually assault his kids or post it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:52 PM
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Even if you are a good father, you still Don't give birth, no health risks, no risk of death, no lasting consequences, no tears, no pain, no wasted year of your life, you can still drink, smoke and do sports the entire year your wife is pregnant and recovering post partum. A pregnant woman has to say no to all the fun she had before. Let's not forget pain during childbirth Don't breastfeed. Dude that's terrible. Luckily I never had kids, but I lived with women who did, it's painful asf. Stopping…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:46 PM
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Vast majority of men don't want custody though. Ask any formerly married single mom, if she ever suggested her husband to give him the kids. I guarantee you the look the husband had was not happiness :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:42 PM
1

So men are attention wh0res?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:45 PM
2

Because we love you sincerely and you in turn just use us for sex, lie about love and string us along. You 'love' us but watch pron. Always stare at beautiful women and half naked girls while we are together. Men's love is very much conditional. So women learn to not make the mistake of loving a man again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:44 PM
2

of theoretical cock block demon that follows us around, or something. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:47 PM
2

I mean you can be so fertile to make her a baby each time you have sex so she is pregnant for a year makes sense why you'd not have sex at all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:46 PM
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Go to a place like a karaoke club which has a lot of women. Don't just approach because that's what every guy does. You can for example ask the waiter to tell a table that girls at, that a gentleman paid for (some steak, non alcoholic drink), or pay for the next song and suggest to sing with her. Again you might not even like singing or clubs just an example. Spend money on your looks, good haircut, good clothes. If you are scared to look 'gae' like some men just know that it's stupid. If you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:58 PM
-12

Any chance to find a less attractive autistic woman? I see plenty of late twenties early thirties women who never had kids, due to being shy and not hot. I mean assuming you have not tried, which you probably have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:50 PM
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I think they need to use a different name, as mgtow has certain associations that might make some men now want to be a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:38 PM
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Why do you think that is? Are you unattractive (that could be fixed with enough effort), shy or abusive? Or boring? Broke? Or maybe you just can't find the one you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:36 PM
2

Yeah this might be a better way to phrase the post :D didn't think of it. Amazing sex anytime you want, or meh sex that happens less often but ideal everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:19 PM
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A man can think absolutely the same. He loves his wife and does not want to leave her, but he knows if she leaves, he'll have more money and free time, and he'll be fine. Like it's absolutely possible to love someone and not want them gone but realize your life would be even better if they left.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:09 PM
2

Madonna whiore complex. They marry good women they don't even like that much, only to make her sit at home with his kid while he at the club chatting up other women. Way too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:55 PM
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Or if men get dumped after losing their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:59 AM
13

That man told her she would not qualify why? He's upset she would not suffer after being dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:58 AM
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No, the second one is obsessed with you and thinks you are the best man in the world. She is in love and loves you. She is just asexual or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:32 AM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:19 AM
1

Tough choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:19 AM
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You make total sense. Let's assume the person B does everything for you other than sex. How do you know that they "feel" like they want to cry? You can sense feelings? I think I can feel and see it too. I had a boyfriend (one you are talking about), who pretended and faked to have a huge love for me, but when it came to actions it was clear he didn't. I would get sad and cry, and he would say 'well you are sad/mad, no sex today it seems'. Like he was that cruel. But I was also loved madly, where…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:39 AM
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No I don't. I actually trust men who don't trust women more. If it makes sense. If a man is too confident with me and wants to enter a relationship with me asap that's a red flag. Why are you not scared of me? What if I'm a bad person? It makes me think he's the bad one. Plus even some women don't like other women. But of course within reason, if the dude hates women and wants our rights taken away, and hurts us, I don't care how much he suffered that's trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:33 AM
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If the carousel is indeed a carousel, and it's double digits, that's really trashy. But I see nothing wrong if there were few people you were indulging with in casual sex. Sometimes friends end up in sex. Not all sex you need to have should be super serious forever love type of deal. But within reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:29 AM
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No. Loyalty in both scenarios. It's a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:21 AM
2

True. My whole post is stupid and I'll take it down later but I enjoyed reading the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:21 AM
1

HAHAHAHAHHAHA. I love this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:20 AM
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That's a good plan actually. Date the fun girl for a couple of years, she does not love you so you'll break up without much drama. Then go for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:17 AM
2

But twice a year is crazy tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:12 AM
9

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:11 AM
3

It took me one really bad dick and boring relationship to realize I don't like sex and that I like romance after all :D As to casual sex, I think it's okay if you casually slept with 1-2 people. But if it's like double digits and really wild past, that's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:05 AM
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Imagine loving her so much, seeing her love and desire you, but you can't have sex. You know what, I'd choose good dick with a hot guy over some stupid feelings too. I thought about it xD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:03 AM
5

You were sold at likes your dick huh 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:01 AM
7

What about once a month versus every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:00 AM
3

Titanic is her abandoning everything and risking life for him. I think it depends on the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:59 PM
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I see it, yeah I know it. I knew it more or less before making this post. And I understand as I'd myself probably made the same choice (hot man who makes me cum every time)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:52 PM
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If the dick is good I will stay and ignore red flags. Men, up your sex game. It boggles my mind you try so hard to get sex, but once you are at it, you just boringly fuck us in 1-2 positions, boringly lick our pussies for a bit, cum and be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:50 PM
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When they are in love with me, my appearance is exactly their type, they love my voice and personality, want to spend time with me. When I cry they feel they want to cry too. They are always ready to do stuff that makes me smile or laugh. They are ready for some sacrifices (within reason). They defend me in front of their family or friends in case they don't like me. They want kids with my face (I'm childfree but I think it's cute to want kids who look like us).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:47 PM
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Kinda weird that she doesn't desire me the rest of the year but I'll accept that it could be the way it works in the theoretical universe of this question Equivalent of male 'flowers only on feb 14 and birthday' :D If she's just offering her body solely as a concession to me then no thanks. I'd rather just masturbate like all the rest of the year. Can't say if it's former or latter tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:40 PM
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Hmm there are actually those who lie about love and attraction but stick/use for money. I mean know them in person. But at least a man in this predicament is getting his investment back by having a beautiful gf, regular sex and ego boost. Women who were lied to about love stay with poor men and end up getting nothing out of it at all, aside from added dishes to wash.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:38 PM
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I envy you. I'm emotional rather than rational when it comes to choosing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:35 PM
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She settled for you so as not to feel alone, and she likes your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:34 PM
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Thanks and respect for being consistent 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:32 PM
2

Would you consider it cheating if a woman chose you for love, not money, and lives in poverty with you. But she needs to feel like a woman, so she goes on dates to receive flowers, expensive gifts and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:30 PM
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They are still men and would choose sex if forced to pick between the two. Men who want romantic love assume loving passionate sex is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:27 PM
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Btw, would an answer from a woman 'money/rich guy, most men aren't capable of real love anyway' cause judgement from you? I'm not upset at your answer, I'm just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:26 PM
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There was a time when I was so done with my ex, that I told him to go find someone. We were not in an open relationship, but I would smile and feel happy when he would tell me some chick checked him out or flirted with him. I just wanted him to stop asking for sex so often. I'm assuming those women feel exactly the same. They stay for the kids/shared finances, and feel happy he gets sex somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:24 PM
2

No open relationship, or infidelity. It's love and loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:22 PM
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Women dream of romantic love so the media (books, movies, serials, interactive mobile novels) are all geared at women. Women watch romance movies, men watch p0rn. Very often men tell women they love them, they never felt like that, etc, but it's all a tool and a trick, they just know what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:20 PM
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Weird, why would you assume a woman who loves you would tolerate cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:18 PM
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There is always this one mfcka finding the loophole :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:17 PM
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Proves my point that love is only for women. The whole romance, feelings is made for women. Men use love to get sex mostly. I remind this to myself when I choose between a broke guy who's in love with me, or a man who I can have better future with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:15 PM
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You can't cheat and pay for escorts. Still love?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:14 PM
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I mean she does not insult you, offend you, talk shit about you, or cheat on you, humiliate you. So no visible red flags at all. She is nice to you and pleasant to a degree (or tolerable). But she is not in love with you, does not think you are the best man she ever met, thinks deep down she settled for you (won't show it tho or leave you), she is bored listening to you rant or get emotional. She skips your voice msgs cus she could not care less. Let's say she is asexual, sex hurts, or she does …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:13 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:02 PM
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That was my standards at high school cus I was hot and fun (that's still my standards now cus I'm hot and fun). But on top of be hot and fun, I now also have a myriad of other standards. I was top 10% prettiest girls in entire school. We had plenty of plain Jane's, I'm sure they had completely different expectations. Guys like you should go for them. It's still easier to date in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:36 AM
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My power was when I ended the relationship that was not bringing me happiness. I'm proud of myself and I learned to build boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:59 PM
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Yes I was and I don't blame him for it. I am upset he didn't care more for me, but I don't blame him. If not for him, then another. That's me and my people pleasing personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:57 PM
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I never said I blamed anyone. I said women already consider men's higher sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:35 PM
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Maybe because you told her he is not safe out of jealousy not because he actually isn't? Maybe she knows better and saw you as a desperate friend. You also said you are willing to be raped by 5 men for love. And now you judge a woman willing to risk being raped for love. She is the same as you. Why do I have to risk injury to my psyche to try and save her ass You don't, leave her alone, you don't owe her anything. But being vindictive and wishing she suffers and comes crawling back to you is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:34 PM
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Has nothing to do with orientation. Just agree to be used by men in every hole of yours! You say its so amazing women have access to it well you do too. Bottom dudes have plenty of options to be used by some dude with sick abusive fantasies. So, how do you feel about your 'options'?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:27 PM
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Oh okay fuck you. You also seem to be from India, dude shut up, women have it way harder over there than you. Your problem can be resolved with a jerk off ours can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:26 PM
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Goddess does not exist, that's just nature. Its funny but I completely relate to you and I feel entirely the same. Why did nature make us so attractive and desirable to men, while simultaneously making us so weaker with low libido? What a cruel joke it is dude! And we are the ones birthing kids in pain while you only get to orgasm and chill for the rest 9 months. We leave men who said something triggering because it's dangerous to stay with them. We learned it the hard way. True good men are sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:19 PM
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Interesting. Very interesting question. Now try asking if and you'll get banned 😂. But I want to read the replies I love something so controversial. that level of desperation? I think yeah. They just probably suffer in silence. Idk. I can tell you about a case in my city where a woman (around 35, obese) sent $100k worth of money to a man in a pursuit of love. He ended up leaving her and now she is whole indebted to everyone around her. Such a miserable case. Women go for plastic surgery for love…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:15 PM
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Ps : it's a nice admission of the almost asexual nature of women that you compare what you feel for all men around you to what we as heterosexual men feel for most men around us in a sexual context - indifference to disgust. Women are not even heterosexual. You don't even like men Such is a nature of sex for a woman. We are being used in sex the way a bottom gay dude is being used. By a stronger taller man we can not fight off if we want to. If I said imagine women pegged you it would not work b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:11 PM
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Women are not guaranteed to find love of their lives. Most men don't love women, they just want sex. Here you go. They lie to us they love us, then pump and dump, or marry us so they had constant supply of sex. Then years down the line they admit they never really loved or liked us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:08 PM
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They say we are lucky because we can get sex so easily. But they don't understand we don't want that sex. There is an easy fix that could make them see it though. Dear men who see this comment, bear in mind you can also get sex easily! Agree to being essentially a woman, aka a gay submissive bottom dude. Think about the options you say we have!! Oh the pleasure of sucking a hairy dick, oh the enjoyment of being used in your ass. Men, why don't you want it? Please realize we don't want that for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:03 PM
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Really? You would agree to a higher risk of being assaulted by gay men twice your size who are several inches taller than you? Who are too strong for you to fight off? Who are all suddenly attracted to you and who have higher libido than you? Who were raised to believe straight men exist for their sick pleasure? Who regularly watch violent pron and want to do that to you? You'd want THAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:00 PM
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What kind of empathy you want dude? What kind of solution you even want? Take pills that reduce libido for starters. Or jerk off. Idk. I won't suggest forcing women into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:58 PM
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Most women already feel forced to have sex with their partners far more often than they want to. I need sex once twice a month I had to have sex every day for a year in my relationship. What a freaking hell it was. Looking back I was such a simp pick me for caring about his sex urges more than my needs and the peace of my mind. And plenty of women have the same mentality. Engage in painful, unpleasant types of sex for the man for whom it still won't be enough. We should not put your sexual needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:56 PM
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I don't like sex as a woman anyways. It's overrated and not even worth shaving the legs. I remember somewhere it's been said most women would choose a slice of 🍫 than sex even with their partners, let alone randoms. Also men think we have 'options'. Options being hairy sleezy men who want to use us to masturbate and to realize their sick fantasies that involve abusing us in some ways. Thanks we don't need these options lol. Better give me career options or an option to sleep for longer than I al…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:53 PM
2

Only after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:32 PM
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You basically refuted your entire comment, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:42 PM
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One random 😭 And yes men do secretly wish women get mauled by bear out of resentment, nothing new. But bear is actually cool, and knows how to leave people alone :) have you watched a reel of a bear who was told no by a woman, and he actually closed the door and left her alone. Would not work with a strange man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:41 PM
2

Are you saying it's pointless to try to encourage anything? You yourself said we need to encourage women to... Is it pointless too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:55 PM
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We need to encourage people to make mindful choice of whether to marry or not, and to vet for red flags and things they won't put up with down the road. Don't like women who smoke and that's a deal breaker? Don't marry her hoping she will change. Same goes for women. Many people marry out of loneliness, and men can even marry for the access to sex. But this advice is not a good advice in the eyes of conservative older people because then it'd lead to marriages being postponed until later age and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:17 PM
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It's just often men don't really care about rape victims. See any news about yet another victim (be it a child, or a woman), and only women in comments crying and lamenting. Men are surprisingly silent. They don't get angry at a rapist. I more often saw men defending rapists than men hating on them. But then comes a post of a woman who wants a rich man, or wants to stay childless, or a man vs bear debate. Suddenly all those silent men comment more than women. Get angry and upset about it. I only…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:22 PM
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That's the only thing that upset you, not the 5 and 16 year old girls being abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:02 PM
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I kinda feel bad for single moms. Would it be better if they just abandoned the children like the dad did? Or aborted them. Staying in unhappy marriages is not an option too. Single moms single handlely raise the new generation of society, and the fact our taxes go to them is not because the government is so generous, but because it needs new humans. Don't tell me, I live in Russia where so many men died in a war, and so many people moved out of Russia, and now they cry and demand women give the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:57 AM
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Ughhh every time I think oh nice, birth rates are falling, there come immigrants who prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:53 AM
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I mean if women initiate divorce it means... That men did something wrong? I know damn well that many women feel much happier as single moms, than married to a man. An average man like I said can't cook, can't clean, does not want to pay the bills too, and does not want to watch after a baby. Women have to be independent while married to a shitty men, so why not just remove a ballast who sucks her soul out. A small percentage of men really bring value to women, like my dad, men like him are hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:42 AM
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Even if I marry now that does not mean I'll get to stay 22 forever. One day I'll be 37, with 3 kids, with my husband knowing every inch of my body, bored, at a bar with friends, some 22 year old working there. You get the point. It's much smarter for a woman, if she is only liked for a small portion of her life, to better pursue a career, it won't leave me because I'm too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:35 AM
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I mean yeah. What's the point of giving a good underperforming guy a chance if only 5 years from now (I'm almost 22) I'm gonna be someone he settles for. I can date losers when I'm over thirty, and rich hot guys when young. This sounds like the only reasonable conclusion. Marriage? Phew, married men cheat so often on their old wives with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:25 AM
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Maybe in US. I'm from Slavic country. Also, aren't birth rates like severely plummetting with 40% of women protected to be childless by 2030. That's only 5 years. Or is US an exception with higher birth rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:22 AM
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Btw you gave me more motivation to use my looks until I have them and not waste time on 'love' with broke guys 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:18 AM
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Nah it's cus most men are underperforming. An average man brings nothing but trouble to women. Average woman is at least cute looking, works and sociable. Average dude - woman hating loser who complains about gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:16 AM
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This is indeed upsetting to hear that only in 6 years I'll become the undesirable 27 year old woman who only desperate simps settle for. And red pill men say only women settle for men and that women are loved unconditionally. All of this is a load of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:10 AM
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He was rich what do you mean desperate simp lol. And her now husband is 3 years younger than her. Every time a guy tells me 'a rich guy would want ___' I'm like... how do you know what rich guys want if you are not rich yourself? We only have 1 known rich celebrity dude who dates sub 25 women, that's diCaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:02 AM
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I guess. But men go for 28 year olds all the time. My 29 year old sister dating some of the rich guys (I'm talking owned like 60 cars and paid her rent gave her money) who also wanted to marry her (he was the same age as her). But I understand your sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:57 AM
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Guys say this, and then get upset when women say 'who wants to date a broke/short guy'. Let's accept that both genders are allowed to have preferences. Don't be upset women go for taller, richer or more attractive guy because men go for more attractive slimmer childless women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:53 AM
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Sure, I'm not. I guess I just can't understand this type of lifestyle and I'm worried for women (and men in case they ever get approached like that by malicious gay men).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:42 AM
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Don't deny that many guys are malicious who get girls drunk and rape them. They know damn well without alcohol those girls would be terrified of even being in the same room as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:37 AM
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In a neighboring country, a 15-16 year old girl was hold as a hostage by her classmates and their older siblings and sold to at least 1000 men. Now that's 1000 online money transfers being made, now think how many men paid in cash. So at least 1000 men graped an underage girl, and how many would/wanted to, but were scared of going to jail or who simply could not afford it. My mom also told me her friends 5 yr daughter got kidnapped and basically pimped out. A lot of men abused the little girl. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:33 AM
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Yeah unfortunately oftentimes whether a guy cheats or not is less about his morals and integrity and more about if he has options. To put it more simply, many guys don't cheat because they can't, not because they respect their woman, hold themselves to a higher standard or because they desire only her alone. I think I also can tell if some guys are loyal or not, you usually can see it if you watch them closely. And sometimes i ended up correct, a good looking friend of my ex who I thought would …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:27 AM
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Ehh. The issue here is those girls would NOT sleep with you had they been sober. I on purpose tell any guy I meet I don't drink. And the guys who chased me for months and kept telling me how they liked me suddenly disappeared after I'd say I don't drink alcohol and I don't get high. They realize it will be hard to sleep with me I I don't drink. That's pretty shitty knowing they just look for a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:19 AM
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It's also funny when they say 'men love a woman herself, and a woman loves what a man can provide'. Well it's because a woman herself already provides a man all he wants. Sex, children, ego boost, emotional support, home made meals, companionship (oh wait men say they don't even need companionship from a woman, just sex and servitude), clean house. A woman? Nah. Sex? It's more likely for a woman to regret sex she just had than to orgasm from it. Ego boost? From what? From now being called a used…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:17 AM
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It's sad that to get a girl to sleep with guys they often have to rely on having drugs and drinks at a party/date. Remove them, and completely sober 95% of that sex would not have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:06 AM
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100%. Woman with a high school brother here. I gave him advice to enjoy dating in his age and girls his age (he has a habit of pursuing girls older than him for some reason). Because girls at his age don't care if a guy has money, what he does for her, there are hardly any expectations except for 'be hot' and 'be fun' and some similar others. As soon as he becomes 21, dating will very suddenly change for him. He'll be put on 'financial' clock where by 27 if he didn't achieve anything he can't da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:02 AM
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Men love women 'unconditionally' on a condition she gives him sex. Wanna test this theory? Just tell your man you don't want to have sex anymore, and you believe you should be loved not for what you provide as a woman! See him gradually treat you worse and dumping you. And that's if he didn't simply force/guilt trip you into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:54 AM
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Hard not to think like that when 30-40 year old men constantly chat up me and young women my age. Somehow almost every man my late 20s sisters meet end up secretly married! And they only say they are married after they had sex with my sisters. Even I, dated a young guy my age, we dated for 2 months, I had sex, and only after that he revealed he's married. Ya know, it's like how men are scared they will end up divorce ripped. Not all women will use you for divorce money, but men don't wanna risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:45 AM
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Better think about why is an average man such a hassle and trouble to women. Why can't an average man even cook his own food or wash the damn dishes. And not constantly whine begging for sex when she is tired from work and chores (or maybe even kids). Basically a man is a woman's first child, almost always. Even the good man, a woman still ends up having to teach and raise him. The difference is a good man will listen to her and try to change, but the fact stays, she still has to waste energy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:39 AM
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You are wrong. literally any man can behave like that and cheat. Men are pretty much wired to want multiple women. The question is unfortunately less about the morals and standards of said men and more about if he has options to pursue and cheat. Because oftentimes men don't cheat because they can't, not because they have integrity or respect their women or because they genuinely only desire her. Men with less options who don't cheat therefore can be a better choice... until there is suddenly a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:37 AM
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There are women who can't stay alone for long, so there are always in relationships. Not all women find being alone better. I think it's often hot women who experienced true high value men, who actually ADDED value to their lives. Who were rich, fun, who didn't add any stress or problems. Like I'm talking men who pay for their girlfriends rent, buy her new stuff, give her money without being asked, order her a maid so she didn't have to clean, order food. That kinda stuff. After relationships wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:06 AM
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I think men get their emotional needs met not even necessarily with romantic partners. I have very loving relationship with my dad and despite me being almost 22 I constantly hug him, kiss him, show affection, even in public when my mom and my dad walk together in a mall/on the street, I take both of their hands in mine. At home I can often snuggle on my dad's shoulder and talk in baby voice. My mom meets her emotional needs with my brother too, and many others, my dad pretty much only with me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:00 AM
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A guy who brags about his expensive car makes me roll me eyes especially if he thinks it will impress me. Like lol are you giving me this car? Then why should it impress me, it's still not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:56 PM
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This is why I try not to smile or be overly polite to strange men. I sometimes don't even make eye contact. I don't wanna them obsess or think about me. There is also another moment. What if I date a guy like that and surround him with love but then some other chick gives him a bit of attention. Will he also, never having known what it's like to be popular with multiple woman, get interested and obsessed with her? Is it even safe to date less popular men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:54 PM
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Women would take scarcity. That's because most women still bring value to men, but most men bring nothing but trouble, added chores, responsibilities and problems. That's exactly why men all the time joke - girl, alive (optional). Men swipe and like any woman. Another thing to ponder about. When men get more money, they usually want more women, or to even surround himself with women. When women get more money, they usually stay alone or surround themselves with less men. One thing I understood i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:49 PM
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Idk being invisible for months/years at a time as a woman never ever upset me. But being all too attractive and receiving lots of male attention have absolutely upset me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:45 PM
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Ughh, no. Not at all. I don't as a woman see this 'abundance' as a privilege at all. That's just some low tier desperate horny fuckers. One of the perverts that annoy me on the street/at a club,wherever. Potential rapists and losers who see me as a hole. Gone are the times where most women left a man for another guy. Now most women leave a guy for the safety of being alone. Now she can engage with her friends or fwbs just to forget and move on from the guy she is preparing to dump, but that's te…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:42 PM
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Oh same, I even faked reasons why I broke up with my ex. He asked why, I said 'oh I just got bored with u after a year and a half, I never loved u, blah blah'. Real reasons were obviously very deep. And it was hard for me as I genuinely loved him. But I knew if I told him this, he'd never leave me alone. If I told him I dumped him cus he's shit human that would sound like an invitation to a debate, he'd feel entitled to ask me to clarify, and would of course disagree with my reasons and debate m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:37 PM
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Men who drug and rape don't go to jail silly. Small percentage goes. I didn't even think of going to court I just tried to forget my rapist and move on. Not to mention I thought it was my fault because umm, what did I do? I went to a club to dance with my girls and didn't see guys as rapists and threat, I saw them as humans I could trust. And that was a grave mistake. How do you know your friend is in jail for false allegations? What if he actually did it. all the do is make fun or downplay anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:29 AM
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That's one example of what happened to me at 15 to compare it to 'terrible' that happens to men at 15 - simply had to do homework, or some teenage immature girls laughed at them. That's not all. I was drugged and graped, lied to that a guy loved me so he could use me for sex for 1+ year and string me along, I was harassed, touched inappropriately, and I have to deal with r@pe threat daily. That's a small fraction of what women deal with. The cyber bullying at 15 is the least of my worries lol, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:24 AM
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This comment section proved to me women have it harder. When I was 15 I got bullied by 30 year old men and was told to go kys because one wh0re less, one more it does not matter. All I did was comment on Instagram advicing a girl to dump her bf if he does not satisfy her in bed. They actually posted me on social media where they bully women for being wh0res, and messaged my parents everyone 'exposing' me, and asking how much it costs to sleep with me. Of course I got beaten by my parents who tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:17 AM
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Dude it's laughable. All your points, is just what some girls, not women, did to you when you were 12-16. Tell me are you actually 16? Cus if yes I take my words back. Over here women share how men graped them, lied to them about loving them just to pump and dump, how men roofie and collectively bully them to share their leaked nudes. And every man in the comment section: a bunch of 16 year olds hurt me back in a day 😢 that means it's the same as women who get harassed and graped. There are men …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:10 AM
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Women describe how men treated them terribly: filmed me without my consent, drugged me at a party and graped me, possessed a child pron of me, beat me and abused me, threatened to kill me if I leave, lied to me that he loved me only to use me for sex and break my heart, etc Men describe how women treat them terribly: in 8th grade a bunch of 14 yo girls called me ugly 😢 I had to do homework for girls for free 😭 some random married men that's not me got ripped off after divorce 😥 a 17 year old gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:06 AM
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Lol all the memes that grown ass men hate women because some teenage immature girl from middle/high school did something is true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:04 AM
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I mean I'm 21 so I was not in school that long ago, but even I moved on and forgot from the treatment I got from teachers, girls and some boys. Dude move on. It's always funny for me to see a 30 year old man who says he hates women because his 16 yo girlfriend from 12 years ago cheated on him (and this cheated was just holding hands with another dude). Like a grown man mad a teenage/child is immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:56 AM
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It's irrelevant whether they want sex or not. Yes they do, but not because they paid. So the end result is the same, only this time I didn't even get courted? Thanks for reminding me to always expect for a man to pay lol. You seem to think that men will put up And I hardly want to marry or live with a man, I think I said it in the beginning, that's how we started talking initially, I said marriage/living with a guy was a shit deal. Of course I might someday still crave human affection and love, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:42 PM
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You know how to have men not expect sex in return of paying the first date? Don't expect them to pay. Awww how cute you think it's so easy. I wish. They'll still want sex, only this time they are happy it can happen for free xD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:29 PM
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Women are not frigid by nature. We do have sexual urges and sexual attraction, as I still do, desire to have sex, even if i didn't have sex in 1+ year. It's just reality hits women like a truck. Majority at least. Also it's not men's fault nature made women like this. It's only a man's fault if he is deliberately shit at sex and just uses his gf to get off without putting effort. If he puts effort, she just still can't climax, that's absolutely not his fault. But neither it is hers. And yes men …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:58 PM
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Yet you blamed the man... I never said this once. You are just lying and gaslighting or just forgot what I said. I said sex benefits only men, and women get shit end of the stick. but only a vague idea of what you owe him. That's between me and them. Women always throw that accusation to avoid accountability. I don't accuse you, I just state my so far impressions of you. I state facts. You did insult me, and told me certain things are my own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:26 PM
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I mean.. those chicks can't joke and laugh outside, so may I laugh on behalf of them? Not like it'll help them but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:14 PM
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which she'll call "being in an abusive relation". What if it's actually an abusive relation? You know, even when talking to you you showed some signs of abusive partner. You told me that me not orgasming is my fault and my problem, when in fact it's nobody's fault, and just how female body is made. You managed to insult me a few times. Yeah you don't sound like an all around ideal boyfriend. Either the woman wants him just as much and thus why would he owe her Spoiler alert: both parties owe eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:09 PM
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The fact that women initiate divorce means men did something wrong does not it? Why would a cheating men file a divorce he's completely fine having family and a side piece. So why do they act as if they can't do anything without men's support? I think I addressed this point. If I'm alone, single, I can do everything by myself. If a man wants me, then yes he owes me and has certain obligations, I need him and his support. I don't wanna be independent with a man, if I have to be I'd rather just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:37 PM
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That's gamble. That's what you don't understand. I can also come crying at 38 because my husband I married young just cheated on me with a 26 year old. I can cry because I'm a 38 year old newly divorced single mom. independent girl boss able to do everything, but somehow, a man has to provide for her Now yes I can do everything alone HOWEVER, if a man wants to be with me, of course he has obligations I expect him to meet. He can avoid this by avoiding me, and not coming into my life. Im ready to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:15 PM
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If sex is love why men insult women they had sex with. And say they won't date them seriously or marry them. Think of words like used up, ran thru and other kind words. Also men immediately lose interest in a woman after sex with her. They look at her with disgust. Sex bears zero benefit for women, only a headache and loss of value. Also if sex is love why men mind being loved by their bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:03 PM
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Ehhh. Hopefully not? But I totally met guys who said 20+ girls are milfs. But I thought that was minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:58 PM
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Guys pay mortgage for their own houses tho. Not like I'd get a cent out of that house if I help him pay it. You expect even high earning women who split the bill to still be maids and housewives. Men have one single responsibility - work and earn money. Women have to - work and earn money, AND on top of it birth kids, care for kids, cook, clean, and on top of all of it to still look hot, or else she 'let herself go'. Nah that's a shit deal. Women can pay their own rent and get their own mortgage…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:23 PM
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I also didn't even have my own room in his small house. I had to share it with him. So not like he was that much of a provider 😭. Anyway living with my parents, and living with him was heaven and hell in terms of life quality. Even living alone as a 20 year old student studying abroad with occasional money problems was better. I still don't know why you defend living with a guy and cleaning someone else's house. It's useless. It's much better to work, even if it's a dead end job, and support you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:02 PM
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I did it to be with him, because he asked to move in. I thought it was romantic. My first relationship too. I didn't know I'd have to end up doing wife things in HIS house, without getting wife benefits. I had no idea living with a stingy guy was that bad. in exchange of room and board I had my parents I lived with, who provided much higher life quality than he ever could. I didn't need him. I was 19-20 when I dated him my friend. Your pussy isn't worth more than his dick Any pussy ,especially v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:51 AM
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you learned 2 languages as a hobby I said I did it after breaking up with him cus I had more free time and more self esteem. Also I was 19 idk what you expect. Of course I lived with parents like most 19 yo girls. on your own shitty pay. I'm a future programmer and game dev so I hope not. My parents and degree also won't let me earn a shitty pay. they think they do way more than they actually do. Also, even if he paid for the rent himself and all groceries, which he didn't, that's still not enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:35 AM
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Few years ago it was 30. I remember it. Now it's 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:18 AM
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He can still keep working while she is pregnant, so there is no large gap in the resume. Who was paying the bills then? From he's point of view you just got room and board for free. 😭😭😭. I traded in my wealthy parents house to his trash small apartment, so no he didn't even give me a favor, I gave him a favor by making his shitty place look a bit more cozy. And I worked and paid for myself on top of still being in college. Not once has he suggested even giving me money. Nah, this whole 'get marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:58 AM
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Ehhh, not like it was my choice. Also I look younger than my age, I'm early twenties, but I look 14-17, so I have every right to talk about pdf files because pdf files approach me every day, then they lose interest when they find out I'm of age. I have met so many pdf files it's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:49 AM
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What about 12-15? I talked to a guy who admitted that every man finds girls 12-15 attractive and has to fight with constant horny thoughts, and they have to remind themselves it's a child it's a child stop. Like it's actually a battle for adult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:46 AM
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I'm talking about 25+ men. Don't be obtuse. I said men, not males or boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:45 AM
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I mean yeah if she worked instead of sucking your dick and birthing your kids, she'd have saved more by now. But you are on to something. I might not have a full blown career now, but after breaking up with a boyfriend I lived with, who I cooked and cleaned whole day for, I managed to learn 2 languages as a hobby, one being a programming language. All under 2 years. It will come in handy. I cringe at how I wasted 1.5 years of my life on him, I could have done so much more. And don't come at me '…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:43 AM
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I mean yeah, world is dangerous. Not having kids is like a logical idea. Why would women have kids in a society that hates them. is because men are more powerful And they abuse that power instead of using it to protect us and give us better world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:35 AM
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Having either is still better than hoping your husband gives you money for your wants and needs. Many men consider stuff women spend money on 'useless and a waste', so relying on men to provide everything you want is essentially useless. Choosing that over having your own money and freedom is surely better. We have an epidemic of men who want a housewife without even wanting to provide for said tradwife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:32 AM
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That's the past when I was a 20 year old naive girl lmao. I got standards now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:30 AM
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Nah I'd much rather die. Die now or first live like a cattle, experience pain and still die anyway. First is better. Matriarchal societies, are what, like 5-6 in the world, and they are super small with few tend of thousands population? Literally a drop of ocean. I'm literally not having kids because it's either birth a victim, or an abuser. There is of course a chance my kids will be happy, but not gonna risk it. Because I believe not living at all/dying is better than torture. I'd rather get k…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:27 AM
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And BTW, there is a major difference between gay men and straight men, from biology to behaviour Can you please elaborate? I'm genuinely curious. A lot of men have 'gay panic' as in they get enraged when gay men hit on them, or they are scared of gay men hitting on them. These same men don't understand why women get enraged when men hit on them, or are scared of it. I remember talking to a guy who said 'gay man is worse than straight man because he has a higher chance to attack and poses higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:24 AM
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Care to link it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:21 AM
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Love men admitting to their gender finding 11+ girls hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:19 AM
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He said older women get worse partners than young women, which is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:16 AM
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Female circumcision, that leads to VERY painful sex act, zero chance of any orgasm and pleasure, super painful childbirth and 15 years off of life. Just an all around miserable existence. Women in Afghanistan can't even talk outside lmao. Don't forget women were stoned to death if they cheated. In Europe only few centuries back a husband had legal right to kill a wife on spot if he caught her cheating. In Osman Empire women could officially be sold as sex slaves, but only christian white women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:15 AM
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So you use some other people's logic to win the next argument. Makes (no) sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:02 AM
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Ha, I won't. Keep being bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:01 AM
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That dude paid for all that cus he could. I mean he had 80 cars in his possession of course him paying for her apartment and maids and food deliveries and giving her iphones and money was nothing. He also paid half her debts. Ultra mega cool dude. I was upset when they broke up. But my sister got it and her current dude is also very good, not that rich but he's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:59 AM
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We are talking about men. Men are the same, gay or straight. They behave the same. It's just their victims or goals are different. Like Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer, one hurt and killed women, the other one hurt and killed men. That's of course extreme examples but that proves a point. I don't need to be to every club or gay club in the world to know how men can be. I only brought up gay club because it consists mostly of men who are attracted to you and who WILL approach you. Whereas in a regul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:57 AM
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They are not few. Wanna proofs, go every night to gay clubs. See how many gay men leave you alone when you say 'no' or 'i have a bf'. That will convince you, that in fact, plenty of men are like that. Also watch out for men trying to roofie you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:40 AM
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Nah as a family oriented woman you don't sound like a good guy at all. You literally said men don't owe me anything. How can relationships and marriages work where he owes me nothing. That's crazy. You are not relationship material stop stroking your ego
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:39 AM
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For you 'improve yourself' means provide wife and girlfriend benefits and don't ask for boyfriend and husband benefits cus man 'dont owe you anything'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:37 AM
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Low self esteem. I'm afraid to demand anything for myself, even basic respect. I am afraid to be too much. I'm one of those who will laugh at hurtful jokes about me because I don't want to inconvenience anyone and i can't stand uo for myself. Even the broke guys could do better and give me dates and flowers if I asked or demanded. That's all my fault for staying with them or accepting low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:34 AM
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There is a low chance to find a man like that. You told me to look among the average looking non chads, but there are plenty of assholes among them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:34 AM
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Then I owe him nothing too lol. What's the point of a relationship where nobody owes each other anything. Even if a guy won't be my boyfriend and partner, just a friend, he still owes me to be a good friend. For example, he owes me to not give away my secrets and to not insult me. He does not owe to pay for me since we are just friends. But if a guy wants to be more than friends, then naturally there are more obligations all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:32 AM
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Makes sense. But I often travel within 4 cities and two countries, one I live in, 2 I visit my sisters, and the last one we just go there sometimes to hang out and visit cool places, attractions, horror rooms etc. And I noticed that men in one white city never leave me alone. They won't back away after 30th no. Even after I reject them again and again they will approach my sisters and offer to pay them so they told me to give him a chance 😭. But men from the second city which is asian, absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:29 AM
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Then he acted not manly enough outside of bed. I prefer submissive men sex wise, minus the pegging (but maybe I'd peg if he wanted). At the same time he absolutely has to be manly and strong and protect me and care for me. If is wants to act like a woman outside of bed too, I don't want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:25 AM
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I never said I look out for a man who I can become a tradwife with. only select few men can afford that But every man can afford messaging young girls and desperately trying and still getting rejected. Every man can pay a young hooker. Any man can look at pron. All while having a wife. So it's not like marrying an option less husband will save me from infidelity. He may try to cheat but only won't cus he gets rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:23 AM
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Anyway, whatever, does not matter. Like I said yes a guy owes me. Owes me gifts, flowers, dates, respect list goes on. He is free to simply not engage with me if he feels he owes me nothing. That's fine. But if you want to be with me, you owe me. Simply as that. As for the guys who won't pay for the date (never had that btw), that's fine I pay my half and we go separate ways. Not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:21 AM
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My guy equality would be if after he fcked me, he'd bend over and I'd peg him. It's fair, if he penetrates me, then I have to penetrate him as well. And I'm just as hairy legged as he is. That sounds like equality now, not just splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:18 AM
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Because I tried to be a good girl who does not care about what a guy does for me and was ready to sleep with him out of huge love or attraction and I ended up never getting a single flower in those relationships. While all the girls who demand money and gifts always get large bouquets and expensive dates. And they often look the same as me or worse looks wise. So from now on, no dates, no effort, no money, no flowers and no courting, no chance at sleeping with me or dating me. Good girls finish …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:15 AM
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I didn't say it. Are you perhaps restarted? I said 40 year old married men hit on me. And that's why getting married is shit. Because I'll become 40 and mt husband will still cheat on me. So what's the point of all 'marry young' or become a tradwife. I don't like older guys, I never said this. Ew. I in fact prefer younger guys than me. I'm 21 and I like 18-19.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:13 AM
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That's still her own source of income. That she swaps for washing his socks and sucking his cock. Also a lot of women do in fact have well paying jobs, businesses and careers they are still expected to sacrifice if they marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:11 AM
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Wait that's another point completely. You drive the topic a different way. You don't even want to disprove my point that average guys you want me to date are not even marriage and relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:10 AM
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I mean no. I pay my share of the date and go home happy I got the delicious steak and cocktail lol. He just gets 0% chance to date me that all. But not like losing a man who can't even pay for a steak and a mojito is a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:08 AM
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If you don't back out after the first no, you absolutely deserve her getting angry and insulting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:05 AM
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I mean it was them who pestered me and demanded to explain why I reject them. I say politely 'i have a bf', 'no thanks'. And they get upset I reject them and stand there saying I lie about a bf and to tell the real reason. Then I name the real reason. Why he still angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:03 AM
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Multimillionaire top 1% of men can get ultra hot women who will bear their kids, do their chores, suck their dick and simp for them. I'm not even 70, but as a woman I doubt I can get a man to bear my biological kids for me and have those kids get my name, my last name and carry my bloodline and my legacy. All the while being the head of the house and have my husband cook and clean while I simply go to work. Literally wish I was a man. I simply go to work, while my wife ALSO goes to work, but on …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:01 AM
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Until a girlfriend rejects sex one day to her average incel boyfriend, and he gets flashbacks from all the times he was rejected by women and assaults her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:56 AM
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Fucked my boyfriend 2 times a day, cooked him, was even a virgin, didn't cheat, was submissive. Ended up insulted for my ethnicity, had him look at pron and other women, had him r@pe me when I rejected sex, and threaten to beat me when I wanted to leave. Was he abusive because he was unhappy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:55 AM
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getting rejected by women in awful ways, we are past beyond "the worst she can do is say no" As a woman who rejects men in awful ways, that's often those men's fault. They don't back out after first no or 'i have a bf', and ask to clarify. So I clarify. Somehow me calling them broke or ugly makes them angry. But oops I just did what I was asked to do, to explain the reasons. Next time I wanna try to cry and say 'am I so ugly you thought you had a chance', if a guy won't back out after the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:52 AM
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It's not that. We are both +- same looking. Some even think we are twins. I think she is just more confident and is ready to drop guys at first sign of disrespect, while I'm submissive good girl who will accept shit treatment and low effort. Hence why she gets all and I get that low effort lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:44 AM
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They don't if they don't approach me and try to date me. I agree. But if they want to get involved with me, then hell yes they owe me. Easy way to avoid that - leave me and women like me alone. You can't have both my guys. You can't demand sex and relationship while giving nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:42 AM
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Average guys are shit too, they just don't even have money or looks along with their shitness. If an average guy was loyal, caring, respectful to women, would never say his postpartum wife is now ugly, would never stare at passing hot women, would not watch pron and actively participate in house chores and child rearing, would not demand 50/50 and videogame all day. Or you know, just being an all around mature partner and involved father. Then women would date and marry those average guys! But t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:39 AM
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Lol women who get married and have kids usually look older than their childfree single counterparts. I'm early 20s, childless, single, and I look 16-17. When girls my age who already have kids and married at 19 are overweight and look considerably older than me. I talked to a girl one year younger than me, with a toddler son. She said that when I turn 18 in few years I need to pick college. I said my age and she was terrified I'm older than her lmao. Marrying young also does not guarantee that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:32 AM
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Men find women starting age 9-12 to about 30 attractive that's correct. So that's like 20 years of being attractive to men. This is also why women should stop listen to red pill men and marry young. She'll get old and unattractive for his husband anyway and either dumped or cheated or tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:28 AM
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I'm attractive as a girl and I still barely get attention and I absolutely welcome it. Yes you can be a 7 and barely get attention if you don't wash your hair don't shave like me and don't wear make up and don't ever smile. I know I'm losing my looks and wasting my youth, when I could have found some rich hot guy. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:22 AM
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Then how come I'm 21 and I get worse men than my 29 year old sister? We look pretty much the same save for some little differences. I basically get and always got desperate broke guys who are too stingy to spend money on me, want to use me for sex or for relationship so I cooked and fucked them for free, while my sister gets very respectful men, rich men who pay off her debts, give her tons of money, pay for her apartment, for maid services, for food delivery daily so she never had to cook, new …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:17 AM
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30 year old men are past their prime though, unless they got green.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:13 AM
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This is why women should stop marrying young and having babies with men. And should instead focus on their lives and career. Because they'll still get old and will still be found unattractive and even cheated on. I'm early 20s and oh boy how many 40 year old married men hit on girls it's disgusting. A lot of them also have tradwives. Other half have working wives who they cheat on while wives are at work breadwinning for their cheating crusty asses. That all leads to a certain conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:11 AM
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And we also have gender that calls 12 year old girls beautiful and lizards corpses you name it. If old women are not attractive, just leave them alone. Why you care if women are full of delusions. Right, you just want them to drop the delusion and give you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:07 AM
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And this is girls, why we don't marry young and don't become tradwives and sacrifice careers for men. You'll still get old and your hubby will still find you unattractive and look at pron and other younger women. And will cheat and say he's with you for the kids 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:59 AM
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